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e seen as a biblically inaccurate parenting strategy.<br />

Holmen includes references to statistics to support the<br />

need for parents to actively lead the faith process in<br />

the home. He, however, does not include any critical<br />

assessment of the various studies that yielded the statistics<br />

but rather lets them stand at face value, leaving<br />

the reader to decipher their validity. <strong>The</strong> style of this<br />

book may not have warranted any assessment of those<br />

statistics. T<strong>here</strong> is no doubt that this book aims to help<br />

parents become more faithful in their God-given role<br />

given. <strong>The</strong> author raises a concern that is pervasive in<br />

the church today: “When it comes to doing what we<br />

need to do to lead our kids to life, through faith in<br />

Christ, I don’t think parents have any idea how important<br />

their actions and behaviors at home are” (35).<br />

Third, parents need to have a plan. In creating a<br />

tangible strategy for impacting the spiritual growth<br />

of your children, Holmen offers a strong suggestion<br />

that every parent should implement. In chapter two,<br />

he walks through a brief process w<strong>here</strong>by fathers can<br />

lead their family to charter a family mission statement.<br />

“A lot of families are struggling today because they are<br />

trying to build their family without a plan” (24). <strong>The</strong><br />

simple, sequential process for a family mission statement<br />

will help parents lay a strong foundation for charting<br />

the course and leading their children to life. Although<br />

he does not include biblical texts in the family mission<br />

statement process, the primary questions that he<br />

suggests should easily find their basis in God’s Word. I<br />

would add to the family mission statement process by<br />

asking each family member, especially the parents, to<br />

include a scriptural reference for each suggestion they<br />

bring to the process, if possible.<br />

Fourth, parents must live the Word. Holmen does<br />

an exemplary job of maintaining a simple awareness of<br />

the basic foundational doctrine found in the Deuteronomy<br />

6 passage. He spends the remaining chapters<br />

driving home essential principles from the text that are<br />

often read quickly, leaving little opportunity to absorb<br />

the heart and intention of the very words.<br />

One strong recommendation is to put this book<br />

in the hands of fathers who have seemingly tight<br />

schedules. With community and accountability, this<br />

resource could liberate the unfounded perception that<br />

impressing faith on your kids is complicated. It just<br />

might spark a courageous season in the life of a church.<br />

Make no mistake, it is not easy. <strong>The</strong> task for parents<br />

is often a difficult one but it does not have to be complicated.<br />

<strong>The</strong> author offers transparent testimony of<br />

his personal journey through these suggestions and<br />

understands that it is a process that requires adjustment<br />

along the way.<br />

T<strong>here</strong> are times when parents desire a more effective<br />

process for leading the spiritual growth of their children.<br />

This book has put simple but powerful principles<br />

well within reach for any Christian parent.<br />

Troy W. Temple, Ph.D.<br />

Associate Dean for Masters Studies,<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Baptist</strong> <strong>The</strong>ological <strong>Seminary</strong><br />

Family Shepherds: Calling and Equipping Men to<br />

Lead <strong>The</strong>ir Homes. By Voddie Baucham Jr. Wheaton,<br />

IL: Crossway, 2011, 192 pp., $15.99.<br />

Until a few years ago, Voddie T. Baucham Jr. was<br />

known primarily as a cultural apologist and popular<br />

speaker at youth events. Much of that shifted in 2007<br />

with the publication of Family Driven Faith: Doing<br />

What It Takes to Raise Sons and Daughters Who Walk<br />

with God. With Family Driven Faith, Baucham’s name<br />

became associated with a growing family ministry<br />

movement. Most of this attention was positive, recognizing<br />

his strong call for intentional family discipleship.<br />

Other responses were more critical, choosing<br />

to focus almost exclusively on the viability of familyintegrated<br />

ministry—despite the fact that only one<br />

chapter in the book even raised the issue of familyintegrated<br />

churches, and Baucham explicitly stated<br />

that he didn’t intend this model to serve as a blueprint<br />

for every church (Family Driven Faith, 213).<br />

In Family Shepherds: Calling and Equipping Men<br />

to Lead <strong>The</strong>ir Homes, Baucham brings together his passion<br />

for family discipleship with his earlier emphasis on<br />

developing a gospel-centered worldview. He presents<br />

family as a primary context for worldview formation<br />

(“family is the cornerstone of society,” 11) and then<br />

identifies the father as primarily responsible for cultivating<br />

gospel-centeredness in his family. Baucham does not<br />

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