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demanding of all involved. Both rights and responsibilities<br />

need to be emphasised. Parents in their communications<br />

sometimes seem to regard teachers as deliverers of<br />

a service rather than as professionals involved in a<br />

challenging enterprise. Teachers in turn can fail to see<br />

parents as genuine partners in education. <strong>St</strong>udents who fail<br />

to give respect to their teachers are not only breaking a<br />

discipline code, but more significantly, their actions weaken<br />

the relationship of teacher-student that every study shows<br />

lies at the heart of academic achievement. The respect<br />

given by a teacher to a student may be a powerful gift of<br />

personal formation.<br />

Complementing a relational model of school authority is<br />

our tradition at <strong>St</strong> <strong>Aloysius</strong> of ‘cura personalis’, the care of<br />

the individual within our community, which, as I understand<br />

it, gives priority to regarding each individual as of infinite<br />

value and dignity, and thus impels us to act accordingly.<br />

There is an Ignatian adage of “adapting to times, places<br />

and circumstances” which stands against a “one size fits<br />

all” approach in dealing with people. The temptation to<br />

sacrifice the individual for a perceived common good is<br />

one that goes back at least as far as the justification given<br />

for the move against Jesus. While there must be bottom<br />

lines, and, as in any community, there must be rules and<br />

regulations that we have every right to enforce, there is also<br />

a higher requirement to show and give respect, based not<br />

on authority, but on the relationships that shape a community<br />

such as ours. Comments are frequently made about the<br />

nature of community and the sense of belonging that help<br />

shape the Aloysian spirit, and to my mind this stems in part<br />

from an approach to discipline that seeks never to forget the<br />

individual or to sacrifice easily the individual in the interests<br />

of control or order.<br />

As 2006 winds down, we turn our eyes to the coming<br />

of the Christ Child. In the midst of all our activities we recall<br />

the extraordinary claim we Christians make about God’s<br />

great act of solidarity with humankind; of God becoming<br />

so fully part of the human story so as to transform and<br />

redeem it by becoming incarnate with us and for us. Mary<br />

was pregnant with Jesus before her marriage with Joseph,<br />

and undoubtedly knew the pain of rumour and disapproval.<br />

Jesus was frequently criticised for breaking the law. He<br />

taught of the imperative of a love that transcended all other<br />

commands. And the Lord was crucified by lawful authority.<br />

The God revealed in Jesus is ‘the God of surprises’, among<br />

which is the knowledge that God deals with us, not as we<br />

deserve, but out of God’s infinite and generous love. There<br />

is a challenge for us in this, not only in our personal lives<br />

but in the way we run institutions and deal with people in<br />

all sorts of situations.<br />

Christmas brings both reassurance and challenge to<br />

the believer: may the Love which nourishes and renews be<br />

with all the <strong>Aloysius</strong> Family this Christmas and the coming<br />

New Year.<br />

Fr Chris Middleton SJ<br />

College Principal<br />

Overseas Reunions<br />

During October and November a series of Reunions<br />

for members of the Aloysian Family (Old Boys,<br />

Parents, Past Parents, Grandparents, Future Parents<br />

and Friends of the College) were held in Hong Kong, San<br />

Francisco, New York and London.<br />

The younger Old boys and partners at the Hong Kong Reunion<br />

Twenty-two members of the Aloysian Family gathered<br />

in Hong Kong on Saturday 28 October for the inaugural<br />

Hong Kong – North Asian Dinner at the Ladies Recreation<br />

Club on Hong Kong Island. Unfortunately, the date<br />

coincided with a long weekend in Hong Kong and a<br />

number of people availed themselves of the break to either<br />

return to Australia or travel throughout the region. Special<br />

thanks to Andrew Fox-Smith (SAC 1983) for hosting the<br />

Dinner at his club, Henry Wong (SAC 1983) who coordinated<br />

the dinner and handled the finances and Andrew<br />

McDermott (SAC 1985) and Matt Nacard (SAC 1989)<br />

who assisted in the organisation of the event, much to the<br />

chagrin of other guests at the Reunion, Matt Nacard wore<br />

his College Blazer that even after seventeen years, still fits<br />

him like a glove!. Guests at the dinner ranged from Old<br />

Boys living in Hong Kong long term to expatriates based<br />

in the city for a short-term transfer and Future Parents.<br />

Plans are afoot to hold the dinner regularly each year and<br />

to arrange a few more casual get togethers throughout<br />

the year.<br />

Guests at the Inaugural Hong Kong-North Asia Reunion<br />

Following the Hong Kong Dinner a reunion was held<br />

in San Francisco on Sunday 29 October. Twenty members<br />

<strong>St</strong> <strong>Aloysius</strong>’ College<br />

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