''Vladimir Nabokov's Comic Quest for Reality' - Nottingham eTheses

''Vladimir Nabokov's Comic Quest for Reality' - Nottingham eTheses ''Vladimir Nabokov's Comic Quest for Reality' - Nottingham eTheses

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- 150 - rr, y Lcl;. ta inside out and apply voracious lips to her young matrix, her unknown heart... " (161), and, with the old Biblical meaning of "to know" in mind (to which Humbert himself refers mockingly on a different occasion), one might even venture to see his sexual desire as an expression of the wish to know beauty and to capture beauty, that thing of which Albinus feels that it is impossible to capture. Lolita has nothing to do with all this. She is left out. Even though Humbert may turn to Charlotte's old Know-Your-Child Book for Lolita's measurements and consult "a book with the unintentionally biblical title Know Your Own Daughter" (170), he remains blind to the human being beside him. It sometimes dawns on him that I ... simply did not know a thing about my darling's mind, and that quite possibly, ... there , was in her a garden and a twilight, and a palace gate - dim and adorable regions which happened to be lucidly and absolutely forbidden to me... (277). Although they live as closely together as it is possible for two persons, they are distant from each other, isolated, and lonely. Lolita is for Humbert not a child, real, alive, and "rooted in the pres- 9 ent"0, but something fanciful, no more than the vessel of some abstract, metaphysical quality. Hum- bert is for Lolita, who is less metaphy. ýically- minded, "... not even a person at all, but just two eyes and a foot of engorged brawn... " (276). It is a long way from The Eye to Lolita, but by their relation and their suffering Humbert and Lolita prove

- 151 - the truth of the theory developed in that novel. Humbert is all the more guilty as he is perfectly aware of it all. He knows that the words "for ever" do not refer to the real child, that in a few years she will cease being a nymphet, and there is the thought in his mind that around 1950 I would have to get rid somehow of a difficult adolescent whose magic nymphage had evaporated (170), but quite early, during their first trip, he firmly decides "to ignore what I could not help perceiving" and he makes this decision for purely selfish rea- sons: "in order to enjoy my phantasms in peace" (276). Erich Fromm, in The Art of Loving, names respect and knowledge as two of the essential constituents of love. He uses "respect" in the old meaning, sug- gested by its root: "respicere" = "to look (back) at"; "regard"; "to pay attention to"; "to observe carefully"; "to regard as being of a certain kind" 91, and takes it to be the ability to see a person as he really is, to see him as having a unique and quite individual personality. To love a person means to feel as one with that person as he is, not as one would like him to be, or as he ought to be. 92 To obtain real knowledge of a person is possible only if one overcomes all self-interested motives and succeeds in seeing that other person as he sees himself. 93 It is only at the end, and when she is lost to him, that "respect" and "knowledge" enter into Hum- bert's feelings for Lolita. When he sees her before

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150<br />

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rr, y Lcl;. ta inside out and apply voracious lips to her<br />

young matrix, her unknown heart... " (161), and, with<br />

the old Biblical meaning of "to know" in mind (to<br />

which Humbert himself refers mockingly on a different<br />

occasion), one might even venture to see his sexual<br />

desire as an expression of the wish to know beauty<br />

and to capture beauty, that thing of which Albinus<br />

feels that it is impossible to capture.<br />

Lolita has nothing to do with all this. She is<br />

left out. Even though Humbert may turn to Charlotte's<br />

old Know-Your-Child Book <strong>for</strong> Lolita's measurements<br />

and consult "a book with the unintentionally biblical<br />

title Know Your Own Daughter" (170), he remains blind<br />

to the human being beside him. It sometimes dawns<br />

on him that<br />

I<br />

... simply did not know a thing about<br />

my darling's mind, and that quite possibly,<br />

...<br />

there<br />

,<br />

was in her a garden<br />

and a twilight, and a palace gate - dim<br />

and adorable regions which happened to<br />

be lucidly and absolutely <strong>for</strong>bidden to<br />

me... (277).<br />

Although they live as closely together as it is<br />

possible <strong>for</strong> two persons, they are distant from each<br />

other, isolated, and lonely. Lolita is <strong>for</strong> Humbert<br />

not a child, real, alive, and "rooted in the pres-<br />

9<br />

ent"0, but something fanciful, no more than the<br />

vessel of some abstract, metaphysical quality. Hum-<br />

bert is <strong>for</strong> Lolita, who is less metaphy. ýically-<br />

minded, "... not even a person at all, but just two<br />

eyes and a foot of engorged brawn... " (276). It<br />

is a long way from The Eye to Lolita, but by their<br />

relation and their suffering Humbert and Lolita prove

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