[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

166 Taoist Secrets Of Love
Otherwise, there's nothing to fear from sex—it's part of you,
you're born and die with it, it gives warmth and power to human
love and is charged with the same polar forces as the rest of the
universe. In fact this path of cultivation is called "White Magic"
by some Taoists, as it teaches people how to reach a pure polarity
by balancing their yin and yang. Even my master's name, "White
Cloud", taken from this sacred mountain in China where he lived
reflects this teaching. There are other powerful paths that focus
more strongly on the yang or yin energy, but I find them more
risky. Some people criticize the use of sex as a "red" yoga, but
they are confusing this color with the fire energy of passion. In dual
cultivation you mix equally the white and the red, his seed and her
blood, mind and passion, the primal man and woman, the yang and
the yin. From that you alchemically distill a neutral essence, a
precious elixir that is without color, with the power to transform
your soul into an immortal spirit and body. This elixir is made of
refined chi and ching and spirit and takes years to prepare properly.
No saint or guru or king is born without reproductive organs.
So everyone born man has to go through the male stage of sexual
development. How fast and what kind of method he uses to pass
through it differs, but he will experience sexual arousement, erection
and ejaculation. If he can pass this worldly stage quickly,
perhaps he can become a monk, a saint, Master or Guru. Or perhaps
he will choose to remain an "ordinary" person in the world.
Many of the high Taoist masters keep a low profile and do
their work silently. If you met them you would not think them
extraordinary unless you were aware enough to sense the serenity
about them. Their energy is like a gentle breeze waving across the
room, touching everyone in a special way. In Taoist cultivation the
man and woman meditate together. They use the natural human
sexual urge as a bridge to higher consciousness. Taoism provides
techniques to help a man to master his sexual impulse, so that he is
free to choose the way of life he prefers. The alternate is to be a
slave to animal instincts or sexual frustration. No matter how
deeply these may be buried, they will find a way to surface if left
unattended.