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Stella Dyer is remembered<br />
for her long term service<br />
Before multitasking was a word in the lexicon, Stella Dyer<br />
defined it for St. Joseph’s. She was secretary to the principal, front<br />
office receptionist, late slip writer, school nurse, and faculty party<br />
organizer from 1961 until her retirement in 1991. After taking the<br />
job of secretary for Sr. Virginia McCarthy in 1961, she became the<br />
“face” of St. Joseph’s and set the tone for the school along with the<br />
principals she served.<br />
Stella made St. Joseph’s a welcoming home for the faculty, staff<br />
,and children each day. She is remembered as being a person that<br />
was always gracious, tactful and quick-witted. She had a lovely<br />
English accent and welcomed everyone to the office. She was<br />
particularly kind to the students who did not feel well. Whenever<br />
there was a problem, Stella in her wise way, would solve whatever it<br />
was so that the principal could continue to work undisturbed.<br />
While Mrs. Dyer served under five Principals (Sr. Virginia<br />
McCarthy, Sr. Mary Helen Pirsch, Sr. Kathleen Vizzard, Fr. Ed<br />
Benedict and Sr. Ann McGowan), her great relationship and long<br />
standing tenure under Sr. McGowan is still remembered today.<br />
Sr. McGowan says, “She made us all better principals with her<br />
guidance, wisdom and support. She was a treasure because she was<br />
a person of great discretion and could be trusted in all matters. I<br />
remember on particularly difficult days, she would open her home<br />
after school to faculty members to come over and wind down. She<br />
was like a mother to everyone and her home was like our second<br />
home.”<br />
n September 2007, the St. Joseph’s community was saddened by<br />
the sudden death of friend and former principal John O. Miller.<br />
SJSH Principal Mike Murphy shared his memories of working with<br />
John:<br />
“I had the privilege of working with John Miller for seven years<br />
at St. Joseph’s. He was both a great friend and a wonderful mentor.<br />
John taught me many things, but the most important thing he<br />
showed me is that it’s the people in our lives who give real meaning<br />
to everything we do. As a teacher and coach, he cared deeply<br />
and passionately about each and every one of the young people<br />
whose lives he touched. As principal, he showed all of us the true<br />
meaning of leadership, empathy, kindness, compassion. Finally, as<br />
a friend, he was funny, caring, loyal and someone that you could<br />
always count on. Those of us fortunate enough to know John were<br />
changed by him, made better by him.<br />
John loved the Red Sox, hated the Yankees, and was never<br />
shy in expressing his opinions about, well, anything. Yet John<br />
Stella Dyer is pictured above with the principals she served with:<br />
Ed Benedict, Mary Helen Pirsch, Stella, Sr. Ann McGowan, and Sr.<br />
Virginia McCarthy.<br />
Stella and her husband Cyril raised four children: Hilary, Janet,<br />
Susan and Nicholas, who all attended St. Joseph’s. Her daughters<br />
went on to attend <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep. As a matter of fact, Stella<br />
began as a volunteer at St. Joseph’s well before she started working<br />
for the school.<br />
Today, Janet Dyer Wildey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69) works in the St.<br />
Joseph’s Preschool office as an Administrative Assistant and carries<br />
on her mother’s wonderful legacy at St. Joseph’s. The next time you<br />
see her, you can thank her for sharing her mother with our school<br />
for thirty wonderful years.<br />
Stella Dyer died on July 31, 2007 surrounded by her family. She was<br />
preceded in death by her husband Cyril Dyer. She is survived by her<br />
four children Janet Dyer Wildey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69), Hilary O’Brien<br />
(SHP ’67), Susan Carey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69), and Nicholas Dyer (SJSH<br />
’70), and grandchildren: Nicholas Carey (SJSH ’92), Andrew Carey<br />
(SJSH ’91), Julia Reid (SJSH ’85, SHP ’89), and Suzanne Wildey (SJSH<br />
’89, SHP ’93).<br />
John Owen Miller remembered as former Principal at St. Joseph’s<br />
I<br />
always did it with a grin and a laugh,<br />
never taking himself or anything else too<br />
seriously. He found an incredible joy in<br />
life and loved a good joke, especially if<br />
it was on him. Every year at St. Joe’s he<br />
hiked Half Dome with his 8th graders,<br />
but his favorite Yosemite memory was how one night he tried to<br />
scare bears away from the campsite, only to have them charge in his<br />
direction, forcing him to take refuge in his car. He couldn’t tell this<br />
story without cracking up himself and everyone around him. John<br />
was just a great guy and a wonderful man.”<br />
John O. Miller died suddenly September 11, 2007 while<br />
playing basketball. He was a former principal and coach<br />
at St. Joseph’s; he served as principal from 1993-2001. Most<br />
recently he was a coach at Woodside Priory School and taught<br />
Business Management at USF. John is survived by his children Josh<br />
(SJSH ’03) and Jenny Miller (SJSH ’99, SHP ’03) and his partner Pamela<br />
Hayes (Director of <strong>Schools</strong> of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> San Francisco).<br />
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