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A CAUSE TO FIGHT FOR - The Jesus Army

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double<br />

many<br />

blow..<br />

blessings<br />

When tragedy strikes a Christian couple<br />

– twice – how can they go on believing in<br />

the goodness of God?<br />

GORDON AND JENNY Martin lost both their children<br />

to a rare disease before they were three. Yet, though<br />

neither would say they had special qualities to weather<br />

such storms, their story emerges as a remarkable testimony<br />

to the comforting power of God.<br />

Gordon as a student in the 60s, had found himself asking<br />

what life was all about when his parents separated.<br />

An encounter with some Christians on the streets of<br />

Worthing proved life-changing.<br />

“As I chatted with one of them a voice in my head suddenly<br />

said ‘I want you’.” Gordon found faith and became<br />

part of a group of young Christians. It was here that he<br />

met Jenny and they married in 1976 and moved to<br />

Horsham.<br />

“I’d trained to be an occupational therapist” says Jenny.<br />

“But my sheltered childhood totally unprepared me<br />

for the realities of work in a psychiatric hospital.” Jenny<br />

had had a breakdown which left her prone to depression.<br />

In 1979, an old friend of Gordon’s, Roger, came to visit.<br />

He told Gordon he’d found “this little group of Christians<br />

– the <strong>Jesus</strong> Fellowship – living together in a Christian<br />

community near Coventry”.<br />

“We went to see for ourselves” says Gordon. “I lapped<br />

it up and Jenny loved it from the start, too. But Roger’s<br />

challenge to ‘come and join’ scared me. <strong>The</strong>re was too<br />

much to lose – the home we were just setting up, my job.<br />

I decided we weren’t ready yet.”<br />

By their second visit, their first baby was on the way; in<br />

1980 Stevie was born.<br />

“We thought we had a normal, healthy little boy<br />

– perhaps a bit slow developing but nothing obviously<br />

wrong,” explains Jenny. “In1982, just days before I was<br />

due to give birth to our second child, I woke in the night,<br />

hearing Stevie make a sobbing sound. He was having a<br />

massive, prolonged series of fits. A few hours later, while<br />

Stevie was in hospital with doctors trying to puzzle out<br />

what was the matter, I went into labour and our daughter<br />

Rachel was born.”<br />

Earlier that year, Jenny had read Power in Praise by<br />

Merlin Carothers, a Christian book which recommended<br />

praising God in all circumstances.<br />

“It grabbed me that people were praising God for awful<br />

things and how He transformed the people and those<br />

awful things in the process. We made an agreement to<br />

learn to praise God for every trial.”<br />

That discipline rescued them now. As Gordon sat<br />

in hospital with Stevie, he felt able to give him to God.<br />

Back home, Jenny wrote a prayer: “God – it’s all in Your<br />

hands.” That prayer was their anchor over the next three<br />

months, as Stevie’s condition deteriorated.<br />

“Stevie was a gentle, sensitive, little boy,” says Gordon.<br />

“We hoped the whole while for his healing. When we<br />

prayed for him he’d repeat ‘<strong>Jesus</strong> is Lord’ after us. At<br />

some stage in his illness, I realised Stevie could no longer<br />

see. His condition worsened and in January 1983 he died.<br />

<strong>The</strong> post-mortem revealed Alpers Syndrome. We were<br />

told it was so rare only eight cases were recorded and<br />

it wasn’t likely to affect other children we might have<br />

14 <strong>Jesus</strong> Life<br />

www.jesus.org.uk

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