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Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce

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oys. They were not markedly different from black girls on any item except<br />

attitude toward marriage <strong>and</strong>, in fact, showed a higher level of<br />

heterosexual interaction at twelve <strong>and</strong> thirteen than the girls did.<br />

This high level of preadolescent heterosexual interest involvement<br />

among black boys, together with an apparent progressive disenchantment<br />

with marriage, suggests that the pattern of socio-sexual development in<br />

the black subculture may differ from the dominant white culture. There<br />

were differences in fathers’ occupations <strong>and</strong> in family structure as<br />

well, however.<br />

In sum, sociological <strong>and</strong> anthropological data cast serious doubt on<br />

the universal applicability of the concept of preadolescent sexual latency.<br />

There has been a change over the years both in the attitude of<br />

boys <strong>and</strong> girls in the United States toward heterosexual involvement <strong>and</strong><br />

in their experiencing of it. There has been a marked change toward<br />

greater heterosexual experience of preadolescents with their peers.<br />

Studies done in the twenties <strong>and</strong> thirties report unequivocally that the<br />

percentage of friendship choices extended across the sex “barrier”<br />

dropped to near zero in about the third or fourth grade <strong>and</strong> remained<br />

there through the eighth grade, after which a slight rise was discernible.<br />

In 1930 Furfey summarized his careful <strong>and</strong> systematic observations<br />

of boy-girl relations at this age concluding that girls were<br />

rigorously excluded from participation in masculine activities. “The<br />

girl, however, does not feel the affront very keenly since she has the<br />

same negative attitude toward boys that they have toward her.” (Furfey,<br />

1930, p. 101). Furfey noted that from the time boys were age eight<br />

to eleven years old until they reached puberty there was a strong distaste<br />

for playing with girls, <strong>and</strong> only 20 percent of the boys did so.<br />

Lehman <strong>and</strong> Witty (1927) found that from six to twelve years there was a<br />

definite tendency for one-sex play, <strong>and</strong> games at this age were sexlinked.<br />

This is not to say that there were no exceptions. Romance has always<br />

been an experience of some preadolescents. For example, Furfey described<br />

Max, a twelve year old boy, who openly <strong>and</strong> ardently declared<br />

his affection for his sweetheart. In commenting on the situation, Furfey<br />

wrote, “Although love affairs are common enough among twelve year<br />

olds in fiction, a case like Max’s is very rare in real life.” Furfey<br />

believed this devotion to a girl before adolescence to be uncommon <strong>and</strong><br />

a distinctly precocious trait. (Furfey, 1930, p. 28).<br />

Campbell, in 1939, in describing the typical twelve to thirteen<br />

year old girl wrote, “She would not admit that a certain boy is attractive<br />

to her, though she begins to take a covert interest.” (Campbell,<br />

1939). This picture of generally disinterested boys <strong>and</strong> covertly interested<br />

girls contrasts with the situation of recent decades. Empirical<br />

evidence reveals, as in the study by Broderick <strong>and</strong> Fowler (1961), that<br />

the majority of children in each grade claimed to have a sweetheart,<br />

<strong>and</strong> most of these expected reciprocation. Moreover, the majority of<br />

them did not keep their feelings to themselves. That these children, in<br />

fact, did discuss their romances with others is borne out by the ability<br />

of their classmates to list the sweetheart pairs in their schoolroom<br />

with considerable accuracy, especially in those cases where the<br />

relationship was reciprocal or believed by one member to be reciprocal.<br />

Hollingshead, reporting in 1949, stated that the most adventurous<br />

youngsters began to date at the age of twelve <strong>and</strong> among the thirteen<br />

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