[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

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we stay together if he's feeling totally in control, and that's wonderful.
MW: What's the response amongst other women doing
Ovarian Kung Fu?
Student: Generally it's good, they like doing it. Most women I
talk to tend to think they had it all together before.
MW: I've heard that a lot also. Is that a common reaction?
Student: To tell you the truth, there are only a few women that
I think who have really been practicing with partners. Some of the
women are doing the exercises, but I know only one other woman
who has been doing it with a partner. It's pretty much my own
isolated experience, there just aren't enough women doing it.
MW: Have you ever felt, in terms of the quality of your sex,
the quality of the energy, a high vibrational level?
Student: Yes. Sometimes I have a sense that I'm under water
after an orgasm is over. I see things differently, and there is a
buzzing in my ear. I've also had this happen after an intense meditation.
MW: How has Ovarian Kung Fu practice affected your daily
life?
Student: It's made me more sensitive to my partner and more
sensitive to my own energy. There is a deeper level of tenderness
and I think from this there is the impetus to conserve one's energy.
To hold and cultivate it is precious. I think when you do that you
create a certain type of presence in the world, and other people
respond to you in a like manner.
MW: In terms of your energy and sharing it with your lover,
what's the difference between energy and love? Is just having more
energy in physical intensity the same as having more love?
Student: It's not just physical; it feels psychic. You're creating
a loving relationship. The sex is a vehicle in creating harmony.
The Taoist methods put more power into your emotions, into
everything. There have been times in the middle of love making
that we've both just cried, it is so powerful. That quality of tenderness,
that connection. So it's definitely more than physical.
MW: On any level, do you feel you can distinguish between
yin and yang energies?
Student: I don't think of it as yin and yang, but I do feel his
heat going up my spine, and it transforms me. I feel more like a
woman. But I couldn't define it as feelings. I would just define it