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274 Taoist Secrets Of Love
THE CERVIX
At the end of the vaginal canal is the cervix, the neck of the uterus.
Most sexologists agree that women have little sensation beyond the
first (outer) third of the vagina. However, many women strongly
disagree saying that they experience terrific pleasure with deep
thrusts at the back of the vagina in the area of the cervix and many
women feel pleasurable contractions of the uterus during orgasm.
The perineum is the skin from the vaginal opening to the anus.
The anus is a sexual orifice for some women, and quite taboo
sexually for others. Those women who enjoy anal sex usually prefer
lots of lubrication such as, K-Y or spermicidal jelly, to reduce
irritation and discomfort to these delicate mucous surfaces. Also,
for hygiene, men are discouraged from putting their finger or penis
in the vagina directly from the anus.
LOVE MUSCLE
Below the surface level of the visible genitalia is the figure-eight
pubococcygeal (P-C) or "love" muscle. The P-C muscle encircles
the urethra, vagina and anus. A well-exercised P-C muscle is considered
by some sexologists to be the key to healthy sexual functioning
for both men and women. Poor muscle tone leads to sexual
difficulties as well as other physiological problems, such as difficulty
in childbirth and urinary incontinence. In fact, the first person
to understand the importance of good P-C tone taught exercises
to women in preparation for childbirth. His name, Kegel, is
still associated with these exercises.
Men and women can test their P-C muscle by starting and
stopping a stream of urine and then starting it again. This ability is
due solely to P-C muscle tone. Many women have found on their
own the pleasure they can get for themselves and give to their men
by squeezing this muscle. It is in the vagina, and many women
have become quite dextrous at this.
SEXUAL RESPONSE CYCLE
Women's sexual response was described by Masters and Johnson
as being in four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolu-