[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

Students Experiences 215
between them. I realize that even when I had been a superb lover,
at the end of the act I always felt insufficient. Ejaculation forced
me to stop making love whether or not desire continued.
When I first began to practice with Master Chia, I immediately
recognized the immense value of his teaching. This was
surely to be the most important thing I had learned to this point in
my life. At first, it was not very pleasant to do the muscular contractions
and I was a little embarrassed. But since I made love to
one partner who cared very much for me, my embarrassment
quickly faded. She really wanted to help me accomplish my goal.
This is so important.
I cannot urge too strongly other students of Taoist cultivation
to stick to one loving partner. There is so much more to know in
one good soul than in 50 good bodies. The adventure and variety of
experience that comes from diving into the soul of another person
is incomparably superior. After all, the body, like all material
things, exists on one plane. The depths of the human soul, however
offer multiple worlds to explore, the one more fascinating than the
next. The analogy in the physical world is that playboy never really
moves from that hick town called the body; whereas, the faithful
lover may travel vast continents of hidden worlds within.
When I began to practice Sexual Kung Fu it was somewhat
awkward at first. I had to concentrate on these seemingly unnatural
movements and this deprived me of the small degree of freedom I
had already attained in my ordinary, good old, down home loving.
But I persisted and everything quickly became much easier. I
found I could soon abandon the Hard Contractions, which most
seemed to disrupt the smooth harmony of the act. I did this when I
had learned to calm down to a certain degree. After that I had to
use the Big Draw for several months to keep calm enough to hold
the seed. However the Big Draw didn't disturb me or my partner's
delight. Over the course of months, I have attained to virtually
effortless control of the seminal fluid.
Just after entering I still must sometimes consciously cool off
due to the initial stimulation. After that I have no difficulty holding
the seed with the sheer strength of my thought. I rythmically inhale
the power and exhale it to my partner. I am always sure to give her
more than I take. There are certain times when it is more desirable
to maximize the exchange, others when I prefer to lessen it. These
things must be learned for oneself and are intensely personal.