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The aim of the game is for students to cross their entire team from one side of the grid to the other<br />

Divide group into two teams.<br />

There is a pathway created and known by the two teachers/leaders who sit at the top of the<br />

grid. (having a paper grid to guide them is a good idea)<br />

<strong>St</strong>udents begin by trying to cross the grid one at a time stepping into squares. If they step on<br />

the right path/square the teacher says yes and they can keep stepping until they get a no for<br />

stepping in a wrong square. That student then lines up again at the back of the group and the<br />

next student begins by trying to memorise where the previous team member stepped and<br />

then building on solving the path.<br />

As team members cross to the other side. their task is to guide fellow team members across<br />

the grid, this can take the form of verbal or non verbal clues.<br />

If playing team against team, the two grid patterns can be the same to begin until students<br />

understand how to play the game and can then be made different so that the two teams can’t copy<br />

one another.<br />

Shared Discussion/Reflection<br />

Invite students to reflect on how the grid is like life .....<br />

It’s about finding the right way to go .... sometimes it’s easy to find the way .... sometimes you<br />

might get things wrong or go the wrong way but you can always begin again.<br />

Once you ‘find the way’ you have Knowledge and Wisdom and you can use what you have learnt to<br />

help and lead others.<br />

Working together makes getting through easier<br />

Link to <strong>Confirmation</strong>:<br />

The Holy Spirit will help to guide you through life, give you the courage to begin again and help<br />

you to discover new knowledge and understanding as you go through life.<br />

Your team is like the Church, there to help you through and guide you.


Journal Activity (Optional) Spend some time reflecting on the people who help and guide you in<br />

life. Who do you look up to .... what is it about that person that you really respect or like .... how<br />

might you do that in your life?<br />

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Aim: To consider what confirmation means to us and how we perceive its impact on our lives.<br />

Mark a line across the room.<br />

Label one end of the line with the word "Agree" and the other with the word "Disagree."<br />

Read out one of the following statements and ask the group to stand on the line according to<br />

how much they agree or disagree with the statement.<br />

Invite two or three young people to say why they have chosen to stand where they are.<br />

• I can make a difference to the world I live in<br />

• You can be good without being a Christian<br />

• If you are a Christian you must always work hard to become a better person<br />

• Everyone's life should be perfect<br />

• Christians should be involved in working for justice<br />

• One person can make a difference<br />

• Actions speak louder than words<br />

• You are what you have<br />

Taken from<br />

http://www.cafod.org.uk/resources/worship/confirmation_and_rcia_resources/cafod_and_confirmation<br />

The focus of B2 in Gifted by The Spirit is how the world would be if everyone lived as God wants<br />

B2.2 Analyses how society would be different if baptised and confirmed people developed<br />

the spiritual gifts of the ‘power from on high’ to fulfil their Christian mission.<br />

If baptised and confirmed people developed the spiritual gifts of ‘power from on high’ within them,<br />

they would be strengthened against all that makes it hard for them to fulfil their Christian mission.<br />

They could:<br />

Listen to the calls of their conscience ‘to love and do good’ like Jesus<br />

Overcome peer and social pressures to forget about living as a Christian<br />

Overcome persecutions, including through ridicule and rejection<br />

Rise above personal temptations not to live as Jesus taught.<br />

What would the Church be like if all its members lived as Christ taught?<br />

What are some ways society would be different if all members of the Church lived their Christian<br />

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In small groups, students are given a global problem (or a local problem/issue taken from The West<br />

Australian or a Community Newspaper) and asked as a group to come up with solutions to solve it.<br />

<strong>St</strong>udents could be encouraged to reflect on the gifts of <strong>Confirmation</strong> and how they might call on the<br />

Spirit to solve these problems, reminding them that choosing to be confirmed calls on one to step up<br />

as a leader and to find ways to make the world fair for everyone.<br />

Encourage groups to come up with an interesting way, eg. Rap .... Tableau ... etc ... to present their<br />

problem and solutions back to the group and to gather any other ideas that other students may have.<br />

At school, students in their groups, could send their ideas to the Youth Speak Out site by entering<br />

the address and clicking on the e-mail symbol contained with each given problem listed below.<br />

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Disabilities<br />

People are also mistreated if they have disabilities. There are kids at<br />

school who are extremely rude and mean to the disabled kids. Even<br />

people with disabilities have feelings, and they can get hurt badly.<br />

Sample Problem:<br />

Kids tease and repeat mean jokes at school about kids with disabilities,<br />

including those that have to wear glasses. What can we do to stop<br />

people teasing and making fun of others?<br />

Sample Solution:<br />

Don’t laugh at the jokes, because some day it might happen to you.<br />

Together we can make a difference and improve the world. Do you have<br />

any other ideas? Write to us and we’ll post your comments on this site.<br />

http://www.tcfn.org/jrsummit/disability.html


Rich vs Poor<br />

We all want to have a comfortable amount of money even with a little<br />

extra for treats now and then. Some people don't have a cent. Some<br />

people have millions and billions of dollars. The rich, if they give any to<br />

the poor give a small amount. Money isn't everything. The rich are<br />

greedy and the poor are needy. When will it stop?<br />

Sample Problem:<br />

We as Australian young people don’t really know what it’s like to be<br />

really poor like people in some African, Asian and South American<br />

countries. It’s not right that people are dying in the world because they<br />

don’t have enough food and water. How can we as young people make<br />

a difference and help those who lack the basic necessities of life?<br />

Sample Solution:<br />

Instead of buying a $150 pair of jeans, buy a pair for $80 and give the extra<br />

$70 to a charity such as Project Compassion<br />

Together we can make a difference and improve the world. Do you have<br />

any other ideas? Write to us and we'll post your comments on this<br />

section. http://www.tcfn.org/jrsummit/richpoor.html<br />

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Environment<br />

Our beautiful earth is being destroyed. Thousands and thousands of trees are being<br />

cut down in short amounts of time, and trees give us the oxygen we need to<br />

survive. People are polluting the earth by littering, dumping rubbish into rivers,<br />

lakes and oceans. Car emissions and smoking causes smog and makes the oxygen<br />

layer in our atmosphere thinner. If we don’t take action, our earth will end up like<br />

one big junkyard.<br />

Sample Problem:<br />

Australia’s rainfall has reduced over the last few years and we continually<br />

cut down trees to create more paper and other resources. The more we<br />

destroy our natural environment the more it affects our air, waterways and<br />

overall health. What can we do to save water and encourage people to<br />

recycle? What can we do to save the natural environment?<br />

Sample Solution:<br />

We took two recycled plastic bags every day to school. On the way to and from<br />

school we picked up rubbish, cans, and bottles and put them in the recycled<br />

containers at school. Together we can make a difference and improve the<br />

world. Do you have any other ideas? Write to us and we’ll post your comments<br />

on this section. http://www.tcfn.org/jrsummit/enviornment.html


Bullying<br />

The problem<br />

Many people still judge others by how they look, what they wear, what music they<br />

like, what skin colour they have. Some groups won’t talk to other groups and visa<br />

versa. Skin is beautiful whether God has created you with black skin, white skin,<br />

yellow skin, etc But not everyone thinks that, and it can cause problems.<br />

Sample Problem:<br />

Kids can find it difficult at times to go out of their way to make friends with<br />

other people who are different to them. If we want the world to be a peaceful<br />

place in the future we need to treat the people around us respectfully. How can<br />

we encourage people in schools to treat anyone who is different from them with<br />

respect. How can we stop bullying?<br />

Sample Solution:<br />

Go out of your way to make friends with someone that is from a different race or<br />

nationality than yourself.<br />

Together we can make a difference and improve the world. Do you have any<br />

other better ideas? Write to us and we’ll post your comments on this section.<br />

http://www.tcfn.org/jrsummit/questions.html<br />

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As we grow older, we begin to admire special qualities in other people. We may admire, for<br />

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• truthfulness in someone who never tells lies, no matter how much they may get into trouble<br />

• courage in a person who, for example,<br />

– overcomes personal adversity<br />

– is of strong character so that they do what is right, even in the face of opposition by<br />

peers and others who want them to do wrong<br />

• loyalty in a person who remains faithful to friends, especially in times of difficulty<br />

• fairness in someone who is always fair, irrespective of self interest<br />

• love in someone who is friendly to everyone<br />

• forgiveness in a person who remains willing to be friends with the person who hurt them.<br />

When we want to develop these qualities within ourselves, they become personal ‘ideals’.<br />

They are special ways in which we would like to show goodness.<br />

Secondly, as ideals develop, we become disappointed whenever we fail to live up to them. We<br />

regret times when we, for example:<br />

• lied, rather than told the truth<br />

• gave in, instead of showing courage<br />

• were disloyal, instead of showing loyalty<br />

• behaved unfairly, instead of being just<br />

• showed selfishness, rather than love<br />

• took revenge, rather than forgiveness.


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develop these qualities ourselves, and regret times when we have behaved in ways that are<br />

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Objectives: Experience the love of God in the love of one's parents<br />

Materials Needed:<br />

1. Letters from parents for each participant<br />

2. Paper for replies<br />

3. Envelopes<br />

Contents/Activities:<br />

Preface: I doubt that this could be used as a "stand alone" activity, but it can be very powerful in<br />

the context of a one day or a weekend <strong>retreat</strong>. You need to plan this well ahead of time - parents<br />

need some time to respond to your request and you must also assume that you will have to contact<br />

some parents a second time before you have received the letters from all of them.<br />

There are obviously risks involved in this process and, based on my experience, I would suggest<br />

the following steps:<br />

1. Do not mention to your group what you are planning. If you pull it off, it will be a pleasant<br />

(hopefully) surprise for them. It is obvious that you need to ensure that you have a letter from at<br />

least one parent for each participant before you even consider handing any of the letters out.<br />

2. Phone the parents and explain to them what you are doing, why you would like them to write a<br />

letter to their son or daughter, and suggest what types of things (how they feel about them, what<br />

qualities they most love in them, what they hope for their future, ...) they might want to write. This<br />

personal contact with the parent is necessary: although most of them are happy to be given the<br />

opportunity to thus express their love, some feel awkward about it. Explain to the parents that you<br />

will only go ahead with the project if and when you have all the letters. Give a definite deadline. If<br />

you have not received the letters by the deadline, don't give up, call again - some parents may<br />

have forgotten about it.<br />

3. After the letters are given out to the participants in the <strong>retreat</strong>, make sure that the <strong>retreat</strong> adult<br />

supervisors/leaders are on the lookout for negative reactions and are ready to gently and discretely<br />

intervene.<br />

Comment: I have often used "love letters" from parents for my students and for young adults who<br />

were participating in <strong>retreat</strong>s. Every time, the impact on the great majority of the participants was<br />

overwhelmingly positive. There were however, some individuals who, for whatever reasons,<br />

reacted badly to the letter.<br />

4. After students have had a chance to read their letter, invite them to write a reply to their parents.<br />

©Gilles Côté, 2001<br />

If you copy information from this Catholic Religious Education Webzine<br />

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The low ropes course is characterized by its ability to create the need<br />

for group members to challenge their old ways of thinking and acting<br />

and work "outside the box". Group members are faced with<br />

challenging problems and are required to take risks, talk, and share<br />

responsibility for a successful effort. The goal of this course is to<br />

develop more effective thought processes and problem solving skills.<br />

Individuals learn the meaning of cooperation, and discover that<br />

through cooperation they can accomplish much more than they<br />

would have previously thought possible.<br />

Use a ropes course to encourage students to work together.<br />

Conclude the session with questions and/or discussions that draw<br />

students to reflect on the Gifts and Fruits of the Holy Spirit which<br />

they had to use/draw upon to help others complete the course, eg.<br />

Knowledge ... having to stop and think through the best way to<br />

complete the challenge ...<br />

Understanding others fears and encouraging them to have a go<br />

Courage to take steps and try things which were scary at the time<br />

Patience .... in encouraging people who found the course challenging<br />

Kindness ... in being gentle with people who may have slipped off the course or needed extra time.<br />

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Holy Water reminds us of our Baptism, when we were first called<br />

to follow Christ and were welcomed into God’s family.<br />

The Bible, which contains the Word of God and our<br />

story, reminds us of the struggles and difficulties<br />

others have faced. It encourages our faith to endure<br />

difficult times and reminds us of the truly Good News<br />

revealed through Jesus ~ that God loves us beyond all else.<br />

The Altar reminds us that we are part of a community who are<br />

called to gather together to support and help one another as we<br />

share a sacred meal and are strengthened by Christ.<br />

In our Parish, our <strong>Confirmation</strong> candidates wear a sash.<br />

This garment links <strong>Confirmation</strong> with Baptism, when our<br />

Godparents placed a white garment around us and clothed us in<br />

Christ. The wearing of this garment symbolizes the commitment<br />

and acceptance of the person being confirmed to “put on” or wear<br />

Christ. It is a sign of acceptance to wanting to live a life like<br />

Christ’s. This sash also contains symbols of <strong>Confirmation</strong>,<br />

including the name of a chosen saint or holy person who has been<br />

chosen as a role model for how to live a life of faith.<br />

For Reflection and Sharing<br />

Spend some time designing a “<strong>Confirmation</strong> sash”.<br />

Include the name of your chosen Saint together with some<br />

symbols, which highlight an important aspect of the Holy Spirit or<br />

the ceremony for you.<br />

Your sash and its design also remind us of your uniqueness and<br />

the gifts which you bring to our community.<br />

Use the space on the next page to design your sash before you<br />

explain what symbols you chose and why.<br />

Share your design with the group.<br />

Link:<br />

Resource Sheet 4 Basic Elements of <strong>Confirmation</strong> from the Year Seven RE Unit Spirit of Truth


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Spread a number of Photo Language images around the room so that students can<br />

walk around and in between the images.<br />

Encourage students, in silence, to spend time looking at the pictures on the floor.<br />

Pose the question<br />

“Which images speaks to you of some Gifts/Fruits of the Holy Spirit?”<br />

Invite students to choose one or two images – and spend 2-3 minutes in silence<br />

reflecting on the image/s they have chosen.<br />

Invites students to share their image/s and thoughts with the group.<br />

Eg. I chose this picture because it reminds me of the gift of Reverence … of treating<br />

others with gentleness and kindness<br />

What does that picture say about the Holy Spirit?<br />

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Provide students with a range of art materials (crayons, paints, pencils, charcoal,<br />

plasticine, recycled materials, clay, etc.)<br />

Invite students to create an artwork (eg motivational poster) based on the Photo<br />

Language image/s they have chosen and to brainstorm a word or phrase on the<br />

artwork. (see example below)<br />

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To create an artwork based on the Gifts/Fruits of the Holy Spirit<br />

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Through the Holy Spirit, Christ is present on this earth.<br />

He is present in each one of us. Each baptised person forms the Body of Christ ~ the<br />

Church, and through us, Christ reaches out to be present to and to heal others.<br />

At <strong>Confirmation</strong> we are answering ‘Yes’ to Christ working through us to heal and transform the<br />

world and to build God’s Kingdom. It is a sacrament where we are where we are called to make a<br />

difference in the world through the way we live. The Holy Spirit strengthens us to grow in wisdom,<br />

knowledge, understanding, courage, right judgement, reverence, wonder and awe that we may<br />

speak out and act as Christ would.<br />

Teacher Note from the Year Seven Unit Gifted by the Spirit<br />

The qualities of Jesus are the important focus of (B1), leading to the Promise and the Gifts<br />

of the Holy Spirit.<br />

Jesus always did what was good. He showed the human qualities God created in people so<br />

they could do good. For example, he showed:<br />

• courage by<br />

– continuing his mission, even though he knew that some were planning his death<br />

to stop him [Mark 10:32–34; cf. John 11:49–54]<br />

– not being put off when people stopped following him [John 6:60–66]<br />

– not running away, even though he experienced terror the night before he was killed<br />

[Luke 22:39–44]<br />

• love by<br />

– washing the feet of disciples to show his love for them [John 13:1–17]<br />

– promising to give up his life for his disciples [John 15:13–15]<br />

• loyalty by<br />

– expressing love to Peter in the way he looked at him, even though Peter had just<br />

denied that he knew Jesus [Luke 22:54–62]<br />

– asking those who came to arrest him to let his disciples go [John 18:7–9]<br />

• fairness by<br />

– standing up for the woman caught in adultery [John 8:1–12]<br />

– defending the sinner who washed his feet with expensive oil [Mark 14:3–9]<br />

• forgiveness by<br />

– forgiving people’s sins [eg Mark 2:1–11]<br />

– praying that those who crucified him would be forgiven [Luke 23:34].<br />

Divide students into a number of small groups.<br />

Invites students to choose a Gospel story about Jesus and to re-enact it for the large<br />

group in a creative way.<br />

Use the following questions as discussion starters for large or small groups


For Reflection and Sharing – Choose one question and share your thoughts with the group<br />

1. Can you recall a time when Jesus modelled<br />

each of the Gifts of the Spirit:<br />

wisdom, knowledge, understanding<br />

right judgement, courage<br />

reverence and wonder and awe<br />

or showed in his life the Fruits of the Spirit<br />

love, joy, peace, patience,<br />

goodness, kindness, gentleness,<br />

faithfulness and self-control.<br />

2. Which Gospel story about Jesus has special meaning for you?<br />

Share it with the group.<br />

3. When have you used one of these Gifts or when do you think<br />

you might have to use them in the future?<br />

4. What Gift or Fruit of the Spirit do you think you bring to the world?<br />

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EXAMINATION OF<br />

CONSCIENCE<br />

TEACHER NOTE<br />

For New Evangelisation, like Catholic moral teachings, an examination of conscience<br />

needs to focus upon the person God’s grace makes Catholics capable of becoming<br />

[see Catechism 1454]. It needs to reflect the New Law of Christ [Catechism 1965-1974].<br />

The bracketed numbers below denote to which of the Ten Commandments the question<br />

is related.<br />

Jesus wants to help me to live as he taught.<br />

When have I not let him help me by acting in ways that are selfish or wrong?<br />

You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your<br />

soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind [Luke 10:27].<br />

(1) Instead of praying each day like Jesus, have there been days when I have not prayed?<br />

(2) Instead of letting Jesus draw me closer to God, have I used the names of God, Jesus or Mary<br />

disrespectfully?<br />

(3) Instead of letting Jesus draw me closer to God, have there been times when I have been<br />

talkative or uncooperative during Mass?<br />

(3) Instead of letting Jesus draw me closer to God, have I tried to get out of going to Mass with my<br />

parents or family members?<br />

(3) Instead of letting Jesus draw me closer to God, have there been times when I have not<br />

participated fully in the Mass? Complained about going to Mass with my parents or other<br />

family members?<br />

You must love your neighbour as yourself [Matthew 22:39].<br />

(4) Instead of loving my parents as Jesus did, and other family members, have I been<br />

disrespectful?<br />

Been uncooperative in the family, or had angry arguments or fights?<br />

(4) Instead of obeying rules like Jesus, have I disobeyed rules made by my parents? School rules?<br />

Public signs?<br />

(4) Instead of helping or cooperating with other family members, have I refused to help or to<br />

cooperate with them?<br />

(4) Instead of helping out in my family, and doing my chores, have I caused arguments or not done<br />

my share of work in the family?<br />

(5) Instead of being friendly to all, like Jesus, have I called others names? Not let them join in<br />

games? Made fun of anyone who looks or sounds different?<br />

(5) Instead of forgiving others like Jesus, am I holding a grudge or wanting to get even?<br />

(5) Instead of caring for other’s lives and health like Jesus, have I punched or fought others?<br />

(6) Instead of respecting males and females equally like Jesus, have I not treated males or females<br />

equally, rejected them or not been equally friendly to both?<br />

(7) Instead of respecting what belongs to others, have I stolen or not returned what is not mine?<br />

(7) Instead of caring for God’s creation and creatures, have I caused deliberate damage or cruelty<br />

to creatures?<br />

(8) Instead of telling the truth always like Jesus, have I told lies or made up stories about others?<br />

(8) Instead of being honest always like Jesus, have I ever cheated?<br />

(8) Instead of always doing what is right like Jesus, have I gone along with others in doing wrong?<br />

(8) Instead of encouraging others to live as God wants, have I ever made fun of others because<br />

they pray or do not want to do wrong?<br />

(10) Instead of being generous and sharing like Jesus, have I been greedy or jealous about what<br />

others have?<br />

Resource Sheet 4 Gifted By The Spirit


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Linked to The Year Seven Unit Spirit of Truth<br />

C3 Christians are called to live the First Commandment<br />

Christians live this first of the Ten Commandments by living faith, hope and charity.<br />

Faith<br />

People love God when they show faith in God. They do so when they believe in:<br />

• God, the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit<br />

• all that Jesus, the Son of God, has taught<br />

• all Jesus’ promises.<br />

Hope<br />

People show this faith when they hope in all the promises of Jesus:<br />

• that God will love them always<br />

• that God will help them to live as Jesus taught<br />

• that God will bring good out of every situation, no matter how evil it might be<br />

• that God will lead them to heaven if they live as God calls.<br />

Charity<br />

Charity means living the Two Great Commandments of Jesus – to love God and to love our<br />

neighbour.<br />

Charity towards God is shown whenever people [cf. Catechism 2094]:<br />

• give thanks for all God gives<br />

• try to respond to God’s love, especially through worship and prayer.<br />

Charity towards others is shown through any way we love our neighbour – that is, we try to<br />

do what is for our neighbour’s good (which may not always be what they want).<br />

From the First of the Ten Commandments, what are some of the characteristics God hopes<br />

the Christian will show to others in the society in which the Christian lives?<br />

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Another story, which emerged from America two years ago, emerged after the<br />

shootings in Columbine High school. Cassie Bernall was only 14 on the day two<br />

fellow students went on a shooting rampage through the school. They came looking<br />

for Cassie because she had openly stated that she believed in Jesus, went to Church<br />

and had refused to give up her values and beliefs. As she hid beneath a desk, the two<br />

students, gun in hands, faced her and offered her an ultimatum, if she denied Jesus,<br />

she could live, if she refused, they would shoot her. Cassie made a decision to be<br />

true to herself and her beliefs, she made the sign of the cross in front of them and<br />

was shot. But her death was not in vain. Because of her belief and love and the way<br />

she lived, many of her friends returned to the Church and have openly declared their<br />

desire to change and follow Christ. The following song was written by Michael W<br />

Smith for Cassie’s funeral. As well as reminding Cassie’s friends that she had lived<br />

life to the full, it challenged them and us to consider how we live our lives, and if<br />

faced with the same question as Cassie to think about what we would say.<br />

THIS IS YOUR TIME<br />

Michael W Smith<br />

It was a test we could all hope to pass<br />

But none of us would want to take<br />

Faced with the choice to deny God and live<br />

For her there was one choice to make<br />

This was her time, this was her dance<br />

She lived every moment left nothing to chance<br />

She swam in the sea, drank of the deep<br />

Embraced the mystery of all she could be<br />

This was her time<br />

Though you are mourning and grieving your loss<br />

Death died a long time ago<br />

Swallowed in life so her life carries on ~ <strong>St</strong>ill it’s so hard to let go.<br />

This was her time, this was her dance<br />

She lived every moment left nothing to chance<br />

She swam in the sea, drank of the deep<br />

Embraced the mystery of all she could be<br />

What if tomorrow, what if today<br />

Faced with the question, O what would you say?<br />

This is your time, this is your dance<br />

Live every moment leave nothing to chance<br />

Swim in the sea, drink of the deep<br />

And fall on the Mercy and hear yourself praying<br />

Won’t you save me


Spend a moment in silence reflecting to yourself.<br />

Faced with the question what would you say ????<br />

(This is personal and not for sharing)<br />

What are some of the ways the Saint you’ve chosen for <strong>Confirmation</strong><br />

answered ‘Yes’ to God?<br />

This is our time. Our time to make a difference and to develop our relationship<br />

with God. <strong>Confirmation</strong> strengthens us to do this.<br />

This is our dance! This is our time to get up and to stand out. To live life to the full,<br />

rather than sitting back and letting it pass us by.<br />

Let us pray that we will develop the Gifts given to us at <strong>Confirmation</strong>. That we will<br />

have the courage to stand apart from the crowd and to live lives of love, where we<br />

reach out to others and lead them to know how much God loves them.<br />

For Reflection and Sharing<br />

What is your dream? What gifts do you bring to the world?<br />

What would you like to do in the future to change our world for the better/how<br />

would you like to make a difference?<br />

There were saints from yesterday and saints from today,<br />

let us pray that we will be the saints of tomorrow.<br />

Closing Prayer: (Let us pray together)<br />

Spirit of God, seal our hearts with the Spirit of Your Love.<br />

Give us the courage of the saints to love when it is easier to hate,<br />

to see beauty beneath what is ugly, and to bring hope to our world.<br />

Teach us to have reverence and respect for all of life<br />

and to look for ways to respond to the Gifts you have given us.<br />

Keep us always open to the Spirit’s presence in our world.<br />

We ask this for thy Kingdom’s sake. Amen


2<br />

Banta, Margaret (1994) Parish Reconciliation Services<br />

Twenty Third Publications Mystic, CT<br />

Costello, Gwen (2000) Reconciliation Services for Children<br />

Twenty Third Publications Mystic, CT<br />

Crilly, Oliver (1993) Penitential Services<br />

Columba Press, Dublin<br />

Neary, Donal. (1994) Forty Masses with Young People.<br />

Columba Press, Dublin<br />

Wintour, Rina (1999) Sacred Celebrations for Lent. Mountjoy Enterprises, Brisbane, Australia.<br />

Wintour, Rina (2000) Sacred Celebrations: Liturgies for Children . Mountjoy Enterprises,<br />

Brisbane, Australia.<br />

SYMBOLS & BANNERS<br />

Daly, Susan (1990) Graphics for Sundays Feast Days. Collins Dove, Burwood Victoria<br />

Gambold, Margaret (2000) Banners & Graphics for Jubilation. John Garratt Publishing,<br />

Mulgrave, Victoria.<br />

Harms, Carol J (1988) Banners for Worship. Concordia Publishing House, <strong>St</strong> Louis, MO<br />

Jahne, Mary (1996) Church Graphics for all occasions. Dove Publications, Victoria, Australia<br />

PHOTO LANGUAGE<br />

Cooney, J. & Burton, K. 1986 Photo Language Australia (A or B):<br />

human values Catholic Education Office of Sydney (PO Box 217,Leichhardt NSW 2040).<br />

MUSIC<br />

Hands - Jewel from the album Spirit<br />

http://boomersint.org/myhands.htm<br />

(Hands song online have volume on computer turned up)<br />

This is Your Time – Geoff Bullock from the album This Is Your Time<br />

Learn to Fly – Shannon Noll from the album That’s What I’m Talking About


WEBSITES<br />

http://www.silk.net/RelEd/saintsactivities.htm<br />

This site contains a few suggested activities which aim to helping students learn about saints,<br />

identify with them, and reflect on the role of saints.<br />

http://www.franklincovey.com/cgi-bin/teens/teens-msb/part01/<br />

This exercise will help students to create their own Personal Mission <strong>St</strong>atement. Taking time to<br />

seriously consider answers to the questions will help them to define their values, principles, and<br />

what matters most in their life.<br />

To give this a <strong>Confirmation</strong> slant, encourage students to choose the values and qualities of their<br />

saints as they move through the program. On completion students will have a completed mission<br />

statement.<br />

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://library.thinkquest.org/CR0212302/motherteresachil<br />

d.gif&imgrefurl=http://library.thinkquest.org/CR0212302/motherteresa.html&h=250&w=188&sz=<br />

25&tbnid=YMuWor1NirkJ:&tbnh=105&tbnw=79&start=23&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dmother%2Bt<br />

eresa%26start%3D20%26hl%3Den%26lr%3D%26sa%3DN<br />

A website on heroes created by young people challenging young people to be heroes and to make a<br />

difference.<br />

http://www.mattieonline.com/<br />

An inspirational story worth sharing and inspiring students with.<br />

Mattie J.T. <strong>St</strong>epanek was a 13-year-old young man who was born with a rare neuromuscular<br />

disease called dysautonomic mitochondrial myopathy. His disease is one of the 43 types of diseases<br />

being researched by the Muscular Dystrophy Association.<br />

http://www.macscouter.com/Games/Volume2.html<br />

A Scouts site which contains a number of team building games for camps and <strong>retreat</strong>s<br />

http://www.cafod.org.uk/resources/worship/confirmation_and_rcia_resources/cafod_and_confirmati<br />

on<br />

These pages include ideas, activities and resources that can help complement your confirmation<br />

programme, residential <strong>retreat</strong> or parish youth work.<br />

They represent justice as integral to the Gospel message. They encourage young people to put<br />

their faith into action, as members of the local and global community.<br />

http://www.silk.net/RelEd/lonsdale.htm<br />

These resources were originally found on Fr. Lonsdale Web site - catholic1.com - Fr. Lonsdale passed away<br />

in 2003 and his site is no longer online.<br />

Copyright notice that appeared on the home page of Fr. Lonsdale's web site:<br />

All of the materials on this website may be freely reproduced by anyone for non-profit use. They may not be<br />

included in any commercial book, collection or CD-ROM without the express written permission of the<br />

publisher. All materials © 2002 by Father Richard Lonsdale 103 Silver <strong>St</strong>reet, Waterville, ME 04901-5923<br />

http://liturgyplanning.com/liturgy/index.html<br />

Monica Brown’s website to assist teachers with planning and preparing liturgy.

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