[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

182 Taoist Secrets Of Love
But when a man begins to cultivate his seed, he can do it day
and night if he has the discipline. His body will speed up production
of its seed. This permits a man to cultivate his chi more rapidly
than the woman, who is bound to a slower monthly cycle. This is
why many of the gurus and masters are male. The other reason is
that women by nature are yin, and thus closer to Emptiness. They
simply don't feel as strong a compulsion to pursue such a yang,
expansive goal of teaching outwardly. Women have a different
journey.
But this is also the very heart of man's fascination with
woman and with her orgasm, which is a kind of inward teaching for
the male adept subtle enough to learn from her. The female orgasm
is an inward explosion—or implosion—of her yin essence. In the
valley orgasm man can experience this imploding yin energy in his
different Tan Tiens as a fusion, a kind of meltdown. Yin represents
earth energy, or physical matter. What happens during her orgasm
is that the very structure of her body is vibrating and imploding,
and by harmonising your energy with hers you are opened up to a
new and polar opposite experience of your body. The woman's
wisdom is that if you go deep into the earth, your body, it will lift
you into heaven. It's an initiation into an inner mystery of being
that women are empowered to give men, but can't bestow without
an infusion of male energy as a catalyst.
Lovers who have no esoteric model to guide their path sometimes
gain glimpses of this meltdown state when they languish in a
kind of sweet trance after love-making and their energies fuse in a
spontaneous valley orgasm. Their bodies may feel transparent, or
they may feel like they are floating; sounds arrive with a tinkling
crystal clarity, and colors in the room seem brighter, as if freshly
washed. This is an altered state of consciousness in which they are
perceiving with purity and directness the primal unity of the natural
world.
The goal of Taoist cultivation is to sustain and intensify that
state, in which the separateness we ordinarily feel is dissolved and
integrated into a higher reality. A higher orgasm of our mind and
body magically moves us closer to the original chi which exists
everywhere. The pure fusion of the yin and yang subtle energies in
the microcosm of our body reminds us that the same is happening
in the macrocosm—that the sun and the moon and earth and the
Milky Way literally make love with one another. The planets at-