[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

204 Taoist Secrets Of Love
19. Could you summarize the advantage of the Taoist total
body orgasm over a loving normal sex orgasm with ejaculation?
Chia: A total orgasm of the body and mind might be described
as a showering of nectar from the head, running down your insides
like a springtime shower. It is unmistakable. It is a wave of subtle
chi energy that breaks up muscle armoring, releases nerve and
lymphatic tension, and opens up hidden powers of feeling. You feel
like a new born baby, only instead of experiencing your rebirth as a
baby does—as unconscious bliss—you are very adult and conscious.
The weight of the world is there, but suddenly it becomes
lighter than a feather.
This feeling of lightness hanpens because the heavy fluid of
your sperm-seed has successfully been transmuted into a light-seed
which nourishes your higher consciousness. You feel happy deep
inside because you know you have found the path home. You are
not weighted by yourself or your lover. This is different from a
genital orgasm, which is usually followed by either a heavy sleep as
the body attempts to recover energy lost or by a still anxious mind
that asks: "What next?" With genital orgasm the body is relaxed,
but the mind and spirit are not; they are still hungry for nourishment
of subtle energy because the polarity between lovers is not
complete.
20. Could you explain in detail what happens when you reach
the point of no return during an orgasm?
Chia: The curve of sexual arousal in both men and women but
especially for men (because women have a greater capacity to
maintain a plateau) is to have a gradual (or rapid) arousal, a short
plateau and then a rapid and sudden fall off and that's it ... The
Big Bang Theory. Taoist cultivation teaches you to use the Steady
State theory, which is continuous expansion and contraction of yin
and yang during a series of "valley" orgasms. The Big Bang
theory, currently in vogue as the cosmological theory of the Universe,
has as its roots the sexual desires of the western male scientist.
Now, the plateau can be likened to a "primal zone", that is an
experience of primal time and space. Minutes may seem like hours;
however you choose to define it. It is what psychologists call an
altered state of consciousness. Women seem more capable than
men of extending this plateau. Beyond that there is a critical point
of no return and then the "fall off." The plateau can last anywhere