[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

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ripe apple than in ten green ones. Only the woman ripened for
reception of the penis can adore your male yang essence with her
every cell.
THE FOUR ATTAINMENTS OF THE JADE STALK
In order to harmonize fully with a woman who is going through the
nine stages of arousal, the man will naturally pass different phases
of arousal before entering her. The Yellow Emperor is said to have
asked: "If I wish to make love but fail to gain erection, is it wise to
force intercourse?"
The Mysterious Lady replied, "No, it is not wise. The Jade
Stalk (penis) should first pass the Four Attainments before intercourse
will be proper." Naturally the Emperor asked, "What are
the Four Attainments?"
"If the Jade Stalk is not able to erect", she replied, "the yin
and yang energy is not in harmony. Firmness is the first attainment.
If the Jade Stalk erects, but is not swollen, the chi is insufficient
in the blood. Swelling is the second attainment. If the man's
Jade Stalk is swollen, but not hard, his chi has not penetrated to his
bones. Hardness is the third attainment. Finally, if the Jade Stalk is
hard but not hot, the vital energy has not reached the man's spirit.
Heat is the fourth attainment.
It is far more important to have a small but hard penis than it
is for a man to have a large but semi-soft penis. That is why no man
has any true biological advantage over another in sex. Anyone can
cultivate his internal energy to a high level of intensity regardless of
the outer appearance of his body. Other practices like Iron Shirt
Chi Kung, Tai Chi Chi Kung, and meditation all help develop a
high level of chi cultivation where energy can be passed or exchanged
with a woman without using a penis as the channel of
transmission. A light touch of your hand, a glance, or a thought will
suffice to send the energy. But even this would not make the penis
obsolete, as there are always more refined levels of love-making to
be enjoyed.
You can observe your own penis to know the level of your
arousal. What if you have not reached the highest level of having a
rock hard penis radiating tremendous heat, but the woman is ready
to receive you? I suggest you enter her and pass the other attainments
of the Jade Stalk while making love. You can do this