Dining Etiquette Tips
Dining Etiquette Tips
Dining Etiquette Tips
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APPROPRIATE DINING ETIQUETTE<br />
Do dress appropriately, remove your hat, say please and thank you as necessary, and refrain from using<br />
your cell phone.<br />
Don’t talk too loud, too much or interrupt; talk about money, religion, or politics; talk with food in<br />
your mouth, eat too fast or too much, take big bites, ask to taste someone else’s food, or ask for a doggy<br />
bag.<br />
Arrival and Introductions<br />
• Arrive early and use nametag if provided or you have one.<br />
• Introduce yourself with a smile and a handshake.<br />
• View as a networking opportunity, start conversations and follow up on leads.<br />
Seating and Posture<br />
• Greet everyone and rise to meet and welcome newcomers.<br />
• Enter and exit table from right side of chair, make sure your chair is pushed in.<br />
• Sit up straight in your chair, keep your elbows off the table and don’t lean on the table.<br />
Place Setting<br />
• General rule for utensils is to start on the outside and work your way in.<br />
• Make ‘b’ and ‘d’ with your fingers to know which side your bread and drinks are on.<br />
• Once you begin eating, silverware should never touch table. When resting, place knife at 7:00 and<br />
fork at 5:00. When finished, place knife and fork together at 5:00.<br />
Napkins<br />
• Napkins are for catching spills and dabbing face, not wiping face and blowing nose.<br />
• Place napkin on your lap either when seated or when host does.<br />
• Fold large napkins on your lap and keep fold towards you.<br />
• If you leave, place napkin on the back of your chair.<br />
• When meal is finished (not when you’re done eating), place napkin on left side of your plate (do not<br />
refold it).<br />
Ordering<br />
• Order items easy to eat with a knife and fork. Talk to others about what they will order.<br />
• Do not make orders too complicated and do not order food that is too expensive.<br />
• When ordering alcohol, if you are of age and it is not an interview, follow what others do but<br />
ALWAYS watch the amount.<br />
• Foods to avoid: unfamiliar foods, spaghetti, onion soup, buffalo wings, ribs, bony fish, shellfish, big<br />
sandwiches, cheesy food, and foods requiring special utensils like crab.
When to start eating<br />
• Do not begin eating until all food is served unless host tells others to go ahead and eat.<br />
• It is most polite to wait until the head of the table or host begins eating.<br />
Continental Style of Eating<br />
• Most formal and polite style. More comfortable for left-handed people if you are not used to it.<br />
• Fork in left hand and knife in right. Cut one bite at a time. Point fork down to spear food and bring it<br />
to your mouth.<br />
American Style of Eating<br />
• Less formal, but more comfortable for right-handed people.<br />
• Start with fork in left hand and knife in right. Cut a bite. Lay knife across top of plate with sharp<br />
edge facing you. Switch fork to your right hand and bring food to your mouth.<br />
Passing at the table<br />
• Offer to the person on your left, take what you need and pass to your right (some say to set the dish<br />
down rather than passing it).<br />
• Salt and pepper are always passed together. Taste food before adding either.<br />
Rolls, bread and soup<br />
• Tear off a small bite of bread. Tear close to the table. Butter each piece before eating it.<br />
• Do not slurp soup. Sip from side of the spoon and do not blow to cool.<br />
Accidents<br />
• Spilling liquid: do not use your own napkin. Politely inform your server.<br />
• Dropping silverware or napkin: politely ask server for a new one.<br />
• Gristle in meat: take out with same utensil you put it in with and hide on your plate.<br />
• Food stuck in teeth: excuse yourself to the restroom.<br />
Tipping<br />
• Generally 15-20% for the overall meal.<br />
• Coat check: $1.00 per coat (check coat whenever possible).<br />
• Valet: $2.00-$5.00.<br />
Common <strong>Etiquette</strong> Questions<br />
• Who pays Typically the inviting person, don’t ever fight over the bill.<br />
• Can men take off suit jackets Most formal to leave on, but watch head of the table.<br />
• Do men stand for women leaving the table Most formal to do so, but not common or necessary.