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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />
................................................. 631-726-8606<br />
southforkbreast.com<br />
•Spanish-Speaking Women with Breast Cancer<br />
................................................. 516-877-4314<br />
•Spouses and Partners of Those with Breast<br />
Cancer ....................................... 516-877-4314<br />
Support for People With Oral and Head and Neck<br />
•Cancer ..............516-759-5333/800-377-0928<br />
Syosset & Stony Brook. spohnc.org<br />
•Thriving Through and Beyond Cancer.<br />
......... ......................................... 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Thyroid Cancer Survivors Hotline<br />
................................................. 877-588-7904<br />
•Young Women with Breast Cancer<br />
................................................. 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•Breast Cancer Hotline ............... 800-877-8077<br />
Caregiver Support<br />
•Adult Children Caregivers ......... 516-742-2050<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview<br />
JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
miyjcc.org<br />
•Caregivers Group .............516-496-7550 x217<br />
F.E.G.S., Syosset . fegs.org<br />
•Caregivers Group ...........631-244-2400 x2235<br />
Good Shepherd Hospice<br />
goodshepherdhospice.net<br />
•Caregivers Group .............516-822-3535 x328<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Caregivers Group ..................... 516-742-2050<br />
Temple Emanuel, Long Beach<br />
•JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
Caregivers Groups ...................... 631-585-2020<br />
dayhaven.org<br />
•Caregivers Group ........... 516-484-1545 x196<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Caregivers Group ..................... 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Caregivers Group .............631-462-9800 x220<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Caring For Your Spouse ............ 516-742-2050<br />
JCC of W. Hempstead, W. Hempstead<br />
JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
•Let’s Do Dinner (spouses of Young Onset<br />
Alzheimer’s patients) .................. 516-484-1545<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Let’s Do Pizza (kids with parents with Young<br />
Onset Alzheimer’s)...................... 516-484-1545<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Sandwich Generation ............... 516-742-2050<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
Spouses & Siblings ..................... 516-742-2050<br />
Temple Chaverim, Plainview<br />
JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
•Spouses, Children & Siblings ..... 516-742-2050<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />
•Well Spouses or Partners of the Chronically Ill<br />
and Disabled .............................. 516-829-8740<br />
St. Charles Rehab Center, Albertson<br />
rosebirdlady@aol.com<br />
Divorce and Seperation<br />
•Divorce Care ............................ 516-731-6736<br />
Life Center of Bethpage,<br />
•Divorce Support Group ............. 516-992-2873<br />
Alliance to Restore Integrity in Divorce (ARID)<br />
•Divorced & Separated .......516-822-3535 x331<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Divorced and Separated 12-Step Group<br />
................................................. 718-468-2654<br />
Community Church of East Williston<br />
•Divorced and Separated Group<br />
.........................................516-484-1545 x196<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Divorced & Separated Groups ... 631-462-9800<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Divorced and Separated Group . 631-724-9462<br />
Reflections Associates, Smithtown<br />
•Marriage Alive Support Group .. 631-525-3646<br />
•Separated/Divorced Counseling Group<br />
................................................. 516-599-1181<br />
Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook<br />
•Separation/Divorce ...........516-766-4341 x131<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Singles ............................ 631-462-9800 x139<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Singles Group ..........................516-822-3535<br />
Mid Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Singles Group 55+ ...................516-766-4341<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Singles Support and Discussion Group<br />
.................................................516-395-8303<br />
Parkway Community Church, Hicksville<br />
Long Island Cares A Lot:<br />
The Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />
•Women Separating and Divorcing<br />
.................................................631-525-3646<br />
Domestic Violence, Rape and Sexual<br />
Abuse<br />
•Brighter Tomorrows ..................631-395-1800<br />
brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />
•Kids 2 Kids ..............................631-439-0480<br />
•Child Abuse & Maltreatment Referrals<br />
.................................................800-342-3720<br />
Elder Abuse ................................516-542-0404<br />
Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Hempstead<br />
•Family Violence and Child Abuse<br />
.................................................516-485-5710<br />
F.E.G.S.. fegs.org<br />
Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
•Violence 24-hr. hotline .............516-542-0404<br />
cadvnc.org<br />
•Protection of Children and Young People<br />
........................................ 516-678-5800 x573<br />
Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre<br />
•Rape/Sexual Assault Hotline (Nassau County<br />
Coalition Against Domestic Violence)<br />
.................................................516-542-0404<br />
•Self-Esteem in Relationships ....631-667-4188<br />
Ascension Lutheran Church, Deer Park<br />
•Sexual Abuse Survivors ... 516-678-5800 x573<br />
Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre<br />
•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
Violence ............. 631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />
sccadv.org<br />
•The Retreat (hotline for Domestic Violence)<br />
.................................................631-329-2200<br />
•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS) of Suffolk<br />
County .......................................631-360-3606<br />
Did you know that the Harry Chapin Food Bank is Long Island’s first<br />
food bank? This hunger organization was founded in 1980 by the late<br />
singer, songwriter and social activist, Harry Chapin. Today, the food<br />
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soup kitchens, emergency shelters, childcare programs, disability<br />
organizations, veterans’ services and more. Each year, they distribute<br />
more than 6 million pounds<br />
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Cares’ operations. In<br />
addition to supplying food,<br />
they also participate in food<br />
drives, hunger education,<br />
job training, kids’ cafes and<br />
mobile outreach vans. If you<br />
would like to volunteer, call<br />
631-582-FOOD.<br />
Health Related/Miscellaneous<br />
•Adhesions (scar tissue pain) ....631-921-7426<br />
Stony Brook University Hospital, Stony Brook<br />
adhesionsfoundation.org<br />
•Alopecia ......... 631-680-0148; 415-472-3780<br />
naaf.org<br />
•Arthritis ................................. 631-427-8272<br />
arthritis.org<br />
•Brain Aneurysm .......................516-562-3815<br />
The Brain Aneurysm Center at North Shore Univ.<br />
Hospital, Manhasset. nsalant@nshs.edu<br />
•Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support Group<br />
.................................................516-442-3527<br />
Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />
Island. mni.org<br />
•Brain Tumor Support Group ......516-442-3527<br />
Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />
Island. lmni.org<br />
•Brain Tumor Patients and Their Families<br />
......................... 516-679-5075/516-946-0649<br />
N. Bellmore and Commack<br />
guardianbrain.org<br />
•Coma/ Traumatic Brian Injury Recovery Association<br />
............................................631-756-1826<br />
South Nassau Community Hospital, Oceanside<br />
•Crohn’s & Colitis Group ............516-222-5530<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia 631-548-8237<br />
Diabetes/Heart Club ......516-674-7833 or 7936<br />
Glen Cove Hospital, Glen Cove<br />
•Diabetes Group ........................516-596-4357<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett<br />
•Eating Disorders .......................516-637-0965<br />
Reaching Out Against Eating Disorders, Baldwin<br />
roaed.org<br />
•Epilepsy ...................................631-474-6489<br />
St. Charles Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
•Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support<br />
Group ........................................ 516-442-3527<br />
Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />
Island. lmni.org<br />
•Hearing Impaired and Cochlear Implant<br />
Patients...................................... 718-470-8631<br />
North Shore LIJ Health System Hearing and<br />
Speech Center, New Hyde Park<br />
•South Shore Women’s Heart .... 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip.<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Hepatitis C Support Group (American Liver<br />
Foundation) ............................... 631-754-4795<br />
•HIV/AIDS .................................. 631-691-7080<br />
F.E.G.S. Copiague. fegs.org<br />
•Irritable Bowel Syndrome ......... 516-371-0660<br />
South Nassau Communities Hospital Counseling<br />
Center, Baldwin<br />
•Lupus....................................... 516-783-3370<br />
Lupus Foundation of Long Island, Bellmore<br />
•Lymphedema ........................... 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Melanoma (Patients & Caregivers)<br />
................................................. 516-352-4227<br />
32 • 2011/ 2012 LONG ISLAND WOMAN SURVIVAL GUIDE To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or ads@liwomanonline.com
Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />
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Multiple Sclerosis ....................... 631-864-8337<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Myasthenia Gravis .................... 631-765-2186<br />
Emma S. Clark Memorial Library, Setauket<br />
•National Federation of the Blind 516-868-8718<br />
•National Multiple Sclerosis Society,<br />
..........................631-864-8337/516-740-7227<br />
Melville<br />
•Neck and Back Pain Support Group<br />
................................................. 516-442-3527<br />
Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />
Island. lmni.org<br />
•Ostomy Association of Long Island/Nassau<br />
................................................ 516-759-0734<br />
•Pain Management Support Group<br />
................................................. 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />
Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Parkinson’s Support Group ....... 631-265-6621<br />
Smithtown Parkinson Therapy Center,<br />
Smithtown Methodist Church, Smithtown<br />
•Parkinson Disease Support Groups<br />
.................................631-862-3560 liapda.org<br />
•Sleep Apnea ......631-376-4299/631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center,<br />
W. Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Sleep Disorders ........................ 631-476-2721<br />
Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson.<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Stroke Support ......................... 516-719-2411<br />
North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset<br />
•Stroke Survivors & Caregivers<br />
..........................516-562-4947/516-562-3111<br />
Plainview Hospital, Plainview<br />
Mental Health<br />
•Anxiety and Panic Group .......... 631-226-3900<br />
mhasuffolk.org<br />
•Counseling............................... 631-691-3347<br />
F.E.G.S.. fegs.org<br />
•Emotions Anonymous ............... 631-584-5604<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Mental Illness Family Support ... 516-504-HELP<br />
Mental Health Association of Nassau County,<br />
Hempstead<br />
•Mental Health Association in Suffolk County<br />
................................................. 631-226-3900<br />
Lindenhurst. mhasuffolk.org<br />
•Mood Disorders ....................... 631-226-3900<br />
mhasuffolk.org<br />
•Mood Disorder Group............... 516-546-1370<br />
South Nassau Communities Hospital Outpatient<br />
Clinic, Baldwin<br />
•National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)<br />
..........................516-694-7327/800-950-6264<br />
NAMI Long Island Regional Council, Old Bethpage.<br />
nami.org<br />
•NAMI Huntigton 631-424-4528/631-271-2935<br />
•Postpartum Depression<br />
.........................631-422-2255/ 855-631-0001<br />
Postpartum Resource Center of New York<br />
postpartumNY.org.<br />
•Post Traumatic Stress Disorder<br />
................................................. 631-226-3900<br />
mhasuffolk.org<br />
•Relatives and Friends of persons with a Mental<br />
Illness ........................................ 631-226-3900<br />
mhasuffolk.org<br />
•Suicide Prevention Hotline ...........800-SUICIDE<br />
Parenting & Family Issues<br />
•Adoption Hotline ...................... 516-799-7445<br />
JCCA<br />
•Developmental Disabilities Institute<br />
................................................. 631-360-4600<br />
Smithtown (family support services)<br />
ddiinfo.org<br />
•Grandparents Raising Grandchildren<br />
................................................. 516-569-6600<br />
Peninsula Counseling Center, Woodmere<br />
•Long Island Infant Developmental Program<br />
................................................. 516-546-2333<br />
•National Infertility Network Exchange (NINE)<br />
................................................. 516-794-5772<br />
•New Mothers’ Group................ 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />
Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Parenting (Special Needs) .516-484-1545 x200<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Parenting Young Children ......... 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />
Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Parents of Adult Children With a Developmental<br />
Disability ............................... 516-822-0028<br />
Bethpageacld.org<br />
•Parents of Children With Autism<br />
.........................................516-822-3535 x332<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Parents of Lesbian and Gay Children<br />
................................................. 516-569-6600<br />
Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook<br />
•Parents of Special Needs Children<br />
.........................................516-766-4341 x160<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Parents of Young Children, Birth to Five<br />
.........................................516-766-4341 x162<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside.<br />
ParentingResourceNetwork.org<br />
•Postpartum Depression ............. 631-422-2255<br />
Postpartum Resource Center of New York<br />
postpartumNY.org.<br />
•Pregnancy and Infant Loss ....... 516-562-8422<br />
North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset<br />
•Pregnancy Information and Referral<br />
................................................. 631-853-3033<br />
•Single Parent Support Group<br />
.........................................516-822-3535 x328<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
Smoking Cessation<br />
•American Cancer Society ......... 800-ACS-2345<br />
516-921-6016 or 631-436-7070. cancer.org<br />
•Green Seminars ........................ 800-342-1303<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Nicotine Anonymous<br />
..........................631-665-0527/415-750-0328<br />
nicotine-anonymous.org<br />
Weight Loss<br />
•Bariatric Support Group ............ 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />
Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Green Seminars ........................ 800-342-1303<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Post-Bariatric Support Group .... 516-62MERCY<br />
Mercy Medical Center, Rockville Centre<br />
•Overeaters Anonymous ............. 631-473-1320<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Overweight Women .................. 631-525-3646<br />
Women’s Issues<br />
•Lesbian Group ......................... 631-748-4193<br />
Sayville Congregational Church<br />
•WINGS (Women In Network Giving Support)<br />
................................................. 516-334-8985<br />
609 Dartmouth St., Westbury<br />
•Women’s Self-Awareness, Self-Care and Self-<br />
Realization ................................. 516-794-7328<br />
EDA Counseling Center, Westbury<br />
•WomenHeart .......................... 631-271-3766<br />
The Huntington Heart Center, Huntington<br />
<br />
Advocacy/Empowerment<br />
•American Association of University Women<br />
(AAUW) .................................... 631-472-9377<br />
aauw-nys.org<br />
•BiasHELP of Long Island (hate crime)<br />
........................ 631-479-6015; 877-END-BIAS<br />
biashelp.org<br />
•League of Women Voters of Suffolk County<br />
................................................ 631-421-5164<br />
lwv-suffolkcounty.org<br />
•Long Island Women’s Agenda (LIWA)<br />
................................................ 516-677-LIWA<br />
liwa.org<br />
•NARAL Pro Choice New York ... 212-343-0114<br />
prochoiceny.org<br />
•National Association of Mothers’ Centers<br />
(NAMC) .................................... 516-520-2929<br />
motherscenter.org<br />
•National Council of Jewish Women<br />
................................................ 516-569-3660<br />
ncjw.org<br />
•National Coalition of 100 Black Women Long<br />
Island Chapter Inc. .................... 516-223-6522<br />
li100bw.org<br />
•National Organization For Women (now) Mid-<br />
Suffolk Chapter ......................... 631-234-4747<br />
midsuffolknow.org<br />
•Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic<br />
................................................ 914-467-7300<br />
Smithtown<br />
plannedparenthood.org/hudsonpeconic<br />
•Planned Parenthood of Nassau County<br />
................................................ 516-750-2600<br />
plannedparenthood.org/nassaucounty<br />
•Women Economic Developers of LI (WEDLI)<br />
................................................ 516-832-3261<br />
wedli.org<br />
•Women on the Job .................. 516-396-9857<br />
womenonthejob.org<br />
•Women’s Sports Foundation .... 516-542-4700<br />
womenssportsfoundation.org<br />
•Women Wake Up .................... 631-929-4078<br />
womenwakeup-SC.org<br />
Breast Cancer<br />
•1 in 9: The Long Island Breast Cancer Action<br />
Coalition ................................... 516-374-3190<br />
1in9.org<br />
•Adelphi NY Statewide Breast Cancer Hotline<br />
and Support Program ............... 516-877-4320;<br />
800-877-8077<br />
adelphi.edu/nysbreastcancer<br />
•Babylon Breast Cancer Coalition<br />
................................................ 631-893-4410<br />
babylonbreastcancer.org<br />
•Breast Cancer H.E.L.P. Inc. (Healthy Environment<br />
for a Living Planet) ........... 631-675-9003<br />
breastcancerhelpinc.org<br />
•Brentwood/Bay Shore Breast Cancer Coalition<br />
................................................ 631-273-9252<br />
bbbcc.org<br />
•Great Neck Breast Cancer Coalition .......info@<br />
greatneckbcc.org<br />
•Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition<br />
(HBCAC) ................................... 631-547-1518<br />
hbcac.org<br />
•Islip Breast Cancer Coalition .... 631-968-7424<br />
islipbreast.com<br />
•Latina Breast Cancer Support Group<br />
................................................ 631-951-6908<br />
bbbcc.org<br />
•Long Beach Breast Cancer Coalition<br />
................................................ 516-897-1344<br />
longbeachbcc.org<br />
•Manhasset Women’s Coalition Against Breast<br />
Cancer ...................................... 516-627-2410<br />
manhassetbreastcancer.org<br />
•Sisters United in Health/Hermanas Unidas En<br />
la Salud .................................... 800-559-6348<br />
•South Fork Breast Health Coalition<br />
................................................ 631-726-8606<br />
southforkbreast.com<br />
•The Maurer Foundation for Breast Health<br />
Education.................................. 516-535-5370<br />
maurerfoundation.org<br />
•West Islip Breast Cancer Coalition for Long<br />
Island, Inc. ................................ 631-669-7770<br />
wibcc.org<br />
Business<br />
•Black Women Enterprises (BWE)<br />
................................................ 516-485-5900<br />
blackwomenenterprises.org<br />
•Business and Professional Women<br />
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................................................ 718-816-0093<br />
bpwnys.org<br />
•Business Women’s Golf Association of Long<br />
Island........................................ 631-368-1724<br />
liladygolf.com<br />
•East End Women’s Network ..... 631-723-2448<br />
eewn.org<br />
•Executive Women’s Golf Association -- LI<br />
chapter ..............516-539-0150/561-691-0096<br />
ewgali.org<br />
•Independent Business Women’s Circle (IBWC)<br />
.........................516-670-9012/866-514-9127<br />
ibwc.org<br />
•Long Island Center For Business & Professional<br />
Women ..................................... 631-673-0209<br />
licenter.org<br />
•Long Island Development Corporation<br />
................................................ 866-433-5432<br />
lidc.org<br />
•Mid-Island Club of the National Association of<br />
Negro Business and Professional Women’s Club<br />
Inc. ....................631-582-6479/202-483-4206<br />
midislandcluboflongisland.com<br />
•NALS of Suffolk County ..631-582-4990, x101<br />
The Association for Legal Professionals<br />
nalsofnewyorkinc.org/suffolk.html<br />
•National Association Of Women Business Owners<br />
(NAWBO) ............................ 516-240-8058<br />
nawboli.org<br />
•Soroptimist International of Nassau County<br />
.........................516-694-9834/215-893-9000<br />
soroptomist.org<br />
•Suffolk County Women’s Business Enterprise<br />
Coalition (SCWBEC)<br />
.........................631-754-6458/631-553-5325<br />
scwbec.org<br />
•The Thypin Oltchick Institute for Women’s<br />
Entrepreneurship @ F.E.G.S. ....... 212-366-0033<br />
yourfutureinbusiness.org<br />
•U.S. Women’s Chamber Of Commerce<br />
.............................................. 888-41-USWCC<br />
uswcc.org<br />
•Women For Hire ...................... 212-290-2600<br />
womenforhire.com<br />
•Women on the Fast Track......... 516-222-0236<br />
womenonthefasttrack.com<br />
•Women Presidents’ Organization<br />
................................................ 212-688-4114<br />
womenpresidentsorg.com<br />
•Crisis Intervention/Mental Health/Suicide<br />
Prevention Long Island Crisis Center<br />
.........................516-679-1111/516-826-0244<br />
longislandcrisiscenter.org<br />
•Response of Suffolk County. .... 631-751-7500<br />
responsehotline.org<br />
Domestic Violence/Sexual Abuse<br />
•Brighter Tomorrows ................. 631-395-3116<br />
brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />
•Long Island Citizens For Community Values<br />
........................631-271-4477; 800-583-2964<br />
liccv.org<br />
•Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
Violence ............516-572-0700/516-542-0404/<br />
516-222-2293<br />
cadvnc.org<br />
•National Online Resource Center On Violence<br />
Against Women ..........................800-799-SAFE<br />
800-656-HOPE/866-331-9474<br />
vawnet.org<br />
•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
Violence .............631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />
sccadv.org<br />
•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS)<br />
....................................... 631-360-3730/3606<br />
vibs.org<br />
Eating Disorders<br />
•American Eating Disorders Center<br />
................................................ 516-889-3404<br />
•Counseling Center for Eating Disorders<br />
................................................ 631-665-0097<br />
•John T. Mather Memorial Hospital Eating<br />
Disorder Partial Hospitalization & Intensive<br />
Outpatient Program .......631-473-3877 ext. 57<br />
www.matherhospital.org<br />
•National Association of Anorexia Nervosa &<br />
Associated Disorders ................. 847-831-3438<br />
anad.org<br />
•National Eating Disorders Association-LI<br />
.........................516-794-0415/800-931-2237<br />
nationaleatingdisorders.org<br />
Health & Safety<br />
•American Red Cross ..............800-RED CROSS<br />
Nassau County ......................... 516-747-3500<br />
nassauredcross.org<br />
Suffolk County ......................... 631-924-6700<br />
suffolkcounty.redcross.org<br />
•Centers For Disease Control Traveler’s Hotline<br />
................................................877-CDC-INFO<br />
cdc.gov<br />
•EAC (Education & Assistance Corp.)<br />
................................................ 516-539-0150<br />
eacinc.org<br />
•EPA Safe Drinking Water Hotline<br />
................................................ 800-426-4791<br />
epa.gov/safewater<br />
•F.E.G.S. .................................... 516-496-7550<br />
fegs.org<br />
•National Women’s Health Information Center<br />
................................................ 800-994-9662<br />
4woman.gov<br />
•National Women’s Health Network<br />
................................................ 202-682-2640<br />
nwhn.org<br />
•National Women’s Health Resource Center<br />
................................................ 877-986-9472<br />
healthywomen.org<br />
•Poison Control Center -Long Island<br />
................................................ 516-542-2323<br />
Winthrop University Hospital, Mineola<br />
•Poison Control Center National Hotline<br />
................................................ 800-222-1222<br />
aapcc.org<br />
•Society For Women’s Health Research<br />
................................................ 202-223-8224<br />
womenshealthresearch.org<br />
•U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission<br />
Hotline ...................................... 800-638-2772<br />
Women Are Working It:<br />
National Association of Women Business Owners<br />
As more Long Island women are<br />
succeeding in businesses, the Long<br />
Island Chapter of the National Association<br />
of Women Business Owners<br />
offers support and information for<br />
women just starting out. Founded in<br />
1986, it began with a group of experienced<br />
women entrepreneurs who<br />
recognized the need to strengthen<br />
the growth of women-owned businesses<br />
in Nassau and Suffolk counties<br />
in the state of New York. The goals of<br />
the Long Island chapter offers handson<br />
support in business and leadership<br />
skills as well as being deeply involved<br />
in local public policy initiatives that<br />
relate to women in business. For<br />
more information, contact them at 516-240-8058 or nawboli.org.<br />
cpsc.gov<br />
Philanthropy<br />
•1 in 9 ...................................... 516-374-3190<br />
hewletthouse.org<br />
•A Home At Last ....................... 631-220-2253<br />
pets911.com<br />
Volunteer group that rescues cats and kittens, socializes<br />
them and finds them loving homes.<br />
•A Mother’s Kiss ....................... 631-254-2965<br />
amotherskiss.org<br />
Volunteer organization dedicated to the families of<br />
childhood cancer patients to help the families on an<br />
emotional and financial level.<br />
•Junior League of Long Island ... 516-621-4890<br />
jlli.org<br />
Women committed to promoting voluntarism,<br />
developing the potential of women, and improving<br />
communities..<br />
•Long Island Cares - Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />
............................................... 631-582-FOOD<br />
licares.org<br />
•Long Island Fund For Women and Girls<br />
(LIFWG) .................................... 516-396-9857<br />
lifwg.org<br />
•Long Island Volunteer Center ... 516-564-5482<br />
1-800-volunteer.org<br />
•Millennium Sistahs .................. 516-538-5466<br />
millenniumsistahs.org<br />
To enhance life, promote visibility and provide medical<br />
and social services to young women and adults..<br />
•Zonta Club .............................. 516-488-2796<br />
zontaclublongisland.blogspot.com<br />
Executives and professionals working together to<br />
advance the status of women through service and<br />
advocacy.<br />
•The Links Inc. .......................... 202-842-8686<br />
linksinc.org<br />
Women committed to enriching, sustaining and<br />
ensuring the culture and economic survival of<br />
African Americans.<br />
•United Way Of Long Island ...... 631-940-3700<br />
unitedwayli.org<br />
•Volunteer for a Great Cause .... 516 795-2933<br />
Postpartum Depression and Services<br />
•Circle of Caring Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />
Depression Support Groups available at the<br />
Mothers’ Centers ..................... 631-218-1552<br />
•Nassau County Department of Health<br />
............................................... 516-572-0934<br />
•The Mark’s Family Right from the Start Center<br />
................................................ 516-626-1971<br />
•An Angel’s Embrace Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />
Depression Support Group .. 516-697-1682<br />
•Postpartum Resource Center of NY<br />
................................................ 631-422-2255<br />
postpartumNY.org<br />
•Sounds of Silence .....................631-553-0509<br />
soundsofsilencefoundation.org;<br />
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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />
................................................ 718-816-0093<br />
bpwnys.org<br />
•Business Women’s Golf Association of Long<br />
Island........................................ 631-368-1724<br />
liladygolf.com<br />
•East End Women’s Network ..... 631-723-2448<br />
eewn.org<br />
•Executive Women’s Golf Association -- LI<br />
chapter ..............516-539-0150/561-691-0096<br />
ewgali.org<br />
•Independent Business Women’s Circle (IBWC)<br />
.........................516-670-9012/866-514-9127<br />
ibwc.org<br />
•Long Island Center For Business & Professional<br />
Women ..................................... 631-673-0209<br />
licenter.org<br />
•Long Island Development Corporation<br />
................................................ 866-433-5432<br />
lidc.org<br />
•Mid-Island Club of the National Association of<br />
Negro Business and Professional Women’s Club<br />
Inc. ....................631-582-6479/202-483-4206<br />
midislandcluboflongisland.com<br />
•NALS of Suffolk County ..631-582-4990, x101<br />
The Association for Legal Professionals<br />
nalsofnewyorkinc.org/suffolk.html<br />
•National Association Of Women Business Owners<br />
(NAWBO) ............................ 516-240-8058<br />
nawboli.org<br />
•Soroptimist International of Nassau County<br />
.........................516-694-9834/215-893-9000<br />
soroptomist.org<br />
•Suffolk County Women’s Business Enterprise<br />
Coalition (SCWBEC)<br />
.........................631-754-6458/631-553-5325<br />
scwbec.org<br />
•The Thypin Oltchick Institute for Women’s<br />
Entrepreneurship @ F.E.G.S. ....... 212-366-0033<br />
yourfutureinbusiness.org<br />
•U.S. Women’s Chamber Of Commerce<br />
.............................................. 888-41-USWCC<br />
uswcc.org<br />
•Women For Hire ...................... 212-290-2600<br />
womenforhire.com<br />
•Women on the Fast Track......... 516-222-0236<br />
womenonthefasttrack.com<br />
•Women Presidents’ Organization<br />
................................................ 212-688-4114<br />
womenpresidentsorg.com<br />
•Crisis Intervention/Mental Health/Suicide<br />
Prevention Long Island Crisis Center<br />
.........................516-679-1111/516-826-0244<br />
longislandcrisiscenter.org<br />
•Response of Suffolk County. .... 631-751-7500<br />
responsehotline.org<br />
Domestic Violence/Sexual Abuse<br />
•Brighter Tomorrows ................. 631-395-3116<br />
brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />
•Long Island Citizens For Community Values<br />
........................631-271-4477; 800-583-2964<br />
liccv.org<br />
•Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
Violence ............516-572-0700/516-542-0404/<br />
516-222-2293<br />
cadvnc.org<br />
•National Online Resource Center On Violence<br />
Against Women ..........................800-799-SAFE<br />
800-656-HOPE/866-331-9474<br />
vawnet.org<br />
•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />
Violence .............631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />
sccadv.org<br />
•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS)<br />
....................................... 631-360-3730/3606<br />
vibs.org<br />
Eating Disorders<br />
•American Eating Disorders Center<br />
................................................ 516-889-3404<br />
•Counseling Center for Eating Disorders<br />
................................................ 631-665-0097<br />
•John T. Mather Memorial Hospital Eating<br />
Disorder Partial Hospitalization & Intensive<br />
Outpatient Program .......631-473-3877 ext. 57<br />
www.matherhospital.org<br />
•National Association of Anorexia Nervosa &<br />
Associated Disorders ................. 847-831-3438<br />
anad.org<br />
•National Eating Disorders Association-LI<br />
.........................516-794-0415/800-931-2237<br />
nationaleatingdisorders.org<br />
Health & Safety<br />
•American Red Cross ..............800-RED CROSS<br />
Nassau County ......................... 516-747-3500<br />
nassauredcross.org<br />
Suffolk County ......................... 631-924-6700<br />
suffolkcounty.redcross.org<br />
•Centers For Disease Control Traveler’s Hotline<br />
................................................877-CDC-INFO<br />
cdc.gov<br />
•EAC (Education & Assistance Corp.)<br />
................................................ 516-539-0150<br />
eacinc.org<br />
•EPA Safe Drinking Water Hotline<br />
................................................ 800-426-4791<br />
epa.gov/safewater<br />
•F.E.G.S. .................................... 516-496-7550<br />
fegs.org<br />
•National Women’s Health Information Center<br />
................................................ 800-994-9662<br />
4woman.gov<br />
•National Women’s Health Network<br />
................................................ 202-682-2640<br />
nwhn.org<br />
•National Women’s Health Resource Center<br />
................................................ 877-986-9472<br />
healthywomen.org<br />
•Poison Control Center -Long Island<br />
................................................ 516-542-2323<br />
Winthrop University Hospital, Mineola<br />
•Poison Control Center National Hotline<br />
................................................ 800-222-1222<br />
aapcc.org<br />
•Society For Women’s Health Research<br />
................................................ 202-223-8224<br />
womenshealthresearch.org<br />
•U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission<br />
Hotline ...................................... 800-638-2772<br />
Women Are Working It:<br />
National Association of Women Business Owners<br />
As more Long Island women are<br />
succeeding in businesses, the Long<br />
Island Chapter of the National Association<br />
of Women Business Owners<br />
offers support and information for<br />
women just starting out. Founded in<br />
1986, it began with a group of experienced<br />
women entrepreneurs who<br />
recognized the need to strengthen<br />
the growth of women-owned businesses<br />
in Nassau and Suffolk counties<br />
in the state of New York. The goals of<br />
the Long Island chapter offers handson<br />
support in business and leadership<br />
skills as well as being deeply involved<br />
in local public policy initiatives that<br />
relate to women in business. For<br />
more information, contact them at 516-240-8058 or nawboli.org.<br />
cpsc.gov<br />
Philanthropy<br />
•1 in 9 ...................................... 516-374-3190<br />
hewletthouse.org<br />
•A Home At Last ....................... 631-220-2253<br />
pets911.com<br />
Volunteer group that rescues cats and kittens, socializes<br />
them and finds them loving homes.<br />
•A Mother’s Kiss ....................... 631-254-2965<br />
amotherskiss.org<br />
Volunteer organization dedicated to the families of<br />
childhood cancer patients to help the families on an<br />
emotional and financial level.<br />
•Junior League of Long Island ... 516-621-4890<br />
jlli.org<br />
Women committed to promoting voluntarism,<br />
developing the potential of women, and improving<br />
communities..<br />
•Long Island Cares - Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />
............................................... 631-582-FOOD<br />
licares.org<br />
•Long Island Fund For Women and Girls<br />
(LIFWG) .................................... 516-396-9857<br />
lifwg.org<br />
•Long Island Volunteer Center ... 516-564-5482<br />
1-800-volunteer.org<br />
•Millennium Sistahs .................. 516-538-5466<br />
millenniumsistahs.org<br />
To enhance life, promote visibility and provide medical<br />
and social services to young women and adults..<br />
•Zonta Club .............................. 516-488-2796<br />
zontaclublongisland.blogspot.com<br />
Executives and professionals working together to<br />
advance the status of women through service and<br />
advocacy.<br />
•The Links Inc. .......................... 202-842-8686<br />
linksinc.org<br />
Women committed to enriching, sustaining and<br />
ensuring the culture and economic survival of<br />
African Americans.<br />
•United Way Of Long Island ...... 631-940-3700<br />
unitedwayli.org<br />
•Volunteer for a Great Cause .... 516 795-2933<br />
Postpartum Depression and Services<br />
•Circle of Caring Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />
Depression Support Groups available at the<br />
Mothers’ Centers ..................... 631-218-1552<br />
•Nassau County Department of Health<br />
............................................... 516-572-0934<br />
•The Mark’s Family Right from the Start Center<br />
................................................ 516-626-1971<br />
•An Angel’s Embrace Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />
Depression Support Group .. 516-697-1682<br />
•Postpartum Resource Center of NY<br />
................................................ 631-422-2255<br />
postpartumNY.org<br />
•Sounds of Silence .....................631-553-0509<br />
soundsofsilencefoundation.org;<br />
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Contents Volume 11 Number 2<br />
2011/2012 <strong>Survival</strong> guide<br />
Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or<br />
Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C.<br />
Many of my patients come seeking help with the<br />
changes that can occur after childbirth; a woman’s<br />
breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just<br />
the opposite can happen. more on page 5<br />
Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes<br />
by Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., LAC<br />
I recently developed a healthy, successful way of<br />
losing weight with acupuncture, which can actually<br />
change your metabolism. There are several unique<br />
characteristics with this therapy. more on page 24<br />
Bio-Identical Hormone Balancing for Men and<br />
Women by Richard Linchitz, M.D.<br />
Bio-identical hormones can provide the key to<br />
achieving and preserving vibrant health for women<br />
AND men well into our advanced years.<br />
more on page 7<br />
Cutomized Skin Treatments<br />
by Annette Pennington<br />
Pre and Post surgical skin care increases hydration<br />
and accelerate cell turnover prior to surgery;<br />
speeds healing and reduces edema after surgery.<br />
more on page 10<br />
Why Use Professional Decorating Services<br />
by Ashu Singh<br />
People who use decorators get to stay home and let<br />
decorating ideas come to them. Youíll enjoy seeing<br />
how design concepts come to life in your own home!<br />
more on page 11<br />
Breast Reduction Using The Lollipop Scar<br />
Technique by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C.<br />
The weight of large breasts can cause the bra<br />
straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove<br />
markings. Large breasts get in the way of physical<br />
activities, such as running. more on page 12<br />
My Mother Is Now My Child?<br />
by Cynthia Shaw, M.S.<br />
The notion of "getting some help at home" is met<br />
with resistance. It is important for a parent to<br />
understand that seeking "wellness care" is not tantamount<br />
to relinquishing independence. more on page 12<br />
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The Future Lift: A New Hybrid Facelift Technique<br />
by Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS<br />
For years, my patients have had to choose<br />
between better results or less scarring. With hybrid<br />
face lifts, they get the best of both worlds.<br />
more on page 15<br />
Urinary Incontinence<br />
by Scott M. Press, M.D.<br />
So many women in my practice complain that they<br />
just want to be able to go to the gym and go on<br />
the elliptical machine or kick box.<br />
more on page 19<br />
Image Wisely<br />
by Elizabeth Maltin, M.D.<br />
Our goal is to increase awareness about<br />
performing only necessary testing that uses<br />
radiation, and when doing so, using the lowest<br />
possible radiation dose. more on page 24<br />
Discover Your Fitness Personality<br />
by Debi Silber, MS, RD, WHC The Mojo Coach ®<br />
Just as you have a unique personality, you have a<br />
unique fitness personality too and creating a<br />
fitness program around that is the secret to lasting<br />
results. more on page 24<br />
Preventing and Reversing Summer Sun Damage<br />
by Dr. James C. Marotta<br />
Excessive amounts of ultraviolet radiation (UV) leads to<br />
premature aging of the skin resulting in wrinkles,<br />
abnormal pigmentation (sunspots) and an increased<br />
number of benign skin lesions like spider veins. more on page 27<br />
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Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction<br />
by Charlotte Rhee, MD, F.A.C.S., P.C.<br />
Many of my patients come to me seeking help with the changes that<br />
can occur after childbirth. Following childbirth, a woman’s breast can<br />
grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. A<br />
woman’s breast can actually lose volume and shrink, resulting in the<br />
breast appearing “deflated”.<br />
Additionally, a large number of women come to me seeking help with<br />
the post partum changes of their abdomen. During pregnancy the skin<br />
and abdominal wall muscles are stretched. Following childbirth, the abdomen can protrude<br />
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and the skin can be loose or sag. In some cases, the abdominal muscles can<br />
be so weakened that the individual may look like she is still pregnant. Despite<br />
daily workouts including sit ups and crunches, a tummy tuck may be needed<br />
to restore these muscles.<br />
Breast Reduction<br />
Women with very large pendulous breasts may experience varied medical<br />
problems including back and neck pain. Also, the weight of large breasts can<br />
cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large<br />
breasts get in the way of physical activities such as running, making exercise<br />
and weight loss very difficult if not impossible. Breast reduction (reduction<br />
mammaplasty), is a surgical procedure which makes breasts smaller.<br />
There are many different breast reduction techniques. The more traditional method (inverted T-<br />
scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical, long horizontal scar (along the breast crease). “I utilize the<br />
Lejour technique, which leaves the breast with a single vertical incision (lollipop scar) and, in my<br />
opinion, with a rounder more natural appearing breast and a better cosmetic result.” Breast reductions<br />
are performed as an outpatient procedure and are covered by insurance.<br />
Breast Augmentation<br />
Women who come to me seeking breast enlargement have very similar goals to those seeking<br />
breast reduction. Both groups of women want to have breasts that are proportional to their<br />
body size with the most natural result possible. In certain situations, a breast lift is also needed<br />
to tighten lax skin. The laxity can be the result of pregnancy or weight loss. When a breast<br />
lift is needed, I utilize the lollipop scar technique. A breast lift procedure is very similar to a<br />
breast reduction. The only difference is that with a breast reduction, breast tissue is removed.<br />
Combined Breast/Tummy Tuck and Liposuction Procedures.<br />
Many of my patients who have breast surgery also have other procedures performed at the<br />
same time. This allows for one surgery and one recovery. The most common combined procedures<br />
performed by Dr. Rhee are breast surgery, whether it is a breast<br />
reduction or augmentation, combined with tummy tuck, also known as<br />
abdominoplasty. For those patients who desire breast augmentation together<br />
with a tummy tuck, I am able to place the breast implants through the<br />
tummy tuck incision, leaving the breasts without any scars.<br />
Liposuction is also commonly performed at the same time. Despite diet and<br />
exercise, certain areas of the body are prone to carry excess fat. For these<br />
areas, liposuction can help. The most common areas for liposuction are the<br />
love handles (upper hip area) and thighs.<br />
Patients who have combined procedures do surprisingly well. In addition to<br />
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Your Health<br />
Finding Balancing In Health & Wellness<br />
by Debi Honorof<br />
Women today are busier than ever—working, caring for our children and our<br />
parents, taking classes, joining boards of community organizations—and often,<br />
taking care of ourselves falls to the bottom of the list. Eating right, exercising,<br />
and getting regular checkups? Who has the time? We’re already stressed to the<br />
limit, and can’t possibly fit one more thing into our busy schedules! But there are<br />
ways, and some local experts tell us how.<br />
Debi Silber, MS, RD, WHC, “The Mojo Coach,” helps us find way<br />
to incorporate exercise into our daily lives.<br />
We take care of everyone else, and never seem<br />
to find the time for ourselves, so I suggest scheduling<br />
appointments to exercise, just as we would<br />
schedule appointments for meetings, haircuts<br />
and doctors. Morning is best because, as the<br />
day progresses, more things get in the way. If<br />
exercise is not a priority, it will get bounced off<br />
the list. It’s not necessary—or even best—to exercise<br />
in one shot. Exercise in short bursts better<br />
boosts our metabolism, so fit exercise into your<br />
daily activities by finding ways to be more active.<br />
Take the stairs instead of the elevator and park<br />
your car farther away. Rather than sitting in a<br />
chair while you’re on the phone, pace your office<br />
or kitchen. Walk that message down the hall to your colleague rather than send<br />
it in an email. It’s OK to conserve gas, but don’t conserve your energy. Don’t wait<br />
until things that need to be brought upstairs pile up downstairs. Instead, carry<br />
things upstairs all day long. Think of young children. They don’t walk. They run,<br />
they glide, they skip, they bounce, they never run out of energy!<br />
Create an exercise program you enjoy and you’ll definitely see results. I’ve<br />
been in this business for 20 years and the number one excuse I hear is “I don’t<br />
have time for exercise!” We’re all busy! I have four kids, four dogs, and a full time<br />
practice, and I always fit exercise into my busy schedule. When I travel, I bring<br />
DVDs with me so that I can exercise in my hotel room.<br />
As we get older, exercise becomes an important way to reduce our risk for<br />
chronic illness, it helps us to lose weight, get a better nights’ sleep, helps us to<br />
shape and tone our bodies, decreases symptoms of depression, and increases our<br />
independence. It increases our confidence level and our overall quality of life.<br />
For more information, visit themojocoach.com.<br />
Neeta M. Shah, MD FACP, Vice President of Women’s Health<br />
Services at North Shore-LIJ Health System, urges women to take<br />
care of themselves.<br />
Top 5 Tips for a Healthier Tomorrow<br />
1. De-Stress: Stress is needed for “flight or fright” situations, but when we<br />
hold on to our stress, it becomes a problem. The stress hormones released cause<br />
inflammation in our bodies. Chronic stress and<br />
continued inflammation cause 85-90% of human<br />
illnesses. Situations in life cannot always<br />
be changed, but how we deal with them can<br />
make the difference. A positive attitude, plus<br />
rest and relaxation techniques like meditation,<br />
breathing exercises, and yoga can help.<br />
2. Eat Right: No dieting! Proper nutrition and<br />
everything in moderation is the key. Remember<br />
the “rainbow” and “color your plate” with colorful<br />
fruits and vegetables to get all the benefits<br />
of a healthy meal. Include whole grains, nuts,<br />
legumes and good fats. Enjoy what you eat and<br />
relish the flavor!<br />
3. Keep Moving: The word “exercise” can be very formal and may scare people<br />
away. So just keep moving—running, swimming, walking, and lift weights (not<br />
heavy) to keep your muscles in shape. Even lifting during household chores will<br />
help. Stretch for flexibility and do balance exercises with an exercise ball or with<br />
yoga, pilates or tai chi! Recommended walking time is 30 minutes per day, 5<br />
days per week. It can also be broken down to 10 minutes 3 times per day.<br />
4. Cut Negative Habits: Don’t smoke is the mantra! Any exposure to smoke<br />
has detrimental effects on our health. Grape juice is great, but if you would like<br />
a drink, limit it to one drink per day (12 fl. oz. of beer, 4-5 fl. oz. of wine or 1¼<br />
fl. oz. of liquor).<br />
5. Check-Up!: Make appointments for your annual visits and take the tests<br />
necessary for your age. Visit womenshealth.gov and download or print their<br />
screening tests and immunization guidelines for women.<br />
For more information, visit northshorelij.staywellsolutionsonline.com.<br />
Vincent Carvelli, BS, RTS, CPT, president of the Academy of Applied<br />
Personal Training Education (AAPTE), advises exercise as a<br />
way to balance stress and improve health.<br />
Emotional stress can result in a long list of symptoms, including tension headaches,<br />
high blood pressure, muscle and joint pain, premature coronary artery<br />
disease, heart disease, diabetes, skin conditions, asthma, increased body fat, arthritis,<br />
depression, and anxiety, to name a few. Aerobic exercise has been shown<br />
to aid in the management of stress and its related manifestations. The question<br />
is “how much exercise is enough?”<br />
Exercise frequency is often misunderstood. It is not uncommon for individuals<br />
to say they “don’t have time for it.” It is also very common for exercisers to do<br />
too little or too much. So when looking for balance, start with balancing your<br />
priorities. Your physiological and psychological health are undoubtedly the basis<br />
of how you feel and should be a priority; clearly exercise can help improve them<br />
respectively.<br />
The minimal time commitment required for exercise to yield significant stress-<br />
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The first and best way to achieve and maintain optimal hormonal<br />
function is to follow the previous five pillars of diet, supplements,<br />
exercise, stress management and detoxification. The perfect diet<br />
will help to maximize healthy hormone production late into life.<br />
Supplements can provide the nutritional precursors to hormone<br />
and herbal stimulants to endocrine glands including the pituitary,<br />
the thyroid, the adrenals and the sex glands. Appropriate exercise<br />
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Bio-identical hormones<br />
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effectively can be crucial. Removing toxins, which are often endocrine<br />
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However, eventually, there will come a time when the delicate balance<br />
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Bio-identical hormones are formulated to be identical, molecule for molecule, to our<br />
natural bodily hormones. They are not patentable because they are natural to our body.<br />
There is therefore no interest by the pharmaceutical companies to fund studies to show<br />
they are effective. In fact, pharmaceutical companies see them as a potential threat to<br />
their profits and actively campaign against them (including petitioning the FDA to prevent<br />
their sale and relentlessly marketing to doctors to convince them that bio-identicals<br />
are worthless and even dangerous).<br />
This is not to say that bio-identicals are perfect or are without potential dangers. In truth,<br />
although there are a number of studies showing their effectiveness and safety (including<br />
a recent large-scale meta-analysis), there is not an extensive body of large-scale studies as<br />
there is for the conventional HRT’s. However, logically, the bio-identicals should be safer<br />
than the synthetic hormones because the body already has enzyme pathways which work<br />
perfectly with the bio-identicals. We are also able to prescribe precise, individualized dosages<br />
so that physiologically normal levels can be maintained.<br />
It is always important when evaluating a patient for hormone balancing,<br />
to look at all the hormones of the body that interact in a<br />
perfect symphony of function. In addition to sex hormones, we also<br />
attempt to balance thyroid, adrenal and pituitary hormones.<br />
Although bio-identical hormone balancing seems to be more accepted<br />
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Exercise requires some degree of physical exertion — a sense of your body<br />
being challenged by placing it in a state of sustainable effort relative to the<br />
degree of intensity—but this doesn’t mean that you must be in pain for exercise<br />
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Aerobic exercise works by increasing the amount of oxygen carried in your<br />
blood. Your heart muscle responds by contracting faster and harder. The small<br />
blood vessels (capillaries) expand and deliver more oxygen to your muscles while<br />
carrying away waste products, such as carbon dioxide and lactic acid. Endorphins<br />
(often associated with the “runners’ high”) are naturally- produced, feelgood<br />
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exercise, you’ll feel healthier, with a stronger heart.<br />
To realize the benefits of exercise, have realistic expectations and set reasonable<br />
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Recent research has shown that at least 30 minutes of aerobic exercise<br />
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y Cynthia Shaw, M.S.<br />
We are “Baby Boomers.”<br />
We are the “Sandwich<br />
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We help to take<br />
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Oftentimes, it is not<br />
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the need, but we,<br />
their children. Calls for<br />
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meals. Mom or<br />
Dad seem sullen. They are lonely. We<br />
long to do all we can for those who<br />
did all they could for us. But we work<br />
outside the home more than full-time.<br />
Our own children need to be fed,<br />
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Seek out professionals to assist you before<br />
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Do your due diligence and meet with<br />
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Good Advice<br />
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by Dr. Charlotte Rhee<br />
Women with very<br />
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medical problems<br />
including back and neck pain. Also,<br />
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The LeJour technique<br />
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scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical<br />
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Your Life<br />
Work-Life Balance in a Changing World<br />
by Judy Martin<br />
150 women are mulling around at Carlyle on the Green at Bethpage State<br />
Park. They’re there to learn how to make better choices about their health, at the<br />
American Cancer Society’s Choose You Luncheon. Work-Life Balance is a<br />
common thread of conversation.<br />
“I think it’s a blend more than a balance,” says Neeta Shah<br />
M.D., about the concept of work-life balance. Dr. Shah<br />
is the Vice President of Women’s Health Services for<br />
North Shore LIJ Health System and the keynote for<br />
the conference. She shares about how keeping<br />
ones health in check, can lower the risk of cancer.<br />
But the message is just part of the bigger<br />
conversation about the work-life merge.<br />
“When you try to separate the two, you<br />
get frustrated on both ends. It’s important<br />
to blend or weave them through the day,”<br />
Dr. Shah tells me, adding “You might<br />
need to do something that requires<br />
more time at work on some days, but<br />
sometimes family is the priority.”<br />
The Changing State<br />
of the Workforce<br />
Dr. Shah has definite opinions on<br />
the “work-life blend,” as she calls it.<br />
A bona fide member of what has been<br />
called The Sandwich Generation, she’s<br />
a mother of three children who are living<br />
at home under the same roof with<br />
her in-laws. “Family is important,” she<br />
says, “but it’s about quality of time, not<br />
quantity.” It’s not an easy recipe when<br />
you’re juggling so many things at once.<br />
An estimated 20 million individuals nationwide<br />
are caring for both children and<br />
aging parents at the same time. But it’s only<br />
one of many factors elevating discussion about Judy Martin<br />
work-life balance in the media and catapulting photos by<br />
Fran Fitzgerald<br />
it into an important debate in the workplace.<br />
Economic and social structures around work and<br />
family are being challenged. Women now comprise half<br />
the workforce, dual-income families struggle with childcare,<br />
the economy skates on a dance floor of thin ice as it tries<br />
to recover from recession, many unemployed workers are taking a<br />
shot at entrepreneurship, Generation Y has a louder voice in the marketplace,<br />
the workforce is aging and technology has thrown a monkey wrench into our<br />
already overloaded stream of daily information.<br />
The corporate machine is also confronted with new tests. It must attract and<br />
retain skilled talent, often without the monetary incentive to keep them<br />
engaged. And global competition is picking up in a ferocious way.<br />
Some companies are looking more closely at best practices<br />
to enhance the well-being of their employees. That<br />
means addressing the issue of workplace flexibility,<br />
information overload and stress reduction.<br />
The Call form Flexibility<br />
in the Work-Life Merge<br />
“With the transformation in the workforce,<br />
we began to grapple with how to<br />
talk about what was happening and “balance”<br />
became the objective,” says Cali<br />
Yost, CEO of Work+Life Fit Inc.<br />
When she entered the workforce in<br />
1987, there was no talk of work-life<br />
initiatives because it was pretty simple,<br />
Ms. Yost says. “Here’s work. Here<br />
are the other parts of your life. Go<br />
have a danish.”<br />
The need to manage the way work<br />
fits into our lives is both a business<br />
and personal imperative, she adds.<br />
“If individuals are overwhelmed and<br />
stressed, the research categorically<br />
demonstrates that everyone loses—<br />
from shareholders to the employee.”<br />
Ms. Yost says work-life flexibility is a<br />
mutually-beneficial strategy in which<br />
individuals and businesses increasingly<br />
see value. Instead of organizations offering<br />
work-life initiatives as perks, she says,<br />
helping all employees (not just women)<br />
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real estate and contribute to the over all well-being<br />
of the workforce—especially in handling the stress<br />
caused by an ever- changing world.<br />
Work-Life Stress and Finances<br />
A 2011 survey conducted by the American Psychological Association found<br />
that “36% of workers reported experiencing regular work stress and nearly half<br />
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Good Advice<br />
The aging process, if you haven’t noticed, has a wear-and-tear effect on<br />
our skin and our bodies. As we enter our forties and early fifties the jaw line<br />
and neck begin to loosen, creating jowls, neck laxity, vertical bands in the<br />
neck, and that much dreaded “turkey neck.” In recent years we have<br />
become intolerant of these consequences, and more of us are seeking to<br />
rewind the clock and revitalize our physical being.<br />
There were over 100,000 facelifts performed in 2009 according to the<br />
American Society of Plastic Surgeons, but the techniques used vary widely. There are corporate<br />
sponsored face lifts that are advertised on television claiming no downtime, trademarked lifts,<br />
mini lifts, S-lifts, MACS lifts, and deep plane lifts. This is all very confusing,<br />
and most of us do not understand the vital differences. How do you decide<br />
what procedure gives the best results, with minimal scarring and downtime,<br />
and the longest lasting results? This is the most commonly asked<br />
question by my patients.<br />
Short-incision “mini” face lifts, often the ones advertised on television,<br />
utilize an abbreviated incision to lift the skin. While the incision is small<br />
(hidden inside the ear) leaving minimal scarring, post-operative bleeding<br />
and bruising is a trademark of these procedures. They typically tighten only the skin and do<br />
not lift and tighten the muscles. As a result, they can leave patients with a windswept,<br />
“pulled” appearance, and the results last only three to five years, as the underlying facial muscles<br />
are not tightened. The facial muscles are the structure of the face, the beams that hold up<br />
the face lift if you will; and if not treated the lifted face will fall earlier than desired.<br />
Compared to “mini” face lifts, a deep plane face lift yields more effective, longer lasting<br />
results with my patient population. It is a procedure that lifts the skin and muscle as one unit,<br />
as well as lifting the mid-face and cheek area. On the downside, deep plane face lifts require<br />
a very large incision, resulting in more noticeable scarring which makes hiding your procedure<br />
virtually impossible.<br />
The most state-of-the-art face lift is a recently developed hybrid technique, that I call the<br />
The Future Lift: A New Hybrid Facelift Technique<br />
by Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS<br />
The most state-of-the-art<br />
face lift is a recently<br />
developed hybrid technique,<br />
that I call the Future Lift.<br />
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The Future Lift uses a short incision, while lifting the facial tissue and muscles simultaneously<br />
so patients get the superior results of a deep plane face lift, combined with the minimal scarring<br />
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results, but a procedure that offers longer-lasting results as well. The standard<br />
lifetime of a “mini lift” is between three to five years, but with newer<br />
hybrid face lifts results typically last 12 to 15 years.<br />
Just like a “mini face lift,” The Future Lift can be performed under local<br />
anesthesia in about an hour and a half. General anesthesia is not necessary,<br />
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Your Life<br />
said a low salary has a significant impact of<br />
their stress level at work.”<br />
The statistics are not surprising to Huntington-based<br />
life and career coach Rita<br />
Maniscalco. “Technology is a contributor,<br />
but so is financial pressure,” says Maniscalco,<br />
who works with men and women in<br />
the changing work environment brought<br />
on by the recession, high unemployment,<br />
and the rising cost of living on Long Island.<br />
Some people have lost their jobs. But others,<br />
she says, see the writing on the wall<br />
and it pushes a lot of buttons in the family<br />
dynamic and on ones career path.<br />
Ms. Maniscalco says the pressure in the<br />
work-life merge is especially exacerbated by<br />
the financial need to provide for ones family.<br />
It’s stressful, she says, for the pocketbook<br />
and on the ego. “These men and women are<br />
essentially asking themselves ‘who am I,<br />
what do I have to offer in this new environment<br />
and how can I plug myself in?’”<br />
And those questions invariably impact<br />
their self-worth, says Ms. Maniscalco.<br />
“My response is to help them restore their<br />
confidence, to remind them they have the<br />
same gifts and experience even in a new<br />
economic environment. Their worth and<br />
value as a person hasn’t changed.”<br />
When value and worth are tied up in image<br />
or salary, any hiccup to those scenarios are bound to impact the work-life<br />
experience. Feeling “less than” is not a fleeting feeling that is left at work. It<br />
generally enters the family dynamic.<br />
Keeping Emotions Balance in Your Work Life<br />
“Whether you’re an entrepreneur or working for a big corporation, many are faced<br />
with the fear of not being able to excel,” says New York City/Huntington based psychologist<br />
Jennifer Howard, Ph.D.<br />
Dr. Howard says work-life balance is harder than ever before because our world has<br />
sped up and many are overworking to stay competitive, so the family dynamic suffers<br />
as well. Having to keep the job going and the household in shape, is challenging.<br />
“Balance is subject to time. Period.” Dr. Howard says you can strive for balance,<br />
but it’s more of a juggle. “If you are working on a project, it’s smart to set a length<br />
of time for the completion of that project. Then you can regroup and step away<br />
and arrange for more family time.”<br />
Dr. Howard suggests that we should be more compassionate with ourselves—and<br />
our families. “We don’t have to be so rigid all the time. Sometimes the house cleaning<br />
doesn’t happen when it’s supposed to. We all have our limits. If there’s nothing<br />
hairy growing in the kitchen, I’m in good shape.”<br />
When value and worth are tied up in<br />
image or salary, any hiccup to those<br />
scenarios are bound to impact the<br />
work-life experience.<br />
How do you have a life instead of just<br />
resting to go back to work? It’s about cutting<br />
ourselves some slack, says Dr. Howard.<br />
“It’s worth it to make choices; you can’t<br />
sustain a crazy pace or you’ll burn out.”<br />
Dr. Howard adds that we exist on many<br />
levels. To some people, for example, spirituality<br />
is crucial to their balance. “Spirituality<br />
can be nurturing. It feeds the body and such<br />
a deep connection can help sustain us and<br />
get us through those work-life humps.”<br />
Finding a practice that will sustain you<br />
through the rough patches and also build resilience<br />
is something that Dr. Shah believes is<br />
crucial to a healthy work-life blend.<br />
“Events happen in our life, but how we<br />
deal with it can change the outcome. You<br />
have to have a way to release the stress<br />
burdens that come along with the work-life<br />
burdens.”<br />
Dr. Shah says carrying such stress is not<br />
good for the soul but it’s especially bad<br />
for the body. According to Dr. Shah stress<br />
causes 80-85 percent of human illness and<br />
disease. Don’t carry discontent, Dr. Shah<br />
warns, “Move on, do not lift the pebble and<br />
make it into a mountain.” ❁<br />
Judy Martin is an Emmy award-winning<br />
journalist who tracks work-life trends. She<br />
has contributed to Marketplace Report, NPR,<br />
CNBC Business Radio, and News 12 Long Island. You can read more about her and<br />
her newly released e-book, 7 Tools to Reduce Stress in the Work-Life Merge on her<br />
blog WorkLifeNation.com.<br />
Judy Martin photos (including cover photo) by Fran Fitzgerald.<br />
10 Tips for Navigating the Work-Life Merge<br />
1. Keep a positive attitude<br />
2. Make the most of the moment<br />
3. Be mindful in every activity<br />
4. Practice good nutrition<br />
5. Get plenty of exercise<br />
6. Get enough sleep<br />
7. Cultivate a de-stressing technique<br />
8. Find “me” time and stick to it<br />
9. Schedule the white space in your calendar<br />
10. Limit web-surfing time<br />
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ACUPUNCTURE<br />
DR. DAZI CHEN, PhD, LAC<br />
516-562-9221<br />
444 Community Drive, Manhasset<br />
www.camtherapycenter.com<br />
see ad on page 24<br />
ALTERNATIVE HEALTH<br />
LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />
516-759-4200<br />
70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />
www.linchitzwellness.com<br />
see ad on page 7<br />
ARTS & CRAFTS<br />
BEADS N’ STITCHES<br />
516-396-9893<br />
153 Broadway, Hicksville<br />
516-783-1124<br />
2330 Merrick Rd., Merrick<br />
www.beadsnstitches.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
BIOIDENTICAL HORMONE THERAPY<br />
LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />
516-759-4200<br />
70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />
www.linchitzwellness.com<br />
see ad on page 7<br />
NATUROPATHIC SOLUTIONS, INC.<br />
DR. SHARON STILLS<br />
516-935-1334<br />
641C Old Country Rd., Plainview<br />
www.drstills.com<br />
see ad on page 25<br />
BREAST HEALTH<br />
COMPLETE WOMEN’S IMAGING CENTER<br />
516-255-8220<br />
440 Merrick Rd., Oceanside<br />
www.southnassau.org<br />
see ad on page 2<br />
CANCER CARE<br />
LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />
516-759-4200<br />
70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />
www.linchitzwellness.com<br />
see ad on page 7<br />
COSMETIC SURGERY<br />
DR. ANDREW JACONO<br />
516-773-4646<br />
440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck<br />
www.newyorkfacialplasticsurgery.com<br />
see ad on page 15<br />
MAROTTA FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY, P.C.<br />
631-982-2022<br />
267 E. Main St., Bldg. B, Smithtown<br />
www.marottamd.com<br />
see ad on page 27<br />
WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />
631-858-0500<br />
103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />
www.romeroclinic.com<br />
see ad on page 21<br />
COUNSELING<br />
REFLECTIONS PSYCHOTHERAPY &<br />
COUNSELING<br />
631-724-9462<br />
2 Brooksite Drive., Ste. 120, Smithtown<br />
77 Broadway, Amityville<br />
see ad on page 25<br />
DENTIST<br />
CHASE DENTAL HEALTH, LLC<br />
631-393-6888<br />
324 So. Service Rd., Ste. 116, Melville<br />
www.chasedentalhealth.com<br />
see ad on page 10<br />
DAY SPA<br />
FUSION SKIN SPA<br />
631-940-1672<br />
798 Grand Blvd., Deer Park<br />
www.fusionskinspa.com<br />
see ad on page 9<br />
DIAGNOSTIC SERVICES<br />
NEUROLOGICAL SURGERY, P.C.<br />
516-478--0008<br />
600 Northern Blvd., Ste. 118, Great Neck<br />
www.nspc.com<br />
see ads on page 13<br />
DIVORCE<br />
DIVORCEFAST.COM<br />
978-443-8387<br />
www.divorcefast.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
EDUCATION<br />
LONG ISLAND UNIVERSITY<br />
516-299-2900<br />
700 Northern Blvd., Brookville<br />
www.liu.edu<br />
see ads on page 13<br />
ELDERCARE<br />
BROADLAWN MANOR<br />
631-608-5600<br />
399 County Line Rd., Amityville<br />
www.broadlawn.org<br />
see ad on page 25<br />
HELPFUL CARE COMPANY<br />
516-599-5870<br />
Lynbrook<br />
www.helpfulcare.com<br />
see ad on page 12<br />
ENTERTAINMENT<br />
GATEWAY PERFORMING ARTS CENTER<br />
OF SUFFOLK COUNTY<br />
631-286-0555<br />
215 S. Country Rd., Bellport<br />
www.gatewayplayhouse.com<br />
see ad on page 29<br />
FINANCIAL PLANNING<br />
MARK J. SNYDER FINANCIAL SERVICES<br />
631-289-4224<br />
1731 North Ocean Ave., Medford<br />
www.markjsnyder.com<br />
see ad on page 23<br />
FITNESS<br />
GOLD COAST PILATES<br />
631-675-2787<br />
128 Old Town Rd., Suite B, Setauket<br />
www.markjsnyder.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
INTERIOR DESIGN<br />
DECORATING DEN INTERIORS<br />
631-367-9071<br />
local.decoratingden.com/longisland<br />
see ad on page 11<br />
FENG SHUI DESIGN<br />
631-225-1989<br />
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see ad on page 31<br />
TEXTILE MILL END SHOP<br />
631-581-9877<br />
57 Garfield Ave., East Islip<br />
wwww.textilemillendshop.com<br />
see ad on page 25<br />
LASER HAIR REMOVAL<br />
AESTHETIC PLASTIC SURGERY, PC<br />
516-498-8400<br />
833 Northern Blvd., Ste. 160, Great Neck<br />
www.aestheticplasticsurgerypc.com<br />
see ad on page 10<br />
advertiser guide<br />
LAWYERS<br />
KAROL HAUSMAN & SOSNIK<br />
516-745-0066<br />
600 Old Country Rd., Garden City<br />
www.khspc.com<br />
see ad on page 24<br />
MARY T. LUCERE, PLLC<br />
516-557-2312<br />
4007 Merrick Rd., Seaford<br />
lucerelaw@aol.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
LAW OFFICES OF LESLIE H. TAYNE, P.C.<br />
631-470-8204<br />
150 Broadhollow Rd., Ste. 213, Melville<br />
www.attorney-newyork.com<br />
see ad on page 12<br />
MEDITATION<br />
AWAKENINGS 7 CENTER<br />
631-724-9733<br />
Smithtown<br />
www.lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
MEDI-SPAS<br />
AESTHETIC MEDICAL STUDIO,<br />
KELLY O’MALLEY MATTONE, M.D.<br />
516-482-2424<br />
8 Bond St., Ste. 200, Great Neck<br />
www.aestheticmedicalstudio.com<br />
see ad on page 21<br />
LASER EAST<br />
631-858-2325<br />
6143 Jericho Tpke., Commack<br />
www.lasereast.net<br />
see ad on page 10<br />
J SPA MEDICAL DAY SPA<br />
ANDREW A. JACONO, M.D. FACS<br />
516-773-2424<br />
440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck<br />
www.jspamedspa.com<br />
see ad on page 15<br />
NORTH SHORE MEDICAL SPA<br />
516-869-8346<br />
1 Hollow Lane, Ste. 210, Lake Success<br />
www.NorthShoreMediSpa.com<br />
see ad on page 9<br />
WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />
631-858-0500<br />
103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />
www.romeroclinic.com<br />
see ad on page 21<br />
NEUROSURGERY<br />
NEUROLOGICAL SURGERY, P.C.<br />
516-255-9031<br />
Great Neck, Commack, Lake Success, Queens,<br />
Patchogue, Port Jefferson, Rockville Centre, W. Islip<br />
www.nspc.com.<br />
see ad on page 13<br />
PERMANANT MAKE-UP<br />
THE NORTH SHORE COSMETIC MEDICAL<br />
CENTER, ROGER B. KATZ, M.D.<br />
516-496-9797<br />
239 Jericho Tpke., Syosset<br />
see ad on page 17<br />
PERMANENT COSMETICS BY PHOEBE REINES<br />
631-681-0484, 631-331-8934<br />
301 Maple Ave., Smithtown<br />
www.permanentmakeupbyphoebe.com<br />
see ad on page 31<br />
PLASTIC SURGERY<br />
GREENBERG COSMETIC SURGERY<br />
STEPHEN T. GREENBERG, M.D.<br />
Woodbury – 516-364-4200<br />
Manhattan – 212-319-4999<br />
www.greenbergcosmeticsurgery.com<br />
see ads on page 3<br />
MAROTTA FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY, P.C.<br />
631-982-2022<br />
267 E. Main St., Bldg. B, Smithtown<br />
www.marottamd.com<br />
see ad on page 27<br />
THE NORTH SHORE COSMETIC MEDICAL<br />
CENTER, ROGER B. KATZ, M.D.<br />
516-496-9797<br />
239 Jericho Tpke., Syosset<br />
see ad on page 17<br />
CHARLOTTE ANN RHEE, M.D., FACS<br />
631-424-6707<br />
257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington Station<br />
www.liplasticsurgery.com<br />
see ads on pages 5 & 12<br />
STEVEN WALLACH, M.D.<br />
516-921-0530<br />
175 Jericho Tpke., Ste. 212, Syosset<br />
www.stevenwallachmd.com<br />
see ad on page 11<br />
PERSONAL COACH<br />
LIFESTYLE FITNESS, INC.<br />
631-499-4999<br />
www.themojocoach.com<br />
see ads on page 24<br />
PSYCHIC<br />
PATRICIA BONO<br />
516-922-7574<br />
www.patriciabono.com<br />
see ads on page 31<br />
SKINCARE<br />
AESTHETIC PLASTIC SURGERY, PC<br />
516-498-8400<br />
833 Northern Blvd., Ste. 160, Great Neck<br />
www.aestheticplasticsurgerypc.com<br />
see ad on page 10<br />
SLEEP DISORDERS<br />
CHASE DENTAL HEALTH, LLC<br />
631-393-6888<br />
324 So. Service Rd., Ste. 116, Melville<br />
www.chasedentalhealth.com<br />
see ad on page 10<br />
UROLOGIST<br />
SCOTT M. PRESS, M.D. PC<br />
631-591-3120<br />
792 Harrison Ave., Riverhead<br />
226 North Belle Meade Rd., Setauket<br />
www.7minutesling.com<br />
see ad on page 19<br />
VASCULOR CARE<br />
NORTH SHORE MEDICAL SPA<br />
516-869-8346<br />
1 Hollow Lane, Ste. 210, Lake Success<br />
www.NorthShoreMediSpa.com<br />
see ad on page 9<br />
WEIGHT CONTROL<br />
DR. DAZI CHEN, PhD, LAC<br />
516-562-9221<br />
444 Community Drive, Manhasset<br />
www.camtherapycenter.com<br />
see ad on page 24<br />
WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />
631-858-0500<br />
103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />
www.romeroclinic.com<br />
see ad on page 21<br />
WINDOW TREATMENTS<br />
TENTINA WINDOW FASHIONS<br />
631-957-9585<br />
1186 Route 109, Lindenhurst<br />
www.tentina.com<br />
see ad on page 35<br />
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Your Family<br />
Sandwiched<br />
by Annie Blachley<br />
In 1930s America, many generations often lived together, from newborn babies<br />
to great-great-grandparents. One fictitious depression-era family captivated<br />
television viewers decades later, during the 1970s, as the multi-generational<br />
Waltons—Grandpa, Grandma, Mom, Dad and seven children—took care of each<br />
other under one big roof in the Blue Ridge Mountains.<br />
In that agrarian economy, everyone lived off the land, from shelling peas to<br />
sawing timber. Nature and hard work provided enough so that it was unnecessary<br />
to labor for money or to spend it. Many hands lightened the load and<br />
maintained a household balance.<br />
Today, though, reality usually dictates that multi-generational clans cannot<br />
share one home, creating pressure on all the generations. Researchers describe<br />
this “sandwich”: The oldest generation is the top layer, the youngest is the bottom,<br />
and the caregivers, often middle-aged, are in between. “Sandwich generation”<br />
caregivers in the middle often encounter economic hardship, reduced<br />
social services, limited work flexibility, and more, so that they are weighted down<br />
in more of a “panini” effect.<br />
Sociologist Dorothy Miller is credited with introducing the sandwich generation<br />
term in 1981. Because women traditionally assume this role, usually living<br />
longer than men, sometimes they are called “women in the middle.” Today, an<br />
estimated one in five Americans—about 22 percent—care for their parents and<br />
their own children simultaneously.<br />
Pile on the Layers<br />
Madeline Seifer, M.A., LMFT, director of the Marriage and Family Clinic at Hofstra<br />
University’s Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center, explains<br />
why so many older people need care. She says, “People are living longer because<br />
of the improved medical care we have in this country.”<br />
In 1900, the average life expectancy was age 47; today, it’s 78. In fact, the Society<br />
of Actuaries, business professionals who analyze the financial consequences<br />
of risk, predicts that there is a 50 percent chance with a healthy couple where<br />
both are 65 that one will live to be 92.<br />
Such longevity evolved because of factors besides advanced medicine. In 1995,<br />
mortality was high, with fewer long-lived people needing help, and high fertility<br />
rates produced more family members to pitch in. Today, both rates have<br />
declined; more elderly people require care, because of dementia or other problems,<br />
but there are fewer younger family caregivers. The Department of Health<br />
and Human Services (DHSS) projects that the over-65 population will reach 55<br />
million in 2020 (a 36 percent increase from 2010). By 2030, an estimated one in<br />
five Americans will be 65 or older, requiring nearly two-thirds of the baby-boom<br />
generation to care for an elderly parent.<br />
Also adding pressure to caregivers are the troubled economy, reduced healthcare<br />
services and higher insurance costs. Many in their 40s and 50s are experiencing<br />
layoffs, forced early retirement or unanticipated unemployment during<br />
their so-called peak earning years, and they worry about their own retirement.<br />
Their parents’ investments that yielded 8 percent now earn barely 2 percent, and<br />
income from pensions and Social Security isn’t always adequate for expensive<br />
housing costs and property taxes. Many elderly people need help with fixing<br />
meals, shopping, managing money, laundry, housecleaning, or simply using the<br />
telephone. Unless their children are available, they need in-home care, which<br />
erodes their savings—and sometimes their children’s savings as well.<br />
“The economy is going to force more and more people to care for the elderly in<br />
their own homes,” predicts Seifer. “The healthcare system is getting worse for us<br />
who use it. Co-payments are increasing and available services are diminishing.<br />
Even for those who are fortunate enough to have health insurance, premiums<br />
are going up each year and there are fewer services.”<br />
The Money Mash<br />
Karen Boorshtein, LCSW, president and CEO of Huntington-based Family Service<br />
League (FSL), says, “The stereotype is that Long Island is an affluent area.<br />
But we’re seeing a lot of families who may have a parent who is not doing well<br />
but they don’t have the resources to go into a nursing home or assisted living<br />
facility—it’s very, very expensive.”<br />
How expensive? A MetLife 2010 survey of metropolitan New York found that<br />
assisted living facilities range between $3,050 and $8,205 per month. For those<br />
requiring more care, the average nursing home private room costs $229 a night<br />
($83,585 a year). Older residents staying at home with assistance pay $21 per<br />
hour for home health aides, meaning nearly $1,700 per month just for part-time<br />
help, 20 hours per week.<br />
As Boorshtein says, “A lot of people won’t save enough to afford that. With<br />
the economy and people being out of work and having to take care of a parent,<br />
it adds to that stress.”<br />
On Long Island, half the mothers work full time, according to a 2003 Rauch<br />
Foundation survey. Of those working full- or part-time, 70 percent have children<br />
under 18. The survey also found that employer policies providing working<br />
parents with more flexible hours are available to fewer than half the working<br />
parents in Nassau and Suffolk counties. The study concluded that Long Island<br />
lags the country in adopting family-friendly policies.<br />
Robyn Berger-Gaston, LCSW, director of youth, senior and inter-generational<br />
services at FSL, points out how the lack of flex time upsets the family balance.<br />
“One of the greatest strains that caregivers are facing is finances, because it’s<br />
taking time away from their jobs to take their loved ones to doctor appointments.”<br />
On the bottom sandwich layer, the kids are seeing their hopes crushed and<br />
prospects dwindle. The average college cost is $20,000 a year, but many undergraduate<br />
and graduate students who thought their expensive education would<br />
produce well-paying jobs and security are lucky to land any job. The coveted<br />
education has created huge debt for students and graduates along with the<br />
reality of not being able to afford their own place because of low wages and<br />
high rents. Many move back home and contribute what they can, often leaving<br />
parents to foot the bulk of the bill.<br />
Squeezed in the middle of these additional layers are caretakers for both generations.<br />
A MetLife Mature Market Institute poll found that 42 percent of employees<br />
with minor children live paycheck to paycheck, but for those with caregiving<br />
responsibilities—the working sandwich generation—the figure jumps to 64 percent.<br />
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Just when they had hoped to slow down, take time off and get reacquainted<br />
with their spouse after years of raising children, many have found themselves<br />
giving—and giving and giving—time and energy to their parents. And while<br />
caregiving can be rewarding, it often upsets the balance at home.<br />
Many counselors recognize that for caregivers, it is key to take care of themselves—to<br />
enhance their own peace of mind, spirit and body and to maintain<br />
energy to care for loved ones. To avoid potentially overwhelming “burnout” feelings,<br />
therapists recommend that caregivers get regular exercise; confide in others<br />
to avoid becoming isolated and ask for help with specific tasks; take time to<br />
pamper and nurture themselves; relax, eat and sleep well.<br />
With all the attention the sandwich phenomenon has received, more resources<br />
are available, helping members of this generation through the tough terrain.<br />
Says Hofstra’s Seifer, “People seem to be taking it in stride now. More and more<br />
institutions are popping up to help us with it.”<br />
Robyn Berger-Gaston of Family Service League offers this advice: “Caring for<br />
a frail, elderly loved one can be very overwhelming. It should help to know that<br />
no one has to go through it alone.”<br />
Living by that motto is exactly how the Waltons stayed together as one big,<br />
happy family. ❁<br />
Support for the Sandwiched<br />
Emotional<br />
• Support groups (most are free)<br />
• Individual caregiver counseling<br />
• Seminars on aging-related issues<br />
• Discuss realistic expectations from teenagers and older<br />
“boomerang” kids<br />
• Set your own limits; consult senior centers and other<br />
resources<br />
Legal<br />
Establish living wills, healthcare proxies and powers of attorney<br />
before a crisis.<br />
• Private elder law attorney (asset/healthcare protection)<br />
• Touro Law Center Senior Citizens’ Law Program 631-761-7470<br />
• Nassau Law Services Senior Citizens Project 516-292-8088<br />
Financial/Medical<br />
• Financial planner<br />
• www.medicare.gov 1-800-MEDICARE<br />
• Medicaid (by county); sometimes covers in-home care<br />
General<br />
Asking for help from your friends, family and community is OK.<br />
• Suffolk County Office for the Aging 631-853-8200<br />
• Nassau County Office for the Aging 516-227-8900<br />
• Veterans and fraternal organization support<br />
• Local Area Agency on Aging (transportation)<br />
• Churches/synagogues<br />
• Adult day care/respite<br />
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Your Money<br />
Balancing Your Financial Life<br />
by Arlene K. Haims, CLU, ChFC , LUTCF<br />
We all seek balance in our lives, but how many of us consider our financial<br />
balance? Balancing your checkbook is only the beginning; if you want to find<br />
your pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, you need to take an honest look at<br />
your current financial colors, paint them with your future goals, and find a way<br />
to balance the two. Especially for women who are single, taking the time now<br />
to bridge your current financial picture and your future financial goals will not<br />
only help you feel more financially balanced today, but will help secure a brighter<br />
financial future.<br />
Assessing Your Current Financial Picture<br />
First, take a look at your current financial picture, which consists of:<br />
• Income (salary, commissions, investment income, child support, etc.)<br />
• Checking<br />
• Savings<br />
• Emergency savings account (equaling 6-12 months of income, so that if<br />
you lose your job or you encounter unexpected medical or other expenses,<br />
you have a cushion)<br />
• Outstanding short and long term debt, including credit cards, mortgage, and<br />
other loans (auto, home equity, etc.)<br />
• Investments (money market account, stocks, bonds, CDs)<br />
• Retirement plans (current value)<br />
• Estimated Social Security income<br />
• Insurance policies (employee benefits, health, life, disability, home, auto,<br />
umbrella, and liability)<br />
Next, prepare a weekly and monthly budget of all items that deplete your income.<br />
Keep an honest and detailed record of ALL your expenses—including your<br />
morning coffee and a pack of gum—for at least two weeks. It sounds simple, but<br />
it is a very necessary part of getting a complete view of your current financial<br />
situation. You might be very surprised about what you’re spending your money<br />
on.<br />
Closely examine your income and expenses in order to create a balance that<br />
doesn’t compromise your lifestyle. Imagine a set of balancing scales with income<br />
on one side and expenses on the other. In order to maintain a balance, regularly<br />
monitor your progress with the understanding that sometimes events occur<br />
where you need to take action. For example, with the rising cost of fuel, you may<br />
choose to eat out less often.<br />
Setting Your Financial Goals<br />
Separate your goals into three categories that reflect both your financial timeline<br />
and your life plan.<br />
• Short-term financial goals (the next 5 years)<br />
Examples:<br />
• Buying a larger house or downsizing<br />
• Purchasing a new car<br />
• Professional development expenses<br />
• Planning a trip<br />
• Growing your business<br />
• Mid-term financial goals (the next 5-10 years)<br />
Examples:<br />
• College fund<br />
• Paying down debt to prepare for retirement<br />
• Putting money aside for a wedding or other family celebrations<br />
• Selling your business<br />
• Cutting back on work hours<br />
• Long-term financial goals (retirement and beyond)<br />
Examples:<br />
• Retiring<br />
• Traveling<br />
• Buying a boat or RV<br />
• Moving to another state<br />
• Providing for your heirs<br />
Once your financial goals are set, reflect upon and affirm your commitment<br />
to these goals, with the understanding that challenges may occur that would<br />
require you to tweak or completely revamp your goals for the future.<br />
Insuring Your Goals<br />
The insurance program you put into place are meant to help complete your<br />
goals in the event of an unforeseen occurrence such as loss of income because<br />
of death, disability, destruction of property or anything else that might create a<br />
sudden financial hardship.<br />
Investing In Your Future<br />
Ask the average person and they’ll tell you that you need a Ph.D in Finance to<br />
understand investments, so to dispel that myth, let’s return to our short-term,<br />
mid-term and long-term goals.<br />
For the short-term, investments need to be liquid and easily accessible. Investing<br />
in mutual funds or stocks may not appropriate because they are volatile in nature<br />
and require a longer time to weather the ups and downs of the market. Since your<br />
investment is only as good as its value on the day you want to cash them in, a<br />
money market account, short-term bond or CD would be your safest bet.<br />
For your mid- and long-term goals, your gut plays an important role. What kind<br />
of investor are you? Where is your comfort level?<br />
• Conservative (you won’t sleep at night if you think the market took a dip<br />
today)<br />
• Moderate (you’re ready to cautiously put your big toe in the water)<br />
• Moderate/Aggressive (you’re getting comfortable with more risk for greater<br />
reward)<br />
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• Aggressive (you’re comfortable taking a greater risk with the hope of a<br />
greater return)<br />
The general rule about investments is that the length of time you have for an<br />
investment to grow will determine the type of investment that is right for your<br />
situation.<br />
Working With a Financial Planner<br />
A financial planning professional can offer various tools to help you determine<br />
where you stand today, and will advise you according to your risk tolerance, your<br />
age and your expendable income. Your comfort levels could very well change<br />
over time as you become more comfortable with your results and more comfortable<br />
with your planner.<br />
Why should you use a financial planner? Statistics show that finding a comfortable<br />
fit with a financial planner and working with someone over the long<br />
term will yield better investment results. Why? Because in general, individuals<br />
investing on their own tend to bail when the market takes a dip, whereas most<br />
financial professionals would advise you to hold tight because statistically, investments<br />
tend to weather the storm and come back over the long term.<br />
Often, the best approach to achieving financial balance is a team approach<br />
that includes your attorney, your accountant and your financial advisor working<br />
together … with you as the team leader.<br />
Seeking financial balance requires constant monitoring to make sure that your<br />
dollars—as well as your comfort level—are on track. If you follow your plan, the<br />
pot of gold at the end of your rainbow will be abundant! ❁<br />
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10 TIPS TO KEEP YOUR EXPENSES IN BALANCE<br />
1. Always be mindful of those incidental expenses. They really add up<br />
2. Pay your bills on time. Late charges are expensive.<br />
3. Prepare a monthly budget and stick to your promise.<br />
4. Pay yourself first. Make a bill-paying day each month and pay your<br />
savings account first.<br />
5. Maintain an ongoing dialogue with your planner so that she is<br />
aware of any personal issues that may warrant rebalancing your<br />
investments.<br />
6. Commit to quarterly or semi-annual meetings with your planner<br />
and make sure meetings are made and kept.<br />
7. If you are considering a risky investment or a huge purchase, sleep<br />
on it before acting on it. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.<br />
8. Balance your checkbook each month. Catch mistakes early and<br />
chaos will be averted.<br />
9. If your employer matches your employee contribution to a<br />
retirement plan, try to contribute at least to the match point.<br />
10. Check your credit rating regularly and make repairs immediately.<br />
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To show our commitment, Zwanger-Pesiri<br />
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Our goal is to<br />
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Nassau County<br />
•Bailey Arboretum<br />
Bayville Rd. and Feeks Ln., Lattingtown<br />
516-571-8020. baileyarboretum.org<br />
This former family estate features 42 acres of<br />
exotic trees, rare shrubs and beautiful flower<br />
beds.<br />
•Clark Botanic Garden<br />
193 I.U. Willets Rd., Albertson. 516-484-8600.<br />
clarkbotanic.org.<br />
This 12-acre living museum and educational<br />
facility is listed as an official Daylily Garden<br />
(one of only about 325 in the United States).<br />
•C.W. Post Community Arboretum<br />
Long Island University, C.W. Post Campus<br />
720 Northern Blvd., Brookville; 516-299-2900.<br />
liu.edu/CWPost/About/Resources/Arboretum<br />
Open to the public, seven days a week, from<br />
dawn until dusk, the arboretum is comprised<br />
of a 40-acre portion of campus. There are<br />
more than 125 trees, some very rare, each<br />
labeled with horticultural facts and origin<br />
information. You can also enjoy approximately<br />
75,000 tulips and daffodils.<br />
•Hofstra University Arboretum<br />
Hempstead Tpke., Hempstead. 516-463-6623.<br />
hofstra.edu/community/arbor/index.html.<br />
The campus is one of only 430 arboreta in the<br />
U.S.. There are more than 12,000 evergreen<br />
and deciduous trees that represent 625<br />
species and varieties. The campus is also a bird<br />
sanctuary, and a two-acre portion features<br />
an Environmental Studies Center with a<br />
hummingbird and a naturalistic rock waterfall.<br />
•John P. Humes Japanese Stroll Garden<br />
Dogwood Ln. & Oyster Bay Rd., Mill Neck. 516-<br />
676-4486. gardenconservancy.org/humes.html.<br />
This four-acre garden is an American<br />
adaptation of a Japanese strolling garden.<br />
Public and private tours are available as well as<br />
tea demonstrations and other events.<br />
•Old Westbury Gardens<br />
71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. 516-333-<br />
0048. oldwestburygardens.org.<br />
Named one of the World’s Most Beautiful<br />
Gardens by ForbesTraveler.com and listed on<br />
the National Register of Historic Places, this<br />
is the former home of the Phipps family. The<br />
Charles II-style mansion sits on 200 acres of<br />
formal gardens, woodlands, ponds and lakes.<br />
•Planting Fields Arboretum State Historic Park<br />
Planting Fields Rd., Oyster Bay. 516-922-9200<br />
plantingfields.org.<br />
Former Gold Coast estate of more than 400<br />
acres. Arboretum contains greenhouses,<br />
gardens, woodland paths and plant<br />
collections. Estate buildings include Coe Hall,<br />
a 1920s Tudor Revival with an important<br />
stained glass collection. Mrs. Coe’s Bedroom<br />
was recently unveiled with newly-recreated<br />
landscape murals to replace the lost originals.<br />
Suffolk County<br />
•Bayard Cutting Arboretum State Park<br />
440 Montauk Hwy., Great River. 631-581-1002<br />
bayardcuttingarboretum.com.<br />
One of the most extensive collections of fir,<br />
spruce, pine, cypress, hemlock and other<br />
conifers. Also, extensive plantings of dwarf<br />
evergreens, azaleas, hollies and oaks as well as<br />
wildflowers and daffodils.<br />
•Bridge Gardens<br />
36 Mitchell Ln., Bridgehampton. 631-537-7440.<br />
peconiclandtrust.org/bridge_gardens.html.<br />
This unique botanical garden was donated to<br />
the Peconic Land Trust in 2008. There are two<br />
distinct garden districts on these five acres:<br />
the Inner Garden and the Outer Garden.<br />
Highlights include the ivy maze, the collection<br />
of 800 antique and modern roses and eight<br />
lavender beds.<br />
•LongHouse Reserve<br />
133 Hands Creek Rd., East Hampton. 631-329-<br />
3568. longhouse.org.<br />
A celebration of art in all its forms, the<br />
arboretum and sculpture gardens sit on nearly<br />
16 acres. There are limited open hours for the<br />
public and a variety of educational programs.<br />
•The Madoo Conservancy<br />
618 Sagg Main St., Sagaponack. 631-537-8200<br />
madoo.org.<br />
Now on the National Register of Historic<br />
Places, these two-acre gardens incorporate<br />
the houses and studios of artist Robert<br />
Dash. Limited public hours; photographs are<br />
permitted.<br />
<br />
June<br />
•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />
June 25-Aug. 16. Free performances at the<br />
Chapin Rainbow Stage in Heckscher Park.<br />
Huntington Arts Council, 631-271-8423.<br />
huntingtonarts.org.<br />
•11th ANNUAL OUTDOOR ARTS AND CRAFTS<br />
SHOW<br />
June 25-26. Hampton Bays Chamber of Commerce,<br />
69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-2211.<br />
July<br />
•ALIVE AFTER FIVE<br />
‘Everybody, Everybody’<br />
Loves The H untington Summer Arts Festival<br />
The 46th Huntington Summer Arts Festival kicks off June 25th with<br />
a performance by singer, songwriter and R&B queen, Martha Wash.<br />
Known for her sultry voice in the popular group, The Weather Girls,<br />
Martha was also featured in many of the Black Box and C&C Music<br />
Factory hits with songs such as “Everybody, Everybody” and “Gonna<br />
Make You Sweat (Everybody<br />
Dance Now).”<br />
The 8-week festival<br />
presented by the town<br />
of Huntington features<br />
more than 40 free<br />
outdoor concerts and<br />
performances from<br />
both national and international<br />
talent. The<br />
amazing lineup of performers<br />
includes comedy,<br />
drama, jazz, blues,<br />
classical, and pop acts<br />
all at the Chapin Rainbow<br />
Stage. Call 631-271-<br />
8423 or visit huntingtonarts.org.<br />
Martha Wash<br />
July 1, 8 & 29 and Aug. 12. Patchogue. 631-<br />
207-1000. aliveafterfive.com. Free Friday night<br />
summer street fair concerts.<br />
•EAST END GREENFEST<br />
October 1 & 2. Strawberry Fields Fairgrounds,<br />
Rte. 48, Mattituck. 631-734-5894. eastendgreenfest.com.<br />
Outdoor festival celebrating<br />
green solutions for a healthier world.<br />
•Great South Bay Music Festival<br />
July 15, 16 & 17. Shorefront Park, Smith St.,<br />
Patchogue. 631-331-0808. greatsouthbaymusicfestival.com.<br />
Three stages and more than 40<br />
artists perform rock, folk and blues. Arts and<br />
crafts market, Guitar Hero contest, Brews Tent<br />
and Wine Garden and more.<br />
•HISTORIC BASE BALL TOURNAMENT<br />
July 30. Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Round<br />
Swamp Rd., Old Bethpage. 516-572-8400.<br />
•HISTORICAL SOCIETY CRAFT FAIR<br />
July 9 & 10. Second House Museum, Montauk<br />
Hwy., Montauk. 631-668-5340.<br />
montaukchamber.com.<br />
•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />
Through Aug. 16. Free performances at the<br />
Chapin Rainbow Stage in Heckscher Park.<br />
Huntington Arts Council, 631-271-8423.<br />
huntingtonarts.org.<br />
•LONG ISLAND COMEDY FESTIVAL<br />
Various dates and venues. 516-446-6782.<br />
longislandcomedyfestival.com.<br />
•LONG ISLAND INTERNATIONAL FILM EXPO<br />
July 8-14. Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave.,<br />
Bellmore. 516-783-3199.<br />
lifilmexpo.org.<br />
•NIGHT AT THE LIGHT<br />
July 17. Montauk Point Lighthouse, Montauk.<br />
631-668-2428. montaukchamber.com. A<br />
celebration of Long Island wines with jazz and<br />
hors d’oeurvres.<br />
•STONY BROOK FILM FESTIVAL<br />
July 21-30. Staller Center, Stony Brook University,<br />
Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-632-2787.<br />
stallercenter.com.<br />
August<br />
•BILL HAUTMANN MEMORIAL FLEA MARKET<br />
& ANTIQUE SHOW<br />
Aug. 13 & 14. The Great Lawn, Potunk Ln. &<br />
Main St., Westhampton Beach. 631-288-3337.<br />
whbcc.org.<br />
•BLUEGRASS FESTIVAL<br />
Aug. 20. Tanner Park, Copiague. 631-587-3696.<br />
babylonarts.com.<br />
•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />
See July for more information.<br />
•LONG ISLAND COMEDY FESTIVAL<br />
See July for more information.<br />
•NATIONAL LIGHTHOUSE DAY<br />
Aug. 7. Reduced tower tour fee at Fire Island<br />
Lighthouse. 631-321-7028.<br />
fireislandlighthouse.com.<br />
•PAUMANAUKE POW WOW<br />
Aug. 13 & 14. Babylon Town Hall Park, 200<br />
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•Wear sunscreen always and reapply frequently. Look for 2 things<br />
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E. Sunrise Hwy., Lindenhurst. 631-587-3696.<br />
babylonarts.com.<br />
•SAYVILLE SUMMERFEST<br />
Aug. 5-7. Greater Sayville Chamber of Commerce<br />
event, 631-567-5257.<br />
greatersayvillechamber.com.<br />
•24th ANNUAL OUTDOOR ART SHOW<br />
August 27&28 Hampton Bays Chamber of Commerce,<br />
69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-2211.<br />
•Seafood Festival & Craft Fair<br />
Aug. 27 & 28. Long Island Maritime Museum, 86<br />
West Ave., West Sayville. 631-HISTORY. limaritime.org.<br />
Music, exhibits, vendors and seafood.<br />
September<br />
•East Northport Festival<br />
Sept. 9-11. John Walsh Park, East Northport.<br />
631-261-3573. eastnorthport.com. Craft vendors,<br />
exhibits, sidewalk sales, food, bicycle stunt<br />
shows, live entertainment, street performers and<br />
more.<br />
•HALLOCKVILLE FALL FESTIVAL<br />
Sept. 17 & 18. Hallockville Museum Farm and<br />
Folklife Center, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead.<br />
631-298-5292. hallockville.com.<br />
•LONG ISLAND FAIR<br />
Sept. 22-25. Old Bethpage Village Restoration,<br />
Round Swamp Rd., Old Bethpage. 516-572-<br />
8400.<br />
•13th ANNUAL CHILI/CHOWDER CONTEST<br />
September 25. Hampton Bays Chamber of<br />
Commerce, 69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-<br />
2211. Restaurants & individuals submit favorite<br />
chili and/or chowder for tasting and voting by<br />
local residents & visitors & blind tasting by three<br />
judges.<br />
October<br />
•GARLIC FESTIVAL<br />
Oct 1. Garden of Eve Organic Farm, 4558 Sound<br />
Ave., Riverhead. 631-523-6608. gardenofevefarm.com.<br />
Seventh annual celebration with<br />
vendors, food, crafts, music, theater and garlic.<br />
Enter the Great Garlic Cook-Off.<br />
•APPLE FESTIVAL<br />
Oct. 16. Kissam Property, 434 Park Ave., Huntington.<br />
631-427-7045.<br />
•ARTS & CRAFT SHOW<br />
Oct. 8. Greater Westhampton Chamber of<br />
Commerce, 7 Glovers Ln., Westhampton Beach.<br />
631-288-3337.<br />
whbcc.org.<br />
•HAMPTONS INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL<br />
Oct. 13-17 631-324-4600; 631-747-7978.<br />
hamptonsfilmfest.org.<br />
November<br />
•LIGHTING THE LIGHTHOUSE<br />
Nov. 26. Montauk Point Lighthouse, Montauk.<br />
631-668-2428.<br />
montaukchamber.com.<br />
•LONG ISLAND RESTAURANT WEEK<br />
Nov. 6-13. Participating restaurants offer threecourse<br />
prix fixe meals for $24.95. 631-329-<br />
0050. longislandrestaurantweek.com.<br />
December<br />
•CHRISTMAS AT HALLOCKVILLE<br />
Dec. 4. Hallockville Museum Farm and Folklife<br />
Center, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead. 631-298-<br />
5292. hallockville.com.<br />
•DICKENS FESTIVAL<br />
Dec. 2-4. Port Jefferson Village Center at Harborfront<br />
Park, 101-A East Broadway, Port Jefferson.<br />
631-473-5220 or 802-2160. pjvillagecenter.com.<br />
• DEEPWELLS HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE<br />
Dec. 3 – 4, 10-11. Deepwells Farm Historic Park,<br />
497 Moriches Rd., St. James, NY. 631-563-8551.<br />
<br />
<br />
Environmental/Community<br />
Organizations<br />
•Citizens Campaign for the Environment (CCE)<br />
.................................................. 516-390-7150<br />
citizenscampaign.org<br />
•Group For the East End<br />
...........................631-537-1400/631-765-6450<br />
eastendenvironment.org<br />
•Long Island Pine Barrens Society<br />
.................................................. 631-369-3300<br />
pinebarrens.org<br />
•Long Island Progressive Coalition<br />
.................................................. 516-541-1006<br />
lipc.org<br />
•Neighborhood Network ............. 631-963-5454<br />
neighborhood-network.org<br />
•Peconic Baykeeper ..................... 631-653-4804<br />
peconicbaykeeper.org<br />
•Renewable Energy Long Island (RELI)<br />
.................................................. 631-329-8888<br />
renewableenergylongisland.org<br />
•Sustainable Long Island ............. 516-873-0230<br />
sustainableli.org<br />
•Vision Long Island ..................... 631-261-0242<br />
visionlongisland.org<br />
Farm Stands<br />
•Albert H. Schmitt Family Farms .. 631-549-1159<br />
6 Bagatelle Rd., Dix Hills<br />
schmittsfamilyfarms.com<br />
•Andrews Family Farm and Greenhouses<br />
.................................................. 631-929-5963<br />
1038 Sound Ave., Wading River<br />
•Briermere Farms ........................ 631-722-3931<br />
4414 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />
briermere.com<br />
•Brightwaters Farms & Nursery ... 631-665-5411<br />
1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore<br />
brightwatersfarms.com<br />
•Condzella’s Farmstand............... 631-929-5058<br />
6233 N. Country Rd., Wading River<br />
•Colonial Springs Farms .............. 631-643-4829<br />
201 Main Ave., Wheatley Heights<br />
•Davis Peach Farm ...................... 631-929-1115<br />
Hulse Landing Rd., Wading River<br />
davispeachfarm.com<br />
•Deer Run Farms ......................... 631-286-7299<br />
282 South Country Rd., Brookhaven<br />
•Gabrielsen’s Country Plant Farm<br />
.................................................. 631-722-3259<br />
1299 Main Road (Rte. 25), Jamesport<br />
•Garden of Eve Organic Farm ...... 631-680-1699<br />
4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />
gardenofevefarm.com<br />
•Golden Earthworm Organic Farm<br />
.................................................. 631-722-3302<br />
652 Peconic Bay Blvd., Jamesport<br />
goldenearthworm.com<br />
•Green Thumb of Water Mill ........ 631-726-1900<br />
829 Montauk Hwy., Water Mill<br />
•Harbes Family Farm ...Mattituck, 631-298-0800<br />
Jamesport, 631-722-2022<br />
harbesfamilyfarm.com<br />
•Kaufold’s Country Farm ............. 631-924-1265<br />
724 Middle Country Rd., Rte. 25, Ridge<br />
•Krupski’s Country Florist and Farm<br />
.................................................. 631-734-6847<br />
38030 Rte.. 25, Peconic<br />
•Lewin Farms .............................. 631-929-4327<br />
Sound Ave., Wading River<br />
lewinfarms.com<br />
•Long Island Farm Bureau .......... 631-727-3777<br />
104 Edwards Ave., Calverton<br />
lifb.com<br />
•May’s Farmstand ....................... 631-929-6654<br />
Rte. 25A, Wading River<br />
•Mediavilla Orchards, Inc. ........... 631-423-4794<br />
1527 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington<br />
•The Milk Pail Farm & Orchard .... 631-537-2565<br />
1346 Montauk Hwy., Water Mill<br />
milk-pail.com<br />
•Northville Farms ........................ 631-722-3229<br />
5403 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />
•Peconic River Herb Farm ............ 631-369-0058<br />
2749 River Rd., Calverton<br />
prherbfarm.com<br />
•Pike Farms ...................................... (June-Oct.)<br />
Sagg Main, Sagaponack<br />
•Richters Orchard (Aug.-May) ..... 631-261-1980<br />
Pulaski Rd., Northport<br />
•Rottkamp’s Fox Hollow Farm ..... 631-727-1786<br />
2287 Sound Ave., Calverton<br />
•Sang Lee Farms ......................... 631-734-7001<br />
25180 County Rd. 48, Peconic<br />
sangleefarms.com<br />
•Schmitt Farms ........................... 631-271-3276<br />
26 Pinelawn Rd., Melville<br />
schmittfarms.com<br />
•Schmitt’s Farm Country Fresh ..... 631-298-1991<br />
1305 Laurel Ln., Laurel<br />
•Seven Ponds Orchard ................ 631-726-8015<br />
65 Seven Ponds Rd., Water Mill<br />
•Stakey’s Pumpkin Farm ............. 631-722-3467<br />
270 West Ln., Aquebogue<br />
stakeyspumpkinfarm.com<br />
•Talmage Farm Agway & Garden Center<br />
.................................................. 631-727-3100<br />
1122 Osborne Ave., Riverhead<br />
talmagefarm.com<br />
•Wells Homestead ...................... 631-722-3796<br />
460 Main Rd., Aquebogue<br />
wellshomesteadmarket.com<br />
•White Post Farms ...................... 631-351-9373<br />
250 Old Country Rd., Melville<br />
whitepostfarms.com<br />
•Wickham’s Fruit Farm ................ 631-734-6441<br />
28700 Main Rd., Cutchogue<br />
wickhamsfruitfarm.com<br />
•Woodside Farms........................ 631-722-5770<br />
Aquebogue & Jamesport<br />
woodsidefarmssli.com<br />
•Youngs Farm - The Annex .......... 516-626-3955<br />
Hegeman’s Ln., Old Brookville<br />
Farmers Markets<br />
•Community Supported Agriculture (CSAs)<br />
.................................................. 831-475-8150<br />
localharvest.org/csa<br />
•Kennedy Plaza Farmers Market (May-Nov.)<br />
.................................................. 516-431-1000<br />
Long Beach<br />
longbeachny.org<br />
•Nassau County Market (June-Nov.)<br />
...........................................Tuesdays, 7am-1pm<br />
101 County Seat Drive, Garden City<br />
nassaucountyny.gov<br />
•Nassau County Market (June-Nov.)<br />
..................................... Wednesdays, 7am-1pm<br />
Christopher Morley Park, Roslyn<br />
nassaucountyny.gov<br />
•New York State Farm Fresh <strong>Guide</strong><br />
.................................................. 800-554-4501<br />
agmkt.state.ny.us/AP/FFGResults.asp<br />
•Restoration Farm (June-Sept.)<br />
............................................ Saturdays, 12-2pm<br />
Old Bethpage Village Restoration parking lot<br />
restorationfarm.com<br />
Health Food Stores<br />
•Back to Basic Natural Food ........ 631-821-0444<br />
632 Rte. 25A, Rocky Point<br />
•Capitol Health Foods ................. 631-271-5577<br />
357 New York Ave., Huntington<br />
•Cornucopia Natural Foods ......... 631-589-9579<br />
39 N. Main St., Sayville<br />
•Dr. B Well Naturally ................... 516-932-9355<br />
8 Washington Ave., Plainview<br />
•Eden’s Way Natural Foods ......... 516-798-5670<br />
37 Broadway, Massapequa<br />
•Fairway Market ......................... 516-937-5402<br />
50 Manetto Hill Mall, Plainview<br />
fairwaymarket.com<br />
•Get Healthy America ................. 516-931-1900<br />
148 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview<br />
•Green Earth Grocery .................. 631-369-2233<br />
50 E. Main St., Riverhead<br />
•Jandi’s Natural Market & Organic Cafe<br />
.................................................. 516-536-5535<br />
3000 Long Beach Rd., Oceanside<br />
jandis.com<br />
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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />
•Living Natural ........................... 516-771-9230<br />
177A W. Merrick Rd., Freeport<br />
•Organically Yours....................... 631-754-2150<br />
114 Main St., Northport<br />
•Port Washington Twin Pines Food Coop &<br />
Charitable Thrift .......................... 516-883-9777<br />
382 Main St., Port Washington<br />
pwtwinpines.googlepages.com<br />
•Rising Tide Natural Market......... 516-676-7895<br />
42 Forest Ave., Glen Cove<br />
•Sherry’s the Healthy Gourmet .... 631-661-5552<br />
89 Deer Park Ave., Babylon<br />
sherryshealth.com<br />
•St. James Natural Food .............. 631-862-6076<br />
296 Lake Ave., St. James<br />
•The Health Nuts ........................ 516-683-9177<br />
92 Old Country Rd., Westbury<br />
•The Mung Bean Natural Foods Store<br />
.................................................. 631-499-2362<br />
Commack Corners Shopping Center, 6522<br />
Jericho Tpke., Commack<br />
•Trader Joe’s<br />
5010 Jericho Tpke., Commack .... 631-493-9210<br />
1280 W. Broadway, Hewlett ......... 516-569-7191<br />
137 Alexander Ave., Lake Grove... 631-863-2477<br />
1714 Merrick Rd., Merrick .......... 516-771-1012<br />
3418 Long Beach Rd., Oceanside 516-536-9163<br />
425 S. Oyster Bay Rd., Plainview .. 516-933-6900<br />
traderjoes.com<br />
•Whole Foods<br />
2101 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-869-8900<br />
429 N. Broadway, Jericho ............ 516-932-1733<br />
wholefoodsmarket.com<br />
•Wild By Nature<br />
2709 W. Long Beach Rd., Oceanside<br />
.................................................. 516-764-3580<br />
369 W. Main St., Huntington ....... 631-424-6480<br />
198 Main St., East Setauket ......... 631-246-5500<br />
260 W. Montauk Hwy., Hampton Bays<br />
.................................................. 631-723-3071<br />
wildbynature.com<br />
<br />
Alcohol, Drug and Other Addictions<br />
•AA/Al Anon Meetings<br />
...........................631-473-1320/631-476-2723<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Alcoholics Anonymous<br />
...........................516-292-3040/631-669-1124<br />
nassauny-aa.org; suffolkny-aa.org<br />
Bay Shore ................................... 516-435-2863<br />
Freeport ..................................... 516-223-9590<br />
•Care Center -- Children of Alcoholics Group<br />
................................................. 516-378-2992<br />
•Families Anonymous<br />
...........................631-474-9659/631-924-9357<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Food Addicts Anonymous ......... 631-338-9059<br />
Lake Grove<br />
•Gamblers Anonymous<br />
...........................877-533-4395/877-442-4248<br />
•Overeaters Anonymous .............. 631-473-1320<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Sexual Addictions Anonymous S-ANON, SA,<br />
Couples ...................................... 347-531-5977<br />
•Women for Sobriety .................. 215-536-8026<br />
womenforsobriety.org<br />
Alzheimers<br />
•Adult Children of Individuals with Alzheimer’s<br />
Groups ..................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF<br />
Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org<br />
•Alzheimer’s Association<br />
.......................... 631-580-5100/800-272-3900<br />
Ronkonkoma. alz.org/longisland<br />
Alzheimer’s Groups<br />
............................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF<br />
Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org<br />
•Alzheimer’s Caregivers .... 631-585-2020, x260<br />
Community Programs Center of L.I.,<br />
Ronkonkoma<br />
•Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group ....516-432-0570<br />
Temple Emanu-El of Long Beach, Long Beach<br />
•Friendship Circle ........................516-484-1545<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Let’s Do Lunch (Young Onset) ....516-484-1545<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Shabbat Respite Program<br />
........................................ 516-822-3535, x326<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. myjcc.org<br />
•Spouses of Alzheimer’s/Dementia Patients<br />
..................................................631-264-0222<br />
Broadlawn Manor, Amityville<br />
Bereavement<br />
•Animal Bereavement Group.......516-785-6416<br />
Long Island Vetenary Specialist Center ,<br />
Plainview<br />
•Bereavement .............................631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Bereavement .............................516-465-2500<br />
North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System<br />
(various locations) northshorelij.edu<br />
•Bereavement ..... 631-744-8566/631-744-8116<br />
St. Louis de Montfort R.C. Church<br />
•Bereavement .................... 516-766-4341 x131<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Bereavement .............................631-465-6262<br />
Good Shepherd Hospice<br />
goodshepherdhospice.net<br />
•Bereavement .................... 516-822-3535 x328<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Bereavement .................... 516-484-1545 x196<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Bereavement .................... 631-581-4266 x100<br />
St. Mary’s Church, 20 Harrison Ave., E. Islip<br />
maryseastislip.org<br />
•Bereavement Group (suicide) .... 631-687-2960<br />
Brookhaven Hospice<br />
•Bereavement ................... 631-462-9800, x139<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Bereavement (1 on 1) ................516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Bereavement Groups for Children and Families<br />
..................................................516-626-1971<br />
North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center<br />
•Death of a Child Support Group<br />
..................................................631-738-0809<br />
St. Sylvester’s Church, Medford<br />
•Grief Share................................516-731-6736<br />
Plainedge Baptist Church, Bethpage<br />
•H.E.A.L.(Help Ease A Loss)<br />
.......................... 631-265-4520/631-265-2810<br />
St. Thomas of Canterbury Church, Smithtown<br />
•Holocaust Survivors and Friends<br />
......................................... 631-462-9800 x121<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Loss of a Baby ...........................631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Loss of a Child ................. 516-822-3535 x328<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Loss of a Sibling ............... 516-822-3535 x328<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Loss of Spouse ..........................516-634-4190<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Recent Widow/Widower ... 516-766-4341 x131<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Recently Bereaved Group ..........866-789-5423<br />
Sunrise of N. Lynbrook, N. Lynbrook<br />
•Widows and Widowers 50+<br />
......................................... 631-462-9800 x139<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Widow/Widower .............. 516-766-4341 x131<br />
JCC of West Hempstead, W. Hempstead<br />
FEGS Partners in Caring/Friedberg JCC<br />
•Widow/Widower .............. 516-484-1545 x196<br />
Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />
•Widow/Widower (ages 40 and up)<br />
..................................................516-395-8303<br />
Parkway Community Church, Hicksville<br />
•Widow/Widower (ages 50-60)<br />
.......................................... 516-766-434, x131<br />
Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />
•Widows Group ................. 516-822-3535 x331<br />
Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />
•Widows and Widowers to Age 45<br />
......................................... 631-462-9800 x139<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
Breast and other Cancers<br />
•Adelphi New York State Wide Breast Cancer<br />
Hotline ...................................... 800-877-8077<br />
•American Cancer Society ..........800-ACS-2345<br />
cancer.org<br />
•Breast Cancer .......................... 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•Breast and Ovarian Cancer Group<br />
.........................................631-462-9800 x129<br />
Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />
•Breast Cancer .......................... 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center,<br />
Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Breast Cancer Family and Friends<br />
................................................. 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center<br />
Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Cancer Group ...516-256-6025/516-256-6478<br />
Franklin Hospital, Valley Stream<br />
•Cancer Patient and Survivor Group<br />
................................................. 631-675-9003<br />
Long Island Cancer Help and Wellness Center,<br />
Bay Shore. breastcancerhelpinc.org<br />
•Cancer Groups ......................... 516-465-2500<br />
North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System<br />
(various locations). northshorelij.edu<br />
•Cancer Survivors ...................... 631-473-1320<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Cancer Support Group .............. 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Cancer Support Group for Women with Bilateral<br />
Masectomies .............................. 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Day Time Group for Breast Cancer<br />
................................................. 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•Family Support ......................... 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition<br />
................................................. 631-547-1518<br />
hbcac.org<br />
•Lean On Me ............................. 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Live, Love & Laugh Again (breast cancer)<br />
................................................. 631-476-2776<br />
John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Look Good, Feel Better ............. 631-376-4444<br />
Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center<br />
Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />
good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />
•Metastatic Breast Cancer ......... 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•Mid-Island Skin Cancer ............ 516-352-4227<br />
ccmac.org<br />
•National Ovarian Cancer Coalition (NOCC)<br />
................................................. 631-672-2027<br />
Long Island Chapter, Huntington Station<br />
ovarian.org<br />
•Breast Cancer (a variety of support groups)<br />
................................................. 516-374-3190<br />
Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />
•Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer<br />
......................631-476-2776 or 631-689-1854<br />
Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />
matherhospital.org<br />
•Night Time Group for Breast Cancer<br />
................................................. 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•Close Knit Group (knit and talk group for<br />
women with breast cancer) ........ 516-877-4314<br />
Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />
•South Fork Breast Health Coalition<br />
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