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<strong>Heart</strong> Matter<br />

of<br />

the<br />

SACRED HEART SCHOOLS, ATHERTON ALUMNI MAGAZINE WINTER <strong>2006</strong><br />

one hundred years<br />

Plus...<br />

• Philanthropist Jonny Dorsey (SJSH‘99, SHP‘03)<br />

• Award-winning Kameelah Rasheed (SHP‘02)<br />

• Entrepreneurs Stephan Carlson & Andy Ramsay (SHP‘02)<br />

• Basketball Star Kate Paye (SJSH‘87)<br />

• Parent Andi Vertanian Dehne (SJSH‘82)<br />

• WB Executive Musette Buckley (SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)<br />

• Campus Minister Sharon Kugler (SHP‘77)


State of the <strong>Heart</strong><br />

“Whenever she could, Mother Barat would be off to the<br />

garden with one of the children. They would pick<br />

wildflowers together and the child would share her secrets,<br />

knowing that Mother Barat would understand.”<br />

Dear Alumni and Friends,<br />

The quotation above comes from a childrenʼs book commissioned<br />

to celebrate the 200th anniversary of the Religious of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. The<br />

cartoon-like picture that accompanies this caption depicts a serious but loving Mother<br />

Barat holding hands with a joyful child. Both are carrying wild flowers. The sentiment<br />

expressed by the picture and the words caught the essence of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education.<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> educators are dedicated to educating the whole child, whether in the<br />

classroom studying calculus, on a field trip to climb half-dome, or just sitting with<br />

a student during a lunch break. While we donʼt often pick wild-flowers these days,<br />

we still form close bonds with our students. It is frequently the case that one of our<br />

teachers or staff members will be the first to hear from students about an argument at<br />

home, a disappointment about a lost game or a rejection that has devastated a young<br />

heart and mind. It may be that the student of the 21st century is vastly different from<br />

the student of the early 19th century in dress, custom, expectation and exposure to the<br />

world. But the need for a sensitive ear and a heart that listens is still the same. In this<br />

regard, Mother Barat is alive in all who work at a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> school.<br />

Our students carry this need to be connected with others for the rest of their lives. John<br />

Dorsey (SHPʻ03) has launched a fundraising campaign called “FACE AIDS.” Sharon<br />

Kugler (SHPʻ77) is the University Chaplain at the Johns Hopkins University. Andi Vartanian<br />

Dehne (SJSHʻ82) has been lovingly parenting a child with Down syndrome.<br />

Our teachers and staff routinely serve others. Here are just a few samples: the enormous<br />

outpouring of support for the victims of Hurricane Katrina; the creation of the<br />

new support program for student with learning differences; the daily service of the<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society to the Oakwood community; the outstanding independent study<br />

projects at the Prep; the pre-school cooking projects and the new Life Skills program<br />

at St. Josephʼs.<br />

There are times when I stop to do a reality check – to ask myself, “Are we still a <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> School” The litmus test in my mind is whether or not St Madeleine Sophie<br />

would recognize us as one of her schools should she miraculously appear on the front<br />

steps one day. I think she would feel very much at home taking the hand of any child<br />

and seeing that, 200 years later, every child here is very much a child of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong>, wild flowers or not.<br />

Thank you for keeping us in your heart and for supporting our efforts to keep St Madeleine<br />

Sophieʼs vision alive in the centennial year of St. Josephʼs and in the 107th year<br />

of the Convent school.<br />

Sincerely,<br />

Joseph J. Ciancaglini<br />

Director of <strong>Schools</strong><br />

JOSEPH CIANCAGLINI<br />

Director of <strong>Schools</strong><br />

M’LIS BERRY (SJSH‘77, SHP‘81)<br />

Director of Development<br />

HOLLY GOODLIFFE<br />

Communications Coordinator<br />

WENDI MANGIANTINI (SHP‘80)<br />

Alumni Relations Coordinator<br />

TRUSTEES<br />

Mindy Rogers, Chair<br />

Sr. Kay Baxter, Maude Brezinski,<br />

Roberta Campbell, Michael Child, John<br />

Donahoe, Elizabeth Dunlevie, John<br />

Etchemendy, Martin Flanagan, Sr. Sally<br />

Furay, Marritje Greene, Anne Holloway,<br />

Mike Homer, Lauren Koenig (SHP‘77),<br />

Mark Larwood, Steve Meisel, Fr. William<br />

H. Muller, William Neidig, Mark Stevens,<br />

Sr. Anne Wachter<br />

We welcome your comments, questions<br />

or suggestions. Please contact<br />

Holly Goodliffe, Communications<br />

Coordinator, at 650-573-4004 or<br />

hgoodliffe@shschools.org.<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong> Atherton are<br />

Roman Catholic, independent schools<br />

founded by the Society of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> of Jesus (RSCJ) in 1898. Our<br />

mission is to educate the whole child<br />

to be a leader who loves God and<br />

serves others.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter magazine<br />

is published bi-annually, in February<br />

and July, by the SHS Development<br />

Department. Postmaster please send<br />

address changes to Development Department,<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong>, 150<br />

Valparaiso Ave., Atherton, CA 94027.<br />

The diverse opinions expressed in-<br />

<strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter do not necessarily<br />

represent the offi cial policy of <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> <strong>Schools</strong> Atherton.


10<br />

Contents<br />

<strong>Heart</strong> Matter<br />

of<br />

the<br />

SACRED HEART SCHOOLS, ATHERTON ALUMNI MAGAZINE WINTER <strong>2006</strong><br />

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12<br />

13<br />

14<br />

18<br />

20<br />

2<br />

16<br />

22<br />

27<br />

32<br />

Facing AIDS<br />

For Jonny Dorsey (SJSHʻ99, SHPʻ03), a summer trip to Zambia was the beginning<br />

of a million-dollar campaign<br />

Thanks, Truman & Rockefeller!<br />

Kameelah Rasheed (SHPʻ02) won two prestigious national honors this year<br />

A Thriving Start-Up<br />

Stephan Carlson (SHPʻ02) and Andy Ramsay (SHPʻ02) have recently jumped into<br />

the dot-com craze by starting their own internet company: MyCollegeMarket.com<br />

Beating the Odds<br />

Kate Paye (SJSHʻ87) has done what most thought impossible— she made it to the<br />

WNBA and beyond<br />

My Demanding Career<br />

By Andi Vertanian Dehne (SJSHʻ82)<br />

Parenting a child with special needs has unique challenges and unique rewards<br />

Life at Warner Brothers Pictures, Inc.<br />

What do Bugs Bunny, Harry Potter, Friends, and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> have in common<br />

Musette Buckley (SJSHʻ76, SHPʻ80)!<br />

Building Community<br />

As University Chaplain, Sharon Kugler<br />

(SHPʻ77) deepens understanding among<br />

25 religious groups<br />

What a Difference 50 Years Make!<br />

A day in the “Fourth Academic” year of Diane Lovegrove (SHPʻ56) and a day in<br />

the Senior year of Brooks Miller (SJSHʻ02, SHPʻ06)<br />

Why Financial Aid<br />

Ever wondered what St. Madeleine Sophie meant when she said, “For the sake of<br />

one child I would have founded the Society”<br />

<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />

I Know it by <strong>Heart</strong><br />

Alumni Events<br />

Class Notes<br />

Sports Beat<br />

Plus: special<br />

SJSH Centennial<br />

booklet at page 16<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 1


<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />

Experts in<br />

Their Fields<br />

his year, six SHP seniors and one<br />

Tjunior T<br />

completed honors projects in<br />

2 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />

the areas of History, English, Spanish,<br />

Religious Studies, and Math. One senior even did two<br />

projects! Founded in 1998, SHPʼs Independent Honors<br />

Program for Seniors provides the opportunity for highly<br />

self-motivated students to deeply examine intellectual issues.<br />

Each honors student was responsible for seeking out mentors outside<br />

the SHP community to assist in their research. This year, the<br />

mentors included such scholars as:<br />

• Dr. David Kennedy: Professor of History<br />

at Stanford University; Awarded the<br />

Poetry<br />

of Garcia-Lorca<br />

Flamenco Dance and the<br />

Pulitzer Prize in History in 2000<br />

by ************ ***********<br />

• Dr. Peter Robinson: Former special<br />

assistant and speechwriter to U.S. President<br />

Ronald Reagan; Research Fellow at the Hoover Institution on<br />

War, Revolution and Peace at Stanford University<br />

• Dr. Michael Predmore: Professor of Spanish at Stanford; Recipient of the Fulbright<br />

and Guggenheim fellowships<br />

• Dr. Francisco LaRubia-Prado: Professor of Spanish at Georgetown University<br />

The honors students had to complete extensive research and on-going assignments<br />

throughout the semester, including a log of conversations with their mentors, weekly<br />

The Art of Persuasion:<br />

Rhetoric in the Speeches of<br />

de Gaulle, Castro, and Reagan<br />

by ********* *************<br />

papers summarizing their progress, three 5-page<br />

papers on selected topics, one 20-page final paper,<br />

at least one field excursion related to their<br />

topic, and an oral presentation<br />

in front of SHP faculty, students,<br />

and community members.<br />

The impressive presentations, which took place in January,<br />

included powerpoint lectures, mathematical calculations, a Flamenco<br />

demonstration, and intense Q&A sessions.<br />

Heritage Oak Falls<br />

At 7:30am on Sunday,<br />

January 15, <strong>2006</strong>, the<br />

magnificent heritage oak in<br />

front of the Main Building<br />

fell. The tree was uprooted<br />

due to heavy rainfall over the<br />

previous month. Thankfully,<br />

it fell towards the McGanney<br />

Center, only knocking<br />

down a smaller palm tree.<br />

There was no damage to the<br />

Main Building and no one<br />

was hurt.<br />

Multivariable<br />

Differential Calculus<br />

by *** **********, ***<br />

***, ***** ***********,<br />

and ********* **********<br />

Facilitating<br />

the Dialogue<br />

on Abortion<br />

by ****** ******<br />

The American Dream &<br />

Its Visibility in Speeches<br />

of the Past Few Decades<br />

by ******* ********<br />

BEFORE & AFTER: The beautiful heritage oak before the<br />

fall (left) and after the fall (above)


Starting<br />

the Year<br />

Off Right<br />

SEPTEMBER 8, 2005: SJSH and<br />

SHP students, faculty, staff, and<br />

parents, led by Fr. Tom Moran,<br />

gathered in beautiful Robinson<br />

Court to ask God’s blessings on<br />

their studies<br />

Skills for Life<br />

This year the SJSH Middle School launched a new class,<br />

called “Life Skills.” The curriculum combines emotional intelligence<br />

exercises with multicultural education and group problem-solving.<br />

Each co-ed class, made up of 9-10 students, meets<br />

once a week for 50 minutes, and is led by a facilitator (a teacher<br />

or staff member who has been trained in emotional intelligence<br />

and group problem-solving).<br />

What exactly is<br />

emotional intelligence “It is a way of under-<br />

standing and shaping how we think, feel, and act,” said Program Coordinator<br />

Nitza Agam, “We can assess the strength of our studentsʼ<br />

emotional intelligence by looking at their self-awareness, empathy,<br />

impulse control, communication skills, stress management, personal<br />

responsibility, anger management, and decision-making.”<br />

Research suggests that emotional intelligence shapes as much<br />

of 70-80% of “success” in life. “If we want our students to succeed<br />

in their<br />

interpersonal and intrapersonal relationships at school, at<br />

home, and at work, then these emotional intelligence skills are vital,”<br />

said School Counselor<br />

Wendy Parker.<br />

One week the curriculum<br />

focused on body<br />

language. “We learned<br />

that 55% of the messages<br />

we send to other<br />

people are sent with<br />

our bodies,” said seventh-grader<br />

********<br />

******. “Only 7% of<br />

the meaning comes<br />

from our actual words,<br />

and 38% comes from<br />

our tone of voice.”<br />

WHAT BODY LANGUAGE DO YOU SPEAK SJSH<br />

School Counselor Wendy Parker (center) encourages<br />

seventh-graders ****** ***** and ******* **********<br />

to shake hands as part of a class exercise about body<br />

language<br />

Raising Awareness<br />

SEEKING EDUCATIONAL EQUITY & DIVERSITY: The<br />

faculty SEED group meets twice each semester<br />

How do we raise diversity awareness and empathy in our<br />

community The SHS Office of Equity, Justice, and Multicultural<br />

Education (EJME) has created three forums for SHS faculty,<br />

staff, and parents to explore questions within our schools.<br />

SEED (Seeking Educational Equity and Diversity) discussions<br />

for faculty & staff and for parents & guardians meet throughout<br />

the year. “These seminar groups provide an opportunity for<br />

adults to examine contemporary scholarship as well as ʻthe textbooks<br />

of their lives,ʼ” said EJME Director James Everitt. “The<br />

seminars provide SHS community members with opportunities<br />

to discuss important issues of diversity in a safe, non-judgmental<br />

environment.”<br />

In addition to the SEED groups, which have been going strong<br />

since 2004, the “Big 8 Book Club” has debuted this year. The National<br />

Association of Independent <strong>Schools</strong> (NAIS) uses eight cultural<br />

identifiers to evaluate how well each school is doing in its “equity<br />

and justice” efforts. The eight identifiers are ability, age, ethnicity,<br />

gender, race, religion, sexual orientation and socio-economic status.<br />

The Big 8 Book Club is a group of SHS teachers and staff members<br />

that meet twice each semester to discuss contemporary fiction<br />

relating to these eight identifiers. The book club offers an informal<br />

setting for participants to enter into the worlds of others, to deepen<br />

their knowledge of others, and to develop empathy.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 3


<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />

Collaborations Across Campus<br />

Whatʼs the best thing about having preschoolers,<br />

elementary schoolers, middle<br />

schoolers, high schoolers, and retired nuns all on<br />

the same campus The opportunities to bridge the<br />

age gap and work collaboratively on projects!<br />

This year administrators have formed a new<br />

mentoring and tutoring program for SHP students<br />

and SJSH lower school students after school.<br />

Meanwhile, the tradition continues of pairing first<br />

and eighth graders together throughout the year<br />

as buddies who look out for each other. And this<br />

year the second graders have visited the Oakwood<br />

Retirement Center twice each week to read with<br />

the Sisters.<br />

In November, SHP seniors and SJSH middle<br />

schoolers joined together for a special project.<br />

Five SHP seniors performed James Stillʼs awardwinning<br />

play, And Then They Came For Me:<br />

Remembering the World of Anne Frank for a<br />

packed house of middle schoolers who were<br />

eager to learn more about the Holocaust.<br />

PERFECT PAIRS: Above, SJSH first and eighth graders stand<br />

together during mass SHP TUTOR: ****** ********* helps fourth<br />

grader ******* ********** study, below<br />

SPELLBOUND: SJSH<br />

seventh graders *****<br />

******* and ****** *****<br />

(above center) pay rapt<br />

attention to a Q&A session<br />

following the performance of Then They Came For Me by SHP<br />

actors ***** *****, ***** ******, ****** ******, ******* *********, and *******<br />

******** (left) BOOKWORMS: Above right, second grader *******<br />

********** reads with Sr. Verona<br />

4 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


Whatcha Got Cookin’<br />

The SJSH Preschoolers have been doing a lot<br />

of work in the kitchen this year. CRISS-CROSS<br />

APPLESAUCE: Parent Diana Hewitt (SJSH‘83, SHP‘87)<br />

helps pre-schooler ****** ****** (left) DON’T BREAK MY<br />

CONCENTRATION! Preschooler **** ******* works the<br />

apple peeler (lower left) READY TO MAKE OMELETTES<br />

Preschoolers ******** *********, ***** *****, and ****** *******<br />

(below) EVER HEARD OF STONE SOUP The legend<br />

comes to life when Room 2 Preschoolers cook stone<br />

Photos courtesy Susan Frimel<br />

soup (lower right) GRATING THE<br />

CHEESE: ****** ************* (<br />

upper<br />

right)<br />

In November, Dr. Ciancaglini<br />

presented medals<br />

to the 2005 recipients of<br />

the St. Madeleine Sophie<br />

Award. This award honors<br />

individuals who have<br />

made extraordinary contributions<br />

to SHS Atherton<br />

over a significant period of<br />

time.<br />

Vinette “Nettie” Ramsay<br />

joined the SHS community<br />

as an SHP parent<br />

in 1995. Over the last ten<br />

years, Nettie has served in<br />

numerous volunteer leadership<br />

capacities for SHS<br />

Atherton, including SHP<br />

Fashion Show Co-Chair,<br />

President and Vice President<br />

of the SHP Parentsʼ<br />

Association, Co-Chair of the SHP Christmas party, Co-<br />

Chair of the SHS Auction, and Nutrition Educator. “Thank<br />

you Nettie,” said presenter Richard Dioli, Principal of SHP,<br />

“For being a true friend to SHS Atherton and for believing<br />

in the five goals of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education.”<br />

Sherlene Pjesky served as Director of Business from 1994<br />

Sophie’s Accolades<br />

THE ST. MADELEINE SOPHIE AWARDEES: Sherlene Pjesky,<br />

Lori Pickett, SHS Director of <strong>Schools</strong> Joseph J. Ciancaglini,<br />

and Vinette “Nettie” Ramsay<br />

to 2005, with stewardship<br />

over the <strong>Schools</strong>ʼ finances,<br />

facilities, grounds, and construction<br />

projects. “<strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> education appealed<br />

to me, because it was similar<br />

to my own educational<br />

experience,” said Sherlene.<br />

“I had very special teachers<br />

who really shaped the<br />

person I have become; my<br />

classmates and I had special<br />

attention, and were exposed<br />

to the most innovative<br />

education.” From her<br />

first moment on campus,<br />

she “knew SHS was a special<br />

place.”<br />

Lori Pickett has served<br />

as the Director of Nursing<br />

for the Oakwood Community<br />

for nearly ten years. She came to Oakwood with a goldmine<br />

of administrative experience, ranging from intensive care to<br />

psychiatry. In addition to her role at the Oakwood Community<br />

Nursing Center, Lori has served as a consultant to the Elder<br />

Care task force of the USA Provincial of the Religious of the<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 5<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 5


<strong>Heart</strong> of the Campus<br />

RELIEF FOR<br />

NEW ORLEANS:<br />

SHP senior<br />

president *******<br />

****** presents<br />

Dr. Ciancaglini<br />

with proceeds<br />

from the SHP<br />

Fashion Show,<br />

Seniors Un-<br />

scripted,<br />

for hurricane<br />

relief at<br />

the Academy of<br />

the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

in New Orleans<br />

(The Rosary)<br />

Katrina Relief<br />

After Hurricane Katrina hit New Orleans, SHS opened its doors to<br />

enroll two students from New Orleans schools—a second grader<br />

from St Andrewʼs Episcopal School in New Orleans, and an eleventh<br />

grader from Holy Cross High School in New Orleans.<br />

In addition, students ran fundraisers for hurricane relief. “Our student<br />

council leaders encouraged students to give a part of their allowance<br />

and to sacrifice for those who lost so much,” said SJSH Service<br />

Learning Coordinator Ted DeSaulnier. “The donations were sent to<br />

the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Network <strong>Schools</strong> Fund.” SJSH students also wrote<br />

prayers of support and notes of encouragement to the lower school students<br />

of the Academy of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in New Orleans.<br />

Students and parents at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep responded to the disaster<br />

by donating some of the proceeds of the annual Senior Fashion Show<br />

for hurricane relief. Senior class president ****** ****** presented<br />

a check for $2,500 for Sister Lynn Lieux, Principal of the Academy of<br />

the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in New Orleans.<br />

“We continue our prayers for those on the Gulf Coast who are<br />

struggling to rebuild their lives,” said Director of <strong>Schools</strong> Joseph J.<br />

Ciancaglini.<br />

Alums, Students, & Staff Join Forces<br />

in the Dominican Republic<br />

SHP Director of College Counseling Frank Brightwell, SHP Spanish teacher<br />

Karen Filice, seniors ****** ***** and ****** *****, and alumnae Kirsten<br />

Harmon (SHPʻ05), Erica Ruggeri (SHPʻ05),<br />

and Melissa Miranda (SHPʻ03) recently spent a<br />

week in El Naranjito, a rural village in the mountains<br />

of the Dominican Republic.<br />

They traveled with, and served<br />

as translators for, an organization<br />

called “Somos Amigos Medical<br />

Missions,” which was founded by<br />

our very own Frank Brightwell to<br />

send groups of physicians, dentists<br />

and health care professionals<br />

to El Naranjito twice a year.<br />

To find out more, please contact<br />

SHP ALUM Kirsten<br />

Harmon (SHP‘05) working<br />

in the pharmacy<br />

Karen Filice (kfilice@shschools.<br />

org).<br />

6 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />

African Dance<br />

HARVEST TIME: Above,<br />

third graders ****** ******<br />

and ****** ****** perform<br />

the men’s harvest dance<br />

KEEPING THE BEAT:<br />

Left, workshop leader<br />

Masankho Banda sings<br />

and drums while the<br />

students dance<br />

SJSH first, second, and<br />

third graders danced<br />

their way through autumn<br />

with dance workshops in<br />

P.E. class. Masankho Banda,<br />

the workshop teacher,<br />

has been visiting SJSH for<br />

several years to share African<br />

stories and dance with students. All the students<br />

performed the dances they had learned in front of a<br />

packed house in Spieker Pavillion.<br />

TRANSLATORS: Left,<br />

***** ******* (SHP‘06) and<br />

Erica Ruggeri (SHP‘05).<br />

Above left, ****** *******<br />

(SHP‘06), Karen Filice<br />

(SHP Spanish teacher)<br />

,<br />

and Melissa Miranda<br />

(SHP‘03) AMIGOS<br />

FOUNDER F<br />

rank Brightwell<br />

(SHP Director of<br />

College Counseling),<br />

above


<strong>Heart</strong> of the Alumni<br />

Facing AIDS<br />

For Jonny<br />

Dorsey<br />

(SJSH‘99,<br />

SHP‘03), a<br />

summer trip<br />

to Zambia<br />

was the<br />

beginning<br />

of a milliondollar<br />

campaign<br />

Anyone who knew him during his <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> days knows he<br />

is kindhearted, and a passionate leader. So you shouldnʼt be<br />

surprised to learn that after he spent a summer living in a Zambian<br />

refugee camp, he couldnʼt go back to life as he knew it. Instead,<br />

Jonny has launched a campaign called FACE AIDS to address the<br />

AIDS epidemic he saw firsthand in Africa.<br />

In 2003, after completing a St. Josephʼs and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep<br />

education with a Light Blue Ribbon, Jonny went to Stanford and<br />

followed his passion in the area of Human Biology, an interdisciplinary<br />

program that combines biology and health policy. His area<br />

of concentration is International Health and Infectious Disease.<br />

The summer after his sophomore year, Jonny traveled to Zambia<br />

with the FORGE program (Facilitating Opportunities for Refugee<br />

Growth and Empowerment). “I chose to work with FORGE<br />

because I thought their work was exciting, and also made good<br />

sense.” Jonny was in Mwange, in a camp of 23,000 refugees from<br />

the Congo. “These people came to Zambia with nothing,” said<br />

Jonny. “I developed a mentoring program for orphans, in which<br />

high school students served as mentors for elementary students.”<br />

Jonny and his two co-volunteers from Stanford were shocked<br />

to find that in the refugee camp, there were only 47 people who<br />

had tested positive for HIV, and that only 5 people were tested for<br />

the disease each month. “We couldnʼt believe so few people were<br />

getting tested, when national statistics suggested that at least 1000<br />

people in Mwange were living with HIV/AIDS.”<br />

“We also met Katele Henriette, the only semi-open HIV-positive<br />

person in the camp of 24,000 refugees, and began to work<br />

with her to convince more people to find out their HIV status.”<br />

Since then, the rate of testing has increased tenfold. Mama Katele<br />

(pictured above) spoke openly about her HIV status in a culture<br />

that generated great shame and stigma around the disease. Her<br />

willingness to share with Jonny and his colleagues helped them<br />

put a face to the great struggle of the HIV/AIDS crisis in Africa.<br />

When they focused on specific ways to help their friend Mama<br />

Katele, the focus of FACE AIDS began to take shape.<br />

One afternoon, the three students sat on the porch, talking about<br />

what they could do about AIDS in Zambia. No one wanted to<br />

go home and forget what they had learned. They decided they<br />

wanted to develop a small income-generating project that would<br />

encourage HIV testing and help families in the refugee camp have<br />

better lives.<br />

Jonny explained, “We learned that once a member of a family<br />

develops HIV, their ability to work stops and their children drop<br />

out of school and use desperate means to generate money for the<br />

family. However, if the person with HIV can generate a small income<br />

three things happen: 1) they will have more protein in their<br />

diet which will extend their life, 2) their children will be able to<br />

remain in school, and 3) when this income is developed through a<br />

small co-op, a support group is naturally formed.”<br />

“By the end of our porch discussion, weʼd all decided to take one<br />

year off from college and launch a campaign for student awareness<br />

and fundraising,” said Jonny. “Katie stayed in Zambia to organize<br />

co-ops of refugees to make beaded pins with the AIDS logo. These<br />

groups double as AIDS support groups. Lauren and I returned to<br />

California to distribute the pins and recruit more volunteers.”<br />

The plan: Distribute 50,000 pins in the next year, raising $1<br />

million. Then grant that $1 million to Partners in Health.<br />

“While I was in Zambia, I saw that how you give money away<br />

is extremely important,” said Jonny, “Many campaigns have been<br />

ineffective and have created more cultural stigma. I think that<br />

Partners in Health is the best organization treating HIV-positive<br />

patients in the developing world. They were the first to show that<br />

you could successfully provide ARVs in the developing world,<br />

and have since reformed WHO policy. They are just now moving<br />

into sub-Saharan Africa, and we want to speed up that process<br />

with our funding. We also want as many university students to<br />

understand their model as possible, and see that there are effective<br />

ways to treat AIDS in the developing world.”<br />

“We named the million-dollar fund the Katele fund, in honor<br />

of the woman who started it all,” said Jonny. “After living with<br />

AIDS for over four years, Mama Katele died on September 1,<br />

2005, just weeks before the United Nations brought anti-retroviral<br />

drugs (ARVs) to the refugee camp. The FACE AIDS campaign<br />

is dedicated to her memory.”<br />

“When we sell pins on college campuses, we tell the personal<br />

stories of people like Katele who made the pins,” said Jonny. “I<br />

think the personal stories make a big impact on college students<br />

when they are at a very impressionable age.”<br />

When reflecting back on his days at SJSH, Jonny remembers<br />

the “Sandwiches on Sundays” program, where he got to take food<br />

to serve at a church in Redwood City. “The one-on-one interactions<br />

with folks who needed food were very important,” said<br />

Jonny, “I think this experience helped me stay connected to my<br />

community, and compassionate, as I grew up.” The SJSH community<br />

service award was initiated that year, and Jonny was the<br />

first recipient.<br />

During his freshman year at SHP, Jonny traveled to Belize on<br />

a service immersion trip, where they worked on a seawall. “This<br />

trip was my first exposure to the developing world,” said Jonny,<br />

“Throughout high school I got to have personal relationships with<br />

people very different from myself, and it built my confidence in<br />

knowing that I could have an impact on someone elseʼs life.”<br />

Obviously, Jonnyʼs career in public service is far from over.<br />

We look forward to the great things to come.<br />

To learn more about Jonnyʼs work on the<br />

FACE AIDS campaign,<br />

please visit www.faceaids.org<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 7


Thanks,Truman<br />

& Rockefeller!<br />

Kameelah Rasheed<br />

(SHP‘02) won two<br />

prestigious national<br />

honors this year<br />

W hat does it take to be selected as<br />

Wa Harry S. Truman Scholar The<br />

federal government awards 75 Truman<br />

Scholarships annually to intelligent,<br />

passionate student leaders who want to<br />

attend graduate school in preparation<br />

for a career in public service. The application<br />

process is rigorous and competition<br />

is stiff, with colleges nominating<br />

only a few applicants every year.<br />

It is one of the most prestigious undergraduate<br />

scholarships in the nation.<br />

And what does it take to be selected<br />

as a Rockefeller Brotherʼs Fund (RBF)<br />

Fellow for Aspiring Teachers of Color<br />

The RBF selection committee (comprised<br />

of school administrators, higher<br />

education professionals, and RBF Fellows<br />

with three or more years of classroom<br />

experience) chooses people who<br />

have the potential to become exceptional<br />

public school teachers, and who<br />

demonstrate a clear passion for working<br />

with children and a commitment to<br />

teaching in the public schools. Only 25<br />

fellows are selected each year.<br />

Kameelah Rasheed (SHPʻ02) recently<br />

won both these honors. At Po-<br />

mona College, Kameelah has designed<br />

8 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />

her own major in Public Policy Analysis,<br />

concentrating on Africa and the<br />

African Diaspora (dispersed African<br />

populations throughout the world).<br />

Kameelah has been actively involved<br />

in teaching and mentoring underprivileged<br />

and at-risk youth since she was<br />

thirteen. Her activist and academic interests<br />

are focused on the intersections<br />

between education and imprisonment<br />

with relation to race, class and gender.<br />

At Pomona, Kameelah has channeled<br />

her energies into a diverse set<br />

of organizations, including the Muslim<br />

Student Association, the Womenʼs<br />

Union, the National Society of Collegiate<br />

Scholars, and the Mortar Board<br />

Honor Society. She also coordinates<br />

and teaches the Social Justice Studies<br />

elective at a local high school and interns<br />

with Critical Resistance-Los Angeles<br />

teaching classes and doing community<br />

outreach related to reducing<br />

prisons and policing in Los Angeles.<br />

She has recently started a new group<br />

at Pomona College called the Prison<br />

Activist group, which is working to organize<br />

a mini-conference related to the<br />

prison-industrial complex.<br />

At <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep, Kameelah<br />

was the co-founder of the Jewish-Muslim<br />

Alliance, was heavily involved in<br />

the Black Student Union and Diversity<br />

Club, and spent time volunteering<br />

through the SHP Service Learning program<br />

at local schools and the Boys and<br />

Girls Club. Additionally, Kameelah<br />

was involved with the SHP Yearbook,<br />

the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society and the National<br />

Honors Society.<br />

“I actually found out that I received<br />

the Truman Scholarship and the RBF<br />

Fellowship on the same day,” said<br />

SERVICE LEARNING: Kameelah<br />

working hard in Salinas on an SHP<br />

Service Learning immersion trip to<br />

learn more about migrant labor<br />

Kameelah,” I was studying abroad in<br />

Cape Town, South Africa at the time. I<br />

was thrilled to win both awards as they<br />

are such great honors. I am excited to<br />

have these opportunities to work with<br />

other leaders and activists who are concerned<br />

with creating social change.”<br />

Kameelah plans to use her Rockefeller<br />

Fellowship to pay for a two-year<br />

Masters of Education and teaching<br />

credential program. “I want to teach<br />

high school students in continuation<br />

schools,” said Kameelah. “Hopefully<br />

Iʼll work with youth who have been<br />

imprisoned, are at risk of being imprisoned<br />

or in the transitional stages<br />

of community-based programs to deter<br />

repeated imprisonment.” Kameelah<br />

will use her Truman Scholarship to<br />

pursue a Masters in Urban Planning.<br />

“I want to study gentrification and<br />

ways to incorporate local knowledge<br />

in building and improving communities,”<br />

said Kameelah. “As I pursue this<br />

degree, Iʼll investigate the way global<br />

and domestic cities work to meet the<br />

housing needs of the urban poor.”<br />

Established by Congress in 1975,<br />

the Truman Scholarship Foundation<br />

awards $30,000 scholarships to college<br />

students to attend graduate school<br />

in preparation for careers in government<br />

or elsewhere in public service.<br />

Established in 1991 by the Rockefeller<br />

Brotherʼs Fund, the Fellowship for<br />

Students of Color Entering the Teaching<br />

Profession addresses the need for more<br />

minorities in the teaching profession.<br />

Each fellow receives up to $22,100 over<br />

a five-year period.


A Thriving<br />

Start-Up<br />

Stephen Carlson (SHP‘02) & Andy<br />

Ramsay (SHP‘02) have recently<br />

jumped into the dot-com craze head<br />

first, by starting their own internet<br />

company: MyCollegeMarket.com<br />

Q: What exactly is MyCollegeMarket<br />

Stephen: Basically, MyCollegeMarket is an eBay-like<br />

website for college students. Itʼs a college-only, online<br />

market where students can buy and sell anything. However,<br />

our site also integrates the social-networking capabilities of<br />

websites like FaceBook.com and MySpace.com. Anyone<br />

with a valid .edu email address can register.<br />

Q: What inspired you to create MyCollegeMarket<br />

Andy: First and foremost, the success of FaceBook.com<br />

awakened us to college studentsʼ intense desire to network<br />

with each other in an online format. We thought these robust<br />

social networks could do even more for the students<br />

that use them.<br />

Stephen: Our second source of inspiration was the<br />

equally robust piles of junk that accumulated in our rooms<br />

after two years of college. Extra-long sheets, textbooks, old<br />

movies, and hangers cluttered our rooms. All this stuff was<br />

perfectly good, there just needed to be a venue for me to<br />

sell it. The only online forums we could find were poorly<br />

publicized and severely under-used.<br />

Then we realized, the active online commerce community<br />

of a site like eBay, mixed with the college-only, networking<br />

capabilities of FaceBook.com would be the perfect<br />

venue for college students to sell all this perfectly good<br />

merchandise that they no longer needed.<br />

Q: What are your roles in the company<br />

Andy: Stephen is the boss. His job is to keep all of us in<br />

line. We have five staff members, plus “ambassadors” at<br />

several college campuses, who are in charge of promoting<br />

MyCollegeMarket at their own universities.<br />

Stephen: Andy is in charge of marketing. When we<br />

launched the site, we needed to make it cool and start a phenomenon<br />

that would spread by word-of-mouth. Although<br />

Andy had no official marketing experience, I knew he had<br />

the magic touch. Back when we were at SHP, he founded<br />

the SHP Swedish Culture Club— if there ever was a successful<br />

phenomenon, the Swedish Culture Club was it!<br />

Andy: Yeah, the Swedish Culture Club was all about just<br />

having fun, welcoming anyone, and just doing cool activities,<br />

purely for the sake of doing them. I learned that people respond<br />

if youʼll just make it fun. Iʼve really tried to capture that<br />

same spirit of fun in our marketing for MyCollegeMarket.<br />

Stephen: Our SHP education has come in handy in many<br />

other ways, too. First and foremost, the writing skills we<br />

gained at SHP have been invaluable to our work. Anything<br />

we put up on the internet has to be polished, and we learned<br />

how to write and edit and re-write from the absolute best<br />

teachers at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Plus, our SHP education taught<br />

us to work hard, but stay balanced. Almost all SHP students<br />

find time to participate in drama, sports, and other stuff.<br />

In our growth stage, we sometimes worked almost eighty<br />

hours a week on MyCollegeMarket, but we always tried to<br />

balance the work with school, travel, and leisure.<br />

HARD AT WORK: Stephen (far left) and Andy (far right)<br />

with the rest of the MyCollege Market executive team<br />

Q: How do your five staff members work together<br />

when they live all over the country<br />

Andy: Yeah, it isnʼt easy— Iʼm in LA, Stephen is in Maine,<br />

and the others are in New York and the Bay Area. We stay in<br />

touch via email, instant messaging, and internet telephony.<br />

Q: So whatʼs next for MyCollegeMarket<br />

Andy: Bigger and better. Weʼre still in our infant stage,<br />

but at this point weʼre about ready to get some funding<br />

and prepare the site to handle exponential growth and<br />

to become profitable in the coming months. With this<br />

growth, I am also really thrilled about the potential for<br />

MyCollegeMarket to do some charity work. In the new<br />

site, we will definitely give students the option to donate<br />

proceeds from their sales to some form of charity.<br />

Stephen: We also hope to empower student artists with<br />

MyCollegeMarket. Itʼs a great venue for song-writers,<br />

bands, painters, sculptors and authors to get some exposure<br />

and sell their art. Weʼve created a whole “MyArtist” plan<br />

that will really make MyCollegeMarket a great tool for any<br />

budding student artist.<br />

STEPHEN CARLSON is a junior at<br />

Bowdoin College, studying French and<br />

Economics. ANDY RAMSAY is a junior at UCLA, majoring in English.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 9


Beating the Odds<br />

Kate Paye (SJSH‘87)<br />

What kind of teenager turns<br />

down recruiting offers from<br />

has done what most California, Dartmouth, Harvard and<br />

thought impossible — Princeton, where she could play, and<br />

decides to be a hopeful walk-on at<br />

she made it to the<br />

nationally-ranked Stanford, where<br />

WNBA and beyond sheʼll be lucky to make the team<br />

What kind of basketball player plays<br />

professionally at a height of only<br />

5ʼ8” What kind of student earns an<br />

MBA and a JD from Stanford University<br />

while playing full-time in the<br />

WNBA<br />

Meet Kate Paye (SJSH ʻ87).<br />

Coaches, teammates, and classmates<br />

describe her as driven and determined.<br />

She achieved feats that no<br />

one thought possible for her. And yet<br />

sheʼs one of the most humble people<br />

you will ever meet. She says that all<br />

along, she “Just wanted to see how<br />

good of a basketball player I really<br />

could be.”<br />

“I remember Kate as one of the<br />

most gifted athletes we have ever<br />

had here at St. Josephʼs,” recalls<br />

SJSH Athletic Director Sue Mc-<br />

Donald. “She was the ultimate team<br />

player— very unselfish. She was<br />

quiet, gifted academically, extremely<br />

fast and very humble—we often had<br />

to remind her to shoot the basketball<br />

rather than always passing it off to a<br />

teammate.”<br />

After attending SJSH from preschool<br />

to eighth grade, Kate attended<br />

high school down the street at Menlo<br />

School, where she led her team to<br />

three consecutive state championships<br />

in Division Five.<br />

“My mom, dad, older brother,<br />

and older sister were all Stanford<br />

10 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


graduates,” said Kate, “Iʼd always<br />

dreamed of playing college basketball<br />

for Stanford.” No one thought<br />

much of her when she joined the basketball<br />

team her freshman year, but<br />

pretty soon, everyone noticed her.<br />

Two-thirds of the way through her<br />

freshman year, she had made a big<br />

enough team contribution to garner a<br />

scholarship for the remainder of her<br />

Stanford years.<br />

THEN AND NOW: Kate as an<br />

eighth-grader at SJSH in 1987<br />

and as Assistant Coach for<br />

the San Diego State Aztecs<br />

“I am very proud to have ever<br />

made it to that level,” said Kate,<br />

“I believed I was a good athlete,<br />

but never imagined I would make<br />

it to the pro level—learning the<br />

strategies, skills and concepts of<br />

the game at the elite level was amazing<br />

for me!”<br />

First Kate played for the now-defunct<br />

American Basketball League,<br />

and then joined the WNBA, first with<br />

the Minnesota Lynx for two years<br />

and then with the Seattle Storm for<br />

one year. The WNBA played in the<br />

summer months, so during training<br />

time the rest of the year, Kate went<br />

to Stanford and pursued a Law de-<br />

“Sports were an important part of the girls’ lives<br />

at St. Joe’s and our competitions were just as<br />

serious as the boys’.”<br />

Kate went on to become one of<br />

Stanfordʼs best defensive players.<br />

Her team won the Pac-10 Championship<br />

three out of her four years.<br />

Kate went on to win two Pac-10 All-<br />

Academic awards and the Stanford<br />

coaches award, in addition to serving<br />

as team captain for two seasons and<br />

being named Stanfordʼs “Best Defensive<br />

Player” in 1994.<br />

“I learned incredible lessons<br />

at Stanford from Coach Tara<br />

VanDerveer,” said Kate, “She always<br />

said the greatest determiners of our<br />

success were the two things we could<br />

each control: our attitude and our effort.<br />

I was certainly not the most<br />

physically gifted player on the team,<br />

but I put myself in the position to get<br />

the most out of what I did have.”<br />

Amazingly, during her years at<br />

Stanford Kate never worried about<br />

playing time or whether she would<br />

be a starter. “I just took the gifts I<br />

did have and worked hard, never letting<br />

an opportunity pass by.”<br />

After graduating, Kate played basketball<br />

professionally for six years.<br />

gree and Business degree at the same<br />

time. Her teammates could not believe<br />

it. But as Kate put it, “I was<br />

accustomed to being a student athlete—I<br />

knew how to be extremely<br />

disciplined and use my time wisely.”<br />

After six years of professional ball,<br />

Kate started practicing corporate law<br />

in Palo Alto— but not for long. Pepperdine<br />

University recruited her to<br />

coach their womenʼs basketball<br />

team for one season, and after<br />

that Kate moved on to her current<br />

position, as the Assistant coach<br />

of the womenʼs basketball team<br />

of the San Diego State Aztecs.<br />

“I love being on the court everyday<br />

and teaching the young<br />

players,” said Kate, “My job<br />

includes working with the point<br />

guards and perimeter players,<br />

designing the overall team offense,<br />

and overseeing all recruiting<br />

efforts.” Kate is on the road<br />

most of the time, either traveling<br />

with the team or recruiting new<br />

players from around the world.<br />

“When I coach, I try to pass on the<br />

special experience I had of being on a<br />

team,” said Kate, “I want each player<br />

to experience something greater than<br />

herself. When players truly contribute<br />

to their team, they get back immeasurable<br />

rewards.”<br />

Looking back, Kate remembers<br />

that sports were a valued part of<br />

the education at St Joeʼs. “I am so<br />

thankful for the great coaching I received<br />

from Mrs. Lochtefeld and Sue<br />

McDonald during those formative<br />

years,” said Kate, “Sports were an<br />

important part of the girlsʼ lives at St.<br />

Joeʼs and our competitions were just<br />

as serious as the boysʼ. At the time,<br />

I thought this type of equity was normal<br />

everywhere!”<br />

“At St Josephʼs I was constantly<br />

being challenged,” said Kate, “It<br />

was a great preparation for everything<br />

that was to follow in my life.”<br />

When she came to SJSH to speak to<br />

the students a couple years ago, Kate<br />

emphasized the importance of seeking<br />

out and conquering challenges<br />

in life. “Even when everyone else<br />

thinks you canʼt succeed, you need<br />

to believe in yourself,” said Kate,<br />

“Amazing things can happen if you<br />

work hard enough.”<br />

Kate is excited that St. Josephʼs is<br />

celebrating 100 years of education,<br />

and she hopes to visit for the celebrations<br />

on May 20th if her busy schedule<br />

allows.<br />

COACH Paye gives an Aztec<br />

player some tips on the court<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 11


My Demanding<br />

Career<br />

Parenting a child with special<br />

needs has unique challenges<br />

and unique rewards<br />

By Andi Vartanian Dehne (SJSH‘82)<br />

Pick any demanding career out there and, chances are,<br />

there are stringent courses to be taken and tests to<br />

pass before one is allowed to enter it. Parenting, however,<br />

has no such requirements. And yet, it is one of the most<br />

important and demanding jobs there is. I know because I<br />

am a relatively new mom to two small children. I didnʼt<br />

take any classes in motherhood, I didnʼt pass any tests<br />

before being allowed to work as a mom, and nobody even<br />

asked for a resumé before handing me my first child and<br />

sending me home with him! It doesnʼt feel like too long<br />

ago that I was a six-year-old girl wearing a plaid jumper<br />

and saddle shoes in Sr. Robinsonʼs first grade class! How<br />

on earth did I become somebodyʼs mother<br />

My four siblings and I all attended St Josephʼs for<br />

elementary school. We all received an outstanding<br />

education, but, maybe more importantly, we grew up in a<br />

school environment that strongly supported our familyʼs<br />

values. Between my parents and the influence of all the<br />

teachers, we had no choice but to grow up with a strong<br />

sense of responsibility, a good work ethic, compassionate<br />

hearts and respect for others. We learned to treat others as<br />

we wanted to be treated and we learned to value people for<br />

who they are on the inside rather than for material reasons.<br />

Although many things I learned at St. Josephʼs, such as<br />

conjugating French verbs and writing five-paragraph<br />

essays, do not currently factor in to my daily life, my<br />

value system is something I use daily in parenting my own<br />

children. And it played an instrumental role in helping me<br />

welcome my oldest child, Riley, into my life.<br />

While pregnant with Riley, we learned that he had an<br />

extra chromosome, meaning he would be born with Down<br />

syndrome (DS). Receiving that news over the phone was<br />

one of the most shocking and brutal moments of my life.<br />

My husband and I didnʼt want our son to have DS, but he<br />

did. In my heart I knew I needed to meet my boy. I felt that<br />

he was given to me for a reason.<br />

Riley has been an amazing teacher. In his short life he has<br />

already impacted so many people, and he reminds me daily<br />

of what is truly important. In raising Riley I am reminded<br />

that a true measure of oneʼs success is what kind of person<br />

you are and how you treat others. I have learned to slow<br />

down and appreciate the little wonders in life. Riley has<br />

taught me to work hard for what I want and to not give<br />

up when a situation is challenging. He has also taught me<br />

to not take anything for granted. Every time he meets a<br />

milestone, it is that much sweeter because I know he has<br />

worked extra hard to get there.<br />

Like any child, Riley has his own relative areas of strength<br />

and weakness. As any parent would do, I try to support him<br />

in his areas of need, give him the tools he needs to be more<br />

independent and guide him towards pursuing his passions.<br />

As his mother, I do worry about him. I worry about how<br />

others may treat him. I worry that some kids may tease him<br />

as he gets older...but I also have faith. I look back to my<br />

childhood and recall the warmth, safety and acceptance I<br />

felt as a child at St. Joeʼs and I know that there are people<br />

out there who will see my boy for the amazing and gentle<br />

soul that he is. I know I will work hard to build a supportive<br />

community around him and to instill in him the values that<br />

I received as a child.<br />

In December of 2004 my husband and I were blessed<br />

with our second child, Emily. Looking in her eyes I can<br />

tell that she is a strong, social, opinionated little girl with<br />

a contagious zest for life. She loves her big brother and<br />

follows him all around the house. I know she may have<br />

some extra challenges having a brother with special needs,<br />

but I also know that having Riley in her life will make her<br />

a better, richer and stronger person, just like it has me.<br />

Some people have told me that I am “special” and that<br />

they “could never do what I do.” The truth is, I am not<br />

any more special than any other mother out there who<br />

loves her child. Being a mother is a difficult job, with no<br />

training, but I know that my experiences as a child have<br />

helped to make me the mother I am today. I look back to<br />

my childhood and time spent at St. Josephʼs with fondness<br />

and with a sense of security that comes from growing up<br />

knowing I was loved and appreciated for who I was. This<br />

sense of security is something I strive to provide for my<br />

own children so that they will have the confidence to listen<br />

to their hearts in difficult situations, stand up for what they<br />

believe is right, and to value the people and relationships<br />

in their lives.<br />

12 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


Life at Warner Brothers<br />

Pictures, Inc.<br />

What do Bugs Bunny,<br />

Harry Potter, Friends,<br />

and <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

have in common<br />

Musette Buckley<br />

(SJSH‘76, SHP‘80)!<br />

When Musette Buckley (SJSH<br />

ʻ76, SHPʻ80) walks around<br />

the 110-acre Warner Bros. campus,<br />

everyone—from the security guards<br />

to George Clooney—knows her name<br />

and greets her with a big smile.<br />

Musette is the Senior Vice<br />

President of Production Resources<br />

for Warner Bros. Pictures, one of the<br />

leading motion picture and television<br />

production facilities in the world. She<br />

works in the newly-emerging field<br />

of product placement. “Remember<br />

when Reeseʼs Pieces appeared in the<br />

movie E.T.” said Musette. “That was<br />

the beginning of product placement.”<br />

For example, Musette formed the<br />

partnership with Samsung so that<br />

their phones appeared in Matrix<br />

Reloaded. She hopes that Samsung<br />

will also appear in Superman, which<br />

releases this summer. And she made<br />

the deal with Chrysler to promote<br />

their new 300 Sedan in Firewall,<br />

starring Harrison Ford.<br />

“The main purpose of branded<br />

integration is to generate revenue<br />

to reduce the costs of production,”<br />

said Musette. Her workday is packed<br />

with meetings for every movie and<br />

show that the studio has in preproduction<br />

at the time. Musette<br />

looks for opportunities for product<br />

placement, and then she builds<br />

strong relationships with consumer<br />

companies such as Apple, Anheuser-<br />

Busch, Chrysler, Kodak, Samsung,<br />

and Coke. In return for their products<br />

appearing in movies and TV shows,<br />

the companies reduce production<br />

costs, generate revenue, and leverage<br />

placement with promotional campaigns.<br />

“My favorite part of the job is my<br />

daily interaction with a variety of<br />

people, from creative production<br />

people to the marketing geniuses of<br />

the world,” said Musette. Her highenergy<br />

personality is perfect for her<br />

demanding job, where every minute is<br />

packed with action. “For one movie,<br />

I proposed ten product placements to<br />

the director during the pre-production<br />

process, and he turned them all<br />

down. Then the day before filming,<br />

the director realized the value, and<br />

wanted all ten delivered the next day.<br />

And we did! That was definitely my<br />

craziest day at work.”<br />

In addition to her high-profile<br />

career at Warner Bros., Musette is a<br />

mother to an adorable two-year old<br />

daughter, “Muzie.” “I love being a<br />

mom, but I couldnʼt juggle a career<br />

like this without a lot of support,”<br />

said Musette. “Little Musette comes<br />

to work for a visit once a week. Her<br />

favorite activity is to ride around the<br />

WB campus in the golf cart to see<br />

the animation studio, the Bewitched<br />

MUSETTE & MUZIE pose on<br />

Halloween (above) and ride on<br />

an elephant at a Warner Bros.<br />

event (below)<br />

house, and the Partridge Family<br />

house.<br />

While fulfilling to her duties as<br />

Senior VP and mother, Musette<br />

also volunteers extensively for<br />

AMFAR, Planet Hope, and The<br />

Dream Foundation. She recently won<br />

Time Warnerʼs prestigious Andrew<br />

Heiskell Award, given to employees<br />

in recognition of their outstanding<br />

public service.<br />

“I first became interested in<br />

charitable works at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

when I was president of Mother<br />

Costelloʼs organization, Castle Youth<br />

Helping Others,” said Musette.<br />

“Our group raised money for people<br />

with disabilities, people who were<br />

homeless, and for guide dogs for the<br />

blind through bake sales and door-todoor<br />

solicitations. Mother Costello<br />

made a huge impact on my passion<br />

for helping others. She was a loving,<br />

compassionate mentor. My experience<br />

in Castle Youth formed the base of all<br />

the service work I do today.”<br />

In general, Musette remembers her<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education as structured,<br />

challenging, and enriching. “At<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> I gained a life-long love<br />

of learning, a sense of self-worth,<br />

an appreciation for community,<br />

good work habits, and the qualities<br />

of compassion and respect,” said<br />

Musette.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 13


Building<br />

Community<br />

As University Chaplain, Sharon<br />

Kugler (SHP‘77) deepens<br />

understanding among 25<br />

religious groups<br />

Many who attended <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

with Sharon Kugler (SHPʻ77)<br />

remember that extra spring in her<br />

step and that great smile that seemed<br />

permanently set on her face. The grades<br />

appeared to come effortlessly and all<br />

the faculty and students enjoyed easy<br />

conversation with her. She served as a<br />

leader in the Honors Society and was<br />

President of her senior class.<br />

Now, almost three decades after<br />

her high school graduation, Sharon<br />

is enjoying great professional success<br />

in an area she never would have<br />

expected: chaplaincy.<br />

Sharon is a rarity on the national<br />

scene, a lay person who serves as<br />

University Chaplain at a major<br />

institution, John Hopkins University<br />

(JHU). How did she end up there<br />

It was a series of steps, beginning, of<br />

course, at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Sharon recalls,<br />

“At <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> I was comfortable<br />

exploring lifeʼs large questions in and<br />

out of a classroom setting with faculty,<br />

staff and fellow students.”<br />

After graduating from the Convent,<br />

Sharon pursued a bachelorʼs degree in<br />

math at Santa Clara University, where<br />

she was very involved with campus<br />

ministries and joined the Jesuit<br />

Volunteer Corps. She was sent to<br />

Cleveland through the Corps, where<br />

she worked with battered women in a<br />

shelter. During her motherʼs illness,<br />

Sharon moved back to the Bay Area<br />

and accepted a job at Santa Clara<br />

University as Associate Campus<br />

Minister. “I loved my work at Santa<br />

Clara— I had the opportunity to<br />

preach regularly at the Universityʼs<br />

mission and to work at all the spiritual<br />

retreats,” said Sharon. “The campus<br />

had a social activist air about it, and I<br />

found the Jesuits very empowering.”<br />

Next, Sharon and her husband<br />

moved to Baltimore, and she took a<br />

position as the Director of a Hospice<br />

for AIDS that was funded through<br />

ecumenical church donations. “This<br />

was my first exposure to work outside<br />

of the Catholic Community,” said<br />

Sharon, “While in this job, I became<br />

very interested in chaplaincy on<br />

college campuses, so I interviewed<br />

“MINISTRY OF GASTRONOMY”:<br />

Above, Sharon (SHP‘77), far<br />

right, serves up food at an interfaith<br />

dinner with her daughter<br />

Zoe (center) and a Muslim student.<br />

THE FIRST OF ITS KIND:<br />

Left, Sharon speaks at the open-<br />

ing ceremonies of the<br />

Bunting-<br />

Meyerhoff Interfaith and Community<br />

Service Center at JHU<br />

the several chaplains who sat on the<br />

hospice Board of Directors and wrote<br />

a paper about it.”<br />

Little did Sharon realize where that<br />

paper would take her. At this time<br />

(1993), Johns Hopkins University<br />

administrators were considering the<br />

elimination of their chaplain position.<br />

They couldnʼt seem to find a way<br />

to make chaplaincy work in such<br />

a religiously-diverse environment.<br />

When they read Sharonʼs paper,<br />

they recruited her to come work as<br />

a consultant to help them restructure<br />

their chaplaincy program.<br />

While consulting full-time for JHU,<br />

Sharon worked toward her Masters<br />

degree in Comparative Religions at<br />

Georgetown. Her thesis, entitled The<br />

Limits and Possibilities of Building a<br />

Religiously Plural Community, thrust<br />

her into the spotlight for groups across<br />

the nation that were wrestling with the<br />

questions of religion in universities<br />

and in society. Sharonʼs thesis was so<br />

well-received that it has been adopted<br />

by the United States Department of<br />

Defense as a tool for new chaplains in<br />

the military.<br />

After a few months of consulting,<br />

JHU asked her to stay on staff as the<br />

full-time chaplain and implement her<br />

vision of an inter-faith structure. “As<br />

University Chaplain, I advocate for the<br />

religious needs of students, professors,<br />

and staff members,” said Sharon,<br />

“My goal at JHU has been to build an<br />

inclusive sense of community within<br />

our religiously plural population.”<br />

Obviously, Sharonʼs hard work<br />

has paid off. Since Sharon became<br />

Chaplain, her center went from<br />

14 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


epresenting eight religious groups to<br />

representing over 25 religious groups<br />

of nine distinct traditions, including<br />

Buddhism, Hinduism, the Bahaʼi faith,<br />

Unitarianism, and Christianity. Sharon<br />

convinced the JHU administration to<br />

create the first-ever spiritual facility<br />

in the 123-year history of the college:<br />

The Bunting-Meyerhoff Interfaith and<br />

Community Service Center, which<br />

opened in 1999.<br />

At the Center, Sharon focuses<br />

on deepening awareness and<br />

understanding between the 25<br />

different religious groups that it<br />

serves. Sharon formed the Interfaith<br />

Council, composed of members of<br />

various student religious groups on<br />

campus. The Council members work<br />

towards establishing a cooperative<br />

community spirit among all religious<br />

groups on campus and dispelling the<br />

myths and misunderstandings about<br />

the various religions.<br />

In addition to working with the<br />

Interfaith Council, Sharonʼs duties<br />

include counseling, leading worship,<br />

and planning memorials. “You feel<br />

called to do it,” said Sharon. “If itʼs<br />

not feeding your soul, youʼre going<br />

to know it pretty quickly. Chaplaincy<br />

gives you the opportunity to give to<br />

people and be there in their hours of<br />

greatest need.”<br />

Sharon has proved herself a master<br />

at building community among all the<br />

religious groups on campus. “JHU is<br />

a very intense place academically,”<br />

said Sharon, “One way I get students<br />

involved in the interfaith center<br />

is to create a relaxing, welcoming<br />

environment that feels nothing like<br />

the lab. I always save room in my<br />

annual budget for a bubble-blowing<br />

machine and a stocked ice-cream cart.”<br />

These whimsical ideas for building<br />

community have worked wonders. “I<br />

canʼt tell you how glad I was, right<br />

after September 11th, to share that ice<br />

cream cart with our students when the<br />

world was all chaos and confusion.”<br />

In addition to the centerʼs fun<br />

environment, Sharon has created<br />

annual events to bring diverse<br />

students together for community.<br />

“Regardless of their religious beliefs,<br />

THEN & NOW: Right, Sharon’s<br />

photos at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> in 1977<br />

and at JHU in 2001. INTERFAITH<br />

COUNCIL: Below, Sharon (far<br />

left) gathers with the members<br />

of JHU’s Interfaith Council<br />

the ministry of gastronomy is at<br />

the heart of connecting with college<br />

students,” said Sharon, “I started<br />

hosting chili dinners as a lark my first<br />

year here,” said Sharon, “I just wanted<br />

to do something nice for the resident<br />

advisers on campus and also break their<br />

misconceptions about me as a religious<br />

leader.” From that humble beginning,<br />

the chili tradition has grown each year,<br />

and is well-known across campus.<br />

In addition, Sharon has an hors<br />

dʼoeuvre buffet for all the members of<br />

the Interfaith Council every December.<br />

“The Muslim students particularly<br />

enjoy this Christmas dinner, because<br />

it has coincided with Ramandan, a<br />

month-long time of prayer and fasting<br />

during daylight hours,” said Sharon.<br />

“At this special dinner, there is a unique<br />

feeling of connectedness between the<br />

students.” In fact, Sharon has enjoyed<br />

friendships with culturally-diverse<br />

students ever since her days at <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong>. She recalls, “I loved learning<br />

about the lives of the boarders-- their<br />

families, their countries of origin and<br />

what mattered most to them.”<br />

In 2001, Sharon completed her<br />

second term as president of the<br />

National Association of College and<br />

University Chaplains. “While serving<br />

as President, I got to travel to Rome to<br />

join a special consultation of European<br />

chaplains discussing religious diversity<br />

with the Vatican,” said Sharon. “As<br />

I met with the Cardinals, I felt so<br />

humbled, and also excited about where<br />

the ongoing dialogue might take us.”<br />

The new millennium also brought<br />

heart-breaking news: Sharon was<br />

diagnosed with Lymphoma, Hodgkinʼs<br />

Disease. She continued her work at<br />

JHU while going through treatment,<br />

and eventually she beat the cancer. “I<br />

never tried to hide my cancer,” said<br />

Sharon. “I think that helped me stay<br />

connected with my community. I love<br />

sharing my survival story with others<br />

to give them hope.” Sharon is healthy<br />

and cancer free today.<br />

“<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was key to my<br />

early formation and understanding<br />

of what it means to be a person of<br />

conscience,” recalls Sharon. “It was<br />

a place of broad intellectual and<br />

spiritual exploration in the very best<br />

sense.” Sharon reports that because of<br />

her own wonderful experience at the<br />

Convent, she and her husband chose<br />

to send their two daughters, Emily and<br />

Zoe, to all-girls schools. “At <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> we had rich traditions such<br />

as liturgies in the old building, the<br />

Little Theater productions, the ring<br />

dance, and graduation on Palm Court.<br />

These were things that made me feel<br />

that I belonged to part of something<br />

bigger than myself— that I was part<br />

of the living history of a very special<br />

place.”<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 15


I I Know It it By by <strong>Heart</strong><br />

Building<br />

Community<br />

as a<br />

Christian<br />

Value:<br />

November 17,<br />

:<br />

SJSH second<br />

****<br />

and<br />

**** ******<br />

visit Oakwood<br />

Retirement<br />

Center to read<br />

with Sr. en<br />

Donohoe, RSCJ<br />

16 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 17


What a difference<br />

50 years make!<br />

A day in the “Fourth Academic” year of Diane<br />

Lovegrove (SJSH‘52, SHP‘56) and a day in the<br />

Senior Year of **** ******** (SJSH‘02, SHP‘06)<br />

Diane Lovegrove (SJSHʻ52, SHPʻ56)<br />

6:45am: Wake up and get dressed in<br />

my uniform: a light blue skirt and blue<br />

bolero with a white blouse, gray sweater,<br />

and brown saddle shoes.<br />

7:30am: Walk to school, then go to<br />

study hall and put my books in my desk<br />

(there were no lockers). Curtsy to the nun<br />

at the front of the hall. (Once in a while<br />

we got to come back to study hall to do<br />

some homework – in silence of course.)<br />

8:00am: Literature and English<br />

Composition class, taught by Mother<br />

Welch, who now resides at Oakwood.<br />

She was a really good teacher, and very<br />

down-to-earth. We wrote one essay every<br />

Friday.<br />

9:00am: French IV with our only lay<br />

teacher (until Mr. Brown came our senior<br />

year). All the rest of our teachers were<br />

nuns and we called them Mother. Madame<br />

told us firsthand about places in France,<br />

which developed my curiosity. When I<br />

finally did go to France after college, I<br />

couldnʼt believe I was really there.<br />

10:00am: Religion class with Mother<br />

Schaffer, a young nun who also taught<br />

sewing and ceramics on Saturdays.<br />

11:00am: Logic class with Mr. John<br />

Brown. When we were seniors we<br />

suddenly had a man teacher for one<br />

semester! This was quite a shock since no<br />

boys were allowed on campus, not even<br />

the brothers of the boarders. This tall<br />

lanky young man didnʼt sit at a desk and<br />

teach. He paced back and forth in front<br />

of the class!<br />

12:00pm: Lunch downstairs in<br />

the cafeteria. We all ate there, and<br />

it was our time to talk and visit. The<br />

Sisters fixed the food. (The Mothers<br />

were our teachers while the Sisters did<br />

the menial tasks.) We all bought lunch<br />

and there werenʼt many choices. We took<br />

turns drying the silverware after lunch.<br />

We all loved to help Sister Christine.<br />

1:00pm: Chemistry lecture or lab. We<br />

had lectures three days a week and lab<br />

two days. Lab was the first experience<br />

we had where we worked collaboratively<br />

with another student.<br />

2:00pm: History class. We had no<br />

breaks between classes, only time to walk<br />

to the next class. We never left campus<br />

during school hours. There was no reason<br />

to. School was extremely rigorous, and<br />

we learned excellent study habits which I<br />

carried all the way through grad school.<br />

3:00pm: Music class in the Little<br />

Theater— I had Glee Club with Mother<br />

Cronin.<br />

4:00pm: After-school activites, including<br />

field hockey, soccer, volleyball<br />

and a wonderful game that involved<br />

throwing a rubber ring over the net to<br />

another girl. I think this game originated<br />

in Central America and was brought to us<br />

by the boarders.<br />

5:00pm: I changed out of my gym<br />

clothes, gathered up my books, and<br />

walked home. Before dinner, I practiced<br />

THEN & NOW: Diane<br />

Lovegrove in<br />

1956 and in <strong>2006</strong><br />

the piano for an hour.<br />

6:00pm: I helped<br />

make dinner and then<br />

ate with my mom and dad. After dinner,<br />

I studied for 2 or 3 hours. Sometimes<br />

I watched my favorite TV shows: I<br />

Love Lucy, Jackie Gleason, and The Ed<br />

Sullivan show.<br />

10:00pm: Go to bed.<br />

We did not have class officers. We had<br />

a system of ribbons: blue ribbons for the<br />

upperclassmen and green ribbons for<br />

the lower classmen. There was a voting<br />

system to see who earned them. We did<br />

not have yearbooks, nor were there any<br />

clubs. We had only one dance a year, and<br />

it was chaperoned by our parents.<br />

Once a week we had Primes. We all<br />

wore our white uniforms and sat with our<br />

classes in the Little Theater. Reverend<br />

Mother Deming or Mother Williams<br />

presented us with awards for the week.<br />

They were little cards that said Très<br />

Bien, Bien or Assez Bien. To receive our<br />

awards, we walked down the steps from<br />

the hard wooden benches, down the<br />

parquet floor and up the steps to the stage<br />

where Reverend Mother was seated. We<br />

curtsied whenever we went by her and<br />

when we received our awards.<br />

In my senior year, I had to choose<br />

between College of Notre Dame in<br />

Belmont and Dominican College in San<br />

Raphael. I chose Notre Dame. In my<br />

senior year of college, I applied to USC,<br />

UCLA and Stanford and was accepted at<br />

all these universities. I chose to attend<br />

Stanford, where I earned my MA in<br />

Education. In 1993, I earned another<br />

degree from the University of San<br />

Francisco— an MA in Pastoral Ministry.<br />

There were 32 girls in my graduating<br />

class.<br />

18 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


****** ****** (SJSHʻ02, SHPʻ06)<br />

7:00am: I wake up, get dressed in jeans<br />

and a T-shirt, have a quick breakfast, and<br />

drive (or bike, on Wednesdays) the two<br />

blocks to school.<br />

7:50am: Marine Biology class,<br />

taught by Ms. Justine Walker (SJSHʻ95,<br />

SHPʻ99). We just finished a unit on dunes<br />

and the transfer of sand. Now weʼre<br />

learning about toxic chemical pollutants<br />

in the environment.<br />

8:40am: American Diplomacy class,<br />

taught by Mr. Barry Treseler. Right now<br />

weʼre in our Vietnam War unit, working<br />

toward Desert Storm.<br />

9:20am: I jet over to 32 Sigall (our<br />

assembly room) to prepare for the<br />

weekly assembly.<br />

9:25am: Grades 9-12 gather all<br />

together for assembly. At the beginning,<br />

I make announcements about student<br />

council (because Iʼm the Student Body<br />

President).<br />

9:50am: Break time. I go to the Gator<br />

Pit (our cafeteria) to get something to<br />

eat—and chat with friends.<br />

10:05am: Honors Short Stories class,<br />

taught by Mr. Kermit Holderman. Today,<br />

we discuss The Storm by Kate Chopin<br />

and A Jury of Her Peers by Susan<br />

Glaspell. This is my largest class by far,<br />

with 18 students. Weʼre all seniors.<br />

10:50am: Creating Literature<br />

class, taught by Mr. Michael Peterson<br />

(SJSHʻ92, SHPʻ96). Each team presents<br />

their research on a certain form of poetry.<br />

ACADEMIC SNAPSHOTS: Left,<br />

in Diane Lovegrove’s time,<br />

students worked in Study Hall<br />

in complete silence. Below,<br />

SHP teacher Michael Peterson<br />

(far left, SJSH‘92, SHP‘96), leads<br />

***** ****** (far right) and his<br />

classmates in a discussion<br />

My team is analyzing free form<br />

open verse.<br />

11:35am: My first free period. I<br />

go to the library to do homework,<br />

catch up on email, and work on my<br />

essay for my college applications.<br />

12:15pm: Lunch begins. I grab<br />

food at the cafeteria and swing<br />

by Mr. Mark Davisʼs room to ask<br />

him to write a letter of recommendation<br />

for my college applications.<br />

Iʼm applying to film programs at<br />

Loyola Marymount, USC, Emerson,<br />

University of Oregon, and Chapman.<br />

Iʼm applying to English programs at<br />

Boston University, UC Santa Barbara,<br />

and UC Irvine.<br />

12:30pm: Lunch continues. I lead<br />

the student council meeting in the Otto<br />

Library. We discuss suggestions from<br />

our new online suggestion box and<br />

discuss the status of fine arts, athletics,<br />

publicity, social events, service-learning,<br />

curriculum, and diversity.<br />

1:00pm: Meeting period. I go see<br />

Valéria Piazza-Lunga to get her advice—<br />

I need a tutor to help me prepare for the<br />

SAT IIs (individual subject standardized<br />

tests) in French language.<br />

1:45pm: AP French class, taught by<br />

Valéria Piazza-Lunga. We take a practice<br />

AP exam, and a few class members<br />

present their memorized one-minute<br />

speeches. This is my smallest class, with<br />

only 6 students.<br />

2:30pm: My second free period. We<br />

are allowed to leave campus if we have<br />

the last period of the day free, so I go<br />

to Posh Bagel with my friend Scott.<br />

After eating, I work on my article for<br />

the student newspaper The <strong>Heart</strong>beat,<br />

analyzing Michael Mooreʼs new movie<br />

about the health care industry, Sicko.<br />

3:30pm: Varsity soccer practice. We<br />

COMEDY REHEARSAL: ****<br />

******** (left, SHP‘06) at Kitsch<br />

rehearsal with ***** ******<br />

(SHP‘07)<br />

start with five laps, then play keep-away<br />

and do shooting drills, passing drills, and<br />

scrimmaging.<br />

5:00pm: Grab food at J and Jʼs<br />

Hawaiian Grill with three friends from<br />

the soccer team. We swing by my house,<br />

since itʼs on the way to J and Jʼs.<br />

5:30pm: Kitsch practice in the Sigall<br />

building. Kitsch is a student-run comedy<br />

improv group. There are 12 students<br />

in the group. As team leader, I run the<br />

group through warm-up games, mental<br />

games, and rhyming games to get our<br />

minds going. Then we launch into<br />

improvisation.<br />

7:00pm: Drive home and have dinner<br />

with my mom, dad, and little brother.<br />

8:00pm: Log on to mySHPnet.com<br />

to see my homework assignments.<br />

Work on my computer in my room until<br />

11pm, with short breaks for IM-ing with<br />

friends— we chat about homework and<br />

life.<br />

11:30pm: Go to bed, unless I have a<br />

test the next day, in which case I stay up<br />

a few more hours.<br />

There are 116 boys and girls in my<br />

graduating class.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 19


Why Financial Aid<br />

Ever wondered<br />

what St. Madeleine<br />

Sophie meant when<br />

she said, “For the<br />

sake of one child I<br />

would have founded<br />

the Society”<br />

Most of us have heard the famous<br />

words of St. Madeleine Sophie,<br />

foundress of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Society:<br />

“For the sake of one child, I would<br />

have founded the Society.” But what<br />

did she mean and what exactly was her<br />

vision Elaine Berra Barry (SHPʻ87<br />

and SHP Staff Member), provides her<br />

opinion: “I truly believe that this school<br />

was founded for the sake of one child.<br />

If we are to make this our center, then<br />

we need to guarantee that our doors are<br />

always open— wide open.”<br />

St. Madeleine believed in the power<br />

of education to transform society.<br />

“Present-day society will be saved by<br />

education,” she said. “Other means<br />

are almost useless. Education must be<br />

concerned not only with studies but also<br />

with whatever may be required for the<br />

right ordering of life and requirements<br />

of cultivated society.”<br />

My Opinion:<br />

Lindsay Aydelott (SHP‘99)<br />

20 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong><br />

Clearly, part of her vision for<br />

changing society was changing who<br />

had access to this transformative<br />

education. In a time when girls had<br />

very limited access to education, St.<br />

Madeleine Sophie, as RSCJ Superior<br />

General Patricia García de Quevedo<br />

puts it, “believed in the transforming<br />

power of women.”<br />

Not only did she seek to educate<br />

women, but also the urban poor.<br />

Superior General de Quevedo explains,<br />

“Whereas most congregations of<br />

Madeleine Sophieʼs time worked in<br />

rural areas, Madeleine Sophie was<br />

uring my time at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Prep, I valued the<br />

“Dsocio-economic diversity at the school as it provided<br />

me with many opportunities to develop unique and rewarding<br />

friendships. I know that the financial aid program<br />

made it possible for me to have such a great experience<br />

at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>. Not only did I benefit from the financial<br />

aid program, but I know many other people who would<br />

not have had the experience if it were not for financial<br />

aid.”<br />

“I think it’s so important for the school to provide an educational community<br />

that more closely reflects the world in which we live. Students who have a limited<br />

social experience are at a real disadvantage when they leave for college.<br />

The financial aid program actually benefits all students.”<br />

After SHS, Lindsay went on to study at UC San Diego. Now she works as As-<br />

sistant to the Director of the Southern California Institute of Architecture.<br />

THE<br />

STUDENT<br />

ASSISTANCE<br />

FUND: SJSH<br />

Parent Association<br />

Board<br />

Members<br />

present SJSH<br />

administrators<br />

with a<br />

check for<br />

$16,830.75 to<br />

support the<br />

SHS Assistance<br />

Fund.<br />

Left to right: Amy Hsieh, Melissa Gordon, Montye Rodgers, Charlene Golding,<br />

Diane Flynn, Maryan Ackley, Diana Hewitt, SJSH Preschool Principal<br />

Cee Salberg, Dee Armstrong, and SJSH Principal Karen Eshoo.<br />

different. She founded schools in cities;<br />

she insisted on a high level of studies<br />

and offered a holistic education. From<br />

the beginning she wanted to offer<br />

education to the poor.”<br />

On the topic of educating women, St.<br />

Madeleine Sophie Barat said, “Women<br />

and children must have some knowledge<br />

of current errors and form their<br />

own judgments in light of Christianity,<br />

in order to conform intelligently to the<br />

enlightened teaching of the Church.<br />

The hour has come when we must give<br />

reason for our faith.”<br />

How is St. Madeleine Sophieʼs vision<br />

present today in <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> schools<br />

across the world In the 1800s, St.<br />

Madeleine attached a “poor school” to<br />

each privileged <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> school.<br />

But in our time, campuses across the<br />

world integrate students from diverse<br />

socio-economic backgrounds. “This<br />

is why financial aid is absolutely vital<br />

at SHS,” said James Everitt, Director<br />

of the Office of Equity, Justice, and<br />

Multicultural Education, “With the<br />

rising cost of private education,<br />

thereʼs no way we could realize St.<br />

Madeleineʼs vision of education for all<br />

if we didnʼt give financial assistance.”<br />

SHS Atherton has come a long way<br />

in building up financial aid funds in the<br />

past five years. We have 51 endowed<br />

scholarships. This year the three<br />

schools provided $379,394 in tuition


My Opinion: Nefara Riesch (SHP‘05)<br />

“Not only does fi nancial aid allow<br />

people from all over the socioeconomic<br />

spectrum to receive an<br />

equal education, it creates an environment<br />

that everyone benefi ts<br />

from. The world is not made up<br />

of one socio-economic group, so<br />

there is no reason a school should<br />

be.”<br />

“Despite the challenges of being<br />

the only Samoan girl at our school and trying to balance<br />

my life between the two completely different worlds of<br />

Sunnyvale and Atherton, I am so grateful for the opportunity<br />

to go to SHP. If I hadn’t gone to <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>, I<br />

would not have such a positive outlook on my future. The<br />

Offi ce of Diversity staff, my incredible teachers, my basketball<br />

coaches, and Mr. Dioli gave me the ambition and<br />

the skills to not only move forward in life, but to do so with<br />

confi dence and relentless will power. “<br />

“When I look around at the other freshmen at UCLA, I<br />

see that many of them lack the simple skills necessary to<br />

succeed in college, especially study skills. That’s how I<br />

might have been without my excellent SHP training. I am<br />

able to get all my assignments done on-time and virtually<br />

stress-free because of what I learned about organization<br />

and time-management at SHP.”<br />

After graduating from SHP with the Dark Blue Ribbon,<br />

Nefara accepted a full scholarship at UCLA. She is currently<br />

a freshman.<br />

assistance for our students.<br />

In addition to tuition expenses, SHS<br />

has created the Student Assistance<br />

Fund to address the non-tuition<br />

financial needs of students, such as<br />

tutoring or testing, uniforms, cafeteria,<br />

lunches, school trips, sports equipment,<br />

and enrichment classes. In fact, at the<br />

beginning of the school year the SJSH<br />

Parent Association members chose to<br />

put the $17,000 they had raised through<br />

activities such as eScrip toward the<br />

Student Assistance Fund.<br />

“The SJSH Parent Association Board<br />

wanted to support the Student Assistance<br />

Fund because we are chartered<br />

to assist the SHS administration in<br />

providing an equitable educational<br />

opportunity for all students,” said Dee<br />

Armstrong, President of the SJSH<br />

Parent<br />

Association Board.<br />

“The SJSH Parent Board decided<br />

unanimously to donate our fundraising<br />

dollars to the Student Assistance Fund,”<br />

said SJSH parent Sandy Levison.<br />

“In order to fully support <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong>ʼs commitment to diversity, we<br />

all have to do our part. Financial aid<br />

does not stop with tuition; it is about<br />

alleviating all the financial barriers<br />

a student may encounter so they can<br />

take full advantage of a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

education.”<br />

At a recent international conference<br />

of the Religious of the <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>,<br />

participants affirmed our continued<br />

commitment to St. Madeleine Sophieʼs<br />

original vision: “We live in a world<br />

where the poor become poorer and<br />

the rich richer. In certain institutions<br />

of learning or universities, we are<br />

dealing with the privileged class, those<br />

privileged through wealth or through<br />

learning, or through power. [We need<br />

to ask ourselves,] How can we develop<br />

a specific pedagogy so that the social<br />

classes which are more favored will<br />

commit themselves to the cause<br />

and interests of the poor, instead of<br />

remaining closed in their privileges”<br />

For teachers and administrators<br />

at SHS Atherton, financial aid is<br />

a clear part of accomplishing this<br />

ideal education. As SHP Science<br />

Department Chair Guy Letteer<br />

points out, “Goal Three of the<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> Goals and Criteria<br />

specifically charges us with<br />

teaching our students to achieve<br />

social awareness and ultimately<br />

to act on this knowledge. To<br />

offer a <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education<br />

to only those who can afford it<br />

would circumvent the very goals<br />

that are so vitally central to this<br />

experience.”<br />

Joan Eagleson, Director of<br />

the SJSH Learning Center adds,<br />

“Madeleine Sophie understood<br />

the importance for every child<br />

to have the opportunity of a<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> education, and<br />

she never drew back because<br />

of any obstacle. As <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> schools, we need to open<br />

our doors, our hearts, and our<br />

financial support to all potential<br />

students who want to learn about<br />

Godʼs love, and share what they learn<br />

with people around them.”<br />

“We have a moral responsibility as a<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> School to reach out and<br />

support all families,” said SJSH Lower<br />

School Dean Sally Peterson, “Our<br />

students need to learn how to respect<br />

and work together with children<br />

who may think differently and have<br />

differing perspectives on the world<br />

than they do.”<br />

My Opinion:<br />

Doug<br />

Lowney<br />

(SJSH‘84,<br />

SHP‘88)<br />

f we did not have<br />

“Isocio-economic<br />

diversity at SHS, we<br />

would fail to nurture<br />

students to live in<br />

the socio-economically diverse world. Why<br />

would we want to prepare students for a<br />

world that doesn’t exist”<br />

“I’m so grateful for the fi nancial aid that<br />

made my SHS education possible. For me,<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was about so much more<br />

than academic programs. There were<br />

teachers who knew me, counseled me<br />

through the foolish moments of adolescence,<br />

and guided me to develop my own<br />

intellectual interests.”<br />

After SHS, Doug went on to study at Vassar<br />

College. Now he is an AP English Teacher<br />

and Service-Learning Coordinator at SHP.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 21


Alumni Events<br />

1<br />

2<br />

5<br />

3<br />

4<br />

6<br />

7<br />

REUNION WEEKEND 2005: 1 The<br />

class of ‘55 visited the Sisters at Oakwood:<br />

Carroll Michael Shannon, Georgine Drees<br />

Premo, Mary Whitlock Raptis Nielsen,<br />

Amalia Salcedo de Langenscheidt,<br />

Ramona Somaria Schoenwisner, Sr.<br />

Connie Welch (former English teacher to the class<br />

of ‘55), Susan Davidson Thomas, and Sr. Helen<br />

Donohoe 2Anne Marr<br />

(SHP‘96) and Betsy Barth Marr<br />

(SHP‘59) 3 Jim Mosso (SJSH‘55) and Diane Morey<br />

(SJSH‘56) 4 Class of ‘00: Julia Reichert, William<br />

“Sparky” Hartman, and Leyla Boissonnade 5 Mary<br />

McGuire Driscou (SHP‘73), Diane Giavia Kramer<br />

(SHP‘73), and Marianne Dean Quarré (SHP‘75) 6<br />

Class of ‘55: Terry Johnson Bolduc, Suzanne Faul<br />

Garetson, and Barbara Meagher Madison 7 Class<br />

of ‘85: Christina Galindo, Ingela Kaersvang, Sandra<br />

Lorenz Frojel, Joan Draeger-Winkler,<br />

Karyn Forbes<br />

8<br />

22 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


9<br />

Rosol, and Kyla Lambert Eller 8 Erin Moix Grieb (SHP‘97)<br />

and her husband Mark 9 Class of ‘75: Front: Kathy Rapp<br />

Hoffman, Marianne Dean Quarré, Julie Marr, and Rita Musto.<br />

Back: Yukiko Okutsu, Angelica Sanguinetti Michela, Leana<br />

Giannini, Cathy Baldacci Jensen, Barbie McCoy Hale, Ann<br />

Carey, Suzanne Jaroch Lizotte, Katie Booth Iversen, and<br />

Molly Fox Shamir. 10 Class of ‘55: Sheila Molloy Gast and<br />

Mary Ellen Cosgrove Scherrer 11 Class of ‘00: Pablo Garces<br />

and Alex Jamieson 12 Class of ‘95: Tory Ford, Jenny Circle,<br />

Jennifer Harris Sabo, Iliana Tandler, Lauren McWilliams,<br />

Steve Roeser, Jason Varga, and Shawn Nickel 13 Class<br />

of ‘95: Kobie Kennon, Jennifer Feyling, Monica Dean, and<br />

Kelly Crowley 14 Class of ‘95: Liko Soules-Ono and Lauren<br />

McWilliams 15 Mike Corpos (SHP‘95) and his wife Orshi<br />

11<br />

12<br />

10<br />

13 14 15<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 23


Alumni Events<br />

1<br />

2<br />

3<br />

4<br />

5<br />

6<br />

YOUNG ALUMNI COCKTAIL PARTY: Classes of ‘93-‘03<br />

met for their annual holiday event at Nola’s in downtown<br />

Palo Alto 1 Michi Toll (SHP‘98), Caroline Abramson (SHP‘98), Darlene<br />

Moustirats (SHP‘98), and Kelley Clark (SHP‘98) 2 Mike Budelli<br />

(SHP‘97) and Rich Moustirats (SHP‘96) 3 Katie Fowler (SHP<br />

‘98)<br />

and John Benedict (SJSH‘94, SHP‘98) 4 Claire Pomeroy (SHP‘01),<br />

Pepa Paniagua (SHP‘01), and Laurie Cronin (SHP‘01) 5 Megan Heckmann<br />

(SHP‘97), Suzy Goodman (SHP‘97), and Jenny Pope (SHP‘97)<br />

6 Charles Lloyd (SHP‘01), Nick Wang (SHP‘01), and Peter Sachs<br />

(SHP‘01) 7 Ali Dwiggins (SHP‘01), Nick Moiseff (SHP‘01), and Emmi<br />

Gravie (SHP‘01) 8 Pablo Garces (SJSH‘96, SHP‘00), Alison Dyer<br />

(SHP‘01), and Ben Carson (SHP‘00) 9 Glynn Connelly (SHP‘00) and<br />

Catie Paton (SHP‘00) 10 Camille Konopnicki (SHP‘01), Victoria Wang<br />

(SHP‘01), Alicia Kemmer (SHP‘03), and Nicole Kukas (SHP‘01) 11<br />

Jesse (Chris Moy’s fi ancé), Jeff Jackson (SHP‘02), and Chris Moy<br />

(SHP‘00) COLLEGIATE ALUMNI COCKTAIL PARTY:<br />

7<br />

24 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


8 9<br />

Classes of ‘02-‘06 got together<br />

in the Black Box<br />

of the Campbell Theater<br />

12 Future alums ***** ******<br />

(SHP‘06), *********** ****, and<br />

**************** *****************<br />

********** (SHP‘06) 13 Kelsey<br />

Stallings (SHP‘05) and Rebecca<br />

Williamson (SJSH‘01, SHP‘05)<br />

14 Sarah Burke (SHP‘04),<br />

Catherine Burke (SHP‘02), SHP<br />

teacher Connie Solari, and Scott<br />

Norton (SHP‘01)<br />

11<br />

10<br />

12<br />

13<br />

14<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 25


Alumni Events<br />

1 2 3<br />

4<br />

GINGERBREAD HOUSE PARTY: SHS Alums and<br />

their families decorated 150 houses at two separate<br />

seatings and helped raise funds for our Alumni Scholarships.<br />

1 Daisy Pang and her grandson ******* ***** (1st grade)<br />

2 SJSH 6th graders (from L to R) ******* ******, ********** *******,<br />

********* **********, ********** ********, ******** *******, ******* *******,<br />

****** ********** 3 Preschooler **************** ********** with her<br />

mother Lynn 4 ****** (2nd grade) and ***** (Kindergarten) ***** 5<br />

5 ********* ******* (3rd grade) 6 Back: Mike Texido (SJSH‘80)<br />

and his sister Mary Texido Folsom (SJSH‘78, SHP‘82), with<br />

their mother Helen Texido. Front: ******************* and<br />

***************. 7 Alumni Board member Ellen Gallagher Par-<br />

sons and *********** *************************** (3rd grade)<br />

8 Mary Lucier Askins (SJSH‘79, SHP‘83), left, with her sister<br />

Anne Lucier Ashendorf (SJSH‘81), right, and Sr. Nancy Morris<br />

(former Director of <strong>Schools</strong>), center, with ************** *******<br />

*************************<br />

* ******** **************<br />

************ ************,<br />

front.<br />

6<br />

7<br />

8<br />

26 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


1950s<br />

Patricia Lynn Perry (SHPʻ56) is working<br />

as a high school teacher for the work<br />

experience program in the Campbell Union<br />

High School District.<br />

Lydia Dioli Cooper (SJSHʻ56, SHPʻ60),<br />

Charlie Troglio (SHPʻ56), and Sue Morey<br />

Mein (SJSHʻ56) are hard at work planning<br />

the SJSH 50th Reunion for May 20, <strong>2006</strong>.<br />

To join in the fun, please contact them via<br />

the SHS Alumni Office or email Lydia at<br />

ldioli@yahoo.com.<br />

Patricia<br />

Lynn<br />

Perry<br />

(SHP<br />

‘56)<br />

“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> memories<br />

are of the Mothers of the <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> taking me under their wings and<br />

tutoring me academically when I fi rst arrived<br />

on campus for high school. That<br />

experience inspired me, and now that<br />

I’m a teacher, I take that same approach<br />

with the slower learners in my class.<br />

1960s<br />

Celeste Smith (SHPʻ67) has worked for<br />

36 years in dentistry as a professional relations<br />

coordinator. She is now living in Seattle<br />

and studying real estate. In her spare<br />

time she is mentoring women in transition.<br />

THREE GENERATIONS of <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> students gather for a<br />

photo shoot: Kathy Keogh Berra<br />

(SHP‘63), ******** ******* (SJSH<br />

2020), Dave Barry, Elaine Berra<br />

Barry (SHP‘87), ******* ***** (SJSH<br />

2019), and Rich Berra<br />

1970s<br />

Taun Costentino Relihan (SHPʻ70) is<br />

living in Palo Alto and has one son in college.<br />

From her days at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong>, she<br />

fondly remembers “coming in from the cold<br />

morning, and seeing all the freshly polished<br />

wood and smelling the lemony smell of<br />

wax.” After finishing her PhD several years<br />

ago, Taun has taught special education in<br />

high schools and has been a case manager.<br />

She would love to hear from other alumnae<br />

at: Aestheteye@aol.com.<br />

A VISIT FROM EL SALVADOR:<br />

Theresa Escalon de Morales<br />

(SHP‘55), second<br />

from right, visits<br />

campus with her<br />

two daughters<br />

and her grandson<br />

Class Notes<br />

Daniel Dalessandro (SJSHʻ72) is living<br />

in Cathedral City, California.<br />

Carol Jones McGee (SHPʻ74) is living<br />

in the Sacramento area and teaching middle<br />

school history and math. She and her husband<br />

Joe have two grown sons.<br />

Martha Novy Broderick (SHPʻ76) is<br />

working as an attorney and a law professor.<br />

She lives on a lake in Maine and has<br />

three daughters. She would love to hear<br />

from her old playmates from 30 years ago at<br />

marthab@maine.edu.<br />

Suzanne Hill-Forcier (SHPʻ77) is living<br />

in San Diego, where she and her husband<br />

Mike have owned and operated San Diego<br />

Limo Buses and Limousines for 20 years.<br />

She has three sons, one of whom is a quarterback<br />

at the University of Michigan. She<br />

will celebrate her 25th wedding anniversary<br />

this October.<br />

John Haile (SJSHʻ78) writes that he is<br />

living in Seattle and managing a software<br />

company. He would love to hear from other<br />

alumni.<br />

Celeste Smith<br />

(SHP‘67)<br />

“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

memories are of spending warm<br />

afternoons on Palm Court and singing<br />

in the Little Theater. The heavy<br />

red velvet drapes and the dark wood<br />

of the benches are still vibrant in my<br />

mind. I would slip away to sing my<br />

favorite Moon River<br />

when no one<br />

was around. On one occasion after<br />

lunch Mother Dilling noticed my exit onto Palm Court and<br />

followed me down to the Little Theater. She ushered me off<br />

to Latin class, because even though she too loved music,<br />

studies came fi rst.<br />

Photo courtesy of Hilary McMahon<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 27


Class Notes<br />

1980s<br />

Wendi Hunter Mangiantini (SHPʻ80) is<br />

living in Atherton and married Mike Mangiantini<br />

in July. The reception was held at the home<br />

of her sister, Elizabeth Hunter Kerrigan<br />

(SJSHʻ78, SHPʻ82). Also in attendance were<br />

Aida Jones (SHPʻ80), Ann McGraw Morrical<br />

(SHPʻ81), and her sisters Julene Hunter<br />

(SHPʻ78), Mary Hunter Leman (SJSHʻ83),<br />

and her brother John Hunter (SJSHʻ80).<br />

Michelle Foster (SHPʻ80, SJSHʻ76) is living<br />

in the Los Angeles area.<br />

Kelly Stokes Allegretti (SHPʻ82) attended<br />

Santa Clara University and graduated in accounting.<br />

While in college she met her husband,<br />

whom she married in 1987. For several<br />

years she worked for Arthur Young, a “big 8”<br />

accounting firm. Now she is CFO of Allegretti<br />

and Company, her family-owned business. She<br />

and Joe have three children: Adriana (15), Anthony<br />

(13), and Melanie (11). They live in the<br />

Los Angeles area.<br />

Clare Tuma (SJSHʻ82) is currently working<br />

as a financial advisor at Merrill Lynch in<br />

Menlo Park. She graduated from<br />

Cornell University with a BA in<br />

History and Government, and<br />

then received an MBA at NYU<br />

in Finance and Accounting. She<br />

In<br />

Memorium<br />

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will appear in our summer<br />

issue. If you learn of the<br />

death of an SHS Atherton<br />

alumnus, please send<br />

the information, inluding<br />

newspaper clippings, to:<br />

alumni@shschools.org<br />

OR<br />

Alumni Offi ce<br />

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INTRODUCING Paedrin<br />

Makena Gillette, daughter<br />

of Erin Rosenburg Gillette<br />

(SHP‘90)<br />

has fond memories of her great teachers<br />

at St. Josephʼs, especially Mrs. Speiker,<br />

Mrs. Burdick and Mr. Rose.<br />

Sue Chang (SHPʻ85) has recently<br />

moved back to the Bay<br />

Area from Seoul, where she<br />

worked as the bureau chief for<br />

Dow Jones Newswires. She is at<br />

UC Berkeleyʼs Graduate School<br />

of Journalism as a visiting scholar. She<br />

is married with a 12-year-old daughter<br />

and a 10-year-old son.<br />

1990s<br />

Erin Rosenburg Gillette (SHPʻ90)<br />

and her husband Kevin welcomed their<br />

first child, Paedrin Makena Gillette on<br />

December 23, 2004.<br />

Thank Nguyen (SJSHʻ87, SHPʻ91)<br />

is living in Minneapolis and has just<br />

completed his General Surgery residency.<br />

He will remain in Minnesota<br />

while he trains for an additional two<br />

years in Transplant Surgery at the University<br />

of Minnesota.<br />

David McMillan (SHPʻ91) is<br />

working at Stanford as a computer administrator<br />

for the Education for the<br />

Gifted Youth program. He has worked<br />

there for almost 10 years. He does all<br />

of his travel on his recumbent bike. In<br />

his spare time David works for several<br />

volunteer organizations including<br />

CLASSMATES Celeste Smith (SHP‘67),<br />

Mary Keith Roberts (SHP‘67), Chris<br />

Lussier Dyer (SHE‘63, SHP‘67), and Gail<br />

Hughmanick Alberti (SHE‘62) get together<br />

“Friends of the Ventana Wilderness” where<br />

he is known for his trail breaking work.<br />

Tom Schubin (SHPʻ94) is living in Rancho<br />

Cordova with his wife Cassie. He is currently<br />

working as a private investigator for a<br />

national agency that combates compensation<br />

and disability fraud. He would love to hear<br />

from any of his classmates.<br />

Melissa Prichard<br />

(SHP‘66)<br />

Melissa was recently named Director of Creative<br />

Partnerships at the Daywalka Foundation,<br />

an organization dedicated to stopping human<br />

trafficking in Nepal, India, and Bangladesh.<br />

Melissa has taken on this volunteer position in<br />

addition to her other responsibilities, including<br />

teaching full-time at ASU, mentoring graduate<br />

students, co-judging the PEN/Faulkner Award,<br />

writing a biography of philanthropist Virginia G.<br />

Piper, and writing short stories.<br />

“Within Daywalka, I work on the Kalam project,<br />

where we teach poetry writing workshops<br />

to children in the brothel districts,” said Melissa.<br />

“My job is to create partnerships with artistic and<br />

creative organizations that can help us with this<br />

work. I intend also to travel as a spokesperson<br />

for Daywalka and to make a documentary film or<br />

films about Kalam’s evolving work with children<br />

born into brothels, and the very young women<br />

who are illegally trafficked and sold into sexual<br />

enslavement.” In January, Melissa took her first<br />

outreach trip, traveling to Nepal and India with a<br />

small delegation of Daywalka donors and board<br />

members.<br />

“Human trafficking is a global epidemic, third<br />

only in illegal trade after drugs and weapons,”<br />

said Melissa. “Although Daywalka currently<br />

works in Nepal and India, the Foundation intends<br />

to expand into Mexico, South America,<br />

Europe, Africa, and North America.”<br />

And how does Melissa find the time and energy<br />

for all this work “My energy comes from my<br />

passion for this issue,” said Melissa. “If you are<br />

passionate about the things you choose to do in<br />

life, you may be a bit tired and overwhelmed at<br />

times, but you are always engaged, aware, and<br />

alive in the highest sense.”<br />

Photos courtesy of Brandon Sullivan<br />

(left) and Zuzana Sadkova (right)<br />

28 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


#3<br />

Jen OʼNeal (SHPʻ97) lives in San Francisco<br />

#2<br />

and works in marketing for StubHub.com.<br />

Elaine Maneatis (SHPʻ97) attended<br />

UCSD and graduated in History in ʻ01. She<br />

completed her teaching credential at Notre<br />

Dame and is teaching grade school in Los<br />

Altos. She was married in the summer of<br />

2004.<br />

#1<br />

Chris OʼNeal (SHPʻ98) completed her<br />

Masters of Arts in Diplomacy and International<br />

Commerce at the University of Kentucky.<br />

She is now working for the Department<br />

of Homeland Security. To<br />

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difference to the school. If we can get 100% alumni participation, outside<br />

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Heather Brady (SJSH<br />

ʻ94, SHPʻ98) sends word<br />

that she is working for the<br />

Big Sur Land Trust as their<br />

Stewardship Coordinator in<br />

Carmel, California.<br />

Craig Haubrich (SHPʻ98)<br />

graduated in May from the<br />

University of Arizona with a<br />

Masters degree in Public Ad-<br />

DINNER IN SF (above): Front: Christine Kwan (SHP‘82), Cindy<br />

Lau (SHP‘82), Hila Kwon (SHP‘84, Visiting from LA) and<br />

Veronica Tsang (SHP‘85, Visiting from LA). Back: Janet Cheung<br />

Wong (SHP‘85) and Yolanda Yung (SHP‘84, Visiting from<br />

Hong Kong).GREETINGS FROM HONG KONG! (below) Front:<br />

Jacqueline Guteriez (SHP‘82), Charlotte Chang (SHP‘81), Abby<br />

Mac (SHP‘83, Visiting from Toronto), and Angela Law (SHP‘84).<br />

Back: Karen Ting (SHP‘83), Yolanda Yung (SHP‘84), Evelyn Lu<br />

(SHP‘84), and Wanda Ngan (SHP‘83).<br />

ministration. He lives in Tuscon where he is<br />

the Assistant Director of Alumni Clubs with<br />

the University of Arizona Alumni Association.<br />

He has many fond memories of his senior year<br />

house-building trip to Tijuana through SHP.<br />

Mary Judson Bennett (SHPʻ98) was<br />

married to Bradley Bennett on September<br />

17, 2005. Christy Hiller Myronowicz<br />

(SHPʻ98), Michelle Cummings (SHPʻ98),<br />

and Jennifer Judson (SHPʻ00) were bridesmaids.<br />

Jeremy Miller (SHPʻ96) served as<br />

a groomsman.<br />

Aziz Sayigh (SJSH ʻ99, SHPʻ03), a junior<br />

Kelly Stokes<br />

Allegretti (SHP‘82)<br />

“My fondest <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> memory<br />

is of<br />

times spent with Donna<br />

Gilboa. During my<br />

daughter’s high school<br />

years, I have come to<br />

see how important it<br />

is to have someone<br />

who believes in you—<br />

someone in addition to<br />

your parents. Donna<br />

Gilboa was that person<br />

for me. She believed in my abilities and intellect.<br />

She challenged and encouraged me. She gave<br />

me a sense of confi dence in myself. She helped<br />

shape me into who I am today. I came to <strong>Sacred</strong><br />

<strong>Heart</strong> a shy young girl; I left a confi dent, capable<br />

young woman.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 29


Class Notes<br />

FAMILY SHOT (left): Kelly Stokes Allegretti (SHP’82),<br />

left, with her husband and children GATOR VS. GATOR<br />

(below): At a varsity water polo game, Princeton’s #12,<br />

Douglas Wigley (SHP‘05), plays against UCLA’s #24, Carter<br />

Brutschy (SHP‘04). The final score: UCLA 14, Princeton 6<br />

at Dartmouth, helped the Big Green rugby<br />

team reach the Northeast RFU finals by scoring<br />

a try in a 17-10 victory over Buffalo in<br />

the semifinals in Amherst, MA. That put No.<br />

8 Dartmouth in the finals against No. 3 Army.<br />

Despite a 60-yard by Sayigh for his teamʼs<br />

only try, the Big Green fell in the finals, 37<br />

to 7.<br />

The Andersons’ Legacy of Giving<br />

he Art Corridor was a<br />

“Treal gift to me as an<br />

art teacher,” recalls former<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> art teacher<br />

Janet Whitchurch. “Walking<br />

by the paintings and prints<br />

every day was an ideal way<br />

for my students to learn<br />

about and appreciate what<br />

the artists were trying to do.<br />

We had repeated trips to<br />

the corridor and I was able<br />

to talk with my students<br />

about the art. This was all<br />

vastly superior to a onetime<br />

trip to an art gallery<br />

show or museum!”<br />

During the 1970s, Mary<br />

Margaret (“Moo”) and Harry<br />

(“Hunk”) Anderson, parents<br />

of Mary Patricia (“Putter”)<br />

Anderson Pence (SJSH‘73,<br />

SHP‘77), provided a rotating display of important works of art from<br />

their collection. As <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> students walked down the hall<br />

of the Main Building, they passed pieces by such pivotal American<br />

artists as Jackson Pollock, Willem de Kooning, Franz Kline,<br />

Clifford Still and Mark Rothko.<br />

“As a student keenly interested and aware of contemporary art,<br />

I thought it was a huge privilege to have that art available to me at<br />

any time,” recalls Julene Hunter (SHP‘78). The Andersons were<br />

right on the cutting edge of art, collecting works of abstract expressionism,<br />

color-fi eld painting, pop art, minimalism, photo-realism<br />

and geometric abstraction at a time when most people had<br />

Taress Reyering (SHPʻ99) is currently<br />

pursuing a Masters degree from Sciences-<br />

Politiques in Paris, France where she is<br />

studying Trans-Atlantic Relations. She plans<br />

to conduct a cross-cultural study of Language<br />

no idea what these styles<br />

were.<br />

The Anderson Collection<br />

is one of the most outstanding<br />

private collections of<br />

20th Century Art, numbering<br />

over 800 pieces. In 2000,<br />

the San Francisco Museum<br />

of Modern Art presented<br />

Celebrating Modern Art:<br />

The Anderson Collection, a<br />

comprehensive retrospective<br />

exhibition that occupied<br />

the entire museum.<br />

Educating and exposing<br />

the public to contemporary<br />

art has long been a passion<br />

for the couple, and their<br />

commitment to educating<br />

<strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> students has<br />

continued long after the<br />

graduation of their daughter<br />

Putter. For the grand opening of the Campbell Center for the Performing<br />

Arts in January 2005, the Andersons loaned SHS Larry<br />

SHP AP ART STUDENTS ****** ***********, ******** *******, *****<br />

************, ****** ******, and SHP Art Teacher Peggy O’Leary<br />

with Elie Nadelman’s sculpture entitled Man in the Open Air<br />

at the Andersons’ private home in Atherton<br />

Politics and Identity between the US and several<br />

European countries. Before heading to<br />

Paris, Taress had been studying at the University<br />

of North Carolina.<br />

Lauren Mang (SHPʻ99) is working for<br />

Poons’ #15. In September, #15 was replaced by Tom Holland’s<br />

Berkeley Series #104. In addition to these generous loans on<br />

campus, the Andersons continue to invite groups of <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong><br />

art students into their private home to view works of art.<br />

This article was written by Sheryl Nonnenberg, Library Assistant<br />

in the SHS Lucas Family Library. Ms. Nonnenberg was the curatorial<br />

associate and collection manager for the Anderson Collection<br />

from 1994 to 1999.<br />

30 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


Christieʼs Galleries in New York. Her photograph,<br />

“New York at Night” recently appeared<br />

in the New York Sun newspaper, where<br />

it was chosen to announce the 5th annual Insider<br />

Art exhibition for Christieʼs Galleries in<br />

Rockefeller Plaza.<br />

2000s<br />

Ben Fleisher (SHPʻ00) is living in Boulder<br />

and working as an EMT for Pridemark<br />

Paramedic. He is still working as a SCUBA<br />

and CPR/ First Aid Instructor.<br />

Rebecca Zigterman (SHPʻ00) lives in<br />

Lafayette, Colorado, and is managing the<br />

RE/MAX real estate office there.<br />

Laurie Cronin (SHPʻ01) just graduated<br />

from the University of San Diego with high<br />

honors in Political Science and French and a<br />

minor in Peace and Justice. Currently, she is<br />

studying law at USF in San Francisco. She is<br />

thrilled to be back in the Bay Area.<br />

Sara Griner (SHPʻ01) recently graduated<br />

from the University of Oregon and is<br />

currently on scholarship to attend Florida<br />

State/Asolo Conservatory for professional<br />

actor training.<br />

Jeff Jackson (SHPʻ02) is completing an<br />

internship in the political section of the U.S.<br />

Mission to the United Nations, where he has<br />

been working on security affairs in the East<br />

Asia Pacific and in Europe.<br />

Christopher Sartor (SHPʻ03) is attending<br />

Orange Coast Community College and<br />

studying Business and Finance. He has many<br />

memories about a class trip to Ashland and<br />

“can you hear a tree fall in the forest, or next<br />

to a bridge, or a road” Recently Christopher<br />

took a road trip to visit fellow alums Eric<br />

“Hoss” Van Resselaer (SHPʻ03) and Marissa<br />

Dacay (SHPʻ03).<br />

Stephanie Neidig (SJSHʻ00, SHPʻ04),<br />

a sophomore at Princeton University, is a<br />

member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority and<br />

a photographer for The Daily Princetonian.<br />

This fall she ran for office to become a Director<br />

of El Dorado Countyʼs Community District<br />

Board.<br />

Laura McKenna (SJSHʻ05) is now living<br />

in Lake Forest, Illinois with her parents<br />

and brother Michael.<br />

Brandon Child (SHP‘04)<br />

laying water polo at the Division One level has been an<br />

“Peye-opening experience,” said Brandon Child (SHP‘04).<br />

“I never really understood the amount of work it would take<br />

until I myself was in the water getting yelled at by three different<br />

coaches to speed up on what seemed like a never-ending<br />

amount of swimming and leg sets.”<br />

Obviously, those practices are paying off big-time. A sophomore<br />

on the USC water polo team, Brandon scored seven goals for the<br />

Trojans in his first season, and in his second season achieved a<br />

team-high of four goals in one game, helping his team win the 2005<br />

NCAA Championship. But scoring points isn’t the most important<br />

thing to Brandon. “While the topic of individual goals scored represents<br />

personal achievement to some, for me it is really unimportant<br />

as long as my team is successful in the end,” said Brandon. “On<br />

our team we really have enough scorers, and although my position<br />

as hole man is traditionally an offensive position, I have tried to<br />

concentrate on setting other players up, and being a defensive force.”<br />

During his years at SHP, Brandon thrived on the Gators water polo team, earning such accolades<br />

as All-America second team honors, All-Central Coast Section first team honors, and<br />

all-league first team honors. “The team experience I had at <strong>Sacred</strong> <strong>Heart</strong> was unlike anything<br />

I have ever experienced,” said Brandon. “We were all super good friends and remain so to<br />

this day.” Now times have changed a bit, and Brandon says he feels shocked when he looks<br />

up in the weight<br />

room and sees athletic<br />

super-stars like<br />

Matt Leinart or Reggie<br />

Bush working<br />

out next to him.<br />

Just as he balanced<br />

athletic and<br />

academic excellence<br />

at SHP (earning<br />

honors as a<br />

National Merit Commended<br />

Scholar),<br />

Brandon has kept<br />

this equilibrium at<br />

USC, with his major<br />

in Mechanical Engineering. “The schedule combination is difficult, fitting in classes and labs<br />

between daily morning practices, daily afternoon practices, and lifting weights three times<br />

a week.”<br />

And his advice for Gator athletes as they look toward college “When examining your<br />

college options, imagine you get hurt and are unable to play. Then make your decision,”<br />

said Brandon. “There are so many outside factors with collegiate athletics, so just make sure<br />

you don’t choose a school simply because of athletics, but because it is a place you can see<br />

yourself successful and happy for the next four years.”<br />

BRIDE Mary Judson Bennett (SHP‘98), center, with her husband<br />

Bradley and the wedding party, including Christy Hiller Myronowicz<br />

(SHP‘98), far left; Michelle Cummings (SHP‘98), fourth from left;<br />

Jennifer Judson (SHP‘01), to the right of the groom; and Jeremy Miller<br />

(SHP‘96), third from right.<br />

The <strong>Heart</strong> of the Matter 31


Sports Beat<br />

Girls’ Tennis Team<br />

WCAL Champions<br />

The SHP Girlsʼ Varsity Tennis team had an impressive season,<br />

winning the West Catholic Athletic League (WCAL)<br />

championship for the second time in a row! “The team has practiced<br />

hard and played hard<br />

ABOVE & BEYOND (right):<br />

throughout the season,” said<br />

SHP Freshman **********<br />

Coach Losaline Mafileo. “I ********* makes the pass.<br />

am proud of their amazing CHAMPIONS’ CELEBRAaccomplishments.”<br />

TION (below): *************<br />

Two of the talented players ***************** ************<br />

***************** *************<br />

on the team went undefeated<br />

this season: sophomore Haley<br />

Hemm (23-0) and junior<br />

Samantha Rosekrans (22-0).<br />

In addition, Rosekrans was<br />

named Girlsʼ Tennis Player<br />

of the Year by the San Jose<br />

Mercury News.<br />

SJSH Softball<br />

Thrives<br />

The SJSH Eighth Grade Varsity A Softball<br />

team had a great season this year, making it<br />

all the way to the league championship game. Mr.<br />

Peter Florkiewicz (middle school science teacher)<br />

coached the team, assisted by SHP students Jesse<br />

Zigterman and Claire Habig.<br />

Four of the players on the team also participated<br />

in the league All-Star Game: Chantal Morgan,<br />

Lizzy Weisman, Haley Gordon and Sarah<br />

Heslin. Congratulations to our exceptional softball<br />

players!<br />

Rising Polo Stars<br />

Despite their youth, the SHPʼs Boysʼ Varsity Water Polo<br />

team (with only four seniors) had an outstanding season,<br />

winning the SHP Invitational Championship and going<br />

all the way to the Central Coast Section (CCS) Div. II finals.<br />

One highlight of the season was the Gatorsʼ impressive<br />

victory over Menlo-Atherton High School at the SHP Invitational<br />

(8-7), where goalie Alex Dunlevie blocked 11 shots.<br />

At the end of the season, the team defeated Palo Alto High<br />

School 8-2 in the first round of the CCS playoffs. They then<br />

defeated Los Altos High School 10-9, to earn a trip to the<br />

CCS Championship game.<br />

Coach Brian Kreutzkamp said, “It is wonderful to coach<br />

some of the best young players in the Bay Area.” Some of<br />

the players on the team have represented on the national<br />

level, including the USA Cadet Team and U.S. National Development<br />

Team.<br />

VICTORIOUS! ********** ******** ***************<br />

***************** ************ *********** **********<br />

CATCHER<br />

*******<br />

*********<br />

went all the<br />

way to the<br />

league All-<br />

Star Game<br />

32 <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2006</strong>


Calendar of<br />

Alumni Events:<br />

Saturday, April 1<br />

SHS Auction: “Under the Tuscan Sun”<br />

From the Archives<br />

Friday, April 28<br />

Parents of Alumni “Mad Hatter”<br />

Luncheon<br />

Thursday, May 18<br />

St. Madeleine Sophie Mass:<br />

All-school liturgy<br />

Saturday, May 20<br />

St. Josephʼs Centennial Celebration:<br />

11am Carnival, 2pm Class Reunions,<br />

4:15pm Mass<br />

Thursday, June 1<br />

SJSH Alumni Pinning Ceremony, 10am<br />

SHP Alumni Pinning Ceremony, 5pm<br />

SHP Graduation, 6pm<br />

Friday, June 9<br />

SJSH Graduation, 10am<br />

Saturday, October 14<br />

Reunion for all alumni, plus class reunions<br />

for class years ending in 1 and 6<br />

For event details, contact us at<br />

650-473-3280 or alumni@shschools.org<br />

Above photo: Joanne White, Jackie Welte, Coleen Craft, and Reta Walker<br />

on the northeast side of the old St. Josephʼs Building in 1954, the year of its demolition<br />

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