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An Experience a Joy and a Challenge<br />

were very stingy as compared <strong>to</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>to</strong>urists. Some of <strong>the</strong> local<br />

shopkeepers and shack owners shared <strong>the</strong> same view. But, one shack<br />

owner explicitly mentioned some peculiar behaviour of <strong>the</strong> Israeli <strong>to</strong>urist.<br />

He said that if <strong>the</strong>y were served anything, <strong>the</strong>y would like <strong>to</strong> mix it and<br />

have it. For e.g. If you want <strong>to</strong> serve any juice <strong>the</strong>n <strong>the</strong>y will ask for<br />

several juices and mix it and have something which was different, rare,<br />

and out of taste.<br />

The next two days were drowsy, as our subjects of study were out of<br />

sight and if I met anyone, I was unable <strong>to</strong> converse with <strong>the</strong>m as <strong>the</strong>y<br />

spoke Hebrew which I was unable <strong>to</strong> comprehend. Thus, I decided <strong>to</strong><br />

focus my attention <strong>to</strong> converse with <strong>the</strong> shack owners, ‘Lamanis’ and<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r non-Israeli <strong>to</strong>urists.<br />

I felt that <strong>the</strong> people especially <strong>the</strong> Goans were internally unhappy. Since,<br />

when <strong>the</strong>y were questioned about <strong>the</strong> foreigners, <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>ne in which <strong>the</strong>y<br />

answered was not of satisfaction and joy. I felt that <strong>the</strong>y were not enjoying<br />

such a business but still had <strong>to</strong> do it as it was <strong>the</strong> only means <strong>to</strong> make<br />

money.<br />

Some thing that I didn’t expect was <strong>the</strong> crowd at <strong>the</strong> 9 Bar on <strong>the</strong> second<br />

day, it was almost empty and <strong>the</strong> bar <strong>to</strong>o closed quite early. Foreigners<br />

were really less as compared <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> 1st January crowd.<br />

The trend of intake of cigarettes, drugs such as Ganja and o<strong>the</strong>r in<strong>to</strong>xicating<br />

stuff by <strong>the</strong> foreigners is very much and <strong>to</strong> great extent has been imbibed<br />

by <strong>the</strong> Indian <strong>to</strong>urists (not excluding <strong>the</strong> Goans). A lot of teenagers and<br />

young men and women of Indian nationality have really taken up <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong>se<br />

various vices. Ano<strong>the</strong>r point that I would like <strong>to</strong> mention was that when I<br />

went on <strong>the</strong> dance floor <strong>to</strong> make certain observations; <strong>to</strong> find a partner<br />

was not a problem. Many girls, at least two or three were ready <strong>to</strong> dance<br />

with me and looked <strong>to</strong> be wild. Even <strong>the</strong> next day, <strong>the</strong> 9 Bar was crowded<br />

with Indian <strong>to</strong>urists. Two of my companions and I entered a restaurant<br />

which was owned by an Israeli but it was <strong>to</strong>tally empty. The owners<br />

(Israeli) were having a conversation while we were <strong>the</strong>re observing<br />

<strong>the</strong>m over a drink. Something which I found quite common was that <strong>the</strong>y<br />

always looked <strong>to</strong> be silent and tired, moving about in <strong>the</strong>ir own group. A<br />

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