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Common Challenges<br />

Communication & Happy Compromise<br />

We hope that your time spent with the student will<br />

be very rewarding and enjoyable. There may,<br />

however, be moments when you or they encounter<br />

certain problems. Often, issues arise from lack of<br />

communication, miscommunication or inability to<br />

compromise.<br />

If you experience any problems, please try the<br />

following helpful process:<br />

1. Speak with your student and your family<br />

immediately.<br />

Often, what appears to be a big issue really isn’t<br />

unless it is left unattended. On the other hand, one<br />

small incident can snowball into a very large<br />

problem if nobody talks about it. There<strong>for</strong>e, if you<br />

or your student has a problem, if you are unsure<br />

about something, if you feel that your student is<br />

upset by something or your family is upset by<br />

something, talk to them. Keep in mind that<br />

everyone is interested in finding an amicable<br />

solution, and that most problems arise because of<br />

assumptions and lack of dialogue.<br />

2. Call CHI.<br />

If the problem cannot be resolved by speaking with<br />

the student and your family, please DO NOT have<br />

them call their parents or their Agent to complain.<br />

Instead, we encourage you to take advantage of the<br />

strongest homestay support network in Canada,<br />

and call CHI <strong>for</strong> assistance. You may also wish to<br />

have your student call us as well.<br />

We ask this because we have a lot of experience in<br />

helping hosts and students. We want to help and<br />

can only do so if we are aware of the situation.<br />

By contacting CHI, you are able provide us with<br />

you’re your perspective directly, which is<br />

preferable to second or third-hand in<strong>for</strong>mation.<br />

When you talk to one of us at CHI, we can arrange<br />

to meet and to talk about the problem in person, if<br />

you prefer. We can then work out a solution<br />

together, one that is to everyone’s satisfaction.<br />

Persistent Problems<br />

Although it is unusual, it is possible that you may<br />

wish us to relocate your student, or that your<br />

student may wish to be relocated as a result of<br />

persistent problems or conflict. In such cases, we<br />

will offer to help see if a solution can be found, and<br />

we will ask to hear your perspective on things, but<br />

we will never dispute your request to remove the<br />

student. When a relocation is requested, we work<br />

quickly to find an alternative homestay<br />

Why Would a Student Be Moved?<br />

CHI is committed to the health, safety, and<br />

happiness of our hosts and our students. We are<br />

objective arbiters when conflicts arise. After you<br />

and your student have had the chance to talk about<br />

our concerns with each other and have been<br />

reminded of the consequences, a student may be<br />

relocated from your home (and may even be sent<br />

back to his or her home country) if he or she is<br />

disrespectful toward you or your family or refuses<br />

to abide by your rules, or behaves in a manner<br />

inconsistent with our program standards.<br />

By the same token, we will relocate a student from<br />

your home if you or any of your family members:<br />

• Fails consistently to provide adequate and/or<br />

healthy food;<br />

• Neglects the student, by failing to include them in<br />

suitable family activities, or by failing to pursue<br />

constructive communication and conversation<br />

with the student;<br />

• Willfully disrespects the student, either through<br />

lack of consideration or insensitivity toward the<br />

student’s feelings and/or culture;<br />

• Fails to provide a clean and adequately<br />

maintained physical environment;<br />

© 2011 CHI/CANADA HOMESTAY INTERNATIONAL 6

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