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One-Belief-at-a-Time Worksheet - The Work of Byron Katie

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<strong>One</strong>-<strong>Belief</strong>-<strong>at</strong>-a-<strong>Time</strong> <strong><strong>Work</strong>sheet</strong><br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Work</strong>—A Written Medit<strong>at</strong>ion<br />

On the line below, write down a stressful concept about someone (alive or dead) whom you haven't forgiven 100 percent.<br />

(For example, “He doesn’t care about me” or “I did it wrong.”) <strong>The</strong>n question the concept in writing, using the following<br />

questions and turnarounds. (Use additional paper as needed.) When answering the questions, close your eyes, be still,<br />

and witness wh<strong>at</strong> appears to you. Inquiry stops working the moment you stop answering the questions.<br />

<strong>Belief</strong>: ________________________________________________________________________________________________<br />

1. Is it true (Yes or no. If no,<br />

move to question 3.)<br />

2. Can you absolutely know<br />

th<strong>at</strong> it’s true (Yes or no.)<br />

3. How do you react, wh<strong>at</strong><br />

happens, when you<br />

believe th<strong>at</strong> thought<br />

a) Does th<strong>at</strong> thought bring peace or<br />

stress into your life<br />

b) Wh<strong>at</strong> images do you see, past<br />

and future, and wh<strong>at</strong> physical<br />

sens<strong>at</strong>ions arise as you think th<strong>at</strong><br />

thought and witness those<br />

images<br />

c) Wh<strong>at</strong> emotions arise when you<br />

believe th<strong>at</strong> thought (Refer to<br />

the Emotions List, available on<br />

thework.com.)<br />

d) Do any obsessions or addictions<br />

begin to appear when you<br />

believe th<strong>at</strong> thought (Do you act<br />

out on any <strong>of</strong> the following:<br />

alcohol, drugs, credit cards,<br />

food, sex, television)<br />

e) How do you tre<strong>at</strong> the person in<br />

this situ<strong>at</strong>ion when you believe<br />

the thought How do you tre<strong>at</strong><br />

other people and yourself<br />

© 2014 <strong>Byron</strong> K<strong>at</strong>ie Intern<strong>at</strong>ional, Inc. All rights reserved. thework.com Rev. 21 Jan. 2014


<strong>Belief</strong> you are working on:<br />

________________________________________________________________________<br />

4. Who would you be<br />

without the thought<br />

Who or wh<strong>at</strong> are you without<br />

the thought<br />

Turn the thought around.<br />

Example <strong>of</strong> a st<strong>at</strong>ement:<br />

He hurt me.<br />

Possible turnarounds:<br />

1. To the self. (I hurt me.)<br />

2. To the other. (I hurt him.)<br />

3. To the opposite.<br />

a) (He didn’t hurt me.)<br />

b) (He helped me.)<br />

<strong>The</strong>n find <strong>at</strong> least three specific,<br />

genuine examples <strong>of</strong> how<br />

each turnaround is true for<br />

you in this situ<strong>at</strong>ion.<br />

(For each turnaround, go back<br />

and start with the original<br />

st<strong>at</strong>ement. Do not turn around a<br />

st<strong>at</strong>ement th<strong>at</strong> has already been<br />

turned around. For example, “He<br />

shouldn’t waste his time” may be<br />

turned around to “I shouldn’t<br />

waste my time,” “I shouldn’t<br />

waste his time,” and “He should<br />

waste his time.” Note th<strong>at</strong> “I<br />

should waste my time” and “I<br />

should waste his time” are not<br />

valid turnarounds; they are<br />

turnarounds <strong>of</strong> turnarounds<br />

r<strong>at</strong>her than turnarounds <strong>of</strong> the<br />

original st<strong>at</strong>ement.)<br />

For more inform<strong>at</strong>ion on how to do <strong>The</strong> <strong>Work</strong>, visit thework.com<br />

© 2014 <strong>Byron</strong> K<strong>at</strong>ie Intern<strong>at</strong>ional, Inc. All rights reserved. thework.com Rev. 21 Jan. 2014

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