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<strong>Survival</strong> <strong>Guide</strong><br />

THE<br />

RESOURCE<br />

GUIDE<br />

FOR<br />

LONG ISLAND WOMEN<br />

2011/2012<br />

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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

................................................. 631-726-8606<br />

southforkbreast.com<br />

•Spanish-Speaking Women with Breast Cancer<br />

................................................. 516-877-4314<br />

•Spouses and Partners of Those with Breast<br />

Cancer ....................................... 516-877-4314<br />

Support for People With Oral and Head and Neck<br />

•Cancer ..............516-759-5333/800-377-0928<br />

Syosset & Stony Brook. spohnc.org<br />

•Thriving Through and Beyond Cancer.<br />

......... ......................................... 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Thyroid Cancer Survivors Hotline<br />

................................................. 877-588-7904<br />

•Young Women with Breast Cancer<br />

................................................. 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•Breast Cancer Hotline ............... 800-877-8077<br />

Caregiver Support<br />

•Adult Children Caregivers ......... 516-742-2050<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview<br />

JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

miyjcc.org<br />

•Caregivers Group .............516-496-7550 x217<br />

F.E.G.S., Syosset . fegs.org<br />

•Caregivers Group ...........631-244-2400 x2235<br />

Good Shepherd Hospice<br />

goodshepherdhospice.net<br />

•Caregivers Group .............516-822-3535 x328<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Caregivers Group ..................... 516-742-2050<br />

Temple Emanuel, Long Beach<br />

•JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

Caregivers Groups ...................... 631-585-2020<br />

dayhaven.org<br />

•Caregivers Group ........... 516-484-1545 x196<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Caregivers Group ..................... 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Caregivers Group .............631-462-9800 x220<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Caring For Your Spouse ............ 516-742-2050<br />

JCC of W. Hempstead, W. Hempstead<br />

JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

•Let’s Do Dinner (spouses of Young Onset<br />

Alzheimer’s patients) .................. 516-484-1545<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Let’s Do Pizza (kids with parents with Young<br />

Onset Alzheimer’s)...................... 516-484-1545<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Sandwich Generation ............... 516-742-2050<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

Spouses & Siblings ..................... 516-742-2050<br />

Temple Chaverim, Plainview<br />

JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

•Spouses, Children & Siblings ..... 516-742-2050<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

JASA Nassau County Caregiver Resource Center<br />

•Well Spouses or Partners of the Chronically Ill<br />

and Disabled .............................. 516-829-8740<br />

St. Charles Rehab Center, Albertson<br />

rosebirdlady@aol.com<br />

Divorce and Seperation<br />

•Divorce Care ............................ 516-731-6736<br />

Life Center of Bethpage,<br />

•Divorce Support Group ............. 516-992-2873<br />

Alliance to Restore Integrity in Divorce (ARID)<br />

•Divorced & Separated .......516-822-3535 x331<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Divorced and Separated 12-Step Group<br />

................................................. 718-468-2654<br />

Community Church of East Williston<br />

•Divorced and Separated Group<br />

.........................................516-484-1545 x196<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Divorced & Separated Groups ... 631-462-9800<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Divorced and Separated Group . 631-724-9462<br />

Reflections Associates, Smithtown<br />

•Marriage Alive Support Group .. 631-525-3646<br />

•Separated/Divorced Counseling Group<br />

................................................. 516-599-1181<br />

Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook<br />

•Separation/Divorce ...........516-766-4341 x131<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Singles ............................ 631-462-9800 x139<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Singles Group ..........................516-822-3535<br />

Mid Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Singles Group 55+ ...................516-766-4341<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Singles Support and Discussion Group<br />

.................................................516-395-8303<br />

Parkway Community Church, Hicksville<br />

Long Island Cares A Lot:<br />

The Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />

•Women Separating and Divorcing<br />

.................................................631-525-3646<br />

Domestic Violence, Rape and Sexual<br />

Abuse<br />

•Brighter Tomorrows ..................631-395-1800<br />

brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />

•Kids 2 Kids ..............................631-439-0480<br />

•Child Abuse & Maltreatment Referrals<br />

.................................................800-342-3720<br />

Elder Abuse ................................516-542-0404<br />

Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Hempstead<br />

•Family Violence and Child Abuse<br />

.................................................516-485-5710<br />

F.E.G.S.. fegs.org<br />

Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

•Violence 24-hr. hotline .............516-542-0404<br />

cadvnc.org<br />

•Protection of Children and Young People<br />

........................................ 516-678-5800 x573<br />

Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre<br />

•Rape/Sexual Assault Hotline (Nassau County<br />

Coalition Against Domestic Violence)<br />

.................................................516-542-0404<br />

•Self-Esteem in Relationships ....631-667-4188<br />

Ascension Lutheran Church, Deer Park<br />

•Sexual Abuse Survivors ... 516-678-5800 x573<br />

Diocese of Rockville Centre, Rockville Centre<br />

•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

Violence ............. 631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />

sccadv.org<br />

•The Retreat (hotline for Domestic Violence)<br />

.................................................631-329-2200<br />

•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS) of Suffolk<br />

County .......................................631-360-3606<br />

Did you know that the Harry Chapin Food Bank is Long Island’s first<br />

food bank? This hunger organization was founded in 1980 by the late<br />

singer, songwriter and social activist, Harry Chapin. Today, the food<br />

bank offers nutritional food and support services for over 540 food pantries,<br />

soup kitchens, emergency shelters, childcare programs, disability<br />

organizations, veterans’ services and more. Each year, they distribute<br />

more than 6 million pounds<br />

of healthy food to Long Island<br />

Cares’ operations. In<br />

addition to supplying food,<br />

they also participate in food<br />

drives, hunger education,<br />

job training, kids’ cafes and<br />

mobile outreach vans. If you<br />

would like to volunteer, call<br />

631-582-FOOD.<br />

Health Related/Miscellaneous<br />

•Adhesions (scar tissue pain) ....631-921-7426<br />

Stony Brook University Hospital, Stony Brook<br />

adhesionsfoundation.org<br />

•Alopecia ......... 631-680-0148; 415-472-3780<br />

naaf.org<br />

•Arthritis ................................. 631-427-8272<br />

arthritis.org<br />

•Brain Aneurysm .......................516-562-3815<br />

The Brain Aneurysm Center at North Shore Univ.<br />

Hospital, Manhasset. nsalant@nshs.edu<br />

•Brain AVM and Aneurysm Support Group<br />

.................................................516-442-3527<br />

Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />

Island. mni.org<br />

•Brain Tumor Support Group ......516-442-3527<br />

Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />

Island. lmni.org<br />

•Brain Tumor Patients and Their Families<br />

......................... 516-679-5075/516-946-0649<br />

N. Bellmore and Commack<br />

guardianbrain.org<br />

•Coma/ Traumatic Brian Injury Recovery Association<br />

............................................631-756-1826<br />

South Nassau Community Hospital, Oceanside<br />

•Crohn’s & Colitis Group ............516-222-5530<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Chronic Fatigue & Fibromyalgia 631-548-8237<br />

Diabetes/Heart Club ......516-674-7833 or 7936<br />

Glen Cove Hospital, Glen Cove<br />

•Diabetes Group ........................516-596-4357<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett<br />

•Eating Disorders .......................516-637-0965<br />

Reaching Out Against Eating Disorders, Baldwin<br />

roaed.org<br />

•Epilepsy ...................................631-474-6489<br />

St. Charles Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

•Face Pain and Trigeminal Neuralgia Support<br />

Group ........................................ 516-442-3527<br />

Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />

Island. lmni.org<br />

•Hearing Impaired and Cochlear Implant<br />

Patients...................................... 718-470-8631<br />

North Shore LIJ Health System Hearing and<br />

Speech Center, New Hyde Park<br />

•South Shore Women’s Heart .... 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip.<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Hepatitis C Support Group (American Liver<br />

Foundation) ............................... 631-754-4795<br />

•HIV/AIDS .................................. 631-691-7080<br />

F.E.G.S. Copiague. fegs.org<br />

•Irritable Bowel Syndrome ......... 516-371-0660<br />

South Nassau Communities Hospital Counseling<br />

Center, Baldwin<br />

•Lupus....................................... 516-783-3370<br />

Lupus Foundation of Long Island, Bellmore<br />

•Lymphedema ........................... 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Melanoma (Patients & Caregivers)<br />

................................................. 516-352-4227<br />

32 • 2011/ 2012 LONG ISLAND WOMAN SURVIVAL GUIDE To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or ads@liwomanonline.com


Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

cmbc1@optonline.net<br />

Multiple Sclerosis ....................... 631-864-8337<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Myasthenia Gravis .................... 631-765-2186<br />

Emma S. Clark Memorial Library, Setauket<br />

•National Federation of the Blind 516-868-8718<br />

•National Multiple Sclerosis Society,<br />

..........................631-864-8337/516-740-7227<br />

Melville<br />

•Neck and Back Pain Support Group<br />

................................................. 516-442-3527<br />

Leslie Munzer Neurological Institute of Long<br />

Island. lmni.org<br />

•Ostomy Association of Long Island/Nassau<br />

................................................ 516-759-0734<br />

•Pain Management Support Group<br />

................................................. 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />

Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Parkinson’s Support Group ....... 631-265-6621<br />

Smithtown Parkinson Therapy Center,<br />

Smithtown Methodist Church, Smithtown<br />

•Parkinson Disease Support Groups<br />

.................................631-862-3560 liapda.org<br />

•Sleep Apnea ......631-376-4299/631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center,<br />

W. Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Sleep Disorders ........................ 631-476-2721<br />

Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson.<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Stroke Support ......................... 516-719-2411<br />

North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset<br />

•Stroke Survivors & Caregivers<br />

..........................516-562-4947/516-562-3111<br />

Plainview Hospital, Plainview<br />

Mental Health<br />

•Anxiety and Panic Group .......... 631-226-3900<br />

mhasuffolk.org<br />

•Counseling............................... 631-691-3347<br />

F.E.G.S.. fegs.org<br />

•Emotions Anonymous ............... 631-584-5604<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Mental Illness Family Support ... 516-504-HELP<br />

Mental Health Association of Nassau County,<br />

Hempstead<br />

•Mental Health Association in Suffolk County<br />

................................................. 631-226-3900<br />

Lindenhurst. mhasuffolk.org<br />

•Mood Disorders ....................... 631-226-3900<br />

mhasuffolk.org<br />

•Mood Disorder Group............... 516-546-1370<br />

South Nassau Communities Hospital Outpatient<br />

Clinic, Baldwin<br />

•National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)<br />

..........................516-694-7327/800-950-6264<br />

NAMI Long Island Regional Council, Old Bethpage.<br />

nami.org<br />

•NAMI Huntigton 631-424-4528/631-271-2935<br />

•Postpartum Depression<br />

.........................631-422-2255/ 855-631-0001<br />

Postpartum Resource Center of New York<br />

postpartumNY.org.<br />

•Post Traumatic Stress Disorder<br />

................................................. 631-226-3900<br />

mhasuffolk.org<br />

•Relatives and Friends of persons with a Mental<br />

Illness ........................................ 631-226-3900<br />

mhasuffolk.org<br />

•Suicide Prevention Hotline ...........800-SUICIDE<br />

Parenting & Family Issues<br />

•Adoption Hotline ...................... 516-799-7445<br />

JCCA<br />

•Developmental Disabilities Institute<br />

................................................. 631-360-4600<br />

Smithtown (family support services)<br />

ddiinfo.org<br />

•Grandparents Raising Grandchildren<br />

................................................. 516-569-6600<br />

Peninsula Counseling Center, Woodmere<br />

•Long Island Infant Developmental Program<br />

................................................. 516-546-2333<br />

•National Infertility Network Exchange (NINE)<br />

................................................. 516-794-5772<br />

•New Mothers’ Group................ 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />

Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Parenting (Special Needs) .516-484-1545 x200<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Parenting Young Children ......... 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />

Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Parents of Adult Children With a Developmental<br />

Disability ............................... 516-822-0028<br />

Bethpageacld.org<br />

•Parents of Children With Autism<br />

.........................................516-822-3535 x332<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Parents of Lesbian and Gay Children<br />

................................................. 516-569-6600<br />

Peninsula Counseling Center, Lynbrook<br />

•Parents of Special Needs Children<br />

.........................................516-766-4341 x160<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Parents of Young Children, Birth to Five<br />

.........................................516-766-4341 x162<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside.<br />

ParentingResourceNetwork.org<br />

•Postpartum Depression ............. 631-422-2255<br />

Postpartum Resource Center of New York<br />

postpartumNY.org.<br />

•Pregnancy and Infant Loss ....... 516-562-8422<br />

North Shore Univ. Hospital, Manhasset<br />

•Pregnancy Information and Referral<br />

................................................. 631-853-3033<br />

•Single Parent Support Group<br />

.........................................516-822-3535 x328<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

Smoking Cessation<br />

•American Cancer Society ......... 800-ACS-2345<br />

516-921-6016 or 631-436-7070. cancer.org<br />

•Green Seminars ........................ 800-342-1303<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Nicotine Anonymous<br />

..........................631-665-0527/415-750-0328<br />

nicotine-anonymous.org<br />

Weight Loss<br />

•Bariatric Support Group ............ 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W.<br />

Islip. good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Green Seminars ........................ 800-342-1303<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Post-Bariatric Support Group .... 516-62MERCY<br />

Mercy Medical Center, Rockville Centre<br />

•Overeaters Anonymous ............. 631-473-1320<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Overweight Women .................. 631-525-3646<br />

Women’s Issues<br />

•Lesbian Group ......................... 631-748-4193<br />

Sayville Congregational Church<br />

•WINGS (Women In Network Giving Support)<br />

................................................. 516-334-8985<br />

609 Dartmouth St., Westbury<br />

•Women’s Self-Awareness, Self-Care and Self-<br />

Realization ................................. 516-794-7328<br />

EDA Counseling Center, Westbury<br />

•WomenHeart .......................... 631-271-3766<br />

The Huntington Heart Center, Huntington<br />

<br />

Advocacy/Empowerment<br />

•American Association of University Women<br />

(AAUW) .................................... 631-472-9377<br />

aauw-nys.org<br />

•BiasHELP of Long Island (hate crime)<br />

........................ 631-479-6015; 877-END-BIAS<br />

biashelp.org<br />

•League of Women Voters of Suffolk County<br />

................................................ 631-421-5164<br />

lwv-suffolkcounty.org<br />

•Long Island Women’s Agenda (LIWA)<br />

................................................ 516-677-LIWA<br />

liwa.org<br />

•NARAL Pro Choice New York ... 212-343-0114<br />

prochoiceny.org<br />

•National Association of Mothers’ Centers<br />

(NAMC) .................................... 516-520-2929<br />

motherscenter.org<br />

•National Council of Jewish Women<br />

................................................ 516-569-3660<br />

ncjw.org<br />

•National Coalition of 100 Black Women Long<br />

Island Chapter Inc. .................... 516-223-6522<br />

li100bw.org<br />

•National Organization For Women (now) Mid-<br />

Suffolk Chapter ......................... 631-234-4747<br />

midsuffolknow.org<br />

•Planned Parenthood Hudson Peconic<br />

................................................ 914-467-7300<br />

Smithtown<br />

plannedparenthood.org/hudsonpeconic<br />

•Planned Parenthood of Nassau County<br />

................................................ 516-750-2600<br />

plannedparenthood.org/nassaucounty<br />

•Women Economic Developers of LI (WEDLI)<br />

................................................ 516-832-3261<br />

wedli.org<br />

•Women on the Job .................. 516-396-9857<br />

womenonthejob.org<br />

•Women’s Sports Foundation .... 516-542-4700<br />

womenssportsfoundation.org<br />

•Women Wake Up .................... 631-929-4078<br />

womenwakeup-SC.org<br />

Breast Cancer<br />

•1 in 9: The Long Island Breast Cancer Action<br />

Coalition ................................... 516-374-3190<br />

1in9.org<br />

•Adelphi NY Statewide Breast Cancer Hotline<br />

and Support Program ............... 516-877-4320;<br />

800-877-8077<br />

adelphi.edu/nysbreastcancer<br />

•Babylon Breast Cancer Coalition<br />

................................................ 631-893-4410<br />

babylonbreastcancer.org<br />

•Breast Cancer H.E.L.P. Inc. (Healthy Environment<br />

for a Living Planet) ........... 631-675-9003<br />

breastcancerhelpinc.org<br />

•Brentwood/Bay Shore Breast Cancer Coalition<br />

................................................ 631-273-9252<br />

bbbcc.org<br />

•Great Neck Breast Cancer Coalition .......info@<br />

greatneckbcc.org<br />

•Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition<br />

(HBCAC) ................................... 631-547-1518<br />

hbcac.org<br />

•Islip Breast Cancer Coalition .... 631-968-7424<br />

islipbreast.com<br />

•Latina Breast Cancer Support Group<br />

................................................ 631-951-6908<br />

bbbcc.org<br />

•Long Beach Breast Cancer Coalition<br />

................................................ 516-897-1344<br />

longbeachbcc.org<br />

•Manhasset Women’s Coalition Against Breast<br />

Cancer ...................................... 516-627-2410<br />

manhassetbreastcancer.org<br />

•Sisters United in Health/Hermanas Unidas En<br />

la Salud .................................... 800-559-6348<br />

•South Fork Breast Health Coalition<br />

................................................ 631-726-8606<br />

southforkbreast.com<br />

•The Maurer Foundation for Breast Health<br />

Education.................................. 516-535-5370<br />

maurerfoundation.org<br />

•West Islip Breast Cancer Coalition for Long<br />

Island, Inc. ................................ 631-669-7770<br />

wibcc.org<br />

Business<br />

•Black Women Enterprises (BWE)<br />

................................................ 516-485-5900<br />

blackwomenenterprises.org<br />

•Business and Professional Women<br />

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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

................................................ 718-816-0093<br />

bpwnys.org<br />

•Business Women’s Golf Association of Long<br />

Island........................................ 631-368-1724<br />

liladygolf.com<br />

•East End Women’s Network ..... 631-723-2448<br />

eewn.org<br />

•Executive Women’s Golf Association -- LI<br />

chapter ..............516-539-0150/561-691-0096<br />

ewgali.org<br />

•Independent Business Women’s Circle (IBWC)<br />

.........................516-670-9012/866-514-9127<br />

ibwc.org<br />

•Long Island Center For Business & Professional<br />

Women ..................................... 631-673-0209<br />

licenter.org<br />

•Long Island Development Corporation<br />

................................................ 866-433-5432<br />

lidc.org<br />

•Mid-Island Club of the National Association of<br />

Negro Business and Professional Women’s Club<br />

Inc. ....................631-582-6479/202-483-4206<br />

midislandcluboflongisland.com<br />

•NALS of Suffolk County ..631-582-4990, x101<br />

The Association for Legal Professionals<br />

nalsofnewyorkinc.org/suffolk.html<br />

•National Association Of Women Business Owners<br />

(NAWBO) ............................ 516-240-8058<br />

nawboli.org<br />

•Soroptimist International of Nassau County<br />

.........................516-694-9834/215-893-9000<br />

soroptomist.org<br />

•Suffolk County Women’s Business Enterprise<br />

Coalition (SCWBEC)<br />

.........................631-754-6458/631-553-5325<br />

scwbec.org<br />

•The Thypin Oltchick Institute for Women’s<br />

Entrepreneurship @ F.E.G.S. ....... 212-366-0033<br />

yourfutureinbusiness.org<br />

•U.S. Women’s Chamber Of Commerce<br />

.............................................. 888-41-USWCC<br />

uswcc.org<br />

•Women For Hire ...................... 212-290-2600<br />

womenforhire.com<br />

•Women on the Fast Track......... 516-222-0236<br />

womenonthefasttrack.com<br />

•Women Presidents’ Organization<br />

................................................ 212-688-4114<br />

womenpresidentsorg.com<br />

•Crisis Intervention/Mental Health/Suicide<br />

Prevention Long Island Crisis Center<br />

.........................516-679-1111/516-826-0244<br />

longislandcrisiscenter.org<br />

•Response of Suffolk County. .... 631-751-7500<br />

responsehotline.org<br />

Domestic Violence/Sexual Abuse<br />

•Brighter Tomorrows ................. 631-395-3116<br />

brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />

•Long Island Citizens For Community Values<br />

........................631-271-4477; 800-583-2964<br />

liccv.org<br />

•Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

Violence ............516-572-0700/516-542-0404/<br />

516-222-2293<br />

cadvnc.org<br />

•National Online Resource Center On Violence<br />

Against Women ..........................800-799-SAFE<br />

800-656-HOPE/866-331-9474<br />

vawnet.org<br />

•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

Violence .............631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />

sccadv.org<br />

•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS)<br />

....................................... 631-360-3730/3606<br />

vibs.org<br />

Eating Disorders<br />

•American Eating Disorders Center<br />

................................................ 516-889-3404<br />

•Counseling Center for Eating Disorders<br />

................................................ 631-665-0097<br />

•John T. Mather Memorial Hospital Eating<br />

Disorder Partial Hospitalization & Intensive<br />

Outpatient Program .......631-473-3877 ext. 57<br />

www.matherhospital.org<br />

•National Association of Anorexia Nervosa &<br />

Associated Disorders ................. 847-831-3438<br />

anad.org<br />

•National Eating Disorders Association-LI<br />

.........................516-794-0415/800-931-2237<br />

nationaleatingdisorders.org<br />

Health & Safety<br />

•American Red Cross ..............800-RED CROSS<br />

Nassau County ......................... 516-747-3500<br />

nassauredcross.org<br />

Suffolk County ......................... 631-924-6700<br />

suffolkcounty.redcross.org<br />

•Centers For Disease Control Traveler’s Hotline<br />

................................................877-CDC-INFO<br />

cdc.gov<br />

•EAC (Education & Assistance Corp.)<br />

................................................ 516-539-0150<br />

eacinc.org<br />

•EPA Safe Drinking Water Hotline<br />

................................................ 800-426-4791<br />

epa.gov/safewater<br />

•F.E.G.S. .................................... 516-496-7550<br />

fegs.org<br />

•National Women’s Health Information Center<br />

................................................ 800-994-9662<br />

4woman.gov<br />

•National Women’s Health Network<br />

................................................ 202-682-2640<br />

nwhn.org<br />

•National Women’s Health Resource Center<br />

................................................ 877-986-9472<br />

healthywomen.org<br />

•Poison Control Center -Long Island<br />

................................................ 516-542-2323<br />

Winthrop University Hospital, Mineola<br />

•Poison Control Center National Hotline<br />

................................................ 800-222-1222<br />

aapcc.org<br />

•Society For Women’s Health Research<br />

................................................ 202-223-8224<br />

womenshealthresearch.org<br />

•U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission<br />

Hotline ...................................... 800-638-2772<br />

Women Are Working It:<br />

National Association of Women Business Owners<br />

As more Long Island women are<br />

succeeding in businesses, the Long<br />

Island Chapter of the National Association<br />

of Women Business Owners<br />

offers support and information for<br />

women just starting out. Founded in<br />

1986, it began with a group of experienced<br />

women entrepreneurs who<br />

recognized the need to strengthen<br />

the growth of women-owned businesses<br />

in Nassau and Suffolk counties<br />

in the state of New York. The goals of<br />

the Long Island chapter offers handson<br />

support in business and leadership<br />

skills as well as being deeply involved<br />

in local public policy initiatives that<br />

relate to women in business. For<br />

more information, contact them at 516-240-8058 or nawboli.org.<br />

cpsc.gov<br />

Philanthropy<br />

•1 in 9 ...................................... 516-374-3190<br />

hewletthouse.org<br />

•A Home At Last ....................... 631-220-2253<br />

pets911.com<br />

Volunteer group that rescues cats and kittens, socializes<br />

them and finds them loving homes.<br />

•A Mother’s Kiss ....................... 631-254-2965<br />

amotherskiss.org<br />

Volunteer organization dedicated to the families of<br />

childhood cancer patients to help the families on an<br />

emotional and financial level.<br />

•Junior League of Long Island ... 516-621-4890<br />

jlli.org<br />

Women committed to promoting voluntarism,<br />

developing the potential of women, and improving<br />

communities..<br />

•Long Island Cares - Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />

............................................... 631-582-FOOD<br />

licares.org<br />

•Long Island Fund For Women and Girls<br />

(LIFWG) .................................... 516-396-9857<br />

lifwg.org<br />

•Long Island Volunteer Center ... 516-564-5482<br />

1-800-volunteer.org<br />

•Millennium Sistahs .................. 516-538-5466<br />

millenniumsistahs.org<br />

To enhance life, promote visibility and provide medical<br />

and social services to young women and adults..<br />

•Zonta Club .............................. 516-488-2796<br />

zontaclublongisland.blogspot.com<br />

Executives and professionals working together to<br />

advance the status of women through service and<br />

advocacy.<br />

•The Links Inc. .......................... 202-842-8686<br />

linksinc.org<br />

Women committed to enriching, sustaining and<br />

ensuring the culture and economic survival of<br />

African Americans.<br />

•United Way Of Long Island ...... 631-940-3700<br />

unitedwayli.org<br />

•Volunteer for a Great Cause .... 516 795-2933<br />

Postpartum Depression and Services<br />

•Circle of Caring Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />

Depression Support Groups available at the<br />

Mothers’ Centers ..................... 631-218-1552<br />

•Nassau County Department of Health<br />

............................................... 516-572-0934<br />

•The Mark’s Family Right from the Start Center<br />

................................................ 516-626-1971<br />

•An Angel’s Embrace Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />

Depression Support Group .. 516-697-1682<br />

•Postpartum Resource Center of NY<br />

................................................ 631-422-2255<br />

postpartumNY.org<br />

•Sounds of Silence .....................631-553-0509<br />

soundsofsilencefoundation.org;<br />

34 • 2011/ 2012 LONG ISLAND WOMAN SURVIVAL GUIDE To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or ads@liwomanonline.com


Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

................................................ 718-816-0093<br />

bpwnys.org<br />

•Business Women’s Golf Association of Long<br />

Island........................................ 631-368-1724<br />

liladygolf.com<br />

•East End Women’s Network ..... 631-723-2448<br />

eewn.org<br />

•Executive Women’s Golf Association -- LI<br />

chapter ..............516-539-0150/561-691-0096<br />

ewgali.org<br />

•Independent Business Women’s Circle (IBWC)<br />

.........................516-670-9012/866-514-9127<br />

ibwc.org<br />

•Long Island Center For Business & Professional<br />

Women ..................................... 631-673-0209<br />

licenter.org<br />

•Long Island Development Corporation<br />

................................................ 866-433-5432<br />

lidc.org<br />

•Mid-Island Club of the National Association of<br />

Negro Business and Professional Women’s Club<br />

Inc. ....................631-582-6479/202-483-4206<br />

midislandcluboflongisland.com<br />

•NALS of Suffolk County ..631-582-4990, x101<br />

The Association for Legal Professionals<br />

nalsofnewyorkinc.org/suffolk.html<br />

•National Association Of Women Business Owners<br />

(NAWBO) ............................ 516-240-8058<br />

nawboli.org<br />

•Soroptimist International of Nassau County<br />

.........................516-694-9834/215-893-9000<br />

soroptomist.org<br />

•Suffolk County Women’s Business Enterprise<br />

Coalition (SCWBEC)<br />

.........................631-754-6458/631-553-5325<br />

scwbec.org<br />

•The Thypin Oltchick Institute for Women’s<br />

Entrepreneurship @ F.E.G.S. ....... 212-366-0033<br />

yourfutureinbusiness.org<br />

•U.S. Women’s Chamber Of Commerce<br />

.............................................. 888-41-USWCC<br />

uswcc.org<br />

•Women For Hire ...................... 212-290-2600<br />

womenforhire.com<br />

•Women on the Fast Track......... 516-222-0236<br />

womenonthefasttrack.com<br />

•Women Presidents’ Organization<br />

................................................ 212-688-4114<br />

womenpresidentsorg.com<br />

•Crisis Intervention/Mental Health/Suicide<br />

Prevention Long Island Crisis Center<br />

.........................516-679-1111/516-826-0244<br />

longislandcrisiscenter.org<br />

•Response of Suffolk County. .... 631-751-7500<br />

responsehotline.org<br />

Domestic Violence/Sexual Abuse<br />

•Brighter Tomorrows ................. 631-395-3116<br />

brightertomorrowsinc.org<br />

•Long Island Citizens For Community Values<br />

........................631-271-4477; 800-583-2964<br />

liccv.org<br />

•Nassau County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

Violence ............516-572-0700/516-542-0404/<br />

516-222-2293<br />

cadvnc.org<br />

•National Online Resource Center On Violence<br />

Against Women ..........................800-799-SAFE<br />

800-656-HOPE/866-331-9474<br />

vawnet.org<br />

•Suffolk County Coalition Against Domestic<br />

Violence .............631-666-7181/631-666-8833<br />

sccadv.org<br />

•Victims Information Bureau (VIBS)<br />

....................................... 631-360-3730/3606<br />

vibs.org<br />

Eating Disorders<br />

•American Eating Disorders Center<br />

................................................ 516-889-3404<br />

•Counseling Center for Eating Disorders<br />

................................................ 631-665-0097<br />

•John T. Mather Memorial Hospital Eating<br />

Disorder Partial Hospitalization & Intensive<br />

Outpatient Program .......631-473-3877 ext. 57<br />

www.matherhospital.org<br />

•National Association of Anorexia Nervosa &<br />

Associated Disorders ................. 847-831-3438<br />

anad.org<br />

•National Eating Disorders Association-LI<br />

.........................516-794-0415/800-931-2237<br />

nationaleatingdisorders.org<br />

Health & Safety<br />

•American Red Cross ..............800-RED CROSS<br />

Nassau County ......................... 516-747-3500<br />

nassauredcross.org<br />

Suffolk County ......................... 631-924-6700<br />

suffolkcounty.redcross.org<br />

•Centers For Disease Control Traveler’s Hotline<br />

................................................877-CDC-INFO<br />

cdc.gov<br />

•EAC (Education & Assistance Corp.)<br />

................................................ 516-539-0150<br />

eacinc.org<br />

•EPA Safe Drinking Water Hotline<br />

................................................ 800-426-4791<br />

epa.gov/safewater<br />

•F.E.G.S. .................................... 516-496-7550<br />

fegs.org<br />

•National Women’s Health Information Center<br />

................................................ 800-994-9662<br />

4woman.gov<br />

•National Women’s Health Network<br />

................................................ 202-682-2640<br />

nwhn.org<br />

•National Women’s Health Resource Center<br />

................................................ 877-986-9472<br />

healthywomen.org<br />

•Poison Control Center -Long Island<br />

................................................ 516-542-2323<br />

Winthrop University Hospital, Mineola<br />

•Poison Control Center National Hotline<br />

................................................ 800-222-1222<br />

aapcc.org<br />

•Society For Women’s Health Research<br />

................................................ 202-223-8224<br />

womenshealthresearch.org<br />

•U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission<br />

Hotline ...................................... 800-638-2772<br />

Women Are Working It:<br />

National Association of Women Business Owners<br />

As more Long Island women are<br />

succeeding in businesses, the Long<br />

Island Chapter of the National Association<br />

of Women Business Owners<br />

offers support and information for<br />

women just starting out. Founded in<br />

1986, it began with a group of experienced<br />

women entrepreneurs who<br />

recognized the need to strengthen<br />

the growth of women-owned businesses<br />

in Nassau and Suffolk counties<br />

in the state of New York. The goals of<br />

the Long Island chapter offers handson<br />

support in business and leadership<br />

skills as well as being deeply involved<br />

in local public policy initiatives that<br />

relate to women in business. For<br />

more information, contact them at 516-240-8058 or nawboli.org.<br />

cpsc.gov<br />

Philanthropy<br />

•1 in 9 ...................................... 516-374-3190<br />

hewletthouse.org<br />

•A Home At Last ....................... 631-220-2253<br />

pets911.com<br />

Volunteer group that rescues cats and kittens, socializes<br />

them and finds them loving homes.<br />

•A Mother’s Kiss ....................... 631-254-2965<br />

amotherskiss.org<br />

Volunteer organization dedicated to the families of<br />

childhood cancer patients to help the families on an<br />

emotional and financial level.<br />

•Junior League of Long Island ... 516-621-4890<br />

jlli.org<br />

Women committed to promoting voluntarism,<br />

developing the potential of women, and improving<br />

communities..<br />

•Long Island Cares - Harry Chapin Food Bank<br />

............................................... 631-582-FOOD<br />

licares.org<br />

•Long Island Fund For Women and Girls<br />

(LIFWG) .................................... 516-396-9857<br />

lifwg.org<br />

•Long Island Volunteer Center ... 516-564-5482<br />

1-800-volunteer.org<br />

•Millennium Sistahs .................. 516-538-5466<br />

millenniumsistahs.org<br />

To enhance life, promote visibility and provide medical<br />

and social services to young women and adults..<br />

•Zonta Club .............................. 516-488-2796<br />

zontaclublongisland.blogspot.com<br />

Executives and professionals working together to<br />

advance the status of women through service and<br />

advocacy.<br />

•The Links Inc. .......................... 202-842-8686<br />

linksinc.org<br />

Women committed to enriching, sustaining and<br />

ensuring the culture and economic survival of<br />

African Americans.<br />

•United Way Of Long Island ...... 631-940-3700<br />

unitedwayli.org<br />

•Volunteer for a Great Cause .... 516 795-2933<br />

Postpartum Depression and Services<br />

•Circle of Caring Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />

Depression Support Groups available at the<br />

Mothers’ Centers ..................... 631-218-1552<br />

•Nassau County Department of Health<br />

............................................... 516-572-0934<br />

•The Mark’s Family Right from the Start Center<br />

................................................ 516-626-1971<br />

•An Angel’s Embrace Pregnancy and Postpartum<br />

Depression Support Group .. 516-697-1682<br />

•Postpartum Resource Center of NY<br />

................................................ 631-422-2255<br />

postpartumNY.org<br />

•Sounds of Silence .....................631-553-0509<br />

soundsofsilencefoundation.org;<br />

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Contents Volume 11 Number 2<br />

2011/2012 <strong>Survival</strong> guide<br />

Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or<br />

Liposuction by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C.<br />

Many of my patients come seeking help with the<br />

changes that can occur after childbirth; a woman’s<br />

breast can grow to uncomfortable proportions or just<br />

the opposite can happen. more on page 5<br />

Help With Weight Loss and Diabetes<br />

by Dr. Dazhi Chen, Ph.D., LAC<br />

I recently developed a healthy, successful way of<br />

losing weight with acupuncture, which can actually<br />

change your metabolism. There are several unique<br />

characteristics with this therapy. more on page 24<br />

Bio-Identical Hormone Balancing for Men and<br />

Women by Richard Linchitz, M.D.<br />

Bio-identical hormones can provide the key to<br />

achieving and preserving vibrant health for women<br />

AND men well into our advanced years.<br />

more on page 7<br />

Cutomized Skin Treatments<br />

by Annette Pennington<br />

Pre and Post surgical skin care increases hydration<br />

and accelerate cell turnover prior to surgery;<br />

speeds healing and reduces edema after surgery.<br />

more on page 10<br />

Why Use Professional Decorating Services<br />

by Ashu Singh<br />

People who use decorators get to stay home and let<br />

decorating ideas come to them. Youíll enjoy seeing<br />

how design concepts come to life in your own home!<br />

more on page 11<br />

Breast Reduction Using The Lollipop Scar<br />

Technique by Charlotte Rhee, M.D., FACS, P.C.<br />

The weight of large breasts can cause the bra<br />

straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove<br />

markings. Large breasts get in the way of physical<br />

activities, such as running. more on page 12<br />

My Mother Is Now My Child?<br />

by Cynthia Shaw, M.S.<br />

The notion of "getting some help at home" is met<br />

with resistance. It is important for a parent to<br />

understand that seeking "wellness care" is not tantamount<br />

to relinquishing independence. more on page 12<br />

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The Future Lift: A New Hybrid Facelift Technique<br />

by Andrew A. Jacono, M.D., FACS<br />

For years, my patients have had to choose<br />

between better results or less scarring. With hybrid<br />

face lifts, they get the best of both worlds.<br />

more on page 15<br />

Urinary Incontinence<br />

by Scott M. Press, M.D.<br />

So many women in my practice complain that they<br />

just want to be able to go to the gym and go on<br />

the elliptical machine or kick box.<br />

more on page 19<br />

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by Elizabeth Maltin, M.D.<br />

Our goal is to increase awareness about<br />

performing only necessary testing that uses<br />

radiation, and when doing so, using the lowest<br />

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by Debi Silber, MS, RD, WHC The Mojo Coach ®<br />

Just as you have a unique personality, you have a<br />

unique fitness personality too and creating a<br />

fitness program around that is the secret to lasting<br />

results. more on page 24<br />

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by Dr. James C. Marotta<br />

Excessive amounts of ultraviolet radiation (UV) leads to<br />

premature aging of the skin resulting in wrinkles,<br />

abnormal pigmentation (sunspots) and an increased<br />

number of benign skin lesions like spider veins. more on page 27<br />

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Breast Surgery Combined with Tummy Tuck and/or Liposuction<br />

by Charlotte Rhee, MD, F.A.C.S., P.C.<br />

Many of my patients come to me seeking help with the changes that<br />

can occur after childbirth. Following childbirth, a woman’s breast can<br />

grow to uncomfortable proportions or just the opposite can happen. A<br />

woman’s breast can actually lose volume and shrink, resulting in the<br />

breast appearing “deflated”.<br />

Additionally, a large number of women come to me seeking help with<br />

the post partum changes of their abdomen. During pregnancy the skin<br />

and abdominal wall muscles are stretched. Following childbirth, the abdomen can protrude<br />

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and the skin can be loose or sag. In some cases, the abdominal muscles can<br />

be so weakened that the individual may look like she is still pregnant. Despite<br />

daily workouts including sit ups and crunches, a tummy tuck may be needed<br />

to restore these muscles.<br />

Breast Reduction<br />

Women with very large pendulous breasts may experience varied medical<br />

problems including back and neck pain. Also, the weight of large breasts can<br />

cause the bra straps to dig into the shoulders leaving groove markings. Large<br />

breasts get in the way of physical activities such as running, making exercise<br />

and weight loss very difficult if not impossible. Breast reduction (reduction<br />

mammaplasty), is a surgical procedure which makes breasts smaller.<br />

There are many different breast reduction techniques. The more traditional method (inverted T-<br />

scar) leaves the breasts with a vertical, long horizontal scar (along the breast crease). “I utilize the<br />

Lejour technique, which leaves the breast with a single vertical incision (lollipop scar) and, in my<br />

opinion, with a rounder more natural appearing breast and a better cosmetic result.” Breast reductions<br />

are performed as an outpatient procedure and are covered by insurance.<br />

Breast Augmentation<br />

Women who come to me seeking breast enlargement have very similar goals to those seeking<br />

breast reduction. Both groups of women want to have breasts that are proportional to their<br />

body size with the most natural result possible. In certain situations, a breast lift is also needed<br />

to tighten lax skin. The laxity can be the result of pregnancy or weight loss. When a breast<br />

lift is needed, I utilize the lollipop scar technique. A breast lift procedure is very similar to a<br />

breast reduction. The only difference is that with a breast reduction, breast tissue is removed.<br />

Combined Breast/Tummy Tuck and Liposuction Procedures.<br />

Many of my patients who have breast surgery also have other procedures performed at the<br />

same time. This allows for one surgery and one recovery. The most common combined procedures<br />

performed by Dr. Rhee are breast surgery, whether it is a breast<br />

reduction or augmentation, combined with tummy tuck, also known as<br />

abdominoplasty. For those patients who desire breast augmentation together<br />

with a tummy tuck, I am able to place the breast implants through the<br />

tummy tuck incision, leaving the breasts without any scars.<br />

Liposuction is also commonly performed at the same time. Despite diet and<br />

exercise, certain areas of the body are prone to carry excess fat. For these<br />

areas, liposuction can help. The most common areas for liposuction are the<br />

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Patients who have combined procedures do surprisingly well. In addition to<br />

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Your Health<br />

Finding Balancing In Health & Wellness<br />

by Debi Honorof<br />

Women today are busier than ever—working, caring for our children and our<br />

parents, taking classes, joining boards of community organizations—and often,<br />

taking care of ourselves falls to the bottom of the list. Eating right, exercising,<br />

and getting regular checkups? Who has the time? We’re already stressed to the<br />

limit, and can’t possibly fit one more thing into our busy schedules! But there are<br />

ways, and some local experts tell us how.<br />

Debi Silber, MS, RD, WHC, “The Mojo Coach,” helps us find way<br />

to incorporate exercise into our daily lives.<br />

We take care of everyone else, and never seem<br />

to find the time for ourselves, so I suggest scheduling<br />

appointments to exercise, just as we would<br />

schedule appointments for meetings, haircuts<br />

and doctors. Morning is best because, as the<br />

day progresses, more things get in the way. If<br />

exercise is not a priority, it will get bounced off<br />

the list. It’s not necessary—or even best—to exercise<br />

in one shot. Exercise in short bursts better<br />

boosts our metabolism, so fit exercise into your<br />

daily activities by finding ways to be more active.<br />

Take the stairs instead of the elevator and park<br />

your car farther away. Rather than sitting in a<br />

chair while you’re on the phone, pace your office<br />

or kitchen. Walk that message down the hall to your colleague rather than send<br />

it in an email. It’s OK to conserve gas, but don’t conserve your energy. Don’t wait<br />

until things that need to be brought upstairs pile up downstairs. Instead, carry<br />

things upstairs all day long. Think of young children. They don’t walk. They run,<br />

they glide, they skip, they bounce, they never run out of energy!<br />

Create an exercise program you enjoy and you’ll definitely see results. I’ve<br />

been in this business for 20 years and the number one excuse I hear is “I don’t<br />

have time for exercise!” We’re all busy! I have four kids, four dogs, and a full time<br />

practice, and I always fit exercise into my busy schedule. When I travel, I bring<br />

DVDs with me so that I can exercise in my hotel room.<br />

As we get older, exercise becomes an important way to reduce our risk for<br />

chronic illness, it helps us to lose weight, get a better nights’ sleep, helps us to<br />

shape and tone our bodies, decreases symptoms of depression, and increases our<br />

independence. It increases our confidence level and our overall quality of life.<br />

For more information, visit themojocoach.com.<br />

Neeta M. Shah, MD FACP, Vice President of Women’s Health<br />

Services at North Shore-LIJ Health System, urges women to take<br />

care of themselves.<br />

Top 5 Tips for a Healthier Tomorrow<br />

1. De-Stress: Stress is needed for “flight or fright” situations, but when we<br />

hold on to our stress, it becomes a problem. The stress hormones released cause<br />

inflammation in our bodies. Chronic stress and<br />

continued inflammation cause 85-90% of human<br />

illnesses. Situations in life cannot always<br />

be changed, but how we deal with them can<br />

make the difference. A positive attitude, plus<br />

rest and relaxation techniques like meditation,<br />

breathing exercises, and yoga can help.<br />

2. Eat Right: No dieting! Proper nutrition and<br />

everything in moderation is the key. Remember<br />

the “rainbow” and “color your plate” with colorful<br />

fruits and vegetables to get all the benefits<br />

of a healthy meal. Include whole grains, nuts,<br />

legumes and good fats. Enjoy what you eat and<br />

relish the flavor!<br />

3. Keep Moving: The word “exercise” can be very formal and may scare people<br />

away. So just keep moving—running, swimming, walking, and lift weights (not<br />

heavy) to keep your muscles in shape. Even lifting during household chores will<br />

help. Stretch for flexibility and do balance exercises with an exercise ball or with<br />

yoga, pilates or tai chi! Recommended walking time is 30 minutes per day, 5<br />

days per week. It can also be broken down to 10 minutes 3 times per day.<br />

4. Cut Negative Habits: Don’t smoke is the mantra! Any exposure to smoke<br />

has detrimental effects on our health. Grape juice is great, but if you would like<br />

a drink, limit it to one drink per day (12 fl. oz. of beer, 4-5 fl. oz. of wine or 1¼<br />

fl. oz. of liquor).<br />

5. Check-Up!: Make appointments for your annual visits and take the tests<br />

necessary for your age. Visit womenshealth.gov and download or print their<br />

screening tests and immunization guidelines for women.<br />

For more information, visit northshorelij.staywellsolutionsonline.com.<br />

Vincent Carvelli, BS, RTS, CPT, president of the Academy of Applied<br />

Personal Training Education (AAPTE), advises exercise as a<br />

way to balance stress and improve health.<br />

Emotional stress can result in a long list of symptoms, including tension headaches,<br />

high blood pressure, muscle and joint pain, premature coronary artery<br />

disease, heart disease, diabetes, skin conditions, asthma, increased body fat, arthritis,<br />

depression, and anxiety, to name a few. Aerobic exercise has been shown<br />

to aid in the management of stress and its related manifestations. The question<br />

is “how much exercise is enough?”<br />

Exercise frequency is often misunderstood. It is not uncommon for individuals<br />

to say they “don’t have time for it.” It is also very common for exercisers to do<br />

too little or too much. So when looking for balance, start with balancing your<br />

priorities. Your physiological and psychological health are undoubtedly the basis<br />

of how you feel and should be a priority; clearly exercise can help improve them<br />

respectively.<br />

The minimal time commitment required for exercise to yield significant stress-<br />

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The first and best way to achieve and maintain optimal hormonal<br />

function is to follow the previous five pillars of diet, supplements,<br />

exercise, stress management and detoxification. The perfect diet<br />

will help to maximize healthy hormone production late into life.<br />

Supplements can provide the nutritional precursors to hormone<br />

and herbal stimulants to endocrine glands including the pituitary,<br />

the thyroid, the adrenals and the sex glands. Appropriate exercise<br />

has been shown to stimulate hormonal production as well. Stress<br />

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Bio-identical hormones<br />

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effectively can be crucial. Removing toxins, which are often endocrine<br />

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function at optimal efficiency.<br />

However, eventually, there will come a time when the delicate balance<br />

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provide the key to achieving and preserving vibrant health well into<br />

our advanced years.<br />

Bio-identical hormones are formulated to be identical, molecule for molecule, to our<br />

natural bodily hormones. They are not patentable because they are natural to our body.<br />

There is therefore no interest by the pharmaceutical companies to fund studies to show<br />

they are effective. In fact, pharmaceutical companies see them as a potential threat to<br />

their profits and actively campaign against them (including petitioning the FDA to prevent<br />

their sale and relentlessly marketing to doctors to convince them that bio-identicals<br />

are worthless and even dangerous).<br />

This is not to say that bio-identicals are perfect or are without potential dangers. In truth,<br />

although there are a number of studies showing their effectiveness and safety (including<br />

a recent large-scale meta-analysis), there is not an extensive body of large-scale studies as<br />

there is for the conventional HRT’s. However, logically, the bio-identicals should be safer<br />

than the synthetic hormones because the body already has enzyme pathways which work<br />

perfectly with the bio-identicals. We are also able to prescribe precise, individualized dosages<br />

so that physiologically normal levels can be maintained.<br />

It is always important when evaluating a patient for hormone balancing,<br />

to look at all the hormones of the body that interact in a<br />

perfect symphony of function. In addition to sex hormones, we also<br />

attempt to balance thyroid, adrenal and pituitary hormones.<br />

Although bio-identical hormone balancing seems to be more accepted<br />

by women, testosterone optimization can profoundly improve<br />

a man’s quality of life. It can improve cardiovascular health (as<br />

opposed to synthetic testosterones which can cause heart troubles), as well as improve<br />

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Exercise requires some degree of physical exertion — a sense of your body<br />

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Aerobic exercise works by increasing the amount of oxygen carried in your<br />

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To realize the benefits of exercise, have realistic expectations and set reasonable<br />

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Your Life<br />

Work-Life Balance in a Changing World<br />

by Judy Martin<br />

150 women are mulling around at Carlyle on the Green at Bethpage State<br />

Park. They’re there to learn how to make better choices about their health, at the<br />

American Cancer Society’s Choose You Luncheon. Work-Life Balance is a<br />

common thread of conversation.<br />

“I think it’s a blend more than a balance,” says Neeta Shah<br />

M.D., about the concept of work-life balance. Dr. Shah<br />

is the Vice President of Women’s Health Services for<br />

North Shore LIJ Health System and the keynote for<br />

the conference. She shares about how keeping<br />

ones health in check, can lower the risk of cancer.<br />

But the message is just part of the bigger<br />

conversation about the work-life merge.<br />

“When you try to separate the two, you<br />

get frustrated on both ends. It’s important<br />

to blend or weave them through the day,”<br />

Dr. Shah tells me, adding “You might<br />

need to do something that requires<br />

more time at work on some days, but<br />

sometimes family is the priority.”<br />

The Changing State<br />

of the Workforce<br />

Dr. Shah has definite opinions on<br />

the “work-life blend,” as she calls it.<br />

A bona fide member of what has been<br />

called The Sandwich Generation, she’s<br />

a mother of three children who are living<br />

at home under the same roof with<br />

her in-laws. “Family is important,” she<br />

says, “but it’s about quality of time, not<br />

quantity.” It’s not an easy recipe when<br />

you’re juggling so many things at once.<br />

An estimated 20 million individuals nationwide<br />

are caring for both children and<br />

aging parents at the same time. But it’s only<br />

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it into an important debate in the workplace.<br />

Economic and social structures around work and<br />

family are being challenged. Women now comprise half<br />

the workforce, dual-income families struggle with childcare,<br />

the economy skates on a dance floor of thin ice as it tries<br />

to recover from recession, many unemployed workers are taking a<br />

shot at entrepreneurship, Generation Y has a louder voice in the marketplace,<br />

the workforce is aging and technology has thrown a monkey wrench into our<br />

already overloaded stream of daily information.<br />

The corporate machine is also confronted with new tests. It must attract and<br />

retain skilled talent, often without the monetary incentive to keep them<br />

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Some companies are looking more closely at best practices<br />

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“With the transformation in the workforce,<br />

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When she entered the workforce in<br />

1987, there was no talk of work-life<br />

initiatives because it was pretty simple,<br />

Ms. Yost says. “Here’s work. Here<br />

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The aging process, if you haven’t noticed, has a wear-and-tear effect on<br />

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and neck begin to loosen, creating jowls, neck laxity, vertical bands in the<br />

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become intolerant of these consequences, and more of us are seeking to<br />

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There were over 100,000 facelifts performed in 2009 according to the<br />

American Society of Plastic Surgeons, but the techniques used vary widely. There are corporate<br />

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and most of us do not understand the vital differences. How do you decide<br />

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and the longest lasting results? This is the most commonly asked<br />

question by my patients.<br />

Short-incision “mini” face lifts, often the ones advertised on television,<br />

utilize an abbreviated incision to lift the skin. While the incision is small<br />

(hidden inside the ear) leaving minimal scarring, post-operative bleeding<br />

and bruising is a trademark of these procedures. They typically tighten only the skin and do<br />

not lift and tighten the muscles. As a result, they can leave patients with a windswept,<br />

“pulled” appearance, and the results last only three to five years, as the underlying facial muscles<br />

are not tightened. The facial muscles are the structure of the face, the beams that hold up<br />

the face lift if you will; and if not treated the lifted face will fall earlier than desired.<br />

Compared to “mini” face lifts, a deep plane face lift yields more effective, longer lasting<br />

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a very large incision, resulting in more noticeable scarring which makes hiding your procedure<br />

virtually impossible.<br />

The most state-of-the-art face lift is a recently developed hybrid technique, that I call the<br />

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Your Life<br />

said a low salary has a significant impact of<br />

their stress level at work.”<br />

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and the rising cost of living on Long Island.<br />

Some people have lost their jobs. But others,<br />

she says, see the writing on the wall<br />

and it pushes a lot of buttons in the family<br />

dynamic and on ones career path.<br />

Ms. Maniscalco says the pressure in the<br />

work-life merge is especially exacerbated by<br />

the financial need to provide for ones family.<br />

It’s stressful, she says, for the pocketbook<br />

and on the ego. “These men and women are<br />

essentially asking themselves ‘who am I,<br />

what do I have to offer in this new environment<br />

and how can I plug myself in?’”<br />

And those questions invariably impact<br />

their self-worth, says Ms. Maniscalco.<br />

“My response is to help them restore their<br />

confidence, to remind them they have the<br />

same gifts and experience even in a new<br />

economic environment. Their worth and<br />

value as a person hasn’t changed.”<br />

When value and worth are tied up in image<br />

or salary, any hiccup to those scenarios are bound to impact the work-life<br />

experience. Feeling “less than” is not a fleeting feeling that is left at work. It<br />

generally enters the family dynamic.<br />

Keeping Emotions Balance in Your Work Life<br />

“Whether you’re an entrepreneur or working for a big corporation, many are faced<br />

with the fear of not being able to excel,” says New York City/Huntington based psychologist<br />

Jennifer Howard, Ph.D.<br />

Dr. Howard says work-life balance is harder than ever before because our world has<br />

sped up and many are overworking to stay competitive, so the family dynamic suffers<br />

as well. Having to keep the job going and the household in shape, is challenging.<br />

“Balance is subject to time. Period.” Dr. Howard says you can strive for balance,<br />

but it’s more of a juggle. “If you are working on a project, it’s smart to set a length<br />

of time for the completion of that project. Then you can regroup and step away<br />

and arrange for more family time.”<br />

Dr. Howard suggests that we should be more compassionate with ourselves—and<br />

our families. “We don’t have to be so rigid all the time. Sometimes the house cleaning<br />

doesn’t happen when it’s supposed to. We all have our limits. If there’s nothing<br />

hairy growing in the kitchen, I’m in good shape.”<br />

When value and worth are tied up in<br />

image or salary, any hiccup to those<br />

scenarios are bound to impact the<br />

work-life experience.<br />

How do you have a life instead of just<br />

resting to go back to work? It’s about cutting<br />

ourselves some slack, says Dr. Howard.<br />

“It’s worth it to make choices; you can’t<br />

sustain a crazy pace or you’ll burn out.”<br />

Dr. Howard adds that we exist on many<br />

levels. To some people, for example, spirituality<br />

is crucial to their balance. “Spirituality<br />

can be nurturing. It feeds the body and such<br />

a deep connection can help sustain us and<br />

get us through those work-life humps.”<br />

Finding a practice that will sustain you<br />

through the rough patches and also build resilience<br />

is something that Dr. Shah believes is<br />

crucial to a healthy work-life blend.<br />

“Events happen in our life, but how we<br />

deal with it can change the outcome. You<br />

have to have a way to release the stress<br />

burdens that come along with the work-life<br />

burdens.”<br />

Dr. Shah says carrying such stress is not<br />

good for the soul but it’s especially bad<br />

for the body. According to Dr. Shah stress<br />

causes 80-85 percent of human illness and<br />

disease. Don’t carry discontent, Dr. Shah<br />

warns, “Move on, do not lift the pebble and<br />

make it into a mountain.” ❁<br />

Judy Martin is an Emmy award-winning<br />

journalist who tracks work-life trends. She<br />

has contributed to Marketplace Report, NPR,<br />

CNBC Business Radio, and News 12 Long Island. You can read more about her and<br />

her newly released e-book, 7 Tools to Reduce Stress in the Work-Life Merge on her<br />

blog WorkLifeNation.com.<br />

Judy Martin photos (including cover photo) by Fran Fitzgerald.<br />

10 Tips for Navigating the Work-Life Merge<br />

1. Keep a positive attitude<br />

2. Make the most of the moment<br />

3. Be mindful in every activity<br />

4. Practice good nutrition<br />

5. Get plenty of exercise<br />

6. Get enough sleep<br />

7. Cultivate a de-stressing technique<br />

8. Find “me” time and stick to it<br />

9. Schedule the white space in your calendar<br />

10. Limit web-surfing time<br />

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ACUPUNCTURE<br />

DR. DAZI CHEN, PhD, LAC<br />

516-562-9221<br />

444 Community Drive, Manhasset<br />

www.camtherapycenter.com<br />

see ad on page 24<br />

ALTERNATIVE HEALTH<br />

LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />

516-759-4200<br />

70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />

www.linchitzwellness.com<br />

see ad on page 7<br />

ARTS & CRAFTS<br />

BEADS N’ STITCHES<br />

516-396-9893<br />

153 Broadway, Hicksville<br />

516-783-1124<br />

2330 Merrick Rd., Merrick<br />

www.beadsnstitches.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

BIOIDENTICAL HORMONE THERAPY<br />

LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />

516-759-4200<br />

70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />

www.linchitzwellness.com<br />

see ad on page 7<br />

NATUROPATHIC SOLUTIONS, INC.<br />

DR. SHARON STILLS<br />

516-935-1334<br />

641C Old Country Rd., Plainview<br />

www.drstills.com<br />

see ad on page 25<br />

BREAST HEALTH<br />

COMPLETE WOMEN’S IMAGING CENTER<br />

516-255-8220<br />

440 Merrick Rd., Oceanside<br />

www.southnassau.org<br />

see ad on page 2<br />

CANCER CARE<br />

LINCHITZ MEDICAL WELLNESS<br />

516-759-4200<br />

70 Glen St., Ste. 300, Glen Cove<br />

www.linchitzwellness.com<br />

see ad on page 7<br />

COSMETIC SURGERY<br />

DR. ANDREW JACONO<br />

516-773-4646<br />

440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck<br />

www.newyorkfacialplasticsurgery.com<br />

see ad on page 15<br />

MAROTTA FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY, P.C.<br />

631-982-2022<br />

267 E. Main St., Bldg. B, Smithtown<br />

www.marottamd.com<br />

see ad on page 27<br />

WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />

631-858-0500<br />

103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />

www.romeroclinic.com<br />

see ad on page 21<br />

COUNSELING<br />

REFLECTIONS PSYCHOTHERAPY &<br />

COUNSELING<br />

631-724-9462<br />

2 Brooksite Drive., Ste. 120, Smithtown<br />

77 Broadway, Amityville<br />

see ad on page 25<br />

DENTIST<br />

CHASE DENTAL HEALTH, LLC<br />

631-393-6888<br />

324 So. Service Rd., Ste. 116, Melville<br />

www.chasedentalhealth.com<br />

see ad on page 10<br />

DAY SPA<br />

FUSION SKIN SPA<br />

631-940-1672<br />

798 Grand Blvd., Deer Park<br />

www.fusionskinspa.com<br />

see ad on page 9<br />

DIAGNOSTIC SERVICES<br />

NEUROLOGICAL SURGERY, P.C.<br />

516-478--0008<br />

600 Northern Blvd., Ste. 118, Great Neck<br />

www.nspc.com<br />

see ads on page 13<br />

DIVORCE<br />

DIVORCEFAST.COM<br />

978-443-8387<br />

www.divorcefast.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

EDUCATION<br />

LONG ISLAND UNIVERSITY<br />

516-299-2900<br />

700 Northern Blvd., Brookville<br />

www.liu.edu<br />

see ads on page 13<br />

ELDERCARE<br />

BROADLAWN MANOR<br />

631-608-5600<br />

399 County Line Rd., Amityville<br />

www.broadlawn.org<br />

see ad on page 25<br />

HELPFUL CARE COMPANY<br />

516-599-5870<br />

Lynbrook<br />

www.helpfulcare.com<br />

see ad on page 12<br />

ENTERTAINMENT<br />

GATEWAY PERFORMING ARTS CENTER<br />

OF SUFFOLK COUNTY<br />

631-286-0555<br />

215 S. Country Rd., Bellport<br />

www.gatewayplayhouse.com<br />

see ad on page 29<br />

FINANCIAL PLANNING<br />

MARK J. SNYDER FINANCIAL SERVICES<br />

631-289-4224<br />

1731 North Ocean Ave., Medford<br />

www.markjsnyder.com<br />

see ad on page 23<br />

FITNESS<br />

GOLD COAST PILATES<br />

631-675-2787<br />

128 Old Town Rd., Suite B, Setauket<br />

www.markjsnyder.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

INTERIOR DESIGN<br />

DECORATING DEN INTERIORS<br />

631-367-9071<br />

local.decoratingden.com/longisland<br />

see ad on page 11<br />

FENG SHUI DESIGN<br />

631-225-1989<br />

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see ad on page 31<br />

TEXTILE MILL END SHOP<br />

631-581-9877<br />

57 Garfield Ave., East Islip<br />

wwww.textilemillendshop.com<br />

see ad on page 25<br />

LASER HAIR REMOVAL<br />

AESTHETIC PLASTIC SURGERY, PC<br />

516-498-8400<br />

833 Northern Blvd., Ste. 160, Great Neck<br />

www.aestheticplasticsurgerypc.com<br />

see ad on page 10<br />

advertiser guide<br />

LAWYERS<br />

KAROL HAUSMAN & SOSNIK<br />

516-745-0066<br />

600 Old Country Rd., Garden City<br />

www.khspc.com<br />

see ad on page 24<br />

MARY T. LUCERE, PLLC<br />

516-557-2312<br />

4007 Merrick Rd., Seaford<br />

lucerelaw@aol.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

LAW OFFICES OF LESLIE H. TAYNE, P.C.<br />

631-470-8204<br />

150 Broadhollow Rd., Ste. 213, Melville<br />

www.attorney-newyork.com<br />

see ad on page 12<br />

MEDITATION<br />

AWAKENINGS 7 CENTER<br />

631-724-9733<br />

Smithtown<br />

www.lightawakeningsmeditationandbeyond.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

MEDI-SPAS<br />

AESTHETIC MEDICAL STUDIO,<br />

KELLY O’MALLEY MATTONE, M.D.<br />

516-482-2424<br />

8 Bond St., Ste. 200, Great Neck<br />

www.aestheticmedicalstudio.com<br />

see ad on page 21<br />

LASER EAST<br />

631-858-2325<br />

6143 Jericho Tpke., Commack<br />

www.lasereast.net<br />

see ad on page 10<br />

J SPA MEDICAL DAY SPA<br />

ANDREW A. JACONO, M.D. FACS<br />

516-773-2424<br />

440 Northern Blvd., Great Neck<br />

www.jspamedspa.com<br />

see ad on page 15<br />

NORTH SHORE MEDICAL SPA<br />

516-869-8346<br />

1 Hollow Lane, Ste. 210, Lake Success<br />

www.NorthShoreMediSpa.com<br />

see ad on page 9<br />

WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />

631-858-0500<br />

103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />

www.romeroclinic.com<br />

see ad on page 21<br />

NEUROSURGERY<br />

NEUROLOGICAL SURGERY, P.C.<br />

516-255-9031<br />

Great Neck, Commack, Lake Success, Queens,<br />

Patchogue, Port Jefferson, Rockville Centre, W. Islip<br />

www.nspc.com.<br />

see ad on page 13<br />

PERMANANT MAKE-UP<br />

THE NORTH SHORE COSMETIC MEDICAL<br />

CENTER, ROGER B. KATZ, M.D.<br />

516-496-9797<br />

239 Jericho Tpke., Syosset<br />

see ad on page 17<br />

PERMANENT COSMETICS BY PHOEBE REINES<br />

631-681-0484, 631-331-8934<br />

301 Maple Ave., Smithtown<br />

www.permanentmakeupbyphoebe.com<br />

see ad on page 31<br />

PLASTIC SURGERY<br />

GREENBERG COSMETIC SURGERY<br />

STEPHEN T. GREENBERG, M.D.<br />

Woodbury – 516-364-4200<br />

Manhattan – 212-319-4999<br />

www.greenbergcosmeticsurgery.com<br />

see ads on page 3<br />

MAROTTA FACIAL PLASTIC SURGERY, P.C.<br />

631-982-2022<br />

267 E. Main St., Bldg. B, Smithtown<br />

www.marottamd.com<br />

see ad on page 27<br />

THE NORTH SHORE COSMETIC MEDICAL<br />

CENTER, ROGER B. KATZ, M.D.<br />

516-496-9797<br />

239 Jericho Tpke., Syosset<br />

see ad on page 17<br />

CHARLOTTE ANN RHEE, M.D., FACS<br />

631-424-6707<br />

257 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington Station<br />

www.liplasticsurgery.com<br />

see ads on pages 5 & 12<br />

STEVEN WALLACH, M.D.<br />

516-921-0530<br />

175 Jericho Tpke., Ste. 212, Syosset<br />

www.stevenwallachmd.com<br />

see ad on page 11<br />

PERSONAL COACH<br />

LIFESTYLE FITNESS, INC.<br />

631-499-4999<br />

www.themojocoach.com<br />

see ads on page 24<br />

PSYCHIC<br />

PATRICIA BONO<br />

516-922-7574<br />

www.patriciabono.com<br />

see ads on page 31<br />

SKINCARE<br />

AESTHETIC PLASTIC SURGERY, PC<br />

516-498-8400<br />

833 Northern Blvd., Ste. 160, Great Neck<br />

www.aestheticplasticsurgerypc.com<br />

see ad on page 10<br />

SLEEP DISORDERS<br />

CHASE DENTAL HEALTH, LLC<br />

631-393-6888<br />

324 So. Service Rd., Ste. 116, Melville<br />

www.chasedentalhealth.com<br />

see ad on page 10<br />

UROLOGIST<br />

SCOTT M. PRESS, M.D. PC<br />

631-591-3120<br />

792 Harrison Ave., Riverhead<br />

226 North Belle Meade Rd., Setauket<br />

www.7minutesling.com<br />

see ad on page 19<br />

VASCULOR CARE<br />

NORTH SHORE MEDICAL SPA<br />

516-869-8346<br />

1 Hollow Lane, Ste. 210, Lake Success<br />

www.NorthShoreMediSpa.com<br />

see ad on page 9<br />

WEIGHT CONTROL<br />

DR. DAZI CHEN, PhD, LAC<br />

516-562-9221<br />

444 Community Drive, Manhasset<br />

www.camtherapycenter.com<br />

see ad on page 24<br />

WILLIAM ROMERO, M.D., MS, CNS<br />

631-858-0500<br />

103 Majestic Dr., Dix Hills<br />

www.romeroclinic.com<br />

see ad on page 21<br />

WINDOW TREATMENTS<br />

TENTINA WINDOW FASHIONS<br />

631-957-9585<br />

1186 Route 109, Lindenhurst<br />

www.tentina.com<br />

see ad on page 35<br />

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Your Family<br />

Sandwiched<br />

by Annie Blachley<br />

In 1930s America, many generations often lived together, from newborn babies<br />

to great-great-grandparents. One fictitious depression-era family captivated<br />

television viewers decades later, during the 1970s, as the multi-generational<br />

Waltons—Grandpa, Grandma, Mom, Dad and seven children—took care of each<br />

other under one big roof in the Blue Ridge Mountains.<br />

In that agrarian economy, everyone lived off the land, from shelling peas to<br />

sawing timber. Nature and hard work provided enough so that it was unnecessary<br />

to labor for money or to spend it. Many hands lightened the load and<br />

maintained a household balance.<br />

Today, though, reality usually dictates that multi-generational clans cannot<br />

share one home, creating pressure on all the generations. Researchers describe<br />

this “sandwich”: The oldest generation is the top layer, the youngest is the bottom,<br />

and the caregivers, often middle-aged, are in between. “Sandwich generation”<br />

caregivers in the middle often encounter economic hardship, reduced<br />

social services, limited work flexibility, and more, so that they are weighted down<br />

in more of a “panini” effect.<br />

Sociologist Dorothy Miller is credited with introducing the sandwich generation<br />

term in 1981. Because women traditionally assume this role, usually living<br />

longer than men, sometimes they are called “women in the middle.” Today, an<br />

estimated one in five Americans—about 22 percent—care for their parents and<br />

their own children simultaneously.<br />

Pile on the Layers<br />

Madeline Seifer, M.A., LMFT, director of the Marriage and Family Clinic at Hofstra<br />

University’s Joan and Arnold Saltzman Community Services Center, explains<br />

why so many older people need care. She says, “People are living longer because<br />

of the improved medical care we have in this country.”<br />

In 1900, the average life expectancy was age 47; today, it’s 78. In fact, the Society<br />

of Actuaries, business professionals who analyze the financial consequences<br />

of risk, predicts that there is a 50 percent chance with a healthy couple where<br />

both are 65 that one will live to be 92.<br />

Such longevity evolved because of factors besides advanced medicine. In 1995,<br />

mortality was high, with fewer long-lived people needing help, and high fertility<br />

rates produced more family members to pitch in. Today, both rates have<br />

declined; more elderly people require care, because of dementia or other problems,<br />

but there are fewer younger family caregivers. The Department of Health<br />

and Human Services (DHSS) projects that the over-65 population will reach 55<br />

million in 2020 (a 36 percent increase from 2010). By 2030, an estimated one in<br />

five Americans will be 65 or older, requiring nearly two-thirds of the baby-boom<br />

generation to care for an elderly parent.<br />

Also adding pressure to caregivers are the troubled economy, reduced healthcare<br />

services and higher insurance costs. Many in their 40s and 50s are experiencing<br />

layoffs, forced early retirement or unanticipated unemployment during<br />

their so-called peak earning years, and they worry about their own retirement.<br />

Their parents’ investments that yielded 8 percent now earn barely 2 percent, and<br />

income from pensions and Social Security isn’t always adequate for expensive<br />

housing costs and property taxes. Many elderly people need help with fixing<br />

meals, shopping, managing money, laundry, housecleaning, or simply using the<br />

telephone. Unless their children are available, they need in-home care, which<br />

erodes their savings—and sometimes their children’s savings as well.<br />

“The economy is going to force more and more people to care for the elderly in<br />

their own homes,” predicts Seifer. “The healthcare system is getting worse for us<br />

who use it. Co-payments are increasing and available services are diminishing.<br />

Even for those who are fortunate enough to have health insurance, premiums<br />

are going up each year and there are fewer services.”<br />

The Money Mash<br />

Karen Boorshtein, LCSW, president and CEO of Huntington-based Family Service<br />

League (FSL), says, “The stereotype is that Long Island is an affluent area.<br />

But we’re seeing a lot of families who may have a parent who is not doing well<br />

but they don’t have the resources to go into a nursing home or assisted living<br />

facility—it’s very, very expensive.”<br />

How expensive? A MetLife 2010 survey of metropolitan New York found that<br />

assisted living facilities range between $3,050 and $8,205 per month. For those<br />

requiring more care, the average nursing home private room costs $229 a night<br />

($83,585 a year). Older residents staying at home with assistance pay $21 per<br />

hour for home health aides, meaning nearly $1,700 per month just for part-time<br />

help, 20 hours per week.<br />

As Boorshtein says, “A lot of people won’t save enough to afford that. With<br />

the economy and people being out of work and having to take care of a parent,<br />

it adds to that stress.”<br />

On Long Island, half the mothers work full time, according to a 2003 Rauch<br />

Foundation survey. Of those working full- or part-time, 70 percent have children<br />

under 18. The survey also found that employer policies providing working<br />

parents with more flexible hours are available to fewer than half the working<br />

parents in Nassau and Suffolk counties. The study concluded that Long Island<br />

lags the country in adopting family-friendly policies.<br />

Robyn Berger-Gaston, LCSW, director of youth, senior and inter-generational<br />

services at FSL, points out how the lack of flex time upsets the family balance.<br />

“One of the greatest strains that caregivers are facing is finances, because it’s<br />

taking time away from their jobs to take their loved ones to doctor appointments.”<br />

On the bottom sandwich layer, the kids are seeing their hopes crushed and<br />

prospects dwindle. The average college cost is $20,000 a year, but many undergraduate<br />

and graduate students who thought their expensive education would<br />

produce well-paying jobs and security are lucky to land any job. The coveted<br />

education has created huge debt for students and graduates along with the<br />

reality of not being able to afford their own place because of low wages and<br />

high rents. Many move back home and contribute what they can, often leaving<br />

parents to foot the bulk of the bill.<br />

Squeezed in the middle of these additional layers are caretakers for both generations.<br />

A MetLife Mature Market Institute poll found that 42 percent of employees<br />

with minor children live paycheck to paycheck, but for those with caregiving<br />

responsibilities—the working sandwich generation—the figure jumps to 64 percent.<br />

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Just when they had hoped to slow down, take time off and get reacquainted<br />

with their spouse after years of raising children, many have found themselves<br />

giving—and giving and giving—time and energy to their parents. And while<br />

caregiving can be rewarding, it often upsets the balance at home.<br />

Many counselors recognize that for caregivers, it is key to take care of themselves—to<br />

enhance their own peace of mind, spirit and body and to maintain<br />

energy to care for loved ones. To avoid potentially overwhelming “burnout” feelings,<br />

therapists recommend that caregivers get regular exercise; confide in others<br />

to avoid becoming isolated and ask for help with specific tasks; take time to<br />

pamper and nurture themselves; relax, eat and sleep well.<br />

With all the attention the sandwich phenomenon has received, more resources<br />

are available, helping members of this generation through the tough terrain.<br />

Says Hofstra’s Seifer, “People seem to be taking it in stride now. More and more<br />

institutions are popping up to help us with it.”<br />

Robyn Berger-Gaston of Family Service League offers this advice: “Caring for<br />

a frail, elderly loved one can be very overwhelming. It should help to know that<br />

no one has to go through it alone.”<br />

Living by that motto is exactly how the Waltons stayed together as one big,<br />

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Support for the Sandwiched<br />

Emotional<br />

• Support groups (most are free)<br />

• Individual caregiver counseling<br />

• Seminars on aging-related issues<br />

• Discuss realistic expectations from teenagers and older<br />

“boomerang” kids<br />

• Set your own limits; consult senior centers and other<br />

resources<br />

Legal<br />

Establish living wills, healthcare proxies and powers of attorney<br />

before a crisis.<br />

• Private elder law attorney (asset/healthcare protection)<br />

• Touro Law Center Senior Citizens’ Law Program 631-761-7470<br />

• Nassau Law Services Senior Citizens Project 516-292-8088<br />

Financial/Medical<br />

• Financial planner<br />

• www.medicare.gov 1-800-MEDICARE<br />

• Medicaid (by county); sometimes covers in-home care<br />

General<br />

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• Suffolk County Office for the Aging 631-853-8200<br />

• Nassau County Office for the Aging 516-227-8900<br />

• Veterans and fraternal organization support<br />

• Local Area Agency on Aging (transportation)<br />

• Churches/synagogues<br />

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Your Money<br />

Balancing Your Financial Life<br />

by Arlene K. Haims, CLU, ChFC , LUTCF<br />

We all seek balance in our lives, but how many of us consider our financial<br />

balance? Balancing your checkbook is only the beginning; if you want to find<br />

your pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, you need to take an honest look at<br />

your current financial colors, paint them with your future goals, and find a way<br />

to balance the two. Especially for women who are single, taking the time now<br />

to bridge your current financial picture and your future financial goals will not<br />

only help you feel more financially balanced today, but will help secure a brighter<br />

financial future.<br />

Assessing Your Current Financial Picture<br />

First, take a look at your current financial picture, which consists of:<br />

• Income (salary, commissions, investment income, child support, etc.)<br />

• Checking<br />

• Savings<br />

• Emergency savings account (equaling 6-12 months of income, so that if<br />

you lose your job or you encounter unexpected medical or other expenses,<br />

you have a cushion)<br />

• Outstanding short and long term debt, including credit cards, mortgage, and<br />

other loans (auto, home equity, etc.)<br />

• Investments (money market account, stocks, bonds, CDs)<br />

• Retirement plans (current value)<br />

• Estimated Social Security income<br />

• Insurance policies (employee benefits, health, life, disability, home, auto,<br />

umbrella, and liability)<br />

Next, prepare a weekly and monthly budget of all items that deplete your income.<br />

Keep an honest and detailed record of ALL your expenses—including your<br />

morning coffee and a pack of gum—for at least two weeks. It sounds simple, but<br />

it is a very necessary part of getting a complete view of your current financial<br />

situation. You might be very surprised about what you’re spending your money<br />

on.<br />

Closely examine your income and expenses in order to create a balance that<br />

doesn’t compromise your lifestyle. Imagine a set of balancing scales with income<br />

on one side and expenses on the other. In order to maintain a balance, regularly<br />

monitor your progress with the understanding that sometimes events occur<br />

where you need to take action. For example, with the rising cost of fuel, you may<br />

choose to eat out less often.<br />

Setting Your Financial Goals<br />

Separate your goals into three categories that reflect both your financial timeline<br />

and your life plan.<br />

• Short-term financial goals (the next 5 years)<br />

Examples:<br />

• Buying a larger house or downsizing<br />

• Purchasing a new car<br />

• Professional development expenses<br />

• Planning a trip<br />

• Growing your business<br />

• Mid-term financial goals (the next 5-10 years)<br />

Examples:<br />

• College fund<br />

• Paying down debt to prepare for retirement<br />

• Putting money aside for a wedding or other family celebrations<br />

• Selling your business<br />

• Cutting back on work hours<br />

• Long-term financial goals (retirement and beyond)<br />

Examples:<br />

• Retiring<br />

• Traveling<br />

• Buying a boat or RV<br />

• Moving to another state<br />

• Providing for your heirs<br />

Once your financial goals are set, reflect upon and affirm your commitment<br />

to these goals, with the understanding that challenges may occur that would<br />

require you to tweak or completely revamp your goals for the future.<br />

Insuring Your Goals<br />

The insurance program you put into place are meant to help complete your<br />

goals in the event of an unforeseen occurrence such as loss of income because<br />

of death, disability, destruction of property or anything else that might create a<br />

sudden financial hardship.<br />

Investing In Your Future<br />

Ask the average person and they’ll tell you that you need a Ph.D in Finance to<br />

understand investments, so to dispel that myth, let’s return to our short-term,<br />

mid-term and long-term goals.<br />

For the short-term, investments need to be liquid and easily accessible. Investing<br />

in mutual funds or stocks may not appropriate because they are volatile in nature<br />

and require a longer time to weather the ups and downs of the market. Since your<br />

investment is only as good as its value on the day you want to cash them in, a<br />

money market account, short-term bond or CD would be your safest bet.<br />

For your mid- and long-term goals, your gut plays an important role. What kind<br />

of investor are you? Where is your comfort level?<br />

• Conservative (you won’t sleep at night if you think the market took a dip<br />

today)<br />

• Moderate (you’re ready to cautiously put your big toe in the water)<br />

• Moderate/Aggressive (you’re getting comfortable with more risk for greater<br />

reward)<br />

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• Aggressive (you’re comfortable taking a greater risk with the hope of a<br />

greater return)<br />

The general rule about investments is that the length of time you have for an<br />

investment to grow will determine the type of investment that is right for your<br />

situation.<br />

Working With a Financial Planner<br />

A financial planning professional can offer various tools to help you determine<br />

where you stand today, and will advise you according to your risk tolerance, your<br />

age and your expendable income. Your comfort levels could very well change<br />

over time as you become more comfortable with your results and more comfortable<br />

with your planner.<br />

Why should you use a financial planner? Statistics show that finding a comfortable<br />

fit with a financial planner and working with someone over the long<br />

term will yield better investment results. Why? Because in general, individuals<br />

investing on their own tend to bail when the market takes a dip, whereas most<br />

financial professionals would advise you to hold tight because statistically, investments<br />

tend to weather the storm and come back over the long term.<br />

Often, the best approach to achieving financial balance is a team approach<br />

that includes your attorney, your accountant and your financial advisor working<br />

together … with you as the team leader.<br />

Seeking financial balance requires constant monitoring to make sure that your<br />

dollars—as well as your comfort level—are on track. If you follow your plan, the<br />

pot of gold at the end of your rainbow will be abundant! ❁<br />

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10 TIPS TO KEEP YOUR EXPENSES IN BALANCE<br />

1. Always be mindful of those incidental expenses. They really add up<br />

2. Pay your bills on time. Late charges are expensive.<br />

3. Prepare a monthly budget and stick to your promise.<br />

4. Pay yourself first. Make a bill-paying day each month and pay your<br />

savings account first.<br />

5. Maintain an ongoing dialogue with your planner so that she is<br />

aware of any personal issues that may warrant rebalancing your<br />

investments.<br />

6. Commit to quarterly or semi-annual meetings with your planner<br />

and make sure meetings are made and kept.<br />

7. If you are considering a risky investment or a huge purchase, sleep<br />

on it before acting on it. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.<br />

8. Balance your checkbook each month. Catch mistakes early and<br />

chaos will be averted.<br />

9. If your employer matches your employee contribution to a<br />

retirement plan, try to contribute at least to the match point.<br />

10. Check your credit rating regularly and make repairs immediately.<br />

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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

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Nassau County<br />

•Bailey Arboretum<br />

Bayville Rd. and Feeks Ln., Lattingtown<br />

516-571-8020. baileyarboretum.org<br />

This former family estate features 42 acres of<br />

exotic trees, rare shrubs and beautiful flower<br />

beds.<br />

•Clark Botanic Garden<br />

193 I.U. Willets Rd., Albertson. 516-484-8600.<br />

clarkbotanic.org.<br />

This 12-acre living museum and educational<br />

facility is listed as an official Daylily Garden<br />

(one of only about 325 in the United States).<br />

•C.W. Post Community Arboretum<br />

Long Island University, C.W. Post Campus<br />

720 Northern Blvd., Brookville; 516-299-2900.<br />

liu.edu/CWPost/About/Resources/Arboretum<br />

Open to the public, seven days a week, from<br />

dawn until dusk, the arboretum is comprised<br />

of a 40-acre portion of campus. There are<br />

more than 125 trees, some very rare, each<br />

labeled with horticultural facts and origin<br />

information. You can also enjoy approximately<br />

75,000 tulips and daffodils.<br />

•Hofstra University Arboretum<br />

Hempstead Tpke., Hempstead. 516-463-6623.<br />

hofstra.edu/community/arbor/index.html.<br />

The campus is one of only 430 arboreta in the<br />

U.S.. There are more than 12,000 evergreen<br />

and deciduous trees that represent 625<br />

species and varieties. The campus is also a bird<br />

sanctuary, and a two-acre portion features<br />

an Environmental Studies Center with a<br />

hummingbird and a naturalistic rock waterfall.<br />

•John P. Humes Japanese Stroll Garden<br />

Dogwood Ln. & Oyster Bay Rd., Mill Neck. 516-<br />

676-4486. gardenconservancy.org/humes.html.<br />

This four-acre garden is an American<br />

adaptation of a Japanese strolling garden.<br />

Public and private tours are available as well as<br />

tea demonstrations and other events.<br />

•Old Westbury Gardens<br />

71 Old Westbury Rd., Old Westbury. 516-333-<br />

0048. oldwestburygardens.org.<br />

Named one of the World’s Most Beautiful<br />

Gardens by ForbesTraveler.com and listed on<br />

the National Register of Historic Places, this<br />

is the former home of the Phipps family. The<br />

Charles II-style mansion sits on 200 acres of<br />

formal gardens, woodlands, ponds and lakes.<br />

•Planting Fields Arboretum State Historic Park<br />

Planting Fields Rd., Oyster Bay. 516-922-9200<br />

plantingfields.org.<br />

Former Gold Coast estate of more than 400<br />

acres. Arboretum contains greenhouses,<br />

gardens, woodland paths and plant<br />

collections. Estate buildings include Coe Hall,<br />

a 1920s Tudor Revival with an important<br />

stained glass collection. Mrs. Coe’s Bedroom<br />

was recently unveiled with newly-recreated<br />

landscape murals to replace the lost originals.<br />

Suffolk County<br />

•Bayard Cutting Arboretum State Park<br />

440 Montauk Hwy., Great River. 631-581-1002<br />

bayardcuttingarboretum.com.<br />

One of the most extensive collections of fir,<br />

spruce, pine, cypress, hemlock and other<br />

conifers. Also, extensive plantings of dwarf<br />

evergreens, azaleas, hollies and oaks as well as<br />

wildflowers and daffodils.<br />

•Bridge Gardens<br />

36 Mitchell Ln., Bridgehampton. 631-537-7440.<br />

peconiclandtrust.org/bridge_gardens.html.<br />

This unique botanical garden was donated to<br />

the Peconic Land Trust in 2008. There are two<br />

distinct garden districts on these five acres:<br />

the Inner Garden and the Outer Garden.<br />

Highlights include the ivy maze, the collection<br />

of 800 antique and modern roses and eight<br />

lavender beds.<br />

•LongHouse Reserve<br />

133 Hands Creek Rd., East Hampton. 631-329-<br />

3568. longhouse.org.<br />

A celebration of art in all its forms, the<br />

arboretum and sculpture gardens sit on nearly<br />

16 acres. There are limited open hours for the<br />

public and a variety of educational programs.<br />

•The Madoo Conservancy<br />

618 Sagg Main St., Sagaponack. 631-537-8200<br />

madoo.org.<br />

Now on the National Register of Historic<br />

Places, these two-acre gardens incorporate<br />

the houses and studios of artist Robert<br />

Dash. Limited public hours; photographs are<br />

permitted.<br />

<br />

June<br />

•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />

June 25-Aug. 16. Free performances at the<br />

Chapin Rainbow Stage in Heckscher Park.<br />

Huntington Arts Council, 631-271-8423.<br />

huntingtonarts.org.<br />

•11th ANNUAL OUTDOOR ARTS AND CRAFTS<br />

SHOW<br />

June 25-26. Hampton Bays Chamber of Commerce,<br />

69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-2211.<br />

July<br />

•ALIVE AFTER FIVE<br />

‘Everybody, Everybody’<br />

Loves The H untington Summer Arts Festival<br />

The 46th Huntington Summer Arts Festival kicks off June 25th with<br />

a performance by singer, songwriter and R&B queen, Martha Wash.<br />

Known for her sultry voice in the popular group, The Weather Girls,<br />

Martha was also featured in many of the Black Box and C&C Music<br />

Factory hits with songs such as “Everybody, Everybody” and “Gonna<br />

Make You Sweat (Everybody<br />

Dance Now).”<br />

The 8-week festival<br />

presented by the town<br />

of Huntington features<br />

more than 40 free<br />

outdoor concerts and<br />

performances from<br />

both national and international<br />

talent. The<br />

amazing lineup of performers<br />

includes comedy,<br />

drama, jazz, blues,<br />

classical, and pop acts<br />

all at the Chapin Rainbow<br />

Stage. Call 631-271-<br />

8423 or visit huntingtonarts.org.<br />

Martha Wash<br />

July 1, 8 & 29 and Aug. 12. Patchogue. 631-<br />

207-1000. aliveafterfive.com. Free Friday night<br />

summer street fair concerts.<br />

•EAST END GREENFEST<br />

October 1 & 2. Strawberry Fields Fairgrounds,<br />

Rte. 48, Mattituck. 631-734-5894. eastendgreenfest.com.<br />

Outdoor festival celebrating<br />

green solutions for a healthier world.<br />

•Great South Bay Music Festival<br />

July 15, 16 & 17. Shorefront Park, Smith St.,<br />

Patchogue. 631-331-0808. greatsouthbaymusicfestival.com.<br />

Three stages and more than 40<br />

artists perform rock, folk and blues. Arts and<br />

crafts market, Guitar Hero contest, Brews Tent<br />

and Wine Garden and more.<br />

•HISTORIC BASE BALL TOURNAMENT<br />

July 30. Old Bethpage Village Restoration, Round<br />

Swamp Rd., Old Bethpage. 516-572-8400.<br />

•HISTORICAL SOCIETY CRAFT FAIR<br />

July 9 & 10. Second House Museum, Montauk<br />

Hwy., Montauk. 631-668-5340.<br />

montaukchamber.com.<br />

•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />

Through Aug. 16. Free performances at the<br />

Chapin Rainbow Stage in Heckscher Park.<br />

Huntington Arts Council, 631-271-8423.<br />

huntingtonarts.org.<br />

•LONG ISLAND COMEDY FESTIVAL<br />

Various dates and venues. 516-446-6782.<br />

longislandcomedyfestival.com.<br />

•LONG ISLAND INTERNATIONAL FILM EXPO<br />

July 8-14. Bellmore Movies, 222 Pettit Ave.,<br />

Bellmore. 516-783-3199.<br />

lifilmexpo.org.<br />

•NIGHT AT THE LIGHT<br />

July 17. Montauk Point Lighthouse, Montauk.<br />

631-668-2428. montaukchamber.com. A<br />

celebration of Long Island wines with jazz and<br />

hors d’oeurvres.<br />

•STONY BROOK FILM FESTIVAL<br />

July 21-30. Staller Center, Stony Brook University,<br />

Nicolls Rd., Stony Brook. 631-632-2787.<br />

stallercenter.com.<br />

August<br />

•BILL HAUTMANN MEMORIAL FLEA MARKET<br />

& ANTIQUE SHOW<br />

Aug. 13 & 14. The Great Lawn, Potunk Ln. &<br />

Main St., Westhampton Beach. 631-288-3337.<br />

whbcc.org.<br />

•BLUEGRASS FESTIVAL<br />

Aug. 20. Tanner Park, Copiague. 631-587-3696.<br />

babylonarts.com.<br />

•HUNTINGTON SUMMER ARTS FESTIVAL<br />

See July for more information.<br />

•LONG ISLAND COMEDY FESTIVAL<br />

See July for more information.<br />

•NATIONAL LIGHTHOUSE DAY<br />

Aug. 7. Reduced tower tour fee at Fire Island<br />

Lighthouse. 631-321-7028.<br />

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•PAUMANAUKE POW WOW<br />

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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

E. Sunrise Hwy., Lindenhurst. 631-587-3696.<br />

babylonarts.com.<br />

•SAYVILLE SUMMERFEST<br />

Aug. 5-7. Greater Sayville Chamber of Commerce<br />

event, 631-567-5257.<br />

greatersayvillechamber.com.<br />

•24th ANNUAL OUTDOOR ART SHOW<br />

August 27&28 Hampton Bays Chamber of Commerce,<br />

69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-2211.<br />

•Seafood Festival & Craft Fair<br />

Aug. 27 & 28. Long Island Maritime Museum, 86<br />

West Ave., West Sayville. 631-HISTORY. limaritime.org.<br />

Music, exhibits, vendors and seafood.<br />

September<br />

•East Northport Festival<br />

Sept. 9-11. John Walsh Park, East Northport.<br />

631-261-3573. eastnorthport.com. Craft vendors,<br />

exhibits, sidewalk sales, food, bicycle stunt<br />

shows, live entertainment, street performers and<br />

more.<br />

•HALLOCKVILLE FALL FESTIVAL<br />

Sept. 17 & 18. Hallockville Museum Farm and<br />

Folklife Center, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead.<br />

631-298-5292. hallockville.com.<br />

•LONG ISLAND FAIR<br />

Sept. 22-25. Old Bethpage Village Restoration,<br />

Round Swamp Rd., Old Bethpage. 516-572-<br />

8400.<br />

•13th ANNUAL CHILI/CHOWDER CONTEST<br />

September 25. Hampton Bays Chamber of<br />

Commerce, 69 West Montuak Hwy. 631-728-<br />

2211. Restaurants & individuals submit favorite<br />

chili and/or chowder for tasting and voting by<br />

local residents & visitors & blind tasting by three<br />

judges.<br />

October<br />

•GARLIC FESTIVAL<br />

Oct 1. Garden of Eve Organic Farm, 4558 Sound<br />

Ave., Riverhead. 631-523-6608. gardenofevefarm.com.<br />

Seventh annual celebration with<br />

vendors, food, crafts, music, theater and garlic.<br />

Enter the Great Garlic Cook-Off.<br />

•APPLE FESTIVAL<br />

Oct. 16. Kissam Property, 434 Park Ave., Huntington.<br />

631-427-7045.<br />

•ARTS & CRAFT SHOW<br />

Oct. 8. Greater Westhampton Chamber of<br />

Commerce, 7 Glovers Ln., Westhampton Beach.<br />

631-288-3337.<br />

whbcc.org.<br />

•HAMPTONS INTERNATIONAL FILM FESTIVAL<br />

Oct. 13-17 631-324-4600; 631-747-7978.<br />

hamptonsfilmfest.org.<br />

November<br />

•LIGHTING THE LIGHTHOUSE<br />

Nov. 26. Montauk Point Lighthouse, Montauk.<br />

631-668-2428.<br />

montaukchamber.com.<br />

•LONG ISLAND RESTAURANT WEEK<br />

Nov. 6-13. Participating restaurants offer threecourse<br />

prix fixe meals for $24.95. 631-329-<br />

0050. longislandrestaurantweek.com.<br />

December<br />

•CHRISTMAS AT HALLOCKVILLE<br />

Dec. 4. Hallockville Museum Farm and Folklife<br />

Center, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead. 631-298-<br />

5292. hallockville.com.<br />

•DICKENS FESTIVAL<br />

Dec. 2-4. Port Jefferson Village Center at Harborfront<br />

Park, 101-A East Broadway, Port Jefferson.<br />

631-473-5220 or 802-2160. pjvillagecenter.com.<br />

• DEEPWELLS HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE<br />

Dec. 3 – 4, 10-11. Deepwells Farm Historic Park,<br />

497 Moriches Rd., St. James, NY. 631-563-8551.<br />

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<br />

Environmental/Community<br />

Organizations<br />

•Citizens Campaign for the Environment (CCE)<br />

.................................................. 516-390-7150<br />

citizenscampaign.org<br />

•Group For the East End<br />

...........................631-537-1400/631-765-6450<br />

eastendenvironment.org<br />

•Long Island Pine Barrens Society<br />

.................................................. 631-369-3300<br />

pinebarrens.org<br />

•Long Island Progressive Coalition<br />

.................................................. 516-541-1006<br />

lipc.org<br />

•Neighborhood Network ............. 631-963-5454<br />

neighborhood-network.org<br />

•Peconic Baykeeper ..................... 631-653-4804<br />

peconicbaykeeper.org<br />

•Renewable Energy Long Island (RELI)<br />

.................................................. 631-329-8888<br />

renewableenergylongisland.org<br />

•Sustainable Long Island ............. 516-873-0230<br />

sustainableli.org<br />

•Vision Long Island ..................... 631-261-0242<br />

visionlongisland.org<br />

Farm Stands<br />

•Albert H. Schmitt Family Farms .. 631-549-1159<br />

6 Bagatelle Rd., Dix Hills<br />

schmittsfamilyfarms.com<br />

•Andrews Family Farm and Greenhouses<br />

.................................................. 631-929-5963<br />

1038 Sound Ave., Wading River<br />

•Briermere Farms ........................ 631-722-3931<br />

4414 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />

briermere.com<br />

•Brightwaters Farms & Nursery ... 631-665-5411<br />

1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore<br />

brightwatersfarms.com<br />

•Condzella’s Farmstand............... 631-929-5058<br />

6233 N. Country Rd., Wading River<br />

•Colonial Springs Farms .............. 631-643-4829<br />

201 Main Ave., Wheatley Heights<br />

•Davis Peach Farm ...................... 631-929-1115<br />

Hulse Landing Rd., Wading River<br />

davispeachfarm.com<br />

•Deer Run Farms ......................... 631-286-7299<br />

282 South Country Rd., Brookhaven<br />

•Gabrielsen’s Country Plant Farm<br />

.................................................. 631-722-3259<br />

1299 Main Road (Rte. 25), Jamesport<br />

•Garden of Eve Organic Farm ...... 631-680-1699<br />

4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />

gardenofevefarm.com<br />

•Golden Earthworm Organic Farm<br />

.................................................. 631-722-3302<br />

652 Peconic Bay Blvd., Jamesport<br />

goldenearthworm.com<br />

•Green Thumb of Water Mill ........ 631-726-1900<br />

829 Montauk Hwy., Water Mill<br />

•Harbes Family Farm ...Mattituck, 631-298-0800<br />

Jamesport, 631-722-2022<br />

harbesfamilyfarm.com<br />

•Kaufold’s Country Farm ............. 631-924-1265<br />

724 Middle Country Rd., Rte. 25, Ridge<br />

•Krupski’s Country Florist and Farm<br />

.................................................. 631-734-6847<br />

38030 Rte.. 25, Peconic<br />

•Lewin Farms .............................. 631-929-4327<br />

Sound Ave., Wading River<br />

lewinfarms.com<br />

•Long Island Farm Bureau .......... 631-727-3777<br />

104 Edwards Ave., Calverton<br />

lifb.com<br />

•May’s Farmstand ....................... 631-929-6654<br />

Rte. 25A, Wading River<br />

•Mediavilla Orchards, Inc. ........... 631-423-4794<br />

1527 E. Jericho Tpke., Huntington<br />

•The Milk Pail Farm & Orchard .... 631-537-2565<br />

1346 Montauk Hwy., Water Mill<br />

milk-pail.com<br />

•Northville Farms ........................ 631-722-3229<br />

5403 Sound Ave., Riverhead<br />

•Peconic River Herb Farm ............ 631-369-0058<br />

2749 River Rd., Calverton<br />

prherbfarm.com<br />

•Pike Farms ...................................... (June-Oct.)<br />

Sagg Main, Sagaponack<br />

•Richters Orchard (Aug.-May) ..... 631-261-1980<br />

Pulaski Rd., Northport<br />

•Rottkamp’s Fox Hollow Farm ..... 631-727-1786<br />

2287 Sound Ave., Calverton<br />

•Sang Lee Farms ......................... 631-734-7001<br />

25180 County Rd. 48, Peconic<br />

sangleefarms.com<br />

•Schmitt Farms ........................... 631-271-3276<br />

26 Pinelawn Rd., Melville<br />

schmittfarms.com<br />

•Schmitt’s Farm Country Fresh ..... 631-298-1991<br />

1305 Laurel Ln., Laurel<br />

•Seven Ponds Orchard ................ 631-726-8015<br />

65 Seven Ponds Rd., Water Mill<br />

•Stakey’s Pumpkin Farm ............. 631-722-3467<br />

270 West Ln., Aquebogue<br />

stakeyspumpkinfarm.com<br />

•Talmage Farm Agway & Garden Center<br />

.................................................. 631-727-3100<br />

1122 Osborne Ave., Riverhead<br />

talmagefarm.com<br />

•Wells Homestead ...................... 631-722-3796<br />

460 Main Rd., Aquebogue<br />

wellshomesteadmarket.com<br />

•White Post Farms ...................... 631-351-9373<br />

250 Old Country Rd., Melville<br />

whitepostfarms.com<br />

•Wickham’s Fruit Farm ................ 631-734-6441<br />

28700 Main Rd., Cutchogue<br />

wickhamsfruitfarm.com<br />

•Woodside Farms........................ 631-722-5770<br />

Aquebogue & Jamesport<br />

woodsidefarmssli.com<br />

•Youngs Farm - The Annex .......... 516-626-3955<br />

Hegeman’s Ln., Old Brookville<br />

Farmers Markets<br />

•Community Supported Agriculture (CSAs)<br />

.................................................. 831-475-8150<br />

localharvest.org/csa<br />

•Kennedy Plaza Farmers Market (May-Nov.)<br />

.................................................. 516-431-1000<br />

Long Beach<br />

longbeachny.org<br />

•Nassau County Market (June-Nov.)<br />

...........................................Tuesdays, 7am-1pm<br />

101 County Seat Drive, Garden City<br />

nassaucountyny.gov<br />

•Nassau County Market (June-Nov.)<br />

..................................... Wednesdays, 7am-1pm<br />

Christopher Morley Park, Roslyn<br />

nassaucountyny.gov<br />

•New York State Farm Fresh <strong>Guide</strong><br />

.................................................. 800-554-4501<br />

agmkt.state.ny.us/AP/FFGResults.asp<br />

•Restoration Farm (June-Sept.)<br />

............................................ Saturdays, 12-2pm<br />

Old Bethpage Village Restoration parking lot<br />

restorationfarm.com<br />

Health Food Stores<br />

•Back to Basic Natural Food ........ 631-821-0444<br />

632 Rte. 25A, Rocky Point<br />

•Capitol Health Foods ................. 631-271-5577<br />

357 New York Ave., Huntington<br />

•Cornucopia Natural Foods ......... 631-589-9579<br />

39 N. Main St., Sayville<br />

•Dr. B Well Naturally ................... 516-932-9355<br />

8 Washington Ave., Plainview<br />

•Eden’s Way Natural Foods ......... 516-798-5670<br />

37 Broadway, Massapequa<br />

•Fairway Market ......................... 516-937-5402<br />

50 Manetto Hill Mall, Plainview<br />

fairwaymarket.com<br />

•Get Healthy America ................. 516-931-1900<br />

148 Manetto Hill Rd., Plainview<br />

•Green Earth Grocery .................. 631-369-2233<br />

50 E. Main St., Riverhead<br />

•Jandi’s Natural Market & Organic Cafe<br />

.................................................. 516-536-5535<br />

3000 Long Beach Rd., Oceanside<br />

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Resource <strong>Guide</strong><br />

•Living Natural ........................... 516-771-9230<br />

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•Organically Yours....................... 631-754-2150<br />

114 Main St., Northport<br />

•Port Washington Twin Pines Food Coop &<br />

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382 Main St., Port Washington<br />

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•Rising Tide Natural Market......... 516-676-7895<br />

42 Forest Ave., Glen Cove<br />

•Sherry’s the Healthy Gourmet .... 631-661-5552<br />

89 Deer Park Ave., Babylon<br />

sherryshealth.com<br />

•St. James Natural Food .............. 631-862-6076<br />

296 Lake Ave., St. James<br />

•The Health Nuts ........................ 516-683-9177<br />

92 Old Country Rd., Westbury<br />

•The Mung Bean Natural Foods Store<br />

.................................................. 631-499-2362<br />

Commack Corners Shopping Center, 6522<br />

Jericho Tpke., Commack<br />

•Trader Joe’s<br />

5010 Jericho Tpke., Commack .... 631-493-9210<br />

1280 W. Broadway, Hewlett ......... 516-569-7191<br />

137 Alexander Ave., Lake Grove... 631-863-2477<br />

1714 Merrick Rd., Merrick .......... 516-771-1012<br />

3418 Long Beach Rd., Oceanside 516-536-9163<br />

425 S. Oyster Bay Rd., Plainview .. 516-933-6900<br />

traderjoes.com<br />

•Whole Foods<br />

2101 Northern Blvd., Manhasset 516-869-8900<br />

429 N. Broadway, Jericho ............ 516-932-1733<br />

wholefoodsmarket.com<br />

•Wild By Nature<br />

2709 W. Long Beach Rd., Oceanside<br />

.................................................. 516-764-3580<br />

369 W. Main St., Huntington ....... 631-424-6480<br />

198 Main St., East Setauket ......... 631-246-5500<br />

260 W. Montauk Hwy., Hampton Bays<br />

.................................................. 631-723-3071<br />

wildbynature.com<br />

<br />

Alcohol, Drug and Other Addictions<br />

•AA/Al Anon Meetings<br />

...........................631-473-1320/631-476-2723<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Alcoholics Anonymous<br />

...........................516-292-3040/631-669-1124<br />

nassauny-aa.org; suffolkny-aa.org<br />

Bay Shore ................................... 516-435-2863<br />

Freeport ..................................... 516-223-9590<br />

•Care Center -- Children of Alcoholics Group<br />

................................................. 516-378-2992<br />

•Families Anonymous<br />

...........................631-474-9659/631-924-9357<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Food Addicts Anonymous ......... 631-338-9059<br />

Lake Grove<br />

•Gamblers Anonymous<br />

...........................877-533-4395/877-442-4248<br />

•Overeaters Anonymous .............. 631-473-1320<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Sexual Addictions Anonymous S-ANON, SA,<br />

Couples ...................................... 347-531-5977<br />

•Women for Sobriety .................. 215-536-8026<br />

womenforsobriety.org<br />

Alzheimers<br />

•Adult Children of Individuals with Alzheimer’s<br />

Groups ..................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF<br />

Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org<br />

•Alzheimer’s Association<br />

.......................... 631-580-5100/800-272-3900<br />

Ronkonkoma. alz.org/longisland<br />

Alzheimer’s Groups<br />

............................516-767-6856/866-789-LIAF<br />

Long Island Alzheimer’s Foundation. liaf.org<br />

•Alzheimer’s Caregivers .... 631-585-2020, x260<br />

Community Programs Center of L.I.,<br />

Ronkonkoma<br />

•Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group ....516-432-0570<br />

Temple Emanu-El of Long Beach, Long Beach<br />

•Friendship Circle ........................516-484-1545<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Let’s Do Lunch (Young Onset) ....516-484-1545<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Shabbat Respite Program<br />

........................................ 516-822-3535, x326<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. myjcc.org<br />

•Spouses of Alzheimer’s/Dementia Patients<br />

..................................................631-264-0222<br />

Broadlawn Manor, Amityville<br />

Bereavement<br />

•Animal Bereavement Group.......516-785-6416<br />

Long Island Vetenary Specialist Center ,<br />

Plainview<br />

•Bereavement .............................631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Bereavement .............................516-465-2500<br />

North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System<br />

(various locations) northshorelij.edu<br />

•Bereavement ..... 631-744-8566/631-744-8116<br />

St. Louis de Montfort R.C. Church<br />

•Bereavement .................... 516-766-4341 x131<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Bereavement .............................631-465-6262<br />

Good Shepherd Hospice<br />

goodshepherdhospice.net<br />

•Bereavement .................... 516-822-3535 x328<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Bereavement .................... 516-484-1545 x196<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Bereavement .................... 631-581-4266 x100<br />

St. Mary’s Church, 20 Harrison Ave., E. Islip<br />

maryseastislip.org<br />

•Bereavement Group (suicide) .... 631-687-2960<br />

Brookhaven Hospice<br />

•Bereavement ................... 631-462-9800, x139<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Bereavement (1 on 1) ................516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Bereavement Groups for Children and Families<br />

..................................................516-626-1971<br />

North Shore Child and Family Guidance Center<br />

•Death of a Child Support Group<br />

..................................................631-738-0809<br />

St. Sylvester’s Church, Medford<br />

•Grief Share................................516-731-6736<br />

Plainedge Baptist Church, Bethpage<br />

•H.E.A.L.(Help Ease A Loss)<br />

.......................... 631-265-4520/631-265-2810<br />

St. Thomas of Canterbury Church, Smithtown<br />

•Holocaust Survivors and Friends<br />

......................................... 631-462-9800 x121<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Loss of a Baby ...........................631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Loss of a Child ................. 516-822-3535 x328<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Loss of a Sibling ............... 516-822-3535 x328<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Loss of Spouse ..........................516-634-4190<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Recent Widow/Widower ... 516-766-4341 x131<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Recently Bereaved Group ..........866-789-5423<br />

Sunrise of N. Lynbrook, N. Lynbrook<br />

•Widows and Widowers 50+<br />

......................................... 631-462-9800 x139<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Widow/Widower .............. 516-766-4341 x131<br />

JCC of West Hempstead, W. Hempstead<br />

FEGS Partners in Caring/Friedberg JCC<br />

•Widow/Widower .............. 516-484-1545 x196<br />

Sid Jacobson JCC, East Hills. sjjcc.org<br />

•Widow/Widower (ages 40 and up)<br />

..................................................516-395-8303<br />

Parkway Community Church, Hicksville<br />

•Widow/Widower (ages 50-60)<br />

.......................................... 516-766-434, x131<br />

Friedberg JCC, Oceanside. friedbergjcc.org<br />

•Widows Group ................. 516-822-3535 x331<br />

Mid-Island Y JCC, Plainview. miyjcc.org<br />

•Widows and Widowers to Age 45<br />

......................................... 631-462-9800 x139<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

Breast and other Cancers<br />

•Adelphi New York State Wide Breast Cancer<br />

Hotline ...................................... 800-877-8077<br />

•American Cancer Society ..........800-ACS-2345<br />

cancer.org<br />

•Breast Cancer .......................... 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•Breast and Ovarian Cancer Group<br />

.........................................631-462-9800 x129<br />

Suffolk Y JCC, Commack. suffolkyjcc.org<br />

•Breast Cancer .......................... 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center,<br />

Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Breast Cancer Family and Friends<br />

................................................. 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center<br />

Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Cancer Group ...516-256-6025/516-256-6478<br />

Franklin Hospital, Valley Stream<br />

•Cancer Patient and Survivor Group<br />

................................................. 631-675-9003<br />

Long Island Cancer Help and Wellness Center,<br />

Bay Shore. breastcancerhelpinc.org<br />

•Cancer Groups ......................... 516-465-2500<br />

North Shore-Long Island Jewish Health System<br />

(various locations). northshorelij.edu<br />

•Cancer Survivors ...................... 631-473-1320<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Cancer Support Group .............. 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Cancer Support Group for Women with Bilateral<br />

Masectomies .............................. 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Day Time Group for Breast Cancer<br />

................................................. 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•Family Support ......................... 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Huntington Breast Cancer Action Coalition<br />

................................................. 631-547-1518<br />

hbcac.org<br />

•Lean On Me ............................. 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Live, Love & Laugh Again (breast cancer)<br />

................................................. 631-476-2776<br />

John T. Mather Memorial Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Look Good, Feel Better ............. 631-376-4444<br />

Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center<br />

Breast Health Center, W. Islip<br />

good-samaritan-hospital.org<br />

•Metastatic Breast Cancer ......... 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•Mid-Island Skin Cancer ............ 516-352-4227<br />

ccmac.org<br />

•National Ovarian Cancer Coalition (NOCC)<br />

................................................. 631-672-2027<br />

Long Island Chapter, Huntington Station<br />

ovarian.org<br />

•Breast Cancer (a variety of support groups)<br />

................................................. 516-374-3190<br />

Hewlett House, Hewlett. 1in9.org<br />

•Newly-Diagnosed Breast Cancer<br />

......................631-476-2776 or 631-689-1854<br />

Mather Hospital, Port Jefferson<br />

matherhospital.org<br />

•Night Time Group for Breast Cancer<br />

................................................. 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•Close Knit Group (knit and talk group for<br />

women with breast cancer) ........ 516-877-4314<br />

Adelphi Univ. School of Social Work, Garden City<br />

•South Fork Breast Health Coalition<br />

30 • 2011/ 2012 LONG ISLAND WOMAN SURVIVAL GUIDE To advertise: 516-505-0555 x1 or ads@liwomanonline.com

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