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Underlying Reasons for the Persistence of Female Genital Mutilation

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three or four years old when her grandmo<strong>the</strong>r took her to Ngariba to have her undergo FGM. She<br />

explained that when she was growing up every girl she knew had undergone some <strong>for</strong>m <strong>of</strong><br />

female circumcision, it was a norm in <strong>the</strong> society. In Fatima case her grandmo<strong>the</strong>r was <strong>the</strong> one<br />

who wanted her to be circumcised in order to be able to get married and fulfil her duties as a<br />

woman. When Fatima was 13 her grandmo<strong>the</strong>r wanted her to marry a man whom she did not<br />

know. She chose not to go through with this and she ran away to Babati, where her parents live.<br />

However her mo<strong>the</strong>r is ill and her fa<strong>the</strong>r is not present, <strong>the</strong>re<strong>for</strong>e she is taken care <strong>of</strong> by <strong>the</strong><br />

Muslim orphanage. When asking about <strong>the</strong> health consequences, she did not have any<br />

complications. However, what she remembered about <strong>the</strong> procedure was that she had pain <strong>for</strong><br />

about a month, and she could not walk or stand properly. The only discom<strong>for</strong>t she experiences<br />

today is <strong>the</strong> she feels different from o<strong>the</strong>r girls that have not been circumcised in <strong>the</strong> community<br />

she currently lives in.<br />

After <strong>the</strong> interview I recall asking Fatima what she wanted to be when she grows up, she told me<br />

that first she wanted to go to school to become a teacher. She felt strongly about being <strong>for</strong>ced to<br />

get married in such an early age and she wishes that women had more rights in deciding what<br />

<strong>the</strong>y want to do with <strong>the</strong>ir lives. She said that by having an education and given <strong>the</strong> ability to<br />

choose when to get married and who to marry, she would never feel inferior to men.<br />

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