1950 This Means Everlasting Life - A2Z.org

1950 This Means Everlasting Life - A2Z.org 1950 This Means Everlasting Life - A2Z.org

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MARRIAGE AMONG THE HEIRS OF LIFE 151 witnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect." 1 Peter 2 :20,21 ; 3 :1, 2, NW The winning of a mate to a Christian life would be a victory for one's faithful integrity and would improve home conditions to the desirable state . It also provides another preacher of the good news . 10 Whether subjection to a husband wins him from unbelief or not, the subjection of the believing wife proves her faithfulness to God's law, "The head of a woman is the man." 1 Corinthians 11 :3, NW Her suffering under such circumstances is for righteousness' sake and has God's approval and reward . Subjection to a believing husband should be observed by a believing wife not only because it is easier to do but because it is the divine arrangement : "Let wives be in subjection to their husbands as to the Lord, because a husband is head of his wife as the Christ also is head of the congregation, he being a savior of this body . In fact, as the congregation is in subjection to the Christ, so let wives also be to their husbands in everything ." The headship of a husband, especially of a believing husband, should by no means take on oppression and an abuse of marriage dues and privileges to the point of harming the body, mind and spiritual condition of the wife. The headship should express itself in love, like that of Christ for his congregation, his spiritual body . "In this way husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies . He who loves lo. a Why should a wife be subject to her husband whether a believer or not? b How should a husband exercise headship Christlike?

152 "THIS MEANS EVERLASTING LIFE" his wife loves himself. . . . let each one of you individually so love his wife as he does himself ; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband ." Ephesians 5 :22-33, NW So Christian husbands should deal considerately with their Christian wives, having in mind their highest interests, "since you are also heirs with them of the undeserved favor of life ." The wife is just as much an heir of life as the husband . In closest neighbor-love each mate should help the other to win it.-1 Peter 3 :7, NW. 11 If a believer contemplates marriage, then wisdom and faithfulness to God dictate that it should be marriage only to another person in devoted relationship with the Lord . Not only does the apostle warn against a Christian's yoking himself up unequally with an unbeliever, but also Jehovah's Law covenant with the Israelites foreshadowed a warning against this in forbidding his chosen people to marry with heathen neighbors . It endangers faithfulness.-Exodus 34 :14-16 ; Deuteronomy 7 :3,4 ; Numbers 25 :1-8 . 12 In all Biblical accounts of marriages, there is no record of a religious priest or clergyman's being needed or having any part in completing the marriage . This does not mean a person should not be married by an officer of the law of the land and have the marriage legally acknowledged, confirmed and recorded and published beyond all denial. The Bible record argues for this, because 11 . Why do wisdom and faithfulness dictate marrying in the Lord? 12 . Should marriage be legalized? Why Scripturally so?

MARRIAGE AMONG THE HEIRS OF LIFE 151<br />

witnesses of your chaste conduct together with<br />

deep respect." 1 Peter 2 :20,21 ; 3 :1, 2, NW The<br />

winning of a mate to a Christian life would be a<br />

victory for one's faithful integrity and would improve<br />

home conditions to the desirable state . It<br />

also provides another preacher of the good news .<br />

10 Whether subjection to a husband wins him<br />

from unbelief or not, the subjection of the believing<br />

wife proves her faithfulness to God's law,<br />

"The head of a woman is the man." 1 Corinthians<br />

11 :3, NW Her suffering under such circumstances<br />

is for righteousness' sake and has God's<br />

approval and reward . Subjection to a believing<br />

husband should be observed by a believing wife<br />

not only because it is easier to do but because it<br />

is the divine arrangement : "Let wives be in subjection<br />

to their husbands as to the Lord, because<br />

a husband is head of his wife as the Christ also is<br />

head of the congregation, he being a savior of<br />

this body . In fact, as the congregation is in subjection<br />

to the Christ, so let wives also be to their<br />

husbands in everything ." The headship of a husband,<br />

especially of a believing husband, should by<br />

no means take on oppression and an abuse of<br />

marriage dues and privileges to the point of harming<br />

the body, mind and spiritual condition of the<br />

wife. The headship should express itself in love,<br />

like that of Christ for his congregation, his spiritual<br />

body . "In this way husbands ought to be loving<br />

their wives as their own bodies . He who loves<br />

lo. a Why should a wife be subject to her husband<br />

whether a believer or not? b How should a husband<br />

exercise headship Christlike?

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