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James Steven <strong>Muldrow</strong><br />
May 1, 1958 – January 27, <strong>2013</strong>
James Steven “<strong>Jim</strong>” <strong>Muldrow</strong><br />
MONROE - James Steven "<strong>Jim</strong>" <strong>Muldrow</strong>, affable coordina<strong>to</strong>r<br />
of marketing and communications at <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong> <strong>Community</strong><br />
College, passed away Sunday, January 27, <strong>2013</strong>, after a two-year battle<br />
with intestinal cancer.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> was born in Monroe on May 1, 1958. He attended Wingate<br />
Elementary, East Union Middle School and Forest Hills High School. He<br />
received his Bachelor of Arts in Journalism in 1980 from his beloved<br />
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and was a lifelong fan and advocate of the<br />
university.<br />
Upon graduation, he returned <strong>to</strong> make his home in Monroe and began his journalism<br />
career with The Union News and Home in Marshville. Soon thereafter, he joined The Enquirer-<br />
Journal as a sports writer, later becoming sports edi<strong>to</strong>r and then news edi<strong>to</strong>r.<br />
In 1994, he met the love of his life, Cheryl Simpson, and married her on May 18, 1996.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> treasured his family and friends. He loved the mountains, pho<strong>to</strong>graphy, the UNC Tar Heels<br />
and baseball. He had a goal <strong>to</strong> visit every Major League Baseball stadium in the nation and<br />
dragged Cheryl <strong>to</strong> more than two dozen, including Fenway Park on their honeymoon. <strong>Jim</strong> was a<br />
member of Wingate Baptist Church and served as a deacon and on various committees.<br />
In 2009, he under<strong>to</strong>ok a career change <strong>to</strong> take on a new challenge as coordina<strong>to</strong>r of<br />
marketing and communications for <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong> <strong>Community</strong> College (SPCC).<br />
In addition <strong>to</strong> his wife, <strong>Jim</strong> is survived by his father, William Blake <strong>Muldrow</strong>; two<br />
brothers, Jeff Travis <strong>Muldrow</strong> and Charles Stuart <strong>Muldrow</strong> and his wife, Jody Alexander<br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong>; father- and mother-in-law, Mott and Phyllis Simpson; brothers- and sisters-in-law,<br />
Tim and Dana Simpson, and Paul and Teresa Davis; nephews, Blake <strong>Muldrow</strong> and Camden<br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong>; nieces, Mattie Simpson, Hannah Lindsey, Emma Crumpler, Lily Davis and Heather<br />
Davis; and two aunts, Betty Jo <strong>Muldrow</strong> and Eloise Hudspeth. His mother, Betty Whitaker<br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong>, preceded him in death.<br />
The family received friends at Wingate Baptist Church, where his funeral service was<br />
held the following day. Interment was in Lakeland Memorial Park, Monroe.<br />
The family has requested that memorials be made <strong>to</strong> the SPCC Foundation for the <strong>Jim</strong><br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong> Memorial Scholarship, 680 US Hwy. 74, Polk<strong>to</strong>n, NC 28135, or <strong>to</strong> the UNC School of<br />
Journalism at www.jomc.unc.edu/gift, or <strong>to</strong> Wingate Baptist Church.
Goodbye, <strong>Jim</strong>.<br />
Jan. 28, <strong>2013</strong> @ 05:55 PM<br />
The Enquirer-Journal, Staff Report<br />
MONROE —<br />
Sunday, the men and women<br />
who produce the Enquirer-<br />
Journal lost a family member.<br />
For the Enquirer-Journal staff<br />
and many in the Monroe<br />
community, <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> was<br />
family.<br />
Anyone who worked at the<br />
Enquirer-Journal in the last<br />
25 years knew <strong>Jim</strong>. He<br />
started as a sports reporter in<br />
1980, and moved up <strong>to</strong><br />
sports edi<strong>to</strong>r in 1984. Five<br />
years later, he was promoted<br />
<strong>to</strong> news edi<strong>to</strong>r, a job he kept<br />
until December 2009.<br />
Even well after he left <strong>to</strong> take<br />
a job with <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong><br />
<strong>Community</strong> College, he<br />
s<strong>to</strong>pped by the newspaper<br />
office regularly <strong>to</strong> catch up.<br />
Hang around the newsroom<br />
long enough, and you will<br />
hear many s<strong>to</strong>ries about <strong>Jim</strong><br />
getting a paper out when the<br />
weather, the press, modern<br />
technology and fate itself<br />
conspired against him.<br />
Sunday, <strong>Jim</strong> lost a long fight<br />
with cancer. He was<br />
diagnosed in 2009. After<br />
treatment and surgery, it<br />
went in<strong>to</strong> remission. When it<br />
returned and treatment failed<br />
<strong>to</strong> slow its spread, <strong>Jim</strong> said<br />
his goodbyes.<br />
"I just want all of you <strong>to</strong> know<br />
that I am at peace with this<br />
news and it was not <strong>to</strong>tally<br />
unexpected. I just had a<br />
feeling for some time that this<br />
was the way things were<br />
headed." <strong>Jim</strong> wrote in his last<br />
Caring Bridge journal entry<br />
on Dec. 26. "I have had a<br />
good life. I’ve been able <strong>to</strong> go<br />
places, meet people and do<br />
things that a lot of people<br />
only dream about."<br />
Not long after the news of his<br />
death began circulating<br />
around social media, old<br />
friends and coworkers began<br />
leaving their goodbyes on<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>'s Facebook page.<br />
Luanne Williams: "<strong>Jim</strong> was<br />
my encourager, my men<strong>to</strong>r<br />
and my right arm at The E-J<br />
from 1986 <strong>to</strong> 2003 as I went<br />
from part-time staff writer <strong>to</strong><br />
managing edi<strong>to</strong>r. He was also<br />
a wonderful friend who kept<br />
in <strong>to</strong>uch, remembered<br />
birthdays, commiserated<br />
when times were <strong>to</strong>ugh and<br />
rejoiced when we got it right.<br />
He was the newsroom's AP<br />
Style guru and the most<br />
dependable co-worker ever.<br />
Whether it was climbing on<br />
<strong>to</strong>p of The E-J <strong>to</strong> clean snow<br />
off the satellite dish so we<br />
could get the AP feed or<br />
plowing through reams of<br />
copy <strong>to</strong> put <strong>to</strong>gether the<br />
annual Progress edition, if it<br />
was on <strong>Jim</strong>'s list, it got done<br />
and it got done well. I can't<br />
begin <strong>to</strong> imagine the number<br />
of lives he <strong>to</strong>uched — years<br />
of covering sports, coaching<br />
cub reporters, training other
edi<strong>to</strong>rs and representing the<br />
newspaper at everything from<br />
United Way meetings <strong>to</strong><br />
<strong>Community</strong> Spelling Bees,<br />
not <strong>to</strong> mention his more<br />
recent work at SPCC. Bot<strong>to</strong>m<br />
line, whatever <strong>Jim</strong> did, he<br />
cared enough <strong>to</strong> do it right. I<br />
truly can't imagine Monroe<br />
without him. I look forward <strong>to</strong><br />
seeing many of you this week<br />
as we celebrate <strong>Jim</strong>'s life and<br />
what he meant <strong>to</strong> all of us."<br />
Cayla Lockhart: "I still think of<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> everytime i read my<br />
fortune cookie. Anyone who<br />
has ever eaten Chinese with<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> will understand. Rest<br />
peacefully, <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>."<br />
Randall Hill: "<strong>Jim</strong> was the<br />
Sports Edi<strong>to</strong>r when I was<br />
there in the 1980s. He was<br />
always helpful and pleasant<br />
<strong>to</strong> work with. I was so green<br />
because it was my first job<br />
out of school and he did a lot<br />
<strong>to</strong> help me learn. Years later,<br />
we reconnected via<br />
(Facebook) and he was<br />
always the first <strong>to</strong><br />
acknowledge my work he<br />
viewed over the web. RIP<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>."<br />
Melanie Ballard: "The first<br />
<strong>April</strong> Fool's day I worked at<br />
the E-J, <strong>Jim</strong> handed me one<br />
of those pink "while you were<br />
out" messages with a number<br />
for a Mr. Lyon on it. I went<br />
right <strong>to</strong> my desk and returned<br />
the call. It was the number for<br />
the N.C. Zoo. I am glad <strong>Jim</strong>'s<br />
fight is over but so sorry for<br />
the loss Cheryl and his family<br />
are suffering."<br />
Billy Ball: "I remember that<br />
every time the ridiculously<br />
high stack of papers at my EJ<br />
desk collapsed on<strong>to</strong> the<br />
ground—it was multiple<br />
times, I assure you—<strong>Jim</strong><br />
would dutifully and silently<br />
help me clean them up. I'll<br />
also remember his chair<br />
flying behind him when he<br />
s<strong>to</strong>mped off if his Tar Heels<br />
or Braves were blowing it. He<br />
was a good guy and a lot of<br />
fun <strong>to</strong> work with, I will miss<br />
him."<br />
Wendy Angel: "I'll forever be<br />
grateful for what <strong>Jim</strong> taught<br />
me when I was at the E-J in<br />
what was my first journalism<br />
internship. Always kind, with<br />
a quick quiet wit, and with a<br />
load of patience for such a<br />
newbie like I was. I'll never<br />
forget him."<br />
Eddie Yandle: "After the<br />
Ashcrafts, <strong>Jim</strong> WAS the<br />
Enquirer-Journal as far as I<br />
was concerned. Being 3.3K<br />
miles away, it's going <strong>to</strong> be<br />
hard <strong>to</strong> be physically there,<br />
but Cheryl & colleagues, be<br />
very clear that our hearts &<br />
thoughts are with you."<br />
Matt McKenzie: "The<br />
Enquirer-Journal was my first<br />
job out of college and <strong>Jim</strong><br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong> was my first edi<strong>to</strong>r.<br />
He taught me so much about<br />
journalism and what it means<br />
<strong>to</strong> be a good reporter and<br />
edi<strong>to</strong>r. I'll never forget that<br />
and I cherish all those late<br />
nights in the newsroom.<br />
Godspeed <strong>Jim</strong>, thank you for<br />
everything and my prayers<br />
and thoughts are out <strong>to</strong> your<br />
family and loved ones."<br />
Elisabeth Arriero: "RIP <strong>Jim</strong>.<br />
You were such an influential<br />
part of my early career and -<br />
really - early adulthood.<br />
I remember one time when I<br />
<strong>to</strong>ld you I was changing my<br />
major from journalism <strong>to</strong><br />
political science, you drove<br />
up from Monroe <strong>to</strong> Chapel<br />
Hill <strong>to</strong> give me a <strong>to</strong>ur of the J-<br />
School and tell me why a<br />
journalism degree would<br />
ultimately help me more. Ha.<br />
I changed my major back <strong>to</strong><br />
journalism soon after that.<br />
You were a humble man who<br />
hardly ever made yourself the<br />
center of attention but just<br />
with your thoughtful advice,<br />
kind words and witty humor,<br />
you had a huge impact on so<br />
many lives. I'll miss you<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>my. : ("<br />
Reprinted with permission.
<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> Memorial Scholarship<br />
The Board of Direc<strong>to</strong>rs of the <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong> <strong>Community</strong> College Foundation, Inc., has created<br />
a scholarship <strong>to</strong> honor the memory of the late <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>.<br />
Criteria for the <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> Memorial Scholarship, established in consultation with <strong>Jim</strong>’s wife,<br />
Cheryl Simpson <strong>Muldrow</strong>, stipulate that recipients:<br />
• Must be a resident of Union or Anson counties.<br />
• Preference will be given <strong>to</strong> a student enrolled in the college transfer program or seeking<br />
a degree in nursing or another allied health program.<br />
Donations through mid-March exceed $4,500.<br />
Information about the scholarship may be obtained by contacting Hayne White, Vice President<br />
of Institutional Advancement and the SPCC Foundation.<br />
Scholarship donors through March 12, <strong>2013</strong>, are:<br />
Rita Adams<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Joe Alexander<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Mark Alexander<br />
Carl Bishop<br />
Susan Blumish<br />
Tracie Boone<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Bill Braswell<br />
Charlene Broome<br />
Caroline & Joel Cate<br />
Jody Chartier<br />
Deborah Cox<br />
David Davis<br />
Trinisha Dean<br />
Sandra Deskins<br />
Dan Dombchewsky<br />
Kay Edwards<br />
Renee Faulcon<br />
Barb Fires<strong>to</strong>ne<br />
Susan Flake<br />
Vicki Geddings<br />
Oscar Gonzalez<br />
Cheryl Hicks<br />
Dawn Hildreth<br />
Hill Construction Company<br />
Joe Howard<br />
Marci Jackson<br />
Terry James<br />
Emily Jarrell<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Richard Jones<br />
Mr. and Mrs. John Kapelar<br />
Linda Kappauf<br />
Junu Kim<br />
Hollie Lackey<br />
Dr. Maria Lander<br />
Grant LeFoe<br />
Sharon Little<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Rodney Mathis<br />
Joseph McElrath<br />
Jill Millard<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Morris<br />
Cheryl <strong>Muldrow</strong><br />
William B. <strong>Muldrow</strong><br />
Gina Nordyke<br />
Dr. and Mrs. Lane Ormand<br />
Robin Pittman<br />
Jennifer Ricketts<br />
Miriam Sallee<br />
Dr. and Mrs. Stan Sidor<br />
Eric Skeen<br />
Fredrea Smith<br />
Mr. and Mrs. Fred Sparger<br />
Lori Starnes<br />
Richard Stegall<br />
Cari Thompson<br />
Susie Trexler<br />
Hayne White<br />
Luanne Williams<br />
Denise Wilson<br />
Christy Winfield<br />
Jeff Wood
FANTASY BASEBALL LEAGUE FRIENDS REMEMBER JIM<br />
February 5, <strong>2013</strong><br />
SPCC Foundation for the <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> Scholarship<br />
680 US Hwy. 74<br />
Polk<strong>to</strong>n, NC 28135<br />
Dear Foundation Direc<strong>to</strong>r,<br />
On behalf of about 20 friends and acquaintances of <strong>Jim</strong><br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong>'s from across the United States and Canada, I'm<br />
writing <strong>to</strong> offer condolences over <strong>Jim</strong>'s passing and <strong>to</strong><br />
provide the enclosed group donation of $325 <strong>to</strong> the <strong>South</strong><br />
<strong>Piedmont</strong> <strong>Community</strong> College Foundation for the <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> Scholarship.<br />
I'm writing on behalf of the members of the International Baseball Association, a fantasy baseball league<br />
that <strong>Jim</strong> joined in 1982. As you may know, one of <strong>Jim</strong>'s great passions was baseball. Those of us in the<br />
IBA shared his love for not just the sport and for Major League Baseball, but also for the baseball board<br />
game made by Strat-O-Matic, a game company in New York state. We in the IBA use Strat-O-Matic<br />
baseball <strong>to</strong> simulate our games, using the company's annual set of player cards that reflect the<br />
performance of actual big-league players from the most-recent season.<br />
As a longtime IBA manager, <strong>Jim</strong> was our standard-bearer for integrity – a trait that's critical for our<br />
league, since our managers are scattered across North America and each manager plays his home games<br />
based on instructions received from the visiting team's manager. Ask anyone in the IBA what they recall<br />
about <strong>Jim</strong>, and without a doubt they'll mention his enthusiasm for the sport – and, more importantly, his<br />
sportsmanship and cordial nature. One manager recalled a s<strong>to</strong>ry from several years ago about having <strong>to</strong><br />
replay some playoff games between his team and <strong>Jim</strong>'s club because of a mistake. This manager felt bad<br />
about the error, since it essentially gave him an advantage over <strong>Jim</strong>'s team. But <strong>Jim</strong> assured him that this<br />
wasn't a problem and <strong>to</strong> simply redo the games and enjoy his playoff experience.<br />
A good number of us, including myself, had the pleasure of meeting <strong>Jim</strong> in person at occasional summer<br />
gatherings at big-league stadiums. Since joining the IBA in 1997, I've been <strong>to</strong> games with <strong>Jim</strong> at Miller<br />
Park in Milwaukee, Fenway Park in Bos<strong>to</strong>n and Wrigley Field in Chicago. He also <strong>to</strong>ok the time <strong>to</strong> drive <strong>to</strong><br />
the Atlanta area and play Strat-O-Matic baseball games face-<strong>to</strong>-face with several leaguemates there.<br />
These experiences allowed us <strong>to</strong> appreciate <strong>Jim</strong> as a genuine individual with a great sense of humor and<br />
a warm, inviting spirit.<br />
On behalf of <strong>Jim</strong>'s IBA leaguemates, I ask you <strong>to</strong> please know that this letter is written with sorrow over<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>'s passing. We offer our sympathies and prayers over the passing of a friend who was a man of<br />
character and integrity, and we will miss <strong>Jim</strong>. However, we in the IBA are honored <strong>to</strong> provide this<br />
donation as a tribute <strong>to</strong> the kind of man <strong>Jim</strong> was. It is our hope that this donation will support a young<br />
person who's working hard <strong>to</strong> make life better for those around him or her – just as <strong>Jim</strong> did.<br />
Very truly yours,<br />
Junu Kim<br />
Remembering <strong>Jim</strong>
<strong>Jim</strong> with the late Bill Friday, president emeritus of the University of North Carolina, at an awards<br />
banquet hosted by the N.C. Press Association.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> shares a playful<br />
fist-bump with a statue<br />
of Payne Stewart,<br />
winner of the 1999 U.S.<br />
Open, at Pinehurst<br />
Resort.
COLLEGE COLLEAGUES REMEMBER JIM<br />
“HAVE YOU EVER MET someone who was so<br />
good at his job that it looked like he was doing Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
nothing? Our friend <strong>Jim</strong> was one of those people. He<br />
was so knowledgeable and had so much fun doing his<br />
job that gathering information <strong>to</strong> write those incredible s<strong>to</strong>ries about SPCC seemed as effortless<br />
as breathing.<br />
“I would watch as he would circulate the room during an event s<strong>to</strong>pping <strong>to</strong> casually chat for a<br />
couple of minutes, then s<strong>to</strong>p and quietly jot down a few notes on his pad before he would move<br />
on <strong>to</strong> someone else. Later he would magically transform each of those short conversations with<br />
friends in<strong>to</strong> a very deep article about a person at this college. The center of every s<strong>to</strong>ry <strong>Jim</strong><br />
wrote was a person, be that a student, staff, faculty member, or a person from the community<br />
who supported SPCC. His focus on individuals in both his personal and professional life was<br />
one of his most endearing qualities, one that shone through in every article and in every<br />
interaction with us.<br />
“As many of you knew, <strong>Jim</strong> was also a baseball fan who is most likely now completing his<br />
journey <strong>to</strong> visit every major league park in the nation. I remember on one occasion when <strong>Jim</strong> and<br />
I had a discussion about great baseball teams and plays <strong>to</strong> contrast them <strong>to</strong> the Chicago Cubs and<br />
had a couple of laughs about how the Cubs were able <strong>to</strong> break the hearts of three generations of<br />
fans. I remember him shaking his head and laughing when I would mention the Cubs, but he<br />
never said anything against them, because that was not his nature.<br />
“<strong>Jim</strong> was everyone’s friend, who found a way <strong>to</strong> support them and help them bring out the best<br />
in each other. He was a true southern gentleman who lived life and treated others with kindness,<br />
consideration, and dignity. “<br />
Dr. Stan Sidor<br />
President<br />
<br />
“IN ADDITION TO BEING one of the nicest persons I ever knew, <strong>Jim</strong> was also one of the<br />
bravest as he persevered and approached life, including his work, like he didn't want <strong>to</strong> miss a<br />
single moment or forego a single accomplishment. Watching him and Cheryl was like watching<br />
Love S<strong>to</strong>ry all over again, they each cared so much for the other and lived their life <strong>to</strong>gether <strong>to</strong><br />
the fullest. We lost him far <strong>to</strong>o soon."<br />
Charlene Broome<br />
Retired Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Grants and <strong>Community</strong> Relations<br />
<br />
“JIM SHOULD GET the Iron the Shirt Award this month. He was a great guy and you could<br />
tell that he loved his job and the college.”<br />
Joseph Howard<br />
Instruc<strong>to</strong>r, Carpentry
“JIM WAS A NEWS reporter through and through,<br />
so it was truly fitting for him <strong>to</strong> be honored by his Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
former co-workers at The Enquirer-Journal. I know<br />
that all of us who had the pleasure of working with <strong>Jim</strong> will miss him greatly. My prayers go out<br />
<strong>to</strong> Cheryl and his family.”<br />
Linda Kappauf<br />
Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Human Resources Development<br />
<br />
“MY FONDEST MEMORIES of <strong>Jim</strong> are how he always had a smile on his face and would<br />
always let me proof any picture he <strong>to</strong>ok of me before publishing. I always loved <strong>to</strong> kid him about<br />
when he was going <strong>to</strong> get me a billboard, he would just smile and say "I would have already<br />
given you one, if it was up <strong>to</strong> me." He wrote the faculty of year article about me last year and<br />
cracked himself up about calling me Susan Lucci. I <strong>to</strong>ld him he could say anything he wanted <strong>to</strong>,<br />
just as long as it was a good s<strong>to</strong>ry and made both of us look good. He had such a magic way with<br />
words. I had several family members that read that article and said they laughed and cried while<br />
reading it. He was an awesome person that I miss already!”<br />
Lori H. Starnes<br />
Program Direc<strong>to</strong>r, Medical Assisting/Medical Labora<strong>to</strong>ry Assistant<br />
<br />
“I REMEMBER JIM had the unfortunate job of trying <strong>to</strong> make me look presentable for my<br />
‘new employee’ pho<strong>to</strong>, when I was still trying <strong>to</strong> figure out how <strong>to</strong> survive in the Carolina<br />
summer swelter. We laughed as I struggled <strong>to</strong> make my hair not a disaster, and I realized then<br />
that I would have a good friend in <strong>Jim</strong>. We stayed in regular <strong>to</strong>uch at work, and we would<br />
discuss the best places <strong>to</strong> view fall foliage, and also our thoughts on cancer treatments and how<br />
<strong>to</strong> stay healthy while on chemotherapy. I miss him, and his absence is felt in a profound way on<br />
our campus. I just count myself lucky enough <strong>to</strong> have known him, because I will remember him<br />
for even longer.”<br />
Sherri A. Breitigan<br />
English Faculty<br />
<br />
“ONE DAY JIM came by my office <strong>to</strong> discuss a press release and I had Disney Pandora Radio<br />
playing in my office, as always. As the next song came on, <strong>Jim</strong> perked up and said ‘Hey, is that<br />
Jungle Book?’ We dived in<strong>to</strong> conversation about our love for The Jungle Book and all things<br />
Disney. It was a great moment in my friendship with <strong>Jim</strong> because he had this childlike<br />
excitement about Disney that I had never known about him before. Anyone who loves and<br />
appreciates all things Disney as much as I do will always be a good friend of mine and I will<br />
forever cherish this special moment with <strong>Jim</strong>.”<br />
Cari Thompson<br />
Campus Events Coordina<strong>to</strong>r
“ONE DAY WHILE TALKING with <strong>Jim</strong> he<br />
mentioned that he had gone out for lunch at a local Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
restaurant and while there, someone asked him if he<br />
was Tim McGraw, the country music star. After hearing this s<strong>to</strong>ry, any time that I saw <strong>Jim</strong> I<br />
called him Tim. He really did look like Tim. <strong>Jim</strong> always smiled. It got <strong>to</strong> the point that I probably<br />
never called him <strong>Jim</strong>. Every time that I hear a Tim McGraw song, I always think about <strong>Jim</strong> and<br />
the s<strong>to</strong>ry that he shared with me. It always makes me smile. <strong>Jim</strong> was a pleasure <strong>to</strong> work with at<br />
SPCC.”<br />
Dawn Hildreth<br />
Assistant <strong>to</strong> the Senior Vice President of Finance and Administrative Services<br />
<br />
“THERE ARE SO MANY things that I love about working for <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong> <strong>Community</strong><br />
College and one of them is the friendships I have made along the way. Getting <strong>to</strong> know <strong>Jim</strong><br />
<strong>Muldrow</strong> was great. He was so kind and had a way of letting you know that you were<br />
appreciated. <strong>Jim</strong>’s enthusiasm for pho<strong>to</strong>graphy was what brought us <strong>to</strong>gether. For several years,<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> and I worked <strong>to</strong>gether on the FBLA Conference that was hosted at SPCC. We were asked <strong>to</strong><br />
pho<strong>to</strong>graph the event and then prepare a video <strong>to</strong> be viewed as the students had lunch. <strong>Jim</strong> and I<br />
worked very well <strong>to</strong>gether and shared a love for taking candid pho<strong>to</strong>s. Once the pho<strong>to</strong>s were<br />
done, we had one hour <strong>to</strong> produce the video and have it available. This was a major task but we<br />
worked hard and overcame many obstacles <strong>to</strong> make the presentation a success. Teamwork was<br />
what <strong>Jim</strong> was all about. He loved the pressure of meeting that deadline and as we waited for that<br />
moment when it went live, we always joked about all the things that could go wrong. Each time<br />
we shared, we learned a little more about how <strong>to</strong> improve on a ‘clock-driven’ process and we<br />
were always so proud of the final outcome. This was such a special time for me and I have<br />
shared these s<strong>to</strong>ries with my classes. We all have special gifts but <strong>Jim</strong> seemed <strong>to</strong> have an<br />
abundance of talent, happiness, and a special love for helping others. He made a difference in my<br />
life and I will never forget him.”<br />
Cheryl Hicks<br />
Instruc<strong>to</strong>r, Advertising and Graphic Design<br />
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“I WILL NEVER FORGET <strong>Jim</strong>! One day he went <strong>to</strong> lunch and brought me back a fish plate<br />
from Captain D's. He <strong>to</strong>ld me not <strong>to</strong> worry about paying him back, he just felt led <strong>to</strong> buy me<br />
lunch. I never heard <strong>Jim</strong> complain about anything dealing with his sickness. He always came out<br />
<strong>to</strong> speak <strong>to</strong> me and ask me how I was doing and how the job was going. He would ask about my<br />
aunt (who died of cancer in December) and how she was doing. I <strong>to</strong>ld him that she passed away<br />
and he <strong>to</strong>ld me that he was sorry! I remember him telling me he would either win his battle here<br />
on earth or he would win it in heaven. He won his battle, and his memories will last a lifetime.”<br />
Debra Burr<br />
Receptionist, L.L. Polk Campus
“I FIRST MET JIM when he <strong>to</strong>ok my picture for the<br />
direc<strong>to</strong>ry after I was hired full time in March 2012. Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
He put me at ease; he was patient and kind as he<br />
asked me about my life <strong>to</strong> introduce me <strong>to</strong> all via The Insider. He listened <strong>to</strong> me and then let me<br />
choose the picture from his camera for the direc<strong>to</strong>ry. He just genuinely cared about how I felt. I<br />
saw this again when he <strong>to</strong>ok my picture for the last Insider. I answered a question correctly and<br />
won an apron and a gift card! <strong>Jim</strong> came by my office <strong>to</strong> take my picture and made sure the shot<br />
was a good one. We both smiled a lot that morning! I was very happy. I believe he was <strong>to</strong>o. I<br />
will miss his quiet smile.”<br />
Robin Gibson<br />
Instruc<strong>to</strong>r, Nursing Assistant<br />
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“I HAVE SO MANY precious memories of <strong>Jim</strong>. I remember many days I would be working<br />
away at my desk, would look up and <strong>Jim</strong> would be standing in the hall, camera in hand, snapping<br />
away, and grinning like he was up <strong>to</strong> something. Another amusing incident was when I put the<br />
UNC-Charlotte mascot on his office door. Everyone knew that <strong>Jim</strong> was a proud graduate of<br />
UNC – Chapel Hill, but I could have been listening <strong>to</strong> that little devil on my shoulder and put the<br />
Duke Blue Devils mascot up instead. He knew immediately I was the guilty party and headed<br />
straight <strong>to</strong> my office, hands on his hips, and said, ‘Did you do this?’ I tried <strong>to</strong> deny it but he<br />
knew it was me.<br />
“<strong>Jim</strong> and I talked a lot after his cancer diagnosis. My maternal grandmother had suffered a<br />
similar illness as <strong>Jim</strong> and had a colos<strong>to</strong>my as a result of many surgeries. Topics of discussion<br />
will not be discussed here, but we did have many light-hearted discussions about it. And how<br />
could I forget his ‘man-purse’ that he carried during chemo weeks. He carried it with dignity<br />
and would laugh and say he did not understand women wanting <strong>to</strong> carry purses all the time. He<br />
found them <strong>to</strong> be a nuisance.<br />
“I learned a lot from <strong>Jim</strong>: How <strong>to</strong> be strong in times of crisis, how <strong>to</strong> face uncertainty with<br />
dignity and grace, how <strong>to</strong> be strong when you want <strong>to</strong> be weak, how <strong>to</strong> face each day with a<br />
smile, and, most of all, how blessed I am <strong>to</strong> have had <strong>Jim</strong> as a friend and colleague. We are all<br />
richer because of his friendship”<br />
Joy Pope<br />
Admissions and Testing Specialist<br />
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“JIM WAS A VERY KIND, selfless person. Less than two weeks before his passing, we were<br />
leaving work at the same time. I was about 20 feet behind him in the cafeteria. Just before<br />
reaching the door, he noticed me and, with some difficulty, held the door for me <strong>to</strong> go first. <strong>Jim</strong>'s<br />
body was getting weak, but his values remained strong!”<br />
Nancy Price<br />
Administrative Assistant <strong>to</strong> the Dean of Applied Science and Technology
“ONE OF THE BEST pho<strong>to</strong>graphers I have ever<br />
known was <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>. As our ‘pho<strong>to</strong> person’ for Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
college events, <strong>Jim</strong> was exceptional at providing us<br />
with many great pictures. In fact, he was a pro at the<br />
‘hip shot.’ This pho<strong>to</strong> style <strong>to</strong>ok place whenever a college event included food. <strong>Jim</strong> would<br />
casually stand <strong>to</strong> one side of the room with his camera hanging off the shoulder. Just as I was<br />
ready <strong>to</strong> take a bite of food, mouth wide open, a flash of light then a clicking sound came from<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>'s direction. When I looked around <strong>to</strong> see who just snapped a picture, <strong>Jim</strong> was softly laughing<br />
<strong>to</strong> himself at the pho<strong>to</strong> of me chowing down. And of course, every picture taken from the hip<br />
shot angle always turned out perfectly (perfectly funny).”<br />
Ginger McLain<br />
Resource Development Technician<br />
<br />
“UPON JIM’S HIRING, I was <strong>to</strong>ld that I was really going <strong>to</strong> like him. When I<br />
asked why, I was <strong>to</strong>ld that 1) <strong>Jim</strong> is a really nice guy, and 2) <strong>Jim</strong> is a huge UNC fan. Shortly<br />
after <strong>Jim</strong> began his work with us, I found both these statements <strong>to</strong> be true.<br />
“Above all else, <strong>Jim</strong> was a really nice guy. I never heard him say anything bad about<br />
anyone, and he had a wonderful demeanor, always seeming <strong>to</strong> stay calm even in the midst of<br />
workplace crises. Also, <strong>Jim</strong> was always mindful of a female’s concern about using the most<br />
flattering pho<strong>to</strong>graph.<br />
“And yes, <strong>Jim</strong> and I shared many conversations about the Heels. For many years <strong>Jim</strong> had<br />
purchased season ticket packages <strong>to</strong> UNC home basketball games. A couple of years ago he<br />
invited me <strong>to</strong> join the group and share in the ticket package. Being a huge Tar Heel fan myself, I<br />
eagerly accepted.<br />
“Just last weekend I was in the Smith Center for a game, and even though the Heels were<br />
vic<strong>to</strong>rious, this time it was bittersweet as <strong>Jim</strong> and Cheryl were supposed <strong>to</strong> be sitting there with<br />
us. I like <strong>to</strong> think that he was with us in spirit, however, joining us in our ‘Go Heels’ chants!”<br />
Hayne White<br />
Vice President of Institutional Advancement and the SPCC Foundation<br />
<br />
“JIM'S PASSION FOR pho<strong>to</strong>graphy was evident not only in his professional career, but in his<br />
personal life as well. One conversation he and I shared focused on hiking and places he liked <strong>to</strong><br />
hike. I remember the name of one particular place that he spent a lot of free time visiting. It was<br />
called Caleb's Knob in TN. At some point soon after our conversation, he brought pho<strong>to</strong>s that he<br />
had taken along a hike <strong>to</strong> share that were just beautiful from a trail path. <strong>Jim</strong> was able <strong>to</strong> capture<br />
scenic views that allowed you <strong>to</strong> feel like you were on the hike as well. <strong>Jim</strong> commented that it<br />
was ‘like being in heaven.’ Rest in peace, <strong>Jim</strong>.”<br />
Gina Rhodes<br />
Development Officer
Truest Blue<br />
It’s always been blue…<br />
Carolina skies and jerseys, denim, fraternal blue of police brotherhood<br />
If I could make it all blue, well just maybe I would<br />
My friend, you stayed close and true<br />
In the short time I had the honor <strong>to</strong> know you<br />
Such an unassuming soul, so easy <strong>to</strong> hear and talk <strong>to</strong><br />
You reached out, shared, availed yourself <strong>to</strong> my fear<br />
Despite knowing your call home was coming near<br />
Wish we had more time, and I am sure for many that’s true<br />
Perhaps in time eternal, I can once again look upon you<br />
And thank you for being the truest kind of blue<br />
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Eric Skeen, Counselor<br />
“JIM WAS A VERY GROUNDED PERSON -- no<br />
frills. Instead, he displayed integrity, loyalty and good Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
humor. I enjoyed seeing his wildlife pictures and<br />
hearing about his day hikes with Cheryl. I'll keep in mind his tip for visiting the NC Zoo: Go on<br />
the days immediately following when Daylight Savings Time reverts in the fall. The animals are<br />
accus<strong>to</strong>med <strong>to</strong> eating at 4 p.m., when the zoo closes. However, around 3 p.m. (per the clock)<br />
their s<strong>to</strong>machs lead them <strong>to</strong> the fences and feeding areas. You'll have an hour of great<br />
pho<strong>to</strong>graphy opportunities!”<br />
Caroline Cate<br />
Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Grants and <strong>Community</strong> Relations<br />
“JIM REALLY ENJOYED the journalism part of his job, like going on location and<br />
interviewing people for articles that were published in Career Focus and the Insider. I think his<br />
likable personality helped him get good s<strong>to</strong>ries and led <strong>to</strong> many friendships over the years.”<br />
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Sonya Blanchard<br />
Webmaster<br />
“CATHY HORNE AND I won the Iron the Shirt award <strong>to</strong>gether. We both hate getting pictures<br />
taken. <strong>Jim</strong> somehow talked us in<strong>to</strong> standing outside <strong>to</strong>gether with the irons and getting it done<br />
for The Insider. He made it funny and enjoyable. It's a small thing, but it mattered. He was easy<br />
<strong>to</strong> talk <strong>to</strong> and treated everyone equally. You could tell the love he had for his job by the work<br />
that he did.”<br />
Susan Blumish<br />
Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Distance Learning
<strong>Jim</strong> looks out of character without his trademark smile, but in this picture, he’s actually “in<br />
character” for a play at Wingate Baptist Church.<br />
This is the smiling <strong>Jim</strong> we’ll all<br />
remember.
“JIM WAS A FRIEND <strong>to</strong> everyone he met. He was<br />
always willing <strong>to</strong> help you in any way that he could.<br />
He put up a courageous fight <strong>to</strong> the end and will be<br />
truly missed.”<br />
Carol Courtney<br />
Program Direc<strong>to</strong>r, Surgical Technology<br />
Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
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“I SPENT VERY LITTLE TIME with <strong>Jim</strong> during my time at SPCC. From my perspective, he<br />
was a dedicated employee who demonstrated a respectful, friendly attitude <strong>to</strong>ward others and<br />
always seemed <strong>to</strong> have a smile on his face. One plus: he never complained about TaskStream! I<br />
worked with him a couple of times <strong>to</strong> tweak his department's outcomes and <strong>to</strong> show him how <strong>to</strong><br />
use TaskStream for documenting outcomes assessment. He was very easy <strong>to</strong> work with and<br />
never reflected any frustration as we worked through it.<br />
“I never heard any criticism or negative words spoken about <strong>Jim</strong> from others, which I think is<br />
very telling. I thought he did a lovely job with The Insider and always enjoyed reading it.<br />
“I remember when <strong>Jim</strong> asked me in the late Fall semester 2011 if I would be interested in<br />
teaching anything for Free College Day. At first I <strong>to</strong>ld him I would consider it. But as the<br />
deadline for submission of the SACS Compliance Certification kept creeping closer and closer<br />
(March 2012), I realized I would not live through the Spring semester if I added leading a<br />
workshop <strong>to</strong> finishing the SACS report on time. So I knew I had <strong>to</strong> let him know I would be<br />
unable <strong>to</strong> comply with his request. I was so nervous about telling him that and felt very reluctant<br />
<strong>to</strong> do so. But I finally approached him and had the discussion. I didn't know him well and I<br />
wasn't sure how he would take it. He was incredibly kind and understanding. He didn't try <strong>to</strong><br />
make me feel guilty in any way. That meant so much <strong>to</strong> me as I felt a great deal of pressure and<br />
stress during that time.<br />
“I was just getting <strong>to</strong> know <strong>Jim</strong> a little bit as a member of the Institutional Advancement<br />
Division. It is heartbreaking that I was unable <strong>to</strong> get <strong>to</strong> know him better. However, I think<br />
anyone, including me, who interacted with him was better off for it. From what I experienced, he<br />
was a kind and gentle soul.”<br />
Jill Millard<br />
Assistant Vice President, Planning and Institutional Effectiveness<br />
<br />
“THINKING BACK OVER my few years here with SPCC, I've worked with <strong>Jim</strong> in the<br />
following way: One of my fondest memories of <strong>Jim</strong> as a new employee was having a love for<br />
trivia. I submitted my answer <strong>to</strong> the Brain Teaser question in the February 2011 edition of The<br />
Insider. Lo and behold I actually answered ‘How can you add eight 8's <strong>to</strong> get the number 1,000<br />
correctly?’ and won my very own SPCC apron. <strong>Jim</strong> was really accommodating in working<br />
around my schedule <strong>to</strong> get my pho<strong>to</strong> taken. His kind spirit and gentle heart will be truly missed!<br />
Trinisha Dean<br />
Smart Start Program Direc<strong>to</strong>r
“I REMEMBER MEETING <strong>Jim</strong>my <strong>Muldrow</strong><br />
when I was an 8 th grader at East Union Middle Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
School in Marshville. It was the first year students of<br />
Marshville Elementary, Wingate Elementary, and<br />
Union Elementary schools combined with East Union School students. I guess I was known as<br />
that guy who could draw from Marshville and soon knew <strong>Jim</strong>my as that guy from Wingate who<br />
could write and could tell you everything about baseball. We went on <strong>to</strong> Forest Hills High<br />
School and in the coming years graduated, and went about our lives.<br />
“Later I would see the name “<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>” as the sports writer in The Enquirer-Journal<br />
newspaper and knew he was happily doing a combination of what he loved. It was a real pleasure<br />
<strong>to</strong> be reunited with my old buddy when he came <strong>to</strong> work at <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong>. We collaborated<br />
regularly on projects, attended seminars, and exchanged our knowledge and ideas in the short<br />
time we spent <strong>to</strong>gether again.<br />
“<strong>Jim</strong> will always have a place in my memories as a true friend I admired for his humble way and<br />
selfless attitude <strong>to</strong>wards everyone. <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>: I had fun and learned a lot about how <strong>to</strong> be a<br />
better person. Thanks!”<br />
David Whitesides<br />
Direc<strong>to</strong>r of Printing Services<br />
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“MY HUSBAND AND I met <strong>Jim</strong> and his wife Cheryl in 2000 when we visited Wingate Baptist<br />
Church for the first time. They reached out <strong>to</strong> us and invited us <strong>to</strong> lunch. It was an instant<br />
friendship. Over the years, we were able <strong>to</strong> spend a lot of time <strong>to</strong>gether, including a trip <strong>to</strong><br />
Atlanta <strong>to</strong> watch the Braves play baseball. Life became busy for us and we eventually found our<br />
home at another church but we always kept in <strong>to</strong>uch. It was usually <strong>Jim</strong> who called or emailed<br />
for a lunch date or dinner. He was always good <strong>to</strong> keep in <strong>to</strong>uch and keep us <strong>to</strong>gether.<br />
“I am thankful for the past year that I have worked at SPCC. I was able <strong>to</strong> spend more time with<br />
my friend. I will miss his visits, emails and lunch dates. <strong>Jim</strong> was so awesome at being a friend<br />
that he made you feel like you were his only one. He was so special <strong>to</strong> so many people. I know<br />
his legacy will live on in all who knew and loved him. I never let a visit or phone call pass<br />
without saying ‘I love you friend’ and for that I am grateful. Please tell someone you care about<br />
that you love them <strong>to</strong>day. Tomorrow may never come.”<br />
Amber McCraw<br />
Medical Sonography Clinical Coordina<strong>to</strong>r
All Smiles: <strong>Jim</strong> with his beloved wife, Cheryl Simpson <strong>Muldrow</strong>
<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>: 2-time colleague, long-time friend<br />
Fred Sparger<br />
It was right around Christmas that our friend<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> learned that he was out of<br />
treatment options for the intestinal cancer<br />
he’d courageously battled for two years. In<br />
his last Caring Bridge journal entry, dated<br />
December 26, he wrote that he was “at<br />
peace with this news and it was not <strong>to</strong>tally<br />
unexpected. I just had a feeling for some<br />
time that this was the way things were<br />
headed.”<br />
What must it be like <strong>to</strong> get that news? Like<br />
the initial cancer diagnosis two years earlier,<br />
it had <strong>to</strong> be devastating for <strong>Jim</strong> and his wife,<br />
Cheryl. But <strong>Jim</strong> being <strong>Jim</strong>, he handled it<br />
with grace and dignity. He handled<br />
everything with grace and dignity.<br />
I last saw <strong>Jim</strong> in mid-December, before that<br />
final diagnosis. He was gaunt from having<br />
lost 40 pounds. His face was a blotchy red,<br />
a reaction <strong>to</strong> medication. He obviously had<br />
no energy. But he was working, had a smile<br />
on his face, and was more interested in how<br />
I was doing than telling me about his health<br />
situation. That was typical <strong>Jim</strong>, typical of<br />
the <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> I knew for more than 30<br />
years.<br />
I first met <strong>Jim</strong> (he was <strong>Jim</strong>my then and, in<br />
truth, forever thereafter I struggled <strong>to</strong> call<br />
him <strong>Jim</strong>) in 1980. He was fresh out of<br />
journalism school at the University of North<br />
Carolina. I hired him as a reporter at The<br />
Union News and Home, a weekly newspaper<br />
in Marshville. He didn’t stay with me long,<br />
leaving after just a few months <strong>to</strong> become a<br />
Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
sports writer at The Enquirer-Journal in<br />
Monroe.<br />
Moving on should have been an easy<br />
decision for <strong>Jim</strong>, but it wasn’t. It was a<br />
more prestigious job. It paid better. It<br />
allowed him <strong>to</strong> deal exclusively with sports,<br />
which is what he wanted <strong>to</strong> do. But <strong>Jim</strong><br />
agonized over the decision. Leaving<br />
conflicted with his sense of loyalty.<br />
That sense of loyalty made him a mainstay<br />
at The Enquirer-Journal for nearly 30 years.<br />
I’m sure his decision <strong>to</strong> leave there in 2009<br />
and join <strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong> as coordina<strong>to</strong>r of<br />
marketing and communications produced<br />
even more agony for him. He was loyal <strong>to</strong> a<br />
fault.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> quickly embraced his new career at<br />
<strong>South</strong> <strong>Piedmont</strong>. He made himself at home<br />
and befriended everyone he met. He never<br />
said it, but I know he thoroughly enjoyed the<br />
more realistic deadlines and the more<br />
predictable working hours. Because of his<br />
strong work ethic, his loyalty, and his sense<br />
of responsibility, he continued <strong>to</strong> work until<br />
his last few days on earth. He never, ever<br />
wanted <strong>to</strong> let anyone down.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> was a remarkable man. He<br />
wasn’t a gregarious back-slapper but<br />
everyone liked him. He had a wonderful<br />
sense of humor, but it was very subtle and<br />
produced more grins than guffaws. He was<br />
an encourager, never a complainer. He was
a Christian, a devoted member of Wingate<br />
Baptist Church, but he didn’t wear his<br />
religion on his sleeve. That was simply the<br />
way he chose <strong>to</strong> live his life.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> was happy as a bachelor but happier<br />
when, at age 38, he married the former<br />
Cheryl Simpson. I guarantee you this: a<br />
bride who will accompany her husband <strong>to</strong> a<br />
major league baseball game on her<br />
honeymoon is a good woman. They went <strong>to</strong><br />
Fenway Park in Bos<strong>to</strong>n. (My wife Kandie<br />
nearly froze in the upper deck in Candlestick<br />
Park in San Francisco on our honeymoon in<br />
1979. I am reminded of that compromise on<br />
her part on a semi-regular basis.)<br />
<strong>Jim</strong>my was a baseball nut. He loved the<br />
game and its many intricacies. He had hoped<br />
<strong>to</strong> visit every Major League Baseball<br />
stadium in the country but wasn’t able <strong>to</strong><br />
accomplish that goal because of his illness.<br />
I do wish he had made it.<br />
Remembering <strong>Jim</strong><br />
<strong>Jim</strong> did achieve his final goal. When he<br />
learned he was out of treatment options, he<br />
wrote that he’d “rather live shorter and<br />
better than longer and miserably.” He died<br />
30 days later, without an extended period of<br />
suffering.<br />
<strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong> was a man of many talents,<br />
the greatest of which, in my opinion, was his<br />
ability <strong>to</strong> listen. Always the newspaperman,<br />
he looked for the feature s<strong>to</strong>ry in every<br />
individual. And there is at least one s<strong>to</strong>ry in<br />
everyone. <strong>Jim</strong> was willing <strong>to</strong> mine for gold<br />
in seemingly barren soil.<br />
There was no pretension in <strong>Jim</strong> <strong>Muldrow</strong>.<br />
He was sincere, he was genuine, and he was<br />
compassionate.<br />
He was, simply put, a good man who made<br />
friends everywhere he went, and they, we,<br />
will all miss him.<br />
Fred Sparger retired from SPCC in 2010 as<br />
vice president of College and <strong>Community</strong><br />
Relations.
30<br />
For decades, journalists have used the number 30 <strong>to</strong> designate “End of S<strong>to</strong>ry.”