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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
IS THIS THE<br />
BEST THERE IS?<br />
The struggle to<br />
find hope in the<br />
Resurrection<br />
photos from the<br />
church family work day<br />
ask a pastor:<br />
bunnies, baskets and<br />
family traditions<br />
APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | southwood.org
SOUTHWOOD<br />
contents<br />
ABOUT THIS ISSUE<br />
“He descended into hell.<br />
The third day He arose again from the dead;<br />
He ascended into heaven”<br />
-the Apostle’s Creed<br />
Jesus lived the tension. He crossed the great divide. He saw it from both<br />
sides and lives to bridge the gap for us. We can’t fully appreciate the gift we<br />
have received without recognizing the extent of this chasm.<br />
In this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong> we explore the now-but-not-yet Kingdom and<br />
proclaim the victory that is achieved in Christ’s resurrection. C.S. Lewis’ The<br />
Great Divide paints this picture, as do stories of the tension lived out by<br />
Peruvian street boys and in our own hearts. We come together as a body<br />
of believers to be refreshed and energized and then return to the world to<br />
express grace to others.<br />
If, like me, you find yourself burdened in life, you probably need another<br />
dose of hope. Just look to the empty tomb and know that He arose!<br />
<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />
EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jonathan Barnette<br />
DESIGNER Jacki Gil<br />
Jonathan Barnette, Editor<br />
JEAN F. LARROUX, III Senior Pastor<br />
MELISSA PATTERSON Executive Assistant<br />
2 about this issue<br />
3 pastor’s note<br />
REFLECT<br />
7 is this the best there is?<br />
The struggle to find hope in<br />
the Resurrection<br />
14 curl up with<br />
James Parker gives his thoughts<br />
on C.S. Lewis' The Great Divorce<br />
RESPOND<br />
10 ask a pastor<br />
Bunnies, baskets and<br />
family traditions<br />
12 5 questions<br />
Pastor Tullian Tchividjian answers<br />
questions on LIBERATE and grace.<br />
RELATE<br />
4 sermons through the eyes of a child<br />
5 session update<br />
8 church family work day<br />
A picture recap from Southwood's<br />
Family Work Day<br />
11 growing small<br />
What makes a small group feel like<br />
a small group?<br />
12 tweets from liberate<br />
A twitter recap from a week<br />
at the LIBERATE conference<br />
15 all that is fair<br />
Bono and the Resurrection<br />
COVER PHOTO<br />
Taken by Jonathan Barnette in a<br />
home for "street boys" in Peru.<br />
CONTRIBUTORS<br />
Will Spink<br />
Sarah Niemitz<br />
Chad Townsley<br />
James Parker<br />
Tullian Tchividjian<br />
PHOTOS<br />
Jonathan Barnette<br />
Jacki Gil<br />
Sarah Niemitz<br />
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ADULT MINISTRIES<br />
SARAH NIEMITZ Director of Community Development/Assimilation<br />
JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />
WILL SPINK Associate Pastor/Shepherding<br />
STUDENT MINISTRIES<br />
KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />
NIÑA BANTA Director of Children<br />
NANCY McCREIGHT Assistant Director /Children/Nursery<br />
CHAD TOWNSLEY Associate Pastor/High-Life<br />
WINNIE WINFORD Assistant Director/High-Life<br />
MINISTRY SUPPORT<br />
TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />
JONATHAN BARNETTE Director of Communication<br />
JACKI GIL Graphic Designer<br />
JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />
LYNDA CLAYDON Facilities<br />
MIKE MARREN Facilities<br />
ELIZABETH BUTZ Receptionist<br />
UPCOMING<br />
EVENTS<br />
Peru Fundraiser<br />
<strong>April</strong> 5th<br />
Maundy Thursday<br />
<strong>April</strong> 17<br />
Good Friday<br />
<strong>April</strong> 18<br />
No Christian Education<br />
<strong>April</strong> 20<br />
Easter Sunday<br />
<strong>April</strong> 20<br />
2 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG
PASTOR’S NOTE<br />
Running (on empty) toward the resurrection!<br />
Has your faith ever seemed to be on autopilot?<br />
Have you ever felt like you were spiritually<br />
running on empty? Does your passion for God<br />
seem to wax and wane? Mine does. The truth<br />
is that I am feeling kind of spiritually “dry” right<br />
now as I type. I know that I’m a preacher and I’m<br />
not supposed to say things like that, but it is the<br />
truth. As a pastor I am only “supposed to” talk<br />
about struggles, doubts and the blahs when they<br />
are a safe distance behind me, in the spiritual<br />
rear-view mirror, right? But what about right now?<br />
Is there anything that makes it “okay” that I don’t<br />
feel so “okay” right now—even as an ordained<br />
minister or a Deacon or an Elder or a Christian<br />
who has known Christ most of his life?<br />
I remember reading Paul’s letters and hearing the<br />
angst in his voice as he was perplexed from every<br />
side. I can remember reading how Jeremiah, the<br />
weeping prophet, struggled with his calling.<br />
Other prophets like Jonah began their ministry<br />
and continued with a “thanks but no thanks”<br />
response to God. The story of the Christian<br />
life is a story about struggling. This is true for<br />
preachers and for parishioners alike. Where are<br />
we to go when we are overwhelmed, perplexed<br />
and “dry” spiritually? Does anything really make<br />
it “okay” that we are not “okay”?<br />
If there is something then we’d need to access<br />
that “something” regularly, right?<br />
A friend’s father lived for many years with<br />
Alzheimer’s. The father was a professing believer<br />
all of his life and even served as a chaplain during<br />
World War II. As the disease took its toll my<br />
friend said that his dad couldn’t even remember<br />
his own name. His observation was simply this,<br />
“In moments like this my only comfort is that<br />
God is the one who holds on to us, not the other<br />
way around!” What a profound statement! God<br />
does hold on to us even if we forget who He is<br />
because we cannot even remember our own<br />
names! The Christian life is about a faithful God,<br />
not faithful followers, right? Maybe what we<br />
need to remember is the same truth that families<br />
caring for Alzheimer’s victims remember every<br />
day—God holds on to us even when we’re just<br />
barely holding on.<br />
Christ must be remembered daily, not simply<br />
memorialized as an annual event at Easter. On<br />
that first Easter Sunday morning the disciples<br />
were in a “dry spell.” They were depleted and<br />
depressed. Jesus was gone forever or so they<br />
thought. Two of the women dutifully went to finish<br />
the half-burial of Jesus while everyone else stayed<br />
together and grieved. When the women returned<br />
with the report that Jesus had defeated death,<br />
Peter and John raced to the tomb of Jesus. They<br />
ran toward the resurrection. Hope propelled them<br />
to go to the one place that would actually make<br />
everything okay—the empty tomb.<br />
When our hearts and lives feel empty we must<br />
seek to re-discover the empty tomb and its<br />
implications for our lives. Because death has died<br />
we can truly live! Everything Jesus promised was<br />
true. Every knee, disease, malady and spiritual<br />
malaise will bow the knee to King Jesus. My hope<br />
is that there is something more true in the universe<br />
than how I feel in the present moment. Instead<br />
of looking for new ways to religiously re-animate<br />
my heart I need to re-discover the old way that<br />
re-animated creation—the resurrection. If rocks<br />
and stones can sing then so can I! There are not<br />
“3 easy ways to jump start the spiritual engine”<br />
or one awesome Bible verse that will help us<br />
“snap out of it.” There is simply one truth that is<br />
bigger than the blahs—death has died and with<br />
it all of the residue of death has been conquered<br />
too. That does not mean that depressive moods,<br />
sadness, melancholy and dry spells cease to exist.<br />
They are very real but they are not all that is real.<br />
Truth becomes a powerful anti-venom in the<br />
hearts of weak people like you and me.<br />
The resurrection is for people that have reached<br />
the end of themselves. It is for people who have<br />
no other options than to collapse into grace. It is<br />
for Apostles, Presbyterians and preachers who<br />
are running on empty, but need to be running<br />
toward the empty tomb. We have a place that is<br />
more empty than the emptiness we often feel—<br />
the tomb of Jesus. Death could not hold Jesus<br />
and it cannot hold those who are held by Him.<br />
Happy Easter, especially if you’ve found it hard to<br />
be happy lately!<br />
For more from Jean, check out<br />
his sermons at southwood.org<br />
jean.larroux@southwood.org<br />
@jflarrouxiii<br />
The irreversible grip that God has on our lives<br />
was set in stone at the resurrection. Easter is<br />
the day that death died. The resurrection of<br />
Jean F. Larroux, III<br />
Senior Pastor<br />
APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG 3
Sermons Through<br />
the Eyes of a Kid<br />
Check out these four drawings from kids at<br />
Southwood. Children can draw pictures of<br />
the sermon that often show the heart of the<br />
sermon's message. Engage your child during<br />
worship on Sundays by grabbing a Kids<br />
Listening Guide from an usher.<br />
Kate Owens<br />
Brynn Holbrook<br />
Amiia Jackson<br />
From sermons on the parables of the lost sheep & the lost sons.<br />
Anna Calhoon<br />
4 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG
elate<br />
SOUTHWOOD<br />
SESSION UPDATE Will Spink<br />
The Session rejoices in the way God has been using Southwood<br />
and her members in recent weeks for the sake of the kingdom.<br />
Our deacons led us in a work day where we had the opportunity<br />
to serve alongside partner ministries throughout the city as well<br />
as on our own campus. Our Community Development Committee<br />
along with other members helped to host a major conference<br />
on development in Huntsville. And our Children’s Ministry Staff<br />
and volunteers hosted on the Southwood campus a regional<br />
conference on ministering to children in our denomination. If<br />
you haven’t found a place to use your gifts and passions to serve,<br />
there are many opportunities to labor together for the sake of the<br />
kingdom, so jump in and don’t miss out!<br />
As we look ahead, please make plans to join us for services<br />
throughout Easter Week. As we continue focusing on repentance<br />
during the Lenten season, our longing for Easter and the joy<br />
of Christ’s resurrection increases. Don’t miss the chance to<br />
contemplate his death and celebrate his resurrection during<br />
Maundy Thursday (Lord’s Supper celebrated), Good Friday, and<br />
Easter Sunday services. These are special times of worship and<br />
fellowship together, so join us for this significant season in the life<br />
of the church.<br />
Finally, we are excited about “Faith Matters,” a brief series about<br />
how the gospel and our faith impact all of life. These classes will<br />
be held on three Sundays in May (4th, 11th, and 18th) during the<br />
Christian education hour at 9:00am. These two classes will help<br />
us apply the good news we hear every Sunday to life beyond the<br />
doors of the church, so take advantage of this unique chance for<br />
learning and discussion.<br />
babysitting for<br />
peru<br />
<strong>April</strong> 5th<br />
The Peru mission team is hosting a<br />
movie night at the Lodge, complete<br />
with pizza, popcorn, and the movie<br />
Frozen! Enjoy a parent's night out while<br />
supporting the Peru Mission Trip.<br />
Children age Three-6th grade 5:30-8:00<br />
7th-8th grade 8:30-10:00<br />
Tickets available in the Guest Center.<br />
Donations accepted at the door.<br />
APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG 5
The struggle to find hope<br />
in the Resurrection in two<br />
different parts of the World<br />
by Sarah Niemitz<br />
Cesar sleeps every night next to the grave of his grandmother. “She is the only person who loved me,” he says, “I<br />
want to sleep near her.”<br />
A teenage street-boy in Peru, Cesar is mentally handicapped due to constant beatings which began when he was an<br />
infant. He has lived on the streets of Puerto Belin since he was a little boy rejected by his family. Puerto Belin is the<br />
slum of slums in Iquitos, Peru. Raw sewage mingles with the river water - the water that serves as transportation for<br />
boats, bathing water, washing water, and even drinking water for residents. Many of the houses in Puerto Belin are<br />
built on floating logs so that they simply rise and fall with the tide. But for Cesar even a house floating on sewage is<br />
out of reach.<br />
6 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | | SOUTHWOOD.ORG
Every year on Good Friday the country of Peru, including the slums of<br />
Puerto Belin, burst into a frenzied celebration called Carnival. Amid<br />
the raucous partying the priests remove Christ from the cross, lay him<br />
in a coffin, and parade the coffin through the streets. Easter Sunday,<br />
they put him back on the cross.<br />
For Cesar and the other street boys of Peru, Jesus is “the dead man<br />
on a cross.” He is blind to their suffering and powerless to save them.<br />
There is no resurrection—no empty tomb on Sunday morning or<br />
promise of the Holy Spirit. Jesus is simply another example of a good<br />
man suffering injustice at the hands of evil men.<br />
I have met Cesar and walked his streets in Puerto Belin. I have served<br />
alongside the Scripture Union staff as they reach out to Cesar and<br />
other abandoned boys through their Girasoles homes throughout<br />
Peru. Paul Clark, the director of Scripture Union, explained the street<br />
boys' understanding of Jesus as “the dead man on the cross,” and<br />
their understanding of religion as something for good people, which<br />
they obviously are not.<br />
How could Paul, or I, or my teammates communicate to these street<br />
boys that Jesus was not powerless on a cross, but rather alive and<br />
powerful? How could<br />
we show the love of this<br />
resurrected Christ to boys<br />
who knew only abuse and<br />
hatred in their short lives?<br />
Many authors have said<br />
one of the greatest proofs<br />
of the resurrection of Christ<br />
is the subsequent boldness<br />
of the formerly cowardly<br />
apostles. Paul Clark would<br />
argue that the love and kindness showed by self-centered American<br />
high school students is another powerful resurrection apologetic.<br />
When self-centered people like me sacrifice for someone else I give<br />
evidence to the truth of the resurrection! Christ in me is more real<br />
than my self-centered self. Jesus is not stuck on the cross as Cesar<br />
believes. He is living and active—dwelling in and transforming people<br />
like you and me.<br />
But the resurrection of Christ does more than rescue individuals<br />
from our sin. It signals the beginning of the new kingdom and the<br />
final resurrection in which there will be no more tears and death will<br />
be swallowed up. Each summer I spent in Peru, my mission team<br />
would sing songs with the boys during an evening worship service.<br />
The boys’ favorite song was always “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks.” In<br />
English it goes like this:<br />
On Jordan’s Stormy banks I stand and cast a wishful eye / to Canaan’s<br />
fair and happy land where my possessions lie / I am bound, I am<br />
bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound, I am bound,<br />
I am bound for the promised land.<br />
bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound, I am bound,<br />
SOUTHWOOD<br />
I am bound for the promised land.<br />
“Do you mean it when you sing this song?” Paul asked our team.<br />
“Every boy who sang this song with you tonight longs for heaven<br />
in this way. Their life is full of sickness, sorrow, pain and death, but<br />
the boys who trust Christ’s grace in their lives have the hope that<br />
there is a better place.They hope for a father’s face that is filled<br />
with love and not with hatred, for rest and no more running from<br />
police; they hope for things which they can hardly imagine. I have<br />
spent my life telling these boys that if they trust Christ as their savior<br />
"[their] present sufferings cannot even be compared to the glory<br />
that will be revealed to [them]" (Romans 8:18 NET). You say you are<br />
Christians, but where is your hope?”<br />
We were quiet, because if we were honest we knew our hope did<br />
not lie in the promised land. It lay in college, marriage, future jobs,<br />
and even future “mission trips” we were all mentally planning.<br />
Our lives were so comfortable, and the comforts so seemingly<br />
permanent, that hope in something unseen felt unnecessary and a<br />
little mystic. I wish I could say this was only true of my high school<br />
self, but unfortunately it is often true of me today. I am fixated on the<br />
“real,” tangible matters<br />
"The resurrection of Christ does more<br />
than rescue individuals from our sin—<br />
it signals the beginning of the new<br />
kingdom and the final resurrection in<br />
which there will be no more tears and<br />
death will be swallowed up."<br />
of the day—placing my<br />
hope in things I can see<br />
and touch because the<br />
unknown feels unreal.<br />
In his book The Great<br />
Divorce, C.S. Lewis turns<br />
this thinking on its head.<br />
He describes our life<br />
on earth as shadows,<br />
while in contrast heaven is described as a place of deafening reality.<br />
The grass is so real that its blades hurt the feet of visiting mortals.<br />
Waterfalls are so loud that they can hardly be approached, and those<br />
least esteemed on earth are beautiful, glorified persons. His imagery<br />
reminds us that while earthly pleasure and suffering feel real, they are<br />
like shadows when compared with the ultimate glory of heaven.<br />
Cesar struggles to believe in the resurrection hope because he has<br />
only seen Jesus on the cross and known the suffering of abuse and<br />
rejection. I struggle to believe in the resurrection because I am so<br />
contented in the “shadow-land” that I feel little need for a future<br />
hope.Both Cesar and I need the hope of the resurrection to break<br />
into our lives!<br />
This resurrection hope offers both of us a new identity. We are<br />
beloved children of God no longer unwanted and rejected, or<br />
all-sufficient and entitled. The eternal perspective brings Cesar<br />
hope in suffering and loosens my grip on the things of this world—<br />
reminding me there is nothing I can sacrifice on earth that is greater<br />
than the glory that is mine in Christ.<br />
No chilling wind or poisonous breathe can reach that healthful shore<br />
/ Sickness, sorrow, pain and death are felt and feared no more. / I am<br />
bound, I am bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound,<br />
I am bound, I am bound for the promised land.<br />
When shall I reach that happy place and be forever blessed? / When<br />
shall I see my father’s face and in his bosom rest? / I am bound, I am<br />
For those who long to find their hope in the final resurrection, here is<br />
my advice: go serve among the materially poor and broken hearted<br />
of this world. Here our sin and the limits of our resources are quickly<br />
revealed. Our material possessions are exposed for the shadows<br />
that they are, and God begins to break through our short-sighted<br />
vision which imagines this world is the best there is. I promise you<br />
will never sing “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks” the same way again.
8 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG
SOUTHWOOD<br />
snapshots from<br />
Serving at Deep Roots of Alabama,<br />
Lincoln Village Ministry, The Village<br />
Church, The Cornerstone Initiative,<br />
Young Life and Southwood
SOUTHWOOD respond<br />
ASK A<br />
PASTOR<br />
Chad Townsley<br />
A pastor's perspective<br />
about bunnies, baskets and<br />
family traditions<br />
Should the Easter Bunny “visit” the homes of believers?<br />
An important thing to distinguish as we answer<br />
this and other questions like it is what kind of<br />
presuppositions we have about the dangers or<br />
pitfalls of celebrating Easter. Easter activities should certainly<br />
be first and foremost a celebration of the resurrection of<br />
Christ. Family lifestyle choices, at Easter and all other times<br />
of the year, should reflect that. Parents have the responsibility<br />
to teach the heart and Christian meaning of Easter to their<br />
children above and before hiding eggs, filling baskets, etc.<br />
That said, I see no inherent danger in most of the secular<br />
American traditions of Easter. Though the idea of a large<br />
rabbit entering the home of Americans may actually be a bit<br />
frightening to many children, the treats and toys that the bunny<br />
brings are fun and enjoyable for all. Our biblical worldview<br />
instructs us to go into the culture and to take what is good<br />
and enjoy it. Scripturally, Paul explains this principles in 1<br />
Corinthians 10:23-33 when he tells how the gospel has freed<br />
us to enjoy “all things.” Specifically in the case of Easter, there<br />
is a lot that we can celebrate as we fill a home with brightly<br />
colored eggs, baskets and other decor, all of which reminds us<br />
of the joy and life of Easter.<br />
Just as with other secular celebrations, a level of discernment<br />
is always required. As Paul explains the many things that<br />
are “lawful” he also warns that not all things are helpful.<br />
As parents (and as individuals in the kingdom) we must use<br />
careful judgment as we discern the level to which we “sell” the<br />
story of the Easter bunny and get caught up in its traditions. Is<br />
the Easter bunny a distraction to us helping our children see<br />
Jesus? If so, perhaps you need to consider de-emphasizing<br />
some of your practices. These sorts of questions must be<br />
sorted out by parents and handled on a case-by-case basis<br />
with children.<br />
May 4, 11, 18 • 9-10am<br />
Faith and god's will<br />
How do I know God's will for my life?<br />
What if I've missed it? Is there only one<br />
soulmate out there for me? Am I in the<br />
wrong career? How can I stop being<br />
paralyzed by indecision?<br />
10 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />
Faith and daily life<br />
What does Sunday have to do with<br />
Monday through Friday? Does God care<br />
whether I work or stay home with kids?<br />
Is my job valuable for anything besides<br />
putting food on the table? Can church<br />
and state really be separate?
What makes<br />
this small<br />
group feel<br />
like a<br />
small group?<br />
parties<br />
In addition to dinners and<br />
girls nights, the group has<br />
an annual “As Seen On TV”<br />
Christmas party. They love<br />
exchanging (and stealing!)<br />
products they never knew<br />
they needed!<br />
depth<br />
They often use the<br />
questions provided on the<br />
sermon from Sunday to go<br />
deeper into their hearts and<br />
lives. Right now they are<br />
reading and discussing Steve<br />
Brown’s Three Free Sins.<br />
respond relate SOUTHWOOD<br />
Brian Day<br />
Cathy Day<br />
Luke Edwards<br />
Kristen Edwards<br />
John Foreman<br />
Sara Foreman<br />
Ricky Howard<br />
Kim Howard<br />
Vinit Mahesh<br />
Marcelle Mahesh<br />
Michael Nardella<br />
Jennifer Nardella<br />
Tom Owens<br />
Lolita Owens<br />
Meets Tuesday<br />
nights at<br />
6:15pm at the<br />
Owens' home.<br />
For more<br />
information<br />
on how to join a<br />
small group visit<br />
southwood.org/<br />
growingsmall<br />
laughter<br />
This group laughs… a lot.<br />
Newest group members<br />
Brian and Cathy say it’s one<br />
of the things that has made<br />
them feel comfortable and<br />
at home with new people.<br />
diversity<br />
The group spans an age range of<br />
29 to 60. Kristen says that has been<br />
an unexpected positive: “At first<br />
we were disappointed because we<br />
were looking for a group of people<br />
our age, but it has been such a<br />
huge blessing over the years. God<br />
knew we needed this more than<br />
what we thought we needed.”<br />
family<br />
Luke says, “It feels like being<br />
with family … in a good<br />
way! There’s no reason to be<br />
anything but yourself.”<br />
popcorn<br />
After eating dessert, they always<br />
share conversation around a large<br />
bowl of popcorn provided by<br />
popcorn-loving leader Ricky Howard.<br />
celebrations<br />
During their time together,<br />
they have celebrated babies,<br />
grandbabies, weddings,<br />
graduations, and new homes.<br />
hardships<br />
They have grieved with each other through<br />
miscarriage, infertility, parents’ deaths,<br />
kids’ struggles, divorces in families, and<br />
many other painful circumstances.<br />
longevity<br />
The group has been together for 5 years, and<br />
every year they get closer as a group. The<br />
first year was fine, they say, but the group<br />
dynamic keeps getting better with time.<br />
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SOUTHWOOD<br />
respond<br />
What is LIBERATE all about? Is it just a<br />
conference or something more?<br />
Back in 2010 I was travelling around the country speaking about<br />
God’s grace and the radical truth that Jesus + Nothing = Everything.<br />
Regardless of where I was people would come up to me and ask two<br />
questions (often through tears): 1.) Is what you just said true? 2.) If it is,<br />
why have I been in church my whole life and never heard this before?<br />
They were trapped in a checklist version of the Christian faith where<br />
they heard 100 sermons about the Christian life but ended up hearing<br />
way more about the Christian than the Christ. I knew the church<br />
needed to get back to the robust and liberating doctrine of justification<br />
by faith alone and what that actually means for life and relationships.<br />
We came up with “Liberate” which started as one conference<br />
but has now grown to much more—connections<br />
between pastors, partnerships with churches<br />
and people all connected by the liberating<br />
truth of God’s free grace.<br />
Isn't all this emphasis<br />
on grace going to<br />
make Christians lazy<br />
and ignore holiness?<br />
[Laughs] We hear that all the time,<br />
don’t we? The question assumes the<br />
law has the power to sanctify you,<br />
but the Bible says just the opposite.<br />
Paul makes it clear in Romans 7 that<br />
the law shows you what a sanctified<br />
life looks like but has no power to<br />
actually sanctify you. Think about<br />
it—what does it do to your heart<br />
when your spouse is criticizing you<br />
for failing to do something? Does<br />
that criticism make you want to do it? Absolutely not!<br />
The only thing that produces true love and heart-driven<br />
obedience is love. Sanctification is love for God and<br />
love for others. 1 John tells us why we love— “we love<br />
Him because He first loved us.” It is right and it is our<br />
duty to love the Lord our God with all our heart, mind,<br />
soul and strength, but the command doesn’t actually<br />
produce the love that is commanded. The only thing that<br />
produces love for God and love for others is love from God.<br />
WHO IS TULLIAN TCHIVIDJIAN<br />
AND WHY ASK HIM?<br />
William Graham Tullian Tchividjian (pronounced chavi-jin)<br />
is the Senior Pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian<br />
Church in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. He is a blogger,<br />
seminary lecturer and grace addict. Tullian is an avid<br />
Dallas Cowboys fan which means he and our Senior<br />
Pastor agree about almost everything.<br />
12 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />
Pastor Tullian Tchividjian<br />
answers questions on<br />
LIBERATE and grace<br />
Is LIBERATE just for professional<br />
Christians or can "normal" people go too?<br />
How do we connect?<br />
Liberate is connecting God’s inexhaustible grace to an<br />
exhausted world. I’ve never met anyone who is not exhausted.<br />
I’m not talking about exhausted because we’re too busy raising<br />
children and trying to pay the bills. I’m talking about emotional<br />
exhaustion, relational exhaustion and living on a treadmill of<br />
performance to ensure that our lives are meaningful. All of those<br />
things are just our own frantic attempts at self-justification.<br />
Liberate is for weary and heavy-laden people like that. Therefore<br />
this message is not just for professional Christians or pastors.<br />
It is not just for old people, young people, married people or<br />
single people—it literally is for all of us, every human<br />
being who needs the rest that only Jesus offers.<br />
If you had to condense the<br />
Gospel into an "elevator<br />
pitch" how would you<br />
describe it?<br />
The gospel is the good news that<br />
Jesus has come to do for you and me<br />
what we could never do for ourselves.<br />
And He has come to give for free to<br />
you and me what we could never get<br />
for ourselves. No one wants to live<br />
a meaningless life. No one wants to<br />
not matter. Most of our pursuits are<br />
fueled by this thirst—this longing<br />
to validate our existence. To justify<br />
ourselves. To rescue ourselves. To set<br />
ourselves free. And the gospel is the<br />
good news that Jesus has come to set<br />
the captives free. The gospel is an announcement, a<br />
declaration that One has lived for us and died for us.<br />
At Southwood we often talk about the<br />
Gospel redefining our identity. You are<br />
Billy Graham's grandson. How does the<br />
Gospel free you to rightly rejoice in who<br />
you were born to be and concurrently<br />
reject some persona that people would<br />
falsely expect you to be?<br />
Trying to do it all will cause an inevitable crash and burn. That<br />
happened to me just after coming to Coral Ridge. When you<br />
are flat on your back, you finally get honest with God and<br />
yourself. One of the greatest gifts that come when you reach<br />
the end of yourself is the fresh realization that your identity—<br />
who you are—is ultimately anchored in Christ’s performance<br />
not your own—His obedience, not mine. I am defined by His<br />
work for me, not my work for Him. So who we really are in<br />
Christ has absolutely nothing to do with us. It has nothing to<br />
do with our behavior good or bad, or our family background.<br />
What relieves me of the pressure to perform is the realization<br />
that I wake up every morning with something infinitely better<br />
than a clean slate. I wake up perfectly loved and perfectly<br />
accepted despite my unclean slate.
elate<br />
SOUTHWOOD<br />
David Zahl @mockingbirdnyc<br />
The cost of unbridled individualism & selfactualization<br />
is loneliness.<br />
tweets<br />
from<br />
Steve Brown @DrSteveWBrown<br />
We announce to the world that we're screwed up...<br />
and that Jesus likes us a lot. That dog will hunt.<br />
Scotty Smith @ScottyWardSmith<br />
God does not need me; he wants me. This sets me<br />
free.<br />
#<strong>2014</strong>Liberate<br />
Sally Lloyd Jones @sallylloydjones<br />
If we knew everything God was doing during the<br />
unseen times, we would cheer Him on.<br />
Tullian Tchividjian @PastorTullian<br />
Theologically we don't believe in justification by<br />
works, but functionally we are addicted to it.<br />
J.D. Greear @jdgreear<br />
The law can demand our conformity but is powerless<br />
to transform our hearts.<br />
Scotty Smith @ScottyWardSmith<br />
Heaven’s king gave himself for a whore to make her<br />
his queen.<br />
Matt Chandler @MattChandler74<br />
The scales of good deeds vs. bad deeds DON’T<br />
EXIST. We can’t earn what is freely given.<br />
Elyse Fitz @ElyseFitz<br />
Here is Good News…YOU ARE FORGIVEN! YOU<br />
ARE RIGHTEOUS! HE SEES YOU! HE LOVES<br />
YOU! GO IN PEACE! SMILE!<br />
Tullian Tchividjian @PastorTullian<br />
Church should be the one place where weary &<br />
heavy-laden people find rest, but instead get a to-do<br />
list.<br />
From Southwood, Jean Larroux, Todd Gandy, Steve Jakab<br />
and Brock Warner attended this year’s conference. Liberate<br />
is held annually the weekend after President’s Day. Info and<br />
previous messages at Liberate.org.<br />
Steve Brown @DrSteveWBrown<br />
In Christ, the principal's paddle stays on the wall.<br />
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CURL<br />
UP<br />
WITH<br />
THE GREAT<br />
DIVORCE<br />
James Parker<br />
This book by<br />
C.S. Lewis was<br />
first published in<br />
1944. It is a<br />
fantasy narrative<br />
that details a<br />
journey from<br />
Hell into the<br />
edges of Heaven.<br />
One assumes<br />
that Lewis is the<br />
narrator. The whole narrative is a dream, as the reader discovers at<br />
the end of the book. It starts in a place the narrator calls “the grey<br />
town.” It is vast and expansive but grim and quarrelsome. Everyone<br />
is isolated. Those who have been there for a very long time are<br />
isolated by “millions of miles.” The example given is Napoleon.<br />
Napoleon lives alone in a house way up on the hill. All he does day<br />
and night is rehash his losses when he was alive, replacing blame on<br />
everyone but himself.<br />
The narrator stumbles into a queue that seems to be waiting for a<br />
bus to arrive. The bus is said to be taking its riders on an excursion<br />
to “some other place,” which turns out to be the foothills of heaven.<br />
All of the passengers, including the narrator, are eventually revealed<br />
to be ghosts. And heaven is described as being immensely more<br />
solid than themselves. Even the blades of grass were so heavy they<br />
were beyond being lifted and they were painful to walk on.<br />
When the ghosts arrive at the foothills they are met by individuals<br />
from their past. These visitors are “solid people,” they are from this<br />
far country and are just as substantial. The reader is taken through<br />
numerous encounters between these ghosts and the solid people.<br />
The inhabitants of heaven have traveled a very long distance to<br />
meet their loved ones at the foothills in order to persuade them to<br />
leave behind their home in hell and enter into a state of joyful selfforgetfulness.<br />
Once they can do that they can be made more solid<br />
with every step.<br />
The narrator is met by the writer George MacDonald. Lewis was<br />
highly influenced by his writings so it is fitting that MacDonald<br />
becomes his guide through the bulk of the story. These interactions<br />
are largely tragic because the ghosts do not realize that they are,<br />
in fact, ghosts. Nor do they realize that the “grey town” is actually<br />
hell. The only way they can become part of the solid country is to<br />
turn from themselves (repent) and embrace unceasing joy.<br />
George MacDonald’s spirit explains the main idea of this book.<br />
He says, “[this] is what mortals misunderstand. They say of some<br />
temporal suffering, ‘No future bliss can make up for it,’ not knowing<br />
that Heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that<br />
agony into a glory. And of some sinful pleasure they say, ‘Let me<br />
have but this and I’ll take the consequences’: little dreaming how<br />
damnation will spread back and back into their past and contaminate<br />
the pleasure of the sin. Both processes begin even before death.”<br />
The point Lewis is making is that Heaven and Hell are such divergent<br />
paths that there can be no sharing between them. There is no small<br />
piece of heaven in hell nor is there any bit of hell in heaven. This is the<br />
Great Divorce. (The title comes from a refutation of a work by William<br />
Blake, The Marriage of Heaven and Hell).<br />
So what? What can this say to us? Namely, the resurrection of Jesus<br />
is the only thing that matters. Because Jesus was sacrificed and was<br />
raised from the dead, he is the only one who can bridge the chasm<br />
between heaven and hell; the only one who could drive the bus;<br />
the only one who can bring us from the “grey town” into the “solid<br />
country.” The striking thing about Lewis‘ descriptions of people<br />
who inhabit hell versus the solid people is his notion of humanity.<br />
Jesus did not come to abolish our humanity but bring us from a<br />
broken and incomplete state of humanity into a complete, or solid,<br />
state of full humanity. He came to make us like himself. And the<br />
blood of his sacrifice doesn’t simply start a new story at the point<br />
of repentance, it actually sanctifies everything, ahead and behind.<br />
It travels backwards in time to “work death in reverse” as Lewis<br />
describes of Aslan in The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe.<br />
This Easter, be reminded that self-forgetfulness is the way to<br />
be made whole. When one of the ghosts says “I only want my<br />
rights. I’m not asking for anybody’s bleeding charity" the solid<br />
spirit responds lovingly, "Then do. At once. Ask for the Bleeding<br />
Charity!”<br />
Southwood was the host for the National<br />
Children's and Education Publications<br />
conference on March 8. Pictured here are<br />
some of the Southwood Kids staff and<br />
volunteers that helped with the conference.
ALL THAT IS FAIR<br />
BONO AND THE<br />
RESURRECTION<br />
James Parker<br />
People from all walks of life and all creeds<br />
find something to connect with in the<br />
music of U2. And it’s not due to some<br />
sort of stellar marketing campaign or<br />
anything like that. Their broad success<br />
is because of something else entirely.<br />
Of course the music is innovative. They<br />
have put together sounds and techniques<br />
that have been “trend-setting” concepts<br />
in the music industry. But beyond<br />
that, the content of their body of work<br />
has something in it that touches on a<br />
profoundly human and hopeful refrain.<br />
Namely, the resurrection of Jesus.<br />
Bono’s lyrics have always been<br />
characterized by a Christian worldview,<br />
but they do not fit into the highly<br />
controlled CCM (Contemporary Christian<br />
Music) environment. U2 is every bit as<br />
much a “Christian” band as MercyMe or<br />
Casting Crowns, but you won’t find their<br />
work at Lifeway Christian Bookstore.<br />
Bono is a bit too edgy for the CCM. But<br />
make no mistake, they adhere to the<br />
Apostle’s Creed, and it comes through<br />
(often in metaphorical language) in all of<br />
their songs. What’s even more incredible<br />
is how overwhelmingly willing the<br />
general public is to embrace this band,<br />
regardless of their spiritual beliefs. It’s<br />
simply good music that points to ideas<br />
that are universally human. Bono has<br />
been very public about his motivation<br />
and the faith that he has been given.<br />
Here is a short excerpt from an interview<br />
he gave with Michka Assayas, who is an<br />
atheist.<br />
Bono: You see, at the center of all<br />
religions is the idea of Karma. You know,<br />
what you put out comes back to you: an<br />
eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, or in<br />
physics; in physical laws every action is<br />
met by an equal or an opposite one. It's<br />
clear to me that Karma is at the very heart<br />
of the universe. I'm absolutely sure of it.<br />
And yet, along comes this idea called<br />
Grace to upend all that "as you reap, so<br />
you will sow" stuff. Grace defies reason<br />
and logic. Love interrupts, if you like,<br />
the consequences of your actions, which<br />
in my case is very good news indeed,<br />
because I've done a lot of stupid stuff.<br />
Assayas: The Son of God who takes<br />
away the sins of the world. I wish I could<br />
believe in that.<br />
Bono: But I love the idea of the Sacrificial<br />
Lamb. I love the idea that God says:<br />
Look, you cretins, there are certain results<br />
to the way we are, to selfishness, and<br />
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there's a mortality as part of your very<br />
sinful nature, and, let's face it, you're not<br />
living a very good life, are you? There are<br />
consequences to actions. The point of<br />
the death of Christ is that Christ took on<br />
the sins of the world, so that what we put<br />
out did not come back to us, and that our<br />
sinful nature does not reap the obvious<br />
death. That's the point. It should keep<br />
us humbled. It's not our own good works<br />
that get us through the gates of heaven.<br />
Bono always has an interesting way<br />
of saying things but throughout the<br />
entire interview, no matter what<br />
Assayas throws his way, all of his words<br />
boil down to describing an orthodox<br />
Christian worldview. The hopefulness<br />
of U2’s songs and the energy of Bono’s<br />
philanthropic pursuits all hinge on<br />
the resurrection. The Sacrificial Lamb<br />
wouldn’t have mattered if it weren’t for<br />
the resurrection. Jesus being raised<br />
from the dead is what gives Bono’s idea<br />
of “Grace over Karma” any power at all.<br />
It’s the effectual catalyst that ushers in<br />
the Kingdom of God.<br />
In the book Exploring U2, Scott Calhoun<br />
says this about Bono, “Bono promotes<br />
a particular Christian vision of the<br />
future in the notion of 'kingdom come,'<br />
revealing to Assayas that he takes Jesus<br />
at his word when he tells his disciples to<br />
pray for God’s will to be done 'on earth<br />
as it is in Heaven.' This is not an overrealized<br />
eschatology on Bono’s part but<br />
a view that the resurrection of Christ<br />
inaugurates the Kingdom.... [In it] we find<br />
partial fulfillment of Jesus’ command<br />
to welcome the stranger, heal the sick,<br />
restore the blind to sight, and return the<br />
Creation to its proper, joyful balance.”<br />
MAGNIFICENT James Parker<br />
U2’s 2009 album No Line On the Horizon includes the song “Magnificent.” It is<br />
an electrifying song, a true rock anthem that get’s stuck in your head and fills you<br />
with energy. And here’s something more. This song takes its content from the<br />
Magnificat; the prayer of Mary recorded in the gospel of Luke. She prays a prayer<br />
of thanksgiving when she is told by the angel that she will conceive and bear a son<br />
that will be the promised Messiah. Bono also tried to take this text and interpret<br />
it through the lens of a Cole Porter love song! Very brilliant and "out of the box."<br />
This song is a must listen!<br />
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