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Well, in a case like this, chances are that Kate might be getting in<br />
her own way—kind of like being your own worst enemy.<br />
Consultation and communication are the keys here when it comes<br />
to getting that special look you want, but try and stretch your<br />
sense of what’s good enough. Remember: we get to see your<br />
whole head, not just the front. (I can’t stress this enough!) A<br />
French philosopher once said, “The best is the enemy of the<br />
good.” I’m not French, but the street philosopher in me has a<br />
sense that close is sometimes good enough, and exactly right is<br />
far too costly. Along these same lines I might plead that you try<br />
not to become too much of a back-seat driver during your cut. It<br />
reminds me of driving with my ex-girlfriend, Whatshername.<br />
3. The Just Like This Syndrome<br />
Next on the list (and I bet you might have seen this one coming):<br />
the unrealistic photograph.<br />
Client: Billy, can you make me look like this (Holds up pix<br />
from Cosmo)<br />
Stylist: Well let me see. Hmmm….Yeah, well, in this picture the<br />
girl has long hair, cascading down to her waistline. Your hair is<br />
wickedly short. How is that going to work<br />
Try to be in the same ballpark if you have a style you like from a<br />
magazine. It’s helpful to consider that your hair has genetic limits.<br />
So, for example, if your hair does not curl, please don’t pick<br />
a Sara Jessica Parker to show your stylist. If it’s thin, don’t show<br />
a picture with two tons of volume like the Bride of Frankenstein.<br />
Pictures are a great way to communicate what you want, and by<br />
all means bring in a picture. Stylists appreciate them, but be as<br />
realistic as possible. The most common impossibility when it<br />
comes to “make me look like this” isn’t length, it’s usually hair<br />
type.<br />
4. The White Rabbit Syndrome<br />
Paradoxically, the one thing hairdressers most hate to hear is<br />
something that is often unspoken. It’s the passive-aggressive<br />
client who thinks that they are the only person in the world that<br />
matters.<br />
Client: (approaching the station) “Oh…..”<br />
Stylist: (staring back) “Be with you in a bit, Love. Sorry we’re a<br />
little behind.”<br />
Sending an unspoken message to your hairdresser while they are<br />
cutting someone else is not going to make them work faster or<br />
finish sooner. It will just completely piss them off. Frankly, those<br />
unspoken little jabs are just rude. It is absolutely wild how much<br />
of this I see and it is sad. I personally don’t like the snippy, sniggering<br />
talk that happens behind someone’s back, but, passiveaggressive<br />
is like a punch in the stomach. When you exhale from<br />
the pain, nasty words come out about the person who punches<br />
you with their non-verbal, rude behavior.<br />
It’s stressful when things get behind schedule. But some folks let<br />
you know you’re behind the second the door swings open. Lewis<br />
Carroll’s begins his novel, Alice in Wonderland, with an<br />
encounter between Alice and a peculiar White Rabbit with pink<br />
eyes who says to himself: “Dear, dear, I shall be too late.” It’s a<br />
comment on people who are always in a hurry. It’s a message<br />
that all stylists hate to hear. Let’s be honest: some folks are dishonest<br />
when they claim that they’re late and in a big hurry. I<br />
really don’t mind if someone is truly in a hurry. But here’s what<br />
I loathe: I rush things because I feel an authentic concern for a<br />
client who seems to be in a hurry and then I discover that they<br />
really need to hurry back home because “Fluffy” the Pekinese<br />
puppy feels lonely.<br />
Please understand that for hairdressers it is difficult to book a<br />
service appointment and stay on time. People like to change their<br />
minds mid-way through a cut and want more. We try to treat<br />
everyone like family, and that means trying to maintain a great<br />
attitude even when someone’s wait goes a long way. My favorite<br />
customers seem to be the most graceful; I will always gladly go<br />
the extra mile for these wonderful people. I’ll come in early and<br />
stay late and even go to their family dinners after work. My rule<br />
is: the graceful customer gets whatever they want and then some.<br />
5. The Ms. Bling Syndrome.<br />
I’m happy that people are successful or very financially secure. I<br />
want the same for my family and friends. But, stylists hate it<br />
when Ms. Bling aggressively negotiates for a discount. Look,<br />
stylists size people up quickly. After all, schmoozing is part of<br />
the biz. Furthermore, strange but true: more secrets and personal<br />
information are shared in a salon than in Fr. Murphy’s confessional<br />
box at St. Mary’s Catholic Church. So, before long your<br />
stylist knows information about your family, friends, livelihood<br />
and tax return. A hair salon is where people easily relax. It’s<br />
typical that your body and mind loosens up, and so does your<br />
tongue. People will tell just about anything—without being tortured.<br />
CIA water-boarding interrogation techniques,<br />
“fagetaboutit!” Send a suspected terrorist to a hair salon once a<br />
month for a year. Soon their stylist will know everything. I like<br />
to think that happens because a good stylist knows how to make<br />
people comfortable. All of that is simply to say that we know, for<br />
example, that you drive a $70,000 automobile and just got back<br />
from Palm Beach. That means that you have no grounds to barter<br />
with your stylist for a discount. Since most people are uncomfortable<br />
talking about fees, it’s probably a good idea to face the<br />
music right up front and sort out the fee at the consultation. It’s<br />
our job to be clear about what we charge before we start, so you,<br />
the customer, have choices.<br />
My friends who cut and style hair like to save our discounts for<br />
people truly in need: people with big families, people who work<br />
for peanuts trying to help others. Dear Ms. Bling, wealth is a<br />
blessing. Don’t be afraid to share it.<br />
On behalf of <strong>PhillyFIT</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> I would like to invite you to<br />
email us any questions or concerns about your hair. I will have<br />
one of our hair professionals gladly reply.<br />
*Billy Nicgorski is a hair color specialist from Blue a hair studio,<br />
in Huntington Valley, PA and a recent recipient of the<br />
Wella International Hair Colorist of the Year Award. Contact<br />
Billy at BNicgorski@phillyfitmagazine.com.<br />
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