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Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce

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me, <strong>and</strong> I had no idea of why it got that way. At<br />

one time he was quite rough with my penis <strong>and</strong> as<br />

a consequence there was some blood in my urine.<br />

This frightened me, but it seemed to frighten<br />

him more when I told him that I was going to<br />

tell my mother. He was older than I was <strong>and</strong> one<br />

of the few playmates I had, so I did not tell.<br />

In the third case a girl child finds the encounter with a preadolescent<br />

girl to satisfy felt need.<br />

When I was about seven years old, my eleven year<br />

old neighbor girl friend <strong>and</strong> I would get<br />

together <strong>and</strong> play games which involved fondling<br />

<strong>and</strong> exploring each other’s body.... A game that<br />

we played was referred to as “upper” <strong>and</strong> “lower”<br />

<strong>and</strong> this would include choosing one of the words<br />

<strong>and</strong> the other person would stimulate that portion<br />

of the body for about 10-15 minutes. This<br />

we did anywhere since it did not involve taking<br />

off clothes, just placing the h<strong>and</strong> inside the<br />

clothing. By sexual contacts I had a release to<br />

strange feelings inside me <strong>and</strong> got much physical<br />

satisfaction when arms were holding me.<br />

The following is a case of oral-anal, oral-genital contacts between<br />

a five or six year old boy <strong>and</strong> a boy of sixteen.<br />

My first homosexual experience came at the age<br />

of five or six, when I would play with this boy<br />

who was at that time about sixteen. He would ask<br />

me if I wanted to go into his house for something<br />

to eat, like some cookies or something. Of<br />

course I would go. Next he would ask me if I<br />

would go into the bedroom with him. Upon entering<br />

the bedroom, he would undress <strong>and</strong> ask me to<br />

do the same. I would, probably out of fright. I<br />

distinctly remember his body being very hairy,<br />

so perhaps I underestimated his age. Anyway,<br />

after undressing, he would tell me to bend over<br />

<strong>and</strong> then he would insert his erect penis into my<br />

anal region <strong>and</strong> start thrusting back <strong>and</strong> forth.<br />

He would then stimulate my penis <strong>and</strong> want me to<br />

do the same to him. We also masturbated each<br />

other, with him reaching orgasm <strong>and</strong> myself only<br />

being stimulated. I also spent some time in<br />

oral-genital contact. I did find the whole experience<br />

quite pleasing <strong>and</strong> continued to engage in<br />

these activities for a week or two. Then, <strong>and</strong> I<br />

don’t recall why, we suddenly stopped doing it<br />

completely.<br />

In some homosexual encounters, the sexual activity is entirely verbal<br />

<strong>and</strong> consists of the older one passing on his greater sexual “knowledge”<br />

to a child. In both cases that follow the child reacts negatively<br />

to the new information, in part because of the way it is presented.<br />

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