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<strong>Bathsheba</strong> - <strong>Day</strong> 4, Page 8<br />

Further:<br />

When we face a crossroads in our lives, as <strong>Bathsheba</strong> now faced, we have some very<br />

significant choices to make. We may have cried out to God, “But, Lord, this wasn’t my<br />

plan!” or maybe, “But, Lord, it’s just not fair!” or the classic, “Why me, Lord?” At this<br />

point, we either have to make the choice to move on with our life and with the Lord, or<br />

allow our circumstances to rule our actions and our emotions. The most productive thing<br />

we can do at a time like this is to lay down our desires and allow our all-sufficient God to<br />

carry us into new territory!<br />

One choice <strong>Bathsheba</strong> had to make as she was catapulted from her comfortable home<br />

to palace life with David’s other wives, concubines and children was whether to blame<br />

God for her losses of her husband, her home, her family, and everything that was<br />

familiar and dear to her.<br />

7. Read Deuteronomy 32:4, 2 Chronicles 19:7, Job 34:10 , & Psalm 58:11 What do these<br />

verses tell us about God’s character that would have been important for her to know?<br />

What are the beautiful promises in Lamentations 3:19-23 & 31-33?<br />

8. Read Job 1:6-22 & Job 2:10. What was unique about Job and what was his response<br />

to losing everything he had?<br />

How does he respond to his wife’s less-than-godly advice to “..curse God and die!”<br />

What do verses 10.b and 22 tell us?<br />

How do Job’s responses speak to you?<br />

<strong>Bathsheba</strong> also needed to choose to forgive David for turning her life upside down to<br />

meet his own lustful desires. Extending forgiveness can free us from roots of bitterness<br />

that wrap around our hearts and squeeze the life right of us. From scriptures that we<br />

will study tomorrow, it seems as if <strong>Bathsheba</strong> made that choice to forgive David.<br />

9. Is there a person whose name pops into your mind when the words “forgive” or<br />

“bitterness” come up? Are you ready today to release that stranglehold on your heart<br />

and allow God to set you free by extending forgiveness? Read Colossians 3:13. What is<br />

the compelling reason we are called to forgive?<br />

10. Read Matthew 6:14-15 & Ephesians 4:31-32. What are the dire consequences if we do<br />

not extend forgiveness?<br />

Pray today to change your life<br />

and discover the freedom that comes from obedience in this area!

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