Summer 2012 Newsletter - LaGuardia Community College - CUNY
Summer 2012 Newsletter - LaGuardia Community College - CUNY
Summer 2012 Newsletter - LaGuardia Community College - CUNY
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person and could have been perceived as the weakest there, and yet mentally I was the strongest.<br />
Upon being introduced to our Drill Instructors, everyone in the platoon was caught off<br />
guard. It was like culture shock on steroids. I kept my cool because in reality, I been through a<br />
lot of situations like this.<br />
Unlike the other recruits, I started seeing the positives that we were getting three square meals<br />
a day; we were getting to shower every day; we were learning military tactics; we were exercising<br />
often; we had full medical benefits given to us; we were getting paid for it all. I had gotten<br />
used to the yelling really quick as well. I went from being skinny beyond all reason to being huge<br />
and muscular. It was an uplifting experience for me! I had the strength I wanted and I had everything<br />
I needed to provide for a family and to better myself! I went from being poor; skinny; and<br />
weak; to being having a bank account and being financially stable; muscular; and strong! I felt that<br />
I had changed for the better not just financially, but physically and mentally as well. I saw what I<br />
had been given and had planned on not ruining this opportunity given to me.<br />
Not everything was good, however. I planned on getting married and being a father. The girl I<br />
was with lied about the first pregnancy and then a whole sequence of events came forth where<br />
she was pregnant with twins, and I was actually prepared to be a father. Unfortunately, nothing<br />
can ever be perfect, so I found out she was doing drugs and drinking, thus she lost them. After<br />
much other drama where her family still speaks to me, but disowned her for the many screw ups<br />
she had done, the big reason I joined was no longer a factor to me. I had to move on and keep<br />
the positive flow going on everything else. I changed though in not trusting women while I was in<br />
the military. Many said they would wait, but as soon as training or something else would happen,<br />
they were with another guy. I refused to be played again. Regardless, I then concentrated on my<br />
Marine Corps career and worked my ass off to attain Corporal and upon doing so, I was given a<br />
Sergeant’s billet and was in charge of an entire platoon. I was at the top of my game. I was in<br />
great physical shape, great in completing tasks given to me, great in managing Marines. I really<br />
was feeling amazing! Time passed and then came the time to re-enlist or EAS. I weighed my options.<br />
I was tempted to stay. Everything I could want or need was there. My Staff Sergeant who<br />
was going to be promoted to Gunnery Sergeant soon was my mentor to being a better Non-<br />
Commissioned Officer, and was going to see me pick up Sergeant. I weighed my options, but<br />
ultimately chose to EAS with the hopes of another huge change for the better by going through<br />
college.<br />
There have been many different things to happen to me during my life that I could only write<br />
into a book because that is the only way to keep all the detail in there. Every event had a significant<br />
change to how I thought, how I reacted, and who I was becoming. Regardless of what was<br />
bad and what was good, it all had a hand in what I became. I definitely am grateful I did not become<br />
a usual stereo type of where I was growing up. I had an open mind and planned on using it.<br />
I have had to go through a lot to develop it, but now I know anything could happen at any time,<br />
whether good or bad. The world we live in is consistently changing around us whether we<br />
choose to accept it or not. It is how we change to adapt to it that determines if we improve and<br />
come out on top.<br />
Gladys Perez<br />
Life can be a learning experience. Some people learn from life, others do not. What really<br />
changed my life was when I hit rock bottom. I felt very vulnerable, and was taken for granted. I<br />
was a trustful person. I guess I was naïve thinking that everyone was honest and believed their<br />
stories.<br />
It was February 6, 2001, on a snowy day. I was going to work, suddenly I slipped and fell on ice<br />
and could not get up when I saw my bone out of place I was so surprised the way I reacted. First<br />
I saw a man and a woman coming towards me asking me if I needed an ambulance. I asked the<br />
man to go to my house and carefully tell my father to come over. Then I realized that I was not<br />
going to be able to go to work. As I saw my dad coming over his face was very pale. I asked him<br />
to get me the phone, and a camera. He tried to get what I had asked for but he got so nervous, I<br />
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