[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

Commonly Asked Questions 201
you will receive. If you selfishly refuse to surrender the yang to
your partner, you can absorb little energy from her. Thus, attempts
at selfish use of the Big Draw will lead to failure. Their only effect
of trying would be to deeply imbalance oneself mentally and spiritually.
Likewise, generous and compassionate use of the method
guarantees the fullest flow of invigorating energy from your partner.
This "Fail-Safe" aspect of the method not only prevents serious
abuse of one's partner, but the natural law of the Tao will
ultimately mete out an equal punishment to one who tries to take
advantage of his lover. Taoists agree with the Bible here: "As ye
give, so shall ye receive."
Secondly, when you draw up power you inhale mainly the
energy of your own sexual centers. During the act of love the
hundreds of millions of sperm cells swim about frantically in their
desire to get out of you and into the egg. Their motion creates a
high electromagnetic charge in the semen. In this way your lover
stimulates you to produce and concentrate your own energy, which
you move to higher centers with the big Draw.
Finally, a major part of the energy you draw from the lover
would leave her body at any event as a result of sexual stimulation.
If you did not absorb it, the power would dissipate into the atmosphere.
By suppressing your ejaculation and your partner's
orgasm, both lovers lose much less energy than they would in
conventional sex. By following the Big Draw Method both effectively
absorb some of the energy the other releases instead of letting
it blow away.
15. After practicing dual cultivation for a while, how do you
feel when you ejaculate again?
Chia: When you begin to meditate and cultivate your sexual
energy and engage in various Taoist exercises, you notice immediately
what happens when you ejaculate. There's an immediate
feedback in what happens to your energy level. You feel emptied,
weakened, sometimes enough to temporarily depress you. The
same feeling prior to doing Taoist practices you might have called
"pleasant fatigue"; now the loss begins to feel painful on a psychic
level, as you are accustomed to living at a higher standard of chi
energy. In actual sex, in ejaculation the energy loss is very apparent
and very obvious.
16. How are the eyes used in Sexual Kung Fu practice?