Special Commission on the Future of the New York State Courts

Special Commission on the Future of the New York State Courts Special Commission on the Future of the New York State Courts

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and terrible stress and heartache. My ultimate goal is to move away from New York so that my children and I can start over in a place where we do not feel scared anymore. But I will be unable to do this until I can save enough money to move – something I will never be able to do if I am forced to live the rest of my life going in circles – appearing before many judges in many courts and having to start from square one every time.” * * * * The following is the testimonial of Dyandria D., a victim of domestic violence who was further victimized by her batterer as a consequence of our state’s confusing court structure. “In 1995, I filed for divorce from my abusive husband on the grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment in the Queens County Supreme Court. . . . My husband was infuriated over my initiating the divorce action and even more outraged over my seeking meager maintenance and child support payments. In retaliation, and in order to escape his responsibility to support our daughter, my husband stooped so low as to go on record in Supreme Court to deny paternity of our daughter, his only biological child. . . . After the Queens County judge finally ordered DNA testing, my husband dropped the issue. “Next, my husband tried a second scheme to avoid paying child support – he called the child abuse hotline to report that I was abusing our daughter. Presumably, my husband figured that having our daughter placed in state custody would free him of his child support obligation. “The indefensible jurisdictional allocation of authority over family matters between Family Court and Supreme Court can result in . . . [a] frustrating, confusing and wasteful process [that] is carried out in the context of proceedings which are often highly emotional and deeply personal in nature.” – Action Unit No. 4 of the State Bar Association (1979) . . . “The resulting abuse/neglect proceedings were heard in Manhattan Family Court and went on simultaneously with the divorce proceedings in Queens County Supreme Court. . . . In Supreme Court, [my husband] convinced the judge to deny me the meager maintenance I was requesting, on the basis that I was very intelligent and highly capable of procuring any fine job that I sought. In Family Court, however, my husband painted a completely different picture of me for the purpose of preventing me from regaining custody of my child. In Family Court, my A Court System for the Future, February 2007 43

husband told the judge that I was a drug addict and seriously mentally disturbed. . . . “On account of these lies, a Family Court judge granted custody of my daughter to her sexually abusive father, holding that he was the better choice. Yet the Queens County Supreme Court has a voluminous case file containing evidence of his lies and manipulation. . . . No reasonable person would claim that the picture that the Supreme Court had of my husband was one of a good dad – yet the Family Court never heard this side of the story and was convinced by his lies and manipulation to grant him custody of my daughter. “I have not seen my daughter in six years.” 44 A Court System for the Future, February 2007

husband told <strong>the</strong> judge that I was a drug addict and seriously<br />

mentally disturbed.<br />

. . .<br />

“On account <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>se lies, a Family Court judge granted<br />

custody <strong>of</strong> my daughter to her sexually abusive fa<strong>the</strong>r, holding<br />

that he was <strong>the</strong> better choice. Yet <strong>the</strong> Queens County Supreme<br />

Court has a voluminous case file c<strong>on</strong>taining evidence <strong>of</strong> his lies<br />

and manipulati<strong>on</strong>. . . . No reas<strong>on</strong>able pers<strong>on</strong> would claim that<br />

<strong>the</strong> picture that <strong>the</strong> Supreme Court had <strong>of</strong> my husband was <strong>on</strong>e<br />

<strong>of</strong> a good dad – yet <strong>the</strong> Family Court never heard this side <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

story and was c<strong>on</strong>vinced by his lies and manipulati<strong>on</strong> to grant<br />

him custody <strong>of</strong> my daughter.<br />

“I have not seen my daughter in six years.”<br />

44<br />

A Court System for <strong>the</strong> <strong>Future</strong>, February 2007

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