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“July 2, 1936, I again contacted the two individuals, and since that day I have<br />

never had a drink.” 40<br />

In Paul's s<strong>to</strong>ry he mentions four or five men who helped him.<br />

“With the help and advice of these two individuals and two or three associates, I<br />

was able, for the first time in two and a half years, <strong>to</strong> stay sober for six weeks,”<br />

<strong>We</strong> can now suggest it was Phil Smith who first carried the message <strong>to</strong><br />

Paul as both were in the insurance business and Phil would likely have been the<br />

drinking companion referred <strong>to</strong> in Paul’s s<strong>to</strong>ry. 41 Paul tells of his initial dry time<br />

of six weeks which began in January of 1936,* the beer experiment, his relapse<br />

which lasted “for some time” and his subsequent return <strong>to</strong> the fold on July 2,<br />

1936. The Amos Roster lists Paul with ni<strong>net</strong>een months of dry time which<br />

harmonizes with the account we have given.<br />

The fifth man the original three would succeed with was Tom Lucas. Tom<br />

is listed on The Amos Roster as having seventeen months in February of 1938.<br />

Tom describes his first encounter with Dr. Bob in his personal s<strong>to</strong>ry from the<br />

Original Manuscript draft, titled “MY WIFE AND I.”<br />

“I was pretty jittery when my wife opened the door <strong>to</strong> admit a tall, somewhat<br />

brusque professional man who, from his speech, was obviously an Easterner. I<br />

don't know what I had expected, but his salutation, designed <strong>to</strong> shake me up, I<br />

can now see, had almost the same effect as the hosing with cold water in a<br />

turkish bath.<br />

"I hear you're another 'rummy," he said as he smiled and sat down beside me. I<br />

let him talk. Gradually he drew me out until what I did tell him gave him a<br />

picture of my experience. And then he put it <strong>to</strong> me plainly. "If you are perfectly<br />

sure that you want <strong>to</strong> quit drinking for good, if you are serious about it, if you<br />

don't merely wish <strong>to</strong> get well so that you can take up drinking again at some<br />

future date, you can be relieved," he said.<br />

I <strong>to</strong>ld him that I had never wanted anything as much in my life as <strong>to</strong> be able <strong>to</strong><br />

quit using liquor, and I meant every word of it.<br />

“The first thing <strong>to</strong> do with your husband," he said, turning <strong>to</strong> my wife, "is <strong>to</strong> get<br />

him <strong>to</strong> a hospital and have him 'defogged.' I'll make the necessary arrangements.<br />

He didn't go in<strong>to</strong> any further explanation, not even <strong>to</strong> my wife. That evening I<br />

was in a hospital bed. The next day the doc<strong>to</strong>r called. He <strong>to</strong>ld me that several<br />

former alcoholics were now dry as a result of following a certain prescribed<br />

course of action and that some of them would be in <strong>to</strong> see me.”<br />

“There can be no better safeguard <strong>to</strong> sobriety than faith and trust in God. It can be<br />

cultivated through prayer and observing the happiness of those who live a blameless life”<br />

* See DR. BOB and the Good Oldtimers page 111. The date of January of 1936 is not cited. See Sources p.352.

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