Winter 2006 - Sacred Heart Schools

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My Demanding Career Parenting a child with special needs has unique challenges and unique rewards By Andi Vartanian Dehne (SJSH‘82) Pick any demanding career out there and, chances are, there are stringent courses to be taken and tests to pass before one is allowed to enter it. Parenting, however, has no such requirements. And yet, it is one of the most important and demanding jobs there is. I know because I am a relatively new mom to two small children. I didnʼt take any classes in motherhood, I didnʼt pass any tests before being allowed to work as a mom, and nobody even asked for a resumé before handing me my first child and sending me home with him! It doesnʼt feel like too long ago that I was a six-year-old girl wearing a plaid jumper and saddle shoes in Sr. Robinsonʼs first grade class! How on earth did I become somebodyʼs mother My four siblings and I all attended St Josephʼs for elementary school. We all received an outstanding education, but, maybe more importantly, we grew up in a school environment that strongly supported our familyʼs values. Between my parents and the influence of all the teachers, we had no choice but to grow up with a strong sense of responsibility, a good work ethic, compassionate hearts and respect for others. We learned to treat others as we wanted to be treated and we learned to value people for who they are on the inside rather than for material reasons. Although many things I learned at St. Josephʼs, such as conjugating French verbs and writing five-paragraph essays, do not currently factor in to my daily life, my value system is something I use daily in parenting my own children. And it played an instrumental role in helping me welcome my oldest child, Riley, into my life. While pregnant with Riley, we learned that he had an extra chromosome, meaning he would be born with Down syndrome (DS). Receiving that news over the phone was one of the most shocking and brutal moments of my life. My husband and I didnʼt want our son to have DS, but he did. In my heart I knew I needed to meet my boy. I felt that he was given to me for a reason. Riley has been an amazing teacher. In his short life he has already impacted so many people, and he reminds me daily of what is truly important. In raising Riley I am reminded that a true measure of oneʼs success is what kind of person you are and how you treat others. I have learned to slow down and appreciate the little wonders in life. Riley has taught me to work hard for what I want and to not give up when a situation is challenging. He has also taught me to not take anything for granted. Every time he meets a milestone, it is that much sweeter because I know he has worked extra hard to get there. Like any child, Riley has his own relative areas of strength and weakness. As any parent would do, I try to support him in his areas of need, give him the tools he needs to be more independent and guide him towards pursuing his passions. As his mother, I do worry about him. I worry about how others may treat him. I worry that some kids may tease him as he gets older...but I also have faith. I look back to my childhood and recall the warmth, safety and acceptance I felt as a child at St. Joeʼs and I know that there are people out there who will see my boy for the amazing and gentle soul that he is. I know I will work hard to build a supportive community around him and to instill in him the values that I received as a child. In December of 2004 my husband and I were blessed with our second child, Emily. Looking in her eyes I can tell that she is a strong, social, opinionated little girl with a contagious zest for life. She loves her big brother and follows him all around the house. I know she may have some extra challenges having a brother with special needs, but I also know that having Riley in her life will make her a better, richer and stronger person, just like it has me. Some people have told me that I am “special” and that they “could never do what I do.” The truth is, I am not any more special than any other mother out there who loves her child. Being a mother is a difficult job, with no training, but I know that my experiences as a child have helped to make me the mother I am today. I look back to my childhood and time spent at St. Josephʼs with fondness and with a sense of security that comes from growing up knowing I was loved and appreciated for who I was. This sense of security is something I strive to provide for my own children so that they will have the confidence to listen to their hearts in difficult situations, stand up for what they believe is right, and to value the people and relationships in their lives. 12 Winter 2006

Life at Warner Brothers Pictures, Inc. What do Bugs Bunny, Harry Potter, Friends, and Sacred Heart have in common Musette Buckley (SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)! When Musette Buckley (SJSH ʻ76, SHPʻ80) walks around the 110-acre Warner Bros. campus, everyone—from the security guards to George Clooney—knows her name and greets her with a big smile. Musette is the Senior Vice President of Production Resources for Warner Bros. Pictures, one of the leading motion picture and television production facilities in the world. She works in the newly-emerging field of product placement. “Remember when Reeseʼs Pieces appeared in the movie E.T.” said Musette. “That was the beginning of product placement.” For example, Musette formed the partnership with Samsung so that their phones appeared in Matrix Reloaded. She hopes that Samsung will also appear in Superman, which releases this summer. And she made the deal with Chrysler to promote their new 300 Sedan in Firewall, starring Harrison Ford. “The main purpose of branded integration is to generate revenue to reduce the costs of production,” said Musette. Her workday is packed with meetings for every movie and show that the studio has in preproduction at the time. Musette looks for opportunities for product placement, and then she builds strong relationships with consumer companies such as Apple, Anheuser- Busch, Chrysler, Kodak, Samsung, and Coke. In return for their products appearing in movies and TV shows, the companies reduce production costs, generate revenue, and leverage placement with promotional campaigns. “My favorite part of the job is my daily interaction with a variety of people, from creative production people to the marketing geniuses of the world,” said Musette. Her highenergy personality is perfect for her demanding job, where every minute is packed with action. “For one movie, I proposed ten product placements to the director during the pre-production process, and he turned them all down. Then the day before filming, the director realized the value, and wanted all ten delivered the next day. And we did! That was definitely my craziest day at work.” In addition to her high-profile career at Warner Bros., Musette is a mother to an adorable two-year old daughter, “Muzie.” “I love being a mom, but I couldnʼt juggle a career like this without a lot of support,” said Musette. “Little Musette comes to work for a visit once a week. Her favorite activity is to ride around the WB campus in the golf cart to see the animation studio, the Bewitched MUSETTE & MUZIE pose on Halloween (above) and ride on an elephant at a Warner Bros. event (below) house, and the Partridge Family house. While fulfilling to her duties as Senior VP and mother, Musette also volunteers extensively for AMFAR, Planet Hope, and The Dream Foundation. She recently won Time Warnerʼs prestigious Andrew Heiskell Award, given to employees in recognition of their outstanding public service. “I first became interested in charitable works at Sacred Heart when I was president of Mother Costelloʼs organization, Castle Youth Helping Others,” said Musette. “Our group raised money for people with disabilities, people who were homeless, and for guide dogs for the blind through bake sales and door-todoor solicitations. Mother Costello made a huge impact on my passion for helping others. She was a loving, compassionate mentor. My experience in Castle Youth formed the base of all the service work I do today.” In general, Musette remembers her Sacred Heart education as structured, challenging, and enriching. “At Sacred Heart I gained a life-long love of learning, a sense of self-worth, an appreciation for community, good work habits, and the qualities of compassion and respect,” said Musette. The Heart of the Matter 13

Life at Warner Brothers<br />

Pictures, Inc.<br />

What do Bugs Bunny,<br />

Harry Potter, Friends,<br />

and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

have in common<br />

Musette Buckley<br />

(SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)!<br />

When Musette Buckley (SJSH<br />

ʻ76, SHPʻ80) walks around<br />

the 110-acre Warner Bros. campus,<br />

everyone—from the security guards<br />

to George Clooney—knows her name<br />

and greets her with a big smile.<br />

Musette is the Senior Vice<br />

President of Production Resources<br />

for Warner Bros. Pictures, one of the<br />

leading motion picture and television<br />

production facilities in the world. She<br />

works in the newly-emerging field<br />

of product placement. “Remember<br />

when Reeseʼs Pieces appeared in the<br />

movie E.T.” said Musette. “That was<br />

the beginning of product placement.”<br />

For example, Musette formed the<br />

partnership with Samsung so that<br />

their phones appeared in Matrix<br />

Reloaded. She hopes that Samsung<br />

will also appear in Superman, which<br />

releases this summer. And she made<br />

the deal with Chrysler to promote<br />

their new 300 Sedan in Firewall,<br />

starring Harrison Ford.<br />

“The main purpose of branded<br />

integration is to generate revenue<br />

to reduce the costs of production,”<br />

said Musette. Her workday is packed<br />

with meetings for every movie and<br />

show that the studio has in preproduction<br />

at the time. Musette<br />

looks for opportunities for product<br />

placement, and then she builds<br />

strong relationships with consumer<br />

companies such as Apple, Anheuser-<br />

Busch, Chrysler, Kodak, Samsung,<br />

and Coke. In return for their products<br />

appearing in movies and TV shows,<br />

the companies reduce production<br />

costs, generate revenue, and leverage<br />

placement with promotional campaigns.<br />

“My favorite part of the job is my<br />

daily interaction with a variety of<br />

people, from creative production<br />

people to the marketing geniuses of<br />

the world,” said Musette. Her highenergy<br />

personality is perfect for her<br />

demanding job, where every minute is<br />

packed with action. “For one movie,<br />

I proposed ten product placements to<br />

the director during the pre-production<br />

process, and he turned them all<br />

down. Then the day before filming,<br />

the director realized the value, and<br />

wanted all ten delivered the next day.<br />

And we did! That was definitely my<br />

craziest day at work.”<br />

In addition to her high-profile<br />

career at Warner Bros., Musette is a<br />

mother to an adorable two-year old<br />

daughter, “Muzie.” “I love being a<br />

mom, but I couldnʼt juggle a career<br />

like this without a lot of support,”<br />

said Musette. “Little Musette comes<br />

to work for a visit once a week. Her<br />

favorite activity is to ride around the<br />

WB campus in the golf cart to see<br />

the animation studio, the Bewitched<br />

MUSETTE & MUZIE pose on<br />

Halloween (above) and ride on<br />

an elephant at a Warner Bros.<br />

event (below)<br />

house, and the Partridge Family<br />

house.<br />

While fulfilling to her duties as<br />

Senior VP and mother, Musette<br />

also volunteers extensively for<br />

AMFAR, Planet Hope, and The<br />

Dream Foundation. She recently won<br />

Time Warnerʼs prestigious Andrew<br />

Heiskell Award, given to employees<br />

in recognition of their outstanding<br />

public service.<br />

“I first became interested in<br />

charitable works at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

when I was president of Mother<br />

Costelloʼs organization, Castle Youth<br />

Helping Others,” said Musette.<br />

“Our group raised money for people<br />

with disabilities, people who were<br />

homeless, and for guide dogs for the<br />

blind through bake sales and door-todoor<br />

solicitations. Mother Costello<br />

made a huge impact on my passion<br />

for helping others. She was a loving,<br />

compassionate mentor. My experience<br />

in Castle Youth formed the base of all<br />

the service work I do today.”<br />

In general, Musette remembers her<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education as structured,<br />

challenging, and enriching. “At<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> I gained a life-long love<br />

of learning, a sense of self-worth,<br />

an appreciation for community,<br />

good work habits, and the qualities<br />

of compassion and respect,” said<br />

Musette.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 13

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