Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
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irreparably damaging to my future life.<br />
The effects of a good tongue-lashing stayed<br />
with me for approximately one year, after which<br />
time I had grown out of my fixation <strong>and</strong> eventually<br />
realized myself that it was probably not<br />
that horrible a thing to do.<br />
Sexual encounters between peers often end abruptly when mother enters<br />
the scene. Mother spanks, reprim<strong>and</strong>s, separates the participants,<br />
<strong>and</strong> threatens, as in the following case. Mother viewed the situation in<br />
an extremely negative manner <strong>and</strong> reacted accordingly. But it was “effective”--“we<br />
discontinued our sex play.”<br />
One of my girl cousins was only a few months older<br />
than I (a boy) so we played together quite often<br />
when we were in grade school. Our games included<br />
sex play with her genitals. We were quite aware<br />
that what we were doing was “wrong,” but we continued<br />
this type of activity until her mother<br />
caught us. She gave us both a spanking, said what<br />
we were doing was very bad, <strong>and</strong> put us in different<br />
rooms in the house for the rest of the day.<br />
She threatened to tell my mother, but I don’t<br />
think she ever did. We discontinued our sex play<br />
after that time.<br />
Even something so innocent <strong>and</strong> spontaneous as an erection may meet<br />
with scolding <strong>and</strong> slapping from a repressive adult thus “frightening<br />
the sexual dickens” out of a little boy.<br />
When an erection would occur our mother would scold<br />
us <strong>and</strong> this tended to frighten us. I remember one<br />
time I was visiting my gr<strong>and</strong>mother. I had just<br />
taken a bath <strong>and</strong> she wanted to see if I was clean<br />
or not. As she cleaned my navel I had an erection.<br />
She said, “Oh, Gary!” <strong>and</strong> gave it a little slap. It<br />
just frightened the sexual dickens out of me.<br />
Showing one’s age mate of the same sex results of one’s recent circumcision<br />
can meet with “screaming <strong>and</strong> hollering” <strong>and</strong> spanking from<br />
mother. It is bad to be “caught in the act” as the following two cases<br />
attest.<br />
I was playing with my friend. He had just been<br />
to the doctor <strong>and</strong> was telling me what they had<br />
done to him. He showed me his penis, <strong>and</strong> just as<br />
he did so, his mother entered the room hollering<br />
<strong>and</strong> screaming. I remember I was so scared I<br />
hid my face in my h<strong>and</strong>s <strong>and</strong> ran out the door <strong>and</strong><br />
down the stairs the first chance I had. As I ran<br />
home, I knew he was getting a licking...<br />
The earliest situation which I can recall<br />
involving a sexual component, occurred at the<br />
age of five. Jane, my cousin, <strong>and</strong> myself were<br />
put into the same bed at her home where we were<br />
visiting. We talked <strong>and</strong> played for some time as<br />
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