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<strong>Heart</strong> Matter<br />
of<br />
the<br />
SACRED HEART SCHOOLS, ATHERTON ALUMNI MAGAZINE WINTER <strong>2006</strong><br />
one hundred years<br />
Plus...<br />
• Philanthropist Jonny Dorsey (SJSH‘99, SHP‘03)<br />
• Award-winning Kameelah Rasheed (SHP‘02)<br />
• Entrepreneurs Stephan Carlson & Andy Ramsay (SHP‘02)<br />
• Basketball Star Kate Paye (SJSH‘87)<br />
• Parent Andi Vertanian Dehne (SJSH‘82)<br />
• WB Executive Musette Buckley (SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)<br />
• Campus Minister Sharon Kugler (SHP‘77)
State of the <strong>Heart</strong><br />
“Whenever she could, Mother Barat would be off to the<br />
garden with one of the children. They would pick<br />
wildflowers together and the child would share her secrets,<br />
knowing that Mother Barat would understand.”<br />
Dear Alumni and Friends,<br />
The quotation above comes from a childrenʼs book commissioned<br />
to celebrate the 200th anniversary of the Religious of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. The<br />
cartoon-like picture that accompanies this caption depicts a serious but loving Mother<br />
Barat holding hands with a joyful child. Both are carrying wild flowers. The sentiment<br />
expressed by the picture and the words caught the essence of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education.<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> educators are dedicated to educating the whole child, whether in the<br />
classroom studying calculus, on a field trip to climb half-dome, or just sitting with<br />
a student during a lunch break. While we donʼt often pick wild-flowers these days,<br />
we still form close bonds with our students. It is frequently the case that one of our<br />
teachers or staff members will be the first to hear from students about an argument at<br />
home, a disappointment about a lost game or a rejection that has devastated a young<br />
heart and mind. It may be that the student of the 21st century is vastly different from<br />
the student of the early 19th century in dress, custom, expectation and exposure to the<br />
world. But the need for a sensitive ear and a heart that listens is still the same. In this<br />
regard, Mother Barat is alive in all who work at a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> school.<br />
Our students carry this need to be connected with others for the rest of their lives. John<br />
Dorsey (SHPʻ03) has launched a fundraising campaign called “FACE AIDS.” Sharon<br />
Kugler (SHPʻ77) is the University Chaplain at the Johns Hopkins University. Andi Vartanian<br />
Dehne (SJSHʻ82) has been lovingly parenting a child with Down syndrome.<br />
Our teachers and staff routinely serve others. Here are just a few samples: the enormous<br />
outpouring of support for the victims of Hurricane Katrina; the creation of the<br />
new support program for student with learning differences; the daily service of the<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society to the Oakwood community; the outstanding independent study<br />
projects at the Prep; the pre-school cooking projects and the new Life Skills program<br />
at St. Josephʼs.<br />
There are times when I stop to do a reality check – to ask myself, “Are we still a <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> School” The litmus test in my mind is whether or not St Madeleine Sophie<br />
would recognize us as one of her schools should she miraculously appear on the front<br />
steps one day. I think she would feel very much at home taking the hand of any child<br />
and seeing that, 200 years later, every child here is very much a child of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong>, wild flowers or not.<br />
Thank you for keeping us in your heart and for supporting our efforts to keep St Madeleine<br />
Sophieʼs vision alive in the centennial year of St. Josephʼs and in the 107th year<br />
of the Convent school.<br />
Sincerely,<br />
Joseph J. Ciancaglini<br />
Director of <strong>Schools</strong><br />
JOSEPH CIANCAGLINI<br />
Director of <strong>Schools</strong><br />
M’LIS BERRY (SJSH‘77, SHP‘81)<br />
Director of Development<br />
HOLLY GOODLIFFE<br />
Communications Coordinator<br />
WENDI MANGIANTINI (SHP‘80)<br />
Alumni Relations Coordinator<br />
TRUSTEES<br />
Mindy Rogers, Chair<br />
Sr. Kay Baxter, Maude Brezinski,<br />
Roberta Campbell, Michael Child, John<br />
Donahoe, Elizabeth Dunlevie, John<br />
Etchemendy, Martin Flanagan, Sr. Sally<br />
Furay, Marritje Greene, Anne Holloway,<br />
Mike Homer, Lauren Koenig (SHP‘77),<br />
Mark Larwood, Steve Meisel, Fr. William<br />
H. Muller, William Neidig, Mark Stevens,<br />
Sr. Anne Wachter<br />
We welcome your comments, questions<br />
or suggestions. Please contact<br />
Holly Goodliffe, Communications<br />
Coordinator, at 650-573-4004 or<br />
hgoodliffe@shschools.org.<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong> Atherton are<br />
Roman Catholic, independent schools<br />
founded by the Society of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> of Jesus (RSCJ) in 1898. Our<br />
mission is to educate the whole child<br />
to be a leader who loves God and<br />
serves others.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter magazine<br />
is published bi-annually, in February<br />
and July, by the SHS Development<br />
Department. Postmaster please send<br />
address changes to Development Department,<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong>, 150<br />
Valparaiso Ave., Atherton, CA 94027.<br />
The diverse opinions expressed in-<br />
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter do not necessarily<br />
represent the offi cial policy of <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong> Atherton.
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Contents<br />
<strong>Heart</strong> Matter<br />
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Facing AIDS<br />
For Jonny Dorsey (SJSHʻ99, SHPʻ03), a summer trip to Zambia was the beginning<br />
of a million-dollar campaign<br />
Thanks, Truman & Rockefeller!<br />
Kameelah Rasheed (SHPʻ02) won two prestigious national honors this year<br />
A Thriving Start-Up<br />
Stephan Carlson (SHPʻ02) and Andy Ramsay (SHPʻ02) have recently jumped into<br />
the dot-com craze by starting their own internet company: MyCollegeMarket.com<br />
Beating the Odds<br />
Kate Paye (SJSHʻ87) has done what most thought impossible— she made it to the<br />
WNBA and beyond<br />
My Demanding Career<br />
By Andi Vertanian Dehne (SJSHʻ82)<br />
Parenting a child with special needs has unique challenges and unique rewards<br />
Life at Warner Brothers Pictures, Inc.<br />
What do Bugs Bunny, Harry Potter, Friends, and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> have in common<br />
Musette Buckley (SJSHʻ76, SHPʻ80)!<br />
Building Community<br />
As University Chaplain, Sharon Kugler<br />
(SHPʻ77) deepens understanding among<br />
25 religious groups<br />
What a Difference 50 Years Make!<br />
A day in the “Fourth Academic” year of Diane Lovegrove (SHPʻ56) and a day in<br />
the Senior year of Brooks Miller (SJSHʻ02, SHPʻ06)<br />
Why Financial Aid<br />
Ever wondered what St. Madeleine Sophie meant when she said, “For the sake of<br />
one child I would have founded the Society”<br />
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />
I Know it by <strong>Heart</strong><br />
Alumni Events<br />
Class Notes<br />
Sports Beat<br />
Plus: special<br />
SJSH Centennial<br />
booklet at page 16<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 1
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />
Experts in<br />
Their Fields<br />
his year, six SHP seniors and one<br />
Tjunior T<br />
completed honors projects in<br />
2 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
the areas of History, English, Spanish,<br />
Religious Studies, and Math. One senior even did two<br />
projects! Founded in 1998, SHPʼs Independent Honors<br />
Program for Seniors provides the opportunity for highly<br />
self-motivated students to deeply examine intellectual issues.<br />
Each honors student was responsible for seeking out mentors outside<br />
the SHP community to assist in their research. This year, the<br />
mentors included such scholars as:<br />
• Dr. David Kennedy: Professor of History<br />
at Stanford University; Awarded the<br />
Poetry<br />
of Garcia-Lorca<br />
Flamenco Dance and the<br />
Pulitzer Prize in History in 2000<br />
by ************ ***********<br />
• Dr. Peter Robinson: Former special<br />
assistant and speechwriter to U.S. President<br />
Ronald Reagan; Research Fellow at the Hoover Institution on<br />
War, Revolution and Peace at Stanford University<br />
• Dr. Michael Predmore: Professor of Spanish at Stanford; Recipient of the Fulbright<br />
and Guggenheim fellowships<br />
• Dr. Francisco LaRubia-Prado: Professor of Spanish at Georgetown University<br />
The honors students had to complete extensive research and on-going assignments<br />
throughout the semester, including a log of conversations with their mentors, weekly<br />
The Art of Persuasion:<br />
Rhetoric in the Speeches of<br />
de Gaulle, Castro, and Reagan<br />
by ********* *************<br />
papers summarizing their progress, three 5-page<br />
papers on selected topics, one 20-page final paper,<br />
at least one field excursion related to their<br />
topic, and an oral presentation<br />
in front of SHP faculty, students,<br />
and community members.<br />
The impressive presentations, which took place in January,<br />
included powerpoint lectures, mathematical calculations, a Flamenco<br />
demonstration, and intense Q&A sessions.<br />
Heritage Oak Falls<br />
At 7:30am on Sunday,<br />
January 15, <strong>2006</strong>, the<br />
magnificent heritage oak in<br />
front of the Main Building<br />
fell. The tree was uprooted<br />
due to heavy rainfall over the<br />
previous month. Thankfully,<br />
it fell towards the McGanney<br />
Center, only knocking<br />
down a smaller palm tree.<br />
There was no damage to the<br />
Main Building and no one<br />
was hurt.<br />
Multivariable<br />
Differential Calculus<br />
by *** **********, ***<br />
***, ***** ***********,<br />
and ********* **********<br />
Facilitating<br />
the Dialogue<br />
on Abortion<br />
by ****** ******<br />
The American Dream &<br />
Its Visibility in Speeches<br />
of the Past Few Decades<br />
by ******* ********<br />
BEFORE & AFTER: The beautiful heritage oak before the<br />
fall (left) and after the fall (above)
Starting<br />
the Year<br />
Off Right<br />
SEPTEMBER 8, 2005: SJSH and<br />
SHP students, faculty, staff, and<br />
parents, led by Fr. Tom Moran,<br />
gathered in beautiful Robinson<br />
Court to ask God’s blessings on<br />
their studies<br />
Skills for Life<br />
This year the SJSH Middle School launched a new class,<br />
called “Life Skills.” The curriculum combines emotional intelligence<br />
exercises with multicultural education and group problem-solving.<br />
Each co-ed class, made up of 9-10 students, meets<br />
once a week for 50 minutes, and is led by a facilitator (a teacher<br />
or staff member who has been trained in emotional intelligence<br />
and group problem-solving).<br />
What exactly is<br />
emotional intelligence “It is a way of under-<br />
standing and shaping how we think, feel, and act,” said Program Coordinator<br />
Nitza Agam, “We can assess the strength of our studentsʼ<br />
emotional intelligence by looking at their self-awareness, empathy,<br />
impulse control, communication skills, stress management, personal<br />
responsibility, anger management, and decision-making.”<br />
Research suggests that emotional intelligence shapes as much<br />
of 70-80% of “success” in life. “If we want our students to succeed<br />
in their<br />
interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships at school, at<br />
home, and at work, then these emotional intelligence skills are vital,”<br />
said School Counselor<br />
Wendy Parker.<br />
One week the curriculum<br />
focused on body<br />
language. “We learned<br />
that 55% of the messages<br />
we send to other<br />
people are sent with<br />
our bodies,” said seventh-grader<br />
********<br />
******. “Only 7% of<br />
the meaning comes<br />
from our actual words,<br />
and 38% comes from<br />
our tone of voice.”<br />
WHAT BODY LANGUAGE DO YOU SPEAK SJSH<br />
School Counselor Wendy Parker (center) encourages<br />
seventh-graders ****** ***** and ******* **********<br />
to shake hands as part of a class exercise about body<br />
language<br />
Raising Awareness<br />
SEEKING EDUCATIONAL EQUITY & DIVERSITY: The<br />
faculty SEED group meets twice each semester<br />
How do we raise diversity awareness and empathy in our<br />
community The SHS Office of Equity, Justice, and Multicultural<br />
Education (EJME) has created three forums for SHS faculty,<br />
staff, and parents to explore questions within our schools.<br />
SEED (Seeking Educational Equity and Diversity) discussions<br />
for faculty & staff and for parents & guardians meet throughout<br />
the year. “These seminar groups provide an opportunity for<br />
adults to examine contemporary scholarship as well as ʻthe textbooks<br />
of their lives,ʼ” said EJME Director James Everitt. “The<br />
seminars provide SHS community members with opportunities<br />
to discuss important issues of diversity in a safe, non-judgmental<br />
environment.”<br />
In addition to the SEED groups, which have been going strong<br />
since 2004, the “Big 8 Book Club” has debuted this year. The National<br />
Association of Independent <strong>Schools</strong> (NAIS) uses eight cultural<br />
identifiers to evaluate how well each school is doing in its “equity<br />
and justice” efforts. The eight identifiers are ability, age, ethnicity,<br />
gender, race, religion, sexual orientation and socio-economic status.<br />
The Big 8 Book Club is a group of SHS teachers and staff members<br />
that meet twice each semester to discuss contemporary fiction<br />
relating to these eight identifiers. The book club offers an informal<br />
setting for participants to enter into the worlds of others, to deepen<br />
their knowledge of others, and to develop empathy.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 3
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />
Collaborations Across Campus<br />
Whatʼs the best thing about having preschoolers,<br />
elementary schoolers, middle<br />
schoolers, high schoolers, and retired nuns all on<br />
the same campus The opportunities to bridge the<br />
age gap and work collaboratively on projects!<br />
This year administrators have formed a new<br />
mentoring and tutoring program for SHP students<br />
and SJSH lower school students after school.<br />
Meanwhile, the tradition continues of pairing first<br />
and eighth graders together throughout the year<br />
as buddies who look out for each other. And this<br />
year the second graders have visited the Oakwood<br />
Retirement Center twice each week to read with<br />
the Sisters.<br />
In November, SHP seniors and SJSH middle<br />
schoolers joined together for a special project.<br />
Five SHP seniors performed James Stillʼs awardwinning<br />
play, And Then They Came For Me:<br />
Remembering the World of Anne Frank for a<br />
packed house of middle schoolers who were<br />
eager to learn more about the Holocaust.<br />
PERFECT PAIRS: Above, SJSH first and eighth graders stand<br />
together during mass SHP TUTOR: ****** ********* helps fourth<br />
grader ******* ********** study, below<br />
SPELLBOUND: SJSH<br />
seventh graders *****<br />
******* and ****** *****<br />
(above center) pay rapt<br />
attention to a Q&A session<br />
following the performance of Then They Came For Me by SHP<br />
actors ***** *****, ***** ******, ****** ******, ******* *********, and *******<br />
******** (left) BOOKWORMS: Above right, second grader *******<br />
********** reads with Sr. Verona<br />
4 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
Whatcha Got Cookin’<br />
The SJSH Preschoolers have been doing a lot<br />
of work in the kitchen this year. CRISS-CROSS<br />
APPLESAUCE: Parent Diana Hewitt (SJSH‘83, SHP‘87)<br />
helps pre-schooler ****** ****** (left) DON’T BREAK MY<br />
CONCENTRATION! Preschooler **** ******* works the<br />
apple peeler (lower left) READY TO MAKE OMELETTES<br />
Preschoolers ******** *********, ***** *****, and ****** *******<br />
(below) EVER HEARD OF STONE SOUP The legend<br />
comes to life when Room 2 Preschoolers cook stone<br />
Photos courtesy Susan Frimel<br />
soup (lower right) GRATING THE<br />
CHEESE: ****** ************* (<br />
upper<br />
right)<br />
In November, Dr. Ciancaglini<br />
presented medals<br />
to the 2005 recipients of<br />
the St. Madeleine Sophie<br />
Award. This award honors<br />
individuals who have<br />
made extraordinary contributions<br />
to SHS Atherton<br />
over a significant period of<br />
time.<br />
Vinette “Nettie” Ramsay<br />
joined the SHS community<br />
as an SHP parent<br />
in 1995. Over the last ten<br />
years, Nettie has served in<br />
numerous volunteer leadership<br />
capacities for SHS<br />
Atherton, including SHP<br />
Fashion Show Co-Chair,<br />
President and Vice President<br />
of the SHP Parentsʼ<br />
Association, Co-Chair of the SHP Christmas party, Co-<br />
Chair of the SHS Auction, and Nutrition Educator. “Thank<br />
you Nettie,” said presenter Richard Dioli, Principal of SHP,<br />
“For being a true friend to SHS Atherton and for believing<br />
in the five goals of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education.”<br />
Sherlene Pjesky served as Director of Business from 1994<br />
Sophie’s Accolades<br />
THE ST. MADELEINE SOPHIE AWARDEES: Sherlene Pjesky,<br />
Lori Pickett, SHS Director of <strong>Schools</strong> Joseph J. Ciancaglini,<br />
and Vinette “Nettie” Ramsay<br />
to 2005, with stewardship<br />
over the <strong>Schools</strong>ʼ finances,<br />
facilities, grounds, and construction<br />
projects. “<strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> education appealed<br />
to me, because it was similar<br />
to my own educational<br />
experience,” said Sherlene.<br />
“I had very special teachers<br />
who really shaped the<br />
person I have become; my<br />
classmates and I had special<br />
attention, and were exposed<br />
to the most innovative<br />
education.” From her<br />
first moment on campus,<br />
she “knew SHS was a special<br />
place.”<br />
Lori Pickett has served<br />
as the Director of Nursing<br />
for the Oakwood Community<br />
for nearly ten years. She came to Oakwood with a goldmine<br />
of administrative experience, ranging from intensive care to<br />
psychiatry. In addition to her role at the Oakwood Community<br />
Nursing Center, Lori has served as a consultant to the Elder<br />
Care task force of the USA Provincial of the Religious of the<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 5<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 5
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />
RELIEF FOR<br />
NEW ORLEANS:<br />
SHP senior<br />
president *******<br />
****** presents<br />
Dr. Ciancaglini<br />
with proceeds<br />
from the SHP<br />
Fashion Show,<br />
Seniors Un-<br />
scripted,<br />
for hurricane<br />
relief at<br />
the Academy of<br />
the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
in New Orleans<br />
(The Rosary)<br />
Katrina Relief<br />
After Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, SHS opened its doors to<br />
enroll two students from New Orleans schools—a second grader<br />
from St Andrewʼs Episcopal School in New Orleans, and an eleventh<br />
grader from Holy Cross High School in New Orleans.<br />
In addition, students ran fundraisers for hurricane relief. “Our student<br />
council leaders encouraged students to give a part of their allowance<br />
and to sacrifice for those who lost so much,” said SJSH Service<br />
Learning Coordinator Ted DeSaulnier. “The donations were sent to<br />
the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Network <strong>Schools</strong> Fund.” SJSH students also wrote<br />
prayers of support and notes of encouragement to the lower school students<br />
of the Academy of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in New Orleans.<br />
Students and parents at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep responded to the disaster<br />
by donating some of the proceeds of the annual Senior Fashion Show<br />
for hurricane relief. Senior class president ****** ****** presented<br />
a check for $2,500 for Sister Lynn Lieux, Principal of the Academy of<br />
the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in New Orleans.<br />
“We continue our prayers for those on the Gulf Coast who are<br />
struggling to rebuild their lives,” said Director of <strong>Schools</strong> Joseph J.<br />
Ciancaglini.<br />
Alums, Students, & Staff Join Forces<br />
in the Dominican Republic<br />
SHP Director of College Counseling Frank Brightwell, SHP Spanish teacher<br />
Karen Filice, seniors ****** ***** and ****** *****, and alumnae Kirsten<br />
Harmon (SHPʻ05), Erica Ruggeri (SHPʻ05),<br />
and Melissa Miranda (SHPʻ03) recently spent a<br />
week in El Naranjito, a rural village in the mountains<br />
of the Dominican Republic.<br />
They traveled with, and served<br />
as translators for, an organization<br />
called “Somos Amigos Medical<br />
Missions,” which was founded by<br />
our very own Frank Brightwell to<br />
send groups of physicians, dentists<br />
and health care professionals<br />
to El Naranjito twice a year.<br />
To find out more, please contact<br />
SHP ALUM Kirsten<br />
Harmon (SHP‘05) working<br />
in the pharmacy<br />
Karen Filice (kfilice@shschools.<br />
org).<br />
6 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
African Dance<br />
HARVEST TIME: Above,<br />
third graders ****** ******<br />
and ****** ****** perform<br />
the men’s harvest dance<br />
KEEPING THE BEAT:<br />
Left, workshop leader<br />
Masankho Banda sings<br />
and drums while the<br />
students dance<br />
SJSH first, second, and<br />
third graders danced<br />
their way through autumn<br />
with dance workshops in<br />
P.E. class. Masankho Banda,<br />
the workshop teacher,<br />
has been visiting SJSH for<br />
several years to share African<br />
stories and dance with students. All the students<br />
performed the dances they had learned in front of a<br />
packed house in Spieker Pavillion.<br />
TRANSLATORS: Left,<br />
***** ******* (SHP‘06) and<br />
Erica Ruggeri (SHP‘05).<br />
Above left, ****** *******<br />
(SHP‘06), Karen Filice<br />
(SHP Spanish teacher)<br />
,<br />
and Melissa Miranda<br />
(SHP‘03) AMIGOS<br />
FOUNDER F<br />
rank Brightwell<br />
(SHP Director of<br />
College Counseling),<br />
above
<strong>Heart</strong> of the Alumni<br />
Facing AIDS<br />
For Jonny<br />
Dorsey<br />
(SJSH‘99,<br />
SHP‘03), a<br />
summer trip<br />
to Zambia<br />
was the<br />
beginning<br />
of a milliondollar<br />
campaign<br />
Anyone who knew him during his <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> days knows he<br />
is kindhearted, and a passionate leader. So you shouldnʼt be<br />
surprised to learn that after he spent a summer living in a Zambian<br />
refugee camp, he couldnʼt go back to life as he knew it. Instead,<br />
Jonny has launched a campaign called FACE AIDS to address the<br />
AIDS epidemic he saw firsthand in Africa.<br />
In 2003, after completing a St. Josephʼs and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep<br />
education with a Light Blue Ribbon, Jonny went to Stanford and<br />
followed his passion in the area of Human Biology, an interdisciplinary<br />
program that combines biology and health policy. His area<br />
of concentration is International Health and Infectious Disease.<br />
The summer after his sophomore year, Jonny traveled to Zambia<br />
with the FORGE program (Facilitating Opportunities for Refugee<br />
Growth and Empowerment). “I chose to work with FORGE<br />
because I thought their work was exciting, and also made good<br />
sense.” Jonny was in Mwange, in a camp of 23,000 refugees from<br />
the Congo. “These people came to Zambia with nothing,” said<br />
Jonny. “I developed a mentoring program for orphans, in which<br />
high school students served as mentors for elementary students.”<br />
Jonny and his two co-volunteers from Stanford were shocked<br />
to find that in the refugee camp, there were only 47 people who<br />
had tested positive for HIV, and that only 5 people were tested for<br />
the disease each month. “We couldnʼt believe so few people were<br />
getting tested, when national statistics suggested that at least 1000<br />
people in Mwange were living with HIV/AIDS.”<br />
“We also met Katele Henriette, the only semi-open HIV-positive<br />
person in the camp of 24,000 refugees, and began to work<br />
with her to convince more people to find out their HIV status.”<br />
Since then, the rate of testing has increased tenfold. Mama Katele<br />
(pictured above) spoke openly about her HIV status in a culture<br />
that generated great shame and stigma around the disease. Her<br />
willingness to share with Jonny and his colleagues helped them<br />
put a face to the great struggle of the HIV/AIDS crisis in Africa.<br />
When they focused on specific ways to help their friend Mama<br />
Katele, the focus of FACE AIDS began to take shape.<br />
One afternoon, the three students sat on the porch, talking about<br />
what they could do about AIDS in Zambia. No one wanted to<br />
go home and forget what they had learned. They decided they<br />
wanted to develop a small income-generating project that would<br />
encourage HIV testing and help families in the refugee camp have<br />
better lives.<br />
Jonny explained, “We learned that once a member of a family<br />
develops HIV, their ability to work stops and their children drop<br />
out of school and use desperate means to generate money for the<br />
family. However, if the person with HIV can generate a small income<br />
three things happen: 1) they will have more protein in their<br />
diet which will extend their life, 2) their children will be able to<br />
remain in school, and 3) when this income is developed through a<br />
small co-op, a support group is naturally formed.”<br />
“By the end of our porch discussion, weʼd all decided to take one<br />
year off from college and launch a campaign for student awareness<br />
and fundraising,” said Jonny. “Katie stayed in Zambia to organize<br />
co-ops of refugees to make beaded pins with the AIDS logo. These<br />
groups double as AIDS support groups. Lauren and I returned to<br />
California to distribute the pins and recruit more volunteers.”<br />
The plan: Distribute 50,000 pins in the next year, raising $1<br />
million. Then grant that $1 million to Partners in Health.<br />
“While I was in Zambia, I saw that how you give money away<br />
is extremely important,” said Jonny, “Many campaigns have been<br />
ineffective and have created more cultural stigma. I think that<br />
Partners in Health is the best organization treating HIV-positive<br />
patients in the developing world. They were the first to show that<br />
you could successfully provide ARVs in the developing world,<br />
and have since reformed WHO policy. They are just now moving<br />
into sub-Saharan Africa, and we want to speed up that process<br />
with our funding. We also want as many university students to<br />
understand their model as possible, and see that there are effective<br />
ways to treat AIDS in the developing world.”<br />
“We named the million-dollar fund the Katele fund, in honor<br />
of the woman who started it all,” said Jonny. “After living with<br />
AIDS for over four years, Mama Katele died on September 1,<br />
2005, just weeks before the United Nations brought anti-retroviral<br />
drugs (ARVs) to the refugee camp. The FACE AIDS campaign<br />
is dedicated to her memory.”<br />
“When we sell pins on college campuses, we tell the personal<br />
stories of people like Katele who made the pins,” said Jonny. “I<br />
think the personal stories make a big impact on college students<br />
when they are at a very impressionable age.”<br />
When reflecting back on his days at SJSH, Jonny remembers<br />
the “Sandwiches on Sundays” program, where he got to take food<br />
to serve at a church in Redwood City. “The one-on-one interactions<br />
with folks who needed food were very important,” said<br />
Jonny, “I think this experience helped me stay connected to my<br />
community, and compassionate, as I grew up.” The SJSH community<br />
service award was initiated that year, and Jonny was the<br />
first recipient.<br />
During his freshman year at SHP, Jonny traveled to Belize on<br />
a service immersion trip, where they worked on a seawall. “This<br />
trip was my first exposure to the developing world,” said Jonny,<br />
“Throughout high school I got to have personal relationships with<br />
people very different from myself, and it built my confidence in<br />
knowing that I could have an impact on someone elseʼs life.”<br />
Obviously, Jonnyʼs career in public service is far from over.<br />
We look forward to the great things to come.<br />
To learn more about Jonnyʼs work on the<br />
FACE AIDS campaign,<br />
please visit www.faceaids.org<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 7
Thanks,Truman<br />
& Rockefeller!<br />
Kameelah Rasheed<br />
(SHP‘02) won two<br />
prestigious national<br />
honors this year<br />
W hat does it take to be selected as<br />
Wa Harry S. Truman Scholar The<br />
federal government awards 75 Truman<br />
Scholarships annually to intelligent,<br />
passionate student leaders who want to<br />
attend graduate school in preparation<br />
for a career in public service. The application<br />
process is rigorous and competition<br />
is stiff, with colleges nominating<br />
only a few applicants every year.<br />
It is one of the most prestigious undergraduate<br />
scholarships in the nation.<br />
And what does it take to be selected<br />
as a Rockefeller Brotherʼs Fund (RBF)<br />
Fellow for Aspiring Teachers of Color<br />
The RBF selection committee (comprised<br />
of school administrators, higher<br />
education professionals, and RBF Fellows<br />
with three or more years of classroom<br />
experience) chooses people who<br />
have the potential to become exceptional<br />
public school teachers, and who<br />
demonstrate a clear passion for working<br />
with children and a commitment to<br />
teaching in the public schools. Only 25<br />
fellows are selected each year.<br />
Kameelah Rasheed (SHPʻ02) recently<br />
won both these honors. At Po-<br />
mona College, Kameelah has designed<br />
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her own major in Public Policy Analysis,<br />
concentrating on Africa and the<br />
African Diaspora (dispersed African<br />
populations throughout the world).<br />
Kameelah has been actively involved<br />
in teaching and mentoring underprivileged<br />
and at-risk youth since she was<br />
thirteen. Her activist and academic interests<br />
are focused on the intersections<br />
between education and imprisonment<br />
with relation to race, class and gender.<br />
At Pomona, Kameelah has channeled<br />
her energies into a diverse set<br />
of organizations, including the Muslim<br />
Student Association, the Womenʼs<br />
Union, the National Society of Collegiate<br />
Scholars, and the Mortar Board<br />
Honor Society. She also coordinates<br />
and teaches the Social Justice Studies<br />
elective at a local high school and interns<br />
with Critical Resistance-Los Angeles<br />
teaching classes and doing community<br />
outreach related to reducing<br />
prisons and policing in Los Angeles.<br />
She has recently started a new group<br />
at Pomona College called the Prison<br />
Activist group, which is working to organize<br />
a mini-conference related to the<br />
prison-industrial complex.<br />
At <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep, Kameelah<br />
was the co-founder of the Jewish-Muslim<br />
Alliance, was heavily involved in<br />
the Black Student Union and Diversity<br />
Club, and spent time volunteering<br />
through the SHP Service Learning program<br />
at local schools and the Boys and<br />
Girls Club. Additionally, Kameelah<br />
was involved with the SHP Yearbook,<br />
the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society and the National<br />
Honors Society.<br />
“I actually found out that I received<br />
the Truman Scholarship and the RBF<br />
Fellowship on the same day,” said<br />
SERVICE LEARNING: Kameelah<br />
working hard in Salinas on an SHP<br />
Service Learning immersion trip to<br />
learn more about migrant labor<br />
Kameelah,” I was studying abroad in<br />
Cape Town, South Africa at the time. I<br />
was thrilled to win both awards as they<br />
are such great honors. I am excited to<br />
have these opportunities to work with<br />
other leaders and activists who are concerned<br />
with creating social change.”<br />
Kameelah plans to use her Rockefeller<br />
Fellowship to pay for a two-year<br />
Masters of Education and teaching<br />
credential program. “I want to teach<br />
high school students in continuation<br />
schools,” said Kameelah. “Hopefully<br />
Iʼll work with youth who have been<br />
imprisoned, are at risk of being imprisoned<br />
or in the transitional stages<br />
of community-based programs to deter<br />
repeated imprisonment.” Kameelah<br />
will use her Truman Scholarship to<br />
pursue a Masters in Urban Planning.<br />
“I want to study gentrification and<br />
ways to incorporate local knowledge<br />
in building and improving communities,”<br />
said Kameelah. “As I pursue this<br />
degree, Iʼll investigate the way global<br />
and domestic cities work to meet the<br />
housing needs of the urban poor.”<br />
Established by Congress in 1975,<br />
the Truman Scholarship Foundation<br />
awards $30,000 scholarships to college<br />
students to attend graduate school<br />
in preparation for careers in government<br />
or elsewhere in public service.<br />
Established in 1991 by the Rockefeller<br />
Brotherʼs Fund, the Fellowship for<br />
Students of Color Entering the Teaching<br />
Profession addresses the need for more<br />
minorities in the teaching profession.<br />
Each fellow receives up to $22,100 over<br />
a five-year period.
A Thriving<br />
Start-Up<br />
Stephen Carlson (SHP‘02) & Andy<br />
Ramsay (SHP‘02) have recently<br />
jumped into the dot-com craze head<br />
first, by starting their own internet<br />
company: MyCollegeMarket.com<br />
Q: What exactly is MyCollegeMarket<br />
Stephen: Basically, MyCollegeMarket is an eBay-like<br />
website for college students. Itʼs a college-only, online<br />
market where students can buy and sell anything. However,<br />
our site also integrates the social-networking capabilities of<br />
websites like FaceBook.com and MySpace.com. Anyone<br />
with a valid .edu email address can register.<br />
Q: What inspired you to create MyCollegeMarket<br />
Andy: First and foremost, the success of FaceBook.com<br />
awakened us to college studentsʼ intense desire to network<br />
with each other in an online format. We thought these robust<br />
social networks could do even more for the students<br />
that use them.<br />
Stephen: Our second source of inspiration was the<br />
equally robust piles of junk that accumulated in our rooms<br />
after two years of college. Extra-long sheets, textbooks, old<br />
movies, and hangers cluttered our rooms. All this stuff was<br />
perfectly good, there just needed to be a venue for me to<br />
sell it. The only online forums we could find were poorly<br />
publicized and severely under-used.<br />
Then we realized, the active online commerce community<br />
of a site like eBay, mixed with the college-only, networking<br />
capabilities of FaceBook.com would be the perfect<br />
venue for college students to sell all this perfectly good<br />
merchandise that they no longer needed.<br />
Q: What are your roles in the company<br />
Andy: Stephen is the boss. His job is to keep all of us in<br />
line. We have five staff members, plus “ambassadors” at<br />
several college campuses, who are in charge of promoting<br />
MyCollegeMarket at their own universities.<br />
Stephen: Andy is in charge of marketing. When we<br />
launched the site, we needed to make it cool and start a phenomenon<br />
that would spread by word-of-mouth. Although<br />
Andy had no official marketing experience, I knew he had<br />
the magic touch. Back when we were at SHP, he founded<br />
the SHP Swedish Culture Club— if there ever was a successful<br />
phenomenon, the Swedish Culture Club was it!<br />
Andy: Yeah, the Swedish Culture Club was all about just<br />
having fun, welcoming anyone, and just doing cool activities,<br />
purely for the sake of doing them. I learned that people respond<br />
if youʼll just make it fun. Iʼve really tried to capture that<br />
same spirit of fun in our marketing for MyCollegeMarket.<br />
Stephen: Our SHP education has come in handy in many<br />
other ways, too. First and foremost, the writing skills we<br />
gained at SHP have been invaluable to our work. Anything<br />
we put up on the internet has to be polished, and we learned<br />
how to write and edit and re-write from the absolute best<br />
teachers at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Plus, our SHP education taught<br />
us to work hard, but stay balanced. Almost all SHP students<br />
find time to participate in drama, sports, and other stuff.<br />
In our growth stage, we sometimes worked almost eighty<br />
hours a week on MyCollegeMarket, but we always tried to<br />
balance the work with school, travel, and leisure.<br />
HARD AT WORK: Stephen (far left) and Andy (far right)<br />
with the rest of the MyCollege Market executive team<br />
Q: How do your five staff members work together<br />
when they live all over the country<br />
Andy: Yeah, it isnʼt easy— Iʼm in LA, Stephen is in Maine,<br />
and the others are in New York and the Bay Area. We stay in<br />
touch via email, instant messaging, and internet telephony.<br />
Q: So whatʼs next for MyCollegeMarket<br />
Andy: Bigger and better. Weʼre still in our infant stage,<br />
but at this point weʼre about ready to get some funding<br />
and prepare the site to handle exponential growth and<br />
to become profitable in the coming months. With this<br />
growth, I am also really thrilled about the potential for<br />
MyCollegeMarket to do some charity work. In the new<br />
site, we will definitely give students the option to donate<br />
proceeds from their sales to some form of charity.<br />
Stephen: We also hope to empower student artists with<br />
MyCollegeMarket. Itʼs a great venue for song-writers,<br />
bands, painters, sculptors and authors to get some exposure<br />
and sell their art. Weʼve created a whole “MyArtist” plan<br />
that will really make MyCollegeMarket a great tool for any<br />
budding student artist.<br />
STEPHEN CARLSON is a junior at<br />
Bowdoin College, studying French and<br />
Economics. ANDY RAMSAY is a junior at UCLA, majoring in English.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 9
Beating the Odds<br />
Kate Paye (SJSH‘87)<br />
What kind of teenager turns<br />
down recruiting offers from<br />
has done what most California, Dartmouth, Harvard and<br />
thought impossible — Princeton, where she could play, and<br />
decides to be a hopeful walk-on at<br />
she made it to the<br />
nationally-ranked Stanford, where<br />
WNBA and beyond sheʼll be lucky to make the team<br />
What kind of basketball player plays<br />
professionally at a height of only<br />
5ʼ8” What kind of student earns an<br />
MBA and a JD from Stanford University<br />
while playing full-time in the<br />
WNBA<br />
Meet Kate Paye (SJSH ʻ87).<br />
Coaches, teammates, and classmates<br />
describe her as driven and determined.<br />
She achieved feats that no<br />
one thought possible for her. And yet<br />
sheʼs one of the most humble people<br />
you will ever meet. She says that all<br />
along, she “Just wanted to see how<br />
good of a basketball player I really<br />
could be.”<br />
“I remember Kate as one of the<br />
most gifted athletes we have ever<br />
had here at St. Josephʼs,” recalls<br />
SJSH Athletic Director Sue Mc-<br />
Donald. “She was the ultimate team<br />
player— very unselfish. She was<br />
quiet, gifted academically, extremely<br />
fast and very humble—we often had<br />
to remind her to shoot the basketball<br />
rather than always passing it off to a<br />
teammate.”<br />
After attending SJSH from preschool<br />
to eighth grade, Kate attended<br />
high school down the street at Menlo<br />
School, where she led her team to<br />
three consecutive state championships<br />
in Division Five.<br />
“My mom, dad, older brother,<br />
and older sister were all Stanford<br />
10 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
graduates,” said Kate, “Iʼd always<br />
dreamed of playing college basketball<br />
for Stanford.” No one thought<br />
much of her when she joined the basketball<br />
team her freshman year, but<br />
pretty soon, everyone noticed her.<br />
Two-thirds of the way through her<br />
freshman year, she had made a big<br />
enough team contribution to garner a<br />
scholarship for the remainder of her<br />
Stanford years.<br />
THEN AND NOW: Kate as an<br />
eighth-grader at SJSH in 1987<br />
and as Assistant Coach for<br />
the San Diego State Aztecs<br />
“I am very proud to have ever<br />
made it to that level,” said Kate,<br />
“I believed I was a good athlete,<br />
but never imagined I would make<br />
it to the pro level—learning the<br />
strategies, skills and concepts of<br />
the game at the elite level was amazing<br />
for me!”<br />
First Kate played for the now-defunct<br />
American Basketball League,<br />
and then joined the WNBA, first with<br />
the Minnesota Lynx for two years<br />
and then with the Seattle Storm for<br />
one year. The WNBA played in the<br />
summer months, so during training<br />
time the rest of the year, Kate went<br />
to Stanford and pursued a Law de-<br />
“Sports were an important part of the girls’ lives<br />
at St. Joe’s and our competitions were just as<br />
serious as the boys’.”<br />
Kate went on to become one of<br />
Stanfordʼs best defensive players.<br />
Her team won the Pac-10 Championship<br />
three out of her four years.<br />
Kate went on to win two Pac-10 All-<br />
Academic awards and the Stanford<br />
coaches award, in addition to serving<br />
as team captain for two seasons and<br />
being named Stanfordʼs “Best Defensive<br />
Player” in 1994.<br />
“I learned incredible lessons<br />
at Stanford from Coach Tara<br />
VanDerveer,” said Kate, “She always<br />
said the greatest determiners of our<br />
success were the two things we could<br />
each control: our attitude and our effort.<br />
I was certainly not the most<br />
physically gifted player on the team,<br />
but I put myself in the position to get<br />
the most out of what I did have.”<br />
Amazingly, during her years at<br />
Stanford Kate never worried about<br />
playing time or whether she would<br />
be a starter. “I just took the gifts I<br />
did have and worked hard, never letting<br />
an opportunity pass by.”<br />
After graduating, Kate played basketball<br />
professionally for six years.<br />
gree and Business degree at the same<br />
time. Her teammates could not believe<br />
it. But as Kate put it, “I was<br />
accustomed to being a student athlete—I<br />
knew how to be extremely<br />
disciplined and use my time wisely.”<br />
After six years of professional ball,<br />
Kate started practicing corporate law<br />
in Palo Alto— but not for long. Pepperdine<br />
University recruited her to<br />
coach their womenʼs basketball<br />
team for one season, and after<br />
that Kate moved on to her current<br />
position, as the Assistant coach<br />
of the womenʼs basketball team<br />
of the San Diego State Aztecs.<br />
“I love being on the court everyday<br />
and teaching the young<br />
players,” said Kate, “My job<br />
includes working with the point<br />
guards and perimeter players,<br />
designing the overall team offense,<br />
and overseeing all recruiting<br />
efforts.” Kate is on the road<br />
most of the time, either traveling<br />
with the team or recruiting new<br />
players from around the world.<br />
“When I coach, I try to pass on the<br />
special experience I had of being on a<br />
team,” said Kate, “I want each player<br />
to experience something greater than<br />
herself. When players truly contribute<br />
to their team, they get back immeasurable<br />
rewards.”<br />
Looking back, Kate remembers<br />
that sports were a valued part of<br />
the education at St Joeʼs. “I am so<br />
thankful for the great coaching I received<br />
from Mrs. Lochtefeld and Sue<br />
McDonald during those formative<br />
years,” said Kate, “Sports were an<br />
important part of the girlsʼ lives at St.<br />
Joeʼs and our competitions were just<br />
as serious as the boysʼ. At the time,<br />
I thought this type of equity was normal<br />
everywhere!”<br />
“At St Josephʼs I was constantly<br />
being challenged,” said Kate, “It<br />
was a great preparation for everything<br />
that was to follow in my life.”<br />
When she came to SJSH to speak to<br />
the students a couple years ago, Kate<br />
emphasized the importance of seeking<br />
out and conquering challenges<br />
in life. “Even when everyone else<br />
thinks you canʼt succeed, you need<br />
to believe in yourself,” said Kate,<br />
“Amazing things can happen if you<br />
work hard enough.”<br />
Kate is excited that St. Josephʼs is<br />
celebrating 100 years of education,<br />
and she hopes to visit for the celebrations<br />
on May 20th if her busy schedule<br />
allows.<br />
COACH Paye gives an Aztec<br />
player some tips on the court<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 11
My Demanding<br />
Career<br />
Parenting a child with special<br />
needs has unique challenges<br />
and unique rewards<br />
By Andi Vartanian Dehne (SJSH‘82)<br />
Pick any demanding career out there and, chances are,<br />
there are stringent courses to be taken and tests to<br />
pass before one is allowed to enter it. Parenting, however,<br />
has no such requirements. And yet, it is one of the most<br />
important and demanding jobs there is. I know because I<br />
am a relatively new mom to two small children. I didnʼt<br />
take any classes in motherhood, I didnʼt pass any tests<br />
before being allowed to work as a mom, and nobody even<br />
asked for a resumé before handing me my first child and<br />
sending me home with him! It doesnʼt feel like too long<br />
ago that I was a six-year-old girl wearing a plaid jumper<br />
and saddle shoes in Sr. Robinsonʼs first grade class! How<br />
on earth did I become somebodyʼs mother<br />
My four siblings and I all attended St Josephʼs for<br />
elementary school. We all received an outstanding<br />
education, but, maybe more importantly, we grew up in a<br />
school environment that strongly supported our familyʼs<br />
values. Between my parents and the influence of all the<br />
teachers, we had no choice but to grow up with a strong<br />
sense of responsibility, a good work ethic, compassionate<br />
hearts and respect for others. We learned to treat others as<br />
we wanted to be treated and we learned to value people for<br />
who they are on the inside rather than for material reasons.<br />
Although many things I learned at St. Josephʼs, such as<br />
conjugating French verbs and writing five-paragraph<br />
essays, do not currently factor in to my daily life, my<br />
value system is something I use daily in parenting my own<br />
children. And it played an instrumental role in helping me<br />
welcome my oldest child, Riley, into my life.<br />
While pregnant with Riley, we learned that he had an<br />
extra chromosome, meaning he would be born with Down<br />
syndrome (DS). Receiving that news over the phone was<br />
one of the most shocking and brutal moments of my life.<br />
My husband and I didnʼt want our son to have DS, but he<br />
did. In my heart I knew I needed to meet my boy. I felt that<br />
he was given to me for a reason.<br />
Riley has been an amazing teacher. In his short life he has<br />
already impacted so many people, and he reminds me daily<br />
of what is truly important. In raising Riley I am reminded<br />
that a true measure of oneʼs success is what kind of person<br />
you are and how you treat others. I have learned to slow<br />
down and appreciate the little wonders in life. Riley has<br />
taught me to work hard for what I want and to not give<br />
up when a situation is challenging. He has also taught me<br />
to not take anything for granted. Every time he meets a<br />
milestone, it is that much sweeter because I know he has<br />
worked extra hard to get there.<br />
Like any child, Riley has his own relative areas of strength<br />
and weakness. As any parent would do, I try to support him<br />
in his areas of need, give him the tools he needs to be more<br />
independent and guide him towards pursuing his passions.<br />
As his mother, I do worry about him. I worry about how<br />
others may treat him. I worry that some kids may tease him<br />
as he gets older...but I also have faith. I look back to my<br />
childhood and recall the warmth, safety and acceptance I<br />
felt as a child at St. Joeʼs and I know that there are people<br />
out there who will see my boy for the amazing and gentle<br />
soul that he is. I know I will work hard to build a supportive<br />
community around him and to instill in him the values that<br />
I received as a child.<br />
In December of 2004 my husband and I were blessed<br />
with our second child, Emily. Looking in her eyes I can<br />
tell that she is a strong, social, opinionated little girl with<br />
a contagious zest for life. She loves her big brother and<br />
follows him all around the house. I know she may have<br />
some extra challenges having a brother with special needs,<br />
but I also know that having Riley in her life will make her<br />
a better, richer and stronger person, just like it has me.<br />
Some people have told me that I am “special” and that<br />
they “could never do what I do.” The truth is, I am not<br />
any more special than any other mother out there who<br />
loves her child. Being a mother is a difficult job, with no<br />
training, but I know that my experiences as a child have<br />
helped to make me the mother I am today. I look back to<br />
my childhood and time spent at St. Josephʼs with fondness<br />
and with a sense of security that comes from growing up<br />
knowing I was loved and appreciated for who I was. This<br />
sense of security is something I strive to provide for my<br />
own children so that they will have the confidence to listen<br />
to their hearts in difficult situations, stand up for what they<br />
believe is right, and to value the people and relationships<br />
in their lives.<br />
12 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
Life at Warner Brothers<br />
Pictures, Inc.<br />
What do Bugs Bunny,<br />
Harry Potter, Friends,<br />
and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
have in common<br />
Musette Buckley<br />
(SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)!<br />
When Musette Buckley (SJSH<br />
ʻ76, SHPʻ80) walks around<br />
the 110-acre Warner Bros. campus,<br />
everyone—from the security guards<br />
to George Clooney—knows her name<br />
and greets her with a big smile.<br />
Musette is the Senior Vice<br />
President of Production Resources<br />
for Warner Bros. Pictures, one of the<br />
leading motion picture and television<br />
production facilities in the world. She<br />
works in the newly-emerging field<br />
of product placement. “Remember<br />
when Reeseʼs Pieces appeared in the<br />
movie E.T.” said Musette. “That was<br />
the beginning of product placement.”<br />
For example, Musette formed the<br />
partnership with Samsung so that<br />
their phones appeared in Matrix<br />
Reloaded. She hopes that Samsung<br />
will also appear in Superman, which<br />
releases this summer. And she made<br />
the deal with Chrysler to promote<br />
their new 300 Sedan in Firewall,<br />
starring Harrison Ford.<br />
“The main purpose of branded<br />
integration is to generate revenue<br />
to reduce the costs of production,”<br />
said Musette. Her workday is packed<br />
with meetings for every movie and<br />
show that the studio has in preproduction<br />
at the time. Musette<br />
looks for opportunities for product<br />
placement, and then she builds<br />
strong relationships with consumer<br />
companies such as Apple, Anheuser-<br />
Busch, Chrysler, Kodak, Samsung,<br />
and Coke. In return for their products<br />
appearing in movies and TV shows,<br />
the companies reduce production<br />
costs, generate revenue, and leverage<br />
placement with promotional campaigns.<br />
“My favorite part of the job is my<br />
daily interaction with a variety of<br />
people, from creative production<br />
people to the marketing geniuses of<br />
the world,” said Musette. Her highenergy<br />
personality is perfect for her<br />
demanding job, where every minute is<br />
packed with action. “For one movie,<br />
I proposed ten product placements to<br />
the director during the pre-production<br />
process, and he turned them all<br />
down. Then the day before filming,<br />
the director realized the value, and<br />
wanted all ten delivered the next day.<br />
And we did! That was definitely my<br />
craziest day at work.”<br />
In addition to her high-profile<br />
career at Warner Bros., Musette is a<br />
mother to an adorable two-year old<br />
daughter, “Muzie.” “I love being a<br />
mom, but I couldnʼt juggle a career<br />
like this without a lot of support,”<br />
said Musette. “Little Musette comes<br />
to work for a visit once a week. Her<br />
favorite activity is to ride around the<br />
WB campus in the golf cart to see<br />
the animation studio, the Bewitched<br />
MUSETTE & MUZIE pose on<br />
Halloween (above) and ride on<br />
an elephant at a Warner Bros.<br />
event (below)<br />
house, and the Partridge Family<br />
house.<br />
While fulfilling to her duties as<br />
Senior VP and mother, Musette<br />
also volunteers extensively for<br />
AMFAR, Planet Hope, and The<br />
Dream Foundation. She recently won<br />
Time Warnerʼs prestigious Andrew<br />
Heiskell Award, given to employees<br />
in recognition of their outstanding<br />
public service.<br />
“I first became interested in<br />
charitable works at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
when I was president of Mother<br />
Costelloʼs organization, Castle Youth<br />
Helping Others,” said Musette.<br />
“Our group raised money for people<br />
with disabilities, people who were<br />
homeless, and for guide dogs for the<br />
blind through bake sales and door-todoor<br />
solicitations. Mother Costello<br />
made a huge impact on my passion<br />
for helping others. She was a loving,<br />
compassionate mentor. My experience<br />
in Castle Youth formed the base of all<br />
the service work I do today.”<br />
In general, Musette remembers her<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education as structured,<br />
challenging, and enriching. “At<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> I gained a life-long love<br />
of learning, a sense of self-worth,<br />
an appreciation for community,<br />
good work habits, and the qualities<br />
of compassion and respect,” said<br />
Musette.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 13
Building<br />
Community<br />
As University Chaplain, Sharon<br />
Kugler (SHP‘77) deepens<br />
understanding among 25<br />
religious groups<br />
Many who attended <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
with Sharon Kugler (SHPʻ77)<br />
remember that extra spring in her<br />
step and that great smile that seemed<br />
permanently set on her face. The grades<br />
appeared to come effortlessly and all<br />
the faculty and students enjoyed easy<br />
conversation with her. She served as a<br />
leader in the Honors Society and was<br />
President of her senior class.<br />
Now, almost three decades after<br />
her high school graduation, Sharon<br />
is enjoying great professional success<br />
in an area she never would have<br />
expected: chaplaincy.<br />
Sharon is a rarity on the national<br />
scene, a lay person who serves as<br />
University Chaplain at a major<br />
institution, John Hopkins University<br />
(JHU). How did she end up there<br />
It was a series of steps, beginning, of<br />
course, at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Sharon recalls,<br />
“At <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> I was comfortable<br />
exploring lifeʼs large questions in and<br />
out of a classroom setting with faculty,<br />
staff and fellow students.”<br />
After graduating from the Convent,<br />
Sharon pursued a bachelorʼs degree in<br />
math at Santa Clara University, where<br />
she was very involved with campus<br />
ministries and joined the Jesuit<br />
Volunteer Corps. She was sent to<br />
Cleveland through the Corps, where<br />
she worked with battered women in a<br />
shelter. During her motherʼs illness,<br />
Sharon moved back to the Bay Area<br />
and accepted a job at Santa Clara<br />
University as Associate Campus<br />
Minister. “I loved my work at Santa<br />
Clara— I had the opportunity to<br />
preach regularly at the Universityʼs<br />
mission and to work at all the spiritual<br />
retreats,” said Sharon. “The campus<br />
had a social activist air about it, and I<br />
found the Jesuits very empowering.”<br />
Next, Sharon and her husband<br />
moved to Baltimore, and she took a<br />
position as the Director of a Hospice<br />
for AIDS that was funded through<br />
ecumenical church donations. “This<br />
was my first exposure to work outside<br />
of the Catholic Community,” said<br />
Sharon, “While in this job, I became<br />
very interested in chaplaincy on<br />
college campuses, so I interviewed<br />
“MINISTRY OF GASTRONOMY”:<br />
Above, Sharon (SHP‘77), far<br />
right, serves up food at an interfaith<br />
dinner with her daughter<br />
Zoe (center) and a Muslim student.<br />
THE FIRST OF ITS KIND:<br />
Left, Sharon speaks at the open-<br />
ing ceremonies of the<br />
Bunting-<br />
Meyerhoff Interfaith and Community<br />
Service Center at JHU<br />
the several chaplains who sat on the<br />
hospice Board of Directors and wrote<br />
a paper about it.”<br />
Little did Sharon realize where that<br />
paper would take her. At this time<br />
(1993), Johns Hopkins University<br />
administrators were considering the<br />
elimination of their chaplain position.<br />
They couldnʼt seem to find a way<br />
to make chaplaincy work in such<br />
a religiously-diverse environment.<br />
When they read Sharonʼs paper,<br />
they recruited her to come work as<br />
a consultant to help them restructure<br />
their chaplaincy program.<br />
While consulting full-time for JHU,<br />
Sharon worked toward her Masters<br />
degree in Comparative Religions at<br />
Georgetown. Her thesis, entitled The<br />
Limits and Possibilities of Building a<br />
Religiously Plural Community, thrust<br />
her into the spotlight for groups across<br />
the nation that were wrestling with the<br />
questions of religion in universities<br />
and in society. Sharonʼs thesis was so<br />
well-received that it has been adopted<br />
by the United States Department of<br />
Defense as a tool for new chaplains in<br />
the military.<br />
After a few months of consulting,<br />
JHU asked her to stay on staff as the<br />
full-time chaplain and implement her<br />
vision of an inter-faith structure. “As<br />
University Chaplain, I advocate for the<br />
religious needs of students, professors,<br />
and staff members,” said Sharon,<br />
“My goal at JHU has been to build an<br />
inclusive sense of community within<br />
our religiously plural population.”<br />
Obviously, Sharonʼs hard work<br />
has paid off. Since Sharon became<br />
Chaplain, her center went from<br />
14 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
epresenting eight religious groups to<br />
representing over 25 religious groups<br />
of nine distinct traditions, including<br />
Buddhism, Hinduism, the Bahaʼi faith,<br />
Unitarianism, and Christianity. Sharon<br />
convinced the JHU administration to<br />
create the first-ever spiritual facility<br />
in the 123-year history of the college:<br />
The Bunting-Meyerhoff Interfaith and<br />
Community Service Center, which<br />
opened in 1999.<br />
At the Center, Sharon focuses<br />
on deepening awareness and<br />
understanding between the 25<br />
different religious groups that it<br />
serves. Sharon formed the Interfaith<br />
Council, composed of members of<br />
various student religious groups on<br />
campus. The Council members work<br />
towards establishing a cooperative<br />
community spirit among all religious<br />
groups on campus and dispelling the<br />
myths and misunderstandings about<br />
the various religions.<br />
In addition to working with the<br />
Interfaith Council, Sharonʼs duties<br />
include counseling, leading worship,<br />
and planning memorials. “You feel<br />
called to do it,” said Sharon. “If itʼs<br />
not feeding your soul, youʼre going<br />
to know it pretty quickly. Chaplaincy<br />
gives you the opportunity to give to<br />
people and be there in their hours of<br />
greatest need.”<br />
Sharon has proved herself a master<br />
at building community among all the<br />
religious groups on campus. “JHU is<br />
a very intense place academically,”<br />
said Sharon, “One way I get students<br />
involved in the interfaith center<br />
is to create a relaxing, welcoming<br />
environment that feels nothing like<br />
the lab. I always save room in my<br />
annual budget for a bubble-blowing<br />
machine and a stocked ice-cream cart.”<br />
These whimsical ideas for building<br />
community have worked wonders. “I<br />
canʼt tell you how glad I was, right<br />
after September 11th, to share that ice<br />
cream cart with our students when the<br />
world was all chaos and confusion.”<br />
In addition to the centerʼs fun<br />
environment, Sharon has created<br />
annual events to bring diverse<br />
students together for community.<br />
“Regardless of their religious beliefs,<br />
THEN & NOW: Right, Sharon’s<br />
photos at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in 1977<br />
and at JHU in 2001. INTERFAITH<br />
COUNCIL: Below, Sharon (far<br />
left) gathers with the members<br />
of JHU’s Interfaith Council<br />
the ministry of gastronomy is at<br />
the heart of connecting with college<br />
students,” said Sharon, “I started<br />
hosting chili dinners as a lark my first<br />
year here,” said Sharon, “I just wanted<br />
to do something nice for the resident<br />
advisers on campus and also break their<br />
misconceptions about me as a religious<br />
leader.” From that humble beginning,<br />
the chili tradition has grown each year,<br />
and is well-known across campus.<br />
In addition, Sharon has an hors<br />
dʼoeuvre buffet for all the members of<br />
the Interfaith Council every December.<br />
“The Muslim students particularly<br />
enjoy this Christmas dinner, because<br />
it has coincided with Ramandan, a<br />
month-long time of prayer and fasting<br />
during daylight hours,” said Sharon.<br />
“At this special dinner, there is a unique<br />
feeling of connectedness between the<br />
students.” In fact, Sharon has enjoyed<br />
friendships with culturally-diverse<br />
students ever since her days at <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong>. She recalls, “I loved learning<br />
about the lives of the boarders-- their<br />
families, their countries of origin and<br />
what mattered most to them.”<br />
In 2001, Sharon completed her<br />
second term as president of the<br />
National Association of College and<br />
University Chaplains. “While serving<br />
as President, I got to travel to Rome to<br />
join a special consultation of European<br />
chaplains discussing religious diversity<br />
with the Vatican,” said Sharon. “As<br />
I met with the Cardinals, I felt so<br />
humbled, and also excited about where<br />
the ongoing dialogue might take us.”<br />
The new millennium also brought<br />
heart-breaking news: Sharon was<br />
diagnosed with Lymphoma, Hodgkinʼs<br />
Disease. She continued her work at<br />
JHU while going through treatment,<br />
and eventually she beat the cancer. “I<br />
never tried to hide my cancer,” said<br />
Sharon. “I think that helped me stay<br />
connected with my community. I love<br />
sharing my survival story with others<br />
to give them hope.” Sharon is healthy<br />
and cancer free today.<br />
“<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was key to my<br />
early formation and understanding<br />
of what it means to be a person of<br />
conscience,” recalls Sharon. “It was<br />
a place of broad intellectual and<br />
spiritual exploration in the very best<br />
sense.” Sharon reports that because of<br />
her own wonderful experience at the<br />
Convent, she and her husband chose<br />
to send their two daughters, Emily and<br />
Zoe, to all-girls schools. “At <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> we had rich traditions such<br />
as liturgies in the old building, the<br />
Little Theater productions, the ring<br />
dance, and graduation on Palm Court.<br />
These were things that made me feel<br />
that I belonged to part of something<br />
bigger than myself— that I was part<br />
of the living history of a very special<br />
place.”<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 15
I I Know It it By by <strong>Heart</strong><br />
Building<br />
Community<br />
as a<br />
Christian<br />
Value:<br />
November 17,<br />
:<br />
SJSH second<br />
****<br />
and<br />
**** ******<br />
visit Oakwood<br />
Retirement<br />
Center to read<br />
with Sr. en<br />
Donohoe, RSCJ<br />
16 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 17
What a difference<br />
50 years make!<br />
A day in the “Fourth Academic” year of Diane<br />
Lovegrove (SJSH‘52, SHP‘56) and a day in the<br />
Senior Year of **** ******** (SJSH‘02, SHP‘06)<br />
Diane Lovegrove (SJSHʻ52, SHPʻ56)<br />
6:45am: Wake up and get dressed in<br />
my uniform: a light blue skirt and blue<br />
bolero with a white blouse, gray sweater,<br />
and brown saddle shoes.<br />
7:30am: Walk to school, then go to<br />
study hall and put my books in my desk<br />
(there were no lockers). Curtsy to the nun<br />
at the front of the hall. (Once in a while<br />
we got to come back to study hall to do<br />
some homework – in silence of course.)<br />
8:00am: Literature and English<br />
Composition class, taught by Mother<br />
Welch, who now resides at Oakwood.<br />
She was a really good teacher, and very<br />
down-to-earth. We wrote one essay every<br />
Friday.<br />
9:00am: French IV with our only lay<br />
teacher (until Mr. Brown came our senior<br />
year). All the rest of our teachers were<br />
nuns and we called them Mother. Madame<br />
told us firsthand about places in France,<br />
which developed my curiosity. When I<br />
finally did go to France after college, I<br />
couldnʼt believe I was really there.<br />
10:00am: Religion class with Mother<br />
Schaffer, a young nun who also taught<br />
sewing and ceramics on Saturdays.<br />
11:00am: Logic class with Mr. John<br />
Brown. When we were seniors we<br />
suddenly had a man teacher for one<br />
semester! This was quite a shock since no<br />
boys were allowed on campus, not even<br />
the brothers of the boarders. This tall<br />
lanky young man didnʼt sit at a desk and<br />
teach. He paced back and forth in front<br />
of the class!<br />
12:00pm: Lunch downstairs in<br />
the cafeteria. We all ate there, and<br />
it was our time to talk and visit. The<br />
Sisters fixed the food. (The Mothers<br />
were our teachers while the Sisters did<br />
the menial tasks.) We all bought lunch<br />
and there werenʼt many choices. We took<br />
turns drying the silverware after lunch.<br />
We all loved to help Sister Christine.<br />
1:00pm: Chemistry lecture or lab. We<br />
had lectures three days a week and lab<br />
two days. Lab was the first experience<br />
we had where we worked collaboratively<br />
with another student.<br />
2:00pm: History class. We had no<br />
breaks between classes, only time to walk<br />
to the next class. We never left campus<br />
during school hours. There was no reason<br />
to. School was extremely rigorous, and<br />
we learned excellent study habits which I<br />
carried all the way through grad school.<br />
3:00pm: Music class in the Little<br />
Theater— I had Glee Club with Mother<br />
Cronin.<br />
4:00pm: After-school activites, including<br />
field hockey, soccer, volleyball<br />
and a wonderful game that involved<br />
throwing a rubber ring over the net to<br />
another girl. I think this game originated<br />
in Central America and was brought to us<br />
by the boarders.<br />
5:00pm: I changed out of my gym<br />
clothes, gathered up my books, and<br />
walked home. Before dinner, I practiced<br />
THEN & NOW: Diane<br />
Lovegrove in<br />
1956 and in <strong>2006</strong><br />
the piano for an hour.<br />
6:00pm: I helped<br />
make dinner and then<br />
ate with my mom and dad. After dinner,<br />
I studied for 2 or 3 hours. Sometimes<br />
I watched my favorite TV shows: I<br />
Love Lucy, Jackie Gleason, and The Ed<br />
Sullivan show.<br />
10:00pm: Go to bed.<br />
We did not have class officers. We had<br />
a system of ribbons: blue ribbons for the<br />
upperclassmen and green ribbons for<br />
the lower classmen. There was a voting<br />
system to see who earned them. We did<br />
not have yearbooks, nor were there any<br />
clubs. We had only one dance a year, and<br />
it was chaperoned by our parents.<br />
Once a week we had Primes. We all<br />
wore our white uniforms and sat with our<br />
classes in the Little Theater. Reverend<br />
Mother Deming or Mother Williams<br />
presented us with awards for the week.<br />
They were little cards that said Très<br />
Bien, Bien or Assez Bien. To receive our<br />
awards, we walked down the steps from<br />
the hard wooden benches, down the<br />
parquet floor and up the steps to the stage<br />
where Reverend Mother was seated. We<br />
curtsied whenever we went by her and<br />
when we received our awards.<br />
In my senior year, I had to choose<br />
between College of Notre Dame in<br />
Belmont and Dominican College in San<br />
Raphael. I chose Notre Dame. In my<br />
senior year of college, I applied to USC,<br />
UCLA and Stanford and was accepted at<br />
all these universities. I chose to attend<br />
Stanford, where I earned my MA in<br />
Education. In 1993, I earned another<br />
degree from the University of San<br />
Francisco— an MA in Pastoral Ministry.<br />
There were 32 girls in my graduating<br />
class.<br />
18 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
****** ****** (SJSHʻ02, SHPʻ06)<br />
7:00am: I wake up, get dressed in jeans<br />
and a T-shirt, have a quick breakfast, and<br />
drive (or bike, on Wednesdays) the two<br />
blocks to school.<br />
7:50am: Marine Biology class,<br />
taught by Ms. Justine Walker (SJSHʻ95,<br />
SHPʻ99). We just finished a unit on dunes<br />
and the transfer of sand. Now weʼre<br />
learning about toxic chemical pollutants<br />
in the environment.<br />
8:40am: American Diplomacy class,<br />
taught by Mr. Barry Treseler. Right now<br />
weʼre in our Vietnam War unit, working<br />
toward Desert Storm.<br />
9:20am: I jet over to 32 Sigall (our<br />
assembly room) to prepare for the<br />
weekly assembly.<br />
9:25am: Grades 9-12 gather all<br />
together for assembly. At the beginning,<br />
I make announcements about student<br />
council (because Iʼm the Student Body<br />
President).<br />
9:50am: Break time. I go to the Gator<br />
Pit (our cafeteria) to get something to<br />
eat—and chat with friends.<br />
10:05am: Honors Short Stories class,<br />
taught by Mr. Kermit Holderman. Today,<br />
we discuss The Storm by Kate Chopin<br />
and A Jury of Her Peers by Susan<br />
Glaspell. This is my largest class by far,<br />
with 18 students. Weʼre all seniors.<br />
10:50am: Creating Literature<br />
class, taught by Mr. Michael Peterson<br />
(SJSHʻ92, SHPʻ96). Each team presents<br />
their research on a certain form of poetry.<br />
ACADEMIC SNAPSHOTS: Left,<br />
in Diane Lovegrove’s time,<br />
students worked in Study Hall<br />
in complete silence. Below,<br />
SHP teacher Michael Peterson<br />
(far left, SJSH‘92, SHP‘96), leads<br />
***** ****** (far right) and his<br />
classmates in a discussion<br />
My team is analyzing free form<br />
open verse.<br />
11:35am: My first free period. I<br />
go to the library to do homework,<br />
catch up on email, and work on my<br />
essay for my college applications.<br />
12:15pm: Lunch begins. I grab<br />
food at the cafeteria and swing<br />
by Mr. Mark Davisʼs room to ask<br />
him to write a letter of recommendation<br />
for my college applications.<br />
Iʼm applying to film programs at<br />
Loyola Marymount, USC, Emerson,<br />
University of Oregon, and Chapman.<br />
Iʼm applying to English programs at<br />
Boston University, UC Santa Barbara,<br />
and UC Irvine.<br />
12:30pm: Lunch continues. I lead<br />
the student council meeting in the Otto<br />
Library. We discuss suggestions from<br />
our new online suggestion box and<br />
discuss the status of fine arts, athletics,<br />
publicity, social events, service-learning,<br />
curriculum, and diversity.<br />
1:00pm: Meeting period. I go see<br />
Valéria Piazza-Lunga to get her advice—<br />
I need a tutor to help me prepare for the<br />
SAT IIs (individual subject standardized<br />
tests) in French language.<br />
1:45pm: AP French class, taught by<br />
Valéria Piazza-Lunga. We take a practice<br />
AP exam, and a few class members<br />
present their memorized one-minute<br />
speeches. This is my smallest class, with<br />
only 6 students.<br />
2:30pm: My second free period. We<br />
are allowed to leave campus if we have<br />
the last period of the day free, so I go<br />
to Posh Bagel with my friend Scott.<br />
After eating, I work on my article for<br />
the student newspaper The <strong>Heart</strong>beat,<br />
analyzing Michael Mooreʼs new movie<br />
about the health care industry, Sicko.<br />
3:30pm: Varsity soccer practice. We<br />
COMEDY REHEARSAL: ****<br />
******** (left, SHP‘06) at Kitsch<br />
rehearsal with ***** ******<br />
(SHP‘07)<br />
start with five laps, then play keep-away<br />
and do shooting drills, passing drills, and<br />
scrimmaging.<br />
5:00pm: Grab food at J and Jʼs<br />
Hawaiian Grill with three friends from<br />
the soccer team. We swing by my house,<br />
since itʼs on the way to J and Jʼs.<br />
5:30pm: Kitsch practice in the Sigall<br />
building. Kitsch is a student-run comedy<br />
improv group. There are 12 students<br />
in the group. As team leader, I run the<br />
group through warm-up games, mental<br />
games, and rhyming games to get our<br />
minds going. Then we launch into<br />
improvisation.<br />
7:00pm: Drive home and have dinner<br />
with my mom, dad, and little brother.<br />
8:00pm: Log on to mySHPnet.com<br />
to see my homework assignments.<br />
Work on my computer in my room until<br />
11pm, with short breaks for IM-ing with<br />
friends— we chat about homework and<br />
life.<br />
11:30pm: Go to bed, unless I have a<br />
test the next day, in which case I stay up<br />
a few more hours.<br />
There are 116 boys and girls in my<br />
graduating class.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 19
Why Financial Aid<br />
Ever wondered<br />
what St. Madeleine<br />
Sophie meant when<br />
she said, “For the<br />
sake of one child I<br />
would have founded<br />
the Society”<br />
Most of us have heard the famous<br />
words of St. Madeleine Sophie,<br />
foundress of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society:<br />
“For the sake of one child, I would<br />
have founded the Society.” But what<br />
did she mean and what exactly was her<br />
vision Elaine Berra Barry (SHPʻ87<br />
and SHP Staff Member), provides her<br />
opinion: “I truly believe that this school<br />
was founded for the sake of one child.<br />
If we are to make this our center, then<br />
we need to guarantee that our doors are<br />
always open— wide open.”<br />
St. Madeleine believed in the power<br />
of education to transform society.<br />
“Present-day society will be saved by<br />
education,” she said. “Other means<br />
are almost useless. Education must be<br />
concerned not only with studies but also<br />
with whatever may be required for the<br />
right ordering of life and requirements<br />
of cultivated society.”<br />
My Opinion:<br />
Lindsay Aydelott (SHP‘99)<br />
20 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />
Clearly, part of her vision for<br />
changing society was changing who<br />
had access to this transformative<br />
education. In a time when girls had<br />
very limited access to education, St.<br />
Madeleine Sophie, as RSCJ Superior<br />
General Patricia García de Quevedo<br />
puts it, “believed in the transforming<br />
power of women.”<br />
Not only did she seek to educate<br />
women, but also the urban poor.<br />
Superior General de Quevedo explains,<br />
“Whereas most congregations of<br />
Madeleine Sophieʼs time worked in<br />
rural areas, Madeleine Sophie was<br />
uring my time at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep, I valued the<br />
“Dsocio-economic diversity at the school as it provided<br />
me with many opportunities to develop unique and rewarding<br />
friendships. I know that the financial aid program<br />
made it possible for me to have such a great experience<br />
at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Not only did I benefit from the financial<br />
aid program, but I know many other people who would<br />
not have had the experience if it were not for financial<br />
aid.”<br />
“I think it’s so important for the school to provide an educational community<br />
that more closely reflects the world in which we live. Students who have a limited<br />
social experience are at a real disadvantage when they leave for college.<br />
The financial aid program actually benefits all students.”<br />
After SHS, Lindsay went on to study at UC San Diego. Now she works as As-<br />
sistant to the Director of the Southern California Institute of Architecture.<br />
THE<br />
STUDENT<br />
ASSISTANCE<br />
FUND: SJSH<br />
Parent Association<br />
Board<br />
Members<br />
present SJSH<br />
administrators<br />
with a<br />
check for<br />
$16,830.75 to<br />
support the<br />
SHS Assistance<br />
Fund.<br />
Left to right: Amy Hsieh, Melissa Gordon, Montye Rodgers, Charlene Golding,<br />
Diane Flynn, Maryan Ackley, Diana Hewitt, SJSH Preschool Principal<br />
Cee Salberg, Dee Armstrong, and SJSH Principal Karen Eshoo.<br />
different. She founded schools in cities;<br />
she insisted on a high level of studies<br />
and offered a holistic education. From<br />
the beginning she wanted to offer<br />
education to the poor.”<br />
On the topic of educating women, St.<br />
Madeleine Sophie Barat said, “Women<br />
and children must have some knowledge<br />
of current errors and form their<br />
own judgments in light of Christianity,<br />
in order to conform intelligently to the<br />
enlightened teaching of the Church.<br />
The hour has come when we must give<br />
reason for our faith.”<br />
How is St. Madeleine Sophieʼs vision<br />
present today in <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> schools<br />
across the world In the 1800s, St.<br />
Madeleine attached a “poor school” to<br />
each privileged <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> school.<br />
But in our time, campuses across the<br />
world integrate students from diverse<br />
socio-economic backgrounds. “This<br />
is why financial aid is absolutely vital<br />
at SHS,” said James Everitt, Director<br />
of the Office of Equity, Justice, and<br />
Multicultural Education, “With the<br />
rising cost of private education,<br />
thereʼs no way we could realize St.<br />
Madeleineʼs vision of education for all<br />
if we didnʼt give financial assistance.”<br />
SHS Atherton has come a long way<br />
in building up financial aid funds in the<br />
past five years. We have 51 endowed<br />
scholarships. This year the three<br />
schools provided $379,394 in tuition
My Opinion: Nefara Riesch (SHP‘05)<br />
“Not only does fi nancial aid allow<br />
people from all over the socioeconomic<br />
spectrum to receive an<br />
equal education, it creates an environment<br />
that everyone benefi ts<br />
from. The world is not made up<br />
of one socio-economic group, so<br />
there is no reason a school should<br />
be.”<br />
“Despite the challenges of being<br />
the only Samoan girl at our school and trying to balance<br />
my life between the two completely different worlds of<br />
Sunnyvale and Atherton, I am so grateful for the opportunity<br />
to go to SHP. If I hadn’t gone to <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>, I<br />
would not have such a positive outlook on my future. The<br />
Offi ce of Diversity staff, my incredible teachers, my basketball<br />
coaches, and Mr. Dioli gave me the ambition and<br />
the skills to not only move forward in life, but to do so with<br />
confi dence and relentless will power. “<br />
“When I look around at the other freshmen at UCLA, I<br />
see that many of them lack the simple skills necessary to<br />
succeed in college, especially study skills. That’s how I<br />
might have been without my excellent SHP training. I am<br />
able to get all my assignments done on-time and virtually<br />
stress-free because of what I learned about organization<br />
and time-management at SHP.”<br />
After graduating from SHP with the Dark Blue Ribbon,<br />
Nefara accepted a full scholarship at UCLA. She is currently<br />
a freshman.<br />
assistance for our students.<br />
In addition to tuition expenses, SHS<br />
has created the Student Assistance<br />
Fund to address the non-tuition<br />
financial needs of students, such as<br />
tutoring or testing, uniforms, cafeteria,<br />
lunches, school trips, sports equipment,<br />
and enrichment classes. In fact, at the<br />
beginning of the school year the SJSH<br />
Parent Association members chose to<br />
put the $17,000 they had raised through<br />
activities such as eScrip toward the<br />
Student Assistance Fund.<br />
“The SJSH Parent Association Board<br />
wanted to support the Student Assistance<br />
Fund because we are chartered<br />
to assist the SHS administration in<br />
providing an equitable educational<br />
opportunity for all students,” said Dee<br />
Armstrong, President of the SJSH<br />
Parent<br />
Association Board.<br />
“The SJSH Parent Board decided<br />
unanimously to donate our fundraising<br />
dollars to the Student Assistance Fund,”<br />
said SJSH parent Sandy Levison.<br />
“In order to fully support <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong>ʼs commitment to diversity, we<br />
all have to do our part. Financial aid<br />
does not stop with tuition; it is about<br />
alleviating all the financial barriers<br />
a student may encounter so they can<br />
take full advantage of a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
education.”<br />
At a recent international conference<br />
of the Religious of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>,<br />
participants affirmed our continued<br />
commitment to St. Madeleine Sophieʼs<br />
original vision: “We live in a world<br />
where the poor become poorer and<br />
the rich richer. In certain institutions<br />
of learning or universities, we are<br />
dealing with the privileged class, those<br />
privileged through wealth or through<br />
learning, or through power. [We need<br />
to ask ourselves,] How can we develop<br />
a specific pedagogy so that the social<br />
classes which are more favored will<br />
commit themselves to the cause<br />
and interests of the poor, instead of<br />
remaining closed in their privileges”<br />
For teachers and administrators<br />
at SHS Atherton, financial aid is<br />
a clear part of accomplishing this<br />
ideal education. As SHP Science<br />
Department Chair Guy Letteer<br />
points out, “Goal Three of the<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Goals and Criteria<br />
specifically charges us with<br />
teaching our students to achieve<br />
social awareness and ultimately<br />
to act on this knowledge. To<br />
offer a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education<br />
to only those who can afford it<br />
would circumvent the very goals<br />
that are so vitally central to this<br />
experience.”<br />
Joan Eagleson, Director of<br />
the SJSH Learning Center adds,<br />
“Madeleine Sophie understood<br />
the importance for every child<br />
to have the opportunity of a<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education, and<br />
she never drew back because<br />
of any obstacle. As <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> schools, we need to open<br />
our doors, our hearts, and our<br />
financial support to all potential<br />
students who want to learn about<br />
Godʼs love, and share what they learn<br />
with people around them.”<br />
“We have a moral responsibility as a<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> School to reach out and<br />
support all families,” said SJSH Lower<br />
School Dean Sally Peterson, “Our<br />
students need to learn how to respect<br />
and work together with children<br />
who may think differently and have<br />
differing perspectives on the world<br />
than they do.”<br />
My Opinion:<br />
Doug<br />
Lowney<br />
(SJSH‘84,<br />
SHP‘88)<br />
f we did not have<br />
“Isocio-economic<br />
diversity at SHS, we<br />
would fail to nurture<br />
students to live in<br />
the socio-economically diverse world. Why<br />
would we want to prepare students for a<br />
world that doesn’t exist”<br />
“I’m so grateful for the fi nancial aid that<br />
made my SHS education possible. For me,<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was about so much more<br />
than academic programs. There were<br />
teachers who knew me, counseled me<br />
through the foolish moments of adolescence,<br />
and guided me to develop my own<br />
intellectual interests.”<br />
After SHS, Doug went on to study at Vassar<br />
College. Now he is an AP English Teacher<br />
and Service-Learning Coordinator at SHP.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 21
Alumni Events<br />
1<br />
2<br />
5<br />
3<br />
4<br />
6<br />
7<br />
REUNION WEEKEND 2005: 1 The<br />
class of ‘55 visited the Sisters at Oakwood:<br />
Carroll Michael Shannon, Georgine Drees<br />
Premo, Mary Whitlock Raptis Nielsen,<br />
Amalia Salcedo de Langenscheidt,<br />
Ramona Somaria Schoenwisner, Sr.<br />
Connie Welch (former English teacher to the class<br />
of ‘55), Susan Davidson Thomas, and Sr. Helen<br />
Donohoe 2Anne Marr<br />
(SHP‘96) and Betsy Barth Marr<br />
(SHP‘59) 3 Jim Mosso (SJSH‘55) and Diane Morey<br />
(SJSH‘56) 4 Class of ‘00: Julia Reichert, William<br />
“Sparky” Hartman, and Leyla Boissonnade 5 Mary<br />
McGuire Driscou (SHP‘73), Diane Giavia Kramer<br />
(SHP‘73), and Marianne Dean Quarré (SHP‘75) 6<br />
Class of ‘55: Terry Johnson Bolduc, Suzanne Faul<br />
Garetson, and Barbara Meagher Madison 7 Class<br />
of ‘85: Christina Galindo, Ingela Kaersvang, Sandra<br />
Lorenz Frojel, Joan Draeger-Winkler,<br />
Karyn Forbes<br />
8<br />
22 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
9<br />
Rosol, and Kyla Lambert Eller 8 Erin Moix Grieb (SHP‘97)<br />
and her husband Mark 9 Class of ‘75: Front: Kathy Rapp<br />
Hoffman, Marianne Dean Quarré, Julie Marr, and Rita Musto.<br />
Back: Yukiko Okutsu, Angelica Sanguinetti Michela, Leana<br />
Giannini, Cathy Baldacci Jensen, Barbie McCoy Hale, Ann<br />
Carey, Suzanne Jaroch Lizotte, Katie Booth Iversen, and<br />
Molly Fox Shamir. 10 Class of ‘55: Sheila Molloy Gast and<br />
Mary Ellen Cosgrove Scherrer 11 Class of ‘00: Pablo Garces<br />
and Alex Jamieson 12 Class of ‘95: Tory Ford, Jenny Circle,<br />
Jennifer Harris Sabo, Iliana Tandler, Lauren McWilliams,<br />
Steve Roeser, Jason Varga, and Shawn Nickel 13 Class<br />
of ‘95: Kobie Kennon, Jennifer Feyling, Monica Dean, and<br />
Kelly Crowley 14 Class of ‘95: Liko Soules-Ono and Lauren<br />
McWilliams 15 Mike Corpos (SHP‘95) and his wife Orshi<br />
11<br />
12<br />
10<br />
13 14 15<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 23
Alumni Events<br />
1<br />
2<br />
3<br />
4<br />
5<br />
6<br />
YOUNG ALUMNI COCKTAIL PARTY: Classes of ‘93-‘03<br />
met for their annual holiday event at Nola’s in downtown<br />
Palo Alto 1 Michi Toll (SHP‘98), Caroline Abramson (SHP‘98), Darlene<br />
Moustirats (SHP‘98), and Kelley Clark (SHP‘98) 2 Mike Budelli<br />
(SHP‘97) and Rich Moustirats (SHP‘96) 3 Katie Fowler (SHP<br />
‘98)<br />
and John Benedict (SJSH‘94, SHP‘98) 4 Claire Pomeroy (SHP‘01),<br />
Pepa Paniagua (SHP‘01), and Laurie Cronin (SHP‘01) 5 Megan Heckmann<br />
(SHP‘97), Suzy Goodman (SHP‘97), and Jenny Pope (SHP‘97)<br />
6 Charles Lloyd (SHP‘01), Nick Wang (SHP‘01), and Peter Sachs<br />
(SHP‘01) 7 Ali Dwiggins (SHP‘01), Nick Moiseff (SHP‘01), and Emmi<br />
Gravie (SHP‘01) 8 Pablo Garces (SJSH‘96, SHP‘00), Alison Dyer<br />
(SHP‘01), and Ben Carson (SHP‘00) 9 Glynn Connelly (SHP‘00) and<br />
Catie Paton (SHP‘00) 10 Camille Konopnicki (SHP‘01), Victoria Wang<br />
(SHP‘01), Alicia Kemmer (SHP‘03), and Nicole Kukas (SHP‘01) 11<br />
Jesse (Chris Moy’s fi ancé), Jeff Jackson (SHP‘02), and Chris Moy<br />
(SHP‘00) COLLEGIATE ALUMNI COCKTAIL PARTY:<br />
7<br />
24 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
8 9<br />
Classes of ‘02-‘06 got together<br />
in the Black Box<br />
of the Campbell Theater<br />
12 Future alums ***** ******<br />
(SHP‘06), *********** ****, and<br />
**************** *****************<br />
********** (SHP‘06) 13 Kelsey<br />
Stallings (SHP‘05) and Rebecca<br />
Williamson (SJSH‘01, SHP‘05)<br />
14 Sarah Burke (SHP‘04),<br />
Catherine Burke (SHP‘02), SHP<br />
teacher Connie Solari, and Scott<br />
Norton (SHP‘01)<br />
11<br />
10<br />
12<br />
13<br />
14<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 25
Alumni Events<br />
1 2 3<br />
4<br />
GINGERBREAD HOUSE PARTY: SHS Alums and<br />
their families decorated 150 houses at two separate<br />
seatings and helped raise funds for our Alumni Scholarships.<br />
1 Daisy Pang and her grandson ******* ***** (1st grade)<br />
2 SJSH 6th graders (from L to R) ******* ******, ********** *******,<br />
********* **********, ********** ********, ******** *******, ******* *******,<br />
****** ********** 3 Preschooler **************** ********** with her<br />
mother Lynn 4 ****** (2nd grade) and ***** (Kindergarten) ***** 5<br />
5 ********* ******* (3rd grade) 6 Back: Mike Texido (SJSH‘80)<br />
and his sister Mary Texido Folsom (SJSH‘78, SHP‘82), with<br />
their mother Helen Texido. Front: ******************* and<br />
***************. 7 Alumni Board member Ellen Gallagher Par-<br />
sons and *********** *************************** (3rd grade)<br />
8 Mary Lucier Askins (SJSH‘79, SHP‘83), left, with her sister<br />
Anne Lucier Ashendorf (SJSH‘81), right, and Sr. Nancy Morris<br />
(former Director of <strong>Schools</strong>), center, with ************** *******<br />
*************************<br />
* ******** **************<br />
************ ************,<br />
front.<br />
6<br />
7<br />
8<br />
26 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
1950s<br />
Patricia Lynn Perry (SHPʻ56) is working<br />
as a high school teacher for the work<br />
experience program in the Campbell Union<br />
High School District.<br />
Lydia Dioli Cooper (SJSHʻ56, SHPʻ60),<br />
Charlie Troglio (SHPʻ56), and Sue Morey<br />
Mein (SJSHʻ56) are hard at work planning<br />
the SJSH 50th Reunion for May 20, <strong>2006</strong>.<br />
To join in the fun, please contact them via<br />
the SHS Alumni Office or email Lydia at<br />
ldioli@yahoo.com.<br />
Patricia<br />
Lynn<br />
Perry<br />
(SHP<br />
‘56)<br />
“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> memories<br />
are of the Mothers of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> taking me under their wings and<br />
tutoring me academically when I fi rst arrived<br />
on campus for high school. That<br />
experience inspired me, and now that<br />
I’m a teacher, I take that same approach<br />
with the slower learners in my class.<br />
1960s<br />
Celeste Smith (SHPʻ67) has worked for<br />
36 years in dentistry as a professional relations<br />
coordinator. She is now living in Seattle<br />
and studying real estate. In her spare<br />
time she is mentoring women in transition.<br />
THREE GENERATIONS of <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> students gather for a<br />
photo shoot: Kathy Keogh Berra<br />
(SHP‘63), ******** ******* (SJSH<br />
2020), Dave Barry, Elaine Berra<br />
Barry (SHP‘87), ******* ***** (SJSH<br />
2019), and Rich Berra<br />
1970s<br />
Taun Costentino Relihan (SHPʻ70) is<br />
living in Palo Alto and has one son in college.<br />
From her days at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>, she<br />
fondly remembers “coming in from the cold<br />
morning, and seeing all the freshly polished<br />
wood and smelling the lemony smell of<br />
wax.” After finishing her PhD several years<br />
ago, Taun has taught special education in<br />
high schools and has been a case manager.<br />
She would love to hear from other alumnae<br />
at: Aestheteye@aol.com.<br />
A VISIT FROM EL SALVADOR:<br />
Theresa Escalon de Morales<br />
(SHP‘55), second<br />
from right, visits<br />
campus with her<br />
two daughters<br />
and her grandson<br />
Class Notes<br />
Daniel Dalessandro (SJSHʻ72) is living<br />
in Cathedral City, California.<br />
Carol Jones McGee (SHPʻ74) is living<br />
in the Sacramento area and teaching middle<br />
school history and math. She and her husband<br />
Joe have two grown sons.<br />
Martha Novy Broderick (SHPʻ76) is<br />
working as an attorney and a law professor.<br />
She lives on a lake in Maine and has<br />
three daughters. She would love to hear<br />
from her old playmates from 30 years ago at<br />
marthab@maine.edu.<br />
Suzanne Hill-Forcier (SHPʻ77) is living<br />
in San Diego, where she and her husband<br />
Mike have owned and operated San Diego<br />
Limo Buses and Limousines for 20 years.<br />
She has three sons, one of whom is a quarterback<br />
at the University of Michigan. She<br />
will celebrate her 25th wedding anniversary<br />
this October.<br />
John Haile (SJSHʻ78) writes that he is<br />
living in Seattle and managing a software<br />
company. He would love to hear from other<br />
alumni.<br />
Celeste Smith<br />
(SHP‘67)<br />
“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
memories are of spending warm<br />
afternoons on Palm Court and singing<br />
in the Little Theater. The heavy<br />
red velvet drapes and the dark wood<br />
of the benches are still vibrant in my<br />
mind. I would slip away to sing my<br />
favorite Moon River<br />
when no one<br />
was around. On one occasion after<br />
lunch Mother Dilling noticed my exit onto Palm Court and<br />
followed me down to the Little Theater. She ushered me off<br />
to Latin class, because even though she too loved music,<br />
studies came fi rst.<br />
Photo courtesy of Hilary McMahon<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 27
Class Notes<br />
1980s<br />
Wendi Hunter Mangiantini (SHPʻ80) is<br />
living in Atherton and married Mike Mangiantini<br />
in July. The reception was held at the home<br />
of her sister, Elizabeth Hunter Kerrigan<br />
(SJSHʻ78, SHPʻ82). Also in attendance were<br />
Aida Jones (SHPʻ80), Ann McGraw Morrical<br />
(SHPʻ81), and her sisters Julene Hunter<br />
(SHPʻ78), Mary Hunter Leman (SJSHʻ83),<br />
and her brother John Hunter (SJSHʻ80).<br />
Michelle Foster (SHPʻ80, SJSHʻ76) is living<br />
in the Los Angeles area.<br />
Kelly Stokes Allegretti (SHPʻ82) attended<br />
Santa Clara University and graduated in accounting.<br />
While in college she met her husband,<br />
whom she married in 1987. For several<br />
years she worked for Arthur Young, a “big 8”<br />
accounting firm. Now she is CFO of Allegretti<br />
and Company, her family-owned business. She<br />
and Joe have three children: Adriana (15), Anthony<br />
(13), and Melanie (11). They live in the<br />
Los Angeles area.<br />
Clare Tuma (SJSHʻ82) is currently working<br />
as a financial advisor at Merrill Lynch in<br />
Menlo Park. She graduated from<br />
Cornell University with a BA in<br />
History and Government, and<br />
then received an MBA at NYU<br />
in Finance and Accounting. She<br />
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INTRODUCING Paedrin<br />
Makena Gillette, daughter<br />
of Erin Rosenburg Gillette<br />
(SHP‘90)<br />
has fond memories of her great teachers<br />
at St. Josephʼs, especially Mrs. Speiker,<br />
Mrs. Burdick and Mr. Rose.<br />
Sue Chang (SHPʻ85) has recently<br />
moved back to the Bay<br />
Area from Seoul, where she<br />
worked as the bureau chief for<br />
Dow Jones Newswires. She is at<br />
UC Berkeleyʼs Graduate School<br />
of Journalism as a visiting scholar. She<br />
is married with a 12-year-old daughter<br />
and a 10-year-old son.<br />
1990s<br />
Erin Rosenburg Gillette (SHPʻ90)<br />
and her husband Kevin welcomed their<br />
first child, Paedrin Makena Gillette on<br />
December 23, 2004.<br />
Thank Nguyen (SJSHʻ87, SHPʻ91)<br />
is living in Minneapolis and has just<br />
completed his General Surgery residency.<br />
He will remain in Minnesota<br />
while he trains for an additional two<br />
years in Transplant Surgery at the University<br />
of Minnesota.<br />
David McMillan (SHPʻ91) is<br />
working at Stanford as a computer administrator<br />
for the Education for the<br />
Gifted Youth program. He has worked<br />
there for almost 10 years. He does all<br />
of his travel on his recumbent bike. In<br />
his spare time David works for several<br />
volunteer organizations including<br />
CLASSMATES Celeste Smith (SHP‘67),<br />
Mary Keith Roberts (SHP‘67), Chris<br />
Lussier Dyer (SHE‘63, SHP‘67), and Gail<br />
Hughmanick Alberti (SHE‘62) get together<br />
“Friends of the Ventana Wilderness” where<br />
he is known for his trail breaking work.<br />
Tom Schubin (SHPʻ94) is living in Rancho<br />
Cordova with his wife Cassie. He is currently<br />
working as a private investigator for a<br />
national agency that combates compensation<br />
and disability fraud. He would love to hear<br />
from any of his classmates.<br />
Melissa Prichard<br />
(SHP‘66)<br />
Melissa was recently named Director of Creative<br />
Partnerships at the Daywalka Foundation,<br />
an organization dedicated to stopping human<br />
trafficking in Nepal, India, and Bangladesh.<br />
Melissa has taken on this volunteer position in<br />
addition to her other responsibilities, including<br />
teaching full-time at ASU, mentoring graduate<br />
students, co-judging the PEN/Faulkner Award,<br />
writing a biography of philanthropist Virginia G.<br />
Piper, and writing short stories.<br />
“Within Daywalka, I work on the Kalam project,<br />
where we teach poetry writing workshops<br />
to children in the brothel districts,” said Melissa.<br />
“My job is to create partnerships with artistic and<br />
creative organizations that can help us with this<br />
work. I intend also to travel as a spokesperson<br />
for Daywalka and to make a documentary film or<br />
films about Kalam’s evolving work with children<br />
born into brothels, and the very young women<br />
who are illegally trafficked and sold into sexual<br />
enslavement.” In January, Melissa took her first<br />
outreach trip, traveling to Nepal and India with a<br />
small delegation of Daywalka donors and board<br />
members.<br />
“Human trafficking is a global epidemic, third<br />
only in illegal trade after drugs and weapons,”<br />
said Melissa. “Although Daywalka currently<br />
works in Nepal and India, the Foundation intends<br />
to expand into Mexico, South America,<br />
Europe, Africa, and North America.”<br />
And how does Melissa find the time and energy<br />
for all this work “My energy comes from my<br />
passion for this issue,” said Melissa. “If you are<br />
passionate about the things you choose to do in<br />
life, you may be a bit tired and overwhelmed at<br />
times, but you are always engaged, aware, and<br />
alive in the highest sense.”<br />
Photos courtesy of Brandon Sullivan<br />
(left) and Zuzana Sadkova (right)<br />
28 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
#3<br />
Jen OʼNeal (SHPʻ97) lives in San Francisco<br />
#2<br />
and works in marketing for StubHub.com.<br />
Elaine Maneatis (SHPʻ97) attended<br />
UCSD and graduated in History in ʻ01. She<br />
completed her teaching credential at Notre<br />
Dame and is teaching grade school in Los<br />
Altos. She was married in the summer of<br />
2004.<br />
#1<br />
Chris OʼNeal (SHPʻ98) completed her<br />
Masters of Arts in Diplomacy and International<br />
Commerce at the University of Kentucky.<br />
She is now working for the Department<br />
of Homeland Security. To<br />
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Heather Brady (SJSH<br />
ʻ94, SHPʻ98) sends word<br />
that she is working for the<br />
Big Sur Land Trust as their<br />
Stewardship Coordinator in<br />
Carmel, California.<br />
Craig Haubrich (SHPʻ98)<br />
graduated in May from the<br />
University of Arizona with a<br />
Masters degree in Public Ad-<br />
DINNER IN SF (above): Front: Christine Kwan (SHP‘82), Cindy<br />
Lau (SHP‘82), Hila Kwon (SHP‘84, Visiting from LA) and<br />
Veronica Tsang (SHP‘85, Visiting from LA). Back: Janet Cheung<br />
Wong (SHP‘85) and Yolanda Yung (SHP‘84, Visiting from<br />
Hong Kong).GREETINGS FROM HONG KONG! (below) Front:<br />
Jacqueline Guteriez (SHP‘82), Charlotte Chang (SHP‘81), Abby<br />
Mac (SHP‘83, Visiting from Toronto), and Angela Law (SHP‘84).<br />
Back: Karen Ting (SHP‘83), Yolanda Yung (SHP‘84), Evelyn Lu<br />
(SHP‘84), and Wanda Ngan (SHP‘83).<br />
ministration. He lives in Tuscon where he is<br />
the Assistant Director of Alumni Clubs with<br />
the University of Arizona Alumni Association.<br />
He has many fond memories of his senior year<br />
house-building trip to Tijuana through SHP.<br />
Mary Judson Bennett (SHPʻ98) was<br />
married to Bradley Bennett on September<br />
17, 2005. Christy Hiller Myronowicz<br />
(SHPʻ98), Michelle Cummings (SHPʻ98),<br />
and Jennifer Judson (SHPʻ00) were bridesmaids.<br />
Jeremy Miller (SHPʻ96) served as<br />
a groomsman.<br />
Aziz Sayigh (SJSH ʻ99, SHPʻ03), a junior<br />
Kelly Stokes<br />
Allegretti (SHP‘82)<br />
“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> memory<br />
is of<br />
times spent with Donna<br />
Gilboa. During my<br />
daughter’s high school<br />
years, I have come to<br />
see how important it<br />
is to have someone<br />
who believes in you—<br />
someone in addition to<br />
your parents. Donna<br />
Gilboa was that person<br />
for me. She believed in my abilities and intellect.<br />
She challenged and encouraged me. She gave<br />
me a sense of confi dence in myself. She helped<br />
shape me into who I am today. I came to <strong>Sacred</strong><br />
<strong>Heart</strong> a shy young girl; I left a confi dent, capable<br />
young woman.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 29
Class Notes<br />
FAMILY SHOT (left): Kelly Stokes Allegretti (SHP’82),<br />
left, with her husband and children GATOR VS. GATOR<br />
(below): At a varsity water polo game, Princeton’s #12,<br />
Douglas Wigley (SHP‘05), plays against UCLA’s #24, Carter<br />
Brutschy (SHP‘04). The final score: UCLA 14, Princeton 6<br />
at Dartmouth, helped the Big Green rugby<br />
team reach the Northeast RFU finals by scoring<br />
a try in a 17-10 victory over Buffalo in<br />
the semifinals in Amherst, MA. That put No.<br />
8 Dartmouth in the finals against No. 3 Army.<br />
Despite a 60-yard by Sayigh for his teamʼs<br />
only try, the Big Green fell in the finals, 37<br />
to 7.<br />
The Andersons’ Legacy of Giving<br />
he Art Corridor was a<br />
“Treal gift to me as an<br />
art teacher,” recalls former<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> art teacher<br />
Janet Whitchurch. “Walking<br />
by the paintings and prints<br />
every day was an ideal way<br />
for my students to learn<br />
about and appreciate what<br />
the artists were trying to do.<br />
We had repeated trips to<br />
the corridor and I was able<br />
to talk with my students<br />
about the art. This was all<br />
vastly superior to a onetime<br />
trip to an art gallery<br />
show or museum!”<br />
During the 1970s, Mary<br />
Margaret (“Moo”) and Harry<br />
(“Hunk”) Anderson, parents<br />
of Mary Patricia (“Putter”)<br />
Anderson Pence (SJSH‘73,<br />
SHP‘77), provided a rotating display of important works of art from<br />
their collection. As <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> students walked down the hall<br />
of the Main Building, they passed pieces by such pivotal American<br />
artists as Jackson Pollock, Willem de Kooning, Franz Kline,<br />
Clifford Still and Mark Rothko.<br />
“As a student keenly interested and aware of contemporary art,<br />
I thought it was a huge privilege to have that art available to me at<br />
any time,” recalls Julene Hunter (SHP‘78). The Andersons were<br />
right on the cutting edge of art, collecting works of abstract expressionism,<br />
color-fi eld painting, pop art, minimalism, photo-realism<br />
and geometric abstraction at a time when most people had<br />
Taress Reyering (SHPʻ99) is currently<br />
pursuing a Masters degree from Sciences-<br />
Politiques in Paris, France where she is<br />
studying Trans-Atlantic Relations. She plans<br />
to conduct a cross-cultural study of Language<br />
no idea what these styles<br />
were.<br />
The Anderson Collection<br />
is one of the most outstanding<br />
private collections of<br />
20th Century Art, numbering<br />
over 800 pieces. In 2000,<br />
the San Francisco Museum<br />
of Modern Art presented<br />
Celebrating Modern Art:<br />
The Anderson Collection, a<br />
comprehensive retrospective<br />
exhibition that occupied<br />
the entire museum.<br />
Educating and exposing<br />
the public to contemporary<br />
art has long been a passion<br />
for the couple, and their<br />
commitment to educating<br />
<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> students has<br />
continued long after the<br />
graduation of their daughter<br />
Putter. For the grand opening of the Campbell Center for the Performing<br />
Arts in January 2005, the Andersons loaned SHS Larry<br />
SHP AP ART STUDENTS ****** ***********, ******** *******, *****<br />
************, ****** ******, and SHP Art Teacher Peggy O’Leary<br />
with Elie Nadelman’s sculpture entitled Man in the Open Air<br />
at the Andersons’ private home in Atherton<br />
Politics and Identity between the US and several<br />
European countries. Before heading to<br />
Paris, Taress had been studying at the University<br />
of North Carolina.<br />
Lauren Mang (SHPʻ99) is working for<br />
Poons’ #15. In September, #15 was replaced by Tom Holland’s<br />
Berkeley Series #104. In addition to these generous loans on<br />
campus, the Andersons continue to invite groups of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />
art students into their private home to view works of art.<br />
This article was written by Sheryl Nonnenberg, Library Assistant<br />
in the SHS Lucas Family Library. Ms. Nonnenberg was the curatorial<br />
associate and collection manager for the Anderson Collection<br />
from 1994 to 1999.<br />
30 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
Christieʼs Galleries in New York. Her photograph,<br />
“New York at Night” recently appeared<br />
in the New York Sun newspaper, where<br />
it was chosen to announce the 5th annual Insider<br />
Art exhibition for Christieʼs Galleries in<br />
Rockefeller Plaza.<br />
2000s<br />
Ben Fleisher (SHPʻ00) is living in Boulder<br />
and working as an EMT for Pridemark<br />
Paramedic. He is still working as a SCUBA<br />
and CPR/ First Aid Instructor.<br />
Rebecca Zigterman (SHPʻ00) lives in<br />
Lafayette, Colorado, and is managing the<br />
RE/MAX real estate office there.<br />
Laurie Cronin (SHPʻ01) just graduated<br />
from the University of San Diego with high<br />
honors in Political Science and French and a<br />
minor in Peace and Justice. Currently, she is<br />
studying law at USF in San Francisco. She is<br />
thrilled to be back in the Bay Area.<br />
Sara Griner (SHPʻ01) recently graduated<br />
from the University of Oregon and is<br />
currently on scholarship to attend Florida<br />
State/Asolo Conservatory for professional<br />
actor training.<br />
Jeff Jackson (SHPʻ02) is completing an<br />
internship in the political section of the U.S.<br />
Mission to the United Nations, where he has<br />
been working on security affairs in the East<br />
Asia Pacific and in Europe.<br />
Christopher Sartor (SHPʻ03) is attending<br />
Orange Coast Community College and<br />
studying Business and Finance. He has many<br />
memories about a class trip to Ashland and<br />
“can you hear a tree fall in the forest, or next<br />
to a bridge, or a road” Recently Christopher<br />
took a road trip to visit fellow alums Eric<br />
“Hoss” Van Resselaer (SHPʻ03) and Marissa<br />
Dacay (SHPʻ03).<br />
Stephanie Neidig (SJSHʻ00, SHPʻ04),<br />
a sophomore at Princeton University, is a<br />
member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority and<br />
a photographer for The Daily Princetonian.<br />
This fall she ran for office to become a Director<br />
of El Dorado Countyʼs Community District<br />
Board.<br />
Laura McKenna (SJSHʻ05) is now living<br />
in Lake Forest, Illinois with her parents<br />
and brother Michael.<br />
Brandon Child (SHP‘04)<br />
laying water polo at the Division One level has been an<br />
“Peye-opening experience,” said Brandon Child (SHP‘04).<br />
“I never really understood the amount of work it would take<br />
until I myself was in the water getting yelled at by three different<br />
coaches to speed up on what seemed like a never-ending<br />
amount of swimming and leg sets.”<br />
Obviously, those practices are paying off big-time. A sophomore<br />
on the USC water polo team, Brandon scored seven goals for the<br />
Trojans in his first season, and in his second season achieved a<br />
team-high of four goals in one game, helping his team win the 2005<br />
NCAA Championship. But scoring points isn’t the most important<br />
thing to Brandon. “While the topic of individual goals scored represents<br />
personal achievement to some, for me it is really unimportant<br />
as long as my team is successful in the end,” said Brandon. “On<br />
our team we really have enough scorers, and although my position<br />
as hole man is traditionally an offensive position, I have tried to<br />
concentrate on setting other players up, and being a defensive force.”<br />
During his years at SHP, Brandon thrived on the Gators water polo team, earning such accolades<br />
as All-America second team honors, All-Central Coast Section first team honors, and<br />
all-league first team honors. “The team experience I had at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was unlike anything<br />
I have ever experienced,” said Brandon. “We were all super good friends and remain so to<br />
this day.” Now times have changed a bit, and Brandon says he feels shocked when he looks<br />
up in the weight<br />
room and sees athletic<br />
super-stars like<br />
Matt Leinart or Reggie<br />
Bush working<br />
out next to him.<br />
Just as he balanced<br />
athletic and<br />
academic excellence<br />
at SHP (earning<br />
honors as a<br />
National Merit Commended<br />
Scholar),<br />
Brandon has kept<br />
this equilibrium at<br />
USC, with his major<br />
in Mechanical Engineering. “The schedule combination is difficult, fitting in classes and labs<br />
between daily morning practices, daily afternoon practices, and lifting weights three times<br />
a week.”<br />
And his advice for Gator athletes as they look toward college “When examining your<br />
college options, imagine you get hurt and are unable to play. Then make your decision,”<br />
said Brandon. “There are so many outside factors with collegiate athletics, so just make sure<br />
you don’t choose a school simply because of athletics, but because it is a place you can see<br />
yourself successful and happy for the next four years.”<br />
BRIDE Mary Judson Bennett (SHP‘98), center, with her husband<br />
Bradley and the wedding party, including Christy Hiller Myronowicz<br />
(SHP‘98), far left; Michelle Cummings (SHP‘98), fourth from left;<br />
Jennifer Judson (SHP‘01), to the right of the groom; and Jeremy Miller<br />
(SHP‘96), third from right.<br />
The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 31
Sports Beat<br />
Girls’ Tennis Team<br />
WCAL Champions<br />
The SHP Girlsʼ Varsity Tennis team had an impressive season,<br />
winning the West Catholic Athletic League (WCAL)<br />
championship for the second time in a row! “The team has practiced<br />
hard and played hard<br />
ABOVE & BEYOND (right):<br />
throughout the season,” said<br />
SHP Freshman **********<br />
Coach Losaline Mafileo. “I ********* makes the pass.<br />
am proud of their amazing CHAMPIONS’ CELEBRAaccomplishments.”<br />
TION (below): *************<br />
Two of the talented players ***************** ************<br />
***************** *************<br />
on the team went undefeated<br />
this season: sophomore Haley<br />
Hemm (23-0) and junior<br />
Samantha Rosekrans (22-0).<br />
In addition, Rosekrans was<br />
named Girlsʼ Tennis Player<br />
of the Year by the San Jose<br />
Mercury News.<br />
SJSH Softball<br />
Thrives<br />
The SJSH Eighth Grade Varsity A Softball<br />
team had a great season this year, making it<br />
all the way to the league championship game. Mr.<br />
Peter Florkiewicz (middle school science teacher)<br />
coached the team, assisted by SHP students Jesse<br />
Zigterman and Claire Habig.<br />
Four of the players on the team also participated<br />
in the league All-Star Game: Chantal Morgan,<br />
Lizzy Weisman, Haley Gordon and Sarah<br />
Heslin. Congratulations to our exceptional softball<br />
players!<br />
Rising Polo Stars<br />
Despite their youth, the SHPʼs Boysʼ Varsity Water Polo<br />
team (with only four seniors) had an outstanding season,<br />
winning the SHP Invitational Championship and going<br />
all the way to the Central Coast Section (CCS) Div. II finals.<br />
One highlight of the season was the Gatorsʼ impressive<br />
victory over Menlo-Atherton High School at the SHP Invitational<br />
(8-7), where goalie Alex Dunlevie blocked 11 shots.<br />
At the end of the season, the team defeated Palo Alto High<br />
School 8-2 in the first round of the CCS playoffs. They then<br />
defeated Los Altos High School 10-9, to earn a trip to the<br />
CCS Championship game.<br />
Coach Brian Kreutzkamp said, “It is wonderful to coach<br />
some of the best young players in the Bay Area.” Some of<br />
the players on the team have represented on the national<br />
level, including the USA Cadet Team and U.S. National Development<br />
Team.<br />
VICTORIOUS! ********** ******** ***************<br />
***************** ************ *********** **********<br />
CATCHER<br />
*******<br />
*********<br />
went all the<br />
way to the<br />
league All-<br />
Star Game<br />
32 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>
Calendar of<br />
Alumni Events:<br />
Saturday, April 1<br />
SHS Auction: “Under the Tuscan Sun”<br />
From the Archives<br />
Friday, April 28<br />
Parents of Alumni “Mad Hatter”<br />
Luncheon<br />
Thursday, May 18<br />
St. Madeleine Sophie Mass:<br />
All-school liturgy<br />
Saturday, May 20<br />
St. Josephʼs Centennial Celebration:<br />
11am Carnival, 2pm Class Reunions,<br />
4:15pm Mass<br />
Thursday, June 1<br />
SJSH Alumni Pinning Ceremony, 10am<br />
SHP Alumni Pinning Ceremony, 5pm<br />
SHP Graduation, 6pm<br />
Friday, June 9<br />
SJSH Graduation, 10am<br />
Saturday, October 14<br />
Reunion for all alumni, plus class reunions<br />
for class years ending in 1 and 6<br />
For event details, contact us at<br />
650-473-3280 or alumni@shschools.org<br />
Above photo: Joanne White, Jackie Welte, Coleen Craft, and Reta Walker<br />
on the northeast side of the old St. Josephʼs Building in 1954, the year of its demolition<br />
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