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LINKING FAMILIES...<br />

BUILDING COMMUNITY<br />

In the last issue of <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>, we began our 25th<br />

Anniversary celebration with memories from several of our original<br />

founders. This spring, we focus on the beginnings of <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />

from the perspectives of one of our first teachers and others involved<br />

in the early years of the drop-in center.<br />

One Teacher’s Reflections<br />

Picture a basement room with a dark brown linoleum floor,<br />

covered by a 10 x 12 foot rug, with a row of windows near the<br />

ceiling. The room is divided in half by a bookcase stocked with<br />

simple toys, stuffed animals, and blocks. On one side, a two year<br />

old is building a tower of blocks. Next to him, a three year old<br />

is feeding her toy bunny. On the other side of the bookcase are<br />

two couches and a rocking chair. A young mother is rocking her<br />

baby to sleep. Two other mothers are chatting with a white haired<br />

woman in her 70s whose warm smile and welcoming manner feel<br />

like comfortable family. As she listens and responds she is knitting<br />

a cozy afghan.<br />

This is a snapshot of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s beginnings. Martha Struve<br />

Freeman always reminded friends that <strong>Family</strong> Network was born on<br />

her birthday, opening its doors on January 3, 1983. Martha had<br />

recently retired as the director of Highland Park Community Nursery<br />

School, and she knew that moms with children too young for<br />

preschool needed a place to go. Martha and the original teachers<br />

- I among them - volunteered their time as the drop-in was offered<br />

two mornings a week.<br />

Before long, the one room program expanded to accommodate<br />

a growing number of families. Toddlers and preschoolers were<br />

separated into two rooms to suit their different needs, and a room<br />

was set up where parents could be together when their children<br />

were ready to play on their own with a teacher nearby. Several years<br />

later, the Baby & Me Room was created so that mothers with babies<br />

could spend time in their own room with an infant specialist. Board<br />

members and parents worked together to renovate the basement<br />

rooms which were generously provided by the Highland Park<br />

Presbyterian Church.<br />

Although <strong>Family</strong> Network has grown over the years to incorporate<br />

Right From The Start and the After School Activity Program, we<br />

continue to be responsive to the needs of our children and families<br />

and our community. Today, the <strong>Family</strong> Network Parent/Child Center<br />

is still a warm, welcoming place that feels like comfortable family,<br />

just as it did when Martha Freeman sat with mothers and their<br />

children in that first room in 1983!<br />

- Sandy Incorvia, 1983-present<br />

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<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong><br />

spring <strong>2008</strong><br />

Sandy Incorvia with some of the first <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>s in the<br />

original Carousel Room.<br />

Parents Remember<br />

As soon as I moved to Highland Park, in April of 1983, I started<br />

going to <strong>Family</strong> Network. I had been taking my three-year-old to<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Focus in Evanston and was pregnant with our second child. I<br />

was thrilled because this was a way to meet other mothers of small<br />

children in Highland Park. Martha was a welcoming soul and the<br />

program provided answers about child rearing.<br />

A number of us had been so busy with our careers that we hadn’t<br />

given much thought to what to do about being a mother. There<br />

were deep discussions in the Mothers’ Room about careers. We felt<br />

conflicted because we didn’t want to let those down who had made<br />

it possible to get the education we needed for our careers. When<br />

I was Board president in 1989, I wrote a column, “We all have to<br />

make decisions.” I still see several friends I met at <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />

- Jean Meier, 1983-90<br />

Janet Freund met me at Highland Park Hospital, where she had<br />

started an infant-toddler program to help new mothers. Since I had<br />

no family here, Janet suggested that I come to <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />

Martha was an angel and I got so much out of the program. I also<br />

served as board president for three years starting in 1990.<br />

- Chana Anderson, 1985-93<br />

As a first socialization experience in a classroom setting <strong>Family</strong><br />

Network set the stage for successful, caring, confident future<br />

students. My 20 and 22-year-old children are now independent,<br />

responsible adults—thanks, in part, to this invaluable experience.<br />

- Jill Hurwitz,1987-92<br />

(Continued on p. 3)<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org


<strong>Family</strong> Network<br />

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JORDAN FRIEDMAN, Center Director<br />

SONIA CALLES, Office Manager<br />

RODICA SERA, Custodian<br />

PARENT/CHILD CENTER<br />

TERRY BEEM, Program Coordinator<br />

CAROL BRUSSLAN, Teacher<br />

RUTH FIELD, Social Worker<br />

JANE GLICKMAN, Teacher<br />

BARBARA GARLAND, Baby & Me Facilitator<br />

SUSAN GROSSMAN, Outreach Associate<br />

CATHLEEN HAMILI, Baby & Me Facilitator<br />

PATTY PELL, Teacher<br />

HELGA SCHRIMMER, Teacher<br />

RIGHT FROM THE START<br />

NORA BARQUIN, Program Coordinator<br />

DINORA ARIAS, Van Driver/Child Care Worker<br />

MARILÚ BETANCOURT,, Child Care Worker<br />

BERTHA CHÁVEZ, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />

LUISA ESPINOSA-LARA, Office Administrator<br />

ALEJANDRA MARTINEZ, Child Care Worker<br />

LUCRECIA SORUCO, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />

LUZ MARIA VEGA, Child Care Worker<br />

LISA WISNIEWSKI, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />

AFTER SCHOOL ACTIVITY PROGRAM<br />

BOBBIE HINDEN, ASAP Director<br />

RALPH BROCK, Wayne Thomas Coordinator<br />

LILY CHAN, Teacher<br />

KAYLEE LONGEST, Teacher<br />

BRENDA RAMIREZ, Teacher<br />

ELVA VELEZ, Teacher<br />

MELISA LARSON, Indian Trail Coordinator<br />

JENNIFER KLEIN, Teacher<br />

ELAINE HERTZ LONDON, Teacher<br />

BOARD OF DIRECTORS<br />

KIRSTEN LAURIE, Co-President<br />

MARISA OZBURN, Co-President<br />

ERIC EPHRAIM, CPA Treasurer<br />

KATHLEEN SHEA-URBAT, Secretary<br />

BLAIR BRENNER<br />

ALICIA DE LA CRUZ<br />

GAIL TULER FRIEDMAN<br />

MICHELLE HOLLEMAN<br />

EDWARD KAUFMAN<br />

EDNA RACHAL<br />

TRACY SEGAL<br />

CARYN PLATT TATELLI<br />

JANET FREUND, President Emeritus<br />

MARTHA FREEMAN, Director Emeritus*<br />

* of fond memory<br />

ADVISORY COMMITTEE<br />

JUNE AIMEN<br />

IA BACKSTROM<br />

MICHAEL D. BELSKY<br />

JACK BLANE<br />

ESTHER EMMERMAN<br />

ARIE FRIEDMAN, MD<br />

PATRICIA GOODMAN<br />

GEOFFREY GROSSMAN<br />

DAVID HOFFMAN<br />

BILL KAUFMAN<br />

DOLORES KOHL KAPLAN<br />

GERRY KRISER<br />

LOIS KUPRITZ<br />

ANGELA LEVENSTEIN, PhD<br />

FRED MILLER, MD, PhD<br />

SANDRA RAIZES<br />

MICHAEL SIEGEL, MD<br />

MARILYN STRAUS<br />

BERT WELLER<br />

President’s Column<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network is now half way through its 25th year. Throughout<br />

the past twenty-five years countless volunteers, employees and<br />

donors have honored our founders and their original vision by<br />

helping to strengthen and expand the invaluable services that <strong>Family</strong><br />

Network continues to provide to so many families in the community.<br />

This past November, <strong>Family</strong> Network directly honored its founders<br />

at our annual book review luncheon. I was especially honored to<br />

meet the seven founders who were able to attend. We who have<br />

benefited from the services of <strong>Family</strong> Network should thank them for<br />

their vision, commitment, and dedication to making that seed of an<br />

idea a reality that continues to grow and serve increasing numbers<br />

of families twenty-five years later.<br />

In further celebration of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s twenty-five years, the<br />

<strong>2008</strong> <strong>Spring</strong> Gala will be held on June 7th. Because of its previous<br />

successes, we will again be doing a food and wine pairing. We will<br />

honor Mayor Michael Belsky for his support of <strong>Family</strong> Network, both<br />

as a member of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s Advisory Committee for over five<br />

years and as Mayor of Highland Park. This year’s event will feature<br />

expertly paired food and wine, as always, and will include a dessert<br />

bar, live music, an ad book, and silent auction.<br />

As we begin looking forward to our next twenty-five years, I want<br />

to pause and say thank you, not only to our founders, who had an<br />

incredible vision, but also to all of you who continue to strengthen<br />

that vision through your many contributions. Lastly I wanted to<br />

acknowledge the departures of Sonia Swanson and Phyllis Segal<br />

from our Board. They both generously contributed many years of<br />

valuable service to the Board by volunteering countless hours to<br />

advancing the mission of <strong>Family</strong> Network. We wish them the best in<br />

the future and thank them for all their assistance on behalf of the<br />

Board and the children and families of <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />

— Kirsten Laurie, Co-President<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network Board of Directors<br />

Come on Board!<br />

If you are excited about <strong>Family</strong> Network and our mission of<br />

supporting and strengthening young children and families in our<br />

community, consider joining our Board where many opportunities<br />

exist to promote our agency and bolster our programs.<br />

The <strong>Family</strong> Network Board will be hosting an open house<br />

for prospective Board members on Tuesday May 13th from<br />

7-8:30 p.m. at the Lincolnshire Gourmet in Highland Park.<br />

Complementary soft drinks and appetizers will be served. Please<br />

RSVP by contacting Jordan Friedman at jordan.friedman@familyfocus.org<br />

or call (847) 433-0377 x. 302 by May 1st, <strong>2008</strong>.<br />

<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong> Contributors<br />

Carol Brusslan, Jane Glickman: Editorial Assistance<br />

Sonia Calles<br />

Nora Barquín, Terry Beem, Bertha Chavez, Patty Pell: photos<br />

Rosa D. Stefani: Kohl photo<br />

Please forward requests to discontinue receiving this newsletter to<br />

847/433-0377 x301 or familynetwork@family-focus.org.<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org


LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE<br />

Sabrina and Jack at FN’s annual parent-led fund-raiser at the Kohl<br />

Children’s Museum. With a record-breaking attendance of 271<br />

people, this year’s Box Office Bash raised almost $15,000 for the<br />

Drop-In program - the most successful fund-raiser in the history of<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network’s Kohl event.<br />

(Continued from cover)<br />

LINKING FAMILIES...<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network was a place to connect with other moms in the<br />

trenches. I remember the passionate talks in the Parent Room about<br />

topics like sleeping and breast feeding. It was also where I connected<br />

with Jennifer Peters. She played the violin and piano and I played the<br />

flute. When our children were ready to play without us, we would go<br />

up to the church choir room to practice for concerts. We could be<br />

very focused because our children were right downstairs.<br />

- Cheryl Zavagno, 1989-95<br />

Last week I had coffee with a dear friend. As we swapped stories<br />

about shepherding our daughters through the murky waters of<br />

college applications, we realized that, over the years, we'd gone<br />

from commiserating over sleeping and toilet training to college<br />

applications and financial aid. The core of our friendship was<br />

formed at <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />

I donated the curtains that still adorn the rainbow room. I made<br />

those curtains for my first baby, Rachel, in 1990, and every time I<br />

come by <strong>Family</strong> Network, you can be sure I touch those curtains for<br />

a moment.<br />

I moved away in 1996, and when our son joined our family,<br />

his big sister Malia said that she wished we could live back in<br />

Chicago, because otherwise, David would never get to go to <strong>Family</strong><br />

"Neckwork". She was right, he never got to go. But I did, and every<br />

day I plopped on that couch was valuable and dear.<br />

- Anita Silvert,1992-95<br />

Director’s Column<br />

It’s been a wonderful year so far at <strong>Family</strong> Network. We started<br />

things off with a record turn out for our Book Review luncheon<br />

paying tribute to our founders. In January, we held our family<br />

friendly Box Office Bash fund-raiser at the Kohl Children’s Museum<br />

with another record turnout of 271 attendees. We are excited about<br />

our upcoming annual spring fund-raiser celebrating our 25th<br />

anniversary to be held on the evening of Saturday June 7th at the<br />

Highland Park Community House. Highland Park Mayor Michael<br />

Belsky will be honored as the recipient of the <strong>2008</strong> Martha Freeman<br />

Friend of The <strong>Family</strong> Award. Please hold the date for this special<br />

event to support our agency.<br />

This year we have been celebrating our past and embracing our<br />

future. We are excited about our updated logo that represents the<br />

diversity of our agency and the expansion of our services to families<br />

with older children. <strong>Family</strong> Network has always been a pioneering<br />

agency by being responsive to the needs of our participants and<br />

community. We continue to develop innovative programs to meet<br />

their needs.<br />

We couldn’t do it without you<br />

We are extremely grateful to have the support of our advisory<br />

Board members who commit so much of their time and energy<br />

to make <strong>Family</strong> Network what it is today. We are also indebted<br />

to our Advisory Committee and our volunteers for their numerous<br />

contributions to our programs. We also thank the Highland Park<br />

Presbyterian Church for providing our home in their beautiful facility<br />

for 25 years. Lastly we would like to thank all of the wonderful<br />

children and families that walk through our doors everyday. It’s a<br />

privilege to serve you and learn from you.<br />

— Jordan Friedman, MSW, LCSW<br />

Spread the Word<br />

5% Match Day<br />

Does your family enjoy Whole Foods? If so<br />

mark your calendars and make sure that<br />

you and your friends shop at the Deerfield<br />

Whole Foods on June 11th when they will generously be donating<br />

5% of their sales to <strong>Family</strong> Network. Thank you Whole Foods for<br />

supporting our agency!<br />

Although we have received substantial media<br />

coverage this year in the Chicago Tribune<br />

and Highland Park News, <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />

has always been a hidden jewel in the North<br />

Shore. Once discovered, families regularly<br />

tell us how they wish they had known about us sooner and how<br />

grateful they are that we’re here. We know that word of mouth is<br />

one of the more effective methods to let people know about our<br />

agency. If you feel that <strong>Family</strong> Network holds a special place for<br />

you and your family, please pass out our new referral cards, make a<br />

phone call, write a letter to the editor, help spread the word.<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />

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RFTS Notes<br />

Right From The Start (RFTS) proudly joins the celebration of the<br />

25th year anniversary of our agency as we continue to present more<br />

options to serve Latino families in the community.<br />

Our newest program is a fitness and nutrition after-school<br />

enrichment activity in collaboration with Oak Terrace School and<br />

our Fiesta Fitness instructors Pam Phillips and Cristina Persico. This<br />

new adventure started when moms with children older than 4 years<br />

began transitioning out of our program and were upset about having<br />

to give up all RFTS activities and groups. They asked, “When are<br />

you going to organize activities for older children?” We thought this<br />

was a great idea! In this way we can keep in touch with our alumni<br />

and also involve older siblings of our current participants. It is nice<br />

to be able to reach out to the whole family.<br />

While discussing our options and resources, Pam Phillips expressed<br />

an interest in working with school-aged children. I also knew that one<br />

of my staff has a special talent for communicating with children, and<br />

that she is very creative. By putting our heads together, we decided<br />

to implement this project. Research has shown that the incidence of<br />

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Gabriela with her 5 food groups craft project<br />

The Sewing Group<br />

Conceived as a vocational experience, creative<br />

outlet, and an opportunity to relieve the social<br />

isolation encountered by RFTS participant moms,<br />

the sewing group has undoubtedly succeeded.<br />

Led by Audrey Rosenheim (of the Art Center<br />

of Highland Park), participants recently devoted<br />

many hours to embroidering cartoon figures on<br />

pillows. Elizabeth Gonzalez, right, works on her<br />

latest project.<br />

Expanding Services To School- Aged Children<br />

Volunteer aerobics instructor Cristina Persico (center) leads eager<br />

Oak Terrace children in exercise.<br />

obesity in Latino youth is a significant public health concern that<br />

if left untreated can lead to diabetes or high blood pressure. This<br />

preventive program addresses these issues by teaching children<br />

about proper nutrition and diet while also providing students with<br />

a fun-filled aerobic workout in the school gym. We started with a<br />

pilot group for four weeks to see if it was successful….and it really<br />

was! Both students and their parents have been very receptive to this<br />

new after school program. We were expecting 24 children and 28<br />

signed up. We had a lot of fun and the children did too.<br />

We scheduled time for a healthy snack, 30 minutes of fitness, and<br />

30 minutes to review a nutrition topic and make a craft related to<br />

the topic to reinforce the idea. The fitness part was a combination of<br />

work-out routines, games, Latin dancing and yoga. The energy and<br />

happiness that these kids released was exhilarating. After the four<br />

sessions we have decided to offer a spring session in April.<br />

Special thanks to Mrs. Anderson, principal of Oak Terrace, for<br />

being open and supportive to our idea, and to Cristina Persico and<br />

Pam Phillips for their enthusiasm in working on this joint project. We<br />

are also very grateful to Pam, who has generously supported this<br />

project. We look forward to future collaborations with the district to<br />

expand offerings to Latino children.<br />

— Nora Barquin, PhD, MSW, Program Coordinator<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org


Wanna Play?<br />

HOURS<br />

SPRING DROP-IN HOuRS<br />

Tue – Fri 9:30-11:30 a.m.<br />

Drop-In Closed<br />

Mar 25-28 for <strong>Spring</strong> Break<br />

Friday, May 9 for Staff Inservice<br />

SuMMER HOuRS JuNE 24 - AuGuST 7<br />

Tuesday-Thursday 9:30-11:30 am<br />

Closed Aug 12 - Sep 5 for Summer Vacation<br />

PARENT MEETINGS<br />

April 4, May 2, June 6<br />

Fridays 10:00-11:00 am<br />

Mother’s Day Celebration<br />

Thursday, May 8 at 9:30-11:00 am<br />

Moms, grandmas, and friends are invited to <strong>Family</strong> Network’s 15th<br />

annual celebration of mothering. We will decorate our traditional<br />

fancy newspaper hats, followed by a bilingual concert featuring the<br />

multi-talented singer and musician Lia McCoo. Lia’s interactive performances<br />

are a delight for children of all ages! Chocolate treats<br />

and flowers for moms are included!<br />

Notes From the<br />

Parent/Child Center<br />

Despite this incredibly long, cold winter, the drop-in center has<br />

been warm and busy. A new mother (with a 7 week old infant) who<br />

recently began coming to morning Drop-In told me, “I’m willing<br />

to cope with the cold and snow, knowing that I will find a warm<br />

welcome and a wonderful group of women at <strong>Family</strong> Network. I’m<br />

so glad I found you!”<br />

As <strong>Family</strong> Network celebrates its silver anniversary this year, I am<br />

more than ever aware of the strong network of relationships which<br />

have made it possible for our center to survive, grow and develop<br />

over the past 25 years. In my ten years as Program Coordinator, I<br />

have had the privilege of knowing many of our founders, and of<br />

working closely with many dedicated Board members, teachers and<br />

volunteers.<br />

Sandy Incorvia, the very first drop-in teacher (whose reflections<br />

grace the front page of this newsletter), is still very much involved as<br />

a volunteer in our programs. Gerry Kriser, a former Board member,<br />

has volunteered on Thursdays since the Dual Language Program<br />

began. Another former Board member, Lois Kupritz, contributes her<br />

empathy and expertise regularly as a speaker in the Parent Room.<br />

Carol Brusslan has been a teacher in the Sunshine Room for 16<br />

years, and often contributes her journalistic talents to the <strong>Family</strong><br />

<strong>Networker</strong>.<br />

After her retirement as a preschool teacher, Helga Schrimmer<br />

began volunteering in the drop-in, and now has been a Rainbow<br />

Room teacher for over 10 years. Jane Glickman and Cathleen<br />

Hamili, who first came to <strong>Family</strong> Network with their own small<br />

children, are now drop-in staff members who bring a special<br />

understanding to their work with families.<br />

Several parents who first came to the Baby & Me Room with small<br />

infants are now Board members, contributing their time and energy<br />

to make it possible for another generation of families to benefit<br />

from the Parent/Child Center. Others spread the word about our<br />

programs and advocate for us in the community. Many thanks to all<br />

of you for all you do to support <strong>Family</strong> Network, so we can continue<br />

to support families for 25 more years!<br />

I would like to particularly acknowledge and welcome three<br />

wonderful new volunteers who have become an important part of<br />

the morning drop-in program during the past year. Every Tuesday,<br />

Lois Levy’s warm smile greets children and parents at the front desk.<br />

On Dual Language Thursdays, Sallyan Windt and Holly Reinsdorf<br />

bring their unique energy and talents to the Sunshine and Rainbow<br />

Room children. Muchas gracias!<br />

Finally, I want to thank FN alum and Board member Michelle<br />

Holleman and graphic designer Mary Cary for their excellent work<br />

on our new brochure. This long-awaited project was made possible<br />

by the generous donations to <strong>Family</strong> Network in memory of Marisa<br />

Ness, and we are very proud to be able to distribute the brochures<br />

in the community. If you would like a copy of the new brochure,<br />

they are available at the center or by contacting me anytime.<br />

— Terry Beem, MEd, Program Coordinator<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />

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PARENT/CHILD CENTER CALENDAR<br />

PARENT EDUCATION SPEAKERS Programs are free and are held from 10:00 - 11:15 a.m.<br />

TuESDAy, APRIL 8 - BABy & ME PROGRAM<br />

“Getting your Baby to Like Tummy Time”<br />

Putting babies to sleep on their backs has reduced Sudden Infant Death<br />

by 48%. But doctors and others are concerned that many babies are<br />

not developing as they should because they are on their backs and in<br />

car seats too long. Adrienne Glazov, a Feldenkrais practitioner for 10<br />

years, will demonstrate and discuss ways to get your baby to like tummy<br />

time while he/she is awake, and how to help your baby develop strong,<br />

coordinated movement. Bring your baby!<br />

WEDNESDAy, APRIL 16<br />

“Financial Strategies with your Children in Mind”<br />

Now that tax time is past, many of us are thinking about doing some<br />

better planning for the future. Ron Bernstein, financial advisor at GCG<br />

Financial, Inc., will discuss strategies that will help you plan for your<br />

children’s education and future security.<br />

TuESDAy, APRIL 22<br />

“Healthy Eating for young Children”<br />

young children are notoriously picky eaters, and getting them to eat a<br />

healthy diet can seem impossible at times. Join FN parent Mark Severance,<br />

DC, for tips and demonstrations of healthy foods that your kids<br />

will love – and bring your own suggestions, too! Mark sees adults and<br />

children at Healing Touch Therapies in Lake Bluff.<br />

WEDNESDAy, APRIL 30 - COFFEE TALK SERIES<br />

“The Impact of Motherhood on your Self Image”<br />

In response to parent requests, <strong>Family</strong> Network social worker Ruth Field,<br />

LCSW, will lead a discussion of the changes in sense of self which inevitably<br />

occur as a result of motherhood. Participants are encouraged to<br />

share their strategies for keeping their minds alive!<br />

TuESDAy, MAy 6<br />

Massage for Moms (and Dads & Caregivers, too)<br />

Don’t miss this annual pre-Mother’s Day treat! Ten minute “stress buster”<br />

chair and table massages will be offered during morning drop-in<br />

hours. Please sign up in advance to reserve your time between 9:30 –<br />

11:30 a.m. Wear comfortable clothes and prepare to relax!<br />

SPECIAL EVENTS<br />

“SPRING THINGS” FAMILy FuN WORKSHOP<br />

SATuRDAy, APRIL 12<br />

10:00-11:30 a.m.<br />

Explore nature, wind, and water in this interactive workshop! Make<br />

kites, wind socks, and bird puppets with nature educator Mila Love. Try<br />

novel paper airplane experiments with Ralph Brock, FN’s “Mr. Wizard”<br />

and ASAP site coordinator. For the youngest participants, water play and<br />

bubbles will be supervised by <strong>Family</strong> Network staff. $15 per family.<br />

SHARING TRADITIONS<br />

10:00-11:30 a.m.<br />

Monthly opportunity to share a tradition (or favorite hobby or craft) with<br />

other parents on Thursday Dual Language mornings – everyone is encouraged<br />

to contribute! Please contact Terry Beem to volunteer.<br />

THuRSDAy, APRIL 17 - PASSOvER TRADITIONS<br />

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TuESDAy, MAy 13<br />

“Grandparents, Parents, and Grandchildren”<br />

When we become parents, our relationships with our parents can<br />

change dramatically as they become grandparents to our children. Join<br />

Lois Kupritz, M.A., for a discussion of the expectations, disappointments,<br />

and delights of these new relationships. Lois is an Early Childhood Specialist<br />

and FN volunteer and Advisory Committee member.<br />

WEDNESDAy, MAy 21<br />

BABy & ME ROOM PROGRAM<br />

“Infant Massage Workshop”<br />

Jennifer Netzky, LCSW, Licensed Massage Therapist, will demonstrate<br />

techniques to relax and soothe your baby, deepen bonding, and improve<br />

communication and overall development. Jennifer, founder of<br />

Supporting Hands, provides mindful bodywork for children and families,<br />

as well as doula services.<br />

FRIDAy, MAy 30<br />

“Help! Will My Child Ever Be Out of Diapers!”<br />

Join Arlene Handler, RN, Developmental Specialist, for a practical discussion<br />

of this important (and challenging!) developmental step. Arlene<br />

will discuss readiness, techniques, and what to do when problems arise.<br />

Bring your questions!<br />

WEDNESDAy, JuNE 4<br />

“understanding Sibling Relationships”<br />

Issues between siblings can be some of the most challenging that parents<br />

face, especially since our own expectations and responses are<br />

often based on our experiences in our family of origin. Join Cheryl<br />

Schultz, LCSW, for an informal exploration of these complex relationships.<br />

Cheryl was FN’s social worker for 6 years, and currently has a<br />

private practice with children, adults, and couples in Highland Park.<br />

FRIDAy, JuNE 13 - COFFEE TALK SERIES<br />

“Successful Outings with young Children”<br />

Join <strong>Family</strong> Network social worker Ruth Field, LCSW, for an informal<br />

discussion of places to go and things to do – and how to make these<br />

activities work for your own family! Please bring your own suggestions<br />

to share with other parents.<br />

SPRING FAMILy NIGHT<br />

WEDNESDAy, APRIL 30<br />

6:00-7:30 p.m.<br />

The whole family is welcome for pizza, salad, beverages and dessert in<br />

the gym, followed by playtime in the children’s rooms. Don’t miss this<br />

opportunity to meet other FN parents and enjoy informal play with your<br />

child. $10 for one adult, $15 for 2 adults, kids are free!<br />

4TH OF JuLy PARADE<br />

FRIDAy, JuLy 4, <strong>2008</strong><br />

Celebrating Our 25th Anniversary – families from past & present will<br />

march together in the Highland Park 4th of July parade!!! (details TBA)<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org


RIGHT FROM THE START CALENDAR<br />

PARENT EDUCATION SPEAKERS<br />

MARCH 25, APRIL 29, MAy 20<br />

“Storytime”<br />

Melanie Getto, Highland Park Public Library<br />

APRIL 1<br />

“The Real Situation of Immigrants to Illinois”<br />

Ricardo Rosas, Coalition for Immigrants & Refugees<br />

APRIL 8<br />

“Services Offered by the Health Clinic of Highland Park”<br />

Erin McLean, Health Clinic of Highland Park<br />

APRIL 15<br />

“Women’s Health”<br />

Carmen Nieto, YWCA<br />

APRIL 22<br />

“Preventing Drug Abuse By your Children”<br />

Detective Joe Costabel, Highland Park Police Department<br />

MAy 13<br />

“How Speech Therapy Can Help”<br />

Cristi Kasian, Early Intervention<br />

MAy 27<br />

“Nutritios Foods For Children”<br />

Dale Kehr, University of Illinois Extension Program<br />

MAy 13<br />

“Diabetes Prevention”<br />

Isa Carani, Lake County Health Department<br />

JuNE 10<br />

“How to Talk to your Child About Personal Safety”<br />

Georgia Vasquez, La Casa<br />

THE FACES OF FAMILY NETWORK<br />

... drumming at ASAP...<br />

... at the RFTS Christmas Party...<br />

Community <strong>Family</strong> Center Update<br />

In the Fall 2007 issue of the <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>, we reported on<br />

the development of the Community <strong>Family</strong> Center (CFC). Currently<br />

a site for this facility in Southwest Highland Park is being considered<br />

for lease by North Shore School District #112 (not donated as<br />

was previously reported) and could possibly be voted on at their<br />

meeting in April. To date, there have been two public open meetings<br />

offered by the CFC regarding this particular location. It should be<br />

GROUPS<br />

MONDAyS<br />

Jewelry-making 9:30-11:30 am<br />

Toddler Play 10:00-11:00 am<br />

Fiesta Fitness 1:30-2:30 pm<br />

TuESDAyS<br />

School Readiness 12:15-1:30 pm<br />

Parent Education 12:00-1:15 pm<br />

Sewing Class 1:15-2:30 pm<br />

Prenatal Education 5:00-7:00 pm<br />

WEDNESDAyS<br />

ESL Classes 12:00-2:30 pm<br />

Couples Group 6:00-8:00 pm<br />

THuRSDAyS<br />

Mi Bebé Y Yo 10:00-11:00 am<br />

Nutrition 12:45-1:30 pm<br />

Fiesta Fitness 1:30-2:30 pm<br />

yoga 1:30-2:30 pm<br />

FRIDAyS<br />

Music & Movement 9:30-10:30 am<br />

ESL Classes 12:00-2:30 pm<br />

SPECIAL EVENTS<br />

April 26 Day of the Child Celebration<br />

May 8 Mother’s Day Celebration<br />

June - TBA Summer Picnic<br />

... at Saturday’s Winter <strong>Family</strong> Fun.<br />

clarified that neither the NSSD#112 nor the City of Highland Park<br />

have voted on or approved the use of this proposed location. We<br />

encourage <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>s to attend upcoming meetings to show<br />

their support for this wonderful facility that will be a significant asset<br />

for the entire community. Further information and updates from the<br />

CFC can be found at www.communityfamilycenter.org.<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />

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ASAP Notes<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network’s 25th year, and the After School Activity Program’s<br />

fourth, has been a busy one. Before winter break, both sites held<br />

canned food drives. Each classroom made posters, and flyers were<br />

sent out to ASAP families. Everyone did a great job! We were able<br />

to deliver a mini-van full of canned goods and other non-perishable<br />

food items to the Moraine Township Food Pantry.<br />

The addition of a second classroom and extra staff at Wayne<br />

Thomas has allowed for new, creative programming. On Fridays, the<br />

classes are combined and divided into thirds. Each group attends<br />

one of three workshops planned and presented by our staff. Groups<br />

rotate so each group eventually attends each workshop. The children<br />

have participated in Play-doh making, learning Chinese calligraphy,<br />

a presentation on American Indians, yoga, group games, and team<br />

building activities.<br />

Our Indian Trail classroom has been busy as well. Our creative<br />

staff has engaged the children in many projects, including making<br />

butterfly and owl Mardi Gras masks from egg cartons and colorful<br />

scratch art. unique “pinch pot” animals were crafted from clay,<br />

painted and fired in a kiln, and children tried their hand at hand<br />

print paintings. Active time in the gym has included lots of kick ball,<br />

and, most recently, some spirited balloon relay races. There have<br />

even been a few foam and yarn snowball fights in the classroom.<br />

The eight full days we’ve had thus far have included celebrations<br />

of National Popcorn Day, the anniversary of basketball, and Mardi<br />

Gras. Thanks to the Trillium Foundation, the children have been<br />

exposed to a variety of workshops presented by local artists from<br />

urban Gateways. Most recently, Amy Lowe, a singer-songwriter,<br />

worked with the kids to write their own song and make of collage<br />

representing the main character in the song. John Knecht, a<br />

percussionist, took the ASAP kids on a singing, drumming and<br />

dancing “trip” to West Africa, Japan, the Middle East, Indian, Brazil<br />

Educators of Tomorrow<br />

Ricky & EOT member Jessica Faus work on reading skills.<br />

Dress-up fun at Wayne Thomas.<br />

and the u.S.<br />

Staff and kids alike are looking forward to spring and getting<br />

outside again. In the meantime, we continue to enjoy the imaginative<br />

activities presented by the staff, with some free time and a little<br />

homework on the side!<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network warmly welcomes the military families moving<br />

to Fort Sheridan. Once the School Board accepted the proposed<br />

plan, we began to investigate the most feasible location for the<br />

Wayne Thomas ASAP classes for the <strong>2008</strong>-2009 school year. We<br />

appreciate the efforts of Dr. Hager, Maureen Deely, principal of<br />

Wayne Thomas, and Sandy Anderson, principal of Oak Terrace.<br />

unforeseen changes for District 112 could result in a move for either<br />

ASAP site at any time, but we’re thrilled that we will continue to<br />

have two ASAP classrooms in north Highland Park, either at Wayne<br />

Thomas or at Oak Terrace.<br />

We’re grateful to Superintendent Maureen Hager and District<br />

112 for their steadfast support of our program by providing it with<br />

a home in their schools.<br />

— Bobbie Hinden, MEd, Program Director<br />

The Educators of Tomorrow (EOT) is a Highland Park High School<br />

club for students interested in working with children. For the third<br />

consecutive year, this club has provided volunteers to help out in<br />

our ASAP classrooms.<br />

EOT members volunteer at both our Wayne Thomas and Indian<br />

Trail sites. For as many as three days per week, most of them function<br />

as aides, helping wherever they’re needed. The ASAP students look<br />

forward to having them in the classrooms; homework is much more<br />

fun with a high school student than it is with a teacher!!<br />

Once a week, club presidents Lillian Prueher and Isabelle<br />

Dienstag present a lesson on a foreign country. using maps and<br />

pictures, Lillian and Isabelle talk about what makes each country<br />

special: its culture, beliefs and landmarks. They encourage other<br />

EOT members to introduce topics of their own choice to the ASAP<br />

kids.<br />

ASAP is eternally grateful to the volunteers for making time in<br />

their busy schedules to spend an hour each week with us. We look<br />

forward to a long-lasting relationship. Thank you to all of you!<br />

8 <strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org


Tribute Cards<br />

Tributes provide an opportunity to honor loved ones. Please<br />

call the office (847/433-0377) for details.<br />

In Memory Of<br />

Joan Blane<br />

Jack Blane<br />

Rudy Blumberg<br />

Esther & Ron Emmerman<br />

Beki & Bill Kaufman<br />

Robert Buhai<br />

Judy & Edward Ex<br />

Martha Freeman<br />

Michele Colice- Caldwell<br />

Clayton Struve<br />

Theresa Incorvia<br />

Judith & Albert Simon<br />

Richard L. Adis<br />

Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />

Eric Ephraim<br />

Mrs. Sylvia Ephraim<br />

The <strong>Family</strong> Network Founders<br />

Angela & Marc Levenstein<br />

Judy Ex<br />

Pam & Charles Ex<br />

Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />

Nancy & Alan Goldberg<br />

Bobbie Hinden<br />

Florence & Joshua Hinden<br />

Leslie Larson & Donald Katz<br />

Sandy Incorvia<br />

Berna Huebner<br />

William Kaufman<br />

Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />

Geri Krasner<br />

Idelle Kaplan<br />

Sylvia Krasner<br />

Andrea & Gerald Whitman<br />

In Honor Of<br />

Ely Liebow<br />

Phoebe Liebow<br />

Anna Smith Miller<br />

Carol Smith<br />

Arlene Miller<br />

Alan Miller<br />

Marisa Landa Ness<br />

Lee Ann & Dane Delli<br />

Karen & Eric Falberg<br />

Alfred Oestrich<br />

Helga & Harry Miller<br />

Sandi Weinberg<br />

Donna & James Gottlieb<br />

Carolyn S. Kaufman-Bancroft<br />

Kirsten & Michael Laurie<br />

Lisa & Jeff Trotter<br />

Helga Schrimmer<br />

Adele Wallerstein<br />

Patty Pell<br />

Mary & Bruce Goodman<br />

Phyllis Siegel<br />

Robert E. Abbott<br />

Marilyn Straus<br />

Anne Flannigan-Bassi<br />

Sonia Swanson<br />

Joyce Abrams<br />

Christine & William Erenberg<br />

Gail & Eugene Friedman<br />

Arlene & Clarence Turek<br />

Carol Vix<br />

Caryn Platt Tatelli<br />

Eva & Arthur Helwing<br />

Thanks to...<br />

The Highland Park Presbyterian Church for providing our home.<br />

Marisa Ozburn, chairperson of the Box Office Bash committee.<br />

Patty Pell for Mexican art, photography, and plumbing fixtures!<br />

Sallyan Windt for our new digital camera.<br />

Pam Phillips for her generous support of the RFTS<br />

Sandy Incorvia for photo montage & Valentine’s Day balloons.<br />

Anita Silvert for Valentine’s Day concert.<br />

Bryna Gamson for editing the winter drop-in newsletter.<br />

Dr. Maureen Hager and District 112 principals Maureen Deely,<br />

Sandy Anderson and Alison Gordon for their support of the ASAP<br />

program.<br />

Harriet Gilman, from the Highland Park Public Library, for her<br />

monthly visits to each ASAP classroom.<br />

Mary Jo Papich, chair of the HPHS Fine Arts department, Dr.<br />

James Hile, HPHS Band Director, and the HPHS jazz combo for<br />

performing at ASAP <strong>Family</strong> Nights.<br />

Claire Pouskey for donating children’s books received at her<br />

birthday party.<br />

Maya Behn for volunteering for Saturday’s Winter <strong>Family</strong> Fun.<br />

Stash’s for generous discount on food for the Single Parent Group.<br />

Great Harvest, Once upon a Bagel, & Sunset Foods, for donating<br />

baked goods.<br />

Piero’s Pizza for discount on pizza for <strong>Family</strong> Nights, ASAP and the<br />

Single Parent Group.<br />

Highland Park Cultural Arts Commission for funding the Joel<br />

Frankel concert and performances by favorite Gabriel Orajel.<br />

Trillium Foundation for support of Single Parent Group and<br />

ongoing ASAP support.<br />

Educators of Tomorrow Club at Highland Park High School.<br />

North Shore School District #113 for ESL teachers and staff.<br />

The Art Center of Highland Park for RFTS group collaborations.<br />

Our office and program volunteers.<br />

The families who donated Cheerios and toys.<br />

Drop-In Wish List<br />

è Dehumidifiers for children’s rooms<br />

è Handy person for drop-in repairs<br />

è Cheerios & diapers<br />

Many thanks to the sponsors of the <strong>Spring</strong> <strong>2008</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>:<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />

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OUR MISSION<br />

To promote the well-being of children from<br />

birth by supporting and strengthening their<br />

families in and with their communities.<br />

A Unique Baby Shower or<br />

New Baby Gift<br />

Give the gift that keeps on giving:<br />

Gift Pass to <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />

3 visits for $30<br />

Available at the front desk or by phone (847/433-<br />

0377). Credit card orders welcome.<br />

PLAY-DOUGH LOVE<br />

SAVE THE DATE<br />

25th Aniversary <strong>Spring</strong> Gala<br />

June 7, <strong>2008</strong> 6:00 - 9:30 pm<br />

On Saturday, June 7th, at 6:00 pm, <strong>Family</strong> Network’s<br />

Board will host its Annual <strong>Spring</strong> Gala at the<br />

Highland Park Community House. <strong>Family</strong> Network is<br />

pleased to honor Highland Park Mayor Michael Belsky<br />

(also a <strong>Family</strong> Network Advisory Committee member) for<br />

his many years of generously supporting <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />

This event will feature spectacular wines perfectly paired<br />

with foods from local restaurants, including a dessert bar,<br />

live music, and silent auction.<br />

Tickets cost $100.00 per person, and are<br />

available in advance or at the door.<br />

Please call 847/433-0377 for reservations<br />

and additional information.<br />

<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org

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