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me to look at a cunt as soon as possible. Well, curiosity had been invoked in me, so I stripped the girl next door and looked at her. Fondling Masturbation I think I found out about intercourse and conception from an older neighbor boy (probably about three years older) who would give me pornographic books and magazines to read, and when he had a chance, would fondle my body some. This was happening when I was about in sixth grade. There was an older boy who lived on our block who initiated sexual contact with me. He was about fifteen years old and I (a girl) about ten, I believe. He used to tease us and play school with us. Whenever he’d punish me held take me into his little room behind the furnace and pretend to whip me. One time though he put his hand down my pants. I got scared but he convinced me it was alright to do. From then on he would put his hand in my pants whenever an opportunity presented itself. He even started putting my hand in his pants to play with his penis. Once he baby-sat with me and brought a friend. I enjoyed their attention and obliged them in sex play. They took me into my room separately and showed me their penises and had me fondle them. I remember thinking they were huge. This type of activity continued with these two for about four months. When I (a boy) was eight years old a boy at the age of puberty fascinated me with off-color stories which I really didn’t understand. Following a few nights of dirty jokes, he proceeded to demonstrate masturbation to me. When he had succeeded in reaching orgasm, he suggested that I try like stimulation. There was no result to my efforts whatsoever. I think I (a boy) had begun to develop physically by the time my brother exposed me to what I later learned was masturbation. He persuaded me to let him do something to me which he termed ‘jackin’ off.’ I enjoyed the physical reaction... I decided to see if I could masturbate on a girl. I was now thirteen. I picked to lure a younger girl that lived a few houses away in hopes that she wouldn’t say anything to anyone else.... I asked her if she wanted to wrestle. She said she 98
Homosexuality Fellatio Sodomy Intercourse didn’t know how and I immediately showed her how by taking her arms and pushing her over onto my bed. I wrestled around with her and finally climbed onto her and pulled her dress up exposing her underwear. I proceeded to move up and down on her thus rubbing my erection between her legs. I came to climax and ejaculated... My second homosexual experience was one with my older cousin. I think I was in about fifth grade when this happened, and he must have been in about eighth grade of junior high school. The contact involved lying down on the couch and unzipping each other’s pants and fondling, caressing, and masturbating each other’s genitals. I remember he felt a special sensation when I would reach way around his scrotum and fondle his testes. We would take turns stimulating each other and then we would fondle each other simultaneously. I also received great pleasure from this homosexual contact. These homosexual contacts, at the time did not seem abnormal at that age, but as I look back upon it I can hardly believe I ever did such a thing. Today I would never consider doing such things. When I was eight years old a boy at the age of puberty enlisted my aid in forming a ‘club’.... Each meeting had to be brought to order by rubbing the blunt edge of a knife along each other’s penis. Following this we engaged in fellatio, for him to orgasm, for me, there was no apparent purpose. I (eleven years old) had become friendly with a boy five years younger than myself, and soon started thinking of sex. We began by fondling each other’s genitals and soon proceeded to playing games involving our sex organs. This relationship went on for a month; we attempted to engage in penal-anal intercourse. In the following case the girl was eight years old and “not very mature” while her cousin was sixteen and “sort of left with the responsibility of baby-sitting.” The uncommon composure of the parents in the face of an assault on their young daughter is a striking element to this case. He had me undress in his room and he began to 99
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INFANT AND CHILD SEXUALITY A Sociol
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About the Author Ph.D., Sociology,
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PREFACE We know very little about s
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Many persons played significant tho
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in infancy and childhood in hormone
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cause psychoanalytic theory, though
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and differentiating adults by such
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questions about his penis. He watch
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(Korner, 1973). The male infant has
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milk. Breast feeding is significant
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infant. Not only the amount but als
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According to the middle class stand
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myths about this practice. The Chil
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three hundred (one percent of the f
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Infants deprived of touch--holding,
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pervasive aspect of one’s total p
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The mother of a five year old told
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ate count as to the number who do,
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een aware that autoeroticism--eroti
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had erections when playing with gir
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they will eventually select their m
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and I can remember being scolded nu
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the arousal, but I was aroused. Chi
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was more inquisitive than sexual. B
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In both of the following cases, as
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emember to this day the nauseated f
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I remember one scene very well. He
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Page 58 and 59: of dwellings. He based his work on
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Page 62 and 63: 1965, p. 225). Children often contr
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Page 72 and 73: that there was a “place in mommy
Page 74 and 75: tivity, and especially that which i
Page 76 and 77: His next approach was to tell me ab
Page 78 and 79: My father when undressed was a sour
Page 80 and 81: In other words, I was to avoid him,
Page 82 and 83: The general taboo on sensory-affect
Page 84 and 85: held by the eight year old. An inte
Page 86 and 87: asked each boy to rate his response
Page 88 and 89: It was not until high school that I
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Page 98 and 99: grade girl) was so embarrassed and
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Page 104 and 105: it. I felt a tingling all over my b
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Page 110 and 111: ing. This pattern continued on to j
Page 112 and 113: long as I had started it, I could r
Page 114 and 115: As far back as I can remember my pa
Page 116 and 117: mal sex education from my father du
Page 118 and 119: with their immediate descendants. T
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Page 122 and 123: nificance in the presence of childr
Page 124 and 125: sexuality nor for the quality of se
Page 126 and 127: Literature One indirect method util
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Page 130 and 131: year olds in Elmtown about 15 perce
Page 132 and 133: ing attitudes, conversations, and a
Page 134 and 135: Outcomes of Preadolescent Sexual En
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Page 140 and 141: IV. A FEW WORDS OF MY OWN It is goo
Page 142 and 143: BIBLIOGRAPHY Abelson, H., Cohen, R.
Page 144 and 145: Crist, John R., “High School Dati
Page 146 and 147: Ketcher, Allan, “The Discriminati
Page 148 and 149: Newton, Niles and Michael Newton,
Page 150 and 151: Woody, Jane Divita, “Contemporary
Page 152 and 153: INDEX Ford, Clellan S., 8, 15, 49,
Page 154: INDEX in early childhood with adult
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