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omantically decide to unite in a bonded marriage union that is not
necessarily permanent. They get married and live together to learn from and
with each other, to grow in maturity together, to experience life and to enjoy
each other to the fullest. They do this only as long as they are both deeply
happy and satisfied with the relationship. There is no obligation for them to
stay together, and these unions are not necessarily a lifetime commitment.
Couples engaged in a bonded marriage are not allowed to have children. The
raising of children is not the primary goal of these marriages. These
marriages can last anywhere from a few short years to several hundred years
or longer. Birth control is not an issue for us. The birth of a child is
considered a very precious and grand event for the incoming soul, and a child
is conceived by "invitation" only. We have no such thing as an unwanted
pregnancy in our society. A woman in Telos would get pregnant only by
intention, and only after serious and well-planned preparations. Sexual
unions alone do not manifest pregnancy unless the invitation to a specific
soul exists. What you are dealing with in your society with unwanted
pregnancies through sexual union is the result of a distorted genetic
mutation. This too will heal in time when your DNA coding becomes fully
restored by the embracing of unconditional love of self and of all life forms.
In a "bonded" marriage, couples may end their relationship at any time,
without hurt feelings or obligations toward each other, and then start
another one if they wish. This way, no one stays in a relationship for the
wrong reason like you do in your society. Every couple in Telos is very happy
because there is no reason to stay together unless there is a deep love and
satisfaction to be with each other. These marriages are considered part of the
many experiences that life and evolution offer. When a couple feels they have
come to the completion of their time together, they thank each other for the
time they have spent together on the path of life and they move on; always
remaining very good friends. All they need to do is apply to the Lemurian
Council of Telos for dissolution of their marriage, and it is always granted
without any dilemma.
It would be unthinkable for any of us to consider
staying in a relationship unless there is total
harmony, fulfillment and a deep purpose.