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discovered that he was unable <strong>to</strong> tackle his naughty child, hit upon an idea when he saw a picture of<br />

the world in a magazine. He <strong>to</strong>re the paper in<strong>to</strong> pieces <strong>and</strong> <strong>to</strong>ld his son <strong>to</strong> solve the puzzle<br />

congratulating himself on his innovative idea <strong>to</strong> keep his hyperactive child well occupied for a few<br />

hours. To his dismay, the child came back in no time with the solved puzzle. When asked, the child<br />

replied that behind the picture of the world there was a picture advertisement of a man in a suit. So he<br />

assembled the pieces corresponding <strong>to</strong> the man <strong>and</strong> when he turned the puzzle over, the picture of<br />

the world was also in place.<br />

My student herself elaborated that it is a metaphor <strong>to</strong> let us know that we need not underst<strong>and</strong><br />

the world <strong>and</strong> its problems. What we have <strong>to</strong> do is just underst<strong>and</strong> ourselves where we st<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> the<br />

corrections we aspire within ourselves <strong>to</strong> be a better person <strong>to</strong>day than what we were yesterday. If<br />

we are in place, the world around us will also perfectly fall in<strong>to</strong> place. She further explained that it is<br />

very important <strong>to</strong> begin from oneself <strong>and</strong> <strong>to</strong> take responsibility for our choices, actions <strong>and</strong> habits <strong>and</strong><br />

not spending our energy in finding lame excuses <strong>to</strong> blame the world around us. That day, I felt that I<br />

succeeded as a teacher <strong>and</strong> she, a student. I was so happy <strong>to</strong> know later that she had scored a<br />

distinction in her exams.<br />

To summarize, the following are what I found very important <strong>to</strong> explore, underst<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> evolve<br />

if we have <strong>to</strong> excel in any avenue in our lives :-<br />

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Whatever we do un<strong>to</strong> others we do <strong>to</strong> ourselves, every action or inaction has a consequence<br />

Whatever life blesses us with; we have all the freedom of choice <strong>to</strong> respond <strong>to</strong> situations <strong>and</strong><br />

people <strong>and</strong> the choices we make <strong>to</strong>day impacts our <strong>to</strong>morrows.<br />

Whatever negative habits we have, we have <strong>to</strong> break the habit pattern; we might have <strong>to</strong> put<br />

considerable energy in<strong>to</strong> it.<br />

Whatever we do or act, we have <strong>to</strong> remember our children are observing <strong>and</strong> learning from us.<br />

We have <strong>to</strong> be a conscious [aware <strong>and</strong> beware] parent. Never forget their innocence helps<br />

them <strong>to</strong> see through us. By aiming <strong>to</strong><br />

groom them, let us not guide them in<strong>to</strong> a<br />

life of pretense <strong>and</strong> artificiality.<br />

Whatever we aspire <strong>to</strong> become in life, we<br />

have <strong>to</strong> begin with our self <strong>and</strong> also believe<br />

that we have been designed for greater<br />

possibilities <strong>and</strong> take full responsibility for<br />

our choices, habits <strong>and</strong> actions.<br />

Blessings are one secret ingredient<br />

which we must bow down <strong>to</strong> receive from<br />

God, elders, well wishers <strong>and</strong> whosoever<br />

matter <strong>to</strong> us. And this is possible by<br />

prayers, good actions <strong>and</strong> deeds.<br />

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