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FOCUS ON FILIPINO YOUTH<br />

SAMIRA GUTOC<br />

BEFORE ME<br />

was an Islamic<br />

religion studies graduate, an al-<br />

eema<br />

who divorced her<br />

aleem<br />

(Islamic learned man) husband<br />

<strong>for</strong> beating her up. She was<br />

lecturing on significant Muslim<br />

women in Islamic history. So far<br />

she had taken up the Prophet<br />

Muhammad’s wife Khadija<br />

and daughter Aisha. Today’s<br />

topic: Madina’s Umu Sulaim<br />

Rumaisa. All were women of<br />

virtue whose lives could give<br />

us insights on what a Muslim<br />

woman should aspire to.<br />

Every Sunday, a few of us<br />

women and girls in the barrio<br />

would gather in a small shop<br />

of a lady leader to read the<br />

Qur’an and listen to aleemas,<br />

who would arrive garbed in<br />

traditional dress, with only their<br />

eyes peering out of their veils.<br />

But once they were in front of<br />

us, they would shed their facial<br />

covering and discuss themes<br />

ranging from women heroes to<br />

marriage and women’s obligations—basically<br />

all things domestic.<br />

Through an association<br />

of women “seeking faith,” the<br />

seminars provided us a place<br />

to rest, as well as to bond and<br />

learn with other women.<br />

My village at Buadi Sacayo,<br />

one of the homes of the old<br />

sultanates, has held on to many<br />

traditions. It is a close-knit community<br />

where residents, especially<br />

the young, congregated in the<br />

street or during Friday prayers.<br />

People here are proud of their<br />

roots, a pride they made evident<br />

through their colorful homes<br />

decorated in the traditional style.<br />

Across this village, at the other<br />

end of the highway, is Mindanao<br />

State University (MSU),<br />

where the more Western-educated<br />

reside and teach. While my<br />

barrio provides spiritual congregation,<br />

it is on the secular, modern<br />

campus that I meet a host<br />

of other highly educated and<br />

“modern” women. Our most<br />

recent topic was women’s rights<br />

and all the rah-rah of promoting<br />

it. The context: cleaning up the<br />

elections, especially the ARMM<br />

polls in August.<br />

Despite living away from<br />

the metropolis <strong>for</strong> the past year,<br />

I find staying in the Islamic<br />

city of Marawi refreshing <strong>for</strong><br />

I see the best of two worlds:<br />

those who gave up on the old<br />

ways and those who live it. At<br />

one end is the sandal-and-backpack<br />

crowd, people who live<br />

on just the basics and whose<br />

ultimate activity is prayer. At<br />

the other end are those who<br />

push <strong>for</strong> material success and<br />

crave recognition—the professionals,<br />

politicians, and yes,<br />

NGO workers. One fact ties<br />

each extreme to each other:<br />

both are made up of Muslims.<br />

I myself feel I am between<br />

both worlds. Sometimes, I even<br />

feel like an interloper. Having a<br />

hijab (veil) on and having non-<br />

Muslim friends makes me feel<br />

half-Muslim and half-Christian<br />

(or mestiza). It is not the religion<br />

that makes me feel like I always<br />

have to be in the middle of a<br />

religious discourse. Instead the<br />

feeling arises from the curiosity/<br />

half-acceptance I encounter in<br />

both Muslim and Christian circles.<br />

When I am with Muslims, I<br />

have to defend my “liberal” media<br />

profession. When I am with<br />

Christians, I have to explain<br />

Islam’s practices.<br />

But what is being Muslim<br />

anyway? Was it all about the<br />

five pillars, about the sayings<br />

of the Prophet and the<br />

Qur’an? What of the women,<br />

like me—had we rights, could<br />

we speak out? And how about<br />

pop music, my favorite, was it<br />

haram<br />

(<strong>for</strong>bidden)? Was living<br />

all about following rules?<br />

These were among the questions<br />

I had while growing up,<br />

and I have been asking even<br />

more questions since. I had been<br />

brought up to be conscious of<br />

my heritage, to always protect<br />

our maratabat, our good name,<br />

to avoid overexposure to the<br />

outside world. This was my culture<br />

as a Maranao. My religion, at<br />

least as taught to me, said almost<br />

the same thing—to observe the<br />

rituals, to lead a structured life.<br />

But I have since realized that<br />

religion is actually dynamic and<br />

that it was only the elders who<br />

had interpreted it otherwise.<br />

As postmodernist author Akbar<br />

Ahmed says, Islam and balance<br />

are compatible, meaning Muslims<br />

are not prohibited from embracing<br />

principles such as tolerance,<br />

democracy, and justice. So<br />

could a Muslim have a Christian<br />

as a best friend? Can we sing and<br />

dance? Could Muslim women<br />

wear jeans? And how do we see<br />

the Pope and Madonna?<br />

I THINK Muslim communities<br />

have yet to confront questions<br />

Growing<br />

Fema<br />

&<br />

Mus<br />

52 PHILIPPINE CENTER FOR INVESTIGATIVE JOURNALISM I REPORT

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