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Stella Dyer is remembered<br />

for her long term service<br />

Before multitasking was a word in the lexicon, Stella Dyer<br />

defined it for St. Joseph’s. She was secretary to the principal, front<br />

office receptionist, late slip writer, school nurse, and faculty party<br />

organizer from 1961 until her retirement in 1991. After taking the<br />

job of secretary for Sr. Virginia McCarthy in 1961, she became the<br />

“face” of St. Joseph’s and set the tone for the school along with the<br />

principals she served.<br />

Stella made St. Joseph’s a welcoming home for the faculty, staff<br />

,and children each day. She is remembered as being a person that<br />

was always gracious, tactful and quick-witted. She had a lovely<br />

English accent and welcomed everyone to the office. She was<br />

particularly kind to the students who did not feel well. Whenever<br />

there was a problem, Stella in her wise way, would solve whatever it<br />

was so that the principal could continue to work undisturbed.<br />

While Mrs. Dyer served under five Principals (Sr. Virginia<br />

McCarthy, Sr. Mary Helen Pirsch, Sr. Kathleen Vizzard, Fr. Ed<br />

Benedict and Sr. Ann McGowan), her great relationship and long<br />

standing tenure under Sr. McGowan is still remembered today.<br />

Sr. McGowan says, “She made us all better principals with her<br />

guidance, wisdom and support. She was a treasure because she was<br />

a person of great discretion and could be trusted in all matters. I<br />

remember on particularly difficult days, she would open her home<br />

after school to faculty members to come over and wind down. She<br />

was like a mother to everyone and her home was like our second<br />

home.”<br />

n September 2007, the St. Joseph’s community was saddened by<br />

the sudden death of friend and former principal John O. Miller.<br />

SJSH Principal Mike Murphy shared his memories of working with<br />

John:<br />

“I had the privilege of working with John Miller for seven years<br />

at St. Joseph’s. He was both a great friend and a wonderful mentor.<br />

John taught me many things, but the most important thing he<br />

showed me is that it’s the people in our lives who give real meaning<br />

to everything we do. As a teacher and coach, he cared deeply<br />

and passionately about each and every one of the young people<br />

whose lives he touched. As principal, he showed all of us the true<br />

meaning of leadership, empathy, kindness, compassion. Finally, as<br />

a friend, he was funny, caring, loyal and someone that you could<br />

always count on. Those of us fortunate enough to know John were<br />

changed by him, made better by him.<br />

John loved the Red Sox, hated the Yankees, and was never<br />

shy in expressing his opinions about, well, anything. Yet John<br />

Stella Dyer is pictured above with the principals she served with:<br />

Ed Benedict, Mary Helen Pirsch, Stella, Sr. Ann McGowan, and Sr.<br />

Virginia McCarthy.<br />

Stella and her husband Cyril raised four children: Hilary, Janet,<br />

Susan and Nicholas, who all attended St. Joseph’s. Her daughters<br />

went on to attend <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep. As a matter of fact, Stella<br />

began as a volunteer at St. Joseph’s well before she started working<br />

for the school.<br />

Today, Janet Dyer Wildey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69) works in the St.<br />

Joseph’s Preschool office as an Administrative Assistant and carries<br />

on her mother’s wonderful legacy at St. Joseph’s. The next time you<br />

see her, you can thank her for sharing her mother with our school<br />

for thirty wonderful years.<br />

Stella Dyer died on July 31, 2007 surrounded by her family. She was<br />

preceded in death by her husband Cyril Dyer. She is survived by her<br />

four children Janet Dyer Wildey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69), Hilary O’Brien<br />

(SHP ’67), Susan Carey (SJSH ’65, SHP ’69), and Nicholas Dyer (SJSH<br />

’70), and grandchildren: Nicholas Carey (SJSH ’92), Andrew Carey<br />

(SJSH ’91), Julia Reid (SJSH ’85, SHP ’89), and Suzanne Wildey (SJSH<br />

’89, SHP ’93).<br />

John Owen Miller remembered as former Principal at St. Joseph’s<br />

I<br />

always did it with a grin and a laugh,<br />

never taking himself or anything else too<br />

seriously. He found an incredible joy in<br />

life and loved a good joke, especially if<br />

it was on him. Every year at St. Joe’s he<br />

hiked Half Dome with his 8th graders,<br />

but his favorite Yosemite memory was how one night he tried to<br />

scare bears away from the campsite, only to have them charge in his<br />

direction, forcing him to take refuge in his car. He couldn’t tell this<br />

story without cracking up himself and everyone around him. John<br />

was just a great guy and a wonderful man.”<br />

John O. Miller died suddenly September 11, 2007 while<br />

playing basketball. He was a former principal and coach<br />

at St. Joseph’s; he served as principal from 1993-2001. Most<br />

recently he was a coach at Woodside Priory School and taught<br />

Business Management at USF. John is survived by his children Josh<br />

(SJSH ’03) and Jenny Miller (SJSH ’99, SHP ’03) and his partner Pamela<br />

Hayes (Director of <strong>Schools</strong> of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> San Francisco).<br />

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