[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

Cultivating The Valley Orgasm 157
In the Taoist practice of "single cultivation", a man alone can
also induce a kind of inner valley orgasm by learning to balance the
exchange of yin/yang energies between his different Tan Tiens.
There is a method of "self-intercourse" induced by reversing the
polarity between certain organs which is quite wonderful. This is
meditation experienced as lovemaking and is a higher practice that
ultimately the individual lovers in a couple should learn to master.
This is part of the "Lesser Enlightenment of Kan and Li" described
in chapter 19.
THE BIG DRAW AS A CONTRACEPTIVE METHOD
Taoist cultivation of sexual energy can aid you in creating the
healthiest and most organic contraceptive ever devised. I personally
did not ejaculate for ten years using this method, and never had
any unwanted pregnancy. When my wife and I decided to have a
child, I ejaculated twice. The first ejaculation was solo, to clear any
weakened sperm cells out of my body, cells that were weakened
because I had drawn their chi up to my higher centers during meditation.
Then my body responded by vigorously producing new
sperm cells to replace those lost in the first ejaculation, and I
focused my intention and energy on making them as powerful and
healthy as possible.
I ejaculated only once in my wife in order to get her pregnant.
Of course, we were careful to choose the beginning of her ovulation,
so my sperm had several days to swim around chasing after
her egg. Our child, Max, is the result, and as any of my students
can testify he is a living dynamo. I believe we gave him the best
start in life possible by guarding my seed and cultivating it to maximum
health by cultivating the health of my body, which produced
the seed.
However, there is a warning in all this. Because your seed
becomes stronger as a result of these practices, it is much easier to
impregnate a woman should you slip and lose it. Even though you
are one hundred percent confident of your mastery of your seed I
would recommend using a backup artificial contraceptive. Don't
meddle with the body; avoid vasectomy or sterilization. Condoms
prevent absorption of female yin fluids and may slow or weaken
your sensitivity to the passage of chi energy through the penis.
To be safe, use a backup contraceptive even if you can prevent