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The Tutoring Book - California State University, Sacramento

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Tutees do not like when their tutors go off on random tangents not related to the topic and waste<br />

time. <strong>The</strong>y prefer if their tutees would say “I don’t know” about something they were unsure about rather<br />

than give them bad advice. You think it might may you look incompetent if you do not have an answer to<br />

all their questions but here’s the reality: you are not expected to have all the answers. Uncertainty is<br />

okay; if you feel like you can find the answer of course try but if by the end you don’t know let the tutee<br />

know. You’re only expected to try your best to help your tutees and there’s no shame in saying “I don’t<br />

know” and the results of this survey show that tutees prefer that response over one that you guessed at.<br />

It’s one thing to read about all the different ways to tutor and what the experts say about what<br />

works for tutees but it’s another to actually hear from the tutees themselves about what works and what<br />

doesn’t. My hope for this article is for future tutors to get a glimpse of where their tutees heads are at in<br />

regards to their tutoring sessions—helping you to better help them.<br />

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