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L a t e F a l l | 2 0 0 6<br />

THE <strong>CRADLE</strong> PARTNERS l With DCFS<br />

Imagine a group of children who<br />

have suffered the trauma of being<br />

removed from their biological parents<br />

due to abuse or neglect. <strong>The</strong>se<br />

children stay within the Department of<br />

Children and Family Services (DCFS)<br />

foster care system until they finally<br />

find a home with an adoptive family.<br />

Tragedy strikes again, however, when<br />

their adoptive parents die or become<br />

incapacitated, leaving these children<br />

parentless yet again.<br />

This is the situation for thousands of<br />

children in the care of Illinois DCFS –<br />

true “orphans” who have experienced<br />

unimaginable losses. A DCFS program<br />

called Family Placement and Support<br />

Services, now managed by <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>,<br />

is working to help these children to be<br />

re-adopted by family members of their<br />

deceased parents. Last year, this oneof-a-kind<br />

program served 99 families<br />

and 167 children throughout Northern<br />

Illinois, providing legal assistance to<br />

facilitate the new adoption, grief counseling,<br />

and practical assistance such as<br />

clothing, school supplies and beds, to<br />

help these children recover from their<br />

multiple losses and find the love of a<br />

family once again.<br />

Family Placement and Support Services<br />

began in 2000 when DCFS requested<br />

support for the agency’s Post-Adoption<br />

Unit. An intense national effort<br />

launched in the late 1990s to find<br />

permanent families for children who<br />

were waiting in the foster care system<br />

resulted in a significant increase in the<br />

number of adoption cases. In some<br />

cases the foster families decided to<br />

adopt the children they were fostering.<br />

In many cases, relatives of the<br />

children came forward and legally<br />

adopted them. <strong>The</strong>se relatives often<br />

were single, older individuals, including<br />

grandparents. Subsequently, in the last<br />

six years a large number of children<br />

were left without a parent due to death<br />

or incapacitation.<br />

A majority of the children placed<br />

through this program are considered to<br />

have “special needs,” such as prenatal<br />

exposure to alcohol or drugs, trauma<br />

resulting from neglect or abuse, or the<br />

fact that they are in sibling groups.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se needs qualify the adoptive family<br />

for an adoption subsidy. To continue<br />

to benefit from the subsidy, the child<br />

must have a legal parent or guardian.<br />

Under our contract with DCFS,<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> will handle the adoption<br />

procedures for the new family as well<br />

as the transfer of the adoption subsidy.<br />

This year’s contract, which began on<br />

July 1, anticipates a caseload of 80<br />

families at any given time. Program<br />

Director Nancy Crouch and her five<br />

permanency specialists serve families<br />

in Cook County and the collar counties.<br />

<strong>The</strong> team’s varied duties include<br />

conducting initial and ongoing risk<br />

assessments; completing home studies<br />

and monitoring the home post-placement;<br />

providing medical and educational<br />

advocacy; and completing adoption/guardianship<br />

subsidies.<br />

When <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> was approached last<br />

March by DCFS and asked if we might<br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> <strong>Events</strong><br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> HOLIDAY PARTY<br />

Saturday, December 2, 2006<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>, Evanston<br />

RUSSIA HOLIDAY PARTY<br />

Saturday, January 20, 2007<br />

White Nights, Rosemont<br />

FIRST LOOK FOR CHARITY<br />

Thursday, February 8, 2007<br />

McCormick Place, Chicago<br />

Join us for this exclusive private reception and<br />

preview of the Chicago Auto Show benefiting<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> and 18 other Chicago-area<br />

charities. Black tie. For more information,<br />

contact Bonnie Krasny, <strong>Events</strong> Manager, at<br />

847-733-3234 or bkrasny@cradle.org<br />

CONGRATULATIONS!<br />

Congratulations to Alyson Green and Kevin<br />

Gudahl, who brought their son Nathaniel<br />

home on November 1, 2006!<br />

(Continued on page 2)<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>'s mission is to benefit children... by providing education, guidance and life-long support on parenting choices.<br />

Our commitment is to serve as a partner in creating and sustaining nurturing families.


DCFS | ...Continued<br />

be interested in assuming oversight of this program, we were<br />

honored and proud, and looked at this challenge as an opportunity<br />

to assist even more children. As a leader in child welfare, we<br />

look forward to strengthening our relationship with Illinois DCFS<br />

and expanding <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s role in the public child welfare sector.<br />

MAKING THE HOLIDAYS BRIGHTER<br />

With the holidays approaching, we wanted to do even more.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Associates, the young professionals board of <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong>, has committed to helping make the holidays brighter<br />

for these children by donating gifts. With 80 families and more<br />

than 200 children in the program, we have also reached out to<br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> staff, donors and friends for assistance.<br />

Each family identified two items for each child in their household<br />

– a “want” and a “need.” <strong>The</strong> children, ages 1 to 18, have<br />

made requests ranging from a set of Sponge Bob sheets, to a<br />

soft pak for an insulin pump, to a computer for a family with 7<br />

teenage boys. Wrapped gifts will be distributed to the children<br />

by their family's caseworker. If you are interested in helping<br />

with this effort, please contact Maureen Kelly at 847-733-3230.<br />

We are delighted to report that thanks to the generosity of <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> Associates and everyone else involved in this effort,<br />

there will be a gift for every child on the list!<br />

MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT<br />

Dear Friends,<br />

Although we are immersed in the<br />

practice of adoption every day at <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong>, National Adoption Awareness<br />

Month gives us pause to reflect upon<br />

the work we do and its meaning in the<br />

lives of our clients, staff, supporters,<br />

and – most importantly – the children<br />

we serve.<br />

This November, we celebrate all of the birthparents, adoptive<br />

parents and <strong>Cradle</strong> babies who are part of our world. We celebrate<br />

our partner organizations and those working to find safe,<br />

permanent homes for children in foster care. We congratulate<br />

the 225 <strong>Cradle</strong> families who welcomed a child into their hearts<br />

and their homes in the past year.<br />

Adoption has touched each of us differently and continues to<br />

impact our lives in remarkable ways. As we look ahead to a new<br />

year, we are thankful for the opportunity to continue doing this<br />

work, and for every member of our extended <strong>Cradle</strong> family.<br />

With best wishes for a healthy, happy holiday season,<br />

Julie S. Tye<br />

ADOPTION CLASSES | Open to the Community<br />

PROMOTING CHILDREN’S LANGUAGE SKILLS<br />

Saturday, January 20, 2007, 9:00 to 11:00 a.m., <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

For a variety of reasons, children adopted internationally or domestically<br />

may be at risk for communication delays and disorders. This<br />

class will address expectations for typical language development<br />

and second language learning; strategies for home language<br />

stimulation; red flags for speech impairments; and how to access<br />

appropriate support services.<br />

Presenter Renee Reilly, Ph.D., CCC/SLP is a licensed speechlanguage<br />

pathologist, a professor of communication sciences and<br />

disorders at Northwestern University, and the parent of two<br />

children adopted from Guatemala.<br />

NAVIGATING EARLY INTERVENTION AND<br />

SPECIAL EDUCATION SERVICES<br />

Thursday, March 1, 2007, 6:30 to 8:30 p.m., <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

This class will provide an overview of the Early Intervention system<br />

for infants and young children up to 3 years of age, and of the<br />

Special Education system for children from 3 years to young adulthood.<br />

Parents will learn about common risk factors; how and when<br />

to search for services; eligibility requirements; types of service<br />

plans; and how these services can help meet their child’s developmental<br />

and learning needs.<br />

Presenter Pat Kluzik-Stauch, MA, is an adoptive parent and Early<br />

Intervention Specialist with 20 years of experience as a teacher and<br />

educator.<br />

Fees: $20 per person per class; $10 for second family member; no<br />

fee for <strong>Cradle</strong> pre-placement clients. Register online at<br />

www.cradle.org or by calling 847-733-3233.<br />

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NOTEWORTHY<br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> FAMILIES FEATURED IN<br />

NEW YORK TIMES ARTICLE<br />

SAYERS CENTER l News<br />

On August 17, 2006, the New York Times ran a cover<br />

story on transracial adoption entitled “Breaking Through<br />

Adoption’s Racial Barriers.” Two <strong>Cradle</strong> adoptive families<br />

and one waiting family are featured in the article, which also<br />

quotes <strong>Cradle</strong> counselor Judy Stigger.<br />

You can read the article on our website at:<br />

www.cradle.org/about_news.html<br />

A <strong>CRADLE</strong> FAMILY ON NPR<br />

<strong>The</strong> subject of transracial adoption is also addressed in a<br />

National Public Radio story that aired on August 23, 2006.<br />

To listen to Sarah and Dan Giloth’s story about adopting<br />

their daughter Shelby, enter the following link in your web<br />

browser:<br />

www.npr.org/templates/story/story.phpstoryId=5696238<br />

SPECIAL THANKS<br />

We extend our sincere gratitude to Sidley Austin LLP for the<br />

many hours of pro bono legal work the firm has done on<br />

behalf of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> in the last year.<br />

Sidley Austin’s contribution of time, expertise and concern<br />

for our mission has provided a tremendous benefit to <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> and our continuing ability to advocate for children<br />

while bringing families together through adoption.<br />

SIGN-UP FOR OUR E-NEWSLETTER<br />

Would you like to stay up-to-date on <strong>Cradle</strong> news and<br />

events If you have an email address, we'd love to keep in<br />

touch with you through our <strong>Cradle</strong> Connections E-newsletter!<br />

We send our newsletters out about six times each year,<br />

highlighting program news, upcoming events, interviews<br />

with <strong>Cradle</strong> families and much more! If you'd like to receive<br />

our email newsletter, please send an email to Lisa Vellenga<br />

at lvellenga@cradle.org and let her know that you'd like to<br />

sign-up for the newsletter.<br />

Delcenia Jones, the Sayers Center Community Outreach Manager<br />

We are delighted to announce that Delcenia Jones is the<br />

Sayers Center’s new Community Outreach Manager.<br />

Del comes to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> with over five years of outreach<br />

experience, most recently as Director of Outreach at Action<br />

for Children, which provides services to children and at-risk youth<br />

in low-income communities. She is excited at the chance to make<br />

a difference in raising awareness of the Sayers Center and educating<br />

the community on the joys of adoption.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Sayers Center has served the African American community<br />

since 1994 by placing African American infants in loving homes.<br />

We have also formed alliances with area churches and organizations<br />

to help educate the community about adoption and the<br />

need for more families to adopt African American and biracial<br />

children.<br />

Two upcoming events will raise funds in support of <strong>The</strong> Sayers<br />

Center. On Sunday December 3, Sayers Center volunteer Rebecca<br />

Holbrook will host a Christmas Bazaar in her home, with a<br />

percentage of proceeds benefitting the Center.<br />

SAVE THE DATE! - THE COLOR PURPLE<br />

On Wednesday, April 18, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Foundation and Sayers<br />

Center Advisory Council are hosting a special preview performance<br />

of the Tony Award-winning musical, <strong>The</strong> Color Purple, at<br />

the Cadillac Palace <strong>The</strong>atre in Chicago. Tickets are $100, with net<br />

proceeds benefiting the Sayers Center. Seats are limited and must<br />

be reserved by February 15, 2007. For more information, contact<br />

Maureen Kelly at 847-733-3230 or mkelly@cradle.org.


AUTUMN MOON | Festival<br />

Nearly 200 <strong>Cradle</strong> and Family Resource Center parents, children and<br />

friends gathered at Oakton Community College in Des Plaines on<br />

Sunday afternoon, October 8, to celebrate Autumn Moon Festival.<br />

A popular, family-focused holiday observed throughout Asia, Autumn Moon<br />

marks the end of the harvest season and has long been an occasion to give<br />

thanks for the bounty of the land.<br />

Planned especially for families with children from China, Korea, Vietnam,<br />

Cambodia and Taiwan, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s Autumn Moon Festival incorporates traditions<br />

from various Asian countries. <strong>The</strong> children, many in traditional dress,<br />

participated in cultural games, activities and crafts including Vietnamese silk<br />

painting, origami, Chinese mask making and folding Korean fans. <strong>The</strong> Chicago<br />

North Chinese School entertained guests with traditional dances, martial arts<br />

demonstrations and a joyful lion dance and lantern parade. Festival participants<br />

also enjoyed a delicious Asian appetizer buffet.<br />

Top: <strong>The</strong> children receive a martial arts lesson.<br />

Above: Emily Mitchell, 4, wearing a traditional Vietnamese<br />

ao dai (dress) and non la (hat), enjoys the festivities at<br />

Autumn Moon 2006.<br />

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Autumn Moon Festival is an annual event sponsored by <strong>Cradle</strong> Connections,<br />

a program that works to strengthen friendships and support between <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

adoptive families. We would like to thank volunteer committee members Carole<br />

Braverman, Siobhan Flynn, Andi Herchenbach, Mary Jo O’Donnell, Deb Sawyer<br />

and Bobbi Ann Fulk for helping to organize this year’s festival. Special thanks to<br />

6-year-old Renata Fulk for bringing her piggy bank to donate to the babies in<br />

the Nursery! Her mom believes that events such as Autumn Moon are a great<br />

way to expose Renata to some of her country’s traditions.<br />

“By celebrating and embracing Renata’s ethnic culture, we are helping to instill<br />

her with pride and knowledge of her origins, and also showing her it is something<br />

we value and enjoy as a family,” said Bobbi Ann. “We are learning more<br />

and more about Chinese culture, and by accepting and celebrating these traditions,<br />

it shows our daughter that we embrace cultures that are different than<br />

those we were raised within.”


SIRAGUSA SCHOLARSHIPS<br />

For Families with Kids with Special Needs<br />

In October, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Foundation mailed Siragusa Scholarship<br />

applications to all <strong>Cradle</strong> families who have adopted children with<br />

special needs and to every family who has adopted a child since<br />

1990 (recognizing that special needs may arise long after a placement).<br />

If you would like to apply for a scholarship on behalf of your<br />

child, we ask that you please fax or send your application to <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> by Friday, December 8.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Siragusa Scholarship Fund for Special Needs Adoptive Families<br />

has enabled <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> to award small grants totaling more than<br />

$96,000 to 75 <strong>Cradle</strong> families over the past six years. Thanks to a<br />

generous grant this year from the Topfer Family Foundation, our<br />

pool of available funds for 2007 has doubled. Scholarship recipients<br />

will be announced by the end of January 2007.<br />

If you have any questions, or if you did not receive an application<br />

and would like one sent to you, please contact Heidi Bloom in the<br />

Foundation office at 847-733-3240 or e-mail hbloom@cradle.org.<br />

Fax: 847-475-5871.<br />

THE <strong>CRADLE</strong> FAMILY LEGACY PROGRAM<br />

During the last eighty years, planned gifts have helped improve<br />

the lives of thousands of <strong>Cradle</strong> children and their families.<br />

Most planned gifts are simple to create. <strong>The</strong>y can help you<br />

solve certain income and tax challenges, sometimes right away.<br />

Now is a great time for you to make a planned gift!<br />

IRA Charitable Giving – A New Possibility<br />

Individuals who are aged 70.5 and older may now direct gifts<br />

to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> directly from their IRA without paying income tax<br />

on the withdrawal. Use your minimum required IRA withdrawal<br />

for this purpose and you may gain other tax-related benefits.<br />

Why not make your charitable gift this year with the equivalent<br />

of pre-tax dollars <strong>The</strong> law governing these gifts expires in<br />

2007, so don’t put it off – you can benefit now and next year<br />

too!<br />

Charitable Gift Annuities (CGA)<br />

Please consider a CGA before you sell that appreciated asset<br />

to generate annual income. This type of gift will transform that<br />

asset into a charitable gift that provides you with annual income<br />

at competitive rates of interest and terrific tax benefits.<br />

THE W.P & H.B WHITE<br />

FOUNDATION<br />

A Decade of Support<br />

For the tenth consecutive year, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> has received<br />

a generous grant from the W.P. and H.B. White<br />

Foundation in support of our Nursery and Special<br />

Needs Infant Care Program. We are very grateful for the<br />

Foundation’s longstanding commitment to the babies in the<br />

Nursery.<br />

William P. White, along with his two brothers, founded the<br />

White Cap Company in 1926 in an old box factory on Goose<br />

Island in the Chicago River. White Cap, a manufacturer and<br />

designer of caps and closures for the food industry, invented<br />

and patented vacuum-sealed bottle caps and pioneered the<br />

twist-off style of closure. Besides being innovators, the White<br />

brothers were known to be outstanding employers, offering<br />

good pay and job security, loaning money to workers in need,<br />

and providing a free hot lunch for all salaried employees. In<br />

the early days of the company, William’s wife Hazel would<br />

prepare and serve lunch every day for the employees in the<br />

Goose Island facility.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Whites established a charitable foundation in 1953 “to<br />

give back to the community in which his business prospered<br />

and his employees lived,” said foundation Executive Director<br />

M. Margaret Blandford. Today, the W.P. and H.B. White foundation<br />

provides funding to many educational, social service<br />

and health care organizations in the Chicago metropolitan<br />

area, with an emphasis on helping those most in need.<br />

In the award letter <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> received with our September<br />

2006 grant, Ms. Blandford writes, “the Board’s deliberations<br />

focused on how valuable your hard work is to assuring a better<br />

life for those you serve as well as the future good of the<br />

country.” <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s onsite Nursery, in existence since 1923,<br />

enables us to offer every baby entrusted to us the best possible<br />

start in life and a chance for a healthier future. We thank<br />

the W.P. & H.B. White Foundation for their continuing friendship<br />

and support.<br />

Call Jenny Merdinger at (847) 448-8752 for details. Remember<br />

to discuss any planned giving idea with your professional<br />

advisors prior to making a gift.


THE <strong>CRADLE</strong> BALL | Celebrates Diversity<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Foundation hosted its 12th annual gala, Home<br />

Is Where <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Is, on Saturday evening, October 21,<br />

in the elegant Sidney Yates Gallery of the Chicago Cultural<br />

Center. Every aspect of the event – from the entertainment, to<br />

the food, to the wide array of items offered at our silent auction<br />

– reflected the diversity of our city and our <strong>Cradle</strong> families.<br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> Foundation President Brooke Voss with Ball co-chair Margaret<br />

Bengtson and chair Alyce Caspers<br />

Guests dined on gourmet ethnic fare representing the Chicago<br />

neighborhoods of Greek Town, Little Italy, Pilsen, Chinatown and<br />

the Gold Coast. Another highlight of the evening was the superb<br />

multicultural entertainment. <strong>The</strong> Chicago Lion Dancers snaked<br />

through the room to the beat of a drum, holding aloft a brightly<br />

colored lion’s head and tail. <strong>The</strong> South Shore Drill Team gave<br />

a thrilling performance of rifle and flag twirling set to hits from<br />

the 1960s, 70s and 80s. Russian folk dancers from Ethnic Dance<br />

Chicago and belly dancers from Namaste delighted the crowd.<br />

After dinner, Brazilian music group Chicago Samba took to the<br />

stage, performing traditional Latin dances and luring guests onto<br />

the dance floor!<br />

Fox News Chicago reporter and <strong>Cradle</strong> adoptive mom Anne<br />

Kavanagh emceed the evening’s program with skill and aplomb,<br />

sharing her own family’s adoption experience, conducting our<br />

exciting live auction, and introducing speakers. <strong>The</strong> room fell silent<br />

when a <strong>Cradle</strong> adoptive father got up to tell the amazing story of<br />

bringing his two children home from Guatemala. A <strong>Cradle</strong> baby<br />

adopted in 1946 paid eloquent tribute to his adoptive parents and<br />

his birthmother. <strong>The</strong> final speaker, a young <strong>Cradle</strong> birthmother,<br />

spoke openly and passionately about her decision several years<br />

ago to entrust her son to a couple better able to give him the life<br />

she wished for him. All three spoke about the wonderful support<br />

they received from <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Chicago Cultural Center’s Sidney Yates Gallery provided a beautiful<br />

setting for the gala.<br />

We are grateful to <strong>Cradle</strong> Benefit Council Chair Alyce Caspers,<br />

co-chair Margaret Bengtson, and the entire committee for their<br />

hard work in planning Home Is Where <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Is, which raised<br />

$130,000 for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>'s programs and services. We would also<br />

like to thank all of our attendees, sponsors, item donors, volunteers<br />

and speakers, and everyone who supported the evening’s<br />

auctions and raffle. Congratulations to John Meany, winner of our<br />

$5,000 cash raffle!<br />

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Left: This smiling group<br />

includes, from left, Jane Swan,<br />

Bob Tesar, Judy Herbst, Larry<br />

Rubly, <strong>Cradle</strong> Presient Julie Tye,<br />

Carol Herlache and Peter Swan.<br />

Above: Celebrity emcee Anne Kavanagh introduces <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

adoptive parent Kevin Reilly.<br />

Middle Left: Members of the South Shore Drill Team display their skill.<br />

Bottom Left: Enjoying the evening’s festivities are, from left, Stuart and<br />

Jennifer Litwin, Beth Bronner Singer, Paul and Nadine Heidrich and Peg<br />

Cartier.


AUCTION, RAFFLE & SPECIAL PRIZE DONORS<br />

Thank you to all of the individuals, businesses, retail shops and corporations that donated gifts and services to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

Foundation’s fundraising events in 2006. Your support helps <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> continue to provide outstanding programs and services to all<br />

members of the adoption circle.<br />

57th Street Books<br />

A La Carte<br />

ABC7<br />

Abt Electronics<br />

Ace Hardware<br />

Adler Planetarium and<br />

Astronomy Museum<br />

Air Ride Systems<br />

Akai Hana Japanese Restaurant<br />

Alley Gallery<br />

American Girl<br />

Amm’s Limousine Service<br />

Andies Restaurant<br />

Art of Healing<br />

<strong>The</strong> Art Store & Gallery<br />

Arts 220<br />

Lenore Arvia<br />

Ashor’s Room<br />

Associates for Dental Care, P.C.<br />

Baby Signs<br />

Michelle Bacchus<br />

Backyard Barbecue Store<br />

<strong>The</strong> Bagby Collection<br />

Bally Total Fitness<br />

Be Small<br />

Beading Hearts<br />

BeBee HVAC<br />

Margaret and Dale Bengtson<br />

Margie Bennett<br />

Florin and Jane Hampson Berca<br />

Bernardi Securities, Inc.<br />

Big Stick, Inc.<br />

Blue Plate Catering<br />

Body and Sole Dancewear<br />

David Boettcher<br />

G. Bradley Publishing<br />

Braids by Kandi<br />

Brenda Bendel Day Spa and<br />

Make-Up Studio<br />

Jennifer and Howard Brinn<br />

Brunswick Bowling & Billiards<br />

Burhop’s Seafood Stores<br />

Elizabeth Busch<br />

Café Selmarie<br />

Calo Ristorante<br />

Cama Salon<br />

Campagnola<br />

Georgene Campion<br />

<strong>The</strong> Canvasback<br />

Caribou Coffee<br />

Carlucci<br />

Casella Interiors<br />

48 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Newsletter<br />

Alyce and Richard Caspers<br />

CBS 2 Chicago<br />

Centre Club<br />

Centre East, Inc.<br />

Chalet Nursery & Garden Shops<br />

Charlie Trotter’s<br />

Chicago Architecture<br />

Foundation<br />

Chicago Bulls<br />

Chicago Children’s Museum<br />

Chicago Cubs<br />

Chicago Kids Company, <strong>The</strong>atre<br />

for Children<br />

Chicago Partners, LLC<br />

Chicago Shakespeare <strong>The</strong>ater<br />

Chicago Symphony Orchestra<br />

Chicago White Sox<br />

Children’s Museum of<br />

Indianapolis<br />

Chopra Center of <strong>The</strong> La Costa<br />

Resort<br />

Classic Kids Photography<br />

Clean Plate Club<br />

Steve Cole<br />

Harriet Coleman<br />

Comfort Inn<br />

Corry Connelly<br />

Denise and David Cortesi<br />

Cosi Inc.<br />

Costco Wholesale - Niles<br />

Crocodile Pie, a Children’s<br />

Bookstore<br />

Crown Golf Properties, L.P.<br />

Crown <strong>The</strong>atres<br />

<strong>The</strong> Crystal Cave<br />

D. Grunwald Fine Jewelers<br />

Dallia Tile<br />

Christopher Deeney<br />

Gerald Deeney<br />

Design by Rox<br />

Desiree Chocolates<br />

Erin Dickes<br />

Dick’s Sporting Goods<br />

Dinner at Eight<br />

Don Roth’s Blackhawk<br />

Don’s Fishmarket<br />

Judy & Dan Dorr<br />

William Doyle<br />

<strong>The</strong> Drake Hotel, Chicago<br />

Dreams Come True<br />

Drury Lane <strong>The</strong>ater Oakbrook<br />

DuPage Children’s Museum<br />

E.D. Granite<br />

Edwards Florist and<br />

Greenhouses Inc.<br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> BALL SPONSORS<br />

TABLES<br />

MICHIGAN AVENUE TABLE<br />

Alan and Beth Bronner Singer<br />

WATER TOWER TABLE<br />

Polly and John Dix<br />

Cynthia and Robert Sargent<br />

Phyllis Scholl Thomas<br />

Larry Rubly<br />

STATE ST. RESERVATION<br />

Michael E. Gordon and<br />

Mary Quinn<br />

Patricia and E. Hoy McConnell II<br />

Ginny and Paul Uhlenhop<br />

NURSERY ANGEL<br />

SPONSORS<br />

Aristotle Foundation<br />

First Nonprofit Insurance<br />

<strong>The</strong> Reichert Foundation<br />

Janice and Mark Scott<br />

Lynntia and David Sutton<br />

Macy and Robert Swift<br />

CITYWIDE SPONSORS<br />

<strong>The</strong> Reichert Foundation<br />

NEIGHBORHOOD SPONSORS<br />

Elkay Manufacturing Company<br />

SPECIAL SPONSORSHIPS<br />

Myers-Briggs and Co., Inc.<br />

Phyllis Scholl Thomas<br />

Ginny and Paul Uhlenhop<br />

FRIEND SPONSORS<br />

Dave Arthur of Warehouse<br />

Direct<br />

Michelle Bacchus and<br />

Marc Van Allen<br />

Sharon and Greg Kaczmarek<br />

Patricia and Carl Overhuls<br />

In memory of Dom A. Perino,<br />

from Connie Perino Goggio<br />

Pinnacle Development Group<br />

Savant Capital Management,<br />

Inc.<br />

Cary Shevin of Dard Products<br />

Eugene Sunshine of<br />

Northwestern University<br />

Women’s Energy Based<br />

Healing<br />

IN KIND DONORS<br />

Chris Devane, Big Stick, Inc.<br />

Jim Beam Brands


AUCTION, RAFFLE & SPECIAL PRIZE DONORS<br />

Eldorado Hotel<br />

Embassy Suites Hotels<br />

EMD Designs<br />

erwin - an american café and bar<br />

Jenny Espencheid<br />

Evanston Athletic Club<br />

Fantasy Kingdom - A Magical<br />

Children’s Play Place<br />

Feng Shui Transformations<br />

Firehouse Grill<br />

Ginger Fisch<br />

Susan Fitch Inc.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Fitzpatrick Hotel in<br />

New York<br />

John Fix<br />

Flat Top Grill<br />

Flourish<br />

Forty One North<br />

Edward Fox Photography<br />

Fox News Chicago<br />

Franz Excavating<br />

A Friend of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

Barry Fulk<br />

George Salon<br />

Glenbrook Racquet Club<br />

Glenbrook Sports Academy<br />

Glessner House Museum<br />

Globe Builders<br />

Globe Café & Bar<br />

Gordon in Lakeview<br />

Michael E. Gordon<br />

Rob Guglielmi<br />

H. Marion Framing Studio<br />

Hands With Heart Massage<br />

Health Matters <strong>The</strong>rapeutic<br />

Massage<br />

Hearthaven Cottage<br />

Hecky’s BBQ<br />

Heidel House Resort<br />

Marc Heidkamp<br />

Peter Hickey<br />

Hilton Garden Inn - Orlando<br />

International Drive North<br />

Hotel Orrington<br />

Hubbard Street Dance Chicago<br />

Hunn Lifting Devices<br />

Hyatt Vacation Club<br />

Nancy Iida<br />

Images<br />

J. Alexander’s<br />

Jacky’s Bistro<br />

James Martin Associates, Inc.<br />

Jane Hamill Boutique<br />

Jewel-Osco<br />

Jim Beam Brands<br />

<strong>The</strong> Joffrey Ballet<br />

Kristen Jones<br />

K40 Electronics<br />

Gregory Kaczmarek<br />

Kane County Cougars<br />

Kate Olerich Photography<br />

Anne Kavanagh<br />

Kidsnips<br />

Jill King<br />

Martha King<br />

Knollwood Club<br />

Kohl Children’s Museum<br />

La Costa Resort & Spa<br />

La Donna Italian Restaurant<br />

Lad & Lassie Shop<br />

Lake Forest Symphony<br />

LakeView Applicance<br />

Distributors<br />

Lambrecht’s Jewelers<br />

Landmark Shops of<br />

Andersonville<br />

Leider Greenhouses<br />

Leonidas Café Chocolaterie<br />

Lester Lampert Inc.<br />

Lettuce Entertain You<br />

Liberty Tax Service<br />

Lifeline <strong>The</strong>atre<br />

Living in the City Transportation<br />

Erica Lofquist<br />

Lotus Furniture<br />

Kathy Lotz<br />

Lou Malnati’s<br />

Amy Lowry<br />

<strong>The</strong> Lukasik Family<br />

LuLu’s Dim Sum & <strong>The</strong>n Sum<br />

Lurvey’s Garden Center<br />

Lyric Opera of Chicago<br />

Doug Mabie<br />

John MacArthur<br />

Lawrence Macy<br />

Maplewood Hotel<br />

Marc Hauser Photography<br />

Maria Elizabeth, Inc.<br />

Mark Shale<br />

Marriott <strong>The</strong>atre in Lincolnshire<br />

Jack Mazzucchelli<br />

Janet McDonald<br />

McDonald’s Carpentersville West<br />

Michelle and William McKenna<br />

Mary and John Meany<br />

Medieval Times Dinner &<br />

Tournament<br />

Eric Mersmann<br />

Metro Premium Wines<br />

Milton Silver Charity Auctions<br />

Autographed Memorabilia<br />

Mity Nice Grill<br />

Moller Financial Services<br />

Morgan Perris Salon<br />

Moto Photo<br />

Mud Pies, Children’s Clothing<br />

and Toys<br />

My Creations Company, LLC<br />

Narra<br />

North Shore Dental<br />

North Shore Optical<br />

North Shore Racquet Club<br />

North Shore Yoga & Fitness<br />

<strong>The</strong> Notebaert Nature Museum<br />

Old Town School of Folk Music<br />

Keith Olson<br />

Onwentsia Club<br />

Lorraine Orbon<br />

Oscar Isberian Rugs<br />

<strong>The</strong> Palmer House Hilton<br />

Marta Pappert<br />

Glenn Pawlak<br />

Pamela Pease<br />

Penny’s From Heaven<br />

<strong>The</strong> Pfister Hotel<br />

Pirates Cove<br />

PitPros<br />

Plate of the Art<br />

Toni Platt<br />

Portraits by Thomas Balsamo<br />

Prairie Moon<br />

Pretty Good Stuff<br />

Quade Productions<br />

Salvatore Quatrochi<br />

Ravinia Festival<br />

Kevin Reilly<br />

Renaissance Chicago North<br />

Shore Hotel<br />

Renaissance Oak Brook Hotel<br />

Ripley’s Believe It Or Not!<br />

Ritz Camera Centers<br />

Ritz-Carlton Chicago<br />

Kristi and Mark Ryken<br />

S&S Automotive<br />

Salpicon<br />

Sam’s Wines and Spirits<br />

Sandy Santangelo<br />

Sarah’s Pastries<br />

Cynthia M. Sargent<br />

Ardythe and Gale Sayers<br />

Schaefer’s Fine Wines, Food &<br />

Spirits<br />

Anne Schleich<br />

Sherie Schleich<br />

Ann and Jim Scott<br />

<strong>The</strong> Second City<br />

Secret Treasures<br />

Six Flags Great America<br />

Skechers Footware<br />

Skyline Mortgage Services, Inc.<br />

James Smirles<br />

Claudia Smith<br />

Southwest Airlines<br />

Spatulatta.com<br />

Nancy Spaulding<br />

Star Plaza <strong>The</strong>atre<br />

Starwood Corporation<br />

Stasek Chevrolet<br />

Linda and Bill Stasek<br />

Stonewall Orchard Golf Club<br />

<strong>The</strong> Strike Zone<br />

Stuart Rodgers Photography<br />

Summit Studio<br />

Sunset Foods<br />

Sutton Studios/David Sutton<br />

Lynntia Sutton<br />

Peter Swan<br />

Sway Jewelry<br />

Sweet Occasions<br />

SYMS Corp.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Talbott Hotel<br />

Target - Elgin<br />

Target - West Dundee<br />

Teddie Kossof Salon<br />

Ian Tepper<br />

Texas de Brazil<br />

<strong>The</strong>atre Building Chicago<br />

<strong>The</strong>rapeutic Bodywork<br />

Phyllis Scholl Thomas<br />

Three Tarts Bakery & Café<br />

Tin Fish<br />

Maureen Tinley<br />

Tommy Nevins Irish Pub<br />

Tonelli’s Restaurant<br />

Toujours Spa & Salon<br />

Shana Trombley<br />

Two Kitchens<br />

Universal Orlando Resort &<br />

Orlando Homewood Suites<br />

Urban Oasis<br />

Walmart - Algonquin<br />

Walmart - Crystal Lake<br />

Wancket Studios<br />

Griswold Ware<br />

Whole Foods<br />

Wildberry Pancakes & Café<br />

Wilderness Hotel & Golf Resort<br />

Wilmette Tailors & Cleaners<br />

Constance Wilson<br />

Windy City Fieldhouse<br />

Winnetka Auxiliary of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

Wishbone Restaurant<br />

Women and Children First<br />

Woodbine Golf Course<br />

Wooden Spoon<br />

Yogaview<br />

Zanies Comedy Club


POSTCARD l From Russia<br />

In late October, Judy Stigger, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s recently<br />

appointed Director of International Adoption for<br />

Russia, and Merrilee Hepler, Vice President of Human<br />

Resources and Administration, traveled to Russia to visit<br />

our Moscow office and some of the regions in which <strong>The</strong><br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> is working. <strong>The</strong>ir goals included gaining a better<br />

understanding of the adoption process and what our families<br />

experience in country, and getting to know <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

staff in Russia. <strong>The</strong>y were pleased to be traveling with<br />

adoptive parents Scott and Meg Costello, who made this<br />

trip to finalize the adoption of their son Ilyin.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Society in the Russian Federation was established<br />

in 2002, and since then, more than 200 Russian<br />

children have been placed with <strong>Cradle</strong> families in the<br />

United States. Valentina Krasnova directs a very dedicated<br />

staff of five in our Moscow office. Regional agents in<br />

the program’s five regions work closely with our families<br />

in a variety of ways, including taking them to the ministry<br />

for their referral and to the orphanage to see their child,<br />

meeting with physicians, and transporting them to and<br />

from the airport, train stations and their hotel. “I was<br />

delighted beyond my expectations with how competent<br />

and gracious our staff is,” said Judy. “<strong>The</strong>y are fluent<br />

both bilingually and culturally and go to extraordinary<br />

measures to help our families.”<br />

Judy and Merrilee visited an orphanage in the Smolensk<br />

region, around 250 miles west of Moscow. <strong>The</strong>y also traveled<br />

to the Republic of Buryatia in Siberia – a journey<br />

across five time zones! – and Judy went on to the city<br />

of Nizhny Novgorod on the Volga River, southeast of<br />

Moscow. In each region they met with ministry officials to<br />

discuss the child referral system, and to let the officials<br />

know that <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s staff in Russia is supported both<br />

organizationally and emotionally by an agency in the U.S.<br />

committed to the welfare of Russian children. “We came<br />

to learn,” Judy explained, “not to dictate standards.”<br />

Although there was precious little time for sightseeing,<br />

our travelers did what Merrilee referred to as the “Cliffs<br />

Notes Tour” of Moscow one Sunday afternoon with<br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> Russia translator/interpreter Oleg Derendyaev.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y enjoyed a stroll around Red Square and admired<br />

the Kremlin’s imposing facade. Another highlight of the<br />

trip was having the privilege of joining Scott and Meg for<br />

their final court appearance. <strong>The</strong> Costellos brought Ilyin<br />

home on October 25.<br />

Judy and Merrilee at the Cathedral of St. Basil in Moscow’s Red Square.<br />

Moscow staff member Oleg Derendyaev captivates a baby at the orphanage<br />

in Smolensk.<br />

ON THE HOME FRONT<br />

Here in Evanston, Judy’s team includes Russia Program Specialist Sue<br />

Petersen and Administrative Assistant Elizabeth Squires. Currently, there<br />

are 25 families enrolled in <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Russia program. On January 20,<br />

2007, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> will be hosting a festive Russia Holiday Party for families<br />

with children from Russia at White Nights restaurant in Rosemont.<br />

In April, the <strong>Cradle</strong> Cares Humanitarian Assistance Program will be<br />

hosting its second annual “Night of Promise” benefit to raise funds for<br />

Russian orphanages in the regions where <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> works. <strong>The</strong> generosity<br />

of <strong>Cradle</strong> Cares donors enabled the orphanage in Smolensk to<br />

purchase space heaters, furniture and kitchen equipment.<br />

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EDUCATING l <strong>The</strong> Community<br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> l Highlights 2006<br />

We are pleased to share with you some of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s<br />

activities and accomplishments of the past fiscal year, which ended<br />

on September 30, 2006:<br />

• <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> placed 87 babies with loving families through our<br />

domestic adoption program.<br />

• Thirty-four of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s domestic placements were black<br />

or biracial babies placed through the Ardythe and Gale<br />

Sayers Center for African American Adoption.<br />

Seminar attendees go over adoption legal information at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>.<br />

On November 2, 2006, health care social workers gathered in<br />

Evanston for a continuing education seminar hosted by <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> seminar focused on changes in Illinois adoption law, and provided<br />

information and training for health care professionals working<br />

with expectant parents. Christina Schneider, Special Assistant General<br />

Counsel with DCFS, spoke about the Illinois Adoption Reform Act.<br />

Tom Hanrahan, an adoption attorney, explained the legal intricacies<br />

of adoption law as it applies to the health care setting.<br />

<strong>Cradle</strong> Outreach Manager Stefanie Dziedzic remarked, "This seminar<br />

was a great opportunity for <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> not only to provide training<br />

to health care workers, but to advocate for best practices in working<br />

with clients who may be considering adoption for their child."<br />

HOLIDAY PARTY - DECEMBER 2<br />

One child whispers a special wish to Santa Claus. Another<br />

shares the excitement of a spinning dreidel. Another begins<br />

to learn the principles of Kwanzaa. All are part of <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s<br />

annual Holiday Party, to be held at 9:30 a.m. Saturday,<br />

December 2. When families gather to welcome this magical<br />

time of the year, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> overflows with smiles. <strong>The</strong>re are<br />

holiday refreshments and a variety of children’s activities. A<br />

storyteller will provide tales of the season.<br />

Often, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Holiday Party becomes an important part<br />

of family traditions. Many families create their own ornaments,<br />

which reflect their heritage. Each year, these ornaments reappear<br />

on one of the trees at <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>.<br />

Girls and boys can attend with their parents, grandparents or<br />

siblings. Frequently, families also invite their children’s birthparents.<br />

International and domestic families are welcome. For<br />

many party guests, a highlight is a visit to the Nursery, where<br />

the nurses always look forward to greeting the children.<br />

• Our international program facilitated the placements of 138<br />

children from 8 countries into permanent, nurturing homes in<br />

the U.S.<br />

• <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Society in Russia was designated a<br />

non-governmental organization as of August 30.<br />

• Nearly 800 expectant women contacted <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> to<br />

inquire about our adoption services. More than half of those<br />

women met with a birthparent counselor to discuss their<br />

options.<br />

• <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> Nursery provided outstanding care for 98 infants,<br />

58 of whom had some degree of special medical need. <strong>The</strong><br />

average daily Nursery census was 8 babies and the average<br />

stay was 31.6 days.<br />

• <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> received over 1100 inquiries from prospective<br />

adoptive families and completed 190 home studies. More<br />

than 1200 people enrolled in our parent preparation classes<br />

such as Adoption 101, Making Connections and<br />

Transitions to Openness.<br />

• Adoption Learning Partners launched its eighth course,<br />

Lifebooks: Creating and Telling Your Child’s Story, and<br />

began development of two new courses. ALP course<br />

enrollments in FY06 totaled a record 20,196!<br />

• More than 1500 individuals made inquiries to <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>’s<br />

Post Adoption Services department, which provides<br />

individual and family counseling, offers educational<br />

workshops, and conducts family searches and reunions.<br />

• Effective September 21, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong> was reaccredited (with<br />

flying colors!) by the Council on Accreditation.<br />

Party volunteers are always needed. To volunteer, to RSVP, or to<br />

receive additional information, please contact Lynne Firestone,<br />

Volunteer Coordinator, at 847-733-3229 or lfirestone@cradle.<br />

org.


2049 Ridge Avenue | Evanston, IL 60201<br />

847.475.5800 | www.cradle.org<br />

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER<br />

Julianne S. Tye, President<br />

NON-PROFIT ORG.<br />

US POSTAGE<br />

PAID<br />

PERMIT NO. 166<br />

EVANSTON, IL<br />

BOARD OF DIRECTORS<br />

Margarita E. Kellen, Chair<br />

Anna Marie Hajek, Vice Chair<br />

E. Hoy McConnell II, Secretary/Treasurer<br />

Richard C. Burnstine, M.D.<br />

Margaret A. Cartier<br />

Stephen S. Cole, Jr.<br />

Paula M. and John F. Dix, Jr.<br />

John L. Fairfield<br />

Raymond Grady<br />

Fred Holubow<br />

Rose Ann and Addison C. Hoof<br />

DeVerille A. Huston<br />

Catherine C. Klettke<br />

Margaret K. and David E. Mason<br />

Judith A. Mühlberg<br />

Mary T. Phenner<br />

Corrine V. Reichert<br />

Kevin J. Rochford<br />

Lawrence Rubly<br />

Thomas F. Ryan<br />

Robert E. Sargent<br />

Ardythe E. and Gale E. Sayers<br />

William R. Stasek<br />

Virginia L. and Paul B. Uhlenhop<br />

HONORARY DIRECTORS<br />

Margaret M. Adams<br />

W. Randolph Adams, Jr.<br />

Harold S. Bott<br />

Joan and Stanley M. Freehling<br />

Jane and Allan Gunn<br />

Nancy M. and Charles F. Hovey, Jr.<br />

Suzanne S. Meyer<br />

Aidan I. Mullett<br />

Karla Scherer<br />

Jacqueline L. Schoellhorn<br />

Mary H. and Bernard F. Sergesketter<br />

Lee Trager Stein<br />

WINTER/SPRING 2007<br />

1/20 RUSSIA HOLIDAY PARTY<br />

White Nights, Rosemont<br />

11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m.<br />

1/20 PROMOTING CHILDREN’S<br />

LANGUAGE SKILLS*<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>, Evanston<br />

9 a.m. – 12 p.m.<br />

1/31 SIRAGUSA SCHOLARSHIP<br />

RECIPIENTS ANNOUNCED<br />

<strong>CRADLE</strong> | Calendar<br />

2/08 FIRST LOOK FOR CHARITY<br />

McCormick Place, Chicago<br />

6:00 - 11:00 p.m.<br />

3/01 NAVIGATING EARLY<br />

INTERVENTION & SPECIAL<br />

EDUCATION SERVICES*<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Cradle</strong>, Evanston<br />

6:30 – 8:30 p.m.<br />

4/18 THE COLOR PURPLE<br />

Sayers Center benefit performance<br />

Cadillac Palace <strong>The</strong>atre, Chicago<br />

7:30 p.m.<br />

*Fees: $20 per person per class; $10 for second family member; no fee for <strong>Cradle</strong><br />

pre-placement clients. Register online at www.cradle.org or by calling 847-733-3233.<br />

Sophie Lukasik, all bundled up for the cold<br />

weather!<br />

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