Guide for Hosts
Guide for Hosts
Guide for Hosts
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Common Challenges<br />
Communication & Happy Compromise<br />
We hope that your time spent with the student will<br />
be very rewarding and enjoyable. There may,<br />
however, be moments when you or they encounter<br />
certain problems. Often, issues arise from lack of<br />
communication, miscommunication or inability to<br />
compromise.<br />
If you experience any problems, please try the<br />
following helpful process:<br />
1. Speak with your student and your family<br />
immediately.<br />
Often, what appears to be a big issue really isn’t<br />
unless it is left unattended. On the other hand, one<br />
small incident can snowball into a very large<br />
problem if nobody talks about it. There<strong>for</strong>e, if you<br />
or your student has a problem, if you are unsure<br />
about something, if you feel that your student is<br />
upset by something or your family is upset by<br />
something, talk to them. Keep in mind that<br />
everyone is interested in finding an amicable<br />
solution, and that most problems arise because of<br />
assumptions and lack of dialogue.<br />
2. Call CHI.<br />
If the problem cannot be resolved by speaking with<br />
the student and your family, please DO NOT have<br />
them call their parents or their Agent to complain.<br />
Instead, we encourage you to take advantage of the<br />
strongest homestay support network in Canada,<br />
and call CHI <strong>for</strong> assistance. You may also wish to<br />
have your student call us as well.<br />
We ask this because we have a lot of experience in<br />
helping hosts and students. We want to help and<br />
can only do so if we are aware of the situation.<br />
By contacting CHI, you are able provide us with<br />
you’re your perspective directly, which is<br />
preferable to second or third-hand in<strong>for</strong>mation.<br />
When you talk to one of us at CHI, we can arrange<br />
to meet and to talk about the problem in person, if<br />
you prefer. We can then work out a solution<br />
together, one that is to everyone’s satisfaction.<br />
Persistent Problems<br />
Although it is unusual, it is possible that you may<br />
wish us to relocate your student, or that your<br />
student may wish to be relocated as a result of<br />
persistent problems or conflict. In such cases, we<br />
will offer to help see if a solution can be found, and<br />
we will ask to hear your perspective on things, but<br />
we will never dispute your request to remove the<br />
student. When a relocation is requested, we work<br />
quickly to find an alternative homestay<br />
Why Would a Student Be Moved?<br />
CHI is committed to the health, safety, and<br />
happiness of our hosts and our students. We are<br />
objective arbiters when conflicts arise. After you<br />
and your student have had the chance to talk about<br />
our concerns with each other and have been<br />
reminded of the consequences, a student may be<br />
relocated from your home (and may even be sent<br />
back to his or her home country) if he or she is<br />
disrespectful toward you or your family or refuses<br />
to abide by your rules, or behaves in a manner<br />
inconsistent with our program standards.<br />
By the same token, we will relocate a student from<br />
your home if you or any of your family members:<br />
• Fails consistently to provide adequate and/or<br />
healthy food;<br />
• Neglects the student, by failing to include them in<br />
suitable family activities, or by failing to pursue<br />
constructive communication and conversation<br />
with the student;<br />
• Willfully disrespects the student, either through<br />
lack of consideration or insensitivity toward the<br />
student’s feelings and/or culture;<br />
• Fails to provide a clean and adequately<br />
maintained physical environment;<br />
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