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THE GABLES AT PARKLAND GOLF & CC $1,345,000<br />
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CYPRESS HEAD $1,245,000<br />
Completely remodeled Kingston II estate home on one of the best waterfront<br />
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OLD BROOKE AT HERON BAY $990,000<br />
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CYPRESSHEAD $999,000<br />
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CYPRESS HEAD $875,000<br />
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Coconut Creek $799,000<br />
Price slashed $200,000. Owner says sell NOW! Fabulous<br />
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Mediterranean acre estate home. Heated pool & spa,<br />
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custom built-ins, wet bar, sky lights, crown molding,<br />
granite counters, premier appliances & more. New roof,<br />
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Coral Springs/Wyndham Lakes West $530,000<br />
Stunning home in pristine condition! Triple split floor plan,<br />
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living room/dining room & great view of the Mediterranian<br />
patio, lovely screened in pool, 2 tier fountain, raised spa with<br />
waterfall & Italian tile deck. A tropical oasis. Wake-up & have a<br />
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glass windows or eat pool side via sliding glass doors. Family<br />
room opens to kitchen. Luxury master bath. F1015435<br />
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Parkland/Parkland Golf & Country Club $475,000<br />
BEAT THE BANK! This stunning 4 bedroom plus open loft<br />
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Dynamite opportunity Short Sale. F1014558<br />
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Coral Springs/Yardley Estates $438,900<br />
Pristine home on beautiful water, 5th bedroom is being<br />
used as den/office, kitchen cabinets redone with granite<br />
counters, tile on 1st floor, 5th bedroom has laminate,<br />
upstairs has all carpet, hurricane film on windows, Jacuzzi<br />
tub in master bath, 2 newer A/C units, H2O purification<br />
system & neutral paint throughout. F1004857<br />
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Boca Raton/Vineyards $399,000<br />
This 4 BR, 2.5 BA, two story home w/2 car side load garage has been<br />
upgraded in & out. A designer’s masterpiece! Oversized screened, htd<br />
pool, lakefront views, lush landscaping & Accordion hurricane shutters.<br />
Oversized formal LR, formal DR, neutral colors, extra storage, crown<br />
molding, kitchen w/granite & 42” cabinets. MBR on 1st floor & 3 BRs<br />
upstairs plus loft. MBA has Roman tub w/whirlpool, 2 sinks & sep<br />
shower. Gated community w/exercise room & pool. R3036356<br />
Call 1st Choice GMAC Real Estate 954-334-4622<br />
Parkland/Cypress Cay $339,000<br />
Outstanding immaculate one level Mediterranean style<br />
home. 4 bedrooms, 2 baths, neutral ceramic tile, wood builtin<br />
entertainment center, maple wood kitchen cabinets, formal<br />
dining room, built-in desk in one bedroom, installed<br />
handicap walk-in bathing tub in 2nd bath, accordion hurricane<br />
shutters. Community pool & tennis courts. Gated maintained<br />
quiet & private community. F1006251<br />
Call 1st Choice GMAC Real Estate 954-334-4622<br />
Coral Springs/North Springs $299,999<br />
Spacious 4 BR, 2 BA pool home located on a quiet street.<br />
Owner has relocated and wants to sell. This home is<br />
original and in move-in condition. This is not a short sale<br />
or foreclosure!! All offers to include a pre-approval letter.<br />
F1000382<br />
Call 1st Choice GMAC Real Estate 954-334-4622<br />
Coconut Creek/Winston Park $264,900<br />
Attractive 2 story, 3 BR, 3 BA corner home in the pristine<br />
neighborhood of Winston Park. This charming home is<br />
accented with volume ceilings in the living & dining<br />
areas, custom mirrors tastefully located throughout, spacious<br />
screened patio with overhang & skylights and well<br />
maintained yard. A must see!!! F1017153<br />
Call Bob Dozois 954-695-2438<br />
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MONTHLY CONTRIBUTORS<br />
Publishers<br />
Sharon and Jack Kornreich<br />
Editor<br />
Cheryl Simone-Miller<br />
Art Director<br />
Dani Dorsey<br />
Graphic Designers<br />
Ligia Maria Vital Meira<br />
Claudecy Silver<br />
Diana Striker<br />
Assts. to the Publishers<br />
Mattie Howard<br />
Interns<br />
Sammy Jo Evansen<br />
Account Executives<br />
Linda Babitt<br />
Sue DiPetrillo<br />
Lisa Kirschenbaum<br />
Adrienne Kriegel<br />
Julie Marley<br />
Fern Weissman<br />
Additional Contributing<br />
Writers and Photographers<br />
John Abrams, Judy Asuleen, Nancy Brodzki,<br />
Sammy Jo Evansen, Judy Gruen, Mattie Howard,<br />
Bill Johnson, Charles Marcanetti, Mina Radman,<br />
Arthur Rottenstein, David Volz<br />
Sherri Barbera is President of the Parkland<br />
Garden Club, a Master Gardener, a NWF<br />
Habitat Steward, and owner of My Florida<br />
Garden Coach, a garden consulting<br />
business.<br />
Jack Bloomfield is the co-founder and<br />
executive director of One Planet United, a<br />
non-profit humanitarian organization that<br />
promotes unity and understanding among<br />
all people.<br />
Sheila & Bennet Bodenstein have<br />
been married for 45 years and have<br />
been writing about wine for 25 of<br />
those years.<br />
Lois Crockett is a freelance writer, mystery<br />
author and former radio journalist. Her<br />
hobbies include needle crafts, snorkeling,<br />
cooking and reading.<br />
Jan Engoren is a freelance writer living in<br />
Boca Raton. She is currently working on a<br />
future best-seller and in her spare time enjoys<br />
tennis, her two cats and a good dirty martini.<br />
Dr. Penny Kupferberg, DVM has been<br />
practicing medicine since 1988. She is the<br />
Chief of Staff and partner at Coral Springs<br />
Pet Resort and Medical Center. Dr. Penny<br />
was voted “Best Vet In Coral Springs” and<br />
believes healthy pets live longer, happier lives.<br />
Victoria Landis is a freelance writer and<br />
artist living in West Boca.<br />
Dr. Renae Lapin, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage,<br />
Family <strong>The</strong>rapist and author providing free<br />
counseling services to children and families<br />
with the Broward County School Board’s<br />
Family Counseling Program. Dr. Lapin also<br />
offers private counseling as well as consultation<br />
services to mediators and attorneys.<br />
Robert Loewendick is an award-winning<br />
freelance outdoor/sports writer.<br />
Todd McFliker, a published author and<br />
award-winning photographer, writes about<br />
entertainment, films, venues, local artists<br />
and national concerts.<br />
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ON THE COVER:<br />
This Parkland<br />
home is where<br />
the heart is.<br />
George Faragi is Senior Pastor of Cornerstone<br />
Christian Center in Boca Raton.<br />
Helene Foster is a freelance writer living in<br />
Parkland with her husband Michael and two<br />
sons, Evan and Jacob. Her articles on entertainment,<br />
theater, travel and family have<br />
appeared in numerous local, regional and<br />
national publications.<br />
Tim Heitz is a graduate of the Culinary Arts<br />
Institute of Louisiana and the owner and<br />
Executive Chef of Chef 2 Go, a business<br />
designed for those who want private dinner<br />
parties in their homes.<br />
Pat Heydlauff, president of Energy Design,<br />
helps people eliminate chaos and stress at<br />
home, the workplace and within oneself.<br />
As a consultant and speaker, Pat uses color,<br />
design and organization principles to<br />
transform clients’ lives.<br />
Dr. Judith E. Horowitz is a licensed<br />
psychologist in private practice, specializing<br />
in reproductive health. Should you wish to<br />
submit a question for her column, please<br />
contact jhorowitzphd01@aol.com.<br />
Margie Kaye became a writer after a 20-year<br />
career in the display advertising sales<br />
profession. <strong>The</strong> mother of two young sons,<br />
she maintains her sanity and zest for artistic<br />
expression by writing features, human interest<br />
stories, and personality profiles for various<br />
regional and national lifestyle magazines.<br />
Lisa Minns is a native of South Florida and a<br />
graduate of Florida Atlantic University. She<br />
is a diehard Miami Dolphins fan, a freelance<br />
writer, single and has a bit of a shoe habit.<br />
Cheryl Pangborn is a Parkland resident and<br />
the mother of two elementary age children,<br />
one with special needs. She is a freelance<br />
writer, who also works part time in her<br />
husband’s medical practice. She enjoys<br />
reading a good book, working out and<br />
putting a humorous spin on motherhood.<br />
Janet Lynn Roseman Ph.D. is an author, dance critic<br />
and scholar. She has written many books on dance<br />
and currently works in integrative medicine in an<br />
effort to educate and to bring integrative therapies<br />
for people with cancer in the South Florida region.<br />
In 2006, she was the David Larsen Fellow in<br />
Spirituality and Medicine at the Library of Congress.<br />
Dr. Yvette Sencer is an art historian, writer<br />
and lecturer. A former Professor, Art History<br />
Department Chair and Dean of Graduate<br />
Programs at State University of New York’s<br />
Fashion Institute of Technology, Yvette now<br />
reviews regional art exhibitions and travels the<br />
world, speaking about arts and antiquities.<br />
Susan Shank teaches cake, cookie and<br />
cupcake decorating as well as candymaking.<br />
She also designs creative cookie<br />
decorating parties.<br />
Jenny Velasquez, is an independent decor<br />
designer with Decor & You. Her travel and education<br />
brings a global and eclectic perspective to<br />
her decorating, which clients find invaluable.<br />
Jenny is fluent in English and Spanish and does<br />
both residential and commercial decorating.<br />
Jenny is a community leader in design education.<br />
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You can contact any of our writers by sending your messages to editor@theparklander.com.
SEPTEMBER<strong>2009</strong><br />
CONTENTS<br />
Volume 19, No. 6 • <strong>September</strong> <strong>2009</strong><br />
FEATURES<br />
48 TALIN LYMAN-JOHNSON: DESIGNING WOMAN<br />
A contemporary designer with South Florida flair.<br />
72 ART WALKS: GEORGE SEGAL: STREET SCENES<br />
Visit this fascinating exhibit at the Norton Museum of Art.<br />
88 THE FLORIDIAN RESTAURANT AND MARILYN MONROE<br />
Stop by and see a remarkable collection of Marilyn memoribilia.<br />
48<br />
102 ATTRACTING BUTTERFLIES<br />
Gardening is even better when your yard is full of these floating works of art.<br />
IN EVERY ISSUE<br />
10 Editor’s Letter<br />
11 Parkland’s Mayor<br />
13 Coral Springs’ Mayor<br />
14 Parkland Events<br />
31 Parkland Library Events<br />
94 School News<br />
115 Cornerstone Christian<br />
DEPARTMENTS<br />
Of Local Interest<br />
20 Heron Heights Elementary Haircuts<br />
69 People Watching<br />
100 Parkland Man Delights in the Unbelievable Thrill of Horse Racing<br />
116 Reaching Out to Your Jewish Roots<br />
Fashion/People/Ideas<br />
24 Celebrations of Life – For a Lifetime of Treasured Memories<br />
Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Quinceanera, Sweet 16<br />
28 Post-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder<br />
30 Step Away from the Deep Fried Twinkie<br />
42 <strong>The</strong> Psychology of the Purse<br />
66 One Planet United<br />
106 Business Spotlight: - Skinplicity Rx<br />
Home<br />
38 All the World’s a Stage<br />
44 <strong>The</strong> Decor Challenge<br />
50 <strong>The</strong> South Florida Real Estate Climate<br />
52 <strong>The</strong> Year’s Hottest Trends for Kitchen and Bath<br />
54 Be Kind to Your Interior Designer<br />
56 Thrifty Decorating<br />
58 Got Shells Make a Seashell Mosaic<br />
60 Jump-start Your Fall, Take Action Now<br />
70 A Vacation Home, <strong>The</strong> Ultimate Luxury<br />
Art & Entertainment/Travel<br />
74 Mind, Body, Spirit – 3 Activities<br />
76 Dada and the Jack Maxwell Magic Show<br />
69 Camera Clicks<br />
80 Portsmouth, New Hampshire - Falling in Love<br />
Food<br />
82 Man Cannot Live on Wine Alone – Have a Shot of Irish Whiskey<br />
84 Restaurant Review: Chops Lobster Bar<br />
86 Baking a Memory<br />
90 Staying In Never Tasted So Great<br />
School/Outdoors/Garden/Sports/Pets<br />
93 Microchipping Your Pet for Safety<br />
96 My Child Hates His Teacher! HELP! What Should I Do<br />
97 Get the Most Out of Speech and Language <strong>The</strong>rapy<br />
98 Operation Saving Our Children<br />
104 Wildlife on the Edge<br />
105 Malachi Acres<br />
Legal/Medical/Health/Finance<br />
62 Litigation vs. Collaborative Family Law<br />
64 Last Good Deeds<br />
108 Generic versus Brand Drugs<br />
110 Poor Sleep – Poor Quality of Life<br />
118 Living Trusts: Fact and Fiction<br />
72 88<br />
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EDITOR’S NOTE<br />
“When I have a little money, I buy books; and if I have any left,<br />
I buy food and clothes.”<br />
— Desiderius Erasmus Roterodamus<br />
SSchool has started again. <strong>The</strong> heavy backpacks loaded with homework<br />
and assignments are back in effect.<br />
Despite the new stack of stuff and new raft of complaints, I’m always<br />
pleased to see my son just pick up a book and read. Not because he has<br />
to. Because he wants to. He’s a reader. That means more to me than his<br />
results on any standardized tests. Don’t get me wrong. I know the tests<br />
are important. We prepare for them with great zeal. Still, my son being a<br />
reader is important above all.<br />
When Jack was a toddler, there were several books he wanted to hear<br />
over and over again. Dr. Seuss’ <strong>The</strong> Shape of Me and Other Stuff was one.<br />
Another was an alphabet book called A is for Airplane. At some point, he<br />
had it memorized. Knew all of the words in the right order. He would sit<br />
and recite the book from memory while turning the pages at the right<br />
time. He looked like he was reading, even though he wasn’t. It warmed<br />
my heart and sent my mind racing through the list of books I wanted<br />
him to know over time.<br />
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Jack keeps a pile of books at the foot of his bed. <strong>The</strong>re’s a neat stack of<br />
Captain Underpants books…new books rotate in and out…comic<br />
books…some poetry. He keeps on top of when the next Dav Pilkey<br />
book is coming out. <strong>The</strong>re’s a book light and a flashlight on his<br />
nightstand. Sometimes, after he’s been tucked in for the night, I see a<br />
beam of light cross under the door. I can’t complain. I read at night the<br />
very same way as a child.<br />
Reading is the path to all things. Knowledge, vocabulary, critical thinking,<br />
humor, different points of view, new ways of thinking about something<br />
common, the path to new ideas…all of that and more is found in<br />
the printed word. I remember hearing a parent complaining because<br />
their child wanted a Spongebob Squarepants book. Don’t discriminate.<br />
Spongebob is funny. Relating joy to a book is a good thing. Whether it’s<br />
a picture book, a classic, teen lit, a webpage, a comic book or the back of<br />
a cereal box…encourage your child to take in the written word. Let<br />
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COMMUNITY NEWS<br />
A Smooth Transition<br />
Into the School Year<br />
By Parkland’s Mayor Michael Udine<br />
I hope everyone enjoyed their summer and is settling into “back<br />
to school” mode. I want to thank everyone who helped make the<br />
transition as smooth as possible. As we try to remind everyone each<br />
year, if you are driving your kids to school, try to leave a few minutes<br />
early. <strong>The</strong> car lines leading up to the schools are crowded. As always,<br />
the City and BSO try to do what we can to make drop off go as<br />
smoothly as possible.<br />
<strong>The</strong> City held it’s Back to School Breakfast for the local area school<br />
principals and volunteer officers of the SAC, SAF and PTA groups.<br />
This breakfast serves as our way of continuing to reinforce our<br />
commitment to our area schools and our children’s education. It’s<br />
also our way of thanking everyone for his or her service. This year<br />
was especially gratifying in that we were able to welcome our newest<br />
school, Heron Heights Elementary. City staff, elected officials,<br />
EAB Board members and other volunteers continue to do<br />
everything possible to advocate for the school and constantly<br />
monitor education issues and how they affect our students. <strong>The</strong><br />
Broward County School Board, like other governmental agencies, is<br />
experiencing budgetary issues. Unfortunately, that leads to cutbacks<br />
throughout the school system. <strong>The</strong> City of Parkland remains<br />
committed to the education of our children. We continue to partner<br />
with our local schools and the School Board to help offset the effects<br />
of budget cuts. We have budgeted for School Resource Deputies in<br />
each of the School located in Parkland. While many areas of the<br />
county are cutting back on these officers, in Parkland, we continue<br />
to believe they are an extremely important part of our school<br />
environment and for the safety of our community.<br />
Speaking of the budget, State law requires two public hearings be<br />
held to discuss the budget prior to its adoption. <strong>The</strong>se hearings are<br />
opportunities for you to comment on proposed budgetary issues,<br />
discuss the services and the cost of services the City offers. Public<br />
hearings for this year’s budget are <strong>September</strong> 14th and <strong>September</strong><br />
23rd at 7 pm at Parkland City Hall. Please stop by one of the<br />
meetings to observe and discuss any issues you have concerning the<br />
City budget. On the capital improvement front, we are happy the<br />
new playground at Terramar Park is ready for use. This upgrade was<br />
a long time coming. Our city budget has certain dollars set aside that<br />
must be used for park improvements. <strong>The</strong>se funds allow us to<br />
upgrade the parks with capital improvements throughout the year.<br />
Additionally, the Eastern Fire Station/Public Safety Building is<br />
nearing completion and set for opening. This major improvement<br />
will allow us to increase fire and EMS services throughout the City.<br />
<strong>The</strong> building came in on time and under budget. Thanks to all<br />
involved with this great project.<br />
As always, I value your questions or comments. Reach out and “friend<br />
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COMMUNITY NEWS<br />
8th Annual Wine Tasting<br />
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SAVE THE DATE!!!<br />
October 14, <strong>2009</strong>, 7 to 9pm<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Parkland Garden Club will resume its<br />
monthly meetings in <strong>September</strong> with a talk by<br />
Rita Dahma of Natural Wonders Landscaping<br />
on container gardening and how to design<br />
beautiful potted plants.<br />
<strong>The</strong> meeting, which is free and open to the<br />
public, will be at 7 p.m., Sept. 15, at Cypress<br />
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Blvd. Plants for sale. For more<br />
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Planning Ahead for College<br />
By Coral Springs’ Mayor Scott Brook<br />
COMMUNITY NEWS<br />
I hope your summer was great. I am proud to say we have a great budget and<br />
business plan prepared for you that does not involve layoffs or service cuts!<br />
For all details, please look at our website, www.CoralSprings.org. Our<br />
government has worked diligently and efficiently to get to this point while<br />
maintaining the lowest tax rate of similar-sized or larger cities in Broward<br />
County. We also have one of the lowest tax rates in the State. I want to take<br />
this opportunity to thank all of our dedicated employees, top management,<br />
my colleagues on the Commission and volunteers!<br />
Speaking of volunteers, do you know Mary Boast She is a dedicated<br />
community leader who has given countless hours to Safety Town over<br />
many years. Without her efforts, the commitment of Kiwanis and so many<br />
teenagers who help train our children about safety, Safety Town could not<br />
be a reality, let alone the great success it has been. Mary, thank you! I also<br />
want to thank the Police and Fire Departments for their involvement with<br />
this great program. If you want to learn more information on how to enroll<br />
your youngster, please visit our website, www.CoralSprings.org.<br />
What are you doing on October 16 I hope to see you at a great annual<br />
community event, Festival of the Flutes. This year, the event will benefit<br />
Mothers Against Brain Injury, the Lisa Boccard Breast Cancer Foundation<br />
and Broward Meals on Wheels. It will be held on Friday, October 16 from<br />
6 to 10PM at the Marriott Heron Bay. For moreinformation, please visit<br />
www.Festivaloftheflutes.org.<br />
As the new school year is underway,many local seniors are thinking about their<br />
next steps. For some, that means time at a four-year university. For other, posthigh<br />
school means going right into technical or vocational training. Whatever<br />
path students choose, the City has a one-stop resource outlining the many<br />
options available after graduation – www.CSTeensUndecided.org. Here, teens<br />
and parents can find information on everything from local technical centers to<br />
military requirements and more.<br />
Students choosing to attend a college or university might find themselves<br />
struggling to pay for their education. Scholarship opportunities abound, but<br />
I want to highlight one special opportunity right here in Coral Springs.<strong>The</strong><br />
City’s Martin Luther King, Jr. Committee offers scholarships of various<br />
amounts to high school seniors who can demonstrate a financial need.<br />
Students applying for a scholarship from the MLK Committee must attend<br />
one of the City’s local schools and show a dedication to Dr. King’s teachings.<br />
All are welcome to apply.Those in the community who would like to donate<br />
to the fund have an exciting opportunity to do so next month with the<br />
annual Golfing for the King tournament. Proceeds from the tournament<br />
directly benefit the MLK Scholarship fund, which has helped send more<br />
than 100 local students to colleges of their choice for nearly two decades.<br />
<strong>The</strong> tournament is set for 7AM Friday, <strong>September</strong> 11 at the Country Club<br />
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Concert in the Park presented by JM Lexus<br />
RISE Band - Pine Trails Park Amphitheater<br />
<strong>September</strong> 12, <strong>2009</strong><br />
7:00PM-8:30PM - FREE<br />
Come out each month and experience some of the best local and regional<br />
performers that Florida has to offer. Each month the City of Parkland<br />
will have a new band rocking out at the Pine Trails Park Amphitheater.<br />
Bring your whole family and plenty of blankets and lawn chairs as we<br />
rock the night away with sounds of country, rock, jazz, and Caribbean<br />
bands! Some months will feature concert activities such as a Car Show,<br />
Chili Cook-off, and Art Show. Keep your eye out for this year-round<br />
premier Parkland event.<strong>The</strong> concerts are presented by JM Lexus. For<br />
more information, please contact Colleen O’Dea, Special Events<br />
Coordinator, at (954) 757-4120 or email codea@cityofparkland.org.<br />
National P.L.A.Y Day<br />
Pine Trails Park - <strong>September</strong> 19, <strong>2009</strong><br />
10:00AM-1:00PM - FREE<br />
<strong>The</strong> City of Parkland invites all<br />
Parkland residents out to P.L.A.Y<br />
Day. This event will feature tons<br />
of bounce houses, toddler play<br />
centers, live entertainment,<br />
and family fun events such as<br />
potatoes sack races and tug<br />
of war.This event is even<br />
open to Parkland residents<br />
young at heart! Snacks and<br />
drinks will also be available to all<br />
those who come out to this great family event! Please contact Colleen<br />
O’Dea, Special Events Coordinator, at 954-757-4120 or codea@cityofparkland.org.<br />
Parkland Senior Dance<br />
Aston Gardens - <strong>September</strong> 28, 2008<br />
5555 University Drive, Parkland FL 33067<br />
2:00-4:00PM - FREE<br />
<strong>The</strong> Ted Knight Orchestra will perform all your big band hits as<br />
Parkland seniors dance the day away! <strong>The</strong> Ted Knight Orchestra<br />
features real horns and a big band sound. Hors d’oeuvres and drinks<br />
will be served to all Parkland participants. Registration required. Please<br />
contact Colleen O’Dea, Special Events Coordinator, at 954-757-4120<br />
or codea@cityofparkland.org.<br />
14 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
COMMUNITY NEWS<br />
American Red Cross Recognizes Top 10 Aquatics Providers<br />
THE TOP TEN AQUATICS PROVIDERS of the American Red<br />
Cross Learn-to-Swim program were recognized at a special ceremony<br />
July 23, <strong>2009</strong>. Each was awarded a Certificate of Appreciation and a<br />
brand-new Aquatics banner to assist them in promoting Learn-to-<br />
Swim to the public. Between the ten of them, these providers reached<br />
over 51,000 people.<br />
<strong>The</strong> top ten aquatics providers by rank were:<br />
1. City of Miramar (25,161 enrollees)<br />
2. City of Miami (14,722 enrollees)<br />
3. City of Pembroke Pines (4,986 enrollees)<br />
4. City of Hialeah (2,396 enrollees)<br />
5. City of Coral Springs (1,096 enrollees)<br />
6. Swim Gym, Inc. (867 enrollees)<br />
7. Miami-Dade County Parks & Recreation (818 enrollees)<br />
8. Venetian Aquatic Club (644 enrollees)<br />
9. Cooper City (587 enrollees)<br />
10. City of Hollywood (358 enrollees)<br />
Thanks to their hard work, the American Red Cross is able to continue<br />
reaching a significant portion of the community with swim lessons,<br />
drowning prevention information and water safety education.<br />
Florida has the highest drowning rate in the nation for toddlers.<br />
Nationwide, drowning is the leading cause of death for children under 5<br />
and for 15-24 year olds.<br />
<strong>The</strong> vast majority of the fatalities for youngsters take place in home<br />
pools, spas, and bathtubs, and for older children, in pools and outside<br />
bodies of water. Most drowning and near-drowning incidents occur<br />
when a young child leaves the house and enters a pool area<br />
unsupervised. In addition, many parents and caregivers are not trained<br />
how to prevent or respond properly when faced with such an emergency.<br />
For those who do survive a drowning incident, many are left with severe<br />
and permanent neurological<br />
disabilities.<br />
This is why learning how to<br />
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around water at home, and<br />
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Heron Heights Elementary<br />
By Mina Radman<br />
New School, New Beginnings<br />
A new school year brings renewed excitement, new friends, and a new look. Many Parkland residents will also experience a<br />
change in scenery, as Heron Heights Elementary School opens. <strong>The</strong> school was built to relieve overcrowding at Park Trails<br />
and Riverglades Elementary School<br />
To help get ready for a new year and a new school, three area hair salons – Salon Essence in Coral Springs, Cow Licks in Boca<br />
Raton and Great Clips in Coral Springs – offered to provide haircuts for a few Heron Heights teachers, students and parents.<br />
Salon Essence on Coral Ridge Drive and Wiles Road treated two teachers,<br />
Ashley Fitzgerald and Elyssa Henthorn, to makeovers.<br />
Ashley, a first grade teacher who taught Kindergarten for three years at Park<br />
Trails, decided to update her classic bob by stacking layers on the back, a la<br />
Victoria Beckham.<br />
Elyssa, a third grade teacher and mother of two young children, wanted a<br />
style that was fashionable, but manageable and easy to wear.<br />
As the women received their new haircuts, they spoke excitedly about the new<br />
school. Heron Heights, located on Nob Hill Road, will hold approximately 600<br />
students and 40 teachers, from both Park Trails and Riverglades.<strong>The</strong> new, state<br />
of the art school will contain the latest and best equipment and technology.<br />
Before<br />
Before<br />
“I’m excited to learn about the new technology,” Ashley said. “Especially the<br />
Promethean boards, I’m very excited to learn about that.”<br />
Elyssa expressed excitement over opening a new school and working with<br />
the school’s new principal, Mr. Kenneth King.<br />
“I’ve worked with Mr. King before,” Elyssa said. “And I’m excited to work<br />
with a lot of new people.”<br />
Both teachers described the immense community involvement in building the<br />
school. <strong>The</strong> school’s name and mascot, the Hawks, were chosen in a poll sent<br />
to various houses in the community. Recently, there was a fundraiser at the<br />
Heron Bay Clubhouse for new parents and students heading to the school.<br />
“It was nice to know we were all there for the same reason,” Ashley said.<br />
As their makeovers came to a finish, the women were surprised by their new<br />
looks. Ashley’s hair was stacked in the back, as desired, with long, draping<br />
layers towards the front of the face and soft, wispy side bangs.<br />
After<br />
After<br />
“It’s never going to look like this again,” Ashley said.<br />
Elyssa’s short bob was entirely layered and the ends were flipped to create<br />
additional volume in her fine hair.<br />
Both women looked fantastic and, with their new styles in place, left to prepare<br />
for a new school and a new year.<br />
HERON HEIGHTS continues on page 22<br />
20 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
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HERON HEIGHTS continued from page 20<br />
Before<br />
After<br />
Before<br />
After<br />
Eight-year-old Leon Downey, who will enter the third grade at Heron Heights, and his father, Joe, were treated to haircuts at Great Clips in the Turtle<br />
Crossing Shopping Center on State Road 7 in Coral Springs. In business since 1982, Great Clips has more than 2,700 salons throughout the United<br />
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Before<br />
After<br />
Before<br />
After<br />
Upcoming first grader, six-year-old<br />
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for kids…including themed glamour<br />
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Bar/Bar Mitzvah, Quinceanera, Sweet 16<br />
By Lois Crockett<br />
<strong>The</strong> Pure Energy Band<br />
Mike Sipe Entertainment<br />
and Pure Energy<br />
BBack in “the day”, a Bar or Bat Mitzvah was held for a 13-year-old Jewish<br />
boy (Bar) or girl (Bat) to commemorate years of Hebrew study culminating<br />
in taking responsibility for one’s spirituality. After the service, a party would<br />
be held for family and friends, with the degree of orthodoxy dictating the<br />
tone of the celebration. Today, themed parties can be lavish, over-the-top<br />
million-dollar affairs showcasing the family’s social and economic status.<br />
Quinceanera dates back to 500 B.C. as a young Aztec girls’ official<br />
acceptance (at age 15) into adulthood – she could marry and have children.<br />
Coming of age was celebrated with a ceremony, dance, and Mom’s words<br />
of wisdom. Upon conquering the Americas, the Spanish adopted this<br />
tradition. <strong>The</strong> Catholic Church replaced the Aztec Temple and the pagan<br />
dancing was replaced by the waltz. Similar to a Bar/Bat Mitzvah,<br />
Quinceanera took on the significance of faith, in this case, Roman Catholic.<br />
Followed by an elegant, stately party, the Quince anos celebration rivals any<br />
wedding and also can represent the family’s social and economic status.<br />
multiple acts are engaged to amuse the guests and encourage audience<br />
and celebrant participation alike.<br />
Mike Sipe, entertainment producer and owner of Mike Sipe<br />
Entertainment (Quinces and Sweet 16’s) and Pure Energy (Bar/Bat<br />
Mitzvahs), has produced a million-dollar Bar Mitzvah. He says, “Don’t<br />
skimp on the entertainment, it’s the most important faction of the party<br />
experience.” Entertainment can range from simple to totally over-the-top.<br />
For the million-dollar affair, three stages were set up for different acts and a<br />
magician used one of the stages to introduce the Bar Mitzvah boy to his<br />
guests in a fiery explosion while sibs magically appeared out of thin air.<br />
Sipes’ biggest pleasure is to create something for the entire family: separate<br />
cocktail hours for the kids and adults, giving a “clubby” feel to even daytime<br />
affairs in venues where sunny windows present a challenge to generating<br />
evening ambience. MCs are rigorously trained for two years and Sipes’<br />
entertainers work exclusively for the Sipe production companies. Mike Sipe<br />
Entertainment and Pure Energy can create a full-blown party to rival any<br />
three-ring circus or a simple affair for 35 people. For Quinces, Sipe states<br />
he’s in the business of “making a young girl’s dream come true.”“This isn’t a<br />
tangible product,” Sipe continues, “We provide an experience.” Sipe has<br />
extensive experience and perspective on “old” versus “new” trends. One of<br />
Sipes’ favorite inside secrets “You wouldn’t believe how many Dads sneak<br />
over to the kids buffet to enjoy the hot dogs.” A master at making Moms<br />
and Dads relax and enjoy the party, Sipe produces shows of a professional<br />
caliber with a personal touch.<br />
Spencer Kramer, of “A Hot Party” and “A Hot Mitzvah”, states, “the difference<br />
between an “Event Planner” and an “Entertainment” company is that<br />
planners plan, entertainment companies produce,” and “the ultimate event<br />
is all about guest interaction.” Kramer says,“Budgets can range from $5,000<br />
to $15,000, an average entertainment budget, all the way up to $40,000 and<br />
Sweet 16s were once held on a girls’ sixteenth birthday to celebrate<br />
virginity. <strong>The</strong> party was in the form of a tea at home or luncheon at a nice<br />
restaurant for “ladies only”. <strong>The</strong>y now take the form of large co-ed affairs<br />
(think nightclub for the 16-year-old-going-on-21), with full-blown<br />
entertainment, as showcased on MTV’s “My Super Sweet Sixteen”. Today,<br />
the virginal aspect is no longer the focus of the occasion and the event is<br />
looked upon more as a coming-of-age celebration.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se three events have in common the thread of a Rite of Passage, when<br />
a young person begins their journey into adulthood. <strong>The</strong>re is the<br />
separation from childhood, induction (a religious service or candle<br />
lighting ceremony), and a party with family and friends where the<br />
celebrant is recognized as more “adult” than child.<br />
Today, themed events abound and red carpet entrances for the celebrant<br />
are quite popular. Tables, once graced with white linen and formal service<br />
(which fork do you use for what, anyway), with flowers all the same, have<br />
given way to unique table décor with lighted centerpieces and inimitable<br />
floral arrangements. Entertainment is the focal point of the party and<br />
David and Troy Club<br />
Mike Sipe Entertainment<br />
and Pure Energy<br />
BAR/BAT MITZVAHS continues on page 26<br />
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BAR/BAT MITZVAHS continued from page 24<br />
above.” With ten warehouses filled with party gear, he can accommodate<br />
almost any theme, from the standard sports and movie themes to recreating<br />
a casino, a gangster/flapper hangout, an American Idol show-like<br />
production or Cirque-style performers to enchant and thrill the guests.<br />
Choreography with the kids is key, and many Quince celebrants enter the<br />
party with their Court, five or six of her friends, performing a stylized dance<br />
to entertain guests.While the “Hokey Pokey” and the “Alley Cat” have gone<br />
the way of Scarlett O’Hara’s corset and hoop skirt, today’s dances are the<br />
“Cupid Shuffle” and the “Casper Slide” (an upgraded Electric Slide).<br />
Kramer’s entertainment teams draw the audience into being participants.<br />
“It’s how to bring about interaction,” Kramer says, so people can enjoy the<br />
full experience in accord with their host/hostess and his/her parents. “It’s<br />
not just another party,” Kramer says, “It’s enthralling, something you’re part<br />
of, not just something you look at.” Kramer also has a pre-Mitzvah meeting<br />
with the celebrant “to go over the significance of the celebration and not<br />
lose it in planning the party.”<br />
Jack Herman, of Coral Springs Flowers and Events, says, “Don’t overlook<br />
décor. It’s the ambience of the event, showcasing the entertainment.” As an<br />
event planner, Herman coordinates everything; venue, décor, flowers,<br />
photography, and, of course, entertainment. He cites a “Project Runway” Bat<br />
Mitzvah as a fun party, and did a sports-themed party with tables decorated<br />
with different team colors and logos. Herman states, “It’s not unusual for<br />
Moms to come in with “idea books” filled with inspiration for their events.”<br />
One used to go to the florist, state the budget, and get a selection of two,<br />
maybe three alternatives for the occasion. “Today,” Herman says, “it’s all<br />
about translating the vision of the celebrant into a unique and exciting experience.”<br />
Herman makes his own vases and obtains unusual floral décor.<br />
“Everything is custom now”, Herman says, citing water pearls to keep flowers<br />
fresh in their vases, “I have buckets of them, in every color,” plus “gems”<br />
engraved with the celebrant’s name and date of the event scattered on the<br />
table instead of the old-timey printed matchbooks and cigarette holders<br />
which graced tables of yore. Interaction can take on a craft or gaming flavor,<br />
as well, and can include “make your own sandals”, video-gaming stations with<br />
ten screens for kids to play their favorite games, and basketball games like<br />
“Pop-A-Shot”. A strong network is Herman’s foundation and, while he has<br />
had Coral Springs Flowers and Events for about a year, he was a caterer and<br />
party planner at Tavern on the Green in New York City for eight years and<br />
managed floral decor at New York’s prestigious Garden City Water Club.<br />
Jeff Gold, of Platinum Gold entertainment, has been producing high-end<br />
events for 20 years and Platinum Gold has the advantage of having an<br />
actual event space with a capacity for 140 people. Gold, who has produced<br />
“million dollar” events all over the world, says, “It’s not how much money<br />
you spend, but how you spend your money.” Some advice Gold gives to<br />
parents and celebrants is, “Think about what your guests and family will<br />
remember one year afterwards. That will determine your priorities.<br />
Everything combined will make the event amazing but, what will people<br />
remember” Aunt Minnie falling down after trying to dance with one<br />
more whiskey sour than she maybe should have had doesn’t count. MC’s,<br />
dancers, DJ’s, variety acts, novelty entertainment and full video<br />
production all blend in a way to “produce a big event based on the family’s<br />
wants and needs, combined with the experience of a seasoned entertainment<br />
company.” Every other Tuesday, Platinum Gold hosts a Meet &<br />
Greet where prospective clients can see the venue and watch the entertainers<br />
going through their paces. “Sprinting through life, where each<br />
moment is a means to an end,” Gold says, “we create moments our clients<br />
take with them for the rest of their lives.” Gold continues, “<strong>The</strong>se events<br />
are four to five hours for people to pull out of the daily monotony to share<br />
love, laughter and camaraderie with family. <strong>The</strong>se moments that actually<br />
mean the most, that you will take with you, are a Celebration of Life.”<br />
Sources:<br />
www.wikipedia.com (Rites of Passage, Bar/Bat Mitzvah,<br />
Quinceanera, Sweet 16)<br />
www.mikesipeentertainment.com<br />
(enter Mike Sipe Entertainment or Pure Energy sites)<br />
www.ahotparty.com and www.ahotmitzvah.com<br />
www.coralspringsflowersandevents.com<br />
www.platinumgold.com<br />
Platinum Gold Entertainment<br />
Platinum Gold Entertainment<br />
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Post-Bar Mitzvah<br />
Stress Disorder<br />
By Judy Gruen<br />
Our youngest son has just celebrated his bar mitzvah, and I am recovering<br />
from a case of Post-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder. This is a seriously<br />
underreported malady, yet shockingly, the government has yet to allocate a<br />
single dollar to research.<br />
Post-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder (PBMSD) usually follows a case of<br />
Pre-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder, characterized by speed-dialing your caterer<br />
several times daily until you actually hear him chewing antacids while you<br />
speak; zipping around frantically on errands, leaving you only enough time to<br />
eat large brownies in the car (perversely, this still causes weight gain); and<br />
bursting into tears with no warning because your little boy is now a newly<br />
minted teen who has the audacity to catapult into puberty before your very eyes.<br />
My symptoms became acute as the weeks counted down to <strong>The</strong> Big Day.<br />
<strong>The</strong> following diary entries explain why:<br />
FIVE WEEKS BEFORE THE BAR MITZVAH: <strong>The</strong> invitations arrive, but the<br />
envelopes won’t seal shut. Wrestling the envelope flaps down with a hot<br />
glue gun for six hours eventually does the trick. I fail to pare down guest list.<br />
Like a powerful Hollywood party hostess, I withhold a batch of B-list<br />
invitees, pending the acceptance rates of other guests.<br />
FOUR WEEKS AND COUNTING: Son is still growing too fast to buy the suit. He<br />
practices his Torah chanting each night, perfecting the reading. But the boy<br />
will give his speech at 90 miles an hour. Is it too late to hire a speaking coach<br />
THREE WEEKS: Response cards arrive each day, many including checks. Son<br />
discovers that happiness is a positive cash flow! An alarming 90 percent of<br />
invitees have accepted! Cannot decide about B-list. Send to all anyway.<br />
TWO WEEKS: While meeting with caterer, son insists on a dinner menu of<br />
corn dogs and pasta. Fortunately, few 13-year-old boys are on the South<br />
Beach Diet. Musician nags me with repeat calls, urging me to hire his entire<br />
orchestra. I repeatedly refuse, reminding him this is not a presidential<br />
inauguration; it's just a bar mitzvah.<br />
ONE WEEK AND A HALF AWAY: Son still practices speech faster than a major<br />
league pitch. Consider speech printouts on each seat<br />
SEVEN DAYS AWAY! Musician, magician, and caterer all need deposits.<br />
Consider asking son for loan.<br />
SIX DAYS: Should I get a new dress I had planned to lose ten pounds for the<br />
occasion, but failed to take necessary actions. Decide to wear ivory colored<br />
spring suit, which still fits. <strong>The</strong> fraud detection department of my credit card<br />
company calls to warn me of an unusual amount of activity on my account.<br />
FIVE DAYS: Must get son’s suit now. Even if he grows another two inches this<br />
week, it will still fit. Son finds all formal shirts in the store too scratchy. I<br />
snag a hand-me-down shirt from the closet, worn at an older brother’s bar<br />
mitzvah. Finally, I save money!<br />
FOUR DAYS: Try to pre-arrange seating for family dinner. No configuration<br />
seems likely to prevent Uncle Harold from starting up with Cousin Norman<br />
about …what was that fight about, anyway Pray that Aunt Shirley takes her<br />
meds before arrival. Stock up on my supply of migraine pills … just in case.<br />
THREE DAYS: Call everyone who hasn’t sent in response card. Some remind<br />
me testily that they did send them in and I must have lost them. I lose my<br />
house keys.<br />
TWO DAYS: Caterer calls to report he can’t get the petit fours I had ordered,<br />
and a trucking strike on the east coast may mean we can’t get the sorbet,<br />
either. Default to bakery cookies. Photographer calls with an emergency,<br />
and she’ll send her trainee instead. Will that be okay<br />
DAY BEFORE: I supervise floral delivery to synagogue. Florist with heavy<br />
Italian accent assures me they will be “stupendous”, but doesn’t warn me<br />
they’re nearly as big as Mount Sinai and hardly fit through the door. At<br />
home, the phone won’t stop ringing. Everyone apologizes, since I must<br />
be so busy, but what time is the party called for Can they bring a niece<br />
who unexpectedly flew into town My keys have not shown up yet, and<br />
I lose my spare set as well. Next move: climbing through the window to<br />
get into the house.<br />
THE BIG DAY: Get up early enough to put in contact lenses and dress with<br />
care. While drinking a quick cup of coffee in the kitchen, a crisis erupts! <strong>The</strong><br />
dog rushes in from the yard, ecstatic at seeing me after an absence of seven<br />
minutes. He leaps up to greet me, festooning my ivory suit with muddy paw<br />
prints! I've got to leave for synagogue in three minutes, but have no plan B<br />
for another outfit. I race to my room and throw on a dark blue suit whose<br />
jacket won’t button all the way.<br />
Son chants his portion from the Torah beautifully. He looks both adorable<br />
and handsome in his suit, straddling that brief, shining moment between<br />
boyhood and manhood. Miraculously, he gives his speech slow enough for<br />
most people to hear. Sometimes, nagging pays off! In his speech, he thanks<br />
his father for taking him to Dodger games; me for correcting his grammar.<br />
He is in his glory, and I am in mine, even if my dress is too tight.<br />
FOUR DAYS LATER: <strong>The</strong> party goes smoothly. Some computer glitches make<br />
the music intermittent, and the silences are hard to explain. Several people<br />
wander into the hall, fill plates with food, and leave. I have never seen these<br />
people before in my life.<strong>The</strong> desserts are a big hit, especially the brownies. I<br />
could have told them that. Keys still MIA.<br />
FIVE DAYS LATER: My son’s 15 minutes of fame are over, and he is returning to<br />
life as a mere mortal. And each day, he continues his deployment into<br />
manhood, standing a little taller, his face and body becoming ever thinner.<br />
<strong>The</strong> next time I see his chubby cheeks, they'll be on my grandchildren. I am<br />
wildly happy that he is not embarrassed to say, "I love you, Mom."<br />
I am also nearly wildly happy that my keys finally turned up — in the<br />
backyard. My symptoms of Post-Bar Mitzvah Stress Disorder are<br />
dissipating at last. Mazal tov!<br />
Judy Gruen is the author of <strong>The</strong> Women’s Daily Irony Supplement.<br />
Read more of her work on www.judygruen.com.<br />
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By Lisa Minns<br />
I know. You are already confused. Try to stick with me here. Let me first<br />
explain the deep fried Twinkie idea. Basically, the only time you can get a<br />
deep friend Twinkie is once a year when the fair comes to town. People<br />
talk about what an oddity it is. <strong>The</strong> curious try it, and from what I’ve<br />
heard, those who are brave enough to try it, love it. It’s not necessarily<br />
something you yearn for or think of on a regular basis, but once in a while<br />
it pops into your head, ”Hmmm…a deep fried Twinkie would be pretty<br />
good right about now.” <strong>The</strong>n you start to see the ads for the fair and<br />
suddenly, it is all you can think of. You finally get to the fair and there it<br />
is…the deep fried Twinkie stand.<strong>The</strong>re might be a long line, but you don’t<br />
care. You won’t listen to those who know a deep fried Twinkie isn’t a good<br />
thing for you and try to tell you not to go there. For some reason, you just<br />
can’t resist it, even knowing how bad for you it is. You get one; you love it<br />
and enjoy every second of it. Within a few hours, your body sends you<br />
signals to help you remember just why they are so bad for you and why you<br />
are thankful they are not readily available.<br />
Now, think about your dating history. Everyone has a deep fried Twinkie<br />
in his or her life, be it past or present.<strong>The</strong>re is that one person who seems<br />
to be irresistible to you for some reason. You get together, you break up,<br />
you get over it, you stop thinking about them…then out of nowhere, and<br />
normally without much warning, bam! <strong>The</strong> deep fried Twinkie blows into<br />
your life again. It could be a phone call, or in my case most recently, an<br />
email. You know this person is not good for you, regardless of what your<br />
emotional self says, but you just can’t resist the pull they have over you.<br />
Before you know it, you are back in the old routine. Your life gets turned<br />
upside-down. Each time, you think maybe this will be the time things will<br />
work out. However, just as quickly as the Twinkie appeared, the Twinkie<br />
takes off again in some form.<br />
My Twinkie is an ex-boyfriend. It’s been years since we broke up. I had<br />
long since gotten over it all. I let go of the grudges and the hard feelings<br />
and put it in the universe’s hands to take care of him. <strong>The</strong>n, out of<br />
nowhere, I saw him there in my inbox. What in the world can he want<br />
now Our lives had gone in totally different directions. All of a sudden, all<br />
of the anger and hurt was right back at the surface. I didn’t want him back<br />
by any means, but the hurt was still there. True to form, just as quickly as<br />
he appeared, he disappeared. Just like a tornado, he blew into my life,<br />
wreaked all sorts of havoc and blew right back out again. Ok, fine,<br />
whatever. I let it go and again, didn’t give it a second thought. Months<br />
later…it happened again! You have got to be kidding me. Keep in mind<br />
we were childhood friends, so I really didn’t hold a grudge. This time<br />
around, he brought along an angry wife who was convinced I was trying to<br />
take her husband. Once I told her I would file for a restraining order if she<br />
didn’t leave me alone, I think she finally got the point. I don’t want him<br />
and didn’t want to be involved in their marriage drama.<br />
30 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong><br />
We all have a deep fried Twinkie in our lives. I can prove it…my friend’s<br />
Twinkie lives within walking distance of her. She knows logically the relationship<br />
is not healthy and doesn’t make her feel good. Yet, she just can’t<br />
resist the draw. Every time, without fail, she’s left feeling hurt and angry.<br />
Deep fried Twinkie. Another friend has named his Twinkie “kryptonite”.<br />
She appears, it stirs up all those old feelings he had long since tucked away<br />
and he turns his world inside out in an effort to see if it would work<br />
between them. Without warning, it’s all falling apart again. Deep fried<br />
Twinkie. We all have one. It really is just the natural order of life. <strong>The</strong>re’s<br />
always that one person who has some sort of special pull over<br />
you. Every now and then, the relationship with the<br />
Twinkie works. It can happen. However,<br />
if you keep going after the Twinkie<br />
and continue to be left feeling ill,<br />
gather the strength and step<br />
away from the Twinkie.<br />
Take a look at the funnel<br />
cake or buffalo<br />
chips for a change.
Parkland Library Events for <strong>September</strong> <strong>2009</strong><br />
Saturday, <strong>September</strong> 5th 1:00PM<br />
Film Viewing & Discussion:<br />
Fugitive Pieces (English subtitles)<br />
Athos is directing an archeological dig in Nazi-occupied Poland when<br />
he discovers a little boy hiding. After witnessing the massacre of members<br />
of his family, seven-year-old Jakob does not know the fate of his<br />
beloved sister Bella - a mystery that will haunt him for the rest of his life.<br />
As Jakob grows into a man, he becomes progressively more consumed by<br />
his family’s tragedy and his longing for Bella colors his relationships.<br />
Registration required. 954 757-4200.<br />
Wednesday, <strong>September</strong> 9th & 23rd 4:15PM<br />
Chess Club (ages 8 & up)<br />
Parkland Library Chess Club is for children, ages eight and up. Beginners<br />
can learn to play and players meet your match! You must be a Parkland<br />
Library cardholder to join. Children must be eight years or older.<br />
Registration required. 954 757-4200.<br />
Saturday, <strong>September</strong> 12th 10AM-1PM<br />
Used Book Sale<br />
In the library lobby, sponsored by the Parkland Friends of the Library.<strong>The</strong><br />
Friends Coffee Bar, selling coffees and teas (iced or hot), hot chocolate<br />
and bottled water, will be open during the fair. <strong>The</strong>re is also a nice selection<br />
of snack items for sale.<br />
Saturday, <strong>September</strong> 12th 10:30AM<br />
Book Discussion:<br />
All Over But <strong>The</strong> Shoutin’ By Rick Bragg<br />
All Over But <strong>The</strong> Shoutin’ is Rick Bragg’s gift to his mother. Bragg, a<br />
Pulitzer Prize winning reporter for <strong>The</strong> New York Times, has written a<br />
powerful memoir of growing up poor in the South. At the center of his<br />
story is his mother, raising her three sons to manhood. A deep understanding<br />
of the South is woven throughout the book, along with an appreciation<br />
of this region’s poorest people. Vivid memories crowd the book’s pages as<br />
Bragg writes of his upbringing: surrounded by an extended family, food,<br />
hard work, and racism. Registration required. 954 757-4200.<br />
Monday, <strong>September</strong> 14th 10:30AM<br />
Adult Craft at the Library<br />
Create your own beautiful greeting card featuring glittered butterflies<br />
or birds in mix and match sparkling colors. Registration required.<br />
954 757-4200.<br />
Tuesday, <strong>September</strong> 15th 6:30PM<br />
Reader’s Ring 4th and 5th grade book group<br />
Join us for our bi-monthly book chat for fourth and fifth graders. <strong>The</strong><br />
book selection for this month is Igraine the Brave by Cornelia Funke. We<br />
will talk about the book and eat a snack. Reserve your copy at the<br />
Parkland Library today. Registration required. 954-757-4200.<br />
Monday, <strong>September</strong> 21st 3:30PM<br />
Creative Kids: Autumn, Apples & Leaves (8 & up)<br />
Celebrate the fall season at the library! Listen to stories, create a colorful<br />
leaf and help to make a batch of homemade applesauce. Registration<br />
required. 954 757-4200.<br />
Every Friday 10:00AM -12:00PM<br />
Writer’s Café at the Parkland Library<br />
Poetry, novels, stories, memoirs and essays write with us at the Writer’s<br />
Café! Take coffee or sip tea with frivolous tasties. 954 757-4200.<br />
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By Margie Kaye<br />
Many homes are bought after buyers fall in love with the models they see; decorated from<br />
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many resale homes now on the market, making yours stand out to prospective clients can<br />
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P<br />
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it will show like a model in as little as one day.<br />
Whether it’s an empty house left behind to sell after the owner has<br />
already moved on to their new home, or an existing residence for sale<br />
and in need of some help, Aguirre stands by the credo “Less is more.”<br />
When called upon by realtors and private individuals to help sell<br />
their homes, Aguirre assesses the property and usually begins with<br />
the same piece of advice, “Let’s get some of this stuff out of here!”<br />
“<br />
when a stranger walks into your home,<br />
they need to picture themselves in that<br />
space; space being the operative word<br />
”<br />
According to Aguirre, studies have shown that seventy five percent of<br />
buyers lack the imagination to visualize a home fully decorated.<br />
Another problem, especially for realtors, is that rooms always appear<br />
twenty five percent smaller when they are empty. <strong>The</strong> opposite is true<br />
as well; crowded rooms appear to have less square footage.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> most valuable thing I can add to your home is square footage<br />
and that is what I do visually. It is just as important what I put into<br />
your home as what I take out of it. <strong>The</strong>re are three major problems<br />
I most often need to address with sellers: <strong>The</strong>y have too much<br />
clutter and furniture; they leave their personal items out<br />
everywhere, and they no longer see the wear and tear that exists in<br />
their home. By helping them resolve these problems, a whole new<br />
look emerges.”<br />
Face it. We are attached to our “stuff”. After all, we bought it, collected<br />
it, stored it and have enjoyed it for years. However, when a<br />
stranger walks into your home, they need to picture<br />
themselves in that space; space being the operative word.<br />
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clutter are put away from view.<br />
Clients are often amazed how much bigger and better their homes<br />
look just from having their belongings rearranged and toned down.<br />
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After<br />
“A coffee pot or toaster is not a decoration. Put it in the cupboard<br />
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in the home, therefore the square footage of the counter top is<br />
critical and looks more inviting without things everywhere!”<br />
Aguirre has spent the last seven years compiling an impressive<br />
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SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
MOM REPORT<br />
<strong>The</strong> Psychology of the Purse<br />
By Cheryl Pangborn<br />
I have made an observation about purses. In my opinion, a purse speaks volumes<br />
about what you’re all about. I looked up “purse” in the dictionary. It is<br />
listed as “a small bag or pouch for carrying money!” Sheesh, does that definition<br />
ever need to be updated! Who uses them to carry money Can anyone<br />
say plastic What about the “small” part of this definition Purses can<br />
practically be suitcases nowadays. Webster needs to get with the program.<br />
I am actually a “small purse person.” Once I get comfortable with a purse, I<br />
hardly ever change to another. I think women have gotten over that purse<br />
matching shoes deal of the 80’s and 90’s. All our fancy designer purses are<br />
“chic neutral” with their impressive designs and logos. My purse is a rectangle<br />
sling style that I wear across one shoulder resting on my hip. I love this<br />
style because it’s “hands free” so to speak. I believe what my purse says about<br />
me is that I am a minimalist. <strong>The</strong> contents of my purse include keys,<br />
which are relegated to the bottom. I have a keyless car feature and only enter<br />
my home via garage door opener, so the keys rarely make an appearance. I<br />
carry a tiny bifold credit card holder. I stopped carrying my checkbook,<br />
because let’s face it; writing a check is right up there with watching a movie<br />
on your VCR! I have my cell phone, which is more often in my hand than in<br />
the actual purse. Sunglasses are always perched on my head or, more likely,<br />
lost somewhere. I think I buy a new pair every two weeks. I carry mints.<br />
Wrapping up the stash is a pen and a small change purse for loose coins. I<br />
have no makeup in my purse, not even a lipstick. Once in a while I throw<br />
one in, forget about it, the top comes off and then I have mess. I don’t carry<br />
pics of the kids, hand sanitizer, a mirror or brush...you get the picture. I<br />
never have stray receipts in the side pockets for<br />
more than 24 hours. Did I call my self a<br />
minimalist, or a maniac<br />
When I was in the un-fashion<br />
friendly diaper bag stage, I didn’t<br />
carry a purse at all. I just put all the<br />
contents of my purse in a clear<br />
makeup bag, then chucked that<br />
in the diaper bag. After all, with<br />
baby on board carrying anything<br />
extra is just crazy. Of course, I<br />
noticed that when my sister had a<br />
diaper bag it was designer and pretty<br />
enough to be mistaken as a large<br />
purse. When mine were little, the<br />
choices were the blue truck design or the<br />
super sassy yellow duck motif…lovely.<br />
My mother and sister are into the<br />
giant purses. As long as I can<br />
remember my mom had a big<br />
purse or as she calls it “pocketbook.”<br />
She looks aghast<br />
when she sees the size of<br />
my purse and just doesn’t<br />
understand how it works<br />
for me. I often retort I don’t need to carry<br />
everything but the kitchen sink, but she<br />
just shakes her head in wonder. I’m sure<br />
there are things in my mom’s purse that<br />
have not seen the light of day in years.<br />
All her cell phone calls go to voicemail<br />
because it takes her 15 minutes<br />
to dive into the black hole to<br />
even find her phone. If she went<br />
through her purse, she would probably<br />
find she doesn’t need half of what she carries.<br />
Call my Mom the disorganizer.<br />
My sister on the other hand, is all about style and<br />
carries her big purses with pride because it is the<br />
pinnacle of “in style” I am pretty sure she can do an<br />
“emergency make-up” job being fully equipped with<br />
powder, lipstick, blush, etc. She probably has a brush.<br />
Maybe her IPOD for spur of the minute entertainment<br />
For her, it’s not about function as much as fashion. I<br />
would call her the “all about style” purse person.<br />
I have another friend who I would call “the practical.” Her purse is neither<br />
small nor large, but she has everything you could need in a pinch. Spill<br />
some salsa on your shirt Never fear, she has a Tide-To-Go stick. Pop a<br />
button She has a little sewing kit. Cut yourself with a steak knife Here’s<br />
a bandage with antiseptic. Wish you had a coupon for Oreos You guessed<br />
it…she has one in her purse!<br />
<strong>The</strong> reason I think this is all so funny, is because in each of these examples,<br />
the contents of the purse really does reflect the person! My practical<br />
friend is just like that at home. I promise you could call her up and ask to if<br />
she has a family-size jar of low salt, fat free turkey gravy in her pantry and<br />
she will have it for you My mother, of course, is a packrat in real life. I can<br />
always count on her to have some trinket or photo of my past that I would<br />
never have saved. My sister is all about her sense of style. She is totally hip<br />
on “what not to wear”.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n there’s me, Miss Minimalist Maniac. I rotate “stuff ” in and out of<br />
my life so fast; you might miss it if you blink. I opened up a Birthday card<br />
I got in the mail the other day, read it, and pitched it right in the trash. My<br />
husband, a fellow Minimalist, saw this and even he was a little shocked. I<br />
said to him, “Well, what am I gonna do with it. I read it, it was nice, there<br />
was no cash, I don’t need it now.” He said I was “a cold, cold woman.” I literally<br />
open my mail over the trashcan in the garage so I can ditch any junk<br />
before it even enters the house. I’m like that with everything. I just like to<br />
keep it simple, and what I carry in my purse says just that!<br />
What kind of purse do you have Think about it. Think about everyone<br />
you know who carries a purse…I guarantee you can get a good read on her.<br />
Now, when I am out and about, I check out the purses I see. I always wonder,<br />
“Lady, what do you have in there”<br />
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SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
HOME DESIGN<br />
By Jenny Velasquez, Décor & You<br />
Everyone has that one room. <strong>The</strong> room they just do not like. I received an email<br />
this week from a homeowner who has a decorating dilemma we can probably all<br />
relate to. “My family room is completely boring, I can’t spend any money to<br />
change it, and I don’t know what to do!”<br />
She has furniture she purchased on impulse. While she likes each piece individually<br />
enough to keep it, and all is too nice to sell at a garage sale, she doesn’t like the<br />
overall look.To complicate things, she has knick-knacks all around that have been<br />
given to her for every birthday, Mother’s Day and Christmas for the last twenty<br />
years. She quietly despises them all, but feels she must display them or her friends<br />
will be hurt and she will be removed from the family will!<br />
Stop the madness!!<br />
Let’s start with the basics…<br />
What purpose does this room serve for you and your family If it is like most<br />
family rooms, it is the center of the home. It is where everyone plops down and<br />
enjoys rare moments of free time in this crazy fast-paced life. Given that money is<br />
a concern for our writer, it is important to try to work with what is already there.<br />
First…make a cup of coffee or pour yourself a glass of a well-deserved cabernet<br />
and pull all of the trinkets off the shelves. Bring them to the kitchen table. Find a<br />
beautiful cardboard box and very graciously kiss each piece goodbye.Wrap them in<br />
tissue and place them in the box. Close and tape the box. Send this box to a special<br />
place in the attic, or even better, make some money by sending it to a consignment<br />
store.You will be surprised at what you can find in those stores…maybe something<br />
that works for your décor.<br />
Next, decide if you can live with the furniture. If you can, then work the color<br />
scheme accordingly. <strong>The</strong> rug is the best place to start to determine your color<br />
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…purchase a new focal point for the room. It could be<br />
something as little as a unique vase with beautiful<br />
florals and greenery to replace the knick-knacks.<br />
THE DECOR CHALLENGE continues on page 46
HOME DESIGN<br />
THE DECOR CHALLENGE continued from page 44<br />
palette. Find two or three colors<br />
you can work with and change<br />
things up a bit. Some new pillows<br />
may be all it takes to give you the<br />
change you need. If pillows won’t<br />
do it, take the plunge and purchase<br />
a new focal point for the room. It<br />
could be something as small as a<br />
unique vase with beautiful florals<br />
and greenery to replace the knickknacks.<br />
Consider an exquisite new<br />
piece of artwork that immediately<br />
catches your eye as you walk into<br />
the room. This is what I suggest to<br />
people who have a difficult time<br />
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Purchase the basic pieces<br />
with a moderate budget, but pick<br />
one perfect item that stands<br />
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HOME DESIGN<br />
Talin Lyman-Johnson Designing Woman<br />
By Jan Engoren<br />
Anyone who drove down AIA in Lauderdale-by-the-Sea when Mack’s Grove<br />
was still there got a chance to see Talin Lyman-Johnson’s colorful, 40 ft.<br />
tall, tropical mural. It was painted on the side of the fresh fruit and<br />
gift store where all Florida snowbirds stopped in the winter to ship<br />
a crate of fresh oranges to their friends and neighbors in the cold<br />
climes of New York and Boston.<br />
Talin’s father, a missionary, grew up in<br />
New York with many Armenian friends, and admired the Armenian<br />
name. Since the name is so unique,Talin, like Cher and Madonna before<br />
her, prefers to use only her first name.<br />
<strong>The</strong> mural on Macks’ Grove, with billboard-sized pineapples,<br />
mangoes, oranges, and other tropical fruits graced with red, pink and<br />
raspberry-colored hibiscus flowers, was representative of Talin’s style.<br />
Big, bold, vibrant florals, colors à la Dorothy Draper and tropical<br />
motifs are her passion.<br />
“I love tropical climates, foliage and flowers. Even in historic<br />
paintings and frescos those elements are beautiful and exotic. Now it has<br />
gained popularity, but that theme always appeals to me,”Talin says.<br />
On a recent trip to California,Talin came home with a roll of film, not<br />
of people, but of all the unusal and exotic flowers and plants she found<br />
in California. <strong>The</strong>se photos will inspire her design of fabric, murals,<br />
rugs, and paintings.<br />
She adds, “I like to think of my designs as classic and traditional with<br />
a twist.”<br />
For a small, antique boomerang table she<br />
was commissioned to decorate, Talin<br />
embellished the outside in a traditional<br />
faux bamboo design, but when the top of<br />
the oblong table opens up, a small<br />
surprise is lurking there …Talin has<br />
fashioned the head of an alligator<br />
surfacing through the water.<br />
To the casual viewer, the piece is classic<br />
and sophisticated, but the client and the<br />
designer share a secret – look further and<br />
you will see Talin’s sense of humor, or<br />
what she calls her “crazy side.”<br />
Besides nature, her true inspirations and<br />
influences are the French design houses<br />
of Boussac, Manuel Canovas and Pierre<br />
Frey. “Boussac is my<br />
favorite design house.<br />
Boussac is classic, yet it<br />
has very contemporary<br />
appeal. <strong>The</strong> colors are<br />
fabulous and the subject matter is mostlybotanical, foliage, or whimsy.<br />
It is very detailed and very usable in any decor, and it looks elegant.”<br />
Talin, 47, the mother of a 14-year old daughter, a full-time art teacher,<br />
designer, painter and entrepreneur, is a one-woman powerhouse. In<br />
addition to running art camps for children and teaching art classes to<br />
adults,Talin teaches music and art full-time at the St. Mark’s Catholic<br />
School in Boynton Beach.<br />
A music major in college, Talin switched to art and earned degrees in<br />
both fine art and music from Queens University of Charlotte, as well as<br />
a degree in ancient painting techniques from <strong>The</strong> Fresco School<br />
in Athens, Greece. She studied portraiture with Daniel Greene,<br />
considered by some to be the foremost pastelist in the United States,<br />
and studied trompe l’oeil techniques at the Langnickel Institute in<br />
London, England.<br />
Not a prima donna, Talin will climb a scaffold herself to paint murals<br />
and frescoes freehand. She has been<br />
known to hang from a ladder for 5 days in<br />
pursuit of the perfectly painted pattern.<br />
She does not use stencils, projectors or<br />
trace her designs.<br />
“It is easy to come up with new ideas. I<br />
have so many ideas, the more difficult<br />
part is how to get my ideas produced,<br />
fabricated and marketed. I am my own<br />
sales and PR person.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> first step in the creative process for<br />
Talin is to come up with an original<br />
design pattern. She sketches a design on<br />
paper and decides if she likes it enough<br />
to continue on with it. If the design gets<br />
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In Delray Beach, where she works and teaches, Talin has created colorful<br />
wall murals for the preppy, Snappy Turtle clothing store, the<br />
upscale Paradise Salon Café and Spa and Ironwood Properties.<br />
Clients often come to Talin and ask her to create something unique.<br />
She has customized a pair of golf shoes in black and white checks, offset<br />
by colorful dots in pink and purple for a client, whose friends then<br />
all wanted the same thing.<br />
Talin’s clients include a Disney resort, a Chinese Ambassador to the<br />
U.S., the Intercontinental hotel chain and a former U.S. Vice-<br />
President.<br />
Her decorative arts and fabric designs have been featured on the cover<br />
and interiors of Architectural Digest, Veranda <strong>Magazine</strong> and Florida<br />
Design <strong>Magazine</strong>.<br />
the go-ahead, Talin comes up with what in the business is called a<br />
“repeat.” This is the theme of the fabric and the motif, which will be<br />
duplicated in a recurring pattern. This is a critical step in the creation<br />
process and not all designs lend themselves to repetition.<br />
Currently, Talin is installed in a 1,800 sq. ft. studio in the design district<br />
of Boca Raton, in Rogers Circle in the Floor Fashions Building.<br />
Talin will do a mock-up and lay out the repeat to see how it looks. If it<br />
passes her critical judgement, she will then think about tie-ins to<br />
augment the initial design. For example, if a bedspread has a repeating<br />
flower and vine print,Talin may consider just the vine print for the<br />
bedskirt or just a matching or complementary color for the curtains.<br />
Each piece is only a chapter in the full story she is weaving. Her<br />
creations are light-hearted, as is she.<br />
Her student, Susie Elkins, 53, of Delray Beach says, “Talin is a great<br />
teacher and designer. She is always laughing, always happy. I walked<br />
by her studio in Delray one day and was captivated by her and her<br />
bold designs. I immediately signed up for her classes. She is a very<br />
encouraging teacher and has helped change my style from overly<br />
meticulous and symmetrical to more free flowing and open and I am<br />
now willing to take more chances with my art.”<br />
Her border designs - named for locales in Delray Beach, such as Atlantic<br />
Avenue, Pineapple Grove and Swinton Avenue - include images of<br />
lizards, pineapples, hibiscus flowers, lillies and chrysanthemums.<br />
Her fabrics and designs are for sale, mostly to-the-trade in the first<br />
floor showroom, although walk-ins are welcome.<br />
<strong>The</strong> studio is upstairs in a large, unairconditioned room, where two<br />
large fans circulate the air. It is here, with her students’ artwork<br />
adorning the walls, paint spatters on the tables and dropcloths, where<br />
Talin teaches. She believes everyone has talent and can develop their<br />
painting skills.<br />
Her next endeavor is a June 2010 trip with her students to northern<br />
California wine country. Says Talin, “I’ve been dreaming of doing a<br />
‘Cork-and-Canvas’ tour of the Napa Valley for a while. We will stay<br />
for a week or two at different vineyards, sampling the local wine and<br />
painting in the vendages.”<br />
As artistic nourishment, both travel and wine are as good for creativity<br />
and inspiration as botanical gardens in bloom. Who knows After<br />
this Sideways-inspired tour, Talin may come up with some new border<br />
designs named, appropriately, Napa, Chardonnay and Pinot-Noir.<br />
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For more information on the Cork-and-Canvas tour, to sign up for<br />
classes or to see Talin’s Designs, please visit: www.talintropic.com.<br />
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HOME MARKET<br />
<strong>The</strong> South Florida<br />
Real Estate Climate<br />
50 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong><br />
By Mattie Howard & Cheryl Simone-Miller<br />
IT LOOKS LIKE there are reasons to be<br />
cautiously optimistic about the real estate market in<br />
South Florida.<br />
According to the National Association of Realtors (NAR),<br />
pending home sales across the nation are up for the fifth consecutive<br />
month. That is the first time in six years for such a streak.<br />
Local real estate agent Kate Fontenot says, “It’s a combination of<br />
buyer’s sentiment getting better…interest rates remaining low and<br />
the inventory of houses on the market tightening some.”<br />
NAR chief economist Lawrence Yun does suggest anyone in the<br />
market who is a first-time buyer move quickly. “Because it may<br />
take as long as two months to close on a home after signing a<br />
contract, first-time buyers must act fairly soon to take advantage<br />
of the $8,000 tax credit because they must close on the sale by<br />
November 30.” Paul Zwanger with First Choice Realty says<br />
that the tax credit is making for some activity, “As a result, prices<br />
are stabilizing and even rising somewhat. Inventory has also been<br />
cut in half.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> Parkland Twins, Maria Mulligan and Michelle Nicholson,<br />
say consumers are more educated on the market these days. “Many<br />
more short sales and bank-owned properties are becoming<br />
foreclosed properties now. Those are at rock bottom prices in any<br />
given community. People see value in these properties and are<br />
buying them. <strong>The</strong>y’re starting to understand where the market is.”<br />
Other good news in the real estate market…fewer South Florida<br />
homeowners owe more on their homes than the homes are worth.<br />
Only 16.6 percent of Dade, Broward and Palm Beach homes have<br />
negative equity this year, as compared to 47.7percent in 2008.<br />
Yun does note “a monthly rise in home prices and…mortgage<br />
interest rates led to a modest decline in affordability in June.” A<br />
median-income family earning $60,700 could afford a home<br />
costing $289,100 in June, with a 20 percent down payment.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Pending Home Sales index in the South, which looks at total<br />
contracts signed, jumped 7.1 percent to 100.7 in June and is 8.9<br />
percent higher than a year ago.<br />
Yun expects existing-home sales to gradually rise over the balance<br />
of the year, with conditions varing around the country. “It appears<br />
home sales are on a sounder footing and inventory is gradually<br />
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<strong>The</strong> Year’s Hottest Trends<br />
for Kitchen and Bath<br />
W<br />
Wondering what the hottest trends in kitchens and baths are <strong>The</strong><br />
National Kitchen & Bath Association selected ten design elements<br />
that clearly stood out in the <strong>2009</strong> NKBA Design Competition.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> trends spotted in this year’s competition are a great example<br />
of what’s to come in kitchen and bath design,” said Suzie Williford,<br />
President, National Kitchen and Bath Association. “Each new<br />
trend will help turn a room into a well-designed, classic space.”<br />
Steel Counters<br />
Stainless steel is emerging as a new countertop favorite in kitchen design<br />
by creating a sleek, modern look that ties in perfectly with stainless steel<br />
appliances. It’s part of a styling trend that combines the ingredients of a<br />
commercial-style kitchen with the warmth of cherry cabinets and natural<br />
stone floors, creating a room that is efficient, yet comfortable.<br />
Black and White Kitchens<br />
Eschewing color, dramatic black and white color schemes are becoming<br />
the norm with its contrast to one another in both value and sheen. <strong>The</strong><br />
versatility and functional design create visual interest while blending<br />
together for a simple feeling.<br />
Mirror, Mirror Off <strong>The</strong> Wall<br />
Flush-mounted bathroom wall mirrors are starting to yield to more<br />
creative placements. We’re seeing mirrors popping up as freestanding<br />
furniture pieces, including back-to-back mirrors, sinks and faucets to<br />
provide a clear his-and-hers space.<br />
Resin Panels<br />
Tile and stone backsplashes are still popular, but this year we’ve seen a<br />
number of designs with backsplashes made of interesting items such as<br />
fabric, mesh and bamboo encased in plastic panels. <strong>The</strong>se items create a<br />
unique look that complements the accents and countertops.<br />
Steel counters<br />
Tin Ceilings<br />
Tin ceilings are being increasingly used to add more visual interest to<br />
kitchens and symmetrical focal points.<br />
Floating Cabinets<br />
To create a cleaner, more open feel, many of the latest bathroom designs<br />
are eliminating cabinet legs and toe kicks in favor of floating, wallmounted<br />
units. This leaves a large open area beneath the cabinet,<br />
making the room feel more spacious.<br />
Stone Hearths<br />
Huge, dramatic hearths made of natural stone are becoming more<br />
common in kitchens.<br />
Shoji Screens<br />
<strong>The</strong> Asian-influenced shoji screen is now gaining popularity in a number<br />
of kitchen designs as they provide separation between kitchens and other<br />
living spaces when needed, while still allowing light to pass through.<br />
Chrome is Back<br />
After years of yielding to finishes like brushed nickel and oil-rubbed<br />
bronze, polished chrome is making a comeback, particularly in bathrooms.<br />
Glass Elements<br />
<strong>The</strong> use of glass was very prominent in the kitchens seen in <strong>2009</strong>, but not<br />
in traditional places. Glass is turning up in countertops and backsplashes.<br />
Shoji screens<br />
<strong>The</strong> National Kitchen & Bath Association (NKBA) is a non-profit trade<br />
association that owns the Kitchen/Bath Industry Show & Conference.<br />
With over 40,000 members, the NKBA has educated and led the<br />
kitchen and bath industry for more than 45 years. <strong>The</strong> mission of the<br />
NKBA is to enhance member success and excellence, promote<br />
professionalism and ethical business practices, and provide leadership<br />
and direction for the kitchen and bath industry worldwide<br />
52 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
HOME DESIGN HUMOR<br />
Be Kind to Your Interior Designer<br />
(It isn’t as easy as it looks.)<br />
By Victoria Landis<br />
Once upon a time, I did interior design. I was in my twenties and full of<br />
inspiration and bright ideas. I managed to work my way up to some<br />
pretty fancy projects. <strong>The</strong>n I got married, had children, and took time<br />
off. When I needed to go back to the world of paid working people, I<br />
chose not to return to interior design. Here’s why.<br />
Clients. <strong>The</strong>re are several types. Those who know what they want. Those<br />
who don’t know, but trust you to guide them and give them a great result.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n there are those who haven’t a clue what they like, don’t trust anyone,<br />
and second-guess your every move. This category also tends to use their<br />
hired help—including designers—as excuses and scapegoats.<br />
<strong>The</strong> jobs for the clients in the first two categories usually go very well. It’s<br />
a win-win for everybody. It’s the third category that’ll make you want to<br />
hang yourself by the drapery cords. I suppose had I stayed in that line of<br />
work, I’d have gotten a lot better at spotting and avoiding them.<br />
<strong>The</strong> goofiest things happen in this industry. One inebriated client<br />
chased after a deliveryman with a cocktail sword. Another made the<br />
plumber take a shower in the new shower stall to test out the hot water<br />
safety gizmo. One contractor knocked down the wrong wall with a<br />
sledgehammer, and then quit when we raised a fuss. An inexperienced<br />
delivery driver backed up the wrong way and launched the back of the<br />
truck into a reflecting pool.<br />
I lost one job because the woman asked me to include an expensive<br />
hand-painted screen in the design and keep it a secret, telling me it was a<br />
surprise for her husband. When the screen appeared in his living room,<br />
he had a fit and started yelling at his wife in front of me. She then<br />
turned, and pointing at me, said, “It’s her fault. I told her not to include<br />
it, but she insisted you’d learn to like it, and we should buy it anyway.”<br />
Ooh. Backstab. Ouch.<br />
Another couple couldn’t figure what they did or didn’t like. Every move<br />
I made, they brought in other people to see if they liked it.This was after<br />
they’d approved everything. When the painter finished one wall in the<br />
bedroom, the client made him stop and wait while the client fetched the<br />
doorman from downstairs. He hustled the doorman into the apartment<br />
and asked him if he like the color, which was a pale sage green. <strong>The</strong><br />
doorman said, “No. Not my kind of color. I like blue.” <strong>The</strong> client turned<br />
to me and said, “What do you think about blue” My eyes glazed over.<br />
We’d already been through every paint chip known to man, and I<br />
thought the color issue had been finally settled.<br />
<strong>The</strong> same couple invited their poodle clipper (no, I am not exaggerating)<br />
home to tell them what she thought of the wallpaper in the den. <strong>The</strong><br />
poodle clipper didn’t like the wallpaper. <strong>The</strong> woman wore heavy-blue eye<br />
shadow, purple fake fingernails, a leopard print<br />
blouse, and bright neon-green pants. Why<br />
would anyone want to know what suited her<br />
taste I don’t know.<br />
Regarding the same couple—yes, it was a<br />
job from h-e-double toothpicks. <strong>The</strong> wife’s mother didn’t<br />
like the chandelier the wife and I spent four shopping<br />
trips finding. <strong>The</strong> wife loved it, had to have it. Clapped<br />
and squealed with glee as the electrician connected it and then flipped the<br />
switch. Her mother said it was too small. Down it came, and back it went.<br />
I lost another job because of a hunky tile installer, “Joe”. I’d done maybe<br />
five jobs with him with no problems whatsoever. Joe was very goodlooking<br />
and very muscular. <strong>The</strong> clients were a married couple with a few<br />
kids. <strong>The</strong> wife was a stay-at-home mom. As the tile job progressed, I<br />
stopped by daily to check on the work, to make sure things were up to<br />
snuff. It was a large job with some intricate patterns in the entry. I noticed<br />
the wife wearing less and less around the house as the job went on, until all<br />
she wore was a skimpy bikini. When I left that day, they both still had<br />
clothes on—she lying by the pool, and he laying tile in the front hall. I<br />
remember thinking,“Oh, boy, there’s trouble,” but I couldn’t imagine she’d<br />
do more than flirt. She did.<strong>The</strong> husband came home early and caught Joe<br />
and his wife doing things they shouldn’t have been doing. He fired me.<br />
Like I could have stopped them.<br />
On top of silly clients, your interior designer has to deal with factories that<br />
don’t notify them when something’s backordered, even though they said<br />
they would. <strong>The</strong> designer ends up believing things are on schedule.<br />
Sewing workrooms can misread dimensions and produce draperies for<br />
midget houses. I once had to send back an order for full-length, ten-foot<br />
long draperies.<strong>The</strong>y’d made them four-feet long despite the confirmation<br />
they’d sent me with the correct measurements. Which meant re-ordering<br />
and waiting all over again for the fabric, and arguing with the sewing<br />
people as to why they shouldn’t be paid. And then being yelled at by the<br />
client for holding up the job.<br />
So, if you have, or are contemplating using, a designer, do yourselves a<br />
huge favor. Once you establish the professional you choose does indeed<br />
know what they’re doing, and that you like the projects they’ve done<br />
before—let them do it. If you have a phone call with your designer and<br />
he or she sounds somewhat distracted, be nice. It may be they’ve just<br />
gotten off a call from a woman who claims they’re at fault for the client’s<br />
cat ripping the new silk chairs to shreds. Or, if the next time you see your<br />
designer and there’s a faint glimmer of lunacy in her eyes, try to<br />
understand that perhaps the pool man’s girlfriend’s manicurist has just<br />
decided pink ruffles are the way to go for the bed skirt.<br />
54 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
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Thrifty Decorating<br />
By Cheryl Simone-Miller<br />
Sometimes, you just feel the need to do a little redecorating. Maybe you would like to add a new decorative<br />
element or piece of furniture to your space, but don’t want to spend a lot of money doing it. Area thrift stores and<br />
antique shops can offer great deals on pieces with big impact. We checked out a few finds at local spots where<br />
the inventory changes all the time. You might just find exactly what you had in mind!<br />
At $2400, it’s not a<br />
bargain find. If unique and<br />
one-of-a-kind is what you’re<br />
after, then this 1860 Victorian<br />
credenza certainly fits the bill.<br />
This hammock chair in a<br />
beautiful shade of green was<br />
only $89.<br />
Antiques & More<br />
9371 W. Sample Road, Coral Springs<br />
Proceeds from items purchased here support the Child<br />
Development Centers. Blue denim couch $190.<br />
Florence Fuller Thrift Shops<br />
141 NW 20th Street in Boca Raton.<br />
Purchase items here and support Goodwill’s<br />
efforts to provide education, training, and career<br />
services for people with disadvantages, including<br />
homelessness and physical, mental and emotional<br />
disabilities.<br />
Decorative<br />
print in new<br />
condition<br />
was $15.<br />
Assorted lamps, many quite<br />
unique, were $6 to $10.<br />
Goodwill Industries Thrift Store<br />
2057 N. State Road 7, Margate.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Coral Springs location is at<br />
10369 Royal Palm Boulevard.<br />
Every Monday, everything in<br />
the store is 50% off and<br />
various sales on certain<br />
color-coded tickets are<br />
run all week.<br />
This antique sewing<br />
table needs a little refurbishing,<br />
but it was only $99.<br />
Perfect as a side table<br />
or a vanity.<br />
An antique lamp needing new wiring was $14.99.<br />
Thrift Addiction<br />
1041 N. State Road 7, Margate<br />
Your purchase<br />
helps support<br />
victims of various<br />
natural disasters,<br />
including hurricanes,<br />
and provides financial<br />
assistance to a variety of Jewish,<br />
youth-based and arts programs.<br />
Comfy chair from Thomasville. $119.00<br />
Levis JCC Thrift Shop<br />
141 NW 20th Street, Boca Raton.<br />
Large, thick glass table with metal<br />
base was $200.<br />
Huge assortment of silver and silver<br />
plated items ran $2 to $15.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Women in Distress<br />
Blooming Sales Thrift Store<br />
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Various sales are held all week. <strong>The</strong>re is the<br />
added benefit of your purchase helping support<br />
their mission to provide victims of domestic<br />
violence with safe shelter, crisis intervention<br />
and resources, and to educate the community<br />
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HOME CRAFTS<br />
Got Shells Make a Seashell Mosaic<br />
By Lois Crockett<br />
L<br />
LIVE IN FLORIDA GOT KIDS <strong>The</strong>n you’ve got shells, for sure. All kids pick up shells, bits of shells<br />
and other flotsam and jetsam at the beach, and then come home with pockets filled with their<br />
“wonders of the sea.”<br />
All shells are good, even bits and pieces. Anything that caught your eye in that vast expanse of<br />
beach sand and compelled you to pick it up is certainly worth keeping. Once you’ve filled the<br />
decorative shell bowl (every south Florida house should have one), all the potpourri dishes and a little<br />
bucket by the washer with the “findings” from your kids’ pockets after a day at the beach, now what<br />
Sooner or later, it’s going to rain. A less-than-perfect day is great for reliving your fun times by the<br />
beach by making a seashell mosaic. This craft is cheap, easy and fun as well as enforcing the<br />
crafter’s mantra “renew-reuse-recycle.”<br />
Start with something old and useless lying around the house like that<br />
old picture frame loaded with doo-dads, a precious gift from your<br />
Aunt Molly years ago you’ve been loathe to toss in case she ever<br />
comes over and asks about it. Little boxes, wood or plastic, are great<br />
starter pieces as well. High-end professional crafters, such as Helen<br />
Beck of Sanibel Island, make actual pictures and portraits out of<br />
shells. If you find you wind up loving the craft, as well as love<br />
collecting sea shells, you can be inspired to make any number of<br />
home décor items…tables, pictures, borders (over a door or portico,<br />
like at the Bonnet House in Fort Lauderdale), but whoa, Nelly! This<br />
is way ahead of us for the moment. If you don’t have anything old and<br />
useless lying around the house (mothers-in-law are not fair game), a<br />
quick trip to your local dollar store will remedy your supply. While<br />
you’re there, pick up some inexpensive glue and cheap sponges then<br />
head over to the craft store for acrylic paint and grout.<br />
When you get home, look at the article you’ll be working with – for<br />
example, a picture frame. If it’s your Aunt Molly’s, knock off all the<br />
doo-dads (a little kitchen knife or single-edge razor blade works well)<br />
so it’s nice and plain. Get a piece of paper and trace an outline of the<br />
frame on the paper. Measure and draw the inside of the frame, too.<br />
Now you’ve got a backdrop for laying out the shells. Start with the big<br />
shells first, and then fill in with the little shells and bits. <strong>The</strong> beauty of<br />
working on the paper is that you can shift and re-place whatever you<br />
want where you like it. When it’s all set in place, take a step back and<br />
look. Now you can tweak the design. Some people even add faux<br />
pearls or jewels, bits of coral and other beach findings.<br />
As you study your design, one color should come to your minds’ eye as<br />
dominant. This will be the background color of your picture frame. It<br />
might be pink, off-white, beige like the shells and sand, or blue or<br />
blue-green like the ocean. Whatever works best. Paint the picture<br />
frame with your color choice and let it dry overnight. Protect your<br />
shell design from pets and kids by mounting it on a cookie sheet and<br />
store it in a safe place while the painted picture frame dries.<br />
<strong>The</strong> next step is to glue the shells onto the surface of the frame. Again,<br />
begin with gluing the large shells and fill in with little shells and bits.<br />
Don’t worry if there’s a bit of overlap or shortage. It’s really nothing<br />
specific or exacting, more about what’s pleasing to your eye. Tweezers<br />
are good for placing little shells and bits.<br />
Mix the grout according to manufacturers’ directions and apply with<br />
your fingers and/or a spatula to get it in all the nooks and crannies.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re will be a bit of grout on the shells, so take a damp sponge and<br />
carefully remove it from the shells. Let the grout dry and buff the<br />
shells with a soft cloth to a pretty sheen.<br />
Now – get creative! <strong>The</strong>re is clear, clear iridescent pink, and sandcolored<br />
glitter available in craft stores. A daub of glue strategically<br />
placed and the application of glitter in modest amounts will make<br />
your work mimic the sparkling sea.<br />
All done Put a picture of you and the person you collected the shells<br />
with in the frame and enjoy! Now you’ve got to get back to the beach<br />
for more shells! You know to leave the live mollusks in their shells<br />
(that’s their home!) and collect only the empties.<br />
Supplies:<br />
• Shells, large, small, bits, and/or flotsam and jetsam (coral,<br />
pebbles, small pieces of driftwood, etc.)<br />
• Old picture frame, small wood or plastic box<br />
• Paper and pencil<br />
• Acrylic paint & brush<br />
• Glitter: clear, pink iridescent, etc.<br />
• Grout, water, mixing bowl & spatula<br />
• Cheap sponges<br />
• Soft cloth<br />
• Glue<br />
• Brush to apply glue and<br />
glitter at the end<br />
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By Pat Heydlauff<br />
With fall just around the corner, schedules are<br />
about to move into full speed ahead. After a busy,<br />
or perhaps, a really laid-back summer, are you<br />
motivated and ready to get back into your fall<br />
schedule Do you need a “jump start” to get going, but just<br />
don’t know how to get powered up again<br />
Getting started on projects you’ve ignored for weeks, all<br />
Wsummer, maybe even years, can be quite a chore. If you’ve<br />
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a teaspoon. When tackling your mountain-sized project, approach it the<br />
same way you would move the sand pile…one teaspoonful at a time.<br />
Re-energizing or jump-starting yourself is really much easier than you<br />
might think. <strong>The</strong>re are three easy steps to follow.<br />
FIRST, decide today is the day to begin. Once you have made that<br />
decision you have put into play all of the necessary energy shifts you will<br />
need to move forward. When it comes to personal actions, energy follows<br />
intent. By making a commitment to yourself to begin that much overdue<br />
project, be it uncluttering closets, cupboards and panty, or ________ (you<br />
fill in the blank), your personal energy will follow your intent. Feng Shui<br />
is all about using positive energy, in this case the positive energy of self<br />
motivation or re-energizing, to bring about desired results, which is<br />
getting on with the projects, events or procrastinations you’ve been<br />
putting off.<br />
SECOND, get a pencil and paper so you can make a list of all of the<br />
projects, issues or events that need to be taken care of. Once you have<br />
placed everything on your “Will do” list, carefully review it to find the<br />
single most important item on the list that would give you the best energy<br />
boost if you no longer had to worry about it. Make it #1 on your list.<br />
Review each of the other items on the list giving them an appropriate<br />
value of importance. Now, you have a plan. Just creating the plan is very<br />
motivating. Once you see your plan clearly, you will also see you have<br />
become focused and energized about getting those items done.<br />
THIRD, get started on item #1. <strong>The</strong> most important way to motivate<br />
yourself is to take action. You will immediately feel energized. You<br />
will also feel in control, not at the mercy of the projects, events or issues<br />
you’ve been dreading to tackle. Taking action means you’ve moved one<br />
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LEGAL ISSUES<br />
Litigation<br />
vs.<br />
Collaborative<br />
Family Law<br />
By Nancy Brodzki<br />
Traditional divorce and paternity actions get filed in court and follow a process known as litigation. Whether a party hires an attorney or<br />
represents themselves, certain procedures have to be followed, deadlines have to be met, rules must be followed, and papers have to be<br />
filed and exchanged between the parties. Mediation is required in all cases before a final trial can be held. <strong>The</strong> Courts require parties to make<br />
a good faith attempt to settle the case before the Judge will conduct a trial and render a decision. Along the way, other things may happen.<br />
Issues often arise during the pendency of the case, requiring court intervention. In that case, a hearing is scheduled in front of the Judge<br />
or the General Magistrate. Attorneys may take the depositions of the parties and other witnesses. <strong>The</strong> Court will eventually schedule case<br />
management hearings to determine the status of the case and set it for trial. <strong>The</strong>re are hearings specifically for scheduling trials.<br />
Traditional divorce and paternity actions get filed in court and follow a<br />
process known as litigation. Whether a party hires an attorney or<br />
represents themselves, certain procedures have to be followed, deadlines<br />
have to be met, rules must be followed, and papers have to be filed and<br />
exchanged between the parties. Mediation is required in all cases before<br />
a final trial can be held. <strong>The</strong> Courts require parties to make a good faith<br />
attempt to settle the case before the Judge will conduct a trial and render<br />
a decision. Along the way, other things may happen. Issues often arise<br />
during the pendency of the case, requiring court intervention. In that<br />
case, a hearing is scheduled in front of the Judge or the General<br />
Magistrate. Attorneys may take the depositions of the parties and other<br />
witnesses. <strong>The</strong> Court will eventually schedule case management<br />
hearings to determine the status of the case and set it for trial. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />
hearings specifically for scheduling trials.<br />
<strong>The</strong> litigation process is stressful for clients. Seemingly arbitrary<br />
deadlines can be terribly inconvenient. Time from work or family is<br />
often missed to attend hearings, depositions, mediations, and meetings<br />
with your attorney at his or her office. To the client in a hurry to get the<br />
whole thing over with, the process can seem interminably slow. On the<br />
other hand, the process can be inflexibly demanding and can move at<br />
such a rapid pace so as to seem to consume your life.<br />
Depositions are extremely stressful for most clients. Answering<br />
questions for hours is more difficult than it seems. Clients often feel<br />
defensive or even insulted when asked extremely personal questions that<br />
frequently come up in family cases. While some attorneys are pleasant<br />
enough during their questioning, many are not. Particularly aggressive<br />
and combative attorneys cause even more heightened anxiety for the<br />
person answering the questions.<br />
Mediation is where the overwhelming majority of cases are resolved.<br />
Mediation itself is a tense negotiation session, causing stress and anxiety<br />
for the parties. Even sitting in separate rooms, going back and forth<br />
through the mediator, arguing over all the many details that make up<br />
the average settlement agreement can be grueling. After hours of<br />
negotiating back and forth, clients are sometimes too emotionally<br />
exhausted to make sound, reasoned choices.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n there is the ultimate finale to litigation: the trial. You have<br />
a limited amount of time in which to present a large amount of<br />
information to a total stranger, who has had little opportunity to<br />
become familiar with the facts of your case. Trial is not a conversation<br />
where each party simply gets to tell their side of the story, hand the<br />
Judge a stack of papers, and wait for the ruling. When done properly,<br />
trial is a highly choreographed ritual, with questions asked and answers<br />
given, establishment of the elements and details of the case and with<br />
evidence offered for the Court to review to assist in making the final<br />
determination. While the Judges and Magistrates of our Family Courts<br />
in Broward and Palm Beach Counties are fine jurists, they will be the<br />
first to admit they make mistakes, and that people are better off settling<br />
their differences whenever possible without the Court’s intervention.<br />
Justice is not always what happens at the courthouse. Oftentimes, the<br />
truth does not prevail.<br />
A good family lawyer knows how to reduce the stress caused by the<br />
process. Keeping the client informed about what is happening, and what<br />
is going to happen at all stages of the process cuts down on the client’s<br />
anxiety. Returning phone calls and emails in a timely manner is<br />
common courtesy, but it has the added benefit of easing the client’s<br />
mind quickly. Sending copies of all documents sent and received in the<br />
case lets the clients see for themselves exactly what is going on. Family<br />
law has to be more than just knowing what papers to file when. It is an<br />
emotional process as much as it is a legal process, and a lawyer who<br />
doesn’t address that is doing his or her client a disservice.<br />
Clients would be well advised to see a therapist to help them in this<br />
tumultuous time. Don’t underestimate the amount of stress a family law<br />
case can cause you, and the effects that stress can have on you. Your<br />
lawyer is your legal team leader. A good therapist is your emotional team<br />
leader. Friends are wonderful…but our friends have agendas of which<br />
they aren’t even aware. <strong>The</strong>y think they’re doing what’s best for you<br />
by giving you their well-intentioned advice. A therapist has only one<br />
agenda: your emotional and psychological well-being.<br />
<strong>The</strong> best alternative to litigation is Collaborative Family Law.<br />
Collaborative law is a unique process where both clients hire separate<br />
attorneys whose only job is to help the clients settle their disputes. All<br />
participants agree to work together in a collaborative manner. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
agree to be respectful and honest, and to participate in good faith to try<br />
to reach an agreement that meets both clients’ interests. If the case does<br />
not settle in the collaborative process, the lawyers must withdraw and<br />
cannot participate in court proceedings. This agreement requires the<br />
lawyers and the clients to look at the resolution process differently.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no posturing, threatening or deception. Everyone puts all their<br />
proverbial cards on the table.<br />
<strong>The</strong> collaborative process primarily entails informal discussions and<br />
joint meetings for the purpose of settling the issues. <strong>The</strong> atmosphere is<br />
congenial and relaxed, and the direct communication between the two<br />
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sides is assisted by a neutral mental health professional, chosen by the<br />
two attorneys for their expertise and training in the collaborative<br />
process. <strong>The</strong>y help maintain an atmosphere of respect and open<br />
dialogue, which helps the parties understand one another’s interests. In<br />
addition, a neutral financial professional is utilized to assist the parties in<br />
formulating and evaluating multiple financial options for the family.<br />
<strong>The</strong>se professionals, along with the two lawyers, comprise the<br />
collaborative team. <strong>The</strong> team’s goal is to assist the clients with achieving<br />
a maximized outcome under the circumstances. <strong>The</strong> possibilities that<br />
exist in the collaborative framework are limited only by the<br />
imaginations of the clients and their commitment to settlement.<br />
One of the most attractive aspects of collaborative law for many clients<br />
is the fact it is conducted in private, with the exception of the uncontested<br />
final hearing. In the privacy of one of the lawyer’s or another<br />
professional’s offices, the clients can discuss sensitive issues they might<br />
prefer not to air in the public arena of the courtroom. <strong>The</strong> neutral mental<br />
health professional guides that discussion in a way that fosters constructive<br />
communication among all of the participants, including the attorneys.<br />
Another appealing aspect of collaborative law is its flexibility in<br />
scheduling. In traditional litigation, virtually nothing happens at the convenience<br />
of the clients. In collaborative law, the clients, their lawyers and<br />
the neutral professionals schedule everything cooperatively and avoid<br />
inconveniencing the other members of the collaborative team. In<br />
addition, the clients are not under pressure to dispose of their case<br />
according to the Court’s often arbitrary docket, which gives them the<br />
time to deal with the emotional aspects of the divorce, experiment with<br />
different parenting time schedules, sell a home, or do whatever else needs<br />
to be done before they finalize their divorce. By far, the best reason to<br />
consider Collaborative Divorce is that you minimize the emotional<br />
impact on yourself and your children, preserve a positive relationship<br />
with your spouse, and move forward in the next phase of your life<br />
without the anger, resentment and stress generated by traditional<br />
divorce.This is in stark contrast to the stressful nature of litigation, which<br />
engenders mistrust, hostility, animosity and long-term resentment. High<br />
conflict divorces lead to high conflict post-divorce relationships. By<br />
eliminating the conflict and the stress that the litigation process itself<br />
inflicts on the parties, collaborative law allows the parties to begin<br />
healing from those conflicts and stresses that caused the breakdown of<br />
the relationship, without adding the toxic effect of litigation.<br />
For more information on Collaborative Divorce,<br />
check out these valuable resources:<br />
www.collaborativefamilylawfl.com (website of the Collaborative<br />
Family Lawyers of South Florida)<br />
www.collaborativepractice.com<br />
(website of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals)<br />
Divorce Without Disaster: Collaborative Law in Texas,<br />
Brumley, Janet P., (PSG Books, 2003).<br />
Collaborative Divorce: <strong>The</strong> Revolutionary new Way to Restructure Your<br />
Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on With Your Life,<br />
Tesler, Pauline and Thompson, Peggy (Regan Books, May 2006).<br />
<strong>The</strong> Collaborative Way to Divorce: <strong>The</strong> Revolutionary Method That Results<br />
in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids – Without Going to Court,<br />
Ousky, Ron and Webb, Stuart (Hudson Street Press, 2006).<br />
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63
LEGAL ISSUES<br />
Last Good<br />
DEEDS<br />
By Edward G. Binkerd<br />
My mother-in-law, June, died unexpectedly on April 20, 2007.<br />
Her surviving spouse and my father-in-law, Frank, was in<br />
marginal health at the time and, in fact, had been<br />
expected to precede his wife to the hereafter.<br />
June’s death prompted all of us to start thinking more about the future and<br />
what would happen when Frank died. We knew from talking to him he did<br />
not want to be “kept alive by machines,” but that was not written down<br />
anywhere. Because he was a very private person and did not have a Will, we<br />
had no idea what his wishes were for the disposition of his assets – his home in<br />
Pensacola and its contents, 15 acres of nearby farm land, his motor home and<br />
automobile. In addition to that, we had only a vague idea about Frank’s bank<br />
accounts or investments; his life insurance; his credit cards, and so on. If Frank<br />
had died right then, we would have been in a real pickle!<br />
I finally went online and downloaded templates for a Living Will<br />
and for a Last Will and Testament. Over the next few weeks I was able to sell<br />
Frank on the idea he should work on them both. My most convincing<br />
argument with him was, “Only with these documents in place will we know<br />
what your wishes are and be able to legally carry them out”. Ultimately, I<br />
prepared the Wills the way he asked and he signed them both.<br />
Shortly after he signed his Wills, I ran across an article about the importance<br />
of preparing and maintaining a list of all of your insurance policies, credit<br />
cards, bank and investment accounts, etc. <strong>The</strong> article said the list should<br />
include issuer’s names, card or policy numbers, PIN numbers, contact<br />
persons, telephone numbers and so on. <strong>The</strong> purpose of the list was to make it<br />
possible for others to know about and locate all of these important items in<br />
the event of your death. After I prepared a list of my own, I sent Frank a blank<br />
template with the suggestion he may want to consider doing one too. That<br />
was in the late summer of 2008.<br />
Throughout the fall and winter, Frank’s health seemed to be slowly going down<br />
hill. On Sunday, January 25, <strong>2009</strong>, his condition suddenly worsened. Frank<br />
called his youngest daughter, who lives in Pensacola, and told her he was having<br />
severe stomach pains and that he needed to go to the emergency room right<br />
away. Within hours after being admitted to the hospital, he was diagnosed with<br />
an inflamed gall bladder. It had to be removed or it would kill him.<br />
<strong>The</strong> surgery was performed on Thursday morning, January 29, and was<br />
successful. He seemed to tolerate the operation well and by Tuesday, February<br />
3, they decided he had recovered to the point where he could be released from<br />
the hospital and sent to a nearby nursing home for rehabilitative therapy.<br />
At first, he seemed to be doing pretty well, but by Friday afternoon, February<br />
6, Frank was in a great deal of pain. He was transported by ambulance back to<br />
the hospital. Emergency Room doctors decided they would have to intubate<br />
him, that is, insert a plastic tube into his airway to keep him breathing and<br />
alive.<strong>The</strong>y also sedated him so he could be comfortable and rest.<br />
He was moved from the ER to Intensive Care where he remained sedated –<br />
in a state of unconsciousness not unlike what you experience under general<br />
anesthesia. Intubation ensured an adequate supply of oxygen and a feeding<br />
tube kept him nourished. Frank was exactly where he did not want to be –<br />
being kept alive by machines.<br />
When we handed Frank’s Living Will to the hospital, you could almost hear a<br />
sigh of relief. It was not until that moment that we realized how important a<br />
Living Will is to the hospital and doctors. With a Living Will, not only do they<br />
know what the patient wants and does not want; they’ve got it in writing. <strong>The</strong><br />
document puts a wall, though not impenetrable, between the hospital and the<br />
legal liability for the quality of care the patient receives. From that moment on,<br />
Frank’s Living Will was the top piece of paper in his hospital chart.<br />
Over the next 48 hours, Frank became sicker. In addition to everything<br />
else, he had pneumonia in both lungs. His physician at the hospital was a<br />
pulmonologist – a doctor who specializes in the treatment of diseases of the<br />
lungs. This doctor worked in cooperation with the general surgeon who<br />
had removed Frank’s gall bladder. We had regular conversations with both<br />
doctors about Frank’s status and what our options were. <strong>The</strong>re were few<br />
reasons to feel hopeful. Frank’s case was classic – a frail, elderly patient<br />
with impaired lung function trying to recover from surgery contracts<br />
pneumonia. <strong>The</strong> doctors were not only concerned about Frank’s ability to<br />
survive this crisis; they were equally concerned about the quality of his life<br />
in the unlikely event he did survive.<br />
Monday night, Frank’s condition deteriorated. His breathing became more<br />
labored; his temperature rose and, perhaps of greatest importance, they could<br />
not rouse him, even if the sedatives were withdrawn. By Tuesday morning, it<br />
was pretty clear what Frank wanted us to do.<br />
Early that afternoon, his three daughters went to Frank’s room with his cousin<br />
Fred, a retired Baptist minister. Once again, they considered their options.<br />
After a few prayers, they instructed the on-duty nurse at the ICU it was time<br />
to to comply with their father’s wishes. We waited until we were told by the<br />
nurse it would be OK to go into Frank’s room, then all eleven of us filed<br />
in quietly. For the next 9 minutes, we stood at his bedside and silently said<br />
our goodbyes. On February 10, <strong>2009</strong>, at 3:41PM, Frank died peacefully,<br />
surrounded by people who loved him.<br />
In the days following his death, we organized Frank’s papers and other<br />
records as best we could. <strong>The</strong> list of credit cards and other accounts was right<br />
there in the kitchen, in plain view. Using the list, we notified banks, credit<br />
card companies, insurance companies, Social Security, Medicare and others<br />
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of Frank’s passing. Without the list, the task would have been much more<br />
difficult, if not impossible.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Last Will and Testament made it very easy for his two eldest daughters<br />
to begin the process of distributing Frank’s assets, as he would have directed<br />
had he been there. Although we will be required to go through Probate to<br />
fully conclude the business of Frank’s estate, the existence of the Will makes<br />
it 100% easier.<br />
I hope this story will inspire you to act now. <strong>The</strong>re are important steps to take:<br />
◆ If you don’t have one, make a Living Will! Get a lawyer to do it if you can, but if you can’t or don’t<br />
want to do that, download one from the Internet. <strong>The</strong>re are a million sites out there that carry<br />
templates.<br />
◆ If you don’t have one, make a Last Will and Testament! Same deal; lawyer or online template. It<br />
takes a little time and thought. Believe me, it’s worth it.<br />
◆ Talk to your parents about the importance of having both kinds of Wills. Tell them it will save you<br />
and others who survive them untold trouble and time. If they really love you, as I’m sure they do,<br />
they will not want to put you through the grief and heartache of trying to handle their estate without<br />
their written guidance. <strong>The</strong>y don’t want to leave decisions to chance or the state, do they<br />
When you try to talk to your parents about this, you’re probably going to get one of two<br />
reactions from them...or both:<br />
“Oh dear, let’s not talk about dying just now!”<br />
“This is a private matter dear; your father and I don’t think you kids need to know about our<br />
financial affairs.”<br />
If this is what you run into, don’t feel picked on; it happens to almost everybody. Because of the<br />
importance of your mission, I encourage you to gently persist. Maybe if you share this story with<br />
them, they will come around. Good luck!<br />
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By Jack Bloomfield<br />
<strong>The</strong> Religion of Kindness<br />
AAre you a Religious person Maybe you are one of 73 million<br />
Anglicans, 1 billion Catholics, 940 million Sunni or 120 million<br />
Shia Muslims, 376 million Buddhists, 70 million Baptists, 14<br />
million Jews, or a member of another of the established religions<br />
of the world. Many people, when asked this question, do indeed<br />
respond with the answer of the name of their religion. If asked<br />
to expand on that answer, they will often be able to give you<br />
information about their particular religion, its history, doctrines<br />
and traditions. Sometimes, it will even lead to the person stating<br />
their religion is the one true religion.<br />
I have always felt much of the devotion many people apply to<br />
their particular faith is found in the traditions and doctrine,<br />
but not in the spirit of that faith. My inspiration for this column<br />
comes from a conversation I had with a man who was pouring<br />
his heart out to me recently. He said, after many years of being<br />
devoted to his particular faith, he had come to a spiritual<br />
awakening that now keeps him from attending and participating<br />
in worship. He shared with me how he came to the belief that<br />
his religion seemed to practice more doctrine and tradition, but<br />
the spirit of the faith he had been practicing since childhood,<br />
was mostly lost. He told me, because he could no longer attend<br />
his particular faith services on Sunday, it made him feel as if he<br />
had become a “believer in exile.” He went on to say he tried for<br />
a time to leave his feelings at the door and participate in the<br />
worship service but, over time, came to the realization he could<br />
not do it anymore.<br />
If someone asks him today what his religion is, he responds by<br />
saying, “My religion is kindness.” I thought about what a marked<br />
difference from the belief system of following traditions and<br />
doctrines that is. He said his change of heart freed him to know<br />
he no longer can be divided by the differences religious doctrines<br />
teach, but he can be united with all of humanity by following his<br />
newfound religion – “<strong>The</strong> Religion of Kindness”.<br />
I attended a conference last week and one of the speakers was<br />
relating a similar message, saying if we are ever going to come<br />
closer to one another as a united family of humanity, we are<br />
going to have to come to a higher consciousness in regards to<br />
religious thought. He said because most people of faith follow<br />
the belief system and doctrine of their particular faith, they often<br />
miss the spirit of that faith’s expression. I was deeply moved<br />
when he quoted Thomas Paine, one of the founding fathers of<br />
our country. Paine was asked what his religion was and replied, “I<br />
am a citizen of the world and my religion is doing good.”<br />
Think about what the world would look like if all who claim to<br />
be religious took on the spirit of their faith rather than the<br />
doctrines of their faith. Being kind and doing good would help<br />
overcome any thinking that says, “We are right and you are<br />
wrong,” or “We have the answer and you are lost.” <strong>The</strong> divisive<br />
feeling of “us vs. them” would disappear and peace could reign in<br />
our world.<br />
My hope is more and more of us can move in this direction of<br />
expressing our religious faith from the spirit of what religion<br />
is about. It is sure to help humanity move in a more positive<br />
direction towards unity and the love of our neighbors.<br />
Peace out.<br />
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1. Sue Planas, V.P.<br />
and Branch Manager<br />
of Mercantile Bank<br />
in the Coral Creek<br />
Plaza (l.), presents<br />
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Leslie Wheeler-Henry of Coral Springs with a savings bond and gift basket Mrs. Wheeler won in the drawing<br />
held by the Coral Creek Plaza participating retailers.<br />
2. Dan Cytryn, a partner in Cytryn & Velazquez, P.A., a Coral Springs personal injury firm, presents Richard<br />
Ramsey, 18, with a $500 college scholarship. According to Cytryn, who originated the scholarship, the<br />
award was based on the following criteria: the recipient had to be a Coral Glades High School<br />
senior who had the highest grade point average and who also played on at least two lettered sports teams in<br />
his/her junior and senior years but did not receive full scholastic or athletic scholarships to any college or university.<br />
Ramsey, 18, an honors graduate of Coral Glades High School and also a scholar/athlete award recipient,<br />
played both linebacker and tight end positions on the varsity football team and ran the 100-, 200-, and<br />
400- meter races on the track and field team.<br />
3. Parkland resident Michael Christopher Angelillo has been selected for membership in the Delta Epsilon Iota<br />
Academic Honor Society at the University of Florida. Angelillo is a Pre-Med student and plans to graduate in 2011.<br />
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FForeclosures have driven down home prices over the past few years in many locations<br />
across the country, especially in South Florida. <strong>The</strong> average mean price of a single<br />
family house has dropped 44% and condos have dropped more. This could be an<br />
opportunity for you. Maybe it’s time to consider making an investment in a vacation<br />
home. Whether a mountain getaway or an ocean view right here in Florida is your<br />
American dream, you should know a vacation home can offer some tax savings that<br />
may help pay for your hideaway. <strong>The</strong> tax laws differ depending on whether you use the<br />
home solely for enjoyment or mix business with pleasure by renting the property<br />
By John Abrams<br />
part-time.As long as the combined debt secured by the vacation home and your<br />
principal residence does not exceed $1 million, you can deduct all of the interest paid on<br />
a mortgage used to buy a second home. This advantage is restricted to two homes. If<br />
you purchase a third, interest on that mortgage is not deductible. However, no matter<br />
how many homes you have, you may be able to deduct all the property taxes you pay.<br />
One break enjoyed by homeowners—the right to immediately deduct points paid on a<br />
mortgage—applies only to a principal residence. Points paid on a loan for a vacation<br />
home must be deducted gradually as you pay off the mortgage.<br />
Personal Residence<br />
Your vacation home counts as a personal residence, even if you rent it for up<br />
to 14 days a year. In that case, you get to retain the rent tax-free and don’t<br />
jeopardize your mortgage interest and tax deductions. However, you may<br />
not deduct any rental-related expenses. If you rent out the house on a<br />
continual basis, things may become complicated. Different rules apply<br />
depending on the breakdown between personal and rental use.<br />
First, if you buy primarily for pleasure, but rent for 15 days or more, the rent<br />
you receive is taxable. <strong>The</strong> house is still considered a personal residence, so<br />
you get to deduct all the interest and property taxes. You may also be able to<br />
deduct other rental-related expenses, including the cost of utilities, repairs,<br />
and insurance during the time the house is rented. In some cases, you might<br />
even get to deduct depreciation. When the house is considered a personal<br />
residence, rental deductions can’t exceed the amount of rental income you<br />
report. In other words, your second home can’t produce a tax loss to shelter<br />
other income. In most cases, the interest and taxes assigned to the rental use<br />
of the house, plus the operating expenses, more than offset rental income,<br />
limiting your ability to write off depreciation.<br />
Rental Property<br />
Now consider your tax situation if you buy a property primarily as an<br />
investment and limit your personal use of the property to 14 days a year (or<br />
10% of the number of rental days if that allows you more than 14). Because<br />
the house is a rental property in the eyes of the Internal Revenue Service<br />
(IRS), your deductions can exceed the amount of rental income you receive.<br />
If your rental income does not cover the cost of renting the house, you may be<br />
able to claim a taxable loss. Rental losses are classified as passive and can be<br />
deducted only against passive income such as another rental property that<br />
realizes a gain. If you do not have passive income to shelter, the losses have no<br />
immediate value. Unused losses can be used in future years when you have<br />
passive income.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s an exception to this rule that permits taxpayers with adjusted gross<br />
income (AGI) under $100,000 to deduct up to $25,000 of passive losses<br />
against other kinds of income, including salaries. To qualify, you have to<br />
actively manage the property. <strong>The</strong> $25,000 allowance is gradually phased<br />
out as AGI rises between $100,000 and $150,000.<br />
When your vacation home is considered a rental property, the mortgage<br />
interest attributable to the time the premises are rented is a business<br />
deduction. <strong>The</strong> rest, though, can’t be deducted as home mortgage interest<br />
since the house doesn’t qualify as a personal residence.<br />
<strong>The</strong> tax laws discussed here also apply to homes other than houses,such as apartments,<br />
condominiums, mobile homes, or boats with basic living accommodations.<br />
Generally, basic living accommodations include a sleeping space,<br />
bathroom, and cooking facilities. Hotels, motels, and inns are treated differently.<br />
Are you enjoying all of the available tax benefits your vacation home may<br />
offer For specific guidance, consult your<br />
tax professional.<br />
John Abrams is an Investment<br />
Specialist and Financial Planner<br />
with Cypress Financial Group<br />
70 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
ARTS&ENTERTAINMENT<br />
WALKS<br />
ART<br />
George Segal:<br />
Street Scenes<br />
George Segal: Street Scenes is<br />
a major exhibition at the Norton<br />
Museum of Art from <strong>September</strong> 5<br />
to December 6, <strong>2009</strong>. This is the<br />
first show to specifically feature<br />
Segal’s interpretation of the urban<br />
environment.<br />
By Yvette Jayson Sencer, Ph.D.<br />
George Segal,<br />
Depression Bread Line, 1991. Bronze,<br />
108 x 148 x 36 inches. Collection Madison Museum<br />
of Contemporary Art. © <strong>The</strong> George and Helen Segal<br />
Foundation licensed by VAGA, New York. Gift of <strong>The</strong> George and Helen Segal<br />
Foundation with funds for casting provided by Bill and Jan DeAtley, James and<br />
SylviaVaccaro, a major grant from the Madison Community Foundation, Jim and Cathie Burgess, the Pleasant T. Rowland<br />
Foundation, the Overture Foundation, and Tom and Martha Carter. Photograph: © 2008 Jerry L. Thompson.<br />
IN THE 1960’S, some avant-garde artists developed a style<br />
named “Pop Art”. It features visual imagery from the broad<br />
field of popular culture. Pop artists were exceptionally skillful<br />
in their use of media and methods. Some Pop artists were<br />
amusing and funky; they dealt with the clichés of popular<br />
culture, such as Andy Warhol’s soup cans and Roy<br />
Lichtenstein’s comic book derivations.<br />
Other artists, like George Segal, took their subject matter from<br />
social issues and the contemporary urban environment. In his<br />
life’s work, Segal transcended Pop Art by addressing themes<br />
of human interaction in a totally original way. <strong>The</strong> Norton show<br />
makes very clear the significance of Segal’s contribution to<br />
20th century American sculpture.<br />
George Segal (1924-2000) was the son of émigrés from Eastern<br />
Europe who settled in New York. Segal’s father had a butcher shop in<br />
the Bronx. When the family moved to a poultry farm in New Jersey,<br />
Segal stayed with an aunt in Brooklyn so he could attend Stuyvesant<br />
Technical High School and prepare for a career in math and science.<br />
At Stuyvesant, he also learned about art and that changed his life.<br />
Segal’s higher education centered on art studies at Cooper Union,<br />
Pratt Institute and New York University, where he earned a teaching<br />
degree and met other emerging artists. His early creative work focused<br />
on painting, and he began to develop an interest in figurative and<br />
expressionist themes. In the late 1950s, Segal was experimenting with<br />
sculpture, and even had a few shows.<br />
In 1961, when he was teaching an adult education course, a student<br />
gave him a box of dry plaster bandages. Segal experimented with them<br />
by applying them to his own body. He made plaster casts of individual<br />
body parts, which he then assembled into a complete figure. He<br />
placed the figure on an actual chair, and then added a table and a<br />
window frame to complete a sculptural tableau. Man Sitting at a Table<br />
was the turning point in George Segal’s career. He went on to refine<br />
the sculptural technique of body casting, and made his mark in the<br />
New York Pop Art scene.<br />
This exhibition features many of George Segal’s classic creations,<br />
which combine the art of assemblage with environmental art. Segal<br />
created both the sculptured object and the environment for the<br />
sculpture. His unique method fused aspects of art with real life, and<br />
organized the images into large scale, sculptural tableaus.<br />
Visitors to this exhibition will find it difficult to name a favorite Segal<br />
piece, as all are immensely fascinating and some are deeply personal.<br />
<strong>The</strong> earliest piece in the show is Cinema from 1963, when the new<br />
Pop Art was exploding on the New York scene. A life-sized tableau<br />
features a nondescript workman changing the lettering on the<br />
marquee of a movie theater. In the bright light of the marquee, the<br />
laborer is suddenly highlighted in the brilliant glow of the theater<br />
sign, but goes about his daily job without even realizing he has become<br />
the one in the spotlight.<br />
This exhibition features many of George Segal’s classic creations, which combine the art of<br />
72 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
George Segal, <strong>The</strong> Diner, 1964–66. Plaster, wood, chrome, laminated plastic, Masonite,<br />
fluorescent lamp, glass, paper, 93 3 /4 x 144 1 /4 x 96 inches. © <strong>The</strong> George and Helen<br />
Segal Foundation/licensed by VAGA, New York. Collection Walker Art Center, Minneapolis.<br />
Gift of the T. B. Walker Foundation, 1966<br />
George Segal, Cinema, 1963. Plaster, illuminated Plexiglas, metal,<br />
118 x 96 x 30 inches. © <strong>The</strong> George and Helen Segal Foundation<br />
licensed by VAGA, New York. Collection of the Albright-Knox Art Gallery, Buffalo, New York.<br />
Gift of Seymour H. Knox, 1964. Photograph: © Albright-Knox Art Gallery, Buffalo, New York.<br />
Diner from 1964-66 may be the best known Segal tableau. A waitress<br />
and a male diner are the featured life-sized plaster figures, placed in<br />
their appropriate locations within a section of a diner. Despite their<br />
closeness to one another and the fact that there are no other human<br />
beings in the scene, each appears unaware of the other, each wrapped<br />
in his/her own thoughts. What this tableau suggests about the sense<br />
of personal anonymity and the lack of communication between<br />
individuals in a bustling city is Segal’s primary focus.<br />
Segal was commissioned to create bronze figures for the Franklin D.<br />
Roosevelt Memorial on the Washington, D.C. Mall. Breadline, on<br />
one wall of the memorial, captures a devastating image<br />
of FDR’s Depression years.<br />
engaged in ordinary activities. Segal began his remarkable career as a Pop<br />
artist, and went on to create art that encourages people to think critically<br />
about the world and about the local environment in which they live.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Norton Museum exhibition will appeal to many people of<br />
different backgrounds and different interests. Photographs, through<br />
which Segal surveyed urban sites, and pictures describing his unique<br />
method of working, are rich accompaniments to the exhibition.<br />
Everything on display will enhance your understanding of the skill and<br />
originality of this distinguished, acclaimed, 20th century, American artist.<br />
Street Crossing (1992) is a group of five, life-sized, white,<br />
plaster figures arranged as if they were moving through a<br />
city crossroad, each engaged in his own thoughts.<br />
Dumpster (1994) features a trash bin abundantly covered<br />
with graffiti and street art. George Segal’s daughter posed<br />
for the plaster figure of a lone individual who passes by,<br />
not even looking at the symbols of the decadent, N.Y.<br />
East Village scene. Is Segal suggesting our society has<br />
become so hardened to unconventional and disruptive<br />
images that we no longer even notice them<br />
Starting in the early 1960s, through his original and<br />
unique sculptural method of body casting, George Segal<br />
expressed the private experiences of ordinary people<br />
assemblage with environmental art.<br />
George Segal,<br />
Dumpster, 1994.<br />
Plaster, silver gelatin prints,<br />
96 1 /2 x 144 1 /2 x 27 inches.<br />
© <strong>The</strong> George and Helen Segal<br />
Foundation/licensed by VAGA, New York.<br />
Courtesy of <strong>The</strong> George and Helen Segal<br />
Foundation, New Jersey, and Carroll Janis, New York.<br />
Photograph: D. James Dee<br />
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ARTS&ENTERTAINMENT<br />
Mind, Body, Spirit –<br />
By Janet Lynn Roseman, PhD<br />
IIt isn’t often that we allow ourselves the luxury of thinking about how we can obtain balance in<br />
our lives. I wanted to present some ideas for achieving some semblance of balance through<br />
choosing mind/body/spiritual activities to help you regain your balance. I urge you to think<br />
about activities that you and your family can engage in by creating a personal schedule to<br />
incorporate all of these aspects that can help uplift your spirit and your health.<br />
MIND:<br />
One would imagine attending a Barbie doll exhibit would not be<br />
what one would think of a intellectual pursuit. <strong>The</strong> current<br />
celebration of Barbie’s 50th anniversary was great fun with lovely<br />
visuals. Anyone who grew up with a Barbie doll will find it<br />
particularly interesting and nostalgic. <strong>The</strong> exhibit, Barbie’s Back<br />
and She’s 50, at the Cornell Museum of Art and American<br />
Culture in Delray Beach, runs until October 25th and is any<br />
Barbie lover’s dream for all ages.<strong>The</strong> diverse collection of Barbies<br />
is part of the 2000 doll collection of Nichole Fitzgerald, who is a<br />
Miami lawyer. Barbara Millicent Roberts, the founder of Mattel,<br />
created Barbie in 1959. She was inspired by the Lilli Doll from<br />
Germany and spent two years fashioning the iconic plaything to<br />
launch what would be the most popular doll of all time. Dolls<br />
have been companions for young girls for centuries, and in 1889<br />
during an excavation of ancient<br />
Rome, dolls were found in the<br />
sarcophagus of a teenaged girl.<br />
<strong>The</strong> exhibit includes Bob<br />
Mackie designs for Barbie as well as “Chief Barbie”, “Career<br />
Girl Barbie”, “Cinderella Barbie” and Barbies of all nationalities<br />
and color.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are Barbies from Ireland, Korea, Italy, Morocco, Japan and<br />
India in the exhibit. Famous fashion designers have created her<br />
wardrobe including: Versace, Vera Wang, Giorgio Armani, Anne<br />
Klein, Givenchy, and Calvin Klein. <strong>The</strong> exhibit is sure to elicit<br />
oohs and ahhs from women who have forgotten their childhood.<br />
Barbie serves as a reminder of those days of simplicity.<br />
BODY:<br />
<strong>The</strong> use of crystals as a healing modality is not new age. Crystals have been used for<br />
therapeutic purposes as well as adornment from the earliest of times. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />
been used as amulets for protection, talismans for healing, and to help interpret<br />
messages from the Spirit World. <strong>The</strong>re are two main ways crystals are used for<br />
healing. <strong>The</strong> first is called the “spiritual healing paradigm,” where the crystals<br />
channel, direct and amplify energies from the healer and the spirit realms. In the<br />
second paradigm, the crystals themselves are placed on or around the body and don’t<br />
require any spiritual beliefs, just the intuitive belief that the crystals themselves can<br />
heal particular problems of the body, mind and emotional state of the person using<br />
them. Every crystal has a particular resonance with a particular problem and the<br />
stones are chosen by shape, color, and composition to employ their healing<br />
attributes. I attended a crystal healing journey class a few weeks ago and found it not<br />
only educational, but very relaxing. <strong>The</strong> class, which is held at Something Yoga in<br />
Boca Raton, offers students a chance not only to slow down, but also to partake in a<br />
shamanic crystal journey, where they can let the crystals reveal their wisdom.<br />
Something Yoga Co-Directors, Patsy Finger and Tracy Chamoun have created a<br />
unique curriculum in understanding all aspects of working with crystals based on<br />
their trainings in crystal healing with Cherokee Master Crystal Healer Grandmother<br />
Jean and Master Crystal worker Mika Nelson. <strong>The</strong>y will offer comprehensive<br />
training beginning in October and ending next summer. <strong>The</strong>y told me, “Now it is<br />
time to expand and people are looking to be engaged in a different way. Gemstones<br />
have been used for healing for over 6,000 years and working with crystals allows<br />
people to have a different level of awareness and they help the subtle bodies to be in<br />
alignment with a higher vibration.“<br />
Each segment of the course includes a wide range of subjects including: selfhealing,<br />
cleansing and detoxification, tantric teachings of gemstones, planetary and<br />
astrological systems, and the yogic philosophy of crystal healings.<br />
SPIRIT:<br />
Mamma Mia, the long running Broadway hit, opened last month at Kravis to a very enthusiastic crowd. Mamma Mia<br />
is a theatrical, but it is not a play in traditional form and the text is spoken through the songs of the popular singing<br />
group Abba. <strong>The</strong> show premiered in London in 1999 and has seen 19 productions around the world. <strong>The</strong> story is<br />
about Sophie (Liana Hunt) who is on a quest to find her father before her wedding day. After reading her mother’s<br />
diary, she finds out who the leading romantic characters were in her mother’s younger life and decides to invite them<br />
all to the wedding. It’s a sweet, uplifting story filled with non-stop musical numbers and choreography that makes<br />
you want to run up on the stage and join hands with the cast.<br />
Opening night, the cast was electric and the enthusiasm for the Abba tunes was apparent, not only on-stage, but<br />
also during the audience’s standing ovation. I wondered why people are so attracted to this play and realized<br />
most of the audience were baby-boomers, who were bathed with nostalgic memories from the 1970s. Mamma<br />
Mia succeeds as a feel-good musical not only because the talented cast is so good, but also because it helps<br />
return to the audience those feelings of freedom and wild abandon we felt when we were young. YGM<br />
74 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
ARTS&ENTERTAINMENT<br />
Dada and the<br />
Magic Show<br />
By photos and pen by Todd McFliker<br />
Dada Restaurant and Lounge, the hidden treasure in downtown Delray<br />
Beach, is definitely worth the journey. <strong>The</strong> upscale establishment is<br />
located just off of Atlantic Avenue on Swinton, across from the Crest<br />
<strong>The</strong>atre. In 2000, this landmark two-story house was turned into a<br />
fashionable restaurant that draws a diverse crowd seven nights a week.<br />
Some go for the chic ambiance, others are food connoisseurs, and many<br />
guests merely appreciate Dada’s live entertainment. Dada remains home<br />
to top-notch open mics, poetry slams, fashion shows, obscure films, indie<br />
bands and the unique Jack Maxwell magic show every Wednesday night.<br />
Mr. Maxwell and his 30-minute professional act take the stage at<br />
10:00PM and 11:00PM every week. <strong>The</strong> first segment is called “Magic<br />
and Sleight of Hand” and the second portion is known as “Misbelief and<br />
Mentalism,” equaling a night of “Dynamic Deception.” Since June, the<br />
32-year-old has been thrilled to be working at Dada, where he can<br />
simply be himself. Jack dresses casually…in jeans, a t-shirt and a neatly<br />
groomed 5 o’clock shadow. Sizable tattoos on his arms and legs spell out<br />
“Abracadabra,” along with his 7-year-old daughter’s name, “Dynasty.”<br />
In time, his flesh will serve as canvas for his 5-month-old boy’s name,<br />
Xavier.“I’m not your ordinary rabbit in the hat magician,” he explains,“I<br />
get to show up here as who I am, heart and soul, week after week.”<br />
Since the age of nine, Maxwell has been working on his magic act, along<br />
with ad-libbing jokes here and there. At 11, the young apprentice began<br />
working in a magic shop. With his electric personality, he was putting<br />
on live shows by the time he was 14. Eventually, the native Floridian<br />
opened and operated an enormous store in Downtown Hollywood.<br />
However, last year Maxwell decided to close down his retail business<br />
and move full-steam ahead with his traveling presentations. Maxwell’s<br />
impressive resume also includes giving magic lessons and<br />
releasing his own instructional DVD of tricks. According to<br />
Dada’s bartender, Diane Frary, “Folks don’t expect to see a<br />
magic show when they go to Downtown Delray Beach. As a<br />
result, Jack’s show manages to be fun for everybody.”<br />
<strong>The</strong> talent promises every show in the high-class<br />
establishment is completely different. “Spectators may be<br />
seeing the same effect, but it won’t always be the Seven-of-<br />
Clubs,” he says,“I’ve been in the trade for so long that I’m now a<br />
walking library of magic history and tricks. I always keep it fresh<br />
for audience members who keep coming back.”<br />
“Dada has been home to magicians for five years,” said Walter<br />
Harris, General Manager.“Hopefully we’ll have this wonderful<br />
entertainment for another five years. But now is the time to<br />
come in with friends, feast on fantastic food, and enjoy the<br />
magic of Dada.”<br />
Too often in South Florida, sweets grown common lose their dear<br />
delight. <strong>The</strong>refore, Dada prides itself on being far from an ordinary<br />
venue. <strong>The</strong>re are always a wide variety of patrons of assorted ages and<br />
backgrounds. <strong>The</strong> spot is full of creative sculptures, paintings and plush<br />
sofas, with giant trees in its picturesque courtyard. Diners can indulge<br />
on treats ranging from mahi-mahi to chocolate fondue, and chase them<br />
down with an Irish Car Bomb or a Mango Mojito.<br />
Music lovers gather in the homey atmosphere for viable amusement,<br />
including eye-catching fashion shows and bathing suit expeditions.<br />
<strong>The</strong> first Tuesday of every month consists of Dada’s Poetry Slam at<br />
10PM and every Thursday evening is “Reggae on the Rise.” Audience<br />
members serve as the judges as competitors recite their original work for<br />
cash prizes. Local music acts, such as Fusik, the Dirty Boxes and the<br />
Hep Cat Boo Daddies perform at Dada throughout the week.<br />
Dada allows great exposure for South Florida’s unsung talent. Young<br />
artists get a live audience’s reactions and feedback. Magicians and solo<br />
musicians can hear, support and mingle with other players possessing<br />
similar ambitions. In a sense, Dada creates a family of South Florida<br />
virtuosos. It is extremely difficult for local performers to earn a living<br />
with their own material, as fewer and fewer clubs are willing to gamble<br />
on unknown acts. For fine dining, eye candy and the area’s most obscure<br />
artisans, Dada strikes gold seven nights a week.<br />
<strong>The</strong> exquisite Dada is found just north of Atlantic Avenue in<br />
Downtown Delray Beach. <strong>The</strong> address is 52 N. Swinton Ave, Delray<br />
Beach, FL, 33444. Give them a call at (561) 330-Dada (3232.) <strong>The</strong><br />
magician, Jack Maxwell can found at www.MagicianJackMaxwell.com.<br />
PHOTO BY MC FLIKER: MAGICIAN JACK MAXWELL<br />
76 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
Insight on Digital Photography, Part XI<br />
By Jay H. Guttveg<br />
School is underway, so now is the perfect time to schedule your child’s<br />
portrait or that family portrait you have been thinking about.<br />
Portraits at the beginning of the school year and once again towards the<br />
end let you easily see how much your child has grown. It’s also a good<br />
idea to do a family sitting once a year.<br />
Portraits do not have to be the typical studio background and posed<br />
shot. <strong>The</strong>re are much more exciting and innovative props available. <strong>The</strong><br />
main advantage to studio portraits is the lighting, which is more<br />
controlled than outside lighting and provides greater detail, dimension<br />
and depth to the subject.<br />
Outdoor locations are also a great choice, especially if the background<br />
is interesting, like the beach. With either choice, proper planning is<br />
the key to a great portrait, going over color, locations and style of<br />
photography, be it candid, action, or posed.<br />
Professional portrait photographers know which colors work best on<br />
different people, as well as what colors photograph best. <strong>The</strong>y also know<br />
how to coordinate colors<br />
to eliminate distractions,<br />
making sure to draw the<br />
viewer’s eye to the subjects<br />
and not the clothes.<br />
With younger children it<br />
is best to plan for more<br />
time. We always start the<br />
session off with a little<br />
warm up or playtime, to<br />
get the child acclimated<br />
to the session. After that,<br />
the actual shooting goes<br />
very fast, as small children<br />
can lose attention<br />
or get tired.<br />
Older children and teens<br />
© CREATIVE FOCUS PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
love to be involved.<strong>The</strong>y<br />
get into creating sets,<br />
posing and having some fun. This partnership ensures great results and<br />
timeless portraits that truly reflect your child’s unique personality.<br />
In photographing groups or families, proper posing and placement is<br />
most important. Putting one person in the wrong place can result in<br />
unrealistic size relations, like your son looking larger than your husband<br />
(maybe that is a bad example – as my son is bigger than me).<br />
© CREATIVE FOCUS PHOTOGRAPHY<br />
A professional portrait should look professional. <strong>The</strong> image should be<br />
sharp, not just on the computer screen, but when it is enlarged.<strong>The</strong> colors<br />
should not be overpowering and take away from the subject. <strong>The</strong> image<br />
should lead the viewer’s attention and eyes to the subject’s faces.<br />
Distractions like blemishes, facial lines and shiny faces should be<br />
removed. Most importantly, the subject’s body should look better than it<br />
does in real life.<br />
In the end, professional portraits don’t just happen. <strong>The</strong>re is quite a bit<br />
of planning and coordinating to create a timeless masterpiece. Make it<br />
big, put it on canvas and love it forever.<br />
78 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong><br />
Jay H. Guttveg is owner and president of Creative Focus Photography &<br />
Video. Celebrating their 25th Anniversary, the studio specializes in<br />
Portraits and Special Events and recommended by more than 30 of<br />
South Florida’s finest venues. Guttveg, along with his wife and two sons,<br />
has been a Parkland resident for more than 14 years. Come visit their<br />
newly redesigned and exciting website at www.creativefocusinc.com.<br />
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TRAVEL INFO<br />
Portsmouth, New Hampshire<br />
Falling in Love<br />
By Cheryl Simone-Miller<br />
PHOTO CREDIT TUG BOATS: COURTESY TOM COCCHIARO, GREATER PORTSMOUTH CHAMBER OF COMMERCE.<br />
Before I left for my trip to Portsmouth, NH, I met my friend Bill for<br />
lunch. Bill is a big fan of New England. He had plenty of suggestions as<br />
to things to see and places to eat. Sounding just a bit wistful, Bill said he<br />
would live in Portsmouth if it wasn’t for the harsh winters.<br />
When I got off the plane in Manchester, I was already in love. For the<br />
first time in my life, my bag was the first one to come out at baggage<br />
claim. I stepped outside to find my driver from the highly recommended<br />
Regal Limousine Service (1-800-709-3500). Fred was holding a sign<br />
with my name on it. I will remember Fred for a long time. He is 82 years<br />
young, a complete professional and a complete joy. A longtime resident<br />
of the area, Fred had lots of great stories and bits of history to share on<br />
the way to Portsmouth. Anticipation grew by the minute. Winding<br />
through the beautiful country that is New Hampshire, Fred and I chatted<br />
quite a bit. It was probably the most pleasant drive from an airport to a<br />
destination I have ever experienced. When we arrived at the hotel, Fred<br />
left me with a bit of sage advice. “When it comes to life…leave no door<br />
unopened,” he said. I’ll do my best, Fred.<br />
Stepping into <strong>The</strong> Port Inn, (505 Route 1 By-pass South, 603-436-4378,<br />
theportinn.com) the first thing you feel is hospitality. It is quite clear<br />
making a guest feel at home is of paramount importance at this<br />
independent hotel. <strong>The</strong> personal attention is comforting. We didn’t see a<br />
single staff member who wasn’t smiling and ready to help. <strong>The</strong> rooms are<br />
beautifully appointed and come in a variety of sizes, including king and<br />
double standard rooms and, where we stayed, a king studio. Studios<br />
include a mini-kitchen, stocked with dining and cookware, stove,<br />
refrigerator, microwave, coffeemaker and toaster. Perfect for when you’d<br />
like to whip up a little snack and stay in to watch a movie! <strong>The</strong>re’s a pool to<br />
enjoy, a barbecue patio and a daily continental breakfast. <strong>The</strong> Port Inn is<br />
also on the environmental tip.<strong>The</strong>y are part of 1% For <strong>The</strong> Planet, a global<br />
movement of businesses that donate 1% of their annual sales to a network<br />
of more than 1,600 environmental organizations around the globe.<br />
Portsmouth has plenty to offer. <strong>The</strong> Isles of Shoals Steamship Company<br />
(1-800-441-4620 islesofshoals.com) runs a variety of tour cruises around<br />
the isles, lighthouses and Portsmouth Harbor.<strong>The</strong>y also feature a Lobster<br />
Clambake River Cruise and Party Ships with live bands and dancing.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are lots of live music opportunities featuring tunes for every taste<br />
at everything from dinner clubs to concert halls. Details can be found at<br />
seacoastmusicscene.com.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Port Inn<br />
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We had the most fun just wandering around the shops in Market<br />
Square. Macro Polo (89 Market Street) carries a wide range of toys,<br />
novelties and games. You name it, they’ve got it…and much of it will<br />
make you laugh.<br />
Stop at Popover’s on the Square (8 Congress Street) for a quick lunch<br />
and some mighty good iced coffee.<br />
If you are a music fan, you CANNOT miss a stop at Bull Moose Music<br />
(82-86 Congress Street, 603-422-9525, bullmoose.com)! We could have<br />
easily spent eight hours in the spacious store, browsing through music,<br />
movies and video games. Bull Moose is a rare and precious find in a<br />
time when most music purchases are made online. Manager Michael<br />
Bray says, “You can’t top the personal experience of coming into an<br />
independent music store. Talking to the staff…talking to other<br />
customers about the music they enjoy or heard about…it’s a unique<br />
thing.” From the latest pop releases to truly alt music, like Neutral Milk<br />
Hotel and <strong>The</strong> Afghan Whigs…you will find it all at Bull Moose.<strong>The</strong>y<br />
also buy and sell used CDs and offer a nice selection of vinyl, which<br />
Bray says is enjoying a resurgence in popularity lately.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n there was dinner. Sigh. I have eaten in lots of places over the<br />
years…for work and for pleasure. I can honestly say the experience at<br />
Jumpin’ Jay’s Fish Café (150 Congress Street, 603-766-FISH,<br />
jumpinjays.com) was as close to perfection as I’ve had. <strong>The</strong> atmosphere<br />
is casual and hip…sophisticated but never stuffy. We started the<br />
evening with Red Hot & Dirty Martinis, Ciroc vodka shaken with<br />
olive and pepperoncini juices and topped with a splash of Bloody Mary<br />
mix. Yum. Jumpin’ Jay’s has an impressive list of specialty cocktails<br />
to choose from.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Port Inn<br />
Jumpin’ Jay’s Fish Café<br />
Portsmith Harbor Lighthouse<br />
Appetizers included a selection of fresh oysters from the raw bar, which<br />
features an impressive array of fresh and tasty shellfish, both local and<br />
imported. <strong>The</strong> Steamed PEI Mussels with a ginger saffron cream,<br />
lemongrass, scallions, jalapenos, tomatoes, garlic, shallots and fine<br />
herbs followed.<strong>The</strong>y were so good, I almost cried.<br />
Jumpin’ Jay’s has an ever-changing “Catch of the Day” based menu. A<br />
variety of preparations and sauces are offered. On this particular day, I<br />
enjoyed Pan Seared Yellow Fin Tuna, cooked to perfection with<br />
Mandarin Sesame Glaze and Wasabi Aioli. My companion enjoyed the<br />
Cuban Fisherman’s Stew with mussels, fish, shrimp, stewed chicken and<br />
black beans, garnished with fresh cilantro. We both had quite a few of<br />
those “eyes closed, satisfied smile, Mmmmmm” moments. Our server,<br />
Mackenzie, and everyone else tending the table did a wonderful job.<br />
From the service to the food to the atmosphere to the company… it was<br />
one joyful meal. If you find yourself in Portsmouth, you must go to<br />
Jumpin’ Jay’s. You will find me and kiss me.<br />
Portsmouth has been rated as one of the nation’s Best Small Cities for<br />
Startups by Business Week magazine. Money <strong>Magazine</strong> has ranked it more<br />
than once in its Top 10 Best Places to Live. UTNE Reader also selected<br />
Portsmouth as one of the Top 50 Most Enlightened Cities in the U.S. I<br />
couldn’t agree more. My visit was more than enlightening. It was magical.<br />
To Fred, Bridget, Catherine, David, Michael, everyone else I<br />
encountered on my Portsmouth adventure…and, of course,<br />
Bill…thanks for the love. I’ll be back.<br />
PHOTO CREDIT: LIGHTHOUSE COURTESY OF NICKI NOBLE, GREATER<br />
PORTSMOUTH CHAMBER OF COMMERCE<br />
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WINE REVIEW<br />
Man Cannot Live on Wine Alone –<br />
Have a Shot of Irish Whiskey<br />
By Ben & Sheila Bodenstein<br />
IRELAND, “THE LAND OF<br />
HAPPY WARS AND SAD<br />
LOVE SONGS,” has long<br />
been renowned as a nation of<br />
people with a “taste for the<br />
liquor”. <strong>The</strong>re is very little<br />
doubt that, in this entire world,<br />
there is no group who more<br />
appreciates a fine whiskey<br />
than the Hibernians. <strong>The</strong>ir<br />
prowess with the beverage is<br />
the stuff of legends. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
make the finest whiskeys to be<br />
found on Earth.<br />
Irish whiskey could always be found in American cities with large Irish<br />
populations, such as Boston, Chicago and New York, while its attributes and<br />
qualities were little known outside of those areas. Almost everyone has heard<br />
of Scotch whiskey, but little attention was ever given to the products of Ireland.<br />
A comparison of Irish whiskey to Scotch whiskey is inevitable, but in truth, they<br />
are similar in only one way; they both use roasted barley as the starting point<br />
and from there move their separate ways.<br />
Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes takes its name from the soldiers<br />
who left Ireland in the seventeenth century to fight in European armies as<br />
mercenaries. <strong>The</strong> name was later expanded to include all Irish expatriates<br />
who left the homeland for various reasons, from the potato famine to<br />
political repression. Whatever reason they left, the descendents of these<br />
“Wild Geese” have distinguished themselves in every country they have<br />
settled in. With the typical Hibernian penchant toward bravado, the<br />
producers of Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes elected to name their<br />
product to honor all of the Irish expatriates all over the world. One, John<br />
Fitzgerald Kennedy, became President of the United States.<br />
We are certain all of these Hibernian imports will impress you as much as<br />
they did us. Don’t be surprised if, somewhere down the line, you develop<br />
a brogue and to look forward to St. Patrick’s Day. It’s the work of<br />
the Leprechauns.<br />
Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes Classic Blend ($39) This fine Irish<br />
whiskey is the flagship blend of the line and displays a pale amber color<br />
with an orange tinge around the edges.<strong>The</strong> aroma is a pleasant mild blend<br />
of spice, citrus and malt, with charred wood undertones. On the palate, it<br />
is soft, buttery and well rounded with sweet spices, a pleasant malt<br />
undertone, hints of toasted wood and vanilla. <strong>The</strong> creamy, smooth and<br />
gentle finish displays a host of long lasting complex flavors.<br />
Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes Rare Irish ($49) Rare Irish<br />
derives extra flavor, softness and depth from its unique blending<br />
techniques. Here too, the color is pale amber, with an aroma featuring a<br />
sweet nuttiness with a touch of charred wood and hint of lemon. <strong>The</strong><br />
finish is rich, long, sweet and like the flavor, slightly lemony.<br />
Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes Limited Edition ($69) Limited<br />
Edition is a blend<br />
of aged malted and<br />
unmalted whiskeys<br />
that exhibits an elegance<br />
almost defying<br />
description. Malty and<br />
sweet, there is an<br />
undeniable sensation<br />
of oranges and spice<br />
with a hint of cumin in<br />
the background. <strong>The</strong> finish is resplendent with chocolate and mint and<br />
remains on the palate for a very long time.<br />
Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes Single Malt ($89) This whiskey<br />
is smooth beyond belief and can easily stand against the best of the<br />
imported cognacs as an after dinner drink that bespeaks extreme<br />
elegance and true quality. Wild Geese Irish Soldiers & Heroes Single<br />
Malt displays a softness, elegance and great depth combined with the<br />
taste of oak and a memorable spicy finish.<br />
82 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
RESTAURANT REVIEW<br />
By Charles Marcanetti<br />
I was so embarrassed when we went to this incredible establishment. As<br />
you know, I go to the restaurants I am reviewing several times incognito<br />
before I select them to do the review (and I always pay my own way).<br />
<strong>The</strong>n, I let them spoil us with their finest foods and drinks so I can get a<br />
total overview of their expertise.<br />
Reluctantly, I decided to sample ONLY four appetizers, four salads, two<br />
soups, four main courses with four sides, four desserts and several rounds<br />
of coffee. Did I mention the wine Oh yeah, that, too!<br />
I owe it to you to explain I<br />
literally watched this place<br />
being built. Rumor has it that<br />
it cost five million dollars for<br />
the inside, alone. I started<br />
going there to dine about<br />
a month into their season<br />
and had been there five or<br />
six times before the review<br />
night. I have never been<br />
disappointed. You will never<br />
be disappointed.<br />
<strong>The</strong> place is gorgeous. Dark<br />
woods, tiled ceilings, an open<br />
kitchen area and a perfect<br />
layout make the internal flow<br />
seamless and casual and bring<br />
the customer into a seating<br />
area with space to spare. No<br />
elbow banging, no seatback<br />
clashing and no avoidbumping-into-my<br />
neighbor<br />
broken field running<br />
is necessary. We were<br />
comfortable and brought to a<br />
relaxed state by the service<br />
and grace of Andrew Clare, our waitperson for the evening, and from<br />
Christian, his assistant.<br />
I had the delight of meeting Holger Strutt, the Executive Chef, who<br />
greeted all of us in a manner befitting his stature; confident of his menu<br />
and glad to see us having so much fun.<br />
We started the evening with a most wonderful assemblage of cold<br />
appetizers in a dish called Iced Shellfish Tower, consisting of a Whole<br />
1- pound Maine Lobster, 4 Jumbo Gulf Shrimp, 4 Oysters and Long<br />
Island Little Neck Clams. I love cold lobster and this appetizer is as close<br />
to perfect as one can get.<br />
I also tried the Canadian Atlantic Smoked Salmon, over a single potato<br />
blini. I was quite impressed with the sweetness and smooth texture.<br />
<strong>The</strong> thin cut Onion Rings were so light we found it hard to imagine that<br />
they were actually deep-fried. <strong>The</strong>y were juicy and crunchy at the same<br />
time and while it’s hard to rave about onion rings, they are a barometer of<br />
the caliber of food and service at this great eatery.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Tomato, Sweet Onion and Blue Cheese Salad served with White<br />
Balsamic Vinaigrette and Extra Virgin Olive Oil and, the Beefsteak<br />
Tomato and Mozzarella were two mouth- watering delights well suited<br />
as openers to the main courses.<br />
We were served a genuine Wagyu Kobe N.Y. Strip Steak…butter<br />
soft…seasoned perfectly and cooked exactly as ordered, medium rare.<br />
What a treat. Kobe beef is from cows raised on a Japanese-style specialized<br />
diet of grain fodder and one beer daily. <strong>The</strong> cows are also literally<br />
massaged with sake each day.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Holland Genuine Whole Dover Sole served sautéed in Extra<br />
Virgin Olive Oil and Lemon, Capers, and a Medley of the Day’s<br />
Vegetables was served French style (filleted and portioned at the<br />
table) and was moist and peppery enough to affect a crisp, crunchy<br />
texture. Delicious!<br />
84 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
<strong>The</strong> USDA Prime Colorado Rack of Lamb with Garlic and Parsley<br />
was as tender as lamb could be and sweet behind an herb foreground,<br />
thus giving the palate a chorus of sensations.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Chops “Signature Creation” dish of South African Cold Water<br />
Lobster Tails was remarkable. <strong>The</strong>y are served thinly crisped and<br />
flash-fried, with Chops Honey Mustard and Drawn Butter, preserving<br />
the moisture and tenderness. While most of us have Lobster tails baked<br />
or broiled, this variation is unique and a wonderful treat.<br />
Everything was perfect…the soups, the desserts and coffee and the great<br />
wine. This newcomer to Boca is a welcome neighbor and a soon-to-be<br />
landmark destination.<br />
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By Susan Shank<br />
Vacations are wonderful! It only takes three words<br />
to conjure up the beautiful experience of travel.<br />
This summer, I took a trip through New Hampshire and Vermont. My<br />
husband and I called it a “cool off trip.” We stayed at bed and breakfast<br />
spots the whole time. If you have never stayed at a bed and breakfast, you<br />
are missing out on a wonderful experience.<strong>The</strong> warm welcome you receive<br />
could never be matched by even the grandest of hotels. To be met at the<br />
door with ice cold lemonade, freshly baked cookies and a warm<br />
smile…who could ask for more Each of the three places we stayed at had<br />
their own charm, which set them apart.<br />
In the morning, we awoke to freshly brewed coffee enjoyed while sitting on<br />
the porch in a comfortable rocking chair. Of course, the breakfasts are what<br />
they are famous for. Delicious would be an understatement for the fabulous<br />
treats we enjoyed.<br />
How do temps in the 70s sound to you right now I know, almost too good<br />
to be true. I actually needed a sweater in the early mornings. It will be long<br />
time before we need one of those things in hot sunny Florida.<br />
<strong>The</strong> gardens were so beautiful. Besides fresh vegetables and fruit, the<br />
flowers were in full bloom. I spent a lot of time looking at the beautiful<br />
flowers and the vibrant colors were breathtaking.<br />
After our trip was over, I could not get those gorgeous flowers out of my<br />
mind. So, I did what I love to do, I went into my kitchen. I tried to create a<br />
little bit of the beauty I experienced right at home and in that way I spent<br />
the day enjoying the trip all over again!<br />
Royal Icing is an icing that can be used to create flowers.<strong>The</strong> beauty of this<br />
medium is that the flowers, once dried, harden like candy. <strong>The</strong>y can be<br />
placed on a cupcake or a cake and enjoyed at anytime. It is almost like<br />
having your own private little candy garden within your reach.<br />
I also love to work with butter cream. It is creamy and delicious and makes<br />
the simplest little treat such as a cupcake into a little treasure to be enjoyed<br />
at a tea party or with a large glass of chocolate milk. You really are only<br />
limited by your imagination.<br />
To make a sunflower, I start with a mini-sandwich cookie for the center. I<br />
love to incorporate simple treats as part of my design. Ladybugs…well,<br />
they look like a little red candy coated chocolates, don’t they Maybe you<br />
can embellish them by using a food maker.<br />
Edible markers, a marker to write on food, can be used on cookies or<br />
candy. Kids love them and they are no mess. <strong>The</strong>y come in all different<br />
colors to bring out the talents of even the littlest decorators. I always<br />
have a box of food markers around to personalize a treat. You can<br />
purchase them in the baking section of the grocery store or at the<br />
craft store.<br />
<strong>The</strong> beauty of a memorable vacation is not only the fun that you had while<br />
you were on it, but the memories you create for yourself<br />
long after the trip is over.<br />
I hope you have all enjoyed the summer and had<br />
a chance to have a little getaway as well. If you<br />
haven’t been able to this year, then<br />
create a little something special to<br />
remind you of a past vacation<br />
that you really loved.<br />
Search through some cookbooks<br />
and create a special dinner you<br />
enjoyed on a past trip. By all<br />
means, make dessert. Before you<br />
know it you will be remembering the<br />
most wonderful moments of a trip past.<br />
86 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
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<strong>The</strong> Floridian Restaurant<br />
Good Food and the Life and Times of Marilyn Monroe<br />
By Helenc Foster<br />
PHOTO CREDIT: DANI DORSEY<br />
According to Assam, the collection began when the<br />
restaurant’s owner of the past 34 years, Butch Samp, was<br />
“given” a couple of pictures of Marilyn Monroe which he<br />
displayed in the restaurant. He started collecting them<br />
and people would give him memorabilia. It grew from there.”<br />
When the munchies strike, day or night, you can satisfy your<br />
hunger at <strong>The</strong> Floridian Restaurant on Las Olas in downtown<br />
Fort Lauderdale.<br />
Restaurant Manager Laverne Assam has been with<br />
<strong>The</strong> Floridian for more than 12 years. She describes the<br />
establishment as “casual, where you can get anything you want<br />
to eat at any time.”<br />
Open 24-hours a day, seven days a week, the restaurant<br />
welcomes patrons for any meal, any time of day. Located at<br />
1410 East Las Olas Boulevard, it is surrounded by fine<br />
shopping, entertainment venues and galleries. Its bright,<br />
eclectic décor has greeted locals and tourists for more than 63<br />
years. Menu selections include everything from omelets and<br />
sandwiches to steaks.<br />
“We’re a fun environment. People keep coming back for our<br />
food; especially breakfast any time of day. Omelets, meatloaf –<br />
everything on the menu is popular. Our busiest times are<br />
mornings for breakfast and weekend breakfast,” she adds.<br />
Truly a unique dining experience, the restaurant is plastered in<br />
photographs and memorabilia of the late Marilyn Monroe,<br />
a legendary star and one of Hollywood’s most<br />
recognizable icons.<br />
Since that time, the collection<br />
has blossomed into a<br />
gallery of hundreds of<br />
pieces. <strong>The</strong> restaurant<br />
boasts different colored<br />
rooms and <strong>The</strong> Floridian’s<br />
“Red Room” is a true<br />
shrine to Monroe’s life.<br />
“<strong>The</strong> entire restaurant is<br />
lined with photos of<br />
celebrities,” Assam adds.<br />
Local and international<br />
celebrities, politicians and<br />
personalities are represented<br />
in the collections.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Fodor’s Review<br />
describes <strong>The</strong> Floridian<br />
as a place that “dishes up<br />
some of the best breakfasts<br />
around, with oversize<br />
omelets that come with biscuits, toast,<br />
or English muffins, plus a choice of grits or tomatoes. With<br />
sausage or bacon on the side, the feast will make you forget<br />
about eating again soon. Count on savory sandwiches and hot<br />
platters for lunch, tempting meat-loaf plates for dinner, and<br />
friendly, efficient service.”<br />
A true community-friendly place, <strong>The</strong> Floridian has been<br />
known to remain open during hurricanes as long<br />
as it can keep the power going! .<br />
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RECIPES<br />
By Tim Heitz<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is nothing better at the end of a hard week than to go out to dinner with family<br />
and friends. It’s a great time to catch up and relieve all the stress you have built up<br />
all week long while enjoying a cocktail or two. While a glass of your favorite wine may<br />
run you $7-$15 in a restaurant, you can buy a bottle of the same wine for $10-$20<br />
and stay home.<br />
In today’s crazy economy, everyone is looking for ways to save a few bucks. One of the<br />
best ways to do this is to host your own theme-party at your house. <strong>The</strong>me-parties are all<br />
based around a certain type of cuisine or regional food that you pair with either beer, wine, or<br />
specialty drink of the chosen area. As the host, you can choose different people to be responsible<br />
for a certain part of the meal and add theme music or costumes.<br />
In this issue, I will give you some ideas for one of my favorite types of cuisines: Classical French. Here is the<br />
menu chosen for you:<br />
Appetizer: Escargot in Puff Pastry | Soup: Vichyssoise (cold potato and leek) | Salad: Tuna Nicoise<br />
Entrée: Chicken Coq Au Vin | Dessert: Poached Pears with Riesling Sauce and Raisins<br />
ESCAR G OT I N P U FF PASTRY<br />
6 sheets Puff Pastry 1- 28 oz can Large Snails<br />
1 TBSP olive oil 1/2 cup onion- diced small<br />
3 cloves garlic- chopped Juice of 1 lemon<br />
1/4 cup White Wine- semi sweet 4 TBSP unsalted butter<br />
Salt and Pepper- to taste<br />
1/4 cup Parsley- chopped<br />
Preheat your oven to 375-degrees. Remove puff pastry from the freezer and<br />
thaw until soft. When soft, cut 6 large circles into the dough and place on a<br />
baking sheet with parchment paper. Bake for 6-7 minutes until golden brown<br />
and remove. Cut a smaller circle in the top exposing the middle.<br />
For the escargot, sauté the snails in the olive oil with the garlic and onions<br />
over medium heat for 5-6 minutes. Season with salt and pepper. Add in the<br />
wine and let the liquid reduce until almost evaporated. Turn the heat down to<br />
low and stir in the butter and parsley. Pour a little escargot mixture into each<br />
pastry shell and enjoy!<br />
V I CHYSSOI SE<br />
3 cups Leeks 3 cups Idaho Potatoes<br />
3 TBSP Olive Oil 2 TBSP Salt<br />
1 TBSP White Pepper 2 cloves Garlic- chopped<br />
2 TBSP Flour 14 oz Chicken Stock or broth<br />
2 Bay Leaves 8 oz Heavy Cream<br />
2 oz Sour Cream Garnish Fried Potato Sticks- store<br />
Chives<br />
bought<br />
Cut leeks in half lengthwise discarding the tops of the greens, or save for<br />
other purposes. Slice the leeks and place in a container of water to soak,<br />
removing all of the sand particles trapped inside. Drain thoroughly and pat<br />
dry. Peel and dice potatoes and soak them in another container of water to<br />
prevent discoloring. Drain when ready to proceed.<br />
In large stockpot, sauté leeks in oil 5-6 minutes until soft, season with salt,<br />
white pepper, and garlic, and add in flour to make a light roux. Add in the<br />
chicken stock and bay leaves and bring to a boil. Put in the potatoes and<br />
simmer until they are soft, about 25 minutes.<br />
When the potatoes are soft enough, either blend the soup with a hand<br />
blender, or transfer to a food processor or regular blender. Puree the mixture<br />
until totally smooth and pour back into pot. Add in the heavy cream<br />
and let it simmer for 15-20 minutes or until slightly reduced and thick.<br />
Garnish with chopped chives and potato sticks. Yield: 6 cups<br />
TU NA N I COI SE<br />
1 lb Endive Leaves 2 lb Tuna – Yellow fin works well<br />
1-2 TBSP olive oil 1-pint baby grape tomatoes<br />
1 cup Nicoise Olives – from the deli or olive counter at the store<br />
1/2 lb haricot verts- French cut green beans, frozen works well<br />
6 hard-boiled eggs- cut in half 1 lb red bliss potatoes- boiled<br />
1/4 cup Capers to garnish 1/2 cup Vinaigrette Dressing<br />
Salt and pepper- to taste<br />
Prepare the endive leaves by separating them from the end and set aside.<br />
Season the tuna with salt, pepper, and olive oil. Sear in a hot sauté pan until<br />
rare for 3-4 minutes. Remove and allow it to rest before slicing.<br />
Cook the green beans in boiling salted water for 4-5 minutes, until soft, then<br />
add inside an ice water bath to cool. Drain and pat dry, then set aside.<br />
Boil the potatoes in salted water also until soft, about 15-20 minutes, cool in<br />
a water bath, and pat dry. Cut in half when cooled.<br />
To serve, combine in a mixing bowl the olives, green beans, tomatoes, potatoes,<br />
and the dressing. Place around the endive leaves on your platter and fan<br />
out the tuna around it. Garnish with the capers and eggs around the plate.<br />
90 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
CH I CKEN C OQ AU VI N<br />
1/2 lb Bacon- chopped 1 3-4 lb Whole Chicken- cut up<br />
2 TBSP Olive Oil 2 cups yellow onion- chopped<br />
1 cup Celery- chopped 1-cup baby carrots- sliced in half<br />
1/4- 1 /2 cup Flour 1-1/2 cups Red Wine<br />
2 cups Chicken Broth or stock 1-1/2 lbs Red Bliss Potatoes- diced<br />
1 lb Mushrooms- quartered 1/4 cup Rosemary- chopped<br />
1/2 cup Parsley- chopped 1/4 cup Thyme- chopped<br />
In a large stockpot, render the chopped bacon over medium-high heat for 10-<br />
12 minutes until the bacon is cooked through. Spoon the bacon pieces onto<br />
a paper towel lined plate leaving the bacon drippings in the pot. Season the<br />
chicken with salt and pepper and sear until golden brown on all sides, about<br />
5-6 minutes each. Remove onto a pan or plate.<br />
Sauté the onions, carrots and celery in olive oil for 3-4 minutes, add the garlic<br />
and cook for 2-3 more minutes. Stir in the flour and cook for 5-6 more minutes.<br />
Deglaze with the wine, add in the bacon bits, chicken broth and chicken pieces.<br />
Bring to a boil, cover, and cook for 30 minutes. Add in the potatoes, cover, and<br />
cook for 20-25 minutes. Take the top off, add in the mushrooms and herbs,<br />
then cook for 6-7 minutes until the mushrooms are soft. Serve and enjoy!<br />
POAC H ED P EAR S I N R I ESL I NG<br />
SYR U P<br />
4 large pears 2 cups Sweet Riesling Wine<br />
2 Cinnamon Sticks- broken in half Zest of 2 Oranges<br />
Zest of 1 Lemon<br />
1 cup Raisins<br />
1/2 cup Pecans- chopped 1/4- 1 /2 cup-granulated sugar - depends<br />
on sweetness of the wine<br />
In a medium saucepan, cover the pears with the wine; add in the sugar, cinnamon<br />
sticks, raisins, and the zests. Simmer for 20-25 minutes until the pears are fork<br />
tender and soft. Remove the pears and reduce the liquid until it coats the back of<br />
a spoon. Drizzle the sauce over the pears and garnish with the chopped nuts.<br />
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Grilled Shrimp and Scallops<br />
Serves 4<br />
Flavorful, easy and fast to make, this<br />
appetizer is sure to please your guests<br />
1 lb large shrimp (size U12)<br />
8 medium size Sea Scallops<br />
8 wooden skewers, soaked for at least<br />
30 minutes in water<br />
Use two skewers per serving piece for better<br />
stability on the grill. Alternately thread a<br />
shrimp and a scallop on the skewers, for a<br />
total of 3 shrimp and 2scallops per serving.<br />
Mix together:<br />
1/2 cup soy sauce<br />
3 Tbsp Florida honey<br />
1 1/2 Tbsp sesame oil<br />
3 Tbsp olive oil<br />
2 Tbsp shredded ginger<br />
1/2 cup chili sauce<br />
2 cups scallions, green parts only<br />
2 cloves garlic, sliced<br />
Place skewers on a tray laying flat. Cover<br />
with the sauce and marinate for at least<br />
one hour, turning once.<br />
Grill skewers over a hot charcoal fire, for<br />
about 5 minutes, turning occasionally.<br />
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Microchipping Your Pet For Safety<br />
By Dr. Penny Kupferberg<br />
PET TALK<br />
A microchip is a tiny computer chip about the size of a grain of rice. It stores<br />
an identification number and transmits that information through radio waves<br />
to the appropriate scanner. Typically, the microchip number contains ten<br />
characters. Microchips are fast becoming a popular method for permanent<br />
identification of pets. Microchips are considered reliable and an effective way<br />
to identify lost pets.<strong>The</strong>y are small, compact and easily inserted.<br />
Microchips are composed of a silicon chip and tiny antenna encased in<br />
biocompatible glass. <strong>The</strong>y come pre-loaded in a syringe, and the needle is<br />
inserted just under the skin between the shoulder blades where the<br />
microchip is implanted. <strong>The</strong> entire procedure takes less than ten seconds<br />
and is only as painful as a vaccination injection.<br />
After the injection, the tissue surrounding the microchip reacts to this new<br />
substance and forms a casing. This helps prevent migration of the<br />
microchip. Since the microchip is made of biocompatible material,<br />
rejection is uncommon and infection at the site is very rare.<br />
<strong>The</strong> scanner, which is used as a power source for the microchip and receives<br />
the encoded message, uses electromagnetic energy to empower the chip to<br />
transmit its message through radio waves, which are normally at specific<br />
frequencies for each manufacturer of microchips.<br />
Scanners are provided to animal control, humane shelters and other rescue<br />
organizations in an effort to ensure that every stray pet is scanned and<br />
those with chips are reunited with their owners. Veterinarians can also<br />
purchase scanners for use in<br />
their hospitals.<br />
Even if your pet has a microchip<br />
and is properly scanned, without an accessible<br />
database, the information will not return your pet to<br />
you. When contacted with a microchip number of a<br />
missing pet, the database personnel can retrieve the pet’s<br />
information. Each microchip that is sold is registered to the veterinary<br />
hospital or shelter that purchased it.<br />
Remember, the database, as with computers, is only as good as the data it<br />
contains. Annual confirmation of your pet’s microchip information<br />
(address and phone number) is strongly recommended. Make sure to<br />
update all information with the microchip company to ensure that your<br />
pet, if lost, returns home safely.<br />
<strong>The</strong> microchip process has been identified as the most effective way to<br />
locate a lost or stolen pet. In South Florida, it is the only way to find a pet<br />
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SCHOOL NEWS<br />
Heron Heights<br />
Elementary Update<br />
By Helen Downey<br />
Following a hive of activity during August to meet and greet the first<br />
tranche of new students and help them acclimate to their brand new<br />
school, the inaugural year for Heron Heights Elementary (HHE) is<br />
well underway.<br />
Parental involvement is a key element for HHE’s success. Additional<br />
information is available from Margo at drmberros@bellsouth.net for<br />
volunteering and Casey Shore at gatorshore@yahoo.com for membership<br />
to the PTA.<br />
Tile art produced by the students now adorns the walls of the school.<br />
Further dates will be published for students unable to attend the<br />
summer sessions.<br />
Open house sessions between teachers and parents are as follows:<br />
Kindergarten Sept. 9 - 6:00-7:00PM<br />
1st Sept. 9 - 7:15-8:15PM<br />
2nd Sept. 16 - 6:00-7:00PM<br />
3rd Sept. 16 - 7:15-8:15PM<br />
4th Sept. 23 - 6:00-7:00PM<br />
5th Sept. 23 - 7:15-8:15PM<br />
On March 5, 2010 at Plaza Del Lago - Heron Bay, all HHE parents are<br />
invited to Adult Night. Further details will be published later. Right<br />
now, the PTA is looking for donations from local companies of services<br />
and items. Please contact Stephanie Shteif at sshteif@gmail.com if you<br />
can help.<br />
Throughout the year, the PTA holds general meetings for all members<br />
and interested parties. Contact PTA President Stacey Udine for details<br />
at staceyudine@bellsouth.net.<br />
Park Trails<br />
Elementary Update<br />
By Kris Dechene<br />
<strong>The</strong> school year is under way! We are so excited to see so many new faces<br />
in the halls!! Welcome to all new students and parents. Following a successful<br />
Meet and Greet day, we have started our annual Sally Foster<br />
fundraiser. Your child should have brought home information on how to<br />
help Park Trails in this annual event.<br />
<strong>The</strong> PTA welcomes all to join in their mission to support the school in<br />
every way possible. Many of these opportunities can be done from home<br />
and are great for working parents who would like to be more involved in<br />
the school. If you have any questions, please contact Debbie Faust at<br />
agadawgi@aol.com or call at 954.344.7336.<br />
<strong>The</strong> dates for Open House have been set and are as follows: Pre K and K-<br />
Sept. 23rd 6:30-7:15PM; First-Sept 16th 6:30-7:15PM; Second-Sept.<br />
23rd 7:30-8:15PM; Third-Sept. 9th 6:30-7:15PM; Fourth-Sept 16th<br />
7:30-8:15PM and Fifth-Sept. 9th 7:30-8:15PM.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Fall Book Fair and our famous Bingo night are activities to look<br />
forward to. Bingo night is fun for all ages and will be held on October 14th<br />
this year, during the week of the Fall Book Fair. Remember to save the date!<br />
Please look for information coming home about orientation meetings for<br />
Room Moms, Meet the Masters and Math Superstars.<br />
Our PTA Treasurer, Maxine Scherr, is looking for a parent with<br />
accounting experience who can help with filing the Park Trails tax returns.<br />
If you are interested, please contact Maxine at 954.260.6774.<br />
Finally, our October PTA meeting is set for October 7th at 9:30AM.<br />
We are looking forward to a great fall!<br />
Riverglades<br />
Elementary Update<br />
By Nicole Cook<br />
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Riverglades Elementary started the school year off with<br />
a bang. <strong>The</strong> new slogan “Riverglades Elementary -<br />
Making the World a Better Place” sets the stage for a<br />
year full of activities for Riverglades students and the<br />
Parkland community.<br />
<strong>The</strong> PTA warmly welcomes new volunteers. To find out<br />
more about volunteer opportunities, please contact Lori<br />
Wolk at thewolks5@yahoo.com or Melissa Blank at<br />
msb23@bellsouth.net.<br />
On <strong>September</strong> 16, kids will look their best as they smile<br />
and pose for Fall School Pictures.<br />
Also in <strong>September</strong>, the fall fundraiser continues. This<br />
year’s fundraiser, Cherrydale, offers gift-wrap and<br />
gift items for sale. Fifty percent of all sales will go<br />
directly to Riverglades, so get ready to<br />
stock up early for the holidays!<br />
Riverglades Elementary always welcomes<br />
the community and parents to<br />
join Partners in Education. Partners in<br />
Education have committed financial<br />
and in-kind support for Riverglades<br />
programs. Our Partners in Education<br />
are featured and thanked on the<br />
Riverglades Elementary website,<br />
newsletter and other marketing<br />
venues. Please contact MaryEllen<br />
Hamilton at rthmei@bellsouth.net for<br />
more information on becoming a<br />
Riverglades Elementary Partner in<br />
Education.<br />
SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong><br />
Riverglades Elementary sisters Rachel<br />
Fishkin (2nd grade) and Sarah Fishkin (4th<br />
grade) show off the new Riverglades logo<br />
“Riverglades Elementary - Making the<br />
World a Better Place.” <strong>The</strong> new logo will<br />
adorn car magnets and t-shirts for the<br />
<strong>2009</strong>-2010 school year.
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FROM THE EXPERTS<br />
My Child Hates His<br />
Teacher!<br />
HELP! What Should I Do<br />
By Dr. Renae Lapin, LMFT<br />
After only a few weeks of school, your child has complained daily about<br />
his or her teacher – what should you do “My teacher is unfair!,” “My<br />
teacher hates me!,” “She won’t call on me when I raise my hand!,” “He<br />
yells too much!,” “I got in trouble and I didn’t do anything!” Your child<br />
lists a litany of reasons every day and first requests, then demands that<br />
you go to school and request a change of class. He or she may even<br />
refuse to do class work, homework or attend school. Perhaps your child<br />
is crying daily before school and after school, which tears at your heartstrings.<br />
It is your job to protect your children from people and situations<br />
that are potentially harmful, which includes emotional harm, right<br />
On the other hand, the other side of your brain tells you it is your job to<br />
help your child learn to manage all types of people and situations. If you<br />
conspire to assist the avoidance of<br />
learning to deal with this teacher, then<br />
you are enabling your child to become<br />
spoiled, demanding and dependant. You want to be a good parent, so<br />
you think about it for a while and consult with others. Some of your<br />
trusted advisors suggest you to march up to school, speak to the<br />
principal and insist on a class change. Others warn of the damage you<br />
will inflict on your child’s ability to resolve problems and learn how to<br />
get along with all types of people. After all, you cannot control the<br />
teachers your child will wind up with each year all the way through<br />
college. You certainly cannot control who will be your child’s boss in<br />
future employment situations. You tell yourself, maybe just this one<br />
time, so you do not have to bear another day of your child’s pain, it<br />
would be okay. Your spouse or child’s co-parent might be beginning to<br />
get testy about the situation and expects a resolution. So much is at stake<br />
and you are being depended upon to make the right decision for you and<br />
your child. It is a true test of parenting and you are worried about failing<br />
the test!! What should you do Here are some suggestions to help you<br />
navigate the situation and find the best solution:<br />
• Listen closely to the complaints your child is<br />
describing and take notes to be sure your child<br />
knows you are listening, that you care and that you<br />
intend to help resolve the situation. Explain to your<br />
child that you will work very hard at helping to improve<br />
the relationship with his teacher and that you expect him<br />
to also work towards improvement.<br />
• Do research: carefully review the Student Code of<br />
Conduct which is sent home with all children to<br />
be read and signed by both student and parent.<br />
This is a detailed description of the rules and discipline policy in<br />
school. Go to the school board’s website and review the attendance<br />
policy, the homework policy, the bullying policy and any other policy<br />
impacting your child’s concerns. Review the website for your child’s school.<br />
Some teachers have also developed a website for students and parents.<br />
• Request a conference with your child’s teacher as soon as possible. A<br />
face to face meeting is important here, not a telephone conversation,<br />
letter or email. Make a list of your child’s strengths and concerns to<br />
bring to the conference. If feasible, plan to include your child in the last<br />
part of the conference.<br />
• Arrive on time and with a friendly and not accusatory attitude. Begin<br />
by stating you are here to form a team with the teacher to resolve a<br />
problem your child is having with school. Rehearse ahead of time the<br />
way to form your sentences in a neutral, informational, non-threatening<br />
style. “I am worried my child feels you hate her, and I know you would<br />
not want any of your students to be thinking that way,” might be more<br />
productive than, “My son is convinced that you hate him – is this true”<br />
• Don’t be surprised if you hear a different version of the situation, which<br />
may include your child not following rules or being disruptive – you<br />
know your child is not perfect! Listen carefully and take notes while<br />
trying to avoid being defensive.<br />
• As soon as all the information is on the table, switch to solution mode.<br />
Ask the teacher for suggestions in solving this situation. Listen and take<br />
notes again. Offer any suggestions you might have as well. As soon as a<br />
plan is reached, have your child join the conference and hear both you and<br />
their teacher describe the plan of action. Children are visual learners, so<br />
seeing their parent and teacher together presenting a plan will be very<br />
powerful. Do not end the conference without doing two important things.<br />
Thank the teacher for their time and schedule another conference to<br />
evaluate the progress of the plan. A brief face to face will be more effective<br />
than a telephone call or email. It is worth the time to coordinate.<br />
• Some important exceptions: If your child has complained of the<br />
teacher using inappropriate language or dangerous actions, and you<br />
trust your child is telling the truth, it is better to contact the school<br />
principal or assistant principal immediately. Ask to be contacted after<br />
they have investigated the situation. Any signs of physical abuse, such as<br />
bruises or cuts your child says were inflicted by their teacher, should be<br />
documented by your child’s doctor and reported to the child abuse<br />
hotline (1-800-96-ABUSE).<br />
• Ask to have the school Guidance Counselor involved with the follow up<br />
conference if the situation has not improved. While a teacher change may<br />
be the appropriate eventual outcome, this option will not be entertained<br />
until all avenues of resolving the situation have been explored. When<br />
requesting a teacher change, it would be more productive to describe how<br />
your child’s learning style and her teacher’s personality are not a good<br />
match, rather than blaming the teacher exclusively for the problem.<br />
Congratulate yourself and your child for resolving a difficult problem!<br />
Have a great school year!!<br />
96 SEPTEMBER <strong>2009</strong>
FROM THE EXPERTS<br />
Get the Most Out of Speech and Language <strong>The</strong>rapy<br />
By Robin Best<br />
Many times parents call my office frustrated with the lack of progress<br />
their child is demonstrating in speech correction. Sometimes it is in<br />
reference to school programs and sometimes it is regarding private clinics.<br />
Occasionally, it is in relation to strategies the parents are trying at home to<br />
help correct a speech problem.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are limits to what a school can offer. Increased caseloads, large<br />
group sizes of mixed deficits, frequent days off from school, scheduling<br />
conflicts, meetings, testing and assemblies will all effect levels of<br />
improvement.<br />
can reinforce work done at home. <strong>The</strong>y can also tape the session so the<br />
child can practice over and over at home as long as they need to. Often<br />
parents will use these tapes as journals to monitor progress over time.<strong>The</strong>y<br />
can also be used as a way to communicate with schools or other professionals<br />
working with their child. Parent involvement in treatment cannot<br />
be emphasized enough.<br />
If all three of these areas are addressed and progress is not made, perhaps a<br />
change of therapist is in order. Time is always of the essence in the remediation<br />
of a speech and language disorder or delay.<br />
While there are constraints on services in the public school system, it is a<br />
fundamental free service that offers many youngsters a valuable<br />
resource. Make sure you find out what the therapists are doing at school<br />
and try to coordinate home practice to reinforce the skills.<br />
When progress is slow or non-existent at home, it may be time for<br />
professional help. One option is tapping a professional to guide the family<br />
with strategies and support on an as needed basis. An assessment such as a<br />
screening may be in order to see if further testing is necessary.<br />
When there are concerns regarding insufficient progress in a private<br />
clinic, there are some areas that need to be addressed in order to see<br />
changes. <strong>The</strong>re are at least three essential steps in achieving success in a<br />
private therapy setting.<br />
First, if you are hoping to remediate a speech concern, you must be consistent<br />
and commit to getting to scheduled sessions. Without regular<br />
attendance, there can be no progress.<br />
<strong>The</strong> second area has to do with motivation. <strong>The</strong> child and parent need to<br />
want to correct speech production. Children as young as toddlers can<br />
demonstrate motivation when they are beginning to talk.<strong>The</strong>y become less<br />
frustrated and they can see the positive feedback from family members and<br />
get the desired response. With other youngsters, the motivation comes<br />
from the activities and behavioral reinforcements used in treatment.<br />
<strong>The</strong> third component in achieving success in speech and language therapy<br />
involves home and outside the center reinforcement of goals.<br />
Sometimes school personnel<br />
such as classroom<br />
teachers and supportive<br />
services<br />
personnel become<br />
involved with the<br />
speech therapist in private<br />
practice. This interaction<br />
is invaluable in<br />
that it allows the people<br />
in the student’s circle<br />
to communicate with each<br />
other about goals and treatment<br />
plans. One-way windows and<br />
monitors allow parents to view<br />
and listen to sessions, so they<br />
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Operation<br />
Saving Our Children<br />
By Sammy Jo Evansen<br />
Summer vacation has come to a close and parents and<br />
children alike are digging into yet another school year, or so we<br />
hope. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Parklander</strong> had a chance to speak to Dr. Jeffrey<br />
Jones about his passion for education. Who is Dr. Jones, and<br />
why should we care about him After some quick Googling, I<br />
was astonished to find out how much I did care about Dr.<br />
Jeffrey Jones and, more importantly, how much he cared about<br />
me. Dr. Jones is a dentist who put his practice on hold to<br />
become an advocate for halting the alarming rate of high<br />
school dropouts that has swept our country.<br />
Q How were you first introduced to the information on the high<br />
drop out rate<br />
A I wrote a book in 1993 that discussed the relationship between crime<br />
and education, or lack of education. I ran for congress in 2000 and<br />
studied the subject in detail. My political nickname was Dr.<br />
Education. It was my top issue.<br />
Q You’re a dentist so I’m sure you make a decent income What made<br />
you decide to put your career on hold and take it upon yourself to try<br />
and turn around the attitudes and fate of our young adults<br />
A I was at the height of my career and income when I sold the dental<br />
practice. I am very grateful and thankful to have been successful and<br />
blessed in my dentist career, but I want to do things I have a passion<br />
for and helping youth with education is at the top of my list. When<br />
you make a large turn in the direction of your life; it can add a lot of<br />
spice and adventure.<strong>The</strong> possibility of changing the basic paradigms<br />
of how America views quality of education for every single child and<br />
high school graduation gives me an enthusiasm toward that goal and<br />
towards life in general.<br />
Q Why do you think so many teens are dropping out Boredom<br />
Economy Laziness<br />
A Teens drop out because adults have created a system that allows them<br />
to.That is a huge mistake. A 16 year old is not mature enough to make<br />
such a life changing decision…life changing for the worse, that is.<br />
Q What role do you think parents play in keeping their children<br />
in school<br />
A Parents play the very top role in keeping their kids in school. It is<br />
their responsibility to be sure their child graduates from high school.<br />
It should be one of the top goals of a parent’s life. We need two<br />
revolutions in this country. A revolution of education and of better<br />
parenting. Families should also stand together to advocate high<br />
school graduation to every member of that family.<br />
Q How can parents, students<br />
and teachers alike<br />
help to keep our children<br />
in school and engaged in<br />
the learning experience<br />
A All Americans must be<br />
farmers. Everyone.<br />
Even if you live in<br />
New York City,<br />
you need to be a<br />
farmer. I grew up<br />
on the farm and<br />
so I understand<br />
that the seed<br />
must be planted,<br />
then watered.<strong>The</strong> weeds must be pulled out. A season must pass. You<br />
can’t let the bugs destroy the crop <strong>The</strong>n a good harvest is gained. In<br />
America we too often are focused on what is convenient and what is<br />
fun. We practice “cram parenting”. Like the classic college student<br />
who skips steps, then the night before the test crams and hopes to get<br />
the result. You cannot skip the planting, watering, weeding; then<br />
hurry up at the high school level and expect a good harvest. <strong>The</strong><br />
concept is laughable.<br />
Q Do you think your research and travels have helped lower the drop<br />
out rate<br />
A At this point in time, drop out rates have not been lowered nearly<br />
enough. My efforts continue. Public awareness is growing, but needs to<br />
increase greatly. <strong>The</strong> problem is everywhere and it is enormous. Of the<br />
50 largest cities in America, 17 have a public high school dropout rate<br />
over 50%, 33 more than 40%. My opinion is that any graduation rate<br />
79% or lower should be graded an F.<strong>The</strong>refore, of the 50 largest cities I<br />
just referred to ALL are graded F.<strong>The</strong> best is 77%. Mesa, AZ.<strong>The</strong> statistics<br />
come from the General Colin Powell study funded by Bill Gates.<br />
Q Do you have any plans for the future in terms of your work<br />
regarding our education system<br />
A I plan to continue to speak out and ring the alarm bell until<br />
everything humanly possible to solve this problem has been done.<br />
We must be able to look backwards and say we did our very best to<br />
develop the potential of ALL our American youth, because they<br />
have no limits. <strong>The</strong>y are a hidden treasure with secret promise. As<br />
a country, what we have allowed to happen per this dropout<br />
catastrophe should be called national child abuse.<br />
If you would like to know more about Dr. Jones or the elevated rate of<br />
high school dropouts, visit his website at thepublicityagency.com/<br />
jeffrey_jones.html or pick up his book entitled Officially Pathetic. Join the<br />
effort and keep our young adults in school.<br />
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LOCAL INTEREST<br />
Parkland Man Delights in the<br />
“Unbelievable Thrill”<br />
of Horse Racing Victory<br />
PParkland resident Carlo Vaccarezza cherished the“thrill”<br />
of victory in a high-profile horse race at Florida’s Calder<br />
Race Course in July, taking home a $150,000 purse.<br />
By Bill Johnson<br />
Vaccarezza, who turned a hobby of breeding horses<br />
into a business, talked with the <strong>Parklander</strong> about the<br />
challenges and rewards of breeding and racing<br />
thoroughbred horses.<br />
LITTLE NICK — A THROUGHBRED OWNED BY PARKLAND RESIDENT CARLO VACCAREZZA —<br />
GALLPED HOME TO A $150,000 VICTORY AT CALDER RACE COURSE IN JULY.<br />
Q. What really motivates you to breed and race horses<br />
A. First of all, the horse is just a gorgeous animal, one of the most<br />
magnificent animals on the plant. To have a horse run—and run<br />
well—is an absolute thrill.<br />
Q. What was the recent victory at Calder Race Course<br />
A. Every year, they have a big day of racing called Summit of Speed.<br />
One of the biggest races of the day is five furlongs on the turf called<br />
the Bob Umphrey Turf Sprint Handicap. It was a $150,000 race.<br />
We have a horse called Little Nick. I bred the horse. I own the<br />
mare, and named the horse after my son. <strong>The</strong> horse had won a<br />
couple of big races, and we were lucky enough to win the race [at<br />
Calder]. It was a huge thrill.<br />
Q. Is raising horses a hobby or business for you<br />
A. It started out as a hobby. It was a hobby that became a business<br />
Q. Isn’t it an expensive and high-risk business<br />
A. <strong>The</strong> highs are very high and the lows are very low. You can have<br />
a tremendous horse that you breed, and you win a couple of<br />
stake races, and two days later the horse breaks down. <strong>The</strong>y’re very<br />
fragile. You’re talking about a 1200 pound animal with legs the size<br />
of a quarter.<br />
Q. Have you experienced that<br />
A. I had won a couple of races with Dinner Guest. Two years ago he<br />
was ready to take the lead at Gulfstream Park and he just stepped on<br />
the wrong side of his foot and broke down and had to be euthanized<br />
on the track.<strong>The</strong> jockey was seriously hurt.<br />
Q. Did the jockey recover<br />
A. Yes, he recovered and is racing again.<br />
Q. In such a competitive business, are there many horse owners who<br />
never have a horse that wins Is it that competitive<br />
A. Oh, yeah. I know people who owned 20 or 30 horses and never won<br />
a race. <strong>The</strong> most important thing about a horse is something that<br />
you can’t go to school for. You have to have an eye to pick a horse<br />
when they’re babies. That’s one of the things that I have. But, you<br />
can be the greatest buyer of horses, and there’s still one thing you<br />
can’t see – his heart. You can’t measure his heart. If there were a<br />
machine to measure his heart, it would be unbelievable. Some<br />
horses can be bred from the greatest stallions and mares but they<br />
can’t run, because they have no heart.<br />
Q. Is there a rule of thumb for the cost of keeping a racehorse for a year<br />
A. A horse costs approximately between $80 and $100 a day. That<br />
includes everything — the trainer, feed, the vets, vitamins and<br />
everything else.<strong>The</strong> average cost may be $2500 to $3000 a month. If<br />
you have 15 or 20 horses, it’s close to $60,000 a month.<br />
Q. What do you expect for the future<br />
A. I have a horse named Little Mike, named after my other son. He ran<br />
for the first time and finished second. That horse has a lot of potential,<br />
and I think he’ll do very well. I have some people from Hong<br />
Kong who have made offers. I don’t know if I’ll take the offers or not.<br />
You never know what’s going to happen to a horse, they’re so fragile.<br />
Vaccarezza lives in Parkland’s Ternbridge community with his wife, a daughter<br />
CARLO VACCAREZZA OF<br />
PARKLAND SRANDS WITH HIS and two sons. Statues of jockeys stand in the yard. Photographs of horses<br />
TWO SONES BESIDE “LITTLE decorate the walls and trophies are on display. When his cell phone rings, you<br />
NICK”, A VACCAREZZA-OWNED<br />
hear the sound of the racetrack and the call to the post. <strong>The</strong> next time the horses<br />
THOROUGHBRED THAT<br />
SHOWS GREAT PROMISE. leave the gate, Vaccarezza hopes he’ll have another winner.<br />
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Butterflies<br />
Attracting<br />
Monarch Butterfly<br />
By Sherri Barbera<br />
ATTRACTING BUTTERFLIES TO YOUR GARDEN is as simple as “if you<br />
plant it, they will come.” If you want nature’s flying flowers to not only visit your<br />
garden, but also stick around, planting their favorites is the trick. Basically,<br />
butterflies are very particular about what they will eat at certain stages of their<br />
life cycle. Understanding their life cycle will help you select plants that will<br />
feed them and also encourage them to stay around long enough to lay their<br />
eggs and create a new generation of butterflies. You will need to choose<br />
plants that fall into two categories: larval, also called “host” plants, and<br />
“nectar” plants. Once you have identified the butterflies most likely to visit<br />
your garden, select their preferred “host” plant along with “nectar” plants that<br />
are generally brightly colored tubular flowers.<br />
With a few additions like water, shelter and access to sun you will<br />
have created a butterfly hangout. Here are some butterfly basics:<br />
WLaval or Host Plant<br />
Butterflies choose to lay their eggs on plants the caterpillar will eat. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
are very selective and will only eat very specific plants. Each species has a<br />
narrow range of plants that supply the chemicals necessary for the growth<br />
of the caterpillar. A “host” or “larval” plant is simply a plant that is eaten by<br />
a caterpillar. For example, by planting the three following ‘host’ plants in<br />
your garden you can attract seven butterflies: Scarlett Milkweed for the<br />
Monarch and the Queen butterfly, Passionflower (passiflora incense) for<br />
the Julia, Zebra Longwing and Gulf Fritilary butterfly and Bahama<br />
Cassia (senna mexicanus) for the Orange-Barred Sulphur and the<br />
Cloudless Sulphur butterfly. Inherent in butterfly gardening is the understanding<br />
that, at this stage, leaves will be eaten. It’s a good idea to intersperse<br />
butterfly host plants with other plants, since they can become<br />
unsightly from all the chewing.<br />
Bahama Cassia<br />
Plumbago<br />
Nectar Plants<br />
<strong>The</strong>se are plants that attract an adult butterfly by supplying nectar.<br />
Nectar is a sugar rich fuel that is sipped by the butterfly. <strong>The</strong>y are generally<br />
attracted to bright clusters of short, tubular flowers or flat topped<br />
blooms that are perfect shapes for them to easily land and feed. Some<br />
plants do double duty by being both a host plant and a nectar plant like<br />
Plumbago, Milkweed and Passionflowers (not red-flowered varieties).<br />
Water<br />
Water is a necessity and can be supplied by a birdbath or small saucer<br />
that creates a puddle for them to sip from. Moist dirt and sand can be<br />
popular water sources. You can also place decorative boulders with<br />
spaces to collect water.<br />
Shelter<br />
Butterflies need protection from the wind, rain and predators so they<br />
can more easily explore your location. <strong>The</strong>y also need a place to roost at<br />
night. Providing trees and shrubs will provide the protection and shelter<br />
they need.<br />
Sun<br />
Butterflies are solar powered insects. <strong>The</strong>y are cold blooded and like<br />
to start their day warming their bodies in the sun. Try to locate your<br />
butterfly garden where it will receive lots of sun throughout the day.<br />
Swamp Milkweed<br />
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Malachite<br />
Queen<br />
Ruddy Daggerwing<br />
Variegated Fritillary<br />
Don’t overuse pesticides<br />
Most pesticides are poisonous to butterflies. Remove pests by<br />
hand or use insecticidal soap sold at a nursery. You can also try this<br />
homemade remedy: Mix 3 Tablespoons Ivory Soap, 3 Tablespoons<br />
cooking oil with 1 gallon of water. Apply to plant when the temperature<br />
is 80 or below.<br />
Why is it important to bring back the dwindling populations of<br />
butterflies In addition to being enchanted by watching butterflies fluttering<br />
in your garden, butterflies are important pollinators and part of the<br />
food chain. <strong>The</strong>y are considered an “indicator species”, meaning when<br />
you protect butterflies, other insects and animals are protected as well.<br />
Butterfly gardening is gaining in popularity, so there are growing<br />
sources of information to help you along the way. Some good books are<br />
Florida’s Fabulous Butterflies by Emmel & Brian Kenney, World<br />
Publications, 1997 and <strong>The</strong> Family Butterfly Book by Rick MikUseful,<br />
Storey Books, Pownal, VT, 2000. Useful websites include: browardbutterflies.org<br />
and www.nababutterfly.com/basics.html. Last, but not least,<br />
we are home to the largest butterfly park in the world, Butterfly World<br />
at Tradewinds Park in Coconut Creek, (954) 977–4434. You can walk<br />
among the gardens and see butterflies first hand at every stage of their<br />
life cycle, take classes or pick up a plant that will be well suited to attract<br />
butterflies to your garden. Well worth a visit.<br />
Butterfly gardening is not hard to do and you will be fascinated as you<br />
watch the magic of their life cycle as they linger in your garden.<br />
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OUTDOORS<br />
Wildlife on the Edge<br />
By Robert Loewendick<br />
Watching wildlife is not only entertaining; it’s also enlightening. For all<br />
ages, wildlife observation continues to gain interest. From city parks to<br />
county nature areas and state parks to national parks, nearly endless opportunities<br />
exist.What about close to home Or better yet, at home It is possible,<br />
no matter what the location or number of acres, both rural and urban.<br />
Wildlife often enters our world in a limited way. Some folks wish to see<br />
more and others want fewer visits. For those who want more, they can<br />
improve the odds by creating “edge” on their property – at any scale or level.<br />
Critters love edge, any edge created when two habitats meet. For example,<br />
a row of trees growing along a field edge, or a group of shrubs planted<br />
in the corner of the yard. Wildlife is attracted to diversity of habitat<br />
and especially so when a food source, water source, and shelter are<br />
included. If numerous acres are available for habitat improvement, then<br />
creating edge on a large scale can be expensive. If plenty of time (likely<br />
years) is available, the results will be tremendous. Efforts rewarded with<br />
hours of watching wildlife. If multiple acres are not available to you, don’t<br />
give up just yet. A little edge goes a long way in attracting wildlife.<br />
<strong>The</strong> three elements to keep in mind during the edge plan process are food,<br />
water, and shelter. By providing this trio, the attracted wildlife will likely<br />
hang around longer and in turn provide more observation opportunities.<br />
An abundance of time has been spent on planning the construction of your<br />
home, the interior design, and maybe landscaping.<strong>The</strong> edge can be created<br />
in little time and with minimal funds, also deserves its share of planning.<br />
When selecting food sources for the edge in your yard or at its perimeter,<br />
choose native species of trees, shrubs, and plants. Consider the seeds and<br />
berries the bushes will develop as wildlife meals. Confirming your planting<br />
selections are native will ensure the wildlife will be returning for more.<br />
Consider any edge planting as a year-round food source. Planting several<br />
species is better, as this provides a variety of food sources to provide intervals<br />
of food supplies.<br />
Water sources located near an edge, possibly a small pond acting as an<br />
element of the edge, is a positive. Simple items such as a birdbath or a rocksurrounded<br />
pond provide drinking water and also may attract aquatic<br />
species for watching.Water near the edge can become quite a popular spot<br />
for wildlife, so understand the area may become a bit muddled at times.<br />
<strong>The</strong> wildlife species you prefer to see most will decide the exact size<br />
and location for the water source. If one element can be left from your<br />
Creating an “edge”, where two habitats meet, in your<br />
neighborhood wildlife sanctuary, landscape it will could provide be the hours water. of observation An edge of enjoyment. vegetation<br />
alone will attract numerous species of furry critters, PHOTO birds, CREDIT: butterflies,<br />
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and other colorful insects.<br />
Providing an edge also provides wildlife shelter.Tree canopies, tight shrub<br />
branches, ground canopying and flowerbeds protect animals from<br />
inclement weather, although some creatures enjoy a romp in the rain.<br />
Small brush piles situated in an orderly fashion near the border provides<br />
protection for numerous species of the smaller size. When the pile begins<br />
to collapse and flatten, it can be utilized in the compost pile and the cycle<br />
begins again.<br />
<strong>The</strong> design of an edge works best if a step-process is utilized. Planting<br />
taller growth such as trees at the furthest point from the observation<br />
point, say the house, then planting a shorter specimen, such as shrub, and<br />
then down to the ground covers or flowering plants that keep low. This<br />
progression of height and width flowing toward the wildlife watcher presents<br />
full viewing of the wildlife as it enters and exits the edge. Whether<br />
big or small, covering acres or only a few feet next to the property line, the<br />
planted edge can also be placed in an L-shape. Picking a corner of the lot<br />
that gets the least amount of people traffic fits this plan perfectly.<br />
Again…situate taller plants or trees in the back and the smaller ones in<br />
the front, gradually going both directions from the corner as far as possible.<br />
This creates a comfort zone and that generates quality and relaxed<br />
wildlife for viewing. Get the camera ready.<br />
It’s wise to keep a collection of field guidebooks near the viewing window<br />
or on the deck table. A decent pair of binoculars should accompany the<br />
books of course, but don’t let the book pages take up all your time! Focus<br />
on the edge and see what appears!<br />
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New attitude<br />
Thank you to Miss Debbie for providing another enjoyable summer<br />
program for eager equestrians this year. It was amazing to see so many<br />
young beginners learn so much about horse care, safety and independent<br />
riding skills.<strong>The</strong> more advanced students honed their abilities, and found<br />
a comfort level on the more advanced school horses. Talk about building<br />
self-esteem! <strong>The</strong> practice horse shows at the end of each session gave the<br />
riders a sense of accomplishment. We hope to see some of these new<br />
riders in the show ring this year.<br />
4-H News<br />
A representative from K94U Rescue was a guest at our last meeting.<br />
K94U is a no-kill dog rescue organization that has an average of 50 dogs<br />
in need of home placements. Lauren Friedland and her family have<br />
fostered two of the dogs so far. <strong>The</strong> change in temperament and the<br />
brightness of their faces is because of the unconditional love this family<br />
provides for these dogs until a permanent home is found. It is truly a<br />
kind and selfless way to<br />
give back to the community.<br />
If you are interested<br />
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4-H members continue to volunteer their<br />
services in caring for the horses at the South<br />
Florida SPCA. We are very proud of their<br />
efforts. It is extremely hard, yet very rewarding<br />
work. <strong>The</strong>se children and teens learning to get<br />
involved in community service are quite possibly<br />
our future leaders. It is wonderful to be a part of<br />
nurturing their community involvement.<br />
Around the Barn…<br />
Congratulations to camp counselor and student<br />
Heather Bell. She will be leaving us to attend<br />
Auburn University and will be greatly missed.<br />
She has been a part of our barn for many<br />
years. We wish her the best and look forward to<br />
her visits.<br />
True love<br />
A new home, thanks Lauren<br />
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P O O R Q U A L I T Y O F L I F E<br />
Judith E. Horowitz,PhD<br />
Dear Dr. Judith,<br />
I am 50 years old and going through “the changes”. I believe I am averaging four to five hours of sleep per night.<br />
When I get into bed, I am already worried I will not get enough sleep. I toss and turn for an hour or more every<br />
night before dropping off. I get up four or five times to go to the bathroom. Afterwards, I lay awake for quite some<br />
time. I am exhausted all day, every day, and want to nap in the afternoon. Of course, my boss would frown on that.<br />
Can you suggest something to help me – Debbie D. – Coral Springs<br />
Dear Debbie,<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are two distinct problems you are encountering. It seems as<br />
though you are suffering from sleep problems due to menopause, as well as<br />
from anxiety.<br />
Menopausal symptoms vary from person to person and 40% of<br />
menopausal women have sleep disturbances. Of these, approximately 75-<br />
85% of women who experience sleep problems report hot flashes, which<br />
can last for five years or more. Hot flashes are experienced as overall body<br />
heat, but usually begin around a woman’s face and spread downward to her<br />
chest. As a woman’s body temperature rises, she is often awakened. Hot<br />
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more minutes, and sometimes require the changing of bed linens. Due to<br />
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be interrupted for several days, you end up worrying about future<br />
awakenings.Thus, a cycle of anxiety prior to bedtime may begin, which in<br />
itself can become the source of insomnia.<br />
Although many believe older adults need less sleep than younger people, this<br />
is not true.Older adults need 7-9 hours of sleep per night. Unfortunately,it is<br />
typical for older people to sleep less deeply and wake more frequently during<br />
the night. Many people your age go to sleep earlier in the night and wake<br />
earlier in the morning than they did as young adults. Lack of sleep can<br />
actually cause memory and attention problems, as well as depression, which<br />
are frequently and erroneously attributed to the aging process. Neurological<br />
problems, such as Parkinson’s disease, and psychological conditions, such as<br />
anxiety and depression, can cause insomnia, as can asthma, back or joint pain,<br />
and stomach distress.<br />
Much like regular exercise, which is healthy for both your body and mind,<br />
good sleep habits, called sleep hygiene, can improve your overall health.<br />
Keeping a regular schedule, i.e., going to sleep and waking the same time<br />
every day, is essential. My friends make fun of me because I want to end<br />
our Saturday evening socializing rather early. Regardless of what time I go<br />
to sleep, I awaken daily by 5:30AM. Keeping to your schedule during<br />
vacations, holidays, and weekends is essential for good sleep hygiene.<br />
Bedtime rituals can also improve your sleep. Mine include walking our<br />
dog, washing my face, brushing my teeth, putting moisturizer on my<br />
hands and feet, and reading for a brief period of time. My brain associates<br />
all of these activities, in the correct chronological order, with sleep.<br />
Other sleep habits include:<br />
Avoiding exercise for six hours before you intend to go to sleep.<br />
Limit your caffeine (which includes chocolate and even decaf tea, as<br />
some caffeine remains in tea even when decaffeinated) intake to<br />
mornings.<br />
Set the proper mood in your bedroom. Soft sheets, comfortable<br />
pillows, no light or noise and a cool temperature all work wonders.<br />
Eat a light snack (think comfort foods) comprised of those foods<br />
that ordinarily make you drowsy.<br />
Eschew nicotine and alcoholic beverages.<br />
Do not use your computer or play video games for up to two hours<br />
before bedtime. Researchers say the light from the computer may<br />
disrupt one’s ability to easily fall asleep.<br />
Regularly exercise outside in the early morning daylight as much as<br />
possible as this will help reset your circadian rhythm, or body clock.<br />
It is important you not get into bed if you are not sleepy. If you don’t<br />
fall asleep 15 minutes after getting into bed, it is best that you get<br />
up, move to a different room, and try to engage in some activity you<br />
find relaxing. It is important that you do not go back to bed until you<br />
are sleepy. Unfortunately, when individuals do not get enough sleep<br />
during the night they wish to nap during the daytime. In order to<br />
enable nighttime sleep to easily occur, do not allow yourself to nap<br />
during the daytime.<br />
To deal with your hot flashes, you might benefit from wearing loose,<br />
cotton sleepwear to bed. Keep your bedroom well ventilated, and<br />
you may wish to use a fan to keep the air circulating and to help dry<br />
perspiration. If your night sweats persist, you may wish to avoid<br />
spicy foods at dinnertime or as bedtime snacks.<br />
Much like regular exercise… good<br />
sleep habits, called sleep hygiene, can<br />
improve your overall health.<br />
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Estrogen replacement (ET) and hormone replacement therapy (estrogen<br />
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prescribed the lowest possible dosage of HRT for the briefest period of<br />
time. Estrogen usually can reduce the frequency and intensity of hot flashes.<br />
Some women have found relief from homeopathic remedies, such as black<br />
cohosh and soy products. However, the Food and Drug Administration<br />
has not regulated or controlled these substances and their long-term<br />
efficacy and risks are currently unknown.<br />
Moreover, you might benefit from periodically taking prescription sleep<br />
medication. With your assistance, your physician will determine the most<br />
suitable drug based on the characteristics of your particular sleep problem(s).<br />
Daily relaxation exercises can reduce anxiety about sleep, but you may<br />
wish to try cognitive behavioral therapy, as well. Psychologists can help<br />
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Should you wish to submit a question, please contact Dr. Horowitz at<br />
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How quick we forget<br />
IBy Rev. George Faragi<br />
I was thinking out loud the other day about humanity’s problem of taking<br />
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FROM THE EXPERTS<br />
Living Trusts:<br />
By Arthur Rottenstein, General Securities Principal<br />
FACT<br />
And<br />
FICTION<br />
LLIVING TRUSTS are powerful estate planning tools<br />
that can help many people. Living trusts provide certain<br />
advantages that are not available with other estate<br />
planning devices. Living trusts are a way to manage<br />
and control property during life and distribute property<br />
at death. <strong>The</strong>y are not, however, a cure-all. Disciples of<br />
the living trust abound today. <strong>The</strong>y tout the advantages<br />
of living trusts with the fervor of a television evangelist.<br />
Let’s separate the facts from some of the fiction out there.<br />
First, it is necessary to understand the nature of a living trust.Technically,<br />
living trusts are “revocable inter vivos” trusts. If a trust is “revocable,” the<br />
person who establishes the trust can change all or any part of the trust, so<br />
long as that person is competent.“Inter vivos” is Latin for “during life.” At<br />
death, the living trust becomes irrevocable. Assets owned by living trusts<br />
generally are not included as part of the probate process at death. Probate<br />
is the court proceeding by which a deceased person’s assets are gathered<br />
and distributed to his or her beneficiaries.<br />
Fact or fiction Avoiding<br />
probate is always desirable.<br />
In a strict sense, this is fiction. Probate can be an expensive and timeconsuming<br />
process. However, many states have adopted the modern<br />
Uniform Probate Code that substantially streamlines the process. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
are some situations in which a probate proceeding may be desirable.<br />
Arthur Rottenstein<br />
Registered Securities Principal<br />
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Fact or fiction Living trusts always save<br />
money during administration of the estate.<br />
By avoiding the probate court, living trusts may save on the associated<br />
attorney fees and court costs. However, there are still income and estate<br />
tax returns to file and legal, administrative and asset transfer work to do.<br />
This claim is not fiction, although it is hyperbole.<br />
Fact or fiction Living trusts save on estate taxes. Fiction. Living trusts<br />
do not necessarily save federal estate taxes. Estate tax saving provisions<br />
can be incorporated into living trusts. However, those same provisions<br />
can be incorporated into a will. <strong>The</strong>refore, living trusts do not offer any<br />
inherent tax saving advantages.<br />
Fact or fiction Living trusts are private.<br />
This is largely fact. By avoiding the probate process, you can keep<br />
the distribution of your assets private. If the trust is funded (i.e., assets<br />
have been transferred into the trust before death) the size of the estate<br />
can be kept quiet. Note that some transfers, notably real estate,<br />
are always public. Note also that the probate process in many<br />
states prohibits outsiders from learning what assets are part of the<br />
estate’s inventory.<br />
Fact or fiction A living trust<br />
can help in the event of incapacity.<br />
Fact. Providing you have either placed assets in the trust before<br />
incapacity or a device exists to place your assets into the trust in the<br />
event of incapacity. Another device, the durable power of attorney, can<br />
be used in some cases as a less expensive alternative to the living trust<br />
when planning for incapacity.<br />
A trust is not appropriate for every individual. You should discuss<br />
the advantages of a trust with your estate-planning attorney if:<br />
You are the parent of minor children.<br />
You desire privacy.<br />
You own real property.<br />
Your estate is in excess of the applicable exclusion amount.<br />
You wish to avoid probate.<br />
<strong>The</strong> living trust is an important tool that provides many advantages.<br />
Living trusts are not, and never have been, a panacea. It remains<br />
important to work with an experienced estate-planning attorney and<br />
evaluate all alternatives before adopting an estate planning strategy.<br />
This material was prepared by Raymond James for use by Arthur<br />
Rottenstein, General Securities Principal, of Raymond James Financial<br />
Services, Inc. Member FINRA/SIPC.<br />
Arthur Rottenstein is a Registered Securities Principal with Raymond<br />
James Financial Services in Boca Raton. He has been helping people<br />
with financial planning since 1982. Please feel free to call Arthur at<br />
954.341.7209 or email arthur.rottenstein@raymondjames.com. Please<br />
also feel free to visit his website at coralspringsfinancialplanner.com.<br />
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