Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce
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At first I was rather stunned. I couldn’t comprehend<br />
that this old man whom I had been<br />
friends with for so long would be doing something<br />
so “awful.” I was going through the stage<br />
where even washing my genitalia seemed bad<br />
because I was touching them. Therefore, this<br />
seemed truly terrible. The thing that strikes me<br />
now is the way he kept talking in a normal tone<br />
of voice looking directly at me. When I had pictured<br />
this type of thing in my mind, I had visualized<br />
rather maniacal behavior. He continued to<br />
rub <strong>and</strong> I continued to sit there dumbfounded. I<br />
don’t remember feeling any type of sensation in<br />
my genitals (or anywhere else, for that matter).<br />
After what seemed like an eternity, he<br />
moved his h<strong>and</strong> <strong>and</strong> started to pull my zipper<br />
down. That was all it took to get me moving. I<br />
started crying on the way, but I really don’t<br />
remember why. I hadn’t been injured in any way,<br />
<strong>and</strong> he hadn’t been mean.<br />
Four-fifths of the girls who had had sexual contacts with adults<br />
had but one experience in childhood, 15 percent had less than six experiences,<br />
<strong>and</strong> 5 percent had nine or more experiences before preadolescence.<br />
Kinsey reports that where repetitions occur the child is<br />
aggressive in seeking the experience.<br />
Our next door neighbors had their gr<strong>and</strong>father<br />
living with them, whom I admired very much for<br />
the stories he told. One day while sitting on<br />
his lap, he started rubbing my genitals. I tried<br />
to make an excuse to leave, but he would not let<br />
me. I was scared. Finally, I broke away from the<br />
old man. This happened every time I would visit<br />
there until I refused to go in the house anymore.<br />
Thirty-five of the boys in the Ramsey (1943) sample had been approached<br />
by adult males desiring homosexual relationships, <strong>and</strong> eight of<br />
these boys had accepted the proposals <strong>and</strong> had participated in relationships<br />
with older men. All the boys involved were 11 years old or more.<br />
In 75 percent of the cases the adults making the approach were strangers<br />
to the boys. In none of these approaches or relationships was any<br />
sort of physical force used, but in about one-third of the cases the<br />
boys were offered some reward, such as money, an automobile ride, or an<br />
invitation to a motion picture show or some athletic event. The approaches<br />
were made in school, on the street, in theaters, at athletic<br />
events, in boys’ camps, from automobiles, at carnivals, on journeys,<br />
<strong>and</strong> at other places <strong>and</strong> occasions.<br />
In most societies, adults are active in trying to prevent children<br />
<strong>and</strong> preadolescents from having sexual encounters rather than in initiating<br />
them into such encounters. In some societies adults attempt to<br />
deny young people any form of sexual experience or sex education. This<br />
has been a prevailing attitude in middle- <strong>and</strong> upper-class societies in<br />
the United States. Many adults avoid mentioning matters of sexual sig-<br />
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