[Mantak_Chia,_Michael_Winn]_Taoist_Secrets_of_Love(BookFi.org)

Polarity is the Key To Transforming Sex Energy 99
This flow of energy between opposite poles of male and
female is the key to harmonizing the flow of energy in one's life. It
is the simplest and most basic secret, not only of the Taoist masters
but of every esoteric tradition. It is the key to mastering the Taoist
secrets of love. It's simple because its based on the natural law of
the universe—that positive and negative forces attract and bond
with each other. Its as true for a simple pair of magnets locking
together as it is of the protons and electrons locked into the dance
of subatomic particles that form the atom. The Taoists called this
polarity yin and yang, terms that have become popular today in the
field of holistic health, but are not well understood in terms of their
functioning in sexuality.
One way the Taoists describe it is with the simple metaphor of
cooking. Yang is fire and yin is water. Man is the fire, and woman
is the water. When man makes love with a woman, he cooks the
woman's water (in her womb) with his fire (penis). The woman is
almost always sexually stronger, for her water puts out the male
fire; his erection loses its flame. Yin, the soft and yielding, always
conquers yang, the hard. In the same way water (rivers are yin, or
female) triumphs over solid rock. Thus a stream slowly wears away
a giant mountain and carves the Grand Canyon a mile deep.
YIN AND YANG: BATTLE OF THE SEXES
This battle between yin and yang is seemingly endless, just like the
never ending battle between the sexes. In fact, the Taoist sages
also used the metaphor of combat to elucidate the act of sexual
love. For some men love is a passionate struggle for domination
and surrender; to the Taoists it was more a lawful play of opposites.
Ideally you enter the battle of the sexes with a spirit of
gamesmanship. You approach not with the intention of defeating
your lover, but in the hope of matching her grace and receptive
energy with the exact complementary male skill and force.
Unfortunately, few men today seem to proceed with such tact
in love-making; as a result, most are beaten soundly within minutes
by the woman. This failure is due to tactical ignorance of both the
male sex organs and the nature of sexual energy. Misunderstanding
of love's strategic laws is so widespread that a myth has developed
that the average man cannot fully satisfy a passionate woman.
In fact, the average man can unfailingly satisfy his mate when