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The Sexual Economy 39<br />

time. This type <strong>of</strong> young man may have difficulty in his relationship<br />

with women and ultimately this leaves a vacuum in his understanding<br />

<strong>of</strong> himself and the female pole <strong>of</strong> his own male energy.<br />

For this same reason adolescents tend to fanaticism, political,<br />

religious, or otherwise. Mao's Red Guard is but one youth group<br />

that has propagated its reigning tyrant's brand <strong>of</strong> fascism. The<br />

proliferation <strong>of</strong> various cults in the U.S. is strong evidence that the<br />

young are not able to fill the void in their lives with the physical<br />

pleasures that have become standard. If the fragile link with his<br />

newly forming adult identity is frayed or broken by lack <strong>of</strong> love or<br />

social nurturance, a youth has only the group psyche to animate his<br />

life. The group mind provides the fullness their hollowness craves.<br />

As Nature abhors a vacuum, their own emptiness despises itself.<br />

These remarks apply to adults in our sex obsessed society as<br />

well; many are desperately questioning for an identity that is their<br />

own by natural right, if only they knew how to claim it. The proper<br />

understanding <strong>of</strong> the function <strong>of</strong> sexual love in their personal evolution<br />

would go far to correct these excesses. Education about<br />

methods <strong>of</strong> chi cultivation <strong>of</strong> all types, but especially <strong>of</strong> the sexual<br />

energy is the most direct solution. Teenagers will never give up<br />

their sexual desire, but it is not far-fetched that many <strong>of</strong> them<br />

would be interested in improving it if they knew how.<br />

SEX AND THE SUPER ATHLETE<br />

There is a widespread belief among many pr<strong>of</strong>essional sports<br />

coaches that an athlete who makes love the night before a big game<br />

loses his competitive edge. This is a controversial topic and a survey<br />

<strong>of</strong> existing opinion on the subject is inconclusive. Clive Davis,<br />

editor <strong>of</strong> the Journal Of Sex Research, looked into the effects <strong>of</strong><br />

having sex before competition and concluded "You can always<br />

find anecdotal reports to support any position you want to take, but<br />

certainly you couldn't support either side medically."<br />

Top-ranked prize-fighters are the most vociferous in contending<br />

that they cannot violate natural laws without paying a stiff<br />

price. Ken Norton publicly stated that he gave up sex for eight<br />

weeks before his first fight with Ali and abstained for a similar<br />

length <strong>of</strong> time in subsequent Ali fights. "A couple <strong>of</strong> times in my<br />

first 10 or 11 fights, when I didn't abstain from sex, I think it hurt<br />

me." Norton said that he believed that "9 out <strong>of</strong> 10" fighters give

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