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Volume XIX - Number 3 SUMMER 2011<br />

<strong>On</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>inside</strong>...<br />

<strong>Association</strong> Corner 2<br />

Praise and Prayer Retreat<br />

<strong>New</strong> Executive Committee 3<br />

Picnic Collage 4-5<br />

Poem on July 9th Picnic 6<br />

Young <strong>Goan</strong>s 6<br />

<strong>Goan</strong> Gourmet 7<br />

People <strong>New</strong>s 7<br />

Down Memory Lane 8<br />

Caring Corner 9<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> Connection is a publication<br />

<strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong><br />

<strong>Jersey</strong>, Inc., a non-pr<strong>of</strong>it organization<br />

established in 1991.<br />

Inquiries, membership, subscription<br />

requests, feedback and letters to <strong>the</strong><br />

Editor may be sent to:<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> NJ, Inc.<br />

P.O. Box 335<br />

Cranbury, NJ 08512<br />

Website: www.goanj.com<br />

Email: committee@goanj.com<br />

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<strong>The</strong> <strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong>.....<br />

Michael Alvares<br />

GOAN ASSOCIATION OF NEW JERSEY, INC.<br />

Phileas Fogg engaged in it while going "Around <strong>the</strong> world in 80 days"<br />

Edgar Allan Poe mentioned it in his tale "<strong>The</strong> murders in <strong>the</strong> Rue Morgue"<br />

C.S. Forester's Horatio Hornblower lived <strong>of</strong>f his whist earnings and<br />

Scarlet O'Hara was a skilled player in "Scarlet", sequel to Gone With <strong>The</strong><br />

Wind.<br />

Where can you have sixteen partners in a single night and not be driven to<br />

exhaustion? And guzzle a beer while you're at it? Never fear, <strong>the</strong> GOANJ has<br />

<strong>the</strong> answer - with replenishments midway through <strong>the</strong> escapade.<br />

It's all about making tricks - no, not those kind! Sorry to burst your balloon,<br />

but this is a family social event. Our annual <strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong> is a night <strong>of</strong> Fall fun,<br />

food, friendship and Fa-la-la!<br />

<strong>Whist</strong> is several rounds <strong>of</strong> "Seven Hands", a card game played by four at a<br />

table. <strong>The</strong> rules are simple. Just bring your wits with you. If you leave <strong>the</strong>m<br />

at home, no problem; we have Blind <strong>Whist</strong>! If you've never played it before<br />

we will have a tutorial for beginners before play commences. So come and<br />

bring adult family and friends. We dine on Indian fare, shoot <strong>the</strong> breeze and<br />

sing songs old and new to <strong>the</strong> musical accompaniment from Lino, Wilma and<br />

Ashley. Veteran Tony calls <strong>the</strong> games.<br />

A <strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong> followed by Housie - what more could a person want?<br />

<strong>The</strong> Seventh Annual <strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong><br />

is on Saturday, October 22, 2011<br />

4p.m. to 11p.m.<br />

Community Presbyterian Church<br />

<strong>of</strong> Sand Hills, Kendall Park, NJ<br />

Cost - $12 per person<br />

Snacks, dinner and prizes<br />

For more information call<br />

Valerie Moniz (732 885 3330)<br />

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Who’s Who<br />

Elvis Proenca<br />

Editor<br />

Louella Menezes<br />

Designer & Editor<br />

Alan Lopez<br />

Collage Designer<br />

Executive Committee<br />

Godfrey Gomes<br />

President<br />

Gladys Monteiro<br />

Vice President<br />

Allan D’Guerra<br />

Treasurer<br />

Valerie Moniz<br />

Secretary<br />

Cleta Lobo<br />

Membership<br />

Co-ordinator<br />

<strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> Of NJ, Inc.<br />

Website: www.goanj.com<br />

Email: committee@goanj.com<br />

All rights reserved.<br />

<strong>Association</strong><br />

Corner<br />

Dear Members,<br />

As we celebrate our 20th Anniversary<br />

year, I would like to thank you all for<br />

being a part <strong>of</strong> this <strong>Association</strong> and<br />

especially for your support shown<br />

throughout <strong>the</strong>se years. This tremendous<br />

occasion would not be possible without<br />

<strong>the</strong> help from <strong>the</strong> committee members,<br />

and most importantly, <strong>the</strong> hard work and<br />

dedication from our past presidents<br />

during <strong>the</strong>se wonderful years, namely;<br />

Valerie Moniz, Chris Nunes and <strong>the</strong><br />

outgoing Felix Menezes. I have had <strong>the</strong><br />

privilege <strong>of</strong> working and learning from<br />

<strong>the</strong>m for <strong>the</strong> past 15 years, as a member<br />

in <strong>the</strong> Planning Committee and serving as<br />

Vice President. <strong>The</strong> one shared quality<br />

<strong>the</strong>y all had was a passion and<br />

commitment to serving our community.<br />

As your new President, I promise to<br />

continue in <strong>the</strong>ir footsteps, and I look<br />

forward to leading our dedicated<br />

Planning Committee in bringing you<br />

exceptional social functions and raising<br />

<strong>the</strong> level <strong>of</strong> awareness <strong>of</strong> our members<br />

towards our charitable work for <strong>the</strong><br />

needy.<br />

I must take this opportunity to thank our<br />

past president, Felix Menezes, for serving<br />

as president over <strong>the</strong> last six years. He,<br />

toge<strong>the</strong>r with his wife Vera, has devoted<br />

endless time and energy to <strong>the</strong> current<br />

success <strong>of</strong> our organization. I also want to<br />

thank Gladys Monteiro and Allan<br />

D’Guerra, our Vice-President and<br />

Treasurer respectively, for <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

continued dedication to <strong>the</strong> Executive<br />

committee. <strong>New</strong> and pretty faces that will<br />

also make up our Executive committee<br />

are Cleta Lobo, as Membership<br />

Coordinator, and Valerie Moniz, as<br />

Secretary. Much appreciation also goes to<br />

Olinda Gomes, our outgoing Secretary.<br />

Rumor has it that she deliberately<br />

resigned her position to become First<br />

Lady!<br />

We are sincerely grateful to Dianne<br />

Nunes, who is stepping down as<br />

Chairperson <strong>of</strong><br />

<strong>the</strong> Caring<br />

C o m m i t t e e .<br />

Under her<br />

leadership and guidance, we were able to<br />

help many causes in Goa. She hands over<br />

her role to Gladys Monteiro, who has all<br />

our good wishes for much success with<br />

this position.<br />

As part <strong>of</strong> our 20th anniversary<br />

celebrations, this year’s Christmas gala<br />

dance will be held at a larger and more<br />

magnificent hall: <strong>the</strong> Royal Alberts Palace<br />

in Fords, NJ. Music will be performed by<br />

two accomplished bands, namely Prism,<br />

our local group, and <strong>the</strong> Goa Amigos<br />

from Canada. With great music,<br />

wonderful food, and great prizes to be<br />

won, this will be one gala dance not to be<br />

missed.<br />

Our next events coming soon are <strong>the</strong><br />

<strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong> on October 22 at <strong>the</strong><br />

Presbyterian Church <strong>of</strong> Sand Hills in<br />

Kendall Park and <strong>the</strong> Retreat on<br />

November 6 at <strong>the</strong> Consolata Mission<br />

Center in Somerset. Flyers for <strong>the</strong>se<br />

events will be emailed shortly.<br />

<strong>On</strong>ce again, I thank you for your<br />

continued support and I look forward to<br />

seeing old and new faces at our future<br />

events.<br />

Many blessings and good wishes, always.<br />

Godfrey Gomes<br />

President


PRAISE AND PRAYER RETREAT<br />

Gladys Monteiro<br />

Let's take some time <strong>of</strong>f - away from talking, texting, typing and tweeting!<br />

<strong>The</strong> scripture says, “Whoever <strong>of</strong>fers <strong>the</strong> sacrifice <strong>of</strong> thanksgiving glorifies me; and to him<br />

that orders his way aright will I show <strong>the</strong> salvation <strong>of</strong> God.” Psalm 50:23<br />

Come join us for a day <strong>of</strong> praise and worship at <strong>the</strong> Consolata Mission Centre in<br />

Somerset, <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>, on November 6, 2011. Let us dedicate a few hours to our Lord!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Retreat is scheduled to begin at 12 noon with fellowship, songs <strong>of</strong> praise, food for<br />

thought and spiritual exercises. Rev Fr. Braganza will give us a talk, which will be<br />

followed by a Q&A session. He will also lead us in <strong>the</strong> celebration <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Holy Eucharist<br />

at 5 pm. Those who wish to continue <strong>the</strong> fellowship may stay for dinner.<br />

In our very busy lives, this is a great opportunity to rejuvenate our faith and our souls, a<br />

chance to spend a few hours to clear our minds and hearts, and to bring about peace,<br />

giving us <strong>the</strong> strength to accomplish all <strong>the</strong> wonders in our daily Christian life.<br />

Congratulations to our <strong>New</strong> Executive Committee !<br />

President : Godfrey Gomes<br />

Vice President : Gladys Monteiro<br />

Treasurer : Allan D’Guerra<br />

Secretary : Valerie Moniz<br />

Membership<br />

Coordinator : Cleta Lobo<br />

Godfrey Gomes was elected <strong>the</strong> new President <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>, Inc. at <strong>the</strong><br />

summer picnic held on July 9, 2011. Godfrey, a former Vice President, replaces Felix Menezes, who<br />

stepped down after six years in Office. Felix, has dedicated many years to <strong>the</strong> GOANJ as Secretary,<br />

Treasurer, VP and President. He plans on continuing to serve <strong>the</strong> community as a member <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

Planning Committee.Thanks to <strong>the</strong> outgoing committee for all <strong>the</strong>ir dedication and support, and wishing<br />

<strong>the</strong> new Executive Committee all <strong>the</strong> success!<br />

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YOUNG GOANS<br />

by Allan D’Guerra<br />

GOANJ Picnic - July 9th, 2011<br />

by Adrian Lobo<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> picnic on July 9<br />

Was a bright day filled with sunshine…<br />

A special milestone for <strong>the</strong> GOANJ<br />

To begin its 20th Anniversary in special way.<br />

Fun and games for <strong>the</strong> young and old<br />

Inclusive for both <strong>the</strong> wise and bold…<br />

Tots racing with boundless energy<br />

Teens, adults strategizing team synergy.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Blue team earned everyone’s awe<br />

With overall victory, after <strong>the</strong> tug-o-war…<br />

And <strong>the</strong> married men could not be beat<br />

By <strong>the</strong> bachelors, who suffered a 6-0 defeat.<br />

<strong>The</strong> s<strong>of</strong>t drinks, appetizers and tasty food,<br />

Added to <strong>the</strong> existing exuberant mood….<br />

And <strong>the</strong> lively popular music galore<br />

Even had couples dancing on <strong>the</strong> floor.<br />

With reverence at Mass we did laud<br />

All <strong>the</strong> blessings bestowed by God…<br />

Upon <strong>the</strong> association since it’s birth<br />

From times <strong>of</strong> struggles to times <strong>of</strong> mirth.<br />

Let’s not forget our committees were great<br />

And selflessly over <strong>the</strong> years did donate…<br />

<strong>The</strong>ir time and effort to provide us <strong>the</strong> best<br />

May <strong>the</strong>y and <strong>the</strong>ir loved ones forever be blest.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Young <strong>Goan</strong>s cooled <strong>of</strong>f during a sweltering summer day, at a wonderful pool party, held at a member’s<br />

house in <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>. <strong>The</strong> event, on July 30, provided lots <strong>of</strong> fun and excitement as <strong>the</strong> group played various water games and<br />

enjoyed volleyball too. Later, <strong>the</strong> group relaxed in <strong>the</strong> adjacent Jacuzzi,which proved soothing to tired muscles. <strong>The</strong> host family<br />

provided <strong>the</strong> attendees with scrumptious snacks, masala dosa, and fajitas, and kept <strong>the</strong>ir thirst quenched with a variety <strong>of</strong><br />

drinks. <strong>The</strong> group was pleasantly surprised to see balloons <strong>of</strong> various shapes and sizes floating over <strong>the</strong> pool. It appeared that<br />

<strong>the</strong>re was a balloon festival nearby which proved to be visually entertaining to watch.<br />

<strong>The</strong> good times and camaraderie shared during <strong>the</strong> pool party will always be remembered.<br />

Young <strong>Goan</strong>s is an organization comprised <strong>of</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> Adults 18 and over. <strong>The</strong> purpose <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> organization is to provide<br />

opportunities to meet and network with people sharing our heritage, in an informal and congenial atmosphere. To join Young<br />

<strong>Goan</strong>s, you may contact Giselle Lopez at glopez5678@yahoo.com or Allan D'Guerra at allandguerra@yahoo.com.<br />

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People <strong>New</strong>s<br />

Baby <strong>New</strong>s<br />

Adele Pereira and<br />

Steevan D'Souza are<br />

proud to announce <strong>the</strong><br />

birth <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir son, Jake<br />

Nolan, on May 10,<br />

2011.<br />

CONGRATS TO OUR GRADS !<br />

Melissa deSa, MD,<br />

daughter <strong>of</strong> Carmen and<br />

Victor deSa, completed<br />

her Psychiatry residency<br />

at Strong Memorial<br />

Hospital, University <strong>of</strong><br />

Rochester Medical<br />

Center. She has accepted<br />

a faculty appointment at<br />

Strong's Psychiatric<br />

Emergency Room.<br />

Baby <strong>New</strong>s<br />

Dr. Kezia and Aldrin<br />

Alberto, toge<strong>the</strong>r with<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir sons, Ahren and<br />

Aidan, are proud to<br />

announce <strong>the</strong> birth <strong>of</strong><br />

Andrew Manual on<br />

July 8, 2011.<br />

<strong>Goan</strong> Gourmet<br />

Karahi Chicken with<br />

Vegetables<br />

by Munita Fernandes<br />

Serves 4<br />

l lb chicken tenders or skinless,<br />

boneless chicken breast<br />

Chilli Paste or minced chilies to taste<br />

Canned crushed tomatoes<br />

1 tbspn each <strong>of</strong> finely chopped Ginger<br />

and Garlic<br />

Fresh vegetables (carrots, broccoli,<br />

cauliflower, beans, etc)in bite-size<br />

pieces<br />

1 cup/250 ml <strong>of</strong> diced tomatoes<br />

1 medium green or red pepper<br />

Powdered dried fenugreek leaves<br />

( kasuri methi ) (optional )<br />

1. Cut chicken into bite-size pieces and<br />

set aside.<br />

2. Heat oil over high heat in large skillet<br />

or wok. Add onion and cook until<br />

golden brown. Add ginger and garlic<br />

and cook for 2 minutes. Add salt, chili<br />

paste, crushed tomato and cook for 2<br />

minutes. Add chicken and cook for 4<br />

more minutes. Add vegetables and<br />

cook for 3 minutes. When chicken is<br />

firm and opaque, add yogurt and mix<br />

well.<br />

3. Reduce heat to medium, add fresh<br />

tomatoes, bell pepper and dried<br />

fenugreek leaves and mix well.<br />

Cover and cook for 2 minutes until<br />

peppers are just tender. Serve with<br />

naan or white rice.<br />

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REMINISCING DOWN MEMORY LANE – 20 glorious years<br />

Valerie Moniz<br />

Twenty years ago a few <strong>Goan</strong>s met to discuss <strong>the</strong> hosting <strong>of</strong> a dance in <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>.<br />

That germ <strong>of</strong> an idea led to <strong>the</strong> formation <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Goan</strong> <strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>, Inc.,<br />

an organization dedicated to promoting <strong>Goan</strong> culture, sharing our common heritage and bonding<br />

with o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>Goan</strong>s in <strong>the</strong> region.<br />

That first Christmas dance in 1991 was held at <strong>the</strong> VFW Hall in Cherry Hill, <strong>New</strong> <strong>Jersey</strong>. <strong>The</strong><br />

organizing committee, Agnelo and Maria Gomes, Bambino and Wilma Martins, and yours truly,<br />

provided <strong>the</strong> planning, logistical support, and financial backing needed to make this first event a<br />

huge success. <strong>The</strong> event was promoted by word <strong>of</strong> mouth, and 80 people attended.<br />

<strong>The</strong> success <strong>of</strong> that first dance propelled <strong>the</strong> committee to add o<strong>the</strong>r events to <strong>the</strong> calendar and <strong>the</strong><br />

GOANJ was born. Shortly <strong>the</strong>reafter, a newsletter called <strong>the</strong> “<strong>Goan</strong> Connection” was launched to<br />

establish a link with members and to keep <strong>the</strong>m abreast <strong>of</strong> GOANJ news and events. As we grew<br />

socially and financially, <strong>the</strong> GOANJ decided to take on ano<strong>the</strong>r important role – to address various<br />

social concerns in Goa by helping out <strong>Goan</strong>s in need. A Caring Committee was formed to identify<br />

outreach opportunities and manage our charitable endeavors. A Prayer Chain group was started to<br />

pray for <strong>the</strong> special intentions <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> families and friends <strong>of</strong> GOANJ members. Clothing and food<br />

drives were launched to help <strong>the</strong> Salvation Army in <strong>New</strong> Brunswick, and more recently, GOANJ<br />

members have been serving as volunteers at <strong>the</strong> Mo<strong>the</strong>r <strong>The</strong>resa Soup Kitchen in <strong>New</strong>ark.<br />

In 2001, <strong>the</strong> GOANJ celebrated its 10th anniversary with a grand dance at <strong>the</strong> Ukranian Cultural<br />

Center in Somerset. Subsequent Christmas dances have been held <strong>the</strong>re as well. To mark our 20th<br />

anniversary, <strong>the</strong> GOANJ Planning Committee has decided to take <strong>the</strong> celebrations up a notch. <strong>The</strong><br />

venue for <strong>the</strong> 20th Anniversary Gala Ball will be <strong>the</strong> posh and elegant Royal Alberts Palace in Fords,<br />

NJ. <strong>On</strong> December 17, 2011, two great <strong>Goan</strong> bands will rock <strong>the</strong> hall, and attendees will be treated to<br />

an excellent spread and premium drinks.<br />

<strong>The</strong> GOANJ has been blessed with 20 years <strong>of</strong> growth, fun and friendships. We welcome you and<br />

your friends to join in <strong>the</strong> celebrations to commemorate this wonderful event.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Goan</strong><br />

<strong>Association</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong><br />

<strong>Jersey</strong> is now on<br />

Facebook.<br />

Come join us at<br />

www.facebook.com/GOANJ<br />

and become a fan by clicking<br />

<strong>the</strong> “like” button.<br />

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$5000 commitment to ASRO is fulfilled!<br />

ASRO is a home in Tivim, Goa that houses and cares for children<br />

who have lost one or both parents to <strong>the</strong> dreaded disease <strong>of</strong><br />

HIV/AIDs. In 2010, ASRO was in desperate need <strong>of</strong> $5000 to buy<br />

beds for 50 children. <strong>The</strong> GOANJ stepped in to help with a pledge to<br />

provide <strong>the</strong> $5000 amount. <strong>The</strong> Caring Committee <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> GOANJ is<br />

proud to report that we have now fulfilled this promise. In October<br />

2011, Mr. Chris Nunes will hand over <strong>the</strong> final installment <strong>of</strong> $1018<br />

to Fr. Valerian Vaz, director <strong>of</strong> Caritas Goa, who oversees operations<br />

at ASRO. This final installment was made possible by <strong>the</strong> generous<br />

collection <strong>of</strong> $783 at <strong>the</strong> annual Summer Picnic in July and by two<br />

anonymous donations <strong>of</strong> $85 and $150. When you visit Goa, stop by<br />

at ASRO and witness first-hand <strong>the</strong> difference that you and GOANJ<br />

is making in <strong>the</strong> lives <strong>of</strong> <strong>Goan</strong>s in need. Thank you for supporting<br />

this and o<strong>the</strong>r charitable endeavors <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> GOANJ.<br />

Prayer Chain<br />

Caring Corner:<br />

OUTREACH PROGRAMS<br />

FOR GOANJ MEMBERS<br />

Our Prayer Chain stands ready to help you!<br />

Please remember that <strong>the</strong>re is a dedicated and faithful prayer group<br />

within <strong>the</strong> GOANJ whose mission is to pray devotedly for petitions<br />

that made by members and <strong>the</strong>ir families and friends. You may send<br />

your prayer request by phone or email, and it will be promptly<br />

transmitted to <strong>the</strong> prayer team, even anonymously if desired. <strong>The</strong>n<br />

<strong>the</strong> Lord goes to work! Our dedicated group will pray for anyone and<br />

at anytime <strong>the</strong>re is a need for spiritual support. If you would like to<br />

request prayerful support from this team, or if you would like to join<br />

<strong>the</strong> team and pray for o<strong>the</strong>rs, please contact Valerie Moniz at<br />

valerie1moniz@optonline.net or Dianne Nunes at<br />

diannenunes@verizon.net.<br />

DJ Brian<br />

Music for all occasions<br />

DJ services, lighting,<br />

total event management.<br />

Live Band provided upon request<br />

Tel# 732-317-2621<br />

e-mail: dynamixdj@yahoo.com<br />

Coming Up<br />

OCTOBER<br />

22 <strong>Whist</strong> <strong>Drive</strong><br />

NOVEMBER<br />

06 Retreat<br />

DECEMBER<br />

11 Children’s Christmas Party<br />

17 Christmas Gala<br />

Event photos and o<strong>the</strong>r information<br />

can be viewed online at:<br />

www.goanj.com<br />

Advertise Here!<br />

Advertise to our membership <strong>of</strong><br />

nearly 500 for <strong>the</strong> whole year<br />

(4 publications) at <strong>the</strong>se low rates:<br />

2 inch, 1 colm $20.00<br />

1/3 page $125.00<br />

1/2 page $150.00<br />

Full page $250.00<br />

Contact Felix Menezes 732-939-2916<br />

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