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LINKING FAMILIES...<br />
BUILDING COMMUNITY<br />
In the last issue of <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>, we began our 25th<br />
Anniversary celebration with memories from several of our original<br />
founders. This spring, we focus on the beginnings of <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />
from the perspectives of one of our first teachers and others involved<br />
in the early years of the drop-in center.<br />
One Teacher’s Reflections<br />
Picture a basement room with a dark brown linoleum floor,<br />
covered by a 10 x 12 foot rug, with a row of windows near the<br />
ceiling. The room is divided in half by a bookcase stocked with<br />
simple toys, stuffed animals, and blocks. On one side, a two year<br />
old is building a tower of blocks. Next to him, a three year old<br />
is feeding her toy bunny. On the other side of the bookcase are<br />
two couches and a rocking chair. A young mother is rocking her<br />
baby to sleep. Two other mothers are chatting with a white haired<br />
woman in her 70s whose warm smile and welcoming manner feel<br />
like comfortable family. As she listens and responds she is knitting<br />
a cozy afghan.<br />
This is a snapshot of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s beginnings. Martha Struve<br />
Freeman always reminded friends that <strong>Family</strong> Network was born on<br />
her birthday, opening its doors on January 3, 1983. Martha had<br />
recently retired as the director of Highland Park Community Nursery<br />
School, and she knew that moms with children too young for<br />
preschool needed a place to go. Martha and the original teachers<br />
- I among them - volunteered their time as the drop-in was offered<br />
two mornings a week.<br />
Before long, the one room program expanded to accommodate<br />
a growing number of families. Toddlers and preschoolers were<br />
separated into two rooms to suit their different needs, and a room<br />
was set up where parents could be together when their children<br />
were ready to play on their own with a teacher nearby. Several years<br />
later, the Baby & Me Room was created so that mothers with babies<br />
could spend time in their own room with an infant specialist. Board<br />
members and parents worked together to renovate the basement<br />
rooms which were generously provided by the Highland Park<br />
Presbyterian Church.<br />
Although <strong>Family</strong> Network has grown over the years to incorporate<br />
Right From The Start and the After School Activity Program, we<br />
continue to be responsive to the needs of our children and families<br />
and our community. Today, the <strong>Family</strong> Network Parent/Child Center<br />
is still a warm, welcoming place that feels like comfortable family,<br />
just as it did when Martha Freeman sat with mothers and their<br />
children in that first room in 1983!<br />
- Sandy Incorvia, 1983-present<br />
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<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong><br />
spring <strong>2008</strong><br />
Sandy Incorvia with some of the first <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>s in the<br />
original Carousel Room.<br />
Parents Remember<br />
As soon as I moved to Highland Park, in April of 1983, I started<br />
going to <strong>Family</strong> Network. I had been taking my three-year-old to<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Focus in Evanston and was pregnant with our second child. I<br />
was thrilled because this was a way to meet other mothers of small<br />
children in Highland Park. Martha was a welcoming soul and the<br />
program provided answers about child rearing.<br />
A number of us had been so busy with our careers that we hadn’t<br />
given much thought to what to do about being a mother. There<br />
were deep discussions in the Mothers’ Room about careers. We felt<br />
conflicted because we didn’t want to let those down who had made<br />
it possible to get the education we needed for our careers. When<br />
I was Board president in 1989, I wrote a column, “We all have to<br />
make decisions.” I still see several friends I met at <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />
- Jean Meier, 1983-90<br />
Janet Freund met me at Highland Park Hospital, where she had<br />
started an infant-toddler program to help new mothers. Since I had<br />
no family here, Janet suggested that I come to <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />
Martha was an angel and I got so much out of the program. I also<br />
served as board president for three years starting in 1990.<br />
- Chana Anderson, 1985-93<br />
As a first socialization experience in a classroom setting <strong>Family</strong><br />
Network set the stage for successful, caring, confident future<br />
students. My 20 and 22-year-old children are now independent,<br />
responsible adults—thanks, in part, to this invaluable experience.<br />
- Jill Hurwitz,1987-92<br />
(Continued on p. 3)<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org
<strong>Family</strong> Network<br />
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JORDAN FRIEDMAN, Center Director<br />
SONIA CALLES, Office Manager<br />
RODICA SERA, Custodian<br />
PARENT/CHILD CENTER<br />
TERRY BEEM, Program Coordinator<br />
CAROL BRUSSLAN, Teacher<br />
RUTH FIELD, Social Worker<br />
JANE GLICKMAN, Teacher<br />
BARBARA GARLAND, Baby & Me Facilitator<br />
SUSAN GROSSMAN, Outreach Associate<br />
CATHLEEN HAMILI, Baby & Me Facilitator<br />
PATTY PELL, Teacher<br />
HELGA SCHRIMMER, Teacher<br />
RIGHT FROM THE START<br />
NORA BARQUIN, Program Coordinator<br />
DINORA ARIAS, Van Driver/Child Care Worker<br />
MARILÚ BETANCOURT,, Child Care Worker<br />
BERTHA CHÁVEZ, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />
LUISA ESPINOSA-LARA, Office Administrator<br />
ALEJANDRA MARTINEZ, Child Care Worker<br />
LUCRECIA SORUCO, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />
LUZ MARIA VEGA, Child Care Worker<br />
LISA WISNIEWSKI, <strong>Family</strong> Support Worker<br />
AFTER SCHOOL ACTIVITY PROGRAM<br />
BOBBIE HINDEN, ASAP Director<br />
RALPH BROCK, Wayne Thomas Coordinator<br />
LILY CHAN, Teacher<br />
KAYLEE LONGEST, Teacher<br />
BRENDA RAMIREZ, Teacher<br />
ELVA VELEZ, Teacher<br />
MELISA LARSON, Indian Trail Coordinator<br />
JENNIFER KLEIN, Teacher<br />
ELAINE HERTZ LONDON, Teacher<br />
BOARD OF DIRECTORS<br />
KIRSTEN LAURIE, Co-President<br />
MARISA OZBURN, Co-President<br />
ERIC EPHRAIM, CPA Treasurer<br />
KATHLEEN SHEA-URBAT, Secretary<br />
BLAIR BRENNER<br />
ALICIA DE LA CRUZ<br />
GAIL TULER FRIEDMAN<br />
MICHELLE HOLLEMAN<br />
EDWARD KAUFMAN<br />
EDNA RACHAL<br />
TRACY SEGAL<br />
CARYN PLATT TATELLI<br />
JANET FREUND, President Emeritus<br />
MARTHA FREEMAN, Director Emeritus*<br />
* of fond memory<br />
ADVISORY COMMITTEE<br />
JUNE AIMEN<br />
IA BACKSTROM<br />
MICHAEL D. BELSKY<br />
JACK BLANE<br />
ESTHER EMMERMAN<br />
ARIE FRIEDMAN, MD<br />
PATRICIA GOODMAN<br />
GEOFFREY GROSSMAN<br />
DAVID HOFFMAN<br />
BILL KAUFMAN<br />
DOLORES KOHL KAPLAN<br />
GERRY KRISER<br />
LOIS KUPRITZ<br />
ANGELA LEVENSTEIN, PhD<br />
FRED MILLER, MD, PhD<br />
SANDRA RAIZES<br />
MICHAEL SIEGEL, MD<br />
MARILYN STRAUS<br />
BERT WELLER<br />
President’s Column<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network is now half way through its 25th year. Throughout<br />
the past twenty-five years countless volunteers, employees and<br />
donors have honored our founders and their original vision by<br />
helping to strengthen and expand the invaluable services that <strong>Family</strong><br />
Network continues to provide to so many families in the community.<br />
This past November, <strong>Family</strong> Network directly honored its founders<br />
at our annual book review luncheon. I was especially honored to<br />
meet the seven founders who were able to attend. We who have<br />
benefited from the services of <strong>Family</strong> Network should thank them for<br />
their vision, commitment, and dedication to making that seed of an<br />
idea a reality that continues to grow and serve increasing numbers<br />
of families twenty-five years later.<br />
In further celebration of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s twenty-five years, the<br />
<strong>2008</strong> <strong>Spring</strong> Gala will be held on June 7th. Because of its previous<br />
successes, we will again be doing a food and wine pairing. We will<br />
honor Mayor Michael Belsky for his support of <strong>Family</strong> Network, both<br />
as a member of <strong>Family</strong> Network’s Advisory Committee for over five<br />
years and as Mayor of Highland Park. This year’s event will feature<br />
expertly paired food and wine, as always, and will include a dessert<br />
bar, live music, an ad book, and silent auction.<br />
As we begin looking forward to our next twenty-five years, I want<br />
to pause and say thank you, not only to our founders, who had an<br />
incredible vision, but also to all of you who continue to strengthen<br />
that vision through your many contributions. Lastly I wanted to<br />
acknowledge the departures of Sonia Swanson and Phyllis Segal<br />
from our Board. They both generously contributed many years of<br />
valuable service to the Board by volunteering countless hours to<br />
advancing the mission of <strong>Family</strong> Network. We wish them the best in<br />
the future and thank them for all their assistance on behalf of the<br />
Board and the children and families of <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />
— Kirsten Laurie, Co-President<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network Board of Directors<br />
Come on Board!<br />
If you are excited about <strong>Family</strong> Network and our mission of<br />
supporting and strengthening young children and families in our<br />
community, consider joining our Board where many opportunities<br />
exist to promote our agency and bolster our programs.<br />
The <strong>Family</strong> Network Board will be hosting an open house<br />
for prospective Board members on Tuesday May 13th from<br />
7-8:30 p.m. at the Lincolnshire Gourmet in Highland Park.<br />
Complementary soft drinks and appetizers will be served. Please<br />
RSVP by contacting Jordan Friedman at jordan.friedman@familyfocus.org<br />
or call (847) 433-0377 x. 302 by May 1st, <strong>2008</strong>.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong> Contributors<br />
Carol Brusslan, Jane Glickman: Editorial Assistance<br />
Sonia Calles<br />
Nora Barquín, Terry Beem, Bertha Chavez, Patty Pell: photos<br />
Rosa D. Stefani: Kohl photo<br />
Please forward requests to discontinue receiving this newsletter to<br />
847/433-0377 x301 or familynetwork@family-focus.org.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org
LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE<br />
Sabrina and Jack at FN’s annual parent-led fund-raiser at the Kohl<br />
Children’s Museum. With a record-breaking attendance of 271<br />
people, this year’s Box Office Bash raised almost $15,000 for the<br />
Drop-In program - the most successful fund-raiser in the history of<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network’s Kohl event.<br />
(Continued from cover)<br />
LINKING FAMILIES...<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network was a place to connect with other moms in the<br />
trenches. I remember the passionate talks in the Parent Room about<br />
topics like sleeping and breast feeding. It was also where I connected<br />
with Jennifer Peters. She played the violin and piano and I played the<br />
flute. When our children were ready to play without us, we would go<br />
up to the church choir room to practice for concerts. We could be<br />
very focused because our children were right downstairs.<br />
- Cheryl Zavagno, 1989-95<br />
Last week I had coffee with a dear friend. As we swapped stories<br />
about shepherding our daughters through the murky waters of<br />
college applications, we realized that, over the years, we'd gone<br />
from commiserating over sleeping and toilet training to college<br />
applications and financial aid. The core of our friendship was<br />
formed at <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />
I donated the curtains that still adorn the rainbow room. I made<br />
those curtains for my first baby, Rachel, in 1990, and every time I<br />
come by <strong>Family</strong> Network, you can be sure I touch those curtains for<br />
a moment.<br />
I moved away in 1996, and when our son joined our family,<br />
his big sister Malia said that she wished we could live back in<br />
Chicago, because otherwise, David would never get to go to <strong>Family</strong><br />
"Neckwork". She was right, he never got to go. But I did, and every<br />
day I plopped on that couch was valuable and dear.<br />
- Anita Silvert,1992-95<br />
Director’s Column<br />
It’s been a wonderful year so far at <strong>Family</strong> Network. We started<br />
things off with a record turn out for our Book Review luncheon<br />
paying tribute to our founders. In January, we held our family<br />
friendly Box Office Bash fund-raiser at the Kohl Children’s Museum<br />
with another record turnout of 271 attendees. We are excited about<br />
our upcoming annual spring fund-raiser celebrating our 25th<br />
anniversary to be held on the evening of Saturday June 7th at the<br />
Highland Park Community House. Highland Park Mayor Michael<br />
Belsky will be honored as the recipient of the <strong>2008</strong> Martha Freeman<br />
Friend of The <strong>Family</strong> Award. Please hold the date for this special<br />
event to support our agency.<br />
This year we have been celebrating our past and embracing our<br />
future. We are excited about our updated logo that represents the<br />
diversity of our agency and the expansion of our services to families<br />
with older children. <strong>Family</strong> Network has always been a pioneering<br />
agency by being responsive to the needs of our participants and<br />
community. We continue to develop innovative programs to meet<br />
their needs.<br />
We couldn’t do it without you<br />
We are extremely grateful to have the support of our advisory<br />
Board members who commit so much of their time and energy<br />
to make <strong>Family</strong> Network what it is today. We are also indebted<br />
to our Advisory Committee and our volunteers for their numerous<br />
contributions to our programs. We also thank the Highland Park<br />
Presbyterian Church for providing our home in their beautiful facility<br />
for 25 years. Lastly we would like to thank all of the wonderful<br />
children and families that walk through our doors everyday. It’s a<br />
privilege to serve you and learn from you.<br />
— Jordan Friedman, MSW, LCSW<br />
Spread the Word<br />
5% Match Day<br />
Does your family enjoy Whole Foods? If so<br />
mark your calendars and make sure that<br />
you and your friends shop at the Deerfield<br />
Whole Foods on June 11th when they will generously be donating<br />
5% of their sales to <strong>Family</strong> Network. Thank you Whole Foods for<br />
supporting our agency!<br />
Although we have received substantial media<br />
coverage this year in the Chicago Tribune<br />
and Highland Park News, <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />
has always been a hidden jewel in the North<br />
Shore. Once discovered, families regularly<br />
tell us how they wish they had known about us sooner and how<br />
grateful they are that we’re here. We know that word of mouth is<br />
one of the more effective methods to let people know about our<br />
agency. If you feel that <strong>Family</strong> Network holds a special place for<br />
you and your family, please pass out our new referral cards, make a<br />
phone call, write a letter to the editor, help spread the word.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />
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RFTS Notes<br />
Right From The Start (RFTS) proudly joins the celebration of the<br />
25th year anniversary of our agency as we continue to present more<br />
options to serve Latino families in the community.<br />
Our newest program is a fitness and nutrition after-school<br />
enrichment activity in collaboration with Oak Terrace School and<br />
our Fiesta Fitness instructors Pam Phillips and Cristina Persico. This<br />
new adventure started when moms with children older than 4 years<br />
began transitioning out of our program and were upset about having<br />
to give up all RFTS activities and groups. They asked, “When are<br />
you going to organize activities for older children?” We thought this<br />
was a great idea! In this way we can keep in touch with our alumni<br />
and also involve older siblings of our current participants. It is nice<br />
to be able to reach out to the whole family.<br />
While discussing our options and resources, Pam Phillips expressed<br />
an interest in working with school-aged children. I also knew that one<br />
of my staff has a special talent for communicating with children, and<br />
that she is very creative. By putting our heads together, we decided<br />
to implement this project. Research has shown that the incidence of<br />
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Gabriela with her 5 food groups craft project<br />
The Sewing Group<br />
Conceived as a vocational experience, creative<br />
outlet, and an opportunity to relieve the social<br />
isolation encountered by RFTS participant moms,<br />
the sewing group has undoubtedly succeeded.<br />
Led by Audrey Rosenheim (of the Art Center<br />
of Highland Park), participants recently devoted<br />
many hours to embroidering cartoon figures on<br />
pillows. Elizabeth Gonzalez, right, works on her<br />
latest project.<br />
Expanding Services To School- Aged Children<br />
Volunteer aerobics instructor Cristina Persico (center) leads eager<br />
Oak Terrace children in exercise.<br />
obesity in Latino youth is a significant public health concern that<br />
if left untreated can lead to diabetes or high blood pressure. This<br />
preventive program addresses these issues by teaching children<br />
about proper nutrition and diet while also providing students with<br />
a fun-filled aerobic workout in the school gym. We started with a<br />
pilot group for four weeks to see if it was successful….and it really<br />
was! Both students and their parents have been very receptive to this<br />
new after school program. We were expecting 24 children and 28<br />
signed up. We had a lot of fun and the children did too.<br />
We scheduled time for a healthy snack, 30 minutes of fitness, and<br />
30 minutes to review a nutrition topic and make a craft related to<br />
the topic to reinforce the idea. The fitness part was a combination of<br />
work-out routines, games, Latin dancing and yoga. The energy and<br />
happiness that these kids released was exhilarating. After the four<br />
sessions we have decided to offer a spring session in April.<br />
Special thanks to Mrs. Anderson, principal of Oak Terrace, for<br />
being open and supportive to our idea, and to Cristina Persico and<br />
Pam Phillips for their enthusiasm in working on this joint project. We<br />
are also very grateful to Pam, who has generously supported this<br />
project. We look forward to future collaborations with the district to<br />
expand offerings to Latino children.<br />
— Nora Barquin, PhD, MSW, Program Coordinator<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org
Wanna Play?<br />
HOURS<br />
SPRING DROP-IN HOuRS<br />
Tue – Fri 9:30-11:30 a.m.<br />
Drop-In Closed<br />
Mar 25-28 for <strong>Spring</strong> Break<br />
Friday, May 9 for Staff Inservice<br />
SuMMER HOuRS JuNE 24 - AuGuST 7<br />
Tuesday-Thursday 9:30-11:30 am<br />
Closed Aug 12 - Sep 5 for Summer Vacation<br />
PARENT MEETINGS<br />
April 4, May 2, June 6<br />
Fridays 10:00-11:00 am<br />
Mother’s Day Celebration<br />
Thursday, May 8 at 9:30-11:00 am<br />
Moms, grandmas, and friends are invited to <strong>Family</strong> Network’s 15th<br />
annual celebration of mothering. We will decorate our traditional<br />
fancy newspaper hats, followed by a bilingual concert featuring the<br />
multi-talented singer and musician Lia McCoo. Lia’s interactive performances<br />
are a delight for children of all ages! Chocolate treats<br />
and flowers for moms are included!<br />
Notes From the<br />
Parent/Child Center<br />
Despite this incredibly long, cold winter, the drop-in center has<br />
been warm and busy. A new mother (with a 7 week old infant) who<br />
recently began coming to morning Drop-In told me, “I’m willing<br />
to cope with the cold and snow, knowing that I will find a warm<br />
welcome and a wonderful group of women at <strong>Family</strong> Network. I’m<br />
so glad I found you!”<br />
As <strong>Family</strong> Network celebrates its silver anniversary this year, I am<br />
more than ever aware of the strong network of relationships which<br />
have made it possible for our center to survive, grow and develop<br />
over the past 25 years. In my ten years as Program Coordinator, I<br />
have had the privilege of knowing many of our founders, and of<br />
working closely with many dedicated Board members, teachers and<br />
volunteers.<br />
Sandy Incorvia, the very first drop-in teacher (whose reflections<br />
grace the front page of this newsletter), is still very much involved as<br />
a volunteer in our programs. Gerry Kriser, a former Board member,<br />
has volunteered on Thursdays since the Dual Language Program<br />
began. Another former Board member, Lois Kupritz, contributes her<br />
empathy and expertise regularly as a speaker in the Parent Room.<br />
Carol Brusslan has been a teacher in the Sunshine Room for 16<br />
years, and often contributes her journalistic talents to the <strong>Family</strong><br />
<strong>Networker</strong>.<br />
After her retirement as a preschool teacher, Helga Schrimmer<br />
began volunteering in the drop-in, and now has been a Rainbow<br />
Room teacher for over 10 years. Jane Glickman and Cathleen<br />
Hamili, who first came to <strong>Family</strong> Network with their own small<br />
children, are now drop-in staff members who bring a special<br />
understanding to their work with families.<br />
Several parents who first came to the Baby & Me Room with small<br />
infants are now Board members, contributing their time and energy<br />
to make it possible for another generation of families to benefit<br />
from the Parent/Child Center. Others spread the word about our<br />
programs and advocate for us in the community. Many thanks to all<br />
of you for all you do to support <strong>Family</strong> Network, so we can continue<br />
to support families for 25 more years!<br />
I would like to particularly acknowledge and welcome three<br />
wonderful new volunteers who have become an important part of<br />
the morning drop-in program during the past year. Every Tuesday,<br />
Lois Levy’s warm smile greets children and parents at the front desk.<br />
On Dual Language Thursdays, Sallyan Windt and Holly Reinsdorf<br />
bring their unique energy and talents to the Sunshine and Rainbow<br />
Room children. Muchas gracias!<br />
Finally, I want to thank FN alum and Board member Michelle<br />
Holleman and graphic designer Mary Cary for their excellent work<br />
on our new brochure. This long-awaited project was made possible<br />
by the generous donations to <strong>Family</strong> Network in memory of Marisa<br />
Ness, and we are very proud to be able to distribute the brochures<br />
in the community. If you would like a copy of the new brochure,<br />
they are available at the center or by contacting me anytime.<br />
— Terry Beem, MEd, Program Coordinator<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />
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PARENT/CHILD CENTER CALENDAR<br />
PARENT EDUCATION SPEAKERS Programs are free and are held from 10:00 - 11:15 a.m.<br />
TuESDAy, APRIL 8 - BABy & ME PROGRAM<br />
“Getting your Baby to Like Tummy Time”<br />
Putting babies to sleep on their backs has reduced Sudden Infant Death<br />
by 48%. But doctors and others are concerned that many babies are<br />
not developing as they should because they are on their backs and in<br />
car seats too long. Adrienne Glazov, a Feldenkrais practitioner for 10<br />
years, will demonstrate and discuss ways to get your baby to like tummy<br />
time while he/she is awake, and how to help your baby develop strong,<br />
coordinated movement. Bring your baby!<br />
WEDNESDAy, APRIL 16<br />
“Financial Strategies with your Children in Mind”<br />
Now that tax time is past, many of us are thinking about doing some<br />
better planning for the future. Ron Bernstein, financial advisor at GCG<br />
Financial, Inc., will discuss strategies that will help you plan for your<br />
children’s education and future security.<br />
TuESDAy, APRIL 22<br />
“Healthy Eating for young Children”<br />
young children are notoriously picky eaters, and getting them to eat a<br />
healthy diet can seem impossible at times. Join FN parent Mark Severance,<br />
DC, for tips and demonstrations of healthy foods that your kids<br />
will love – and bring your own suggestions, too! Mark sees adults and<br />
children at Healing Touch Therapies in Lake Bluff.<br />
WEDNESDAy, APRIL 30 - COFFEE TALK SERIES<br />
“The Impact of Motherhood on your Self Image”<br />
In response to parent requests, <strong>Family</strong> Network social worker Ruth Field,<br />
LCSW, will lead a discussion of the changes in sense of self which inevitably<br />
occur as a result of motherhood. Participants are encouraged to<br />
share their strategies for keeping their minds alive!<br />
TuESDAy, MAy 6<br />
Massage for Moms (and Dads & Caregivers, too)<br />
Don’t miss this annual pre-Mother’s Day treat! Ten minute “stress buster”<br />
chair and table massages will be offered during morning drop-in<br />
hours. Please sign up in advance to reserve your time between 9:30 –<br />
11:30 a.m. Wear comfortable clothes and prepare to relax!<br />
SPECIAL EVENTS<br />
“SPRING THINGS” FAMILy FuN WORKSHOP<br />
SATuRDAy, APRIL 12<br />
10:00-11:30 a.m.<br />
Explore nature, wind, and water in this interactive workshop! Make<br />
kites, wind socks, and bird puppets with nature educator Mila Love. Try<br />
novel paper airplane experiments with Ralph Brock, FN’s “Mr. Wizard”<br />
and ASAP site coordinator. For the youngest participants, water play and<br />
bubbles will be supervised by <strong>Family</strong> Network staff. $15 per family.<br />
SHARING TRADITIONS<br />
10:00-11:30 a.m.<br />
Monthly opportunity to share a tradition (or favorite hobby or craft) with<br />
other parents on Thursday Dual Language mornings – everyone is encouraged<br />
to contribute! Please contact Terry Beem to volunteer.<br />
THuRSDAy, APRIL 17 - PASSOvER TRADITIONS<br />
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TuESDAy, MAy 13<br />
“Grandparents, Parents, and Grandchildren”<br />
When we become parents, our relationships with our parents can<br />
change dramatically as they become grandparents to our children. Join<br />
Lois Kupritz, M.A., for a discussion of the expectations, disappointments,<br />
and delights of these new relationships. Lois is an Early Childhood Specialist<br />
and FN volunteer and Advisory Committee member.<br />
WEDNESDAy, MAy 21<br />
BABy & ME ROOM PROGRAM<br />
“Infant Massage Workshop”<br />
Jennifer Netzky, LCSW, Licensed Massage Therapist, will demonstrate<br />
techniques to relax and soothe your baby, deepen bonding, and improve<br />
communication and overall development. Jennifer, founder of<br />
Supporting Hands, provides mindful bodywork for children and families,<br />
as well as doula services.<br />
FRIDAy, MAy 30<br />
“Help! Will My Child Ever Be Out of Diapers!”<br />
Join Arlene Handler, RN, Developmental Specialist, for a practical discussion<br />
of this important (and challenging!) developmental step. Arlene<br />
will discuss readiness, techniques, and what to do when problems arise.<br />
Bring your questions!<br />
WEDNESDAy, JuNE 4<br />
“understanding Sibling Relationships”<br />
Issues between siblings can be some of the most challenging that parents<br />
face, especially since our own expectations and responses are<br />
often based on our experiences in our family of origin. Join Cheryl<br />
Schultz, LCSW, for an informal exploration of these complex relationships.<br />
Cheryl was FN’s social worker for 6 years, and currently has a<br />
private practice with children, adults, and couples in Highland Park.<br />
FRIDAy, JuNE 13 - COFFEE TALK SERIES<br />
“Successful Outings with young Children”<br />
Join <strong>Family</strong> Network social worker Ruth Field, LCSW, for an informal<br />
discussion of places to go and things to do – and how to make these<br />
activities work for your own family! Please bring your own suggestions<br />
to share with other parents.<br />
SPRING FAMILy NIGHT<br />
WEDNESDAy, APRIL 30<br />
6:00-7:30 p.m.<br />
The whole family is welcome for pizza, salad, beverages and dessert in<br />
the gym, followed by playtime in the children’s rooms. Don’t miss this<br />
opportunity to meet other FN parents and enjoy informal play with your<br />
child. $10 for one adult, $15 for 2 adults, kids are free!<br />
4TH OF JuLy PARADE<br />
FRIDAy, JuLy 4, <strong>2008</strong><br />
Celebrating Our 25th Anniversary – families from past & present will<br />
march together in the Highland Park 4th of July parade!!! (details TBA)<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org
RIGHT FROM THE START CALENDAR<br />
PARENT EDUCATION SPEAKERS<br />
MARCH 25, APRIL 29, MAy 20<br />
“Storytime”<br />
Melanie Getto, Highland Park Public Library<br />
APRIL 1<br />
“The Real Situation of Immigrants to Illinois”<br />
Ricardo Rosas, Coalition for Immigrants & Refugees<br />
APRIL 8<br />
“Services Offered by the Health Clinic of Highland Park”<br />
Erin McLean, Health Clinic of Highland Park<br />
APRIL 15<br />
“Women’s Health”<br />
Carmen Nieto, YWCA<br />
APRIL 22<br />
“Preventing Drug Abuse By your Children”<br />
Detective Joe Costabel, Highland Park Police Department<br />
MAy 13<br />
“How Speech Therapy Can Help”<br />
Cristi Kasian, Early Intervention<br />
MAy 27<br />
“Nutritios Foods For Children”<br />
Dale Kehr, University of Illinois Extension Program<br />
MAy 13<br />
“Diabetes Prevention”<br />
Isa Carani, Lake County Health Department<br />
JuNE 10<br />
“How to Talk to your Child About Personal Safety”<br />
Georgia Vasquez, La Casa<br />
THE FACES OF FAMILY NETWORK<br />
... drumming at ASAP...<br />
... at the RFTS Christmas Party...<br />
Community <strong>Family</strong> Center Update<br />
In the Fall 2007 issue of the <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>, we reported on<br />
the development of the Community <strong>Family</strong> Center (CFC). Currently<br />
a site for this facility in Southwest Highland Park is being considered<br />
for lease by North Shore School District #112 (not donated as<br />
was previously reported) and could possibly be voted on at their<br />
meeting in April. To date, there have been two public open meetings<br />
offered by the CFC regarding this particular location. It should be<br />
GROUPS<br />
MONDAyS<br />
Jewelry-making 9:30-11:30 am<br />
Toddler Play 10:00-11:00 am<br />
Fiesta Fitness 1:30-2:30 pm<br />
TuESDAyS<br />
School Readiness 12:15-1:30 pm<br />
Parent Education 12:00-1:15 pm<br />
Sewing Class 1:15-2:30 pm<br />
Prenatal Education 5:00-7:00 pm<br />
WEDNESDAyS<br />
ESL Classes 12:00-2:30 pm<br />
Couples Group 6:00-8:00 pm<br />
THuRSDAyS<br />
Mi Bebé Y Yo 10:00-11:00 am<br />
Nutrition 12:45-1:30 pm<br />
Fiesta Fitness 1:30-2:30 pm<br />
yoga 1:30-2:30 pm<br />
FRIDAyS<br />
Music & Movement 9:30-10:30 am<br />
ESL Classes 12:00-2:30 pm<br />
SPECIAL EVENTS<br />
April 26 Day of the Child Celebration<br />
May 8 Mother’s Day Celebration<br />
June - TBA Summer Picnic<br />
... at Saturday’s Winter <strong>Family</strong> Fun.<br />
clarified that neither the NSSD#112 nor the City of Highland Park<br />
have voted on or approved the use of this proposed location. We<br />
encourage <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>s to attend upcoming meetings to show<br />
their support for this wonderful facility that will be a significant asset<br />
for the entire community. Further information and updates from the<br />
CFC can be found at www.communityfamilycenter.org.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />
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ASAP Notes<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network’s 25th year, and the After School Activity Program’s<br />
fourth, has been a busy one. Before winter break, both sites held<br />
canned food drives. Each classroom made posters, and flyers were<br />
sent out to ASAP families. Everyone did a great job! We were able<br />
to deliver a mini-van full of canned goods and other non-perishable<br />
food items to the Moraine Township Food Pantry.<br />
The addition of a second classroom and extra staff at Wayne<br />
Thomas has allowed for new, creative programming. On Fridays, the<br />
classes are combined and divided into thirds. Each group attends<br />
one of three workshops planned and presented by our staff. Groups<br />
rotate so each group eventually attends each workshop. The children<br />
have participated in Play-doh making, learning Chinese calligraphy,<br />
a presentation on American Indians, yoga, group games, and team<br />
building activities.<br />
Our Indian Trail classroom has been busy as well. Our creative<br />
staff has engaged the children in many projects, including making<br />
butterfly and owl Mardi Gras masks from egg cartons and colorful<br />
scratch art. unique “pinch pot” animals were crafted from clay,<br />
painted and fired in a kiln, and children tried their hand at hand<br />
print paintings. Active time in the gym has included lots of kick ball,<br />
and, most recently, some spirited balloon relay races. There have<br />
even been a few foam and yarn snowball fights in the classroom.<br />
The eight full days we’ve had thus far have included celebrations<br />
of National Popcorn Day, the anniversary of basketball, and Mardi<br />
Gras. Thanks to the Trillium Foundation, the children have been<br />
exposed to a variety of workshops presented by local artists from<br />
urban Gateways. Most recently, Amy Lowe, a singer-songwriter,<br />
worked with the kids to write their own song and make of collage<br />
representing the main character in the song. John Knecht, a<br />
percussionist, took the ASAP kids on a singing, drumming and<br />
dancing “trip” to West Africa, Japan, the Middle East, Indian, Brazil<br />
Educators of Tomorrow<br />
Ricky & EOT member Jessica Faus work on reading skills.<br />
Dress-up fun at Wayne Thomas.<br />
and the u.S.<br />
Staff and kids alike are looking forward to spring and getting<br />
outside again. In the meantime, we continue to enjoy the imaginative<br />
activities presented by the staff, with some free time and a little<br />
homework on the side!<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network warmly welcomes the military families moving<br />
to Fort Sheridan. Once the School Board accepted the proposed<br />
plan, we began to investigate the most feasible location for the<br />
Wayne Thomas ASAP classes for the <strong>2008</strong>-2009 school year. We<br />
appreciate the efforts of Dr. Hager, Maureen Deely, principal of<br />
Wayne Thomas, and Sandy Anderson, principal of Oak Terrace.<br />
unforeseen changes for District 112 could result in a move for either<br />
ASAP site at any time, but we’re thrilled that we will continue to<br />
have two ASAP classrooms in north Highland Park, either at Wayne<br />
Thomas or at Oak Terrace.<br />
We’re grateful to Superintendent Maureen Hager and District<br />
112 for their steadfast support of our program by providing it with<br />
a home in their schools.<br />
— Bobbie Hinden, MEd, Program Director<br />
The Educators of Tomorrow (EOT) is a Highland Park High School<br />
club for students interested in working with children. For the third<br />
consecutive year, this club has provided volunteers to help out in<br />
our ASAP classrooms.<br />
EOT members volunteer at both our Wayne Thomas and Indian<br />
Trail sites. For as many as three days per week, most of them function<br />
as aides, helping wherever they’re needed. The ASAP students look<br />
forward to having them in the classrooms; homework is much more<br />
fun with a high school student than it is with a teacher!!<br />
Once a week, club presidents Lillian Prueher and Isabelle<br />
Dienstag present a lesson on a foreign country. using maps and<br />
pictures, Lillian and Isabelle talk about what makes each country<br />
special: its culture, beliefs and landmarks. They encourage other<br />
EOT members to introduce topics of their own choice to the ASAP<br />
kids.<br />
ASAP is eternally grateful to the volunteers for making time in<br />
their busy schedules to spend an hour each week with us. We look<br />
forward to a long-lasting relationship. Thank you to all of you!<br />
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Tribute Cards<br />
Tributes provide an opportunity to honor loved ones. Please<br />
call the office (847/433-0377) for details.<br />
In Memory Of<br />
Joan Blane<br />
Jack Blane<br />
Rudy Blumberg<br />
Esther & Ron Emmerman<br />
Beki & Bill Kaufman<br />
Robert Buhai<br />
Judy & Edward Ex<br />
Martha Freeman<br />
Michele Colice- Caldwell<br />
Clayton Struve<br />
Theresa Incorvia<br />
Judith & Albert Simon<br />
Richard L. Adis<br />
Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />
Eric Ephraim<br />
Mrs. Sylvia Ephraim<br />
The <strong>Family</strong> Network Founders<br />
Angela & Marc Levenstein<br />
Judy Ex<br />
Pam & Charles Ex<br />
Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />
Nancy & Alan Goldberg<br />
Bobbie Hinden<br />
Florence & Joshua Hinden<br />
Leslie Larson & Donald Katz<br />
Sandy Incorvia<br />
Berna Huebner<br />
William Kaufman<br />
Susan & Geoffrey Grossman<br />
Geri Krasner<br />
Idelle Kaplan<br />
Sylvia Krasner<br />
Andrea & Gerald Whitman<br />
In Honor Of<br />
Ely Liebow<br />
Phoebe Liebow<br />
Anna Smith Miller<br />
Carol Smith<br />
Arlene Miller<br />
Alan Miller<br />
Marisa Landa Ness<br />
Lee Ann & Dane Delli<br />
Karen & Eric Falberg<br />
Alfred Oestrich<br />
Helga & Harry Miller<br />
Sandi Weinberg<br />
Donna & James Gottlieb<br />
Carolyn S. Kaufman-Bancroft<br />
Kirsten & Michael Laurie<br />
Lisa & Jeff Trotter<br />
Helga Schrimmer<br />
Adele Wallerstein<br />
Patty Pell<br />
Mary & Bruce Goodman<br />
Phyllis Siegel<br />
Robert E. Abbott<br />
Marilyn Straus<br />
Anne Flannigan-Bassi<br />
Sonia Swanson<br />
Joyce Abrams<br />
Christine & William Erenberg<br />
Gail & Eugene Friedman<br />
Arlene & Clarence Turek<br />
Carol Vix<br />
Caryn Platt Tatelli<br />
Eva & Arthur Helwing<br />
Thanks to...<br />
The Highland Park Presbyterian Church for providing our home.<br />
Marisa Ozburn, chairperson of the Box Office Bash committee.<br />
Patty Pell for Mexican art, photography, and plumbing fixtures!<br />
Sallyan Windt for our new digital camera.<br />
Pam Phillips for her generous support of the RFTS<br />
Sandy Incorvia for photo montage & Valentine’s Day balloons.<br />
Anita Silvert for Valentine’s Day concert.<br />
Bryna Gamson for editing the winter drop-in newsletter.<br />
Dr. Maureen Hager and District 112 principals Maureen Deely,<br />
Sandy Anderson and Alison Gordon for their support of the ASAP<br />
program.<br />
Harriet Gilman, from the Highland Park Public Library, for her<br />
monthly visits to each ASAP classroom.<br />
Mary Jo Papich, chair of the HPHS Fine Arts department, Dr.<br />
James Hile, HPHS Band Director, and the HPHS jazz combo for<br />
performing at ASAP <strong>Family</strong> Nights.<br />
Claire Pouskey for donating children’s books received at her<br />
birthday party.<br />
Maya Behn for volunteering for Saturday’s Winter <strong>Family</strong> Fun.<br />
Stash’s for generous discount on food for the Single Parent Group.<br />
Great Harvest, Once upon a Bagel, & Sunset Foods, for donating<br />
baked goods.<br />
Piero’s Pizza for discount on pizza for <strong>Family</strong> Nights, ASAP and the<br />
Single Parent Group.<br />
Highland Park Cultural Arts Commission for funding the Joel<br />
Frankel concert and performances by favorite Gabriel Orajel.<br />
Trillium Foundation for support of Single Parent Group and<br />
ongoing ASAP support.<br />
Educators of Tomorrow Club at Highland Park High School.<br />
North Shore School District #113 for ESL teachers and staff.<br />
The Art Center of Highland Park for RFTS group collaborations.<br />
Our office and program volunteers.<br />
The families who donated Cheerios and toys.<br />
Drop-In Wish List<br />
è Dehumidifiers for children’s rooms<br />
è Handy person for drop-in repairs<br />
è Cheerios & diapers<br />
Many thanks to the sponsors of the <strong>Spring</strong> <strong>2008</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Networker</strong>:<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org<br />
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OUR MISSION<br />
To promote the well-being of children from<br />
birth by supporting and strengthening their<br />
families in and with their communities.<br />
A Unique Baby Shower or<br />
New Baby Gift<br />
Give the gift that keeps on giving:<br />
Gift Pass to <strong>Family</strong> Network<br />
3 visits for $30<br />
Available at the front desk or by phone (847/433-<br />
0377). Credit card orders welcome.<br />
PLAY-DOUGH LOVE<br />
SAVE THE DATE<br />
25th Aniversary <strong>Spring</strong> Gala<br />
June 7, <strong>2008</strong> 6:00 - 9:30 pm<br />
On Saturday, June 7th, at 6:00 pm, <strong>Family</strong> Network’s<br />
Board will host its Annual <strong>Spring</strong> Gala at the<br />
Highland Park Community House. <strong>Family</strong> Network is<br />
pleased to honor Highland Park Mayor Michael Belsky<br />
(also a <strong>Family</strong> Network Advisory Committee member) for<br />
his many years of generously supporting <strong>Family</strong> Network.<br />
This event will feature spectacular wines perfectly paired<br />
with foods from local restaurants, including a dessert bar,<br />
live music, and silent auction.<br />
Tickets cost $100.00 per person, and are<br />
available in advance or at the door.<br />
Please call 847/433-0377 for reservations<br />
and additional information.<br />
<strong>Family</strong> Network, 330 Laurel Avenue, Highland Park, IL 60035 847.433.0377 www.familynetworkcenter.org