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<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

IS THIS THE<br />

BEST THERE IS?<br />

The struggle to<br />

find hope in the<br />

Resurrection<br />

photos from the<br />

church family work day<br />

ask a pastor:<br />

bunnies, baskets and<br />

family traditions<br />

APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | southwood.org


SOUTHWOOD<br />

contents<br />

ABOUT THIS ISSUE<br />

“He descended into hell.<br />

The third day He arose again from the dead;<br />

He ascended into heaven”<br />

-the Apostle’s Creed<br />

Jesus lived the tension. He crossed the great divide. He saw it from both<br />

sides and lives to bridge the gap for us. We can’t fully appreciate the gift we<br />

have received without recognizing the extent of this chasm.<br />

In this issue of <strong>BRANCHES</strong> we explore the now-but-not-yet Kingdom and<br />

proclaim the victory that is achieved in Christ’s resurrection. C.S. Lewis’ The<br />

Great Divide paints this picture, as do stories of the tension lived out by<br />

Peruvian street boys and in our own hearts. We come together as a body<br />

of believers to be refreshed and energized and then return to the world to<br />

express grace to others.<br />

If, like me, you find yourself burdened in life, you probably need another<br />

dose of hope. Just look to the empty tomb and know that He arose!<br />

<strong>BRANCHES</strong><br />

EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Jonathan Barnette<br />

DESIGNER Jacki Gil<br />

Jonathan Barnette, Editor<br />

JEAN F. LARROUX, III Senior Pastor<br />

MELISSA PATTERSON Executive Assistant<br />

2 about this issue<br />

3 pastor’s note<br />

REFLECT<br />

7 is this the best there is?<br />

The struggle to find hope in<br />

the Resurrection<br />

14 curl up with<br />

James Parker gives his thoughts<br />

on C.S. Lewis' The Great Divorce<br />

RESPOND<br />

10 ask a pastor<br />

Bunnies, baskets and<br />

family traditions<br />

12 5 questions<br />

Pastor Tullian Tchividjian answers<br />

questions on LIBERATE and grace.<br />

RELATE<br />

4 sermons through the eyes of a child<br />

5 session update<br />

8 church family work day<br />

A picture recap from Southwood's<br />

Family Work Day<br />

11 growing small<br />

What makes a small group feel like<br />

a small group?<br />

12 tweets from liberate<br />

A twitter recap from a week<br />

at the LIBERATE conference<br />

15 all that is fair<br />

Bono and the Resurrection<br />

COVER PHOTO<br />

Taken by Jonathan Barnette in a<br />

home for "street boys" in Peru.<br />

CONTRIBUTORS<br />

Will Spink<br />

Sarah Niemitz<br />

Chad Townsley<br />

James Parker<br />

Tullian Tchividjian<br />

PHOTOS<br />

Jonathan Barnette<br />

Jacki Gil<br />

Sarah Niemitz<br />

1000 CARL T. JONES DRIVE | HUNTSVILLE, ALABAMA 35802<br />

(256) 882-3085 | WWW.SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />

ADULT MINISTRIES<br />

SARAH NIEMITZ Director of Community Development/Assimilation<br />

JAMES PARKER Chief Musician<br />

WILL SPINK Associate Pastor/Shepherding<br />

STUDENT MINISTRIES<br />

KIM DELCHAMPS Administrative Assistant<br />

NIÑA BANTA Director of Children<br />

NANCY McCREIGHT Assistant Director /Children/Nursery<br />

CHAD TOWNSLEY Associate Pastor/High-Life<br />

WINNIE WINFORD Assistant Director/High-Life<br />

MINISTRY SUPPORT<br />

TERRI GOOD Accountant/Bookkeeper<br />

JONATHAN BARNETTE Director of Communication<br />

JACKI GIL Graphic Designer<br />

JANICE CROWSON Director of Facilities/Finance<br />

LYNDA CLAYDON Facilities<br />

MIKE MARREN Facilities<br />

ELIZABETH BUTZ Receptionist<br />

UPCOMING<br />

EVENTS<br />

Peru Fundraiser<br />

<strong>April</strong> 5th<br />

Maundy Thursday<br />

<strong>April</strong> 17<br />

Good Friday<br />

<strong>April</strong> 18<br />

No Christian Education<br />

<strong>April</strong> 20<br />

Easter Sunday<br />

<strong>April</strong> 20<br />

2 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG


PASTOR’S NOTE<br />

Running (on empty) toward the resurrection!<br />

Has your faith ever seemed to be on autopilot?<br />

Have you ever felt like you were spiritually<br />

running on empty? Does your passion for God<br />

seem to wax and wane? Mine does. The truth<br />

is that I am feeling kind of spiritually “dry” right<br />

now as I type. I know that I’m a preacher and I’m<br />

not supposed to say things like that, but it is the<br />

truth. As a pastor I am only “supposed to” talk<br />

about struggles, doubts and the blahs when they<br />

are a safe distance behind me, in the spiritual<br />

rear-view mirror, right? But what about right now?<br />

Is there anything that makes it “okay” that I don’t<br />

feel so “okay” right now—even as an ordained<br />

minister or a Deacon or an Elder or a Christian<br />

who has known Christ most of his life?<br />

I remember reading Paul’s letters and hearing the<br />

angst in his voice as he was perplexed from every<br />

side. I can remember reading how Jeremiah, the<br />

weeping prophet, struggled with his calling.<br />

Other prophets like Jonah began their ministry<br />

and continued with a “thanks but no thanks”<br />

response to God. The story of the Christian<br />

life is a story about struggling. This is true for<br />

preachers and for parishioners alike. Where are<br />

we to go when we are overwhelmed, perplexed<br />

and “dry” spiritually? Does anything really make<br />

it “okay” that we are not “okay”?<br />

If there is something then we’d need to access<br />

that “something” regularly, right?<br />

A friend’s father lived for many years with<br />

Alzheimer’s. The father was a professing believer<br />

all of his life and even served as a chaplain during<br />

World War II. As the disease took its toll my<br />

friend said that his dad couldn’t even remember<br />

his own name. His observation was simply this,<br />

“In moments like this my only comfort is that<br />

God is the one who holds on to us, not the other<br />

way around!” What a profound statement! God<br />

does hold on to us even if we forget who He is<br />

because we cannot even remember our own<br />

names! The Christian life is about a faithful God,<br />

not faithful followers, right? Maybe what we<br />

need to remember is the same truth that families<br />

caring for Alzheimer’s victims remember every<br />

day—God holds on to us even when we’re just<br />

barely holding on.<br />

Christ must be remembered daily, not simply<br />

memorialized as an annual event at Easter. On<br />

that first Easter Sunday morning the disciples<br />

were in a “dry spell.” They were depleted and<br />

depressed. Jesus was gone forever or so they<br />

thought. Two of the women dutifully went to finish<br />

the half-burial of Jesus while everyone else stayed<br />

together and grieved. When the women returned<br />

with the report that Jesus had defeated death,<br />

Peter and John raced to the tomb of Jesus. They<br />

ran toward the resurrection. Hope propelled them<br />

to go to the one place that would actually make<br />

everything okay—the empty tomb.<br />

When our hearts and lives feel empty we must<br />

seek to re-discover the empty tomb and its<br />

implications for our lives. Because death has died<br />

we can truly live! Everything Jesus promised was<br />

true. Every knee, disease, malady and spiritual<br />

malaise will bow the knee to King Jesus. My hope<br />

is that there is something more true in the universe<br />

than how I feel in the present moment. Instead<br />

of looking for new ways to religiously re-animate<br />

my heart I need to re-discover the old way that<br />

re-animated creation—the resurrection. If rocks<br />

and stones can sing then so can I! There are not<br />

“3 easy ways to jump start the spiritual engine”<br />

or one awesome Bible verse that will help us<br />

“snap out of it.” There is simply one truth that is<br />

bigger than the blahs—death has died and with<br />

it all of the residue of death has been conquered<br />

too. That does not mean that depressive moods,<br />

sadness, melancholy and dry spells cease to exist.<br />

They are very real but they are not all that is real.<br />

Truth becomes a powerful anti-venom in the<br />

hearts of weak people like you and me.<br />

The resurrection is for people that have reached<br />

the end of themselves. It is for people who have<br />

no other options than to collapse into grace. It is<br />

for Apostles, Presbyterians and preachers who<br />

are running on empty, but need to be running<br />

toward the empty tomb. We have a place that is<br />

more empty than the emptiness we often feel—<br />

the tomb of Jesus. Death could not hold Jesus<br />

and it cannot hold those who are held by Him.<br />

Happy Easter, especially if you’ve found it hard to<br />

be happy lately!<br />

For more from Jean, check out<br />

his sermons at southwood.org<br />

jean.larroux@southwood.org<br />

@jflarrouxiii<br />

The irreversible grip that God has on our lives<br />

was set in stone at the resurrection. Easter is<br />

the day that death died. The resurrection of<br />

Jean F. Larroux, III<br />

Senior Pastor<br />

APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG 3


Sermons Through<br />

the Eyes of a Kid<br />

Check out these four drawings from kids at<br />

Southwood. Children can draw pictures of<br />

the sermon that often show the heart of the<br />

sermon's message. Engage your child during<br />

worship on Sundays by grabbing a Kids<br />

Listening Guide from an usher.<br />

Kate Owens<br />

Brynn Holbrook<br />

Amiia Jackson<br />

From sermons on the parables of the lost sheep & the lost sons.<br />

Anna Calhoon<br />

4 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG


elate<br />

SOUTHWOOD<br />

SESSION UPDATE Will Spink<br />

The Session rejoices in the way God has been using Southwood<br />

and her members in recent weeks for the sake of the kingdom.<br />

Our deacons led us in a work day where we had the opportunity<br />

to serve alongside partner ministries throughout the city as well<br />

as on our own campus. Our Community Development Committee<br />

along with other members helped to host a major conference<br />

on development in Huntsville. And our Children’s Ministry Staff<br />

and volunteers hosted on the Southwood campus a regional<br />

conference on ministering to children in our denomination. If<br />

you haven’t found a place to use your gifts and passions to serve,<br />

there are many opportunities to labor together for the sake of the<br />

kingdom, so jump in and don’t miss out!<br />

As we look ahead, please make plans to join us for services<br />

throughout Easter Week. As we continue focusing on repentance<br />

during the Lenten season, our longing for Easter and the joy<br />

of Christ’s resurrection increases. Don’t miss the chance to<br />

contemplate his death and celebrate his resurrection during<br />

Maundy Thursday (Lord’s Supper celebrated), Good Friday, and<br />

Easter Sunday services. These are special times of worship and<br />

fellowship together, so join us for this significant season in the life<br />

of the church.<br />

Finally, we are excited about “Faith Matters,” a brief series about<br />

how the gospel and our faith impact all of life. These classes will<br />

be held on three Sundays in May (4th, 11th, and 18th) during the<br />

Christian education hour at 9:00am. These two classes will help<br />

us apply the good news we hear every Sunday to life beyond the<br />

doors of the church, so take advantage of this unique chance for<br />

learning and discussion.<br />

babysitting for<br />

peru<br />

<strong>April</strong> 5th<br />

The Peru mission team is hosting a<br />

movie night at the Lodge, complete<br />

with pizza, popcorn, and the movie<br />

Frozen! Enjoy a parent's night out while<br />

supporting the Peru Mission Trip.<br />

Children age Three-6th grade 5:30-8:00<br />

7th-8th grade 8:30-10:00<br />

Tickets available in the Guest Center.<br />

Donations accepted at the door.<br />

APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG 5


The struggle to find hope<br />

in the Resurrection in two<br />

different parts of the World<br />

by Sarah Niemitz<br />

Cesar sleeps every night next to the grave of his grandmother. “She is the only person who loved me,” he says, “I<br />

want to sleep near her.”<br />

A teenage street-boy in Peru, Cesar is mentally handicapped due to constant beatings which began when he was an<br />

infant. He has lived on the streets of Puerto Belin since he was a little boy rejected by his family. Puerto Belin is the<br />

slum of slums in Iquitos, Peru. Raw sewage mingles with the river water - the water that serves as transportation for<br />

boats, bathing water, washing water, and even drinking water for residents. Many of the houses in Puerto Belin are<br />

built on floating logs so that they simply rise and fall with the tide. But for Cesar even a house floating on sewage is<br />

out of reach.<br />

6 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | | SOUTHWOOD.ORG


Every year on Good Friday the country of Peru, including the slums of<br />

Puerto Belin, burst into a frenzied celebration called Carnival. Amid<br />

the raucous partying the priests remove Christ from the cross, lay him<br />

in a coffin, and parade the coffin through the streets. Easter Sunday,<br />

they put him back on the cross.<br />

For Cesar and the other street boys of Peru, Jesus is “the dead man<br />

on a cross.” He is blind to their suffering and powerless to save them.<br />

There is no resurrection—no empty tomb on Sunday morning or<br />

promise of the Holy Spirit. Jesus is simply another example of a good<br />

man suffering injustice at the hands of evil men.<br />

I have met Cesar and walked his streets in Puerto Belin. I have served<br />

alongside the Scripture Union staff as they reach out to Cesar and<br />

other abandoned boys through their Girasoles homes throughout<br />

Peru. Paul Clark, the director of Scripture Union, explained the street<br />

boys' understanding of Jesus as “the dead man on the cross,” and<br />

their understanding of religion as something for good people, which<br />

they obviously are not.<br />

How could Paul, or I, or my teammates communicate to these street<br />

boys that Jesus was not powerless on a cross, but rather alive and<br />

powerful? How could<br />

we show the love of this<br />

resurrected Christ to boys<br />

who knew only abuse and<br />

hatred in their short lives?<br />

Many authors have said<br />

one of the greatest proofs<br />

of the resurrection of Christ<br />

is the subsequent boldness<br />

of the formerly cowardly<br />

apostles. Paul Clark would<br />

argue that the love and kindness showed by self-centered American<br />

high school students is another powerful resurrection apologetic.<br />

When self-centered people like me sacrifice for someone else I give<br />

evidence to the truth of the resurrection! Christ in me is more real<br />

than my self-centered self. Jesus is not stuck on the cross as Cesar<br />

believes. He is living and active—dwelling in and transforming people<br />

like you and me.<br />

But the resurrection of Christ does more than rescue individuals<br />

from our sin. It signals the beginning of the new kingdom and the<br />

final resurrection in which there will be no more tears and death will<br />

be swallowed up. Each summer I spent in Peru, my mission team<br />

would sing songs with the boys during an evening worship service.<br />

The boys’ favorite song was always “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks.” In<br />

English it goes like this:<br />

On Jordan’s Stormy banks I stand and cast a wishful eye / to Canaan’s<br />

fair and happy land where my possessions lie / I am bound, I am<br />

bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound, I am bound,<br />

I am bound for the promised land.<br />

bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound, I am bound,<br />

SOUTHWOOD<br />

I am bound for the promised land.<br />

“Do you mean it when you sing this song?” Paul asked our team.<br />

“Every boy who sang this song with you tonight longs for heaven<br />

in this way. Their life is full of sickness, sorrow, pain and death, but<br />

the boys who trust Christ’s grace in their lives have the hope that<br />

there is a better place.They hope for a father’s face that is filled<br />

with love and not with hatred, for rest and no more running from<br />

police; they hope for things which they can hardly imagine. I have<br />

spent my life telling these boys that if they trust Christ as their savior<br />

"[their] present sufferings cannot even be compared to the glory<br />

that will be revealed to [them]" (Romans 8:18 NET). You say you are<br />

Christians, but where is your hope?”<br />

We were quiet, because if we were honest we knew our hope did<br />

not lie in the promised land. It lay in college, marriage, future jobs,<br />

and even future “mission trips” we were all mentally planning.<br />

Our lives were so comfortable, and the comforts so seemingly<br />

permanent, that hope in something unseen felt unnecessary and a<br />

little mystic. I wish I could say this was only true of my high school<br />

self, but unfortunately it is often true of me today. I am fixated on the<br />

“real,” tangible matters<br />

"The resurrection of Christ does more<br />

than rescue individuals from our sin—<br />

it signals the beginning of the new<br />

kingdom and the final resurrection in<br />

which there will be no more tears and<br />

death will be swallowed up."<br />

of the day—placing my<br />

hope in things I can see<br />

and touch because the<br />

unknown feels unreal.<br />

In his book The Great<br />

Divorce, C.S. Lewis turns<br />

this thinking on its head.<br />

He describes our life<br />

on earth as shadows,<br />

while in contrast heaven is described as a place of deafening reality.<br />

The grass is so real that its blades hurt the feet of visiting mortals.<br />

Waterfalls are so loud that they can hardly be approached, and those<br />

least esteemed on earth are beautiful, glorified persons. His imagery<br />

reminds us that while earthly pleasure and suffering feel real, they are<br />

like shadows when compared with the ultimate glory of heaven.<br />

Cesar struggles to believe in the resurrection hope because he has<br />

only seen Jesus on the cross and known the suffering of abuse and<br />

rejection. I struggle to believe in the resurrection because I am so<br />

contented in the “shadow-land” that I feel little need for a future<br />

hope.Both Cesar and I need the hope of the resurrection to break<br />

into our lives!<br />

This resurrection hope offers both of us a new identity. We are<br />

beloved children of God no longer unwanted and rejected, or<br />

all-sufficient and entitled. The eternal perspective brings Cesar<br />

hope in suffering and loosens my grip on the things of this world—<br />

reminding me there is nothing I can sacrifice on earth that is greater<br />

than the glory that is mine in Christ.<br />

No chilling wind or poisonous breathe can reach that healthful shore<br />

/ Sickness, sorrow, pain and death are felt and feared no more. / I am<br />

bound, I am bound, I am bound for the promised land. / I am bound,<br />

I am bound, I am bound for the promised land.<br />

When shall I reach that happy place and be forever blessed? / When<br />

shall I see my father’s face and in his bosom rest? / I am bound, I am<br />

For those who long to find their hope in the final resurrection, here is<br />

my advice: go serve among the materially poor and broken hearted<br />

of this world. Here our sin and the limits of our resources are quickly<br />

revealed. Our material possessions are exposed for the shadows<br />

that they are, and God begins to break through our short-sighted<br />

vision which imagines this world is the best there is. I promise you<br />

will never sing “On Jordan’s Stormy Banks” the same way again.


8 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG


SOUTHWOOD<br />

snapshots from<br />

Serving at Deep Roots of Alabama,<br />

Lincoln Village Ministry, The Village<br />

Church, The Cornerstone Initiative,<br />

Young Life and Southwood


SOUTHWOOD respond<br />

ASK A<br />

PASTOR<br />

Chad Townsley<br />

A pastor's perspective<br />

about bunnies, baskets and<br />

family traditions<br />

Should the Easter Bunny “visit” the homes of believers?<br />

An important thing to distinguish as we answer<br />

this and other questions like it is what kind of<br />

presuppositions we have about the dangers or<br />

pitfalls of celebrating Easter. Easter activities should certainly<br />

be first and foremost a celebration of the resurrection of<br />

Christ. Family lifestyle choices, at Easter and all other times<br />

of the year, should reflect that. Parents have the responsibility<br />

to teach the heart and Christian meaning of Easter to their<br />

children above and before hiding eggs, filling baskets, etc.<br />

That said, I see no inherent danger in most of the secular<br />

American traditions of Easter. Though the idea of a large<br />

rabbit entering the home of Americans may actually be a bit<br />

frightening to many children, the treats and toys that the bunny<br />

brings are fun and enjoyable for all. Our biblical worldview<br />

instructs us to go into the culture and to take what is good<br />

and enjoy it. Scripturally, Paul explains this principles in 1<br />

Corinthians 10:23-33 when he tells how the gospel has freed<br />

us to enjoy “all things.” Specifically in the case of Easter, there<br />

is a lot that we can celebrate as we fill a home with brightly<br />

colored eggs, baskets and other decor, all of which reminds us<br />

of the joy and life of Easter.<br />

Just as with other secular celebrations, a level of discernment<br />

is always required. As Paul explains the many things that<br />

are “lawful” he also warns that not all things are helpful.<br />

As parents (and as individuals in the kingdom) we must use<br />

careful judgment as we discern the level to which we “sell” the<br />

story of the Easter bunny and get caught up in its traditions. Is<br />

the Easter bunny a distraction to us helping our children see<br />

Jesus? If so, perhaps you need to consider de-emphasizing<br />

some of your practices. These sorts of questions must be<br />

sorted out by parents and handled on a case-by-case basis<br />

with children.<br />

May 4, 11, 18 • 9-10am<br />

Faith and god's will<br />

How do I know God's will for my life?<br />

What if I've missed it? Is there only one<br />

soulmate out there for me? Am I in the<br />

wrong career? How can I stop being<br />

paralyzed by indecision?<br />

10 APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG<br />

Faith and daily life<br />

What does Sunday have to do with<br />

Monday through Friday? Does God care<br />

whether I work or stay home with kids?<br />

Is my job valuable for anything besides<br />

putting food on the table? Can church<br />

and state really be separate?


What makes<br />

this small<br />

group feel<br />

like a<br />

small group?<br />

parties<br />

In addition to dinners and<br />

girls nights, the group has<br />

an annual “As Seen On TV”<br />

Christmas party. They love<br />

exchanging (and stealing!)<br />

products they never knew<br />

they needed!<br />

depth<br />

They often use the<br />

questions provided on the<br />

sermon from Sunday to go<br />

deeper into their hearts and<br />

lives. Right now they are<br />

reading and discussing Steve<br />

Brown’s Three Free Sins.<br />

respond relate SOUTHWOOD<br />

Brian Day<br />

Cathy Day<br />

Luke Edwards<br />

Kristen Edwards<br />

John Foreman<br />

Sara Foreman<br />

Ricky Howard<br />

Kim Howard<br />

Vinit Mahesh<br />

Marcelle Mahesh<br />

Michael Nardella<br />

Jennifer Nardella<br />

Tom Owens<br />

Lolita Owens<br />

Meets Tuesday<br />

nights at<br />

6:15pm at the<br />

Owens' home.<br />

For more<br />

information<br />

on how to join a<br />

small group visit<br />

southwood.org/<br />

growingsmall<br />

laughter<br />

This group laughs… a lot.<br />

Newest group members<br />

Brian and Cathy say it’s one<br />

of the things that has made<br />

them feel comfortable and<br />

at home with new people.<br />

diversity<br />

The group spans an age range of<br />

29 to 60. Kristen says that has been<br />

an unexpected positive: “At first<br />

we were disappointed because we<br />

were looking for a group of people<br />

our age, but it has been such a<br />

huge blessing over the years. God<br />

knew we needed this more than<br />

what we thought we needed.”<br />

family<br />

Luke says, “It feels like being<br />

with family … in a good<br />

way! There’s no reason to be<br />

anything but yourself.”<br />

popcorn<br />

After eating dessert, they always<br />

share conversation around a large<br />

bowl of popcorn provided by<br />

popcorn-loving leader Ricky Howard.<br />

celebrations<br />

During their time together,<br />

they have celebrated babies,<br />

grandbabies, weddings,<br />

graduations, and new homes.<br />

hardships<br />

They have grieved with each other through<br />

miscarriage, infertility, parents’ deaths,<br />

kids’ struggles, divorces in families, and<br />

many other painful circumstances.<br />

longevity<br />

The group has been together for 5 years, and<br />

every year they get closer as a group. The<br />

first year was fine, they say, but the group<br />

dynamic keeps getting better with time.<br />

MARCH APRIL <strong>2014</strong> | SOUTHWOOD.ORG 11


SOUTHWOOD<br />

respond<br />

What is LIBERATE all about? Is it just a<br />

conference or something more?<br />

Back in 2010 I was travelling around the country speaking about<br />

God’s grace and the radical truth that Jesus + Nothing = Everything.<br />

Regardless of where I was people would come up to me and ask two<br />

questions (often through tears): 1.) Is what you just said true? 2.) If it is,<br />

why have I been in church my whole life and never heard this before?<br />

They were trapped in a checklist version of the Christian faith where<br />

they heard 100 sermons about the Christian life but ended up hearing<br />

way more about the Christian than the Christ. I knew the church<br />

needed to get back to the robust and liberating doctrine of justification<br />

by faith alone and what that actually means for life and relationships.<br />

We came up with “Liberate” which started as one conference<br />

but has now grown to much more—connections<br />

between pastors, partnerships with churches<br />

and people all connected by the liberating<br />

truth of God’s free grace.<br />

Isn't all this emphasis<br />

on grace going to<br />

make Christians lazy<br />

and ignore holiness?<br />

[Laughs] We hear that all the time,<br />

don’t we? The question assumes the<br />

law has the power to sanctify you,<br />

but the Bible says just the opposite.<br />

Paul makes it clear in Romans 7 that<br />

the law shows you what a sanctified<br />

life looks like but has no power to<br />

actually sanctify you. Think about<br />

it—what does it do to your heart<br />

when your spouse is criticizing you<br />

for failing to do something? Does<br />

that criticism make you want to do it? Absolutely not!<br />

The only thing that produces true love and heart-driven<br />

obedience is love. Sanctification is love for God and<br />

love for others. 1 John tells us why we love— “we love<br />

Him because He first loved us.” It is right and it is our<br />

duty to love the Lord our God with all our heart, mind,<br />

soul and strength, but the command doesn’t actually<br />

produce the love that is commanded. The only thing that<br />

produces love for God and love for others is love from God.<br />

WHO IS TULLIAN TCHIVIDJIAN<br />

AND WHY ASK HIM?<br />

William Graham Tullian Tchividjian (pronounced chavi-jin)<br />

is the Senior Pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian<br />

Church in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. He is a blogger,<br />

seminary lecturer and grace addict. Tullian is an avid<br />

Dallas Cowboys fan which means he and our Senior<br />

Pastor agree about almost everything.<br />

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Pastor Tullian Tchividjian<br />

answers questions on<br />

LIBERATE and grace<br />

Is LIBERATE just for professional<br />

Christians or can "normal" people go too?<br />

How do we connect?<br />

Liberate is connecting God’s inexhaustible grace to an<br />

exhausted world. I’ve never met anyone who is not exhausted.<br />

I’m not talking about exhausted because we’re too busy raising<br />

children and trying to pay the bills. I’m talking about emotional<br />

exhaustion, relational exhaustion and living on a treadmill of<br />

performance to ensure that our lives are meaningful. All of those<br />

things are just our own frantic attempts at self-justification.<br />

Liberate is for weary and heavy-laden people like that. Therefore<br />

this message is not just for professional Christians or pastors.<br />

It is not just for old people, young people, married people or<br />

single people—it literally is for all of us, every human<br />

being who needs the rest that only Jesus offers.<br />

If you had to condense the<br />

Gospel into an "elevator<br />

pitch" how would you<br />

describe it?<br />

The gospel is the good news that<br />

Jesus has come to do for you and me<br />

what we could never do for ourselves.<br />

And He has come to give for free to<br />

you and me what we could never get<br />

for ourselves. No one wants to live<br />

a meaningless life. No one wants to<br />

not matter. Most of our pursuits are<br />

fueled by this thirst—this longing<br />

to validate our existence. To justify<br />

ourselves. To rescue ourselves. To set<br />

ourselves free. And the gospel is the<br />

good news that Jesus has come to set<br />

the captives free. The gospel is an announcement, a<br />

declaration that One has lived for us and died for us.<br />

At Southwood we often talk about the<br />

Gospel redefining our identity. You are<br />

Billy Graham's grandson. How does the<br />

Gospel free you to rightly rejoice in who<br />

you were born to be and concurrently<br />

reject some persona that people would<br />

falsely expect you to be?<br />

Trying to do it all will cause an inevitable crash and burn. That<br />

happened to me just after coming to Coral Ridge. When you<br />

are flat on your back, you finally get honest with God and<br />

yourself. One of the greatest gifts that come when you reach<br />

the end of yourself is the fresh realization that your identity—<br />

who you are—is ultimately anchored in Christ’s performance<br />

not your own—His obedience, not mine. I am defined by His<br />

work for me, not my work for Him. So who we really are in<br />

Christ has absolutely nothing to do with us. It has nothing to<br />

do with our behavior good or bad, or our family background.<br />

What relieves me of the pressure to perform is the realization<br />

that I wake up every morning with something infinitely better<br />

than a clean slate. I wake up perfectly loved and perfectly<br />

accepted despite my unclean slate.


elate<br />

SOUTHWOOD<br />

David Zahl @mockingbirdnyc<br />

The cost of unbridled individualism & selfactualization<br />

is loneliness.<br />

tweets<br />

from<br />

Steve Brown @DrSteveWBrown<br />

We announce to the world that we're screwed up...<br />

and that Jesus likes us a lot. That dog will hunt.<br />

Scotty Smith @ScottyWardSmith<br />

God does not need me; he wants me. This sets me<br />

free.<br />

#<strong>2014</strong>Liberate<br />

Sally Lloyd Jones @sallylloydjones<br />

If we knew everything God was doing during the<br />

unseen times, we would cheer Him on.<br />

Tullian Tchividjian @PastorTullian<br />

Theologically we don't believe in justification by<br />

works, but functionally we are addicted to it.<br />

J.D. Greear @jdgreear<br />

The law can demand our conformity but is powerless<br />

to transform our hearts.<br />

Scotty Smith @ScottyWardSmith<br />

Heaven’s king gave himself for a whore to make her<br />

his queen.<br />

Matt Chandler @MattChandler74<br />

The scales of good deeds vs. bad deeds DON’T<br />

EXIST. We can’t earn what is freely given.<br />

Elyse Fitz @ElyseFitz<br />

Here is Good News…YOU ARE FORGIVEN! YOU<br />

ARE RIGHTEOUS! HE SEES YOU! HE LOVES<br />

YOU! GO IN PEACE! SMILE!<br />

Tullian Tchividjian @PastorTullian<br />

Church should be the one place where weary &<br />

heavy-laden people find rest, but instead get a to-do<br />

list.<br />

From Southwood, Jean Larroux, Todd Gandy, Steve Jakab<br />

and Brock Warner attended this year’s conference. Liberate<br />

is held annually the weekend after President’s Day. Info and<br />

previous messages at Liberate.org.<br />

Steve Brown @DrSteveWBrown<br />

In Christ, the principal's paddle stays on the wall.<br />

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relate<br />

CURL<br />

UP<br />

WITH<br />

THE GREAT<br />

DIVORCE<br />

James Parker<br />

This book by<br />

C.S. Lewis was<br />

first published in<br />

1944. It is a<br />

fantasy narrative<br />

that details a<br />

journey from<br />

Hell into the<br />

edges of Heaven.<br />

One assumes<br />

that Lewis is the<br />

narrator. The whole narrative is a dream, as the reader discovers at<br />

the end of the book. It starts in a place the narrator calls “the grey<br />

town.” It is vast and expansive but grim and quarrelsome. Everyone<br />

is isolated. Those who have been there for a very long time are<br />

isolated by “millions of miles.” The example given is Napoleon.<br />

Napoleon lives alone in a house way up on the hill. All he does day<br />

and night is rehash his losses when he was alive, replacing blame on<br />

everyone but himself.<br />

The narrator stumbles into a queue that seems to be waiting for a<br />

bus to arrive. The bus is said to be taking its riders on an excursion<br />

to “some other place,” which turns out to be the foothills of heaven.<br />

All of the passengers, including the narrator, are eventually revealed<br />

to be ghosts. And heaven is described as being immensely more<br />

solid than themselves. Even the blades of grass were so heavy they<br />

were beyond being lifted and they were painful to walk on.<br />

When the ghosts arrive at the foothills they are met by individuals<br />

from their past. These visitors are “solid people,” they are from this<br />

far country and are just as substantial. The reader is taken through<br />

numerous encounters between these ghosts and the solid people.<br />

The inhabitants of heaven have traveled a very long distance to<br />

meet their loved ones at the foothills in order to persuade them to<br />

leave behind their home in hell and enter into a state of joyful selfforgetfulness.<br />

Once they can do that they can be made more solid<br />

with every step.<br />

The narrator is met by the writer George MacDonald. Lewis was<br />

highly influenced by his writings so it is fitting that MacDonald<br />

becomes his guide through the bulk of the story. These interactions<br />

are largely tragic because the ghosts do not realize that they are,<br />

in fact, ghosts. Nor do they realize that the “grey town” is actually<br />

hell. The only way they can become part of the solid country is to<br />

turn from themselves (repent) and embrace unceasing joy.<br />

George MacDonald’s spirit explains the main idea of this book.<br />

He says, “[this] is what mortals misunderstand. They say of some<br />

temporal suffering, ‘No future bliss can make up for it,’ not knowing<br />

that Heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that<br />

agony into a glory. And of some sinful pleasure they say, ‘Let me<br />

have but this and I’ll take the consequences’: little dreaming how<br />

damnation will spread back and back into their past and contaminate<br />

the pleasure of the sin. Both processes begin even before death.”<br />

The point Lewis is making is that Heaven and Hell are such divergent<br />

paths that there can be no sharing between them. There is no small<br />

piece of heaven in hell nor is there any bit of hell in heaven. This is the<br />

Great Divorce. (The title comes from a refutation of a work by William<br />

Blake, The Marriage of Heaven and Hell).<br />

So what? What can this say to us? Namely, the resurrection of Jesus<br />

is the only thing that matters. Because Jesus was sacrificed and was<br />

raised from the dead, he is the only one who can bridge the chasm<br />

between heaven and hell; the only one who could drive the bus;<br />

the only one who can bring us from the “grey town” into the “solid<br />

country.” The striking thing about Lewis‘ descriptions of people<br />

who inhabit hell versus the solid people is his notion of humanity.<br />

Jesus did not come to abolish our humanity but bring us from a<br />

broken and incomplete state of humanity into a complete, or solid,<br />

state of full humanity. He came to make us like himself. And the<br />

blood of his sacrifice doesn’t simply start a new story at the point<br />

of repentance, it actually sanctifies everything, ahead and behind.<br />

It travels backwards in time to “work death in reverse” as Lewis<br />

describes of Aslan in The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe.<br />

This Easter, be reminded that self-forgetfulness is the way to<br />

be made whole. When one of the ghosts says “I only want my<br />

rights. I’m not asking for anybody’s bleeding charity" the solid<br />

spirit responds lovingly, "Then do. At once. Ask for the Bleeding<br />

Charity!”<br />

Southwood was the host for the National<br />

Children's and Education Publications<br />

conference on March 8. Pictured here are<br />

some of the Southwood Kids staff and<br />

volunteers that helped with the conference.


ALL THAT IS FAIR<br />

BONO AND THE<br />

RESURRECTION<br />

James Parker<br />

People from all walks of life and all creeds<br />

find something to connect with in the<br />

music of U2. And it’s not due to some<br />

sort of stellar marketing campaign or<br />

anything like that. Their broad success<br />

is because of something else entirely.<br />

Of course the music is innovative. They<br />

have put together sounds and techniques<br />

that have been “trend-setting” concepts<br />

in the music industry. But beyond<br />

that, the content of their body of work<br />

has something in it that touches on a<br />

profoundly human and hopeful refrain.<br />

Namely, the resurrection of Jesus.<br />

Bono’s lyrics have always been<br />

characterized by a Christian worldview,<br />

but they do not fit into the highly<br />

controlled CCM (Contemporary Christian<br />

Music) environment. U2 is every bit as<br />

much a “Christian” band as MercyMe or<br />

Casting Crowns, but you won’t find their<br />

work at Lifeway Christian Bookstore.<br />

Bono is a bit too edgy for the CCM. But<br />

make no mistake, they adhere to the<br />

Apostle’s Creed, and it comes through<br />

(often in metaphorical language) in all of<br />

their songs. What’s even more incredible<br />

is how overwhelmingly willing the<br />

general public is to embrace this band,<br />

regardless of their spiritual beliefs. It’s<br />

simply good music that points to ideas<br />

that are universally human. Bono has<br />

been very public about his motivation<br />

and the faith that he has been given.<br />

Here is a short excerpt from an interview<br />

he gave with Michka Assayas, who is an<br />

atheist.<br />

Bono: You see, at the center of all<br />

religions is the idea of Karma. You know,<br />

what you put out comes back to you: an<br />

eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, or in<br />

physics; in physical laws every action is<br />

met by an equal or an opposite one. It's<br />

clear to me that Karma is at the very heart<br />

of the universe. I'm absolutely sure of it.<br />

And yet, along comes this idea called<br />

Grace to upend all that "as you reap, so<br />

you will sow" stuff. Grace defies reason<br />

and logic. Love interrupts, if you like,<br />

the consequences of your actions, which<br />

in my case is very good news indeed,<br />

because I've done a lot of stupid stuff.<br />

Assayas: The Son of God who takes<br />

away the sins of the world. I wish I could<br />

believe in that.<br />

Bono: But I love the idea of the Sacrificial<br />

Lamb. I love the idea that God says:<br />

Look, you cretins, there are certain results<br />

to the way we are, to selfishness, and<br />

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there's a mortality as part of your very<br />

sinful nature, and, let's face it, you're not<br />

living a very good life, are you? There are<br />

consequences to actions. The point of<br />

the death of Christ is that Christ took on<br />

the sins of the world, so that what we put<br />

out did not come back to us, and that our<br />

sinful nature does not reap the obvious<br />

death. That's the point. It should keep<br />

us humbled. It's not our own good works<br />

that get us through the gates of heaven.<br />

Bono always has an interesting way<br />

of saying things but throughout the<br />

entire interview, no matter what<br />

Assayas throws his way, all of his words<br />

boil down to describing an orthodox<br />

Christian worldview. The hopefulness<br />

of U2’s songs and the energy of Bono’s<br />

philanthropic pursuits all hinge on<br />

the resurrection. The Sacrificial Lamb<br />

wouldn’t have mattered if it weren’t for<br />

the resurrection. Jesus being raised<br />

from the dead is what gives Bono’s idea<br />

of “Grace over Karma” any power at all.<br />

It’s the effectual catalyst that ushers in<br />

the Kingdom of God.<br />

In the book Exploring U2, Scott Calhoun<br />

says this about Bono, “Bono promotes<br />

a particular Christian vision of the<br />

future in the notion of 'kingdom come,'<br />

revealing to Assayas that he takes Jesus<br />

at his word when he tells his disciples to<br />

pray for God’s will to be done 'on earth<br />

as it is in Heaven.' This is not an overrealized<br />

eschatology on Bono’s part but<br />

a view that the resurrection of Christ<br />

inaugurates the Kingdom.... [In it] we find<br />

partial fulfillment of Jesus’ command<br />

to welcome the stranger, heal the sick,<br />

restore the blind to sight, and return the<br />

Creation to its proper, joyful balance.”<br />

MAGNIFICENT James Parker<br />

U2’s 2009 album No Line On the Horizon includes the song “Magnificent.” It is<br />

an electrifying song, a true rock anthem that get’s stuck in your head and fills you<br />

with energy. And here’s something more. This song takes its content from the<br />

Magnificat; the prayer of Mary recorded in the gospel of Luke. She prays a prayer<br />

of thanksgiving when she is told by the angel that she will conceive and bear a son<br />

that will be the promised Messiah. Bono also tried to take this text and interpret<br />

it through the lens of a Cole Porter love song! Very brilliant and "out of the box."<br />

This song is a must listen!<br />

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