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Infant and Child Sexuality: A Sociological Perspective - Ipce

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attempts at fellatio. Other cases involve mutual masturbation <strong>and</strong> anal<br />

sex.<br />

I (approximately nine years old) masturbated with<br />

the neighbor boy. Not performing the act on each<br />

other but being in the same room together. This<br />

went on until one day he told me what a “blow<br />

job” was <strong>and</strong> wanted me to give him one. I made a<br />

feeble attempt at it but I thought it tasted<br />

awful.<br />

At age eight we (two boys) exposed ourselves to<br />

each other <strong>and</strong> took turns putting our noses<br />

between the two portions of each other’s buttocks<br />

close to the rectum. We enjoyed the smell<br />

experience <strong>and</strong> probably the physical contact. In<br />

another particular episode I inserted my finger<br />

into my friend’s rectum.<br />

When I was ten years old, a number of new houses<br />

were going up where my friend lived, <strong>and</strong> we quite<br />

often played inside them when no one was working.<br />

One day I was directly below my friend, <strong>and</strong><br />

we could see each other through a hole, about<br />

four inches in diameter, in the ceiling. The idea<br />

came to me that he should try <strong>and</strong> stick his penis<br />

through the hole although I believe I used the<br />

word “cock.” He did this without difficulty, <strong>and</strong><br />

I pulled a stepladder over below him. I climbed<br />

the ladder <strong>and</strong> after touching his penis a couple<br />

of times I told him that we should switch. I<br />

remember that he decided to grab my organ <strong>and</strong><br />

pull to which I immediately objected. This<br />

exchanging of position must have been going on<br />

for about five minutes when he urinated on my<br />

h<strong>and</strong>. This is what ended the encounter.<br />

Some homosexual encounters involve limited touching or fondling <strong>and</strong><br />

some are fleeting; some involve group participation.<br />

Another form of physical homosexuality in my<br />

youth came with the desire to touch another<br />

boy’s genital area. We did this in an effort to<br />

hurt each other. In the toilet or outside somewhere,<br />

we would try to hit each other in the<br />

genital area.<br />

When I was about twelve, I had a completely<br />

different experience concerning homosexuality.<br />

About six of the boys got together one night <strong>and</strong><br />

we had a ‘circle jerk.’ A ‘circle jerk’ is when<br />

the boys st<strong>and</strong> around in a circle holding on to<br />

the boy’s penis in back of him.<br />

I (age 12) was invited to an all boy slumber<br />

party at one of my friend’s homes.... I laid<br />

down next to Jim, <strong>and</strong> we talked for a long time<br />

<strong>and</strong> I remember scratching his back <strong>and</strong> then I<br />

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