[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

134 Taoist Secrets Of Love
essence grows the greater your will power becomes in all of your
life. In work, play, family relationships, your will to love and spiritually
grow unfolds with a renewed vigor that daily will surprise
you.
Step 6: If Erection Is Lost, Begin Thrusting and Use Gentle Sucking.
After the first round of thrusting and Hard Contractions, you
may occasionally contract the penis head inside the woman while
you are thrusting. The penis head is like a baby gently sucking milk
at his mother's breast. You begin to lightly draw the Yin in this
manner. The Big Draw has greater effect when the penis is already
filled with Yin energy from Gentle Sucking.
Keep clear in your mind the difference between the Gentle
Sucking and the Big Draw. Gentle Sucking accompanies regular
thrusting. Only the penis head, testes and uro-genital diaphragm
are contracted: the rest of the muscles remain relaxed and do not
draw in power. In this technique we do not drive the energy far.
We prevent our own energy from inching forward and leaping out
into the woman. We also fill the penis itself with energy which we
will transfer to the head with the Big Draw.
BIG DRAW FOR WOMEN
The woman should also perform the Big Draw, using the vagina to
suck in the Yang power from the man's penis. The detailed explanation
for women will be found in the next book, Ovarian Kung Fu.
Until the detailed explanation appears, she may simply adapt the
principles of Seminal Kung Fu and perform the Big Draw on her
ovaries. Women often have a good intuitive understanding of the
process; hence their sexual superiority. But higher levels of love
always exist. I strongly suggest that women train to suppress her
genital orgasm. This will appreciably reduce her loss of energy in
the act of love. She too can gradually achieve a "higher" orgasm as
a "mysterious portal" to the Tao. Man and woman can attain the
Tao together by this way of "dual cultivation."