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talk blacks out of their rage if they threaten me. There is it, my<br />
fear of black anger.<br />
In the shop owned by my father, we always knew that inevitably,<br />
blacks would try to shop lift. At home we used to lock up the<br />
cupboards lest nanny and other servants got tempted and stole<br />
our property. I could never sit next to a black person unless I had<br />
to. Not only did I fear theft, I also feared the way they spoke loudly,<br />
the way they were vocal, and so expressive in language and gesture,<br />
throwing arms in the air and probably hitting you in the<br />
process. Black people’s ways can be intimidating and I must admit<br />
that I am still intimidated; the way their women make statements<br />
with hands on the hip, or pointing a fat black finger for emphasis.<br />
Back to my school days, one of the most debilitating and humiliating<br />
experience was when one day, a school textbook was stolen and<br />
a thorough search revealed that the textbook was in possession of<br />
a white boy. We did not believe it; we argued that one of the black<br />
kids had either stolen the book and hidden it in the white boy’s<br />
bag or that the poor boy had put it in his bag by mistake. We<br />
refused to believe that one of us could steal. This was a profession<br />
reserved for the blacks. The theft threw the class into a heated<br />
argument and for a long time, the divide between white and black<br />
was intensified. Interestingly, the culprit did not defend himself as<br />
violently as most of us defended him. However, it did not matter;<br />
we were comforted by the fact that we were not defending one<br />
person. We were defending the white race.<br />
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As I look back, I remember that even the teachers affirmed the<br />
white boys more regardless of their performance and behaviour<br />
than they did the blacks. This was comforting. My own parents<br />
continued to believe in their own racial superiority. They continued<br />
to justify the inferior status of the blacks. They used religion,<br />
historical accounts, education and fiction to justify their own superior<br />
status. They gave one example after another in an attempt to<br />
prove that blacks were unreliable, thieves, cheats, stupid; …I was<br />
feeling insecure all the same. Things were falling apart. Were we<br />
superior?