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Stephanie Hall One of CBCN’s Founders and its First Office Coordinator (1961-2000) Tribute by Liz Whamond, former CBCN President On behalf of the Board and Staff (past and present) of the Canadian Breast Cancer Network, I would like to pay tribute to a very special friend and colleague. Stephanie Hall was an exceptional young woman. I first met Stephanie at the National Forum o n Breast Cancer in Montreal in 1993. She was highly energetic with an extraordinary sense of humour. Our paths crossed again in November of 1994 at the “Engaging the Vision” Workshop in Toronto. I got to know Steph a little better this time and was inspired by her tenacity, courage and absolute conviction to the cause! Her red hair suited her beautifully! For the next couple of years, we collaborated many times. As Planning Committee Members to a fledgling organization, we literally travelled from coast to coast in support of the Canadian Breast Cancer Network. In 1995 we were together as far west as British Columbia and as far east as Nova Scotia. At our regional meeting in Halifax, Steph motivated the crowd by playing Des’ree’s powerful song “You Gotta Be.” Steph’s passion ran through our blood. Stephanie eventually resigned from the Board of CBCN to become its first office coordinator. She produced our very first newsletters. Steph knew that breast cancer was her greatest enemy. She had a great thirst for knowledge and both absorbed and regurgitated, in tremendous detail, knowledge of the disease, complementary therapies and new and innovative treatments. At o ne point she asked me the stage of my cancer at diagnosis. When I responded that it was o ne stage less than hers she noted that I was o nly a beginner! There are a couple of funny stories that I would like to share with you. Past Board member Eva Bereti from Edmonton, Alberta, was a very close friend of Steph’s, and faithful until the end. Eva dubbed Stephanie a “NIT.” That’s a Native-in-Training! She was always trying to emulate Eva’s profound Aboriginal wisdom and customs. Irene Scott best remembered Stephanie for her laughter and her sharing ways. She called Steph a true Scottish Soldier! Irene recalled the time that they travelled back from Vancouver together. They were not seated side by side, so they rearranged all the passengers o n the plane so they could sit together. During a brief stopover in Winnipeg, the flight attendant suggested that boarding passengers should check with Irene and Steph about where they should sit! On a serious note, Irene recalled the story of the geese and how they always look after each other. The Network was conceived with this model in mind. As the lead goose becomes tired, another moves forward to lead the flock. In true Network fashion, Steph eventually stepped back and others led. Steph visited Irene in Ottawa in October of her last year. As Steph boarded the plane for Toronto, Irene observed the biggest flock of geese that she had ever seen! Later than evening, over the phone, Irene shared her sighting with Steph. Mario, Stephanie’s partner, shared his story with us. In response to the question about what is the most important service you think a volunteer can offer to people requesting help, Stephanie wrote, “a kindred spirit to listen, who understands but does not judge or see me as any less of a person for being ill.” Stephanie participated in other breast cancer organizations as well as CBCN. She was a former board member of two Toronto organizations, the ABC’s Support Group and the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation. The many folks she met from these organizations were also greatly inspired by her. Stephanie died in 2000 in Toronto, ending a long and valiant fight against breast cancer. We owe you a debt of gratitude, Stephanie, for being a founding member of the Canadian Breast Cancer Network. As our organization grows and flourishes, your vision will be remembered. With love always, Liz Susan Harris CBCN Newfoundland & Labrador Director (2004) Susan successfully operated her own financial planning business, Griffin Financial Services, for 11 years, where she helped people plan for their retirement through investments as well as providing life insurance, disability insurance and critical illness insurance. In 1997, Susan entered the very first Run for the Cure to be held in St John’s, Newfoundland. On October 20, 1999, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Nearly immediately she started to provide support to others by organizing a breast cancer support group. Their main focus was to provide emotional support, nutritional information and medical updates 18 Network News Winter 2009-10

in the area of cancer research and development. At these meetings, they found that the support of the group enabled each of them to draw strength from one another. In October 2000, just after completing chemotherapy and radiation therapy, she organized a group called the Paradise Care Bears to raise money for research in the fight against breast cancer. That year they raised $5,500 and won the Community Award. The next year they raised $7,500 and won the Nike Challenge Award for the largest amount raised by a group. Susan was elected to the CBCN Board of Directors and served as a Director until her death from breast cancer in 2004. When elected, she said that to stay healthy, she swam, practiced yoga and walked with Max, her standard poodle who also kept her company when she spent the winter of 2000 on her couch recovering from treatment. Gabriele Helms British Columbia Director (1966-2004) Gabi was born in Dortmund, Germany and died on December 31, 2004 in Vancouver. She was survived by her husband Bob Shore and daughter Hana Gabriele Helms-Shore, born at St. Paul’s Hospital on December 29, 2004; her parents Karl-Heinz and Marlies Helms of Holzwickede, Germany; her brother Michael Helms of Dortmund, Germany; and many friends and colleagues in Canada, Germany and around the world. Gabi received her Masters degree in English from the University of Cologne and her PhD in Canadian Literature from the University of British Columbia. She taught in the Department of English at Simon Fraser University and realized her dream, becoming an Assistant Professor of English at UBC. Dr Helms was an exceptional teacher and scholar, and made important contributions to the fields of Life Writing and Canadian Literature. Gabi found great comfort and friendship as a member of a support group through the BC Cancer Agency and her relationships there inspired her to lead the organization of a groundbreaking national event titled “The Young and the Breastless: a Networking Event for Young Women with Breast Cancer.” Held at UBC in May 2004, this event, the first of its kind in the country, drew participants from across Canada. Gabi represented British Columbia on the Board of Directors of the Canadian Breast Cancer Network from 2002-2004. Gabi always thought of others first, and ultimately chose her daughter’s life over her own. Breast cancer took her far too early and she has been profoundly missed. Irene Scott Co-Chair of the Canadian Breast Cancer Network Tribute written by Dianne Hartling, past president, Breast Cancer Action (Ottawa), Treasurer, Canadian Breast Cancer Network. Irene Scott passed away on June 21, 2005. She was one of the founding members of Breast Cancer Action (Ottawa) and served on the executive as their first secretary. She was actively involved as both a volunteer and board member in all aspects of the organization. She had a great sense of humour and working with her was a lot of fun. Irene loved to be involved and when survivors decided to form the Canadian Breast Canada Network, she quickly took the opportunity to be on the steering committee and worked closely with its founder, Ninon Bourque, to establish CBCN as a registered charity. She was also instrumental in forming the first Board of Directors from across Canada and served as a Board member herself for a number of years. Irene’s infectious laughter healed many disappointing moments and made our journey through the world of cancer easier than we had anticipated. Later, after many experiences in organizing and volunteering her expertise, Irene decided to move away from the cancer scene and concentrate on being a grandmother to her much loved grandson. Irene is still greatly missed by her family, friends, colleagues and all who were touched by her generosity of spirit and dedication to the cause. Irene’s philosophy on life was very typical of the motto below and I’m sure she lived her life well to the end. “Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming WOO HOO what a ride!” Alison Bailes Manitoba Director (1949-2003) Alison Jean Bailes died at age 53 with her family by her side at the St. Boniface Hospital in Winnipeg on July 21, 2003 following a lengthy illness with metastatic breast disease. Alison was a devoted mother to her children, Cameron and Michelle, and was survived by her brother Lawrie. She Network News Winter 2009-10 19

in the area of cancer research and<br />

development. At these meetings, they<br />

found that the support of the group<br />

enabled each of them to draw strength<br />

from one another.<br />

In October 2000, just after completing<br />

chemotherapy and radiation therapy,<br />

she organized a group called the<br />

Paradise Care Bears to raise money<br />

for research in the fight against breast<br />

cancer. That year they raised $5,500<br />

and won the Community Award. The<br />

next year they raised $7,500 and won<br />

the Nike Challenge Award for the<br />

largest amount raised by a group.<br />

Susan was elected to the CBCN Board<br />

of Directors and served as a Director<br />

until her death from breast cancer in<br />

2004. When elected, she said that to<br />

stay healthy, she swam, practiced yoga<br />

and walked with Max, her standard<br />

poodle who also kept her company<br />

when she spent the winter of 2000 on<br />

her couch recovering from treatment.<br />

Gabriele Helms<br />

British Columbia Director<br />

(1966-2004)<br />

Gabi was born in Dortmund, Germany<br />

and died on December 31, 2004 in<br />

Vancouver. She was survived by her<br />

husband Bob Shore and daughter<br />

Hana Gabriele Helms-Shore, born<br />

at St. Paul’s Hospital on December<br />

29, 2004; her parents Karl-Heinz<br />

and Marlies Helms of Holzwickede,<br />

Germany; her brother Michael Helms<br />

of Dortmund, Germany; and many<br />

friends and colleagues in Canada,<br />

Germany and around the world.<br />

Gabi received her Masters degree<br />

in English from the University of<br />

Cologne and her PhD in <strong>Canadian</strong><br />

Literature from the University of<br />

British Columbia. She taught in the<br />

Department of English at Simon Fraser<br />

University and realized her dream,<br />

becoming an Assistant Professor of<br />

English at UBC. Dr Helms was an<br />

exceptional teacher and scholar, and<br />

made important contributions to the<br />

fields of Life Writing and <strong>Canadian</strong><br />

Literature.<br />

Gabi found great comfort and<br />

friendship as a member of a support<br />

group through the BC Cancer Agency<br />

and her relationships there inspired<br />

her to lead the organization of a<br />

groundbreaking national event titled<br />

“The Young and the <strong>Breast</strong>less: a<br />

<strong>Network</strong>ing Event for Young Women<br />

with <strong>Breast</strong> Cancer.” Held at UBC in<br />

May 2004, this event, the first of its<br />

kind in the country, drew participants<br />

from across Canada.<br />

Gabi represented British Columbia on<br />

the Board of Directors of the <strong>Canadian</strong><br />

<strong>Breast</strong> Cancer <strong>Network</strong> from 2002-2004.<br />

Gabi always thought of others first,<br />

and ultimately chose her daughter’s<br />

life over her own. <strong>Breast</strong> cancer took<br />

her far too early and she has been<br />

profoundly missed.<br />

Irene Scott<br />

Co-Chair of the <strong>Canadian</strong> <strong>Breast</strong><br />

Cancer <strong>Network</strong><br />

Tribute written by Dianne Hartling, past<br />

president, <strong>Breast</strong> Cancer Action (Ottawa),<br />

Treasurer, <strong>Canadian</strong> <strong>Breast</strong> Cancer<br />

<strong>Network</strong>.<br />

Irene Scott passed away on June 21,<br />

2005. She was one of the founding<br />

members of <strong>Breast</strong> Cancer Action<br />

(Ottawa) and served on the executive<br />

as their first secretary. She was actively<br />

involved as both a volunteer and<br />

board member in all aspects of the<br />

organization. She had a great sense of<br />

humour and working with her was a<br />

lot of fun.<br />

Irene loved to be involved and<br />

when survivors decided to form the<br />

<strong>Canadian</strong> <strong>Breast</strong> Canada <strong>Network</strong>,<br />

she quickly took the opportunity to<br />

be on the steering committee and<br />

worked closely with its founder,<br />

Ninon Bourque, to establish CBCN<br />

as a registered charity. She was also<br />

instrumental in forming the first Board<br />

of Directors from across Canada and<br />

served as a Board member herself for a<br />

number of years.<br />

Irene’s infectious laughter healed many<br />

disappointing moments and made our<br />

journey through the world of cancer<br />

easier than we had anticipated. Later,<br />

after many experiences in organizing<br />

and volunteering her expertise, Irene<br />

decided to move away from the<br />

cancer scene and concentrate on being<br />

a grandmother to her much loved<br />

grandson. Irene is still greatly missed<br />

by her family, friends, colleagues<br />

and all who were touched by her<br />

generosity of spirit and dedication to<br />

the cause. Irene’s philosophy on life<br />

was very typical of the motto below<br />

and I’m sure she lived her life well to<br />

the end.<br />

“Life should NOT be a journey to the<br />

grave with the intention of arriving safely<br />

in an attractive and well preserved body,<br />

but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate<br />

in one hand, wine in the other, body<br />

thoroughly used up, totally worn out and<br />

screaming WOO HOO what a ride!”<br />

Alison Bailes<br />

Manitoba Director (1949-2003)<br />

Alison Jean Bailes died at age 53<br />

with her family by her side at the St.<br />

Boniface Hospital in Winnipeg on July<br />

21, 2003 following a lengthy illness<br />

with metastatic breast disease. Alison<br />

was a devoted mother to her children,<br />

Cameron and Michelle, and was<br />

survived by her brother Lawrie. She<br />

<strong>Network</strong> <strong>News</strong> <strong>Winter</strong> <strong>2009</strong>-10 19

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